Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages


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Priyanka said: (Jun 21, 2018)  
In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we know everything about our partner. Her/his behaviour, character, taste choices everything. But in arrange marriage by arranging one meeting how could they decide that they made for each other. I think that we do arrange a marriage for our parents and society. But in love marriage, we can satisfy ourselves. That's why I support love marriage.

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Taj Randhawa said: (Jun 15, 2018)  
In my opinion, I prefer the arrange marriage then love marriage because this is not the marriage of 2 souls, this is to make a relationship between the 2 families. All we know, that our family choose the best for us. We can also do after the marriage our family gives us so much time to understand the feeling of each other. All we know, love is another name of compromise. To understand the feelings and lead a happily life with your partner and family. Also lead a respectable life.

Thx.

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Rai said: (Jun 15, 2018)  
In my opinion arrange marriage is better than love marriage because before marraige in love no commitments and no more argues both thinking are we are true lovers and we can solve anything in our life problems but after marraige in loved both are initial stage very happy and life goes to heaven but some year passed they have trouble in life snd so much of worries. So arrange marraige is better.

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Tripti said: (Jun 12, 2018)  
In love marriage, you have that assurance before marriage itself that life partner will understand and support one doesn't need to adjust compromise much. Main is one knows the nature but observation regarding choosing the partner should be correct since it's your decision.

In arrange marriage, there is a fear of how will be my partner. One definitely need to take time while choosing your life partners so definitely I will prefer love marriage.

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Ajay Chaudhary said: (Jun 9, 2018)  
In my point of view, arrange marriage is preferred to love marriage in arrange marriage couples are respected by their socity and their family sport them strongly in present time every family gives enough time to their children for understanding to each other before marriage and parents always choose the best for their children and there is no quarrel among the members in arrange marriage and further generation of couples are nicely affected by arranging marriage after all I want to say that according to Indian civilization arrange marriage more acceptable than love marriage and arrange marriage follows a systematic order so arrange marriage preferable to love marriage.

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Sachin Kr Chauhan said: (Jun 7, 2018)  
In my opinion, lover marriage is good for those who understand each other very much and they have decided to live with each other till their last breath because I found some people who are getting married without their parent's consent and. After some year they will divorce to each other so. If you do not understand your partner from stem to stern then you should not have go through lover marriage. So, In my opinion, love marriage or arrange marriage is nothing but it is a combination of two families.

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Rahmath Pasha said: (Jun 6, 2018)  
In my view, both have different criteria.

Love marriage gives satisfaction to both partners but not to his family because they understand feelings and emotions each other before marriage. If conflicts occur in future they angry for sometime after they try to convince each other and finally get connected each other.

Arranged marriage gives satisfaction to entire family but it needs a time for the couple to understand each other. In the arranged marriage, if they don't like each other then they blame to their parents first and they have to make compromise each other otherwise it leads to a divorce way.

In a rare case, lovers break their relationship.

I give four stars to an arranged marriage and five stars to love marriage.

Thanks.

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Pritam G said: (Jun 2, 2018)  
According to me, love Marriage and arrange marriage both are equally depend on the understanding I don't know more about on both matter but recently I saw two couples married with love relationship and I shocked no one understands to each other no any bounding in both couple who always beating and diputing to each other and both have equally ego and no one can hear the word of each other. No family members are involved in the husband wife matter because it was the love Marriage. So we can say that if you want to take support of year family fast of all you have to do the arrange Marriage. It is not only arrange Marriage it is mutual combination of two families.

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Gaurav Thakur said: (Jun 2, 2018)  
According to my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage if our parents are happy with this. But if they do not happy, we can not do so. Because if we want respect from others, we should obey our parents. In arrange marriage we take some time to understand the feelings of each other. Where in love marriage we understand feelings of each other very well. But we can not blamed others if our relationship get broken, and we are disrespected from all people. This is the main reason that arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

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Roshan Pal said: (Jun 1, 2018)  
Hello friends, I am telling about love marriage, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because love marriage in the know of each other and I can tell her about things. You enjoy complete freedom in love marriage. You understand each other hobbies and choice so I would like to love marriage is better to arrange marriage.

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Rachel said: (May 31, 2018)  
Here people are discussing getting respect through arrange marriage, but in my point of view, we should change our mentality. Intercast marriage is fine and loving some other person is fine too. Having sex before marriage is fine. By arrange marriage you only can earn respect for narrow-minded people. Bored minded people will respect you by your behaviour and work. There nothing wrong in love marriage. Noone has to decide rule for other. No book has written such rules. Just live for life by your rules. And if people don't respect the girl you love they should not mean to you anymore.

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Prashant Kumar said: (May 28, 2018)  
In my point of view, arranged marriage is better than love marriage because in an arranged marriage, after marriage couple respect each other and try to know about life partner what is his/her desire. This marriage is also done by the support of parents and family members and blessings also.

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Altaf Ahmed said: (May 28, 2018)  
I think love marriage is better but with the satisfaction of parents because they are our GOD. We can't go against them. If they are accepting your love then should go for love marriage otherwise shouldn't. Parents think always good for you.

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Mudasir said: (May 27, 2018)  
According to my thinking, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in arrange marriage we don't know the couple's biography means what she has been done in her life is she was loving someone or not I think everybody is being or has been passed in this situation and in this way what has been done by her in her relation e, g romance in bad type so friends be cautious about arrange marriage. In love marriage, we know our partner's biography because we know very firstly.

