Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages


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Abhishek Pandey said: (Oct 20, 2017)  
Hello everyone.

Everyone shared there opinion. And everyone is right in their own perception. But we cannot say that which type of marriage is good or bad. See both of them has its own pros and cons.

So in my opinion, both love and arranged marriage is good. But the only thing required is LOVE no matter whether it is love marriage or arranged marriage.

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Usama Mengal said: (Oct 19, 2017)  
According to my opinion, Arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because our parent's happiness is our happiness.

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Girish said: (Oct 19, 2017)  
I think love marriage with permission of both families is wise decision. Because you require a stable family to survive life. Of course, you two are a major chunk of it but in case you are a revolt then you need to care much more for each other to make it work. If this doesn't happen you question urself why do I do this?

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Shubham said: (Oct 18, 2017)  
Hey friends, I just think that love marriage is the best option in this generation because in this generation everyone has his/her bf/gf. And if there is an arrange marriage the love affairs can be shown after marriage. And in other hand love marriage both know everything about each other. I am in the favour of love marriage. Thanks.

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Ramisetty Bharathi said: (Oct 16, 2017)  
In my point of way, arrange marriage is best, because nowadays we are seeing so many love failure problems so the way of understanding is doesn't possible to each other. So arrange marriage is best.

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Shivam Shakya said: (Oct 14, 2017)  
Hai guys. I think arrange marriage is good because many parents are not accepting the love marriage because there is no future of love marriage.

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Tahsin said: (Oct 11, 2017)  
Hi Friends, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because the love marriage at least people known of each other.

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Rai said: (Oct 10, 2017)  
I think love marriages is good. Because before marriage they spent time with each other and they understand each other. Then they take the decision to marriage.

And if you want to spend your whole life with everyone firstly you have to understand Him/her.

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Savej Saifi said: (Oct 5, 2017)  
According to me, both marriages are good but a person should manage with his partner. If a person do the love marriage then he follows the procedure of arrange marriage, means first love with your partner and spends the time at least one year. If the partner is suitable for you then convince your parent and do the love marriage.

Thanks.

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Sachin Sainthiya said: (Oct 5, 2017)  
Hello, friends According to me, love marriage is the best.

Many people in our society believe in love marriage. Because this type of marriage is based on understanding between the two parts. And settlement in their family they also love in happiness and peace. Because the had chosen each other from the beginning.

Happiness is also very important benefit of love marriage. As everyone in the family will feel with comfort the couple can enjoy their life. They will b content about themselves they will not make the usually quarrel which we see in most of the families.

Finally, I think that the love marraige is better than arrange marraige. Because it has many benefits, Such as the understanding between the two couple and the happiness and peace in the family, and I want to send a message to all the youth to be careful in their love. And their emotions specially in marriage.

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Manu said: (Oct 4, 2017)  
According to me, love marriage is the best one but before loving to choose the best person who can understand you respect you admire you support you and moreover shows love towards you and respect to your family members then love marriages wins otherwise better go for arranged only.

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Umakant Chouhan said: (Sep 30, 2017)  
Yeah, according to me, love marriage is best because they know everything each other before marriage also respects each other families. I m promise to my partner. We are conducting love marriage.

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Ajay Kr said: (Sep 27, 2017)  
Hi, guys.

I think both marriages are Rights on their places.

There is an only different of thinking.

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Vijaykumar S said: (Sep 27, 2017)  
According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage why because love marriage is an easy way to understand the two hearts and it is I mean love means an agreement between two hearts. In love marriage, they can easily understand each other and respect each other and it is also one of the ways of creating or bonding the two families but arrange marriage is also good but in arrange marriage couples can't understand each other immediately it will take more to just adjustment between each other. IN arrange marriage they know each other after marriage but in love marriage, both are very close and they are knowing about each other perfectly by their love feelings.

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Aditya Sharma said: (Sep 26, 2017)  
Hello, friends.

I am Aditya Sharma, as both marriages are good whether arrange or love, marriage is a word after seeing this we have a smile on our face. According to me love marriage is very nice if partners having good understanding, they know each other qualities, positive, negative all things in this marriage they will not take that much time to understand each other they will enjoy their rest life they full fill their dreams which they have seen before marriage together and they respect their families each other if they love each their family will also cooperate with each other. In arrange marriage there will be hesitation there will be Question mark what is the nature of my partner there are lots of things to do rather than this. Best marriage first you love then say to your parents and then make it like arrange marriage there will be fun. Thanks.

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Sagar Goswami said: (Sep 26, 2017)  
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known person is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. They could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.

