Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Chinni said: (Apr 23, 2017)  
In my opinion, love and arranged marriages have the equal importance.

All we need is understanding, self-respect, and affection. They both should respect one another. Care for one another. Two bodies and single soul represents a good pair.

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Jack said: (Apr 22, 2017)  
The one who loves you and whom you love back.

There are always good and bad sides of every person, love makes you accept a person along with his shortcomings.

If you do love marriage and continue to love that person after marriage, you will find that person to be perfect life partner.

Same case with arranged marriage, if you develop love after marriage, its OK, you will accept that person and will always try to look on the bright side, even in the dark times.

If there is no love in between the couple after marriage, then that marriage becomes a contract and that marriage is dragged for the sake of parents or children.

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Satyendra Kumar said: (Apr 20, 2017)  
As for as the boot point is concerned love marriage vs arranged marriage. I'm in pros arrange marriage. According to my point of view, both are good as well as bad. Because that depends on the life partner but mostly new age boys and girls pros on love marriage. Because in the love marriage before a marriage you all know that about your life partner likes and dislikes etc.

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Sandy said: (Apr 19, 2017)  
I think Love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage boys and girls they take the own responsibilities. And, I think this is the most important part of our life.

Taking the responsibility is not a small thing.

I strongly support love marriage is better than arrange marriage.

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Jitesh said: (Apr 17, 2017)  
In my opinion, Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because we can easily know about our life partner. Because understanding is too mandatory. Because it a most important step of our life. If you believe in arrange marriage. It's not a right way. Because we have to spend our entire life. I think in arrange marriage. We have to more sacrifice than love marriage. If someone highly educated than you. In that time, you'll have to face lots of problems. So it's my point of view.

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Meghana said: (Apr 17, 2017)  
Unlike the medieval times, parents of this generation are taking the opinion of the bride/groom before marriage and love marriages are accepted these days.

So keeping aside love and arranged both have advantages and disadvantages of their own. But one can lead happy life only when *boy/girl are ready for a positive breakup in love. They might be many reasons. Parents may oppose them, they might have a difference in opinions etc.

If you are able to convince your parents then its okay but there might be some chances of disapproving. So before you fall in love. Ensure yourself that you are emotional, mentally okay even after a breakup.

Well! Coming into arranged marriage. Having zero expectation on the spouse will make you lead a better life.

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Varaprasad said: (Apr 16, 2017)  
Parents love is the only true love forever. Lovers love may or may not be true like the saying "All that glitters is not gold".

Love marriage means boy and girl should love each other and it should be acceptable to both of their parents. Then only it would be a true love marriage.

If I want to buy a product I will see the brand. If the brand is known, I can trust the product. Otherwise, that product may or may not be good. Lover is the product and parents are the brand. If you choose the product to inform your parents immediately. They inquire about the brand. If they accept ask them to make arrangements for marriage. After marriage, you love each other and be happy.

In India, one will get good match only for the first time. So don't take your own nasty decision. If it fails in the first time, your entire life will be spoiled. The Loss will be more for a girl. You will loose your life and your parents will lose their dignity and fame.

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Amy Dwivedi said: (Apr 15, 2017)  
Apart from this, both love and arranged marriage are good based on the couples. In both relationships, they need to take care of each other, respect each other, love for each other and the main thing they don't have EGO for each other. Then their life will be very happy.

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Anna Arya said: (Apr 12, 2017)  
Hello everyone,

According to me, both marriages have the same effect on life. As it is said the wedding is decided in heaven so no matter what you do. If you love someone and your family is ready for it then it is a perfect marriage. Your family's permission and happiness also should be included in your love relation because your parents have seen this world more than you and they more know the person, better than you. They will do whatever will be best for you because they will never want that their children will be woeful. They upbringing you and it is also your responsibility that you never make them unhappy just because of a boy/girl whom you know before some years. There are also some cases that couples get married and after some time flay occurs and both get separated that time family support is very important though family also stand with them that time.

So we should also understand our responsibility towards them. I am not saying love marriage is bad but the family's will and blessings also be with it.

Thank you.

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Mani said: (Apr 12, 2017)  
Apart from this, both love and arranged marriage are good based on the couples. In both relationships, they need to take care of each other, respect each other, love for each other and the main thing they don't have EGO for each other. Then their life will be very happy.

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Amit Rana said: (Apr 11, 2017)  
Love marriage.

- Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.

- Couple is responsible for its choice and onus of the blame in future lies on the couple only and nobody else.

- Couple is aware of each other's likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well.

- Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.

- The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.