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Mudasir Rasool said: (May 27, 2018)  
According to my thinking; love marriage is very better than arrange marriage because in arrange marriage we don't know the couple' s biography means what she has been done in her life is she loved someone or loving someone nobody in this world who never passes in this situation everybody in his /her life loves someone and this way we can't say what has been done in his or her relation eg romance. So guys are cautious about arrange marriage I think love marriage is very nice because we know our lover's biography what has been done with her.

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Jitendra Kumawat said: (May 23, 2018)  
Hello, friends.

According to my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage both couples know each other very well before marriage.

And in love marriage, the person does not regret his decisions because both couples are decided partner after knowing each other.

But arranged marriage has a different meaning.

In arrange marriage, both couple's parents decide a better match for him.

And both couples didn't know each other.

If their hobbies, Choice and behaviour is not matched then came a difficulty between both families and couples and finally it' lead to divorce.

So according to me, I like love marriage.

Thanks.

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Shubham Raj said: (May 16, 2018)  
My dear friends.

As far as, I know arrange marriage is very best because if you arrange marriage than everyone will give respect in your society and your parents will live with you forever but if you love marriage everyone will abuse you and it may that your parents will not to talk with you. Ok tell me one think friends what is necessary for you respect or love. If you want respect than you should obey your parents and you should arrange marriage.

THANKYOU.

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Ankit Pandey said: (May 11, 2018)  
Hello friends. In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage both the partners know very well and they don't face any problems to adjust them. In love marriage both partner are living well without any problem and parents live well. Incase arrange marriage is good but in arrange marriage both partners don't know each other and face many problems in their life. In arrange marriage parents are accepted this type of marriage and help any condition in life. But love marriage doesn't such as.

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Md. Sahil said: (May 5, 2018)  
Hello, everyone.

Dear friends according to my point of view, both marriages are having their different point of views related to criteria.

In arrange marriages take more time in understanding each other. But in love marriages, the lovely couple understand each other and they know their partner's taste.

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Pari Roy said: (May 3, 2018)  
I prefer love marriage because in love marriage both the partners protect and support each other and understand each others feelings. While in arranged marriage women are always under pressure, she has to be obedient she cannot show her feelings her duty is to make everybody happy, expectations are very high from her.

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G.R.Reddy said: (May 1, 2018)  
Hello everyone.

According to my point of view, both are good because no one person having same selection or taste, they prefer what they want.

But both love and arranged marriages are having problems.

LOVE Marriage:

1. In love marriage both genders are facing the main problem is to convince their parents.

2. Incase both families agree with their love they are very lucky couple.

3. Love marriage makes a strong bond between the couples because of they already know their feelings, behaviour, character everything, so they adjusted in their life.

4. They both families are don't know each other because they also having good effection.

ARRANGED marriages:

1. A strong family support having these marriages.

2. In Arranged marriages mostly both are don't know their behaviour etc. So initially they get shy.

3. In case any Quarles among these people they families is combined and alive the problems.

Finally, both marriages are equal but in love, they mingle small point of time in arranged marriages they take a long time.

Thank you.

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Monalisa Sarangi said: (May 1, 2018)  
I don't have any idea of love marriage because mine is arranged but I can say from my experience that in arrange marriage you didn't get enough time to know each other (my opinion) and after that adjusting yourself with someone whom you don't know properly and his parents is just a very hard task. Well, in this case, you have only one plus point that you could gain the support of your parents. And also it is not necessary that you will develop a love for your partner in arrange marriages (my opinion) I seriously want to know others views as I don't have any ideas on love marriage!

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Mad said: (Apr 20, 2018)  
Hi viewers, right now confusion is based on love or arrange marriage. My thought is that the arrange marriage is the best one because love is just an attraction towards a boy or a girl. But arrange marriage creates a best surroundings around the individual couples.

Love marriage makes us to sacrifices all things including parents also. But in arrange marriage no sacrifices, no violence, only peace full life. In some cases love marriage is also made into arrange marriage because of good families relationship. But 90% of love marriage is failed. So please think of it.

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Himanshu Maurya said: (Apr 18, 2018)  
In my opinion, love marriages are better than arranged marriages because in love marriages, both the partners know each other before the marriage so they understand each other more as compared to arranged marriage couples.

As in love marriages, couples know each other from many times so they don't face trouble for adjusting with their partners as compared to arranged marriage couples.

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Shubham Thakur said: (Apr 16, 2018)  
Hi friends.

According to me, love marriages is better than arranged marriages Because, In love marriages, both of boys and girls understand each other very well. In love marriages, the most important factor is that destroy the dowry system.

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Bergis Tabasum said: (Apr 16, 2018)  
Arranged marriage is better than love marriage because arranged marriage people are Powerful in their bonding and relationship between them and family members are very strong no miss understanding between them.

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Shubham Rangdal said: (Apr 16, 2018)  
Hello everyone.

According to my opinion, love marriage and arrange marriage are right from their own place.

But I am also in a relationship, Soo that I prefer for Love marriage because it connects two peoples Hurtly and they both also feels like that they made for each other. Mutual understanding between this two peoples is better. They can live a happier life because of mutual understanding.