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Ms Rakshit said: (Sep 24, 2017)  
According to me, marriage is not only a bonding of two people but also it is a bonding of two families. Marriage is more about knowing each other, respect each other. If you want to make a successful marriage life you should have enough understanding power and adjusting capability. In love marriage, you have the opportunity to know each other's family members, their cultures etc. So that, you can adjust easily. But in an arranged marriage, these things are not possible. Moreover, some arranged marriage demands dowry which is a social curse. But every arranged marriage is not bad and vice versa. If two persons have enough love, respect, adjusting ability then it will become successful.

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Ankit Kumar Yadav said: (Sep 23, 2017)  
Hi matey.

According to me, love marriage is better because love marriage finished dowry system in rural areas many people penurious and he can't capable give the dowry.

Thank you.

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Akshay said: (Sep 22, 2017)  
Hello, everyone, this is Akshay, talking about love marriage and arrange marriage is an endless topic. Every single person has his/her own view, and they are even correct because you don't know what they have faced or what they are currently facing in their life. I have read almost all the comments mentioned here and everyone has shared their own thoughts of what they think about this topic.

At Love Marriages are the most beautiful thing that happens on this earth only before coming into reality, every partner is understanding and they want their home to be always happy but please look after how you both can make out when any of you are emotional, financially or physically hampered this is the time when the real love is shown. Before marriage, one should know each other in every single way so that they can lead a happy life whether it be love marriage or arrange marriage. I would say marriage is about love and togetherness whether it be Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage. Before getting married spend plenty of time with your partner even though it is love marriage or arrange marriage thing of all the possibilities, pros and cons and then take the decision together of getting married.

I wish all the marriages remain successful whether it is Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage just take some time understand each other.

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Preethi Baskaran said: (Sep 21, 2017)  
Hai, I'm Preethi Baskaran from India.

Love marriage or arranged marriage depends on one's mindset. I am not against of love marriage or arranged marriage. In my point of view, many people decide their life based on the parent's decision. That's not fair for everyone. Everyone has inner feeling about their future. Decide your life by your own (boy or girl). If you love someone who never leaves you at any situation, live for him/her. Convenience your decision with your parents. Make that happen. If you prefer for the arranged marriage, talk with him/her about your past life. Mutually understand with each other. If he/she suits your life, then go for it.

Thanks.

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Akash said: (Sep 20, 2017)  
Hi, friends. This is Akash. In my point of view, love marriage is better when compared with the arranged marriages because arranged marriages are just like buying a product in Amazon or Flipkart as we are searching for the person with whom we want to share our future. Is it so pity that we have to leave our 3/4th of life with the person whom we choose just like a product in any app. But in case of love marriages, they will have a mutual understanding between each other and they are matured enough to take decisions rather than loving blindly. They have guts to satisfy their parents then only they have to step forward to love with others.

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Dharmendra Kumar said: (Sep 20, 2017)  
I think arrange marriage is better. Because many parents are not accepting the arrange marriage. Because there is no future of love marriage. So The decision taken in a hurry is always wrong. I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

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Nibedita Satapathy said: (Sep 18, 2017)  
I think arrange marriage is better than love.

Because parents never choose a rough candidate for their child. In arrange marriage all the family members are happy and the couple gets the blessings.

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Sachin Sharma said: (Sep 11, 2017)  
I think, arranged love marriage would be best. Isn't it? If one's parents choose a partner for their son/daughter and allow them to understand each other in some time then both boy and girl will be happy after marriage.

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Keshav said: (Sep 9, 2017)  
I think arrange marriage is better, because at the time when there is not a good relation between girl and boy after marriage the whole family of the both sides stand with you in arrange marriage but in love marriage, you are alone because you fight with them for your love one.

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Kuldeep Gupta said: (Sep 9, 2017)  
Actually, both the things are nearly same if we think a little bit more.

In both the cases very first time we meet a girl or boy who is a strange person for us.

In arrange marriage the reference for that strange person is our parents where as In Love marriage the reference may be our friend or we directly get familiar with that person come across the behavior and starts liking each other.

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Abhishek said: (Sep 6, 2017)  
I am in support of love marriage. We are mature enough to take the decision what is good for us. We are to live with that person, not our family so this decision should be taken by us. Love marriage is decreasing the customs in India previously there was a lot of customs in India like child marriage, dowry.

In love marriage, you love the person by their heart not by face but in arrange marriage they judge you by your physical appearance.

Most of the people have the wrong assumption about love marriage that it will get boring after marriage and then in this way so many misunderstanding will take place. It's wrong if you have a better understanding that it won't Be happen in marriage.

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Shiwani said: (Sep 3, 2017)  
I am in support of love marriage. We are mature enough to take the decision what is good for us. We are to live with that person not our family so this decision should be taken by us. Love marriage is decreasing the customs in India previosly there was lot of customs in India like child marriage, dowry.

In love marriage you love the person by their heart not by face but in arrange marriage they jaudge you by your physical appearance.

