Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

According to me, there is no problem in arranged marriages, but if we already love someone then even our parents should understand that and give a chance to that person with whom we want to spend our life.

But people always assume that if we have chosen someone or if we love someone, then that person is not right for us. Why is it so?

Our parents have the right to choose a life partner for us, but don't we have any right on our life? We are the ones who have to spend the whole life with that person, so it's very important that there is love between the two. But the society and family are generally very partial regarding this. If you love your better half after marriage, then it's perfect, but if you love them before marriage. They'll make you feel so guilty about it even when it's nothing wrong in it.

At the end, I would only say that if respecting our parents decision is our duty, then their duty is also to see whether we are happy with their decisions or not.

In my opinion, love marriage it good chance to let the couple know each other.

I'm Devendra Singh.

Firstly, I want to say. Love and arrange marriage both have merit and demerit.

If we talk about arrange marriage.

This is India and in India marriage connects two families.

Mostly, Arrange marriage makes the family happy. But some time Love marriage doesn't make the family happy. In that case, family don't' support us. If our family would not support us. Then we can't go happy. After taking Love marriage we will have to face many difficulties. Then we require the help of our family.

At last, I want to say that I'm against the love marriage.

Because everything that can not make my family. I don't want to do so.

Now it depends on you that you want to make your family happy or unhappy.

In my point of view, it is not our own authority to choose such decision. It's quite better to love our parents who were able to choose more than a better partner for our life.

Hi Dears,

In my opinion, about this topic is, I am supporting an arranged marriage. Obviously, we have a right to do love marriage. That is not really a matter. But the thing we should give more priority to our "parents "Because when the time of our birth, The two people long dream came true. That is our Father and Mother. On that occasion, they thought like the whole world is in their hand. From there itself, they would give more care. In every second they would think about you. If you got any small injury, it will break their heart. Like that they will help us to grow up. After when we stand our own leg, we can take the decision to do love marriage. Is that too good? I don't think so. We should give more priority to our parents' opinion. They can find a better life partner for us.

Good afternoon friends.

According to my point of view both are good but I supporting to arrange marriage. Because in arrange marriage parents chek the family background and proper knowledge about other side people. So in case after marriage, any type of problem occurred then parents support you. Problem like. In love marriage, After marriage in girls case if her husband takes drinks or any other type of addiction and her husband harm on girls then that time girls will have support to her parents and family members.

According to my point of view, both marriages are good but love marriage is best because in love marriage we know all things about each other examples -likes, dislikes etc.

In love marriage, both are living happily with each other without any problems and there is no any problem happen for women related to her job because her life partner knows very well about her career, her choice etc so according to me love marriage is best.

Hi everyone.

My name is Rajneesh Mishra.

According to my point of views, both have merits and demerits. In love marriage both partner understand their feeling like and dislike it is plus point of love marriage but afterwards their relationship bounding is not same as before. Mostly divorce case happen in love marriage so at your own place both are right. In case of arrange marriage both partner does not understand each other. So it takes time for Harmony and he cannot show your feeling and both are feeling as shy. So some disadvantage in love marriage. So every type of marriage does not perfect we should have love emotions and respect.

Both arranged and love marriages have there pros and cons but it totally depends upon the husband and wife s mutual understanding.

In a couple there must be three things that are;
1. Love
2. Belief
3. Respect.

These 3 thing s are very important without these things no marriage will survive.

So no matter it is love marriage or arranges marriage both are good if the couple has love respect and beliefs on each other.

According to my opinion, both marriages have merits and demerits we can not say that love marriage doesn't fail and arrange marriage doesn't have a happy life we need to love and care for a happy marriage life whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage. I saw many peoples who had a love marriage and they are not happy. In love marriage, we know each other before marriage and in arrange marriage we are going to know each other after marriage that's the only difference between both marriages. Both marriages should have understanding and love and also we must have patience because every marriage has ups and downs. Both marriages is a new and happy part of our life so we should live not to spoil it.