And nowadays, Arrange marriage is a definition of "Compromise between two peoples".

Thank you.

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Suresh said: (Apr 15, 2018)  
According to me, love marriages are better than arranged marriages because in love marriages girl and boy they are able to understand with each other before to the marriage. In arranged marriages, Just by arranging one meeting looking to each other and parents will decides that they are made for each other it is absolute nonsense just because of looks they can't decide that they are made for each other and after marriage if their tastes, preferences, habits are different then its difficult live with each other so it will lead to the divorce.

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Bhuvi said: (Apr 14, 2018)  
According to me, I prefer love marriage because in that, only the two hearts get connected. Marriage is the next step of each and everyone life. In arrange marriage, the couples cannot know each other and they can't understand each other. Only love marriage couples can easily understand their feelings and character.

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Avinash said: (Apr 13, 2018)  
According to my opinion, love marriage & arrange marriage are both rights on their own place because the only difference is that EGO is the main difference in both the relationships and partners behaviour & character depend on the person.

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Parmod said: (Apr 9, 2018)  
I think the love marriage is good because we know each other and there is no dowry system.

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Abel said: (Apr 7, 2018)  
According to me, arranged marriage is overall better than love marriage. Because in arranged marriage people get enough time to express their feeling with a partner. But in love marriage, they really don't understand each other. Most of the love in male and female occurs in their school time or college time. In that time, they have only seen few qualities of the people whom they love.

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Jai said: (Mar 28, 2018)  
In my opinion, arrange marriage is better then love because nowadays if any family choose boy for there girl and girl for there boy they give us time for understand to each other if we satisfied with each thought, like, dislike and any quality what are you want on there partner then they do marriage of couple. Nowadays no any family want their boy or girl live any trouble in future.

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Riskey said: (Mar 22, 2018)  
According to me, arrange marriage is best because it is done by the happiness and blessings of Parents and family members.

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Akshay said: (Mar 18, 2018)  
Hello, everyone, today's topic is arrange marriage VS love marriage. According to me, I think arrange marriage and love marriage right to own places. In those situations there are some kinds of merits or demerits depend upon the personality and character of partner. Ego are present in both cases, couple get divorced.

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Nilesh said: (Mar 15, 2018)  
In my point of views, I believe it doesn't matter what type we have chosen. How we handle this knot (marriage) that's a matter a lot. Whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage Trust, affection, equality and understanding this all things should be there with no ego only can ones marriage life lead a successful way.

For love marriage:

When we have right to leave with our parents simultaneously we have right to find our partner.

We know our partner very well and know each possibility of him or her.

Social Evils like dowry can eradicate with a mutual understanding of couples.

For Arrange marriage:

Parents, the striking feature of arrange marriage is we have supported from parents and family.

Our parents also had gone through with arranging a marriage so they have more experience, haven't they? So we should trust them.

In love marriage, we already know our partner so if in future any quarrel will raise it definitely lead to divorce whereas in arrange marriage partner try to understand and manage the situation calmly while keeping their ego aside because they are totally new they try to make comfort zone and understand each other.

Every side has merits and demerits. It depends on partners that how they tackle situations.

Thnks.

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Farah Liyas said: (Mar 14, 2018)  
In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because nowadays the most of failure by this love marriage. I hope when we take love marriage, most of the conversations there before marriage. It's not too fair and already knew what's like and dislikes and weak points too but if we take arrange marriage fully support of family and try to understand each other and find to know what's like or dislikes of partner and more and more. That time automatically loves will mix and be a great understandable life.

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Anurag Mishra said: (Mar 12, 2018)  
Look, it is very simple to explain which is correct and which is incorrect.

Like many people said that one is good and other is bad.

But people. Don't you think? Arrange marriage is like a GAMBLING?

Leave the things like gifts, dowry, feast and all these. Only think about those two who will have to marry. Because we are human. And emotion and trust are the Main aspects on which relationship build.

As I said arrange marriage is like a GAMBLING. In which people just go to live with those to whom they do not know before. If you get a good girl or a good boy. Then it's your good luck in gambling or otherwise, it's a very bad luck.

And I think. You are taking the decision about your whole life. So how can you play the game of gambling for your whole life?

If you get your bad luck in marriage then in whole life you will feel that you need to adjust.

And I can say adjusting to the situation is okay. BUT. It is not okay with a person with whom you will live your whole life.

That's why. People you just go to live a happy life. Not go for adjustment. And that's why the Supreme Court has also made the law to provide protection to the human. Because it better knows love marriage is fairer than arrange.

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Prasath said: (Mar 12, 2018)  
Hi, friends.


love marriage is better than arrange marriage because the love marriage couples are very known and understanding to each one characteristic so easy to solve any problems at every situation. But the arrange marriage is only satisfied our parents and family, not for yours. I think I don't like unknown person enter in my life.

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Arindam said: (Mar 10, 2018)  
In my opinion, LOVE MARRIAGE is always better than ARRANGE MARRIAGE. Marriage means union of two heart along with union of two families. In love marriage both the boy and girl are known to each other. They understand each other. So they can easily live together. On the other hand in Arrange marriage the boy and the girl are not known to each other before marriage. As a result there is chance of being misunderstanding between them and it is about negligible in love marriage.