Most of the people have wrong assumption about love marriage that it will get bored after marriage and then in this way so many misunderstanding will take place. It's wrong if you have better understanding that it won't Be happen in marriage.

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Sarah said: (Sep 2, 2017)  
If you have found someone to love and is loved in return, of course then it will be a love marriage.

Not everyone is so lucky, then you have to go for arranged marriage.

Just don't betray your love to have an arranged marriage because of dated ideas that arranged marriage is better than love marriage or parental pressure.

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Sanjay said: (Sep 1, 2017)  
Arrange marriage is the best because of bride and groom unknown and he doesn't know about each other and arrange marriage contract a two person and my partner choose by our Parents and elder so Arrange marriage is the best from love marriage.

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Sanjay said: (Sep 1, 2017)  
Arrange marriage is the best because of bride and groom unknown and he doesn't know about each other and arrange marriage contract a two person and my partner choose by our Parents and elder so Arrange marriage is the best from love marriage.

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Saurabh Kumar said: (Aug 31, 2017)  
A very important and an ongoing social factor going on in our country. By the way, I am not against arrange or love marriages as this is our right to choose our future. Everyone saying that if we are going with b love marriages this hurts our parents the most but I want to ask you guys are you going to live with him/her or your parents. It's you right so, of course, it's your right to choose your partner as this is not for your time being this relationship is going to be for life and you have to be satisfied with it so guys go on whether arrange or Love marriage be sensible and be confident in urself on what you choose. And give your 100% in that relationship. And most importantly be happy. Keep away all your ego. Be patient towards your partner and the most important thing is to adjust. As you're going to be together for every good and bad happens in your life. Live your best as we get a life.

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Vivek said: (Aug 29, 2017)  
In love marriage, both know each other perfectly before marriage and In arrange marriage both don't know each other perfectly before marriage but after marriage, both have to spend time to know each other.

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Achyut said: (Aug 29, 2017)  
Hi I am Achyut,

After love marriage creating a big problem in our family, then people are said this is love married problem. And after arrange marriage creating a big problem in our family, then people are said that they do not match their minds and thoughts, couples are not known each other, but not a blame arrange marriage.

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Honey said: (Aug 28, 2017)  
In my point of, both marriages depend in own self.

In love marraige, they connect with each other in all ways already.

In arrange marraige, they will connect with each other in ways they excited to know about many things to partner.

For me both marriages are good.

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Sujeet Vishwakarma said: (Aug 26, 2017)  
Hello, guys,

I am Sujeet.

From my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage because in arrange marriage we don't know each other. Which is so exciting. And it gives a chance to know that person how is that?And after that before getting marriage both are very excited and nervous but that thing converts into love. But in love marriage, nothing to know anything. And after some times they become bored because they already know well their lack ness and quality.

Further love marriage becomes bored.

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Amarjeet Kushwaha said: (Aug 23, 2017)  
Arrange marriage is the best because of bride and groom unknown and he doesn't know about each other and arrange marriage contract a two person and my partner choose by our Parents and elder so Arrange marriage is the best from love marriage.

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Manish said: (Aug 22, 2017)  
Hi friends, in my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage because I respect and family support and the boy and girl stay in seven rounds in Arrange Marriage, so the bond is very unbreakable.

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Chandrushinijg said: (Aug 22, 2017)  
Arrange marriage should be the second preference if you can't get a single partner then it leaves this option otherwise.

Love marriage is best for a new society and better life.

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Priya said: (Aug 21, 2017)  
Hey, My opinion is love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because we spend more time with each other. And we understand each other thing. Mentality, Easy to deal with both families. They all depend on understanding.

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Jithin R said: (Aug 21, 2017)  
I think the topic itself is not that worthy. It's their own choice whether to follow love marriage or arranged marriage.

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Shirin Jahan said: (Aug 19, 2017)  
In opinion,

Love marriage and arrange marriage both depend on mutual understanding.

But if I get love marriage I know the partner very much because of we spend too much time together, and easy to know his/her mentality & how can he/she understand, which topic conversation which time is suitable for the starting day of marriage.

But know in this day also love marriage is little wrong in our society.

And arrange marriage is not a bed of roses, we are always listening to this line in our society arrange marriage is most successful than love marriage. But this is not too much true, In Arrange marriage is very difficult to understand a new partner in our life, and manage all that things according to him or his families.

But if both married couples are mutual understanding both marriages are successful in our life.

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Sandhya said: (Aug 18, 2017)  
In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage, because in love marriage, both partners are understand each other very well.

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Chhaya Gupta said: (Aug 18, 2017)  
According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love a couple can know to each other very much they can spend a lot of time with each other n they can understand each other and they can trust to each and they can decide what they have to do in their life n how they want to spend their life.

