Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Sharmi said:   7 years ago
Hi.

In my point of view, love marriage can also need to be achieved with parents support its best thing I see. In love marriage we can understand our partner very well because of no compulsion when the relation can achieve their understanding without any compulsion its a very best relation I think so, that's can be achieved in love marriage. Instead of love marriage, the arranged marriage can be mostly done by their parents wish. There is no acknowledge about each other, So, I think it may lead to many divorces nowadays. The only think I wish to say anywhere "UNDERSTANDING CAN MAKE US EACH OTHER".
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Ajay bhardwaj said:   8 years ago
In my view, arrange marriage is better rather than love marriage because during the love marriage we do share every weak points with our partner, and some person can be miss advantage of our simplicity. Moreover, while in the arrange marriage we don't have complete knowledge about to life partner.
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Prerna said:   8 years ago
According to me, there is no problem in arranged marriages, but if we already love someone then even our parents should understand that and give a chance to that person with whom we want to spend our life.

But people always assume that if we have chosen someone or if we love someone, then that person is not right for us. Why is it so?

Our parents have the right to choose a life partner for us, but don't we have any right on our life? We are the ones who have to spend the whole life with that person, so it's very important that there is love between the two. But the society and family are generally very partial regarding this. If you love your better half after marriage, then it's perfect, but if you love them before marriage. They'll make you feel so guilty about it even when it's nothing wrong in it.

At the end, I would only say that if respecting our parents decision is our duty, then their duty is also to see whether we are happy with their decisions or not.
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Maaz Ahmed said:   8 years ago
In my opinion, love marriage it good chance to let the couple know each other.
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Devendra Singh said:   8 years ago
I'm Devendra Singh.

Firstly, I want to say. Love and arrange marriage both have merit and demerit.

If we talk about arrange marriage.

This is India and in India marriage connects two families.

Mostly, Arrange marriage makes the family happy. But some time Love marriage doesn't make the family happy. In that case, family don't' support us. If our family would not support us. Then we can't go happy. After taking Love marriage we will have to face many difficulties. Then we require the help of our family.

At last, I want to say that I'm against the love marriage.

Because everything that can not make my family. I don't want to do so.

Now it depends on you that you want to make your family happy or unhappy.
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Akazhsha said:   8 years ago
In my point of view, it is not our own authority to choose such decision. It's quite better to love our parents who were able to choose more than a better partner for our life.
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Sajuraj said:   8 years ago
Hi Dears,

In my opinion, about this topic is, I am supporting an arranged marriage. Obviously, we have a right to do love marriage. That is not really a matter. But the thing we should give more priority to our "parents "Because when the time of our birth, The two people long dream came true. That is our Father and Mother. On that occasion, they thought like the whole world is in their hand. From there itself, they would give more care. In every second they would think about you. If you got any small injury, it will break their heart. Like that they will help us to grow up. After when we stand our own leg, we can take the decision to do love marriage. Is that too good? I don't think so. We should give more priority to our parents' opinion. They can find a better life partner for us.
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Khushboo said:   8 years ago
Good afternoon friends.

According to my point of view both are good but I supporting to arrange marriage. Because in arrange marriage parents chek the family background and proper knowledge about other side people. So in case after marriage, any type of problem occurred then parents support you. Problem like. In love marriage, After marriage in girls case if her husband takes drinks or any other type of addiction and her husband harm on girls then that time girls will have support to her parents and family members.
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Sweety said:   8 years ago
According to my point of view, both marriages are good but love marriage is best because in love marriage we know all things about each other examples -likes, dislikes etc.

In love marriage, both are living happily with each other without any problems and there is no any problem happen for women related to her job because her life partner knows very well about her career, her choice etc so according to me love marriage is best.
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Rajneeshmishra said:   8 years ago
Hi everyone.

My name is Rajneesh Mishra.

According to my point of views, both have merits and demerits. In love marriage both partner understand their feeling like and dislike it is plus point of love marriage but afterwards their relationship bounding is not same as before. Mostly divorce case happen in love marriage so at your own place both are right. In case of arrange marriage both partner does not understand each other. So it takes time for Harmony and he cannot show your feeling and both are feeling as shy. So some disadvantage in love marriage. So every type of marriage does not perfect we should have love emotions and respect.
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