Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

Most of youth treat physical attraction as LOVE. For relationship of 2-year people are ready to leave their parents with whom they stayed for 25 years.

When you date someone you will always show your positive side to another person (boy/girl) to impress them. You will always hide your negative side. When someone knows about negative side, they will break with you. People call it heartbreak or break marriage. That's the main reason of failure of LOVE marriage because expectation is very high.

People says that In LOVE marriage person is very compatible. Are you joking? To find the compatible person you need to date at least 50-100 persons. Hit rate is 5-10% in first attempt.

Have anyone has ever seen in LOVE marriage that girl is not attractive or good looking. 95% of LOVE marriages are based on look of girl.

I am not favoring ARRANGE marriage also.

SO instead of going for arrange or LOVE marriage. Find the person who respects others, kind hearted, honest. If you find such person you will fall in love with him/her again and again.

Young youth is blindly supporting LOVE marriages. Because you know each other from 2 years because you were dating from 2 years. So you are 100% compatible with each other. This is bullshit.

When you date someone 90% people will hide their negative side. When other person knows about this it will result in breakup of divorce. No one is 100% perfect. If you need most comestible person than you need to date at least 40-50 girls/boys. First time hit rate is very low.

Instead of this nonsense find someone who respects others, kind hearted. If you cannot find yourself, give your parents chance to find the right person for you. Do not simply defame ARRANGE marriages.

Still, ARRANGE marriage are much better than LOVE marriages.

I think love marriage is best. As in arrange marriage that boy or girl appears to be best but after marriage, they leave or girls can be harrassed and all. In love marriage there is love and both are ready to do anything for each other. And parents will also accept as their happiness lies in the happiness of their child.

In my point of view, both marriages are successful. But arrange marriage is more successful than love marriage. Because in love marriage young girls and boys say that we know each other completely and they get married. But I think they know each other only towards positively their negative activities are hidden. And also in love marriage less family support. So love marriage Is not maintain relationship with all the members of families for a long time. But in arrange marriage right understanding between bride and bridegroom's family. Relationship maintained for long time and marriage couple trust and respect each other too much. In India divorce rate is very low as compared to advanced countries. Because in our country gives more priority of arrange marriage. According to divorce rate of most of the countries divorce rate of love marriage is too much more than arrange marriage. So according to me arrange marriage is much better than love marriage and safe.

Just attraction and infactuation doesn't mean love. A person can spend money of their father's on his lover. Unless he earns and do hard work. He/she won't understand its importance. According to me arrange marriage. Where people would have been settled and known the responsibility of everything.

I also support and favor of love marriage. Because in love marriage both of them know each other and likes and dislike. But we need parents acceptance in love marriage.

In my point of view in both arrange and love marriage need of love, understanding, carring, respectiveness are very necessary. Without these things, both are impossible to leave together.

In my view, arrange marriage is good because it relate our culture. So that's good for us.

In my point of view, arrange marriage is best to love marriage, because each love is not successful and he/she family members is not understand of boy and girl and arrange marriage is successful for history but love marriage is not happy to family members so I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Thanks to all.

I think arranged marriages are better than the love marriages because in the mostly love marriages a young boy and a young girl who loves each other them they do not learn the family background of their partner in this way mostly crimes and devote was done on the love marriage. That's why I think arranged marriages are mostly best.