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Sanju said: (Aug 17, 2017)  
How they married is not a matter. The way they run thier life and mutual understanding between them makes life beautiful.

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San said: (Aug 16, 2017)  
I would prefer love marriage over arranged marriage. Its becasue in love marriages both the partners have known each other for years. And only after spending a lot of time with each other, they start getting comfortable with each other. Once they get comfortable with each other thay start to trust each other. For a marriage to be succesfull both the partners should have a good understanding of each other and should trust each other completely and that can only happen if they spend a lot of time with each other before getting married so that they can decide whether they really want to spend rest of their lives with each other or not. And not only in case of love marriages the partners also get time to know about each others family. Whereas in arranged marriage both the partners hardly get any time to meet and talk to each other. The only people who know each other are the family members of the partners and the partners who are going to spend rest of their life with each other haven't even talked to each other once. Many people may say that college love is infatuation, but not all of them are. And moreover in love marriages both partners try to know each other completely even their deep dark secrets whereas in arranged marriage one may not know how good or bad is the person whom he or she is getting married to, there are high chances of getting decieved by the partner's family members in order to hide something that may cause trouble ahead in their married life. In the end I would just like to say that love marriages have more advantages as compared to arranged marriage. So marry the person whom you love.

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Priyanka Gupta said: (Aug 10, 2017)  
According to my point of view, both love marriage and arranged marriage have good and bad aspect.

For a marriage to be successful, the main thing that is necessary are mutual understanding, love, affection, cooperation and trust. This is possible only when both partners understand each other in every way. This can be possible both in love as well as arranged marriage but it mainly depends on partners that how much they cooperate with each other. The thing is in love marriage, couples know each other well and build a good relationship and they go for marriage but in the case of arranged marriage, it takes time for couples.

In love marriage, partners can be sure that they can lead their life fruitfully or not but that's a question mark in case of arranged marriage.

We can't say that doing arranged marriage may create a happy family as our parents decide because we can see a number of family issues and dowry issues due to which both male and female both are being a victim and create a bad memory for several years. The Demand of dowry in arranged marriage is just like a curse to girls family. And for sure. Due to all these issues, neither couples nor family may create a good example of successful arrange marriage.

Love marriage is better than arranged one because the partners have a good understanding about themselves. They can do every work in a co-operative way. There's no issue of dowry at all and female and male both are never dominated, there's respect for each other. If couples respect themselves, then for sure they will respect each others family, culture and tradition. And if family love their child, they will respect their child choice and would be happy with their decision. Yes, but one thing should be kept in mind that if any couple go for marriage with their lover, parents decision should be given main priority because they sacrifice a lot for us throughout their life.

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Nandhu said: (Aug 8, 2017)  
My point of view, love/arrange marriage is that I support both are correct. Because even in the arrange marriage love plays the vital role. Love during school are college divert concentration from studies and at that stage, we are not mature enough to decide good are bad. It's all just affection or infatuation which we consider it as a love.

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Lokdeep Singh Patel said: (Aug 6, 2017)  
In my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because many times they are immature about their married life & other things. But I don't neglect love because love is everywhere but understanding is better than love.

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Pooja said: (Aug 4, 2017)  
According to my point of view, Both types of marriages are right on their places because, basically marriage is the collaboration, union between two respective families which are combined by two people, the agreement between two families causes the new relationship between two people.

Basically arranged marriage is the tradition in our country. Where two unknown people are spending their lives together with the agreement of their respective families, tradition, nature. They spend their lives to gather. But at some point, if husband and wife's thoughts not matched then it will become the big issues between their families and it may affect on family, their tradition also and causes the end of the relationship.

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Noman Khan said: (Jul 31, 2017)  
Hello everyone,

In my point of view, there is no one who can say that the love marriage is better then arrange marriage or arrange marriage is better then love marriage. Because the success of married life is totally based on understanding if husband and wife understands each other very well then their married life will become heaven for them and similarly if they don't understand each other then their married life will surely become hell for both of them.

So if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should go for love marriage. And if you are failed to find then you should go for arrange marriage and let the god decide, may be god find someone very special for you.

But there is one another point that I want to focus here is that there are still some narrow minded people who consider love marriage a taboo.

They have to change their thinking because if you force someone to get married with whom they don't want to get married then it will destroy their life because how can they live their whole life with whom they don't love. That also happens in arrange marriage where parents force their children to marry without respecting their choice.

That's the area where are society needs to improve. Because now we are living in modern era where everyone has right to take decision of his/her life.

And at the end, I would like to say that it's the matter of love and love can be happen before marriage and also it can be happen after the marriage.

