Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

It's not about LOVE marriage or Arrange marriage. Failure happens in both cases. Out of my 4 cousins, 2 had arranged marriage and they are very happy. One cousin had LOVE marriage (after relation of 3 years) and they are planning for divorce, after 2 years of marriage, 4th cousin is happy in their LOVE marriage.

Life before marriage is totally different, When you date someone you will always try to impress each other with your positive things and you try to hide your negative side. This happens in both cases LOVE and ARRANGED marriage.

Remember below things for successful marriage.

Honesty, respect and commitment, person space.

In my point of view, love marriages are better than arranged marriages because in love marriages there is no chance of egos. So the total life is beautiful.

For me - love marriage is better than arranged one, but a love marriage with a long-running affair, and not an affair of just a week and then marriage - no! That's not love. Love happens when you know you can even 'die' for this person, and when your relationship reaches to that intensity and passion, only then you should get married, and for me, I can't 'die' for a stranger in an arranged marriage!

I think love marriage is not the success for life. More than 2 years relationship. Husband and wife are more misunderstandings. Then go to the court take for the divorce.

I think love marriage more than success for life. Husband and wife don't misunderstanding. Also understand the life. After marriage be happy life. They will be enjoy the life.

I think that the love marriage is more successful than arrange marriage because in the love marriage we known the person before marriage and their mutual understanding is more as compare to the arranged married people.

In love marriage, both of them known about their past and they can trust each other more confidently than in arranged married.

In my opinion, Everyone should have right to choose their own life partner with whom they can share their every sorrow and happiness.

It doesn't matter they do love marriage or arrange marriage.

Love marriage and arrange marriage both are right if partners have understanding, respect and love for each other.

Hi, everyone.

In my opinion, love marriage is better than a arrange marriage. Because in a love marriage already we have an idea about that person like his or her likes, dislikes. And from a long time, we have been cooperating with each other and that will remain for forwarding life also. So it's not about love also about mutual understanding in between two beautiful persons who will become a life partner. Life is not for a short span. Marriage is a vehicle and the wife and spouse are two wheels of that. So if there will no cooperation with each other that vehicle will face accident. So for such vehicle, it's important to know each other and love each other externally.

I agree that arranged marriage is better than romantic one because the arranged married couple can take good care of each other even though they never met before. And they can still respect and trust each other.

In my opinion, love marriage is best, however, we need to understand, As we live in India we have lots of restriction on girls and it's not possible for everyone to find his or her love so this statement does not not indicate that arranged marriages are completely useless.