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Arya said: (Apr 11, 2017)  
Love marriage is better one because in that the two persons can understand each other. There is total transparency about each other. A boy knows well if his soulmate can manage his family as a integral unit, if she is perfect to fit into the system.

So, I strongly support love marriage.

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Pooja Sharma said: (Apr 7, 2017)  
Hello, everyone.

In my opinion, both marriages having some failure and some successes. So, I think both marriages are good and it totally based on couples. In both relationships, they need to trust, respect, love each other, take care of each other and the main thing they adjust and cooperate with each other and with their families also.

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Vipin Sharma said: (Apr 7, 2017)  
Hi, I'm Vipin.

In my perception, love marriage is the best choice for the couples because they love each other and love is the important part of our life when the person suffered by emptiness then the love makes feel you special and very important and our parents should understand their children's feelings.

Thanks a lot.

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Sukanya said: (Apr 7, 2017)  
HI friends,

I'm Sukanya, both love and arrange marriages are having some failures. Love marriages are sometimes not perfect at the same time arrange marriages also very poor. Because, of their cooperation, relationship, sharing, adjustments, love and caring. Some times both are thinking bad. I support arrange marriages why so parents select right family and right decessions, some cases it's not correct. Love marriages are somewhat good but they are not able to do acceptance of parent decisions they do own decisions.

Thank you.

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Poonam said: (Apr 6, 2017)  
Hello, everyone.

In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage, however, it is fact that about 90% still have arranged marriages, an arrange marriage is the center is the attention of family union. Love marriage is nothing but it is only attraction after some time attraction will be finished and after some time they grumble to each other then they take big decision for divorce so love marriage has a not ever.

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Naveen said: (Apr 6, 2017)  
Hi friends, in my opinion, I think marriage word is given by society. And in society, there are all including our family. And the human is the social animal. So doesn't matter marriage is love or arrange. Matter is how much blessings you have to their relationship. Because one is broken into all. God is one.

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Sowndarya said: (Apr 5, 2017)  
Hi Friends,

Apart from this, both love and arranged marriage are good based on the couples. In both relationship, they need to take care for each others, respect each other , love for each other and the main thing they don't have EGO for each other. Then their life will be very happy.


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Gaddala Vinay Kumar said: (Apr 4, 2017)  
Hi friends, myself Vinay Kumar Gaddala.

In my way, both are same but one thing is understanding is important between couples. If there is no understanding any relation will break up either it love marriage or arranged marriage. But in love, both persons spend their time for each other that may help to understand each other. But in arranged marriages, there is no conversation between both couples before marriage in past. Nowadays, after marriage fixing they making conversation themselves.

What I mean to say is understanding play an important role in life either it love or arranged marriage.

Thank you.

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Vipulsoni said: (Apr 4, 2017)  
I won't say what is good and what is bad but for the ones who are in love they should prefer for love arranged marriage rather than hurting their parents and disrespecting them it's not necessary that the person who is he/she is in love with will be good they should have a perfect information about their partners rather than going with dem blindly if your parents are still not accepting then you should not leave the topic but try convincing dem who knows what changes their mind 2nd thing is about arrange marriage it's not true when your parents find your partner is good dey will 70% see their wealth and then they'll see what their nature is the point is see how is the person it's not necessary when your parents find a guy or girl is always good, even dey haven't met dem properly how can they suggest the child for the upcoming future? it's your life dude you have some rights go for love or arrange but see that your partner understands you trust you support you and there is a bright future together.

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Rabindra Kumar said: (Apr 4, 2017)  
I thought that love marriage and arrange marriage is same because the main point is understanding in two couple marriage is not a game. What he/she thought and his thinking and his life partner chose himself and his parents agree that their children chose their life partner is correct or not.

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Siddesh said: (Apr 2, 2017)  
Hi, friends. Myself Siddesh.

According to my point of view, love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because in love marriage they understand both before the marriage.

And also, you will have to know about your partner you will have to spend your whole life.

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Adarsh Singh said: (Apr 2, 2017)  
I think arranged marriages are better than the love marriages because in the mostly love marriages a young boy and a young girl who loves each other them they do not learn the family background of their partner in this way mostly crimes and devote was done on the love marriage. That's why I think arranged marriages are mostly best.

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Sunny Chaudhari said: (Apr 2, 2017)  
In my point of view, arrange marriage is best to love marriage, because each love is not successful and he/she family members is not understand of boy and girl and arrange marriage is successful for history but love marriage is not happy to family members so I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Thanks to all.

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Bijesh Patidar said: (Mar 31, 2017)  
In my view, arrange marriage is good because it relate our culture. So that's good for us.