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Jagmohan Yadav said: (Jul 30, 2017)  
According to me, arrange marriage better than love marriage because our family like arrange marriage but some people like love marriage I want to tell everybody arrange marriage give lot of benefit when I don't have a money I can giving money my father and I can tell my father I have a lot of problem in my life so please help me but love marriage is not good Because lot of problems our family does not agree love marriage so couples decided love marriage they have a lot of problems it's my.

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Anamika said: (Jul 29, 2017)  
Hello Everyone,

I read some comments but still confused.

I like arranged marriage where we get respect family support. In short, socially we feel positive.

But in other sides one of my best friends proposed me n we are having nice chemistry.

Even though I said no to him and now feeling restless. Can't see him with other girl and family expect settled guy.

So need your opinion. Should I go with love marriage with a friend or arrange marriage with a settled unknown guy.

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Adarsh Pandey said: (Jul 28, 2017)  
Love marriage is far better than the arrange marriage because,

Normally, in love marriages, partners have their own mutual understanding and they know each other as well and that is the main point.

Parents can take our decisions but in others cases, because our parents is not going to live our life.

And another point is that parents always say that whatever they did in their life only for their child only for their happiness and if his/her child is happy to marry a girl to whom he knows very well then why not parents are ready to accept it.

This is the main thing I just want to say to you guys.

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Bilawal said: (Jul 28, 2017)  
In my point of view,

Arrange and love marriage both are good in that situation if both boy and girl have understand to each other in better way.

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Ashish said: (Jul 28, 2017)  
Hello, friends.

I'm Ashish.

We are discussing love marriage is better or arrange marriage. But in my opinion, both are good. Both have positive as well negative effects in life. So, according to me arrange marriages are good but which are love marriages also. I mean to say that a person can love other people, but if there is an allowance of there parents then they marry to each other and live life in a better manner with the support of both sides.

Thank you.

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Kamlesh said: (Jul 26, 2017)  
Hello, Friends.

According to my point of view, Arrange Marriage is better than the Love Marriage because in love marriage there is a relation between two persons but in arrange marriage there is a bonding between two families so relation will be more protected and there will be more moral support.

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Aishwarya Sa said: (Jul 26, 2017)  
Hello everyone,

According to me, both love and arrange marriages are good, but it totally depends on individuals and in Indian culture, it totally depends on our parents and family. We always cannot say that arrange marriages are good because we will not be knowing the partner which may sometimes lead to many problems like:.

1) He/She may be forcefully agreed for the marriage.

2) As we will not know their family, there may be a risk of torchure, dowry etc because some marriages are made only by the status of his family.

3) Partner may show only positive side at first so as to impress but one day truth reveals and lead to divorce.

AS a reason love marriage is more successful if he/she respect partner, know him well in terms of good and bad thoughts, should settle first, respect society and discuss with parents about their relationships and finally should be careful whether the partner really cares and loves you or just physical attraction so as to avoid divorce further.

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Kuldeep Gupta said: (Jul 26, 2017)  
Hello Friends,
1-Love marriages are always better than a arranged marriages. In the love marriage, we never think about the cast and status which is good for our society to break the casteism chain and status.

2- In the love marriage we take decision according to our mutual understanding and capabilities and only we are responsible for our future. it encourages us to get our goal.
3- In the same time in arranged marriage, we totally depend on our family for maximum decisions.
4- In arranged marriages dowry system involved mostly.There is also pressure to show off their status in society, it is also a part of dowry system.

At the end conclusion is;
If we are not capable of taking any decision for our life itself, then After arranged marriage how you will take decisions for your future?

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Vanaja said: (Jul 24, 2017)  
According to my point of view, both are good. But mostly arranged marriage is best why because parents are known which person is suitable for us. And more over good understanding also is there.

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Vishakha said: (Jul 24, 2017)  
Both are good in their perspective, but for comparison love marriage is cool. One should rise in love not fall and the couple should build their career first then everyone will agree.

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Manishanker said: (Jul 23, 2017)  
Hello friends I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because if we do love marriage they know each other well and what they like what they don't like understanding was good and they share their thinkings what comes to mind when that love started coming to arrange marriage it is good I'm not saying bad in arrange they want some time understand each other.

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Swamy Reddy said: (Jul 23, 2017)  
Love marriage is very good. Because they can adjust among themselves and solve a problem among themselves very easily.

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Mohd Ahmad Khan said: (Jul 21, 2017)  
In my opinion, I think arranged marriage is good with a comparison to love marriage because I read and saw many cases like as Julius Caesar, Laila Majnu, Orlando Oliver His life became useless in love affair his in those person love is not a success. Then how I can say love marriage is good and also it not relate my Indian culture so I think arranged marriage is good.

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Vasam Ias said: (Jul 20, 2017)  
Hai frnds,

I support arranged marriages, because its time taking to each to know about each other, during that they try to impress, love, and respect. They don't fully the character of each, little bit hesitated to oppose. That too they are bonded devotionally. But in the case of love marriages, they knew each, they already loved and enjoyed the life. Chance neglect them because they knew about their partner.