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Monjit said: (Mar 9, 2018)  
As per my opinion, its very contradictory to compare between love marriage and arrange marriage, although whatever it may be it should be at a mature level and without any force either in terms of your family as well as from your partner. Respecting both to whom you are going to stay for the rest and to whom you admire. If in some part of life you are going to lost this co-relation, in both senses both the marriage will fail. So taking decision maturely helped a person achieve his goal.

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Priyadharshini said: (Mar 9, 2018)  
Love marriage is good when a girl or boy select their partner with maturity. Here the maturity means real love and not the infatuation. Nowadays school students and teen agers are in love. But it does not last long. So, they can take a decision only when they are standing on their own leg. While they love they should accept both the negative and the positive qualities of the partner which helps in avoiding the future misunderstandings.

Arrange marriage is not advisable because parents will show the bride or groom with the perception that their daughter or son will be happy. But the reality is they may not know each other before the marriage. Their expectations in the character may not be matched. In future, it may lead to divorce.

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Abc said: (Mar 9, 2018)  
As you know both marriages is good no one is bad it totally depends on your mentality, according to me both marriages are important but in love marriage, its depend on your personality but I know many love marriage is a success but many families are supportive. Those family who is educated and understand your feelings then support you.

In arrange marriage, both couples are unknown to each other but your family is very happy. After marriage, they are in love and its love is very deep and it does not depend on your personality it's your nature.

So guys in both situations, marriage is good and its own place their own importance.

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Sana Nqhid said: (Mar 5, 2018)  
According to my view, arranged marriage is better than love marriages. Because if you get love marriage no one support you like your family & relatives. And your parents never bless you.

And if you get arrange marriage everyone supports you and your family blessing you.

If you have your parents bless your marriage will be successful.

And if haven't your parents bless your marriage will be never success.

I think so that arrange marriage is really best marriage.

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Neha Dagar said: (Mar 3, 2018)  
I think love marriage is good. There is a stigma in mind of people that love marriage. It can't last long as in parents and relatives opinion. They even don't to listen to anything about their child decisions. They all need approval from society and emotional drama society. But I personally society begin with ourselves. If both boy and girl are happy then parents are happy.

Society is always evil who will pull the legs from behind if you are from standardised family basically in Haryana people are orthodox and I must say they have 2 faces. It is up to parents that they want their child happy or not if they really listen to society. They can't be happy and their child would not be happy in future.

Let go to arrange marriage I really want to tell people who are in favour of arranged marriage these people also have two faces one according to family and other for his personal life. Basically, boy who do arrange marriage has extra affair they were attached to their previous lover. Then what is the meaning of this useless marriage when you are not true to your partner.

I really disagree with a partner who cheats their other soul mate.

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Kajal Mittal said: (Mar 3, 2018)  
In my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage, love marriage is not good because nowadays we are seeing so many love failure problems so the way of understanding is doesn't possible to each other. So arrange marriage is best.

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Prarthna Sahu said: (Mar 1, 2018)  
In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in that case, we know the person, his good habits and his bad habits, we understand each other that's why we are together in a relationship.

In love marriage, we know the person before marriage, so we know that person is good for us or not.

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Bhanusree said: (Mar 1, 2018)  
We can't say that love marriage is good or bad and arrange marriage is good or bad. It's only depends on couples who were going to lead their life with partnership. Love or arrange marriage anything it may be understanding is the main thing and have to be very confident in their relationship.

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Anand said: (Feb 26, 2018)  
I agree with my friend Raghu, most of the parents don't accept their marriage proposal because in girl's side they would expect that the boy should have a good job and home so that he would make their daughter throughout her life, whereas in boy's side they would expect some dowry or gift from the girl's side, if their parents don't fulfil this requirement, this results them called as villains.

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Athira said: (Feb 26, 2018)  
Good morning guys.

Love vs arrange marriage according to me, just realise it guys a simple answer is a span of love before marriage is love marriage and span of after marriage is arrange marriage. So nothing wrong whether its love or arrange but only thing matters is true love only then your life will be successful and meaningful marriage life. If you love someone its wrong only if you don't marry them. Be confident and strive 100 % for your relationship with patience and prudence for your right choice.

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Raghu said: (Feb 24, 2018)  
Hello everyone.

Nowadays love marriages become often, you can see it in anywhere. My opinion is love marriages are not false but without intimating to their parents so many couples are getting married and they were thinking that their parents are villain for their love. Arranged marriages are better compared to love marriages as because so many love marriages are not accepted by their parents. So start loving your wife after the arranged marriage.

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Manu said: (Feb 21, 2018)  
Hello everyone.

Our topic for discussion is love vs arranged marriage.

Firstly I want to start the discussion by saying that one cannot judge the best out of these two marriages as it depends upon the understanding, trust between the couple itself and nothing to do with the type of marriage.

In both the marriages pros and cons are there. Coming to love marriage;

1. There will be good understanding b/w the couple as they know each other pretty well.

2. As they know each others likes n dislikes they will behave accordingly.

3. Planned love lives will result in great future.

4. Equality prevails in their relationship.

Disadvantages:

1. As they are mostly independent they take their own decisions quickly without considering parents and relatives like taking divorse.

2. Youngsters these days are confusing attraction to love and facing prblms after marriage.

Arrange marriage advantages.