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Suchi said: (Mar 29, 2017)  
In my point of view in both arrange and love marriage need of love, understanding, carring, respectiveness are very necessary. Without these things, both are impossible to leave together.

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Sunny Basoya said: (Mar 27, 2017)  
I also support and favor of love marriage. Because in love marriage both of them know each other and likes and dislike. But we need parents acceptance in love marriage.

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Anonymn said: (Mar 26, 2017)  
Just attraction and infactuation doesn't mean love. A person can spend money of their father's on his lover. Unless he earns and do hard work. He/she won't understand its importance. According to me arrange marriage. Where people would have been settled and known the responsibility of everything.

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Manish Chaurasia said: (Mar 26, 2017)  
In my point of view, both marriages are successful. But arrange marriage is more successful than love marriage. Because in love marriage young girls and boys say that we know each other completely and they get married. But I think they know each other only towards positively their negative activities are hidden. And also in love marriage less family support. So love marriage Is not maintain relationship with all the members of families for a long time. But in arrange marriage right understanding between bride and bridegroom's family. Relationship maintained for long time and marriage couple trust and respect each other too much. In India divorce rate is very low as compared to advanced countries. Because in our country gives more priority of arrange marriage. According to divorce rate of most of the countries divorce rate of love marriage is too much more than arrange marriage. So according to me arrange marriage is much better than love marriage and safe.

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Barbie Ken said: (Mar 25, 2017)  
I think love marriage is best. As in arrange marriage that boy or girl appears to be best but after marriage, they leave or girls can be harrassed and all. In love marriage there is love and both are ready to do anything for each other. And parents will also accept as their happiness lies in the happiness of their child.

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Nisha said: (Mar 25, 2017)  
Young youth is blindly supporting LOVE marriages. Because you know each other from 2 years because you were dating from 2 years. So you are 100% compatible with each other. This is bullshit.

When you date someone 90% people will hide their negative side. When other person knows about this it will result in breakup of divorce. No one is 100% perfect. If you need most comestible person than you need to date at least 40-50 girls/boys. First time hit rate is very low.

Instead of this nonsense find someone who respects others, kind hearted. If you cannot find yourself, give your parents chance to find the right person for you. Do not simply defame ARRANGE marriages.

Still, ARRANGE marriage are much better than LOVE marriages.

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Shivika said: (Mar 25, 2017)  
Most of youth treat physical attraction as LOVE. For relationship of 2-year people are ready to leave their parents with whom they stayed for 25 years.

When you date someone you will always show your positive side to another person (boy/girl) to impress them. You will always hide your negative side. When someone knows about negative side, they will break with you. People call it heartbreak or break marriage. That's the main reason of failure of LOVE marriage because expectation is very high.

People says that In LOVE marriage person is very compatible. Are you joking? To find the compatible person you need to date at least 50-100 persons. Hit rate is 5-10% in first attempt.

Have anyone has ever seen in LOVE marriage that girl is not attractive or good looking. 95% of LOVE marriages are based on look of girl.

I am not favoring ARRANGE marriage also.

SO instead of going for arrange or LOVE marriage. Find the person who respects others, kind hearted, honest. If you find such person you will fall in love with him/her again and again.

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Vaibhav said: (Mar 25, 2017)  
In my opinion, love marriage is best, however, we need to understand, As we live in India we have lots of restriction on girls and it's not possible for everyone to find his or her love so this statement does not not indicate that arranged marriages are completely useless.

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Bato Ahmed said: (Mar 24, 2017)  
I agree that arranged marriage is better than romantic one because the arranged married couple can take good care of each other even though they never met before. And they can still respect and trust each other.

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Snigdha said: (Mar 23, 2017)  
Hi, everyone.

In my opinion, love marriage is better than a arrange marriage. Because in a love marriage already we have an idea about that person like his or her likes, dislikes. And from a long time, we have been cooperating with each other and that will remain for forwarding life also. So it's not about love also about mutual understanding in between two beautiful persons who will become a life partner. Life is not for a short span. Marriage is a vehicle and the wife and spouse are two wheels of that. So if there will no cooperation with each other that vehicle will face accident. So for such vehicle, it's important to know each other and love each other externally.

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Gayatri said: (Mar 23, 2017)  
In my opinion, Everyone should have right to choose their own life partner with whom they can share their every sorrow and happiness.

It doesn't matter they do love marriage or arrange marriage.

Love marriage and arrange marriage both are right if partners have understanding, respect and love for each other.

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Aman said: (Mar 22, 2017)  
I think that the love marriage is more successful than arrange marriage because in the love marriage we known the person before marriage and their mutual understanding is more as compare to the arranged married people.