Finally, I conclude that what ever it may be the marriage if you give respect to them and treat, change them as made for each other it holds the relation strong.

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Vasam Ias said: (Jul 19, 2017)  
According to me, I support arranged marriages, why because its time taking to know each other. Being unknown to each other they try to express their love and respect. But in the case, of love megs, it won't be like that. The arguments or anything is more tragedic b/w known while compared with unknown. Arrange marriages can group two families into one. But how ever whether arranged marriages or love marriages are made in heaven. But if you made our partner made for each other and first have to b better half no matter what ever the marriages.

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Sheyan Swaraj said: (Jul 19, 2017)  
Hi, Friends.

As I think Love Marriage is more successful than Arrange Marriage because in love marriage there is only devotion.

And reliance between the couples. In it, they choose their life partner, it means.

That they can relinquish their life for their partner and completely confess the responsibilities of their partner. It makes them firm for handling the marriage & assist them in leading a peaceful life. They do really love each other. So they can face the difficulties together easily and exist their life happily. In this way, we can say that love marriage is perfect in this modern era.

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Manohar said: (Jul 19, 2017)  
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known people is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. Some of my friends are saying that arranged marriage has more success rate. But according to governments survey most of the women harassment cases, dowry cases, violation cases registered in arrange marriages. But in love marriage either we have a happy life or we will get divorced. We will not get as many complaints we got in arranges marriage. Also want to say that whey could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.

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Munna Kumar said: (Jul 19, 2017)  
Hello friends,

I think love marriage and arrange marriage both are good but it depends on partners understanding. We do have to spend the whole life with our partner so we should take the right decision. That's why I will prefer both.

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Rajeev Kumar said: (Jul 18, 2017)  
Hi, myself Rajeev Kumar.

I think love marriage is better for our life because the two couples understand to each other before marriage.

They will be loyal each other. In love marriage, both of them know about their past and they can trust each other. But our parents always think our good future. But we should chouse our best life partner for our future.

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Asif said: (Jul 18, 2017)  
As per my opinion, love marriage is not good because in love marriage I didn't see even a single lady who is not beautiful, I mean many boys just wanted to utilise girls for their comfort and then throw out them.

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Utkarsh Pathak said: (Jul 17, 2017)  
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known people is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. They could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.

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Veer said: (Jul 17, 2017)  
I like love marriages. I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because understanding is two known person is more powerful than two known people. Parents can never refuse their children's choices.

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Ishan said: (Jul 16, 2017)  
It's all dependent upon the intensity of opposition from your parents. Somewhere parents easily allow love marriage and somewhere very hardly but the culture of each house is different. I am in love relation from twelve years but even today adjusting with my parents is even uncomfortable. Now, it's up to you to struggle in that particular situation or quit the ground but heavy opposition from parents also breaks us because we also want parents happy. But now I will suggest understanding your family if they are easily manageable and modifiable then only go for it.

LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST WHEN I CAME TO KNOW THE SOCIAL STRUCTURE IT WAS TOO LATE, GETTING OUT OF LOVE WAS NOT EASY FOR ME BUT IF YOU CAN PLEASE UNDERSTAND TIMELY.

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Sandeep said: (Jul 15, 2017)  
Some of my friends are saying that arranged marriage has more success rate. But according to governments survey most of the women harassment cases, dowry cases, violation cases registered in arrange marriages. But in love marriage either we have a happy life or we will get divorced. We will not get as many complaints we got in arranges marriage. Also want to say that we can't let our life on future possibilities that after arranging marriage we will get mutual understanding, love, bonding, trust etc, etc. We are the generation who believes in the present. Even, the government gives us the liberty to take our decision by yourself after 18 and makes you independent so why don't our parents let us take our decisions by once own.

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Bibin Devasia said: (Jul 9, 2017)  
Love marriage is equally successful if both families like each other and they mutually accept their children's decision There is nothing wrong in love marriage. It's all about the mutal understanding.

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Anurag said: (Jul 7, 2017)  
Hello, Everyone! The Understanding between the partners is the basic and most important element for any kind of marriage to succeed whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage. Obviously, in the case of Love marriages, one gets to experience and develop this attribute much before taking the most important decision of marrying the person and hence I would give slightly more marks to Love marriages.

But then in today's generation, people prefer to have pizza delivered to their home in 30 minutes rather than sweating a bit in cooking food by their own hands. And this lack of patience can be seen in other fields too including relationships. I know cases of separation between both kinds of couples, the ones who did Love marriages and also an equal number of couples who did arrange marriage. And this shows that in the end cooking the dish of relationship to its best flavour completely boils down to the blending of ingredients named as Trust, Patience, Understanding and Forgiveness.