1. Parents once for twice before coming up with a match.

2. They verify completely about the family background so that there shouldn't be any prblm in future.

3. The couple will think of their families and try to understand instead of going for divorce for silly reasons.

Disadvantages.

1. If there is no much tym to interact before marriage one cannot understand each other properly and will face prblms to share anything after marriage with their partners.

2. Whether love will blossom b/w each other or not will be a big question.

At last, I would like to conclude saying marriage is a life long commitment so decision should be in ones hand.

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Kumari Muskan said: (Feb 21, 2018)  
Hello. Everyone.

And have a charming morning to you all.

According to my poiint Of veiw arrange marriage is preferable to love marrige, because after arrange marriage couple get so many love, support, gifts. Etc. For enjoying their life.

But after love marrige they don't get such things.

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Zeba said: (Feb 19, 2018)  
I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage because even though we know the person in love marriage But it is not always successful. Whatever the parents think for us is best for us so we should have trust in our parents and in reality.

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Pathan said: (Feb 15, 2018)  
In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage Because we spend more time with each other, And we understand each other thing.

And we can say it depends on both of them (husband & wife) how they prepare their own lives.

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Ruchita Sonkusare said: (Feb 14, 2018)  
Hello friends,

I think love is in the air only till you get married, after marriage no matter whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage.

Love marriage is not appreciated in a traditional society like India because in India it's not the marriage of 2 souls not a marriage of 2 families.

Love is nothing but chemical locha, in other words, its infatuation only.

In today's world, people fall in love numerous times in life. With so many incidents of falling in love, at last, only mind can help you to make a right choice.

Those who listen to their mind, go for arrange marriage, if you start taking decisions from the heart then life will be a mess.

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Malika said: (Feb 13, 2018)  
I think LOVE MARRIAGE is better than ARRANGED MARRIAGE because in my point of view marriage means a union between man and woman. Union means the action of joining together. Love means a strong feeling of affection, that affection makes both perfect. In love marriage there is a mutual understanding between the couple, That makes them happy.

Not only LOVE MARRIAGES Even ARRANGED MARRIAGES have the same affection but some of them are not adjusted, rest of the remaining are so HAPPY.

I am not discouraged ARRANGED MARRIAGES and I am also not Encouraged LOVE MARRIAGES because LOVE happens at any time to anyone so don't judge that marriage is so good that type of marriage is bad.

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Ashish said: (Feb 12, 2018)  
No one can say that love marriage or the arranged marriage is the best. It is totally dependent on wife and husband if the boy doesn't understand his wife and the girl also doesn't understand the feelings of her husband what he/she wants and what you are giving then their life will be like a hell and on the other hand if they understand each other then their life will be like a heaven.

In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.

Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.

And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.

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Sonam said: (Feb 8, 2018)  
According to me, Both marriages are best if their relationship has understanding, love and trust. Because this all depends upon these things. Without these things, no one marriage will succeed. Thank you.

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Manmohan Yadav said: (Feb 7, 2018)  
I am in favour of love marriage because in love marriage girl and boy knows each other very well. They aware about the behaviour, nature, and test of each other. They have better understanding they can solve issues related to their life easily, they can share their emotion with each without any hesitation. But in arrange both girl and boy are stranger. They do not know about each other nature due to this they face so many difficulties which may cause divorce. In most of arrange, marriage girls suffer a lot due to dowry issues.

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Deepa Karwa said: (Feb 7, 2018)  
Hii Friends.

My self Deepa karwa.

In my views, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we accept each other with our own wish. After marriage, we don't have regret that we did not get chance to choose our life partner. But our decision should be mature enough. After knowing completely one should take a decision. I think then Love marriage will stable and the couple will live life more happily compared to the couple who are in arranged marriage. Thank you.

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Jyoti said: (Feb 6, 2018)  
I am in favour of love marriage because in love marriage girl and boy knows each other very well. They aware about the behaviour, nature, and test of each other. They have better understanding they can solve issues related to their life easily, they can share their emotion with each without any hesitation. But in arrange both girl and boy are stranger. They do not know about each other nature due to this they face so many difficulties which may cause divorce. In most of arrange, marriage girls suffer a lot due to dowry issues.

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Supriya said: (Feb 6, 2018)  
Hi,

In my point of view, arranged marriage is better than love marriage. They can love after their marriage also. In their life problems will be less as compared to love marriages. Anyway if they get any problem their relatives and family members can solve. In love marriages also problem can be solved if they get parents support. But nowadays we are all seeing that most of the parents were not encouraging love marriages. What I said it because of my observation around my surrounding. But I'm not criticizing anyone. Thank you very much.

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Naveena D said: (Feb 4, 2018)  
Good Morning Friends.

According to me, Love and Arranged marriage is better. Both of the equal role-playing in our life. Arranged marriage is better than love marriage. Because after marriage they are fall in love. They are start their life with the security. This is most beautiful life.

Love marriage is good one. Because they are fall in love. Those days is most happiest days. But their parents will never agree their love. Then so many problems will be create. So love marriage will be affect both of their family.

So arranged marriage is better. Because both of the family members will be happy. And other thing is love and arranged marriage is also better. If their family agree their love. Then it will be better.

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Ashish Kumar Vishwakarma said: (Feb 3, 2018)  
Hello guys.

According to my opinion, both marriages are better. But make a good relationship and trust with our life partner.