In love marriage, both of them known about their past and they can trust each other more confidently than in arranged married.

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Nasir Kamal said: (Mar 21, 2017)  
I think love marriage more than success for life. Husband and wife don't misunderstanding. Also understand the life. After marriage be happy life. They will be enjoy the life.

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Daniyal Kamal said: (Mar 21, 2017)  
I think love marriage is not the success for life. More than 2 years relationship. Husband and wife are more misunderstandings. Then go to the court take for the divorce.

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Dishu said: (Mar 20, 2017)  
For me - love marriage is better than arranged one, but a love marriage with a long-running affair, and not an affair of just a week and then marriage - no! That's not love. Love happens when you know you can even 'die' for this person, and when your relationship reaches to that intensity and passion, only then you should get married, and for me, I can't 'die' for a stranger in an arranged marriage!

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M.Harshavardhan said: (Mar 19, 2017)  
In my point of view, love marriages are better than arranged marriages because in love marriages there is no chance of egos. So the total life is beautiful.

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Neha said: (Mar 19, 2017)  
It's not about LOVE marriage or Arrange marriage. Failure happens in both cases. Out of my 4 cousins, 2 had arranged marriage and they are very happy. One cousin had LOVE marriage (after relation of 3 years) and they are planning for divorce, after 2 years of marriage, 4th cousin is happy in their LOVE marriage.

Life before marriage is totally different, When you date someone you will always try to impress each other with your positive things and you try to hide your negative side. This happens in both cases LOVE and ARRANGED marriage.

Remember below things for successful marriage.

Honesty, respect and commitment, person space.

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Ankit said: (Mar 18, 2017)  
Hi, friends.

In my thinking love and mutual understanding is much more important between couple rather its love marriage or arrange marriage. If this thing is there both the marriage successful.

In case of love marriage sometimes it's difficult to get the permission of parents at that time keep patience and try to get permission.

Because without parents permission you can't enjoy this marriage.

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Vaibhav said: (Mar 17, 2017)  
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage parson well understand to each other and they spend more time with each other and my opinion when some people care too much I think its called love. In arrange marriage I think two people meet only eye contact within the fraction of minutes and decide he/she perfect for me it is not true as my personal opinion. Thanks.

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Mona said: (Mar 15, 2017)  
Hi Friends.

I think in both of married life Husband and Wife should cooperative and understanding. It's necessary things for good and lovely relationship. If in the married life there is a cooperation and understanding is fulfill so definitely it makes good relation and life become a heaven for you.

I want to just suggest as a friend firstly make a friend and then start every relationship now you will see and also you feel your life is full of enjoyable with your arrange or love partner. You can share every problem very easily and relax after it.

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Rofikul Islam said: (Mar 13, 2017)  
I am full support for arrange marriage because love marriage has not existed a long time. I think after love is pre ur love.

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Shanu said: (Mar 13, 2017)  
I feel love marriage best in some cases like if their both family accepts then di family members fight if any problem occurs. Because nowadays we can't believe anyone. Knowing person before marriage is important because it's a long long relation.

Arranged marriage good but parents must think of person behavior not only about family. Love plays a very important role in life. That builds even family relations. Love has do power to change.

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Jitendra Parwate said: (Mar 13, 2017)  
According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage but it depends on person compatibility understand to each other than can be love marriage successful otherwise arrange marriage is better than Love marriage, thanks.

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Aryan Anjum said: (Mar 12, 2017)  
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because you will have to know about your partner to whom you have to spend your whole life.

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Aryan Anjum said: (Mar 12, 2017)  
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because you will have to know that how is your partner in so far as you have to spend your whole life with your partner.

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Atul Kumar said: (Mar 12, 2017)  
Marriage, a sacred knot for the rest of our life after the day it took place. The basic requirement is to have love affection and care for our partner. And if it's a love marriage, we are fulfilling the basic requirements before hand. The rest depends on the partners in action or on their bonhomie or how easily and maturely they cope with each other. So, I prefer love over arranged one.

However, there are certain difficulties for the case which I prefer and it's caste or religion in most of the cases. But if we reconsider over it then we will find that actually, these are the vices that are weakening our nation, rather humanity. So, we should support humanity and even our nation as much as possible.

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Sandip said: (Mar 11, 2017)  
Love marriage is equally successful if both families like each other and they mutually accept their children's decision.

There is nothing wrong in Love marriage. Its all about mutual understanding.