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Rima Karmakar said: (Jul 4, 2017)  
I go for love marriage. But it doesn't mean that I m against arrange marriage. L prefer with this too. Actually, its depends on who you are, how you treat, how's your mentality opposite your love ones. You must be honest, loyal must have faith on your partner. Yes, I believe so that parent is our well-wisher but their point of views is not going right sometimes. So, it's up to our own.

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Veronica said: (Jul 2, 2017)  
I say that marriages are made in heaven only it's a love marriage or arranged if there is love, understanding, faith and bound then it's successful. And the other hand I agree on the viewer point of view. That in love marriage we know each other well and then get into a relationship Understand and then marry, nor to marry a person who is unknown and don't know anything about him or his fly so I feel choosing the person at right time for right choice to grow old with the person in sincere heart will have success.

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Simran said: (Jun 30, 2017)  
Hello, friends.

This is Simran.

I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because understanding is two known person is more powerful than two unknown persons. I mean to say a person can make love marriage in arrange marriage by the allowance of their parents. Parents can never refuse their children's choice.

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Abhishek Jagota said: (Jun 26, 2017)  
Marriage is a sacred ritual in our Indian society its not only about bonding of two people it's about bonding of two families and cultures arranged marriage is the better one because in it the person who will become our life partner is chosen by our parents and our parents are our BEST WELL WISHERS and want to see us happy and if we take the examples of our parents and our relatives most of whom have done arranged marriages are living happily and successfully whereas if we see the current scenario relationship has become a part of style and trend rather than being based on true love which leads to complications pain and distress after the marriage so I think one should go with arranged marriage which is acceptable to all and keeps one's parents happy and content.

On a Humorous note: sometimes due to arranged marriage, we get such a good life partner which one can't ever dream of having a relationship with.

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Shefali Sharma said: (Jun 26, 2017)  
I think it totally depends on the person's choice. Whether he is compatible with his lover or the one his parents chose. It's completely ok if he loves a person. He can ask his parents and if they agree, it's well & good otherwise he will have to start new innings. But in this process, he ought not to blame his parents if something goes wrong.

It's good to know a person already before getting married, but it's also fine when you get to explore after marriage.

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Prateeksha said: (Jun 26, 2017)  
I think whatever the marriage it is whether arranged or love the couples should be the matured ones. They should love each other care 4 each other but at the same time should let their partner have personal space.

If you find a partner who has these qualities just go for them don't think that it should be arranged only because it's you who is going to stay a long life with them. Life is a wonderful gift we get so why to make it sorrow 4 others happiness it's you who is going to stay with them so better you select the person with whom you can stay life long till your death separates.

What I wanted to say is whatever the marriage it be it's you who is gonna make it special or ruin it a life long. It only depends on you cuz you are matured nd well enough to take your decisions on your own.

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Balveer/Kunal said: (Jun 25, 2017)  
In my point of view, arrange marriage is best for maintain relationship both. Many time love marriage become fail because they don't understand both.

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Heera Singh Gusain said: (Jun 24, 2017)  
As per my view, anyone who has true lover is luckiest person in the world. He/she must marry him/her as they can't find better partner than that. So, from this context love marriage is better.

But today's generation's problem is that they they think making relationship is a fashion or style. So they somehow manage to make relationship but it may not be true love it may only be attraction, like friendship on Facebook leads to love without knowing him/her personally. Do you think that may be true love? That love doesn't last longer and gets fade away after sometime.

People who get married on this basis, get to know about their life partner after few years of marriage, and that leads to arguments and even divorce.

Furthermore, in most of cases, love begins with physical attraction and remains upto that, these types of love is also not going to give you anything except pain.

So conclusion is that love marriage is best when you get a perfect life partner otherwise arrange marriage is also good and they have their good points too.

Both marriages have their own advantages and disadvantages, and it should totally depend on a person which type of marriage he wants to do, which makes him happy.

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Buty said: (Jun 24, 2017)  
The love marriage is easy to live the long life because couple already well knows about each other in spite in arrange marriage long time spend to identify one's nature and hobbies, as well as love marriage, begets more satisfaction and feeling of the succeed important part of life.

So love marriage is always reliable and friendship remains till last breath so life and every sphere of life easily steady and success by the couple.

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Sohail Shaikh said: (Jun 22, 2017)  
Hello Everyone,

In My point of view, the person should arrange his marriage and in between, he has to love the person who's is going to marry her so the both understand after marriage to each other so I think first have to arrange the marriage and after do the marriage.

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Shivanshu Dubey said: (Jun 21, 2017)  
Love marriage or arrange marrige is both good with their own perspective. Only need to understand each other, have full trust on your partner which can led your marriage till life. Off course in these days young generation like love marriage so what's big deal if we have achieved our goal in life. I think no parents would check you to do so. As they are happy in our happiness.