I said marriage is depended upon a mutual understanding of both girl and boy.

Love marriage is the result of own decisions but arrange marriage is the result of our relative decisions.

Thank you.

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Urman Khan said: (Feb 2, 2018)  
Hello friends.

Myself Urman Khan.

According to my opinion, love marriage vs arrange marriage.

Both love marriage and arrange marriage are good but love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love, the couple knows their qualities, behaviour, and emotion very well.

And they can spend the perfect time of life and they can solve our problems.

But, in arrange marriage couple don't know to each other when you're family select a girl for you.

And after marriage, they find that their behaviour, emotion, thinking doesn't match that cause of divorce.

Love is life.

Thank you.

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Aakanksha Bansal said: (Feb 1, 2018)  
In my opinion,

Both love marriage and arrange marriage are at par. Ultimately the decision should be given in the hands of the guy and the girl as it solely depends upon their lives.

Earlier divorce cases were mostly heard as a result of love marriage but nowadays divorce filing has increased alot for arrange marriages as well.

This should not be anybody else decision but the couple and if parents are with them. Then Cheers!

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Kiran Mourya said: (Jan 25, 2018)  
According to me, both are better love marriage as well as arrange marriage because In love marriage boy and girl know each other. They have a mutual understanding to one another about their nature, behaviour etc.

But in arrange marriage couple do not know one another they are completely stranger. In arrange marriage, relatives are involved to set up their marriage.

Marriage is depended upon a mutual understanding of both boy and girl.

Mutual understanding and relation with one other make successful their marriage.

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Ramdev Chhaba Falka said: (Jan 24, 2018)  
Hi, guys good morning.

According to my opinion, both love and arrange marriage are good. But love marriage is own decision and arrange marry is our relative decision. We want to love marry only when then our parents on agree on that. I thing marry is a union of two soul. Marry is decided our future because whole life buzz with one person. So both good but take a good decision.

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Ramdev Chhaba Falka said: (Jan 24, 2018)  
Hii guys.

Good morning.

According to my opinion, both love and arrange marriage are good. But love marriage is own decision and arrange marry is our relative decision. We want to love marry only when then our parents on agree on that. I think marriage is a union of two souls. Marry is decided our future because of whole life buzz with one person. So both good but take a good decision.

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Madhu Sri said: (Jan 22, 2018)  
Hi, Guys,

This is MADHUSRI,

In my opinion, it depends on the mutual understanding between the bride and bride groom but not on the type of marriage.

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Muneam Akram said: (Jan 20, 2018)  
Hi every one,

Today my topic is about love marriage and arrange marriage both.

According to my opinion, arrange marriage is better then love marriage. Because love marriage is totally based on the externally physical personality time attractions and economical base of his lover.

But in arrange marriage is brightless of our future life. The arrange is developed our relative relation and in arrange marriage your other relative's are very happy to your marriage than love marriage. So, In my thoughts the arrange marriage is most better than love marriage.

Good luck.

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Saurabh Kumar said: (Jan 19, 2018)  
Love marriage vs Arranged Marriage.

I support both loves and arrange because marriage is not a game. But only there is a problem in love marriage in India is not acceptable by parents and family members because there are so many issues comes over such as tradition caste system which is a vital and critical issue for our society thinking. i.e, is why couples are not supported by parents when there is a problem. But in some family members who are educated then acceptable only and only both couples are in a good job or both are in same dignity and having a same education degree.

In arrange Marriage there is no such type of problem i.e, parents always with us.

And family members, society accepted easily.

But there is a problem dowry system which is also a critical issue which damaged girl's life.

We have to think that marriage is whole life bonding. And we have to understand it's a marriage love or arranged first understand to each other. His /her emotions and feelings.

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Gaurav Joshi said: (Jan 18, 2018)  
I think it is not the matter of arrange or love marriage, but is of the two persons involved in it and how they understand each other feelings and affection. If an individual put behind its social-economic ego and comparison and make a relationship happier than it does not matter either the marriage is love or arranged. An understanding person nurture their life after being married and manage their relationship far well in future.

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Dev Pandey said: (Jan 16, 2018)  
Hi, friends.

According to my opinion, arrange marriage is batter than love marriage.

Because love marriage is totally based on physical attraction and beauty.

When time passed physical beauty abridge and our love is finish.

In arrange marriage we marry such a person who is chosen by our parent. Our parents have much understanding of life so they choose for us best.

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Ajay Sehray said: (Jan 6, 2018)  
Hello friends.

By point of view.

I am in the favor of love marriage because in love marriage the couple knows their quality, behavior and emotion very well. They understand their problem very well and they can solve those problems very easily. But in arrange marriage couple don't know each other very well after arranged marriage they find that their thinking, behavior, quality, emotion don't match that cause of divorce. So, friends, I prefer love marriage than an arranged marriage.

Thank you.

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Shilpa Verma said: (Jan 4, 2018)  
In my Opinion,

Love marriage is almost good than arrange marriage because Every one girl or a boy know about their behavior, nature, Emotions, etc each other.

In India, All the In Indians preferred to arrange marriage According to their situation, thinking etc. Everyone thinks different in different-different situations. Most people have their own thinking according to the atmosphere.