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Neha Joe said: (Mar 11, 2017)  
Hi. I believe the success of both love and arranged marriage depends on the life partners who are bound in this beautiful institution. Marriage is all about adjustments and compromises with each other. So it is better to adjust with the person you know already than adjusting with a stranger whom you have seen once or twice before marriage. So if you can't adjust with the person your parents found for you, then aren't you disappointing them? It is better to convince your parents and adjust and live with the person you love because, at the end of the day, it is only you who is affected.

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Mounica Varma said: (Mar 10, 2017)  
Hai, this is Mounica.

In my view, it does not matter what sort of marriage it is. May be it is a loved or arranged. It depends on how understand each other and how we adjust according to situations.

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Karnajit Paul said: (Mar 9, 2017)  
According to my view, I like love marriage because if we choose our own life partner with d qualities that we want dan we can live our life more happily because we can know our likings nd disliking from earlier and we could also b strong to take decisions in every field without any complications nd can live our life happily ever after. And in arrange marriage if everything does not match well dan we may need to blame our parents for that at last, which I do not want to happen. So I prefer love instead of arrange.

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Ashish Malik said: (Mar 4, 2017)  
Hi. Friend.

This is Aashish Malik.

I think arrange marriage is best because when will we do arrange marriage our parents we be happy and they always love you like you and they are always sporting you. One more thing spouse you got love married after that your partner can't love your parents so what will are you doing and can you left your partner for parents (I can't) because of parents that god who gave our an every small beautiful movement. They never think bad for ours. In that boys all love to someone but it's must because without life is nothing But this love we should do after marriage. Spouse you have to way one way go to your love and one way go to your parents you have chosen any one So What will you choose. One who that your love or second your parents. Whom you wanna left is this question. So I can't say love life is bad but after that arrange marriage.

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Simranjeet Singh Gujral said: (Feb 26, 2017)  
Hello guys,

I am Simranjeet Singh, according to our topic, I can say both marriages are good, we can't blame to any marriage, first of Fall, it depend on that two kinds of person, weather they both able to understand their feeling of each other, respect and compromise each other in any condition, if this quality is there in your life partner, you will live happily in your life without any obstacle.

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Dananjani said: (Feb 26, 2017)  
When a couple get marry in love they have comprehension about each other. So they can know what is good for us and what is bad for us, when a arrange marriage happens parents only look about the family. But love is more stronger than anything in the world. If girl and boy have a real love their family life become more success.

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Japhet Duga said: (Feb 26, 2017)  
Marriage to me is a divine institutional fulfillment which creates an open recognition for a union between a man and woman or better put, you union between two admirers. Love, on the other hand, is a burning desire to affectionately share one's emotions with the desired opposite sex. Love commitment and selflessness in union. Therefore marriage based on love is a true fulfillment of human choice for a lifelong partner.

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Veer said: (Feb 25, 2017)  
Hi guys, I am Veer.

I think arrange marriage is the best. Because our parents happiness is more important to all. It's a real happiness of our all parents. Our parents well know, which life is suited for our future. Parents happiness is our happiness. So don't hurt our parents. It's Our parents' expectation too. Some parents will accept love marriage. Because of our sons/ daughter happiness. I am not against love marriage. Marriage is not a two heart joining function, It's a two family joining function. Suppose we fall in love don't leave that girl for our parents and that same time doesn't leave our parents for that girl. No one is live without parents blessing. So love our parents.

Last think, love become to arrange marriage with parents support is the best of our lifetime.

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Nasir said: (Feb 24, 2017)  
Hello, Friend, MY Name is Nasir and I prefer arrange marriage because most of cases love marriages create.

Issues in their live. Love is actually attraction between a girl and a boy. It is very good when they in love but.

Once when they are taking a decision and married, problem starts and even self-ego is start between them. And this will lead to breaking up the relation.

In case of arrange marriage Because your parents will always choose the better partner for you, after checking person's and his family background.

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Debabrata Dandapat said: (Feb 23, 2017)  
Hi friends, I am Debabrata, and I prefer arranged marriage. Because I think that two person when they love each other they live in an imaginary world this is not real. They think an imaginary life this it not true. But after marriage all imaginary think are brakes and they came back to her own life this is real life. So then so many problems create their life.

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Rajkumar Jaiswal said: (Feb 18, 2017)  
Hello, Friend's My Self Rajkumar.

I Strongly support love marriage.

I agree with all of you because they understand each other a long time, there is no dowry system, no category and no religion, which is better for our country, because these created a lot's of problem in arrange marriage. There is no problem in Love marriage.

So I think Love marriage is better than arranging marriage.

I Ful Support Love Marriage.