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Amit said: (Jun 20, 2017)  
I am in the favour of Arrange Marriages which can be a Love marriage. I mean to say Person can make love marriages to arrange marriage by the allowance of their parents. Nowadays, every parent wants their children goodness and 70% of parents can never refuse their children's choice.

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Namdev said: (Jun 17, 2017)  
Hello everyone.

According to my point of view,

Arrange marriage is best for maintain relation ship both. Arrange marriage are also permit by our parents I think parents plays best role in our life then why we avoid thinking about marriage. If they will agree love marriage then no problem but your parent are ignore for love marriage and you are doing love marriage it's not good for breaking hearts of our parents. Many time love marriage become fail because they don't understand both. I think many when doing love marriage that women don't want and like his mother-in-law and fatherinlaw she want to live in single and different then the start problem breaking heart of parents.

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Neel said: (Jun 12, 2017)  
It's not that good to live with a person you don't know. So if you already have that feeling for someone special that you can commit to live with forever so it's good that I think.

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Mayank Hooda said: (Jun 12, 2017)  
Hello, friends.

I am Mayank and I am in the favour of arrange marriage because in arrange our parents or our elders are with us but in love marriage, we are breaking the heart of our parents and if we are doing something so will be our mistake that's why I am in the favour of the arrange marriage.

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Mayank Hooda said: (Jun 12, 2017)  
Friends, I am in favour of arranged marriage because in arrange marriage, our parents are with us but in love marriage, if we are doing something so doing on our own thinking.

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Rinku Kumar said: (Jun 12, 2017)  
Hi to all, I am Rinku and now I'm going to allocate that which is better in b2n love and arrange marriage.

As per my view, the marriage types are not important but relationship are important to each other. If we ignore parents suggestion about the arrange marriage May be possible that to break relation between them. And if we agree with the parents, and if we love to anyone then there is also break the relation between lovers.

Both are situation are puzzling.

Most of the parents in our country support to arrange marriage because they think it will be better for us.

But most of the new generation support to love marriage because they fell in love. A Lot of lovers could not complete our willing due to custom, parents, job etc. Then they destroy our willing and press the thought of love and our lovely dreams That is they don't want to do it.

Love is not a bad thing and parents think always better for us. Therefore Both have importance for us. Change love marriage into the arrange marriage with satisfaction our parents.

Be happy with your lover and parents.

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Shrikant Vishvakarma said: (Jun 11, 2017)  
Hi friends my name is Shrikant Vishvakarma.

According to my side of view, arrange marriage is most better than love marriage because some people are disappointed with love marriage and arrange marriage arrange marriage is good and related our culture thank you.

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Ishan Jangir said: (Jun 10, 2017)  
In arranged marriage, there is a support of parents. In love marriage, there is no responsibility of parents if any thing happens wrong it will go on a couple. So arrange marriage is best.

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Mayank Saurabh said: (Jun 10, 2017)  
I think it doesn't a matter friends that we go for love or arrange marriage. Most important thing in any relation is love, understanding, cooperation among two as well as family members too. Getting married seems to be a new life as someone is dependent on you now. So go for love or arrange marriage where you find this but make agree your parents.

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Aparna said: (Jun 8, 2017)  
Hello, friends.

Both marriages have pros and cons. Instead of debating which is better. Just find your unconditional love, your soulmate. Understanding love for each other is mandatory here. Once unconditional love has come inside her/him, no other external factors will degrade their bond.

No matter arranged or love marriage, Its just a beautiful thing called LOVE plays a significant role.

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Gaurav Bisht said: (Jun 8, 2017)  
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known person is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. They could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.

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Yaaridhu said: (Jun 4, 2017)  
Totally depends on who you are. While arranged marriages barely end in divorces, many love marriages do. Is that because love marriage is a stupid thing? Of course not. Most people just tend to handle it in a stupid way. If you wanna get married to someone you love, that's a beautiful thing. But when you plan to live the rest of your life with someone you love, you need to know them as more than just a sex partner. You need to learn to trust each other, to fully understand each other, to teach one another to responsibly and maturely handle children, cook, clean, run a household, pay the bills. Love carries away a lot of people from this necessary practicality, and thus problems occur, and they fight, and they break up. Now arranged marriage isn't as preferable, I mean you're getting married to someone you don't even know, but it's a strong commitment to your parents and relatives that you will live with this other person, and thus, breakups almost never happen, because it's the couple's responsibility to stay together. And it's also a great option for people who will probably have a hard time finding a legitimate girlfriend, like the guy writing this. Still, arranged marriages are less guaranteed to bring you happiness. So once again, it depends.

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