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Rahul Sharma said: (Jan 3, 2018)  
Hello friends,

As we are discussing on love or arranged marriage, I prefer love marriage because in love marriage couples are well known about each other. They know about like habits, unlike habits, nature, behavior etc each other. They can spend the perfect time of life than arranged marriage if they know what is the true love? If the parents also agree for love marriage then life is also more wonderful and lovely. And if parents do not agree for love marriage, and you left home for love marriage, then love marriage can create a huge problem in future.

But in an arranged marriage, if parents choose a girl for you then couples are not well known to each other. There can be so many confusions, different mindset, unlike behavior, that can create problem and life can be spoiled.

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Humaira said: (Jan 2, 2018)  
I think it depends on which marriage you get offered first. If you fall in love with someone I think it's best to talk to your family about marrying this person so they do sort out any marriage arrangements they have made or want to make. You need to consider the couple feelings. I know a family who is in problems because their son is in love with one girl but his parents have made him marry his cousin whom they arranged. Now he has both women and he is only happy with the one he fell in love with. He keeps the wife his parents chose because he wants to make them happy and keep family pride. To make it worst he has kids with both women. I think love marriage is better in this case. If he had not found someone he loves then yes he can just do arrange marriage. In love marriage, you fall in love with the things you get to know about the person. That's why we fall in love. In arrange marriage you only start to love the person because you care for them, they look after your family perhaps. But it is in most cases, not true love.

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Nancy said: (Dec 29, 2017)  
In my opinion,

Both are good but arrange marriage is better for our Indian society.

If we prefer love marriage against our parents and that marriage for some reason didn't last for long years then we would be in no condition to go back to our parent's house as they won't accept us. If in case they will, then society won't let them live happily. It will create a problem only for our parents.

In case of arranged marriage, at least if the marriage for some reason didn't last for long, parents will take us back as they chose that guy for you and it was their mistake.

For me, arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

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Sunakshi said: (Dec 27, 2017)  
Hi, guys.

In this topic, I will say that if you find a nice person whom you think you can be spent your whole with that person you should go for love marriage otherwise leave it on your parents they will surely find a nice guy for you.

Thanks.

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Raja said: (Dec 26, 2017)  
Hello friend.

Today we are discuss about love marriage and arrange marriage according to my opinion arrange marriage is better than love marriage because in arrange marriage we are not choose girl family are choose family are support and in the love marriage love between two heart family are not support.

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Himanshu said: (Dec 24, 2017)  
Hello friends, today we are discussing on the topic arrange marriage vs love marriage. I think that arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because in love marriage we see that many of the couples do not understand with their views of mind, that causr of their devorce. , because marriage is a relationship between two heart and in this there is any problems we can not accept it.

And on the other hand, we must think what our family want if thry are satisfied with us then we give reference to anything so I think that arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

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Subhajit Podder said: (Dec 23, 2017)  
Good morning my dear all friend.

Here topic is love marriage and arrange marriage, which is good. It's thought to me that love marriage is very much better than arrange. Because maximum people tell that 70% or above love marriage has been destroying for any reason. I am telling that it's true. But we should think why it is happening. There are some problem who takes love marriage in their life. Actually problem is that unfortunately maximum people can't know what is meaning of love. How to care both each other. How to respect think of both person or etc. This is the problem. That's why love marriage cannot continue. If we think for a time to the earlier era I mean earlier person then can understand who accepted love marriage in their life and they could continue. Because they knew how to love. Here I am indicating the point that in our time we have been forgetting what is the love. That's way the problem is creating to the young person. Except that here are second problem. That is before maturity a boy or girl have been so much involving with love. For a result they are facing may problem. So for these type problem love has been destroying and divorcing. If we think it logically that love helps us to know each other before marriage which is not possible if anybody go to arrange marriage. So, end of discussion in a nutshell I must say that love is not wrong before marriage. We have to understand the problem and compare. Then we can solve the problem. So according to my views, love should be kept to the last point. That's all. Thank you.

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Shiv said: (Dec 22, 2017)  
My dear friend, according to my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because if your family select a girl for you and after marriage quality of your wife is different from you then we face a problem. I support love marriage only one condition if the family of both boy and girl are satisfied with this marriage.

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Mohit said: (Dec 21, 2017)  
Hello friends,

According to me, arranged marriage is best in both because according to a survey we know about that mostly. I mean 70 percent divorce is done those who apply love marriage. Sometimes boys or girls left their families for this marriage (love marriage) and will go from home. This type of marriage creates a huge problem in his/her life. In some case, boys and girls take this type of decision in little age and these decisions create problems in life.

Thanks.

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Shahwaj Khan said: (Dec 18, 2017)  
Hi, friends.

According to my opinion, arrange marriage always better than love marriage because arrange marriage is not a contact b/w two people but a confluence of two familes and two familes involved in arrange marriage you know my dear friends in arrange marriage my life partner is select my familes and I think that my familes is selected my life partner better than me because he knows as my negative and positive points and my nature he know as which type girl is better than me and any parents is never wants he's son of life partner is wrong in any way so l think that arrange marriage better than love marriage, and in love marriage before marriage two person b/w love in love love time two person is always nose and look positive point with each other he's never shown own negative point and after being married he's known as negative points with each other and everyday great a new problem and he way of divorce and one day is divorce with each other so I think that love marriage is never better than arrange marriage, That's all.