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Sai Ram said: (Feb 18, 2017)  
I strictily support Arranged marriages.

In most of the cases, it has proven that love marriages create lots of issues in their life. Love is just a kind of attraction between a girl and a boy, it looks beautiful when they are in the love but once if they won't listen to their parents words and start their life by getting married, problems will start, even misunderstandings also starts and the relations ship between them weakens and this will lead to breaking up of their marriage and their even parents don't have that much chance to talk with that people.

Arranged marriage is very good when compared to love marriage why because without knowing the details of person, family background our parents don't let us into that relationship. We can have a secured life, good relationship, family, and friends. They have very good understanding between each other, love in arranged marriages increases day by day whereas in love marriages it decreases gradually and even if any problems occur our parents are there to look after that in the arranged marriages.

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Mritunjay said: (Feb 16, 2017)  
I think love marriage is better but after some time it becomes lose but in arranged marriage, it reverses. The couple is so old their love is increasing day to day.

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Swathi said: (Feb 15, 2017)  
I think arrange marriage is better because our parents can't wrong in their son/daughter they think for we they live we so don't hurt parents they give life for me we use that in right way don't do anything for lover you think you are parents.

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Samrudhi said: (Feb 14, 2017)  
In my point of view, arranged marriage is best. In arrange marriage, we have a strong support of our parents which is most important thing in our life. To make our parents sad and marry with a person who came just in our life it is not good. If our parents fully supported our decisions then it is good thing. We should respect our parent's feelings and their opinions. They give us all happiness and when time comes to give happiness to them we think about others. So do the marriage with happiness of our parents. And love marriage is good.

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Achu said: (Feb 13, 2017)  
Comparing with love marriage and arrange marriage, love marriage is the best because we can share anything to them they will support and guide us be in arrange marriage we have no option we can't share openly. This is my view.

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Patatu said: (Feb 11, 2017)  
Good morning everyone:

Today we have good topic for discussion i.e. love marriage vs arrange marriage.

In love marriage, both he and she become first friend after they are cared for each other and entered into commitment, while they are building a career.

But in arrange marriage, parents choosing a partner for her child after completion of their career and when they are settled down. After marriage, they become friends and then they entered into their life so that they are wasted there half-life for understanding each other and commitment.

So in my point of view love marriage is best!.

Good luck.

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Bigboss Dheeraj said: (Feb 11, 2017)  
In my opinion, love marrage is better than the arrange marrage marrage because in love marrage they understand both before the marrage.

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Swapnil said: (Feb 7, 2017)  
I am Swapnil.

Most of the peoples don't know what is love.

Love is trust, love is caring, bonding of each other, can't live each other.

But some peoples make love as a joke or game, they play with feelings, use and throw.

They make difference between boyfriend and arrange marriage boy, obviously, boyfriend is not well settled but arrange marriage person is fully settle and some more qualified.

Some bloody idiot girls thinking are: -- In love marriage, there are so many problems.

-- They don't know whether they are doing right or wrong.

-- In that age, they felt that is love but actually that is an infatuation.

-- At that time whatever they are doing is right but not.

-- They are married but after some days going on, they face some problems.

-- At that, they are alone no coordinating between them.

I want to ask one question to this kind of girls. Why you should fall in love and break heart. If you want to marry as per family decision then don't waste time and play with boys feelings. Nowadays some girls fad are arrange marriage because they have more expectations and they don't want adjustment. They time pass with boy and finally do arrange marriage.

I fully support to love marriage.

Life is a journey we can't predict our life so trust a person who really love you.

Girls if you support A boy in the whole journey then that lovely boy do anything for you trust me. Please try to understand.

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Sai Velpuri said: (Feb 6, 2017)  
Sai: Hi friends. In my point of view, love marriage is the best one because they understand very well before the marriage. Particularly summing of two different religions it leads to unity in society. Love marriage can be a key parameter in social development. But in arrange marriage parents choose the bride/groom by seeing the appearance, wealth, job etc. Whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage we will be happy when we vanish our ego with soft nature. Yes particularly patience is very important in marriage life. Few members said arrange marriage can bond two families but love marriage can bond two religions or different castes.

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Sravan Kumar B said: (Feb 5, 2017)  
Both Types has their Pros & Cons.

I support Arranged marriage, Marriage is not Just an individual matter, it's of a Family.

You can find partner from the Family of same Financial status.

You can find partner from same culture & type of Family.

Its is not that you are forcefully married, You have choice to choose within the scope.

Attraction or infatuation or even LOVE cannot withhold relations, it does need money, commitment.

I feel Commitment & money can be guaranteed in Arranged marriage, unlike Love marriage.

I left my parents for my Love which haunts me. Till death.

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Govind Kushwaha said: (Feb 4, 2017)  
Hello, friends, l am Govind Kushawaha.

According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In this marriage, bridge and groom will by couple together. They like each other after then they will be married. So better than arrange marriage. Thank you.

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Kirthi said: (Feb 3, 2017)  
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because boy and girl know each other. They also know their likes and dislikes. So I think that love marriage is better than arrange marriage.

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Sachin said: (Feb 1, 2017)  
Hello, friend. I am Sachin and I am telling about the love marriage and arrange marriage in love marriage boy and girl are know very well each but on the other hand in arrange marriage boy and girl not know very well each other. Arrange marriage is the bonding of two family but arrange marriage is the bonding of two family. I think love marriage is best but also acceptable by parents in love marriage may be religion and family are sad but in arrange marriage both of family and religion are very happy.

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Tinku Verma said: (Feb 1, 2017)  
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage.

Because we know each other and negative and positive things.

But We can do love marriage like arrange.

Than love marriage be successful in life.

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Shankar Patil said: (Feb 1, 2017)  
Arrange/love does not matter, thing is should have better understanding, care towards even small things & patience. If we vanish our ego by understanding each other with soft nature then it will lead to a happy life in both marriages.

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Alex said: (Feb 1, 2017)  
All have different taste and preferences. One can be in favour of something while the other can't be. And we can't force anyone to feel in the Same way that we feel. My intention is not to hurt anyone.

But if I have to choose between love and arrange I would go with the arrange one. Our parents had sacrificed their dreams in order to fulfil our small demands, so when it comes to choosing bride/groom they will choose the right one for their child. Both the families will be in touch so it'll be easier for the couple to solve their problems which come on their way. We can take the example of our own parents how they are spending their life with their beloved ones, ones who used to be stranger. We have more time to understand each other. Don't it sound interesting at first people don't know each other but as the time passes they become close and their friendship gets stronger and their trust, they care each other as a best friend rather than a lover. Isn't it beautiful? in arrange, marriage couples are guided by parents experience so there is less probability of misunderstanding and divorce.

So I prefer the arranged marriage.

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Ram said: (Jan 31, 2017)  
I am Ram.

According to my point of view, love marriage is best because they can understand each other very much and both of us know their positive and negative things very well. If arrange marriage means first we want to make friendship with that girl after that want to understand each other and then only they can enter into their life. So I preferred love marriage.

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Vigneswari A said: (Jan 31, 2017)  
Hi guys.

According to me, love marriage is THE BEST. How can you marry an unknown person & live together? Parents prefer a boy or girl by their appearance, education, job, wealth etc. My question is what about the understanding between a boy & the girl who are going to be coupled? The word BETTER HALF best suits for love marriage couples. In most arranged marriage cases couples can be happy but can be better half to each other. There is an important point everyone says as a positive thing in arrange marriage is that after marriage parents can solve the couple's problems but when you seek your parents to solve your misunderstandings rather solving among yourselves then it seems that you are not matured enough to get married. Transformation of true love into marriage is what called HEAVEN.

Hence, I strongly support love marriage.

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Sagar Gharde said: (Jan 29, 2017)  
Hi I am Sagar.

I will support for arrange marriage because I know my parents always choose best for me and for my childishness for love I never gonna heart them they are experienced and in arrange marriage perhaps some problem will come they can help me to solve for my single love I can't be selfish. In love marriage, I only think about myself but in arrange marriage I will be blessed by all my society.

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Sahil Hamza said: (Jan 28, 2017)  
Love Marriage is only a bonding of two hearts, while Arrange Marriage is the bonding of two families. For me my parents are everything, they bring me into this world, nurtured me, fulfil all my needs. How could I ditch them when they are in need? So, I would prefer to arrange marriage, which can be turned into a love marriage afterwards.

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Chandan Kumar said: (Jan 27, 2017)  
Hi friends.

I am Chandan Kumar.

In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because, in love marriage couples become friends first then gradually their friendship changes into love. In that journey they know each other better and also know about their likes and dislikes. That's way they form a hard bond which can't be broken easily.

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Venkata Sau said: (Jan 27, 2017)  
Love marriage is best but with acceptance of parents.

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Komal Sainath said: (Jan 27, 2017)  
I don't think this comparison between types of marriages really applies. It all depends on how the couple conducts themselves. How mature enough they are to handle their life together and balance it equally. It doesn't matter what the world says about you then. It doesn't matter if parents agree or not because eventually if they see that you are happy with your partner, they will be bound to step down and care only for your happiness. Love or arranged, any of the two can fail miserably but not if they respect each other and talk it out calmly in a mature way.