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Indrajeet Kumar Sharma said: (Dec 10, 2017)  
Hello guys, according to me, a love marriage is far better than an arranged marriage. Because one has the complete freedom to select his or her life partner. No elder decides. Both people know each other already and mutually decides to spend whole life with each other. The Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry. Because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level. But an arrange marriage like a lottery, love may or may not blossom between the couple.

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Pradeep said: (Dec 7, 2017)  
I like love marriage. Because love marriage people are Powerful in their bonding and relationship between them is very strong no miss understanding between them.

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Pavetthren said: (Dec 7, 2017)  
I'll go with love marriage, if we think logically arrange marriage is some kind of nuisance happenning to both sexes involved, my only question is how could you really decide your right companion through rest of your life.

Without even knowing their character or without being obnoxious about their behaviour, or decide them behalf of your parent's wish, it must be you who should decide your partners and more over I think what you get while first sight is some kind of attraction not love. And only through love you get close to someones heart, so that you could get to know each other and whether both their characters are in sink and also to know about their past life and situations they are facing and what the right companion could do to make them happy.

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Ankit Singh said: (Dec 7, 2017)  
Whether it is love marriage or Arranged marriage, the "Love" is the only adhesive of bondage the souls of both.

As long as Love exists, there will be no problem at all.

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Sri said: (Dec 4, 2017)  
Hello friends,

In my thinking, both love marriage and arranged marriage are good. Marriage is not based on love or arranged which is based on two hearts. If they can trust and care together then they will survive and they will understand together. So live a life with care and trust.

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Vignesh Murthi said: (Dec 4, 2017)  
Hi guys! Love Or Arrange what would you select? I don't have a idea about that but I know something about those things Just share you here First and best is love. From the Ancient to the modern stories based on love show what love means Is like caring of each other or just made for each other. In My opinion, Love is just talking a person Within you or two souls caring each other and Where the love is born and Another arrange marriage I don't Oppose these too because arrange marriage is Carried by selection of your cared one who I mean is your parents. But when you choose these you may know that specific person only for a short period and another thing is A person who really loves you is an Awsome thing.

But nowadays a confusion rises between term crush and love. So many confusion arises. A true Love is so rare only from a good person.

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Mona said: (Dec 2, 2017)  
In my opinion, both the marriage are good. It's not about the type of marriage but it's about the type of couple and their understanding to each other. Eventually, I m in favor of love marriage and with the acceptance of parents because when the couples are happy, then they can handle their family in the happiest way.

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Tejpal Sharma said: (Dec 1, 2017)  
Hello guys, according to me, both marriages have their own joy. As like life marriage is also full of uncertainties so it depends on couple how they deal with it. If they understand each other and do small sacrifices for each other and lives happily then it doesn't matter that the marriage is arranged or love.

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Alok Sharma said: (Nov 28, 2017)  
No one can say that love marriage or the arrange marriage is the best. It is totally dependent on wife and husband if the boy doesn't understand his wife and the girl also doesn't understand the feelings of her husband what he/she wants and what you are giving then their life will be like a hell and on the other hand if they understand each other then their life will be like a heaven.

In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.

Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.

And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.

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Saroj said: (Nov 22, 2017)  
Marriage is the meeting of two souls who will bring happiness to the families either it is love or arrange.

It depend on both the companion that how they make their life beautiful, happy and energetic.

Requirements is same in both the case, only thing is in love marriage they know each other more might be but in arrange marriage they also know each other but with the choice of their parents.

In love marriage, if something good or bad you have no choice to blame/praise anyone, you are responsible for what you have chosen. As per human nature, we always find someone to blame for our bad happing's (if any) in that case arrange marriage is good.

I think this is a never-ending topic of discussion.

It only depends on the couple what they want to do with their life, some will make their arrange marriage so happens that people will consider them as a love couple and vice versa.

So, in my point of view, live your life at the fullest, love your partner, understand your partner, leave your ego and enjoy the warmth of the relationship either it is love or arrange marriage.

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Med said: (Nov 18, 2017)  
I think the love marriage is good because before you marriage you know the behaviours of your husband the thing that make him funny and angry even you can't make a mistake but arranged mariage is bad because you don't any behaviours to your husband even you mary today and you will devorce him tomorow it mean that marriage can't take a long periode it so short periode. Thanks.

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Ashu Yadav said: (Nov 17, 2017)  
Hello Everyone.

I support Both types of marriage have their own fun. And as you all know that many people in our society believe in love marriage. Because this types of marriage is based on understand between two parts and the settlement in there family. And in love marriage we know each other very well and from this can build good understanding. But in arrange there is an amazing thing that is person whom we doesn't know she or he become life partner so we have so much things to share because it is arranged by parents that's all thanks.

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Prashant Singh said: (Nov 16, 2017)  
Hello friends,

My name is Prashant singh. Our topic is about love marriage vs arrange marriage. In my opinion, both situations is right. It is depends on couples and his behavior. I thought that love marriage is a marriage when a girl or boy fall in love and he wants to marry. If his love is believable, he can success in his life. On the other hand, arrange marriage is our society system, it is depend on parents opinion so if any person doesn't fall in love he do arrange marriage and live happy with his life.

If we talk about present situation, most of the boys or girls fall in love and want to live with another. It is only depend on love with each other, believe with each other and respect with each other. So I think both situations is right. It is depend on couple. Thank you for reading me.

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