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Atul Kumar said: (Jan 26, 2017)  
There's a difference between true love and romantic love/attraction. Romantic love/attraction/infatuation needs sexual intimacy to stay alive. After some time this sexual intimacy starts to fade and both realise that the love is lost. They don't feel the same etc. But they have to realise that it was not loved from the very beginning. They just got attracted to each other. They always thought of being physical with each other but not realising it at the same time. Now, what's true love then? As Marilyn Monroe once said sex is opposite of love. In true love sex is secondary. You care for each other. You're not jealous. You're fighting but are never separate. You're at a comfort with each other. You know she/he will never cheat. You're always worried for your partner. So whether love marriage or arranged marriage. There has to be true love in it. Only then you can spend the rest of your life happily see after. Just like so many other love stories. But how to find true love. There's no answer to that. You meet new people and spend some time to know each other. And see if that definition of true love is there or not. Your inner voice tells you that he/she is the one. And it's not lust. So go after true love. Even if it takes time.

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Teju Mahima said: (Jan 26, 2017)  
Hi friends, myself Teju Mahima.

According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage because we can understand the person feeling and also some many love marriage are successful in life with parents permission finally love is beautiful.

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Puja said: (Jan 24, 2017)  

I think both marriages are successful, because of their trust, understanding and compromise.

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Aman Patel said: (Jan 24, 2017)  
I agree with all my dear friends, according to me, I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in case of love marriage. We know that the quality the behaviour and mentality of our life future life partner very well. We have to spend our life ourself with our life partner.

That's why I always suggest love marriage. Thank you.

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Sudhir Mangnale said: (Jan 22, 2017)  
According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in this two individual boy and girl can know very well before their marriage. It removes hindrances of religion, cast, color and creed, also dowry system. Love marriage can be a key parameter in social development. Parents support you after you tell them about real conditions. There will be best future married life.

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Gopika said: (Jan 22, 2017)  
If parents supports his/her likes and dislikes arranged marriage is good.

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Bipul Kumar said: (Jan 22, 2017)  
Hi friend, I'm Bipul Kumar it's my topic is love marriage. Everyone marriage has own their merit and demerit. In my opinion, Love Marriage is better than Arrange Marriage. Because girl and boy love can any condition spend their life and I doesn't say wrong arrange marriage. Arrange marriage is very important of human life and arrange marriage depends on Indian society. Both of you couple between mis understanding behavior.

Conclusion - Love marriage very beautiful, happiness, and its my suggestion is love marriage is very beautiful than arrange marriage.

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Kiranmai said: (Jan 21, 2017)  
I feel arranged marriages are better than love marriages. The way of loving is different but love exists in both marriages. For any relation to be successful first they need to understand each other. But parents and society mostly supports arranged marriages.

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Nive said: (Jan 20, 2017)  
Both at times fails. Even arranged marriages sometimes lead to failure. So marriage is where both boy and girl adjust themselves and lead a happy life.

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Sruthi Sree said: (Jan 18, 2017)  
Hi friends,


-- Arranged marriages are better than love marriages.
-- In arranged married life they have some understanding between them.
-- In olden Days the parents are sitting together and they talk each other family background.
-- For suppose the couple have any problem they met their parents and solve their problems and lead their life happily.
-- Before their marriage, they know the partners likes, dislikes.
-- And they have mutual understanding between them.


-- In love marriage, there are so many problems.
-- They don't know whether they are doing right or wrong.
-- In that age, they felt that is love but actually that is a infatuation.
-- At that time what ever they are doing is right but not.
-- They are married but after some days going on, they face some problems.
-- At that, they are alone no coordinating between them.


-- Many problems are in both married life. At last, I believe that arranged marriages lead more role from olden days onwards.

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M.Sruthi Sree said: (Jan 18, 2017)  
In My View, the arranged marriages are better love marriages why because for suppose in love marriages if they have any problems in their married life. They won't come to their parents. Why because their leaved their parents and they thought that they have mutual understanding between them. But in my there is no mutual understanding between them. They thought like that but actually not like that. In particular age they that love but it is absolutely wrong. In that age that is not at all love it is infatuation. But they don't know that at that time. They felt that after some years that is wrong but at that time but there is no use. Coming to arranged marriages there is a mutual understanding between the couple and their parents also. In olden days all marriages are arranged but now most of the marriages are love. At that time the parents are sitting together they talk each other their children and their traditions all are they talked each other. And then they married each other. For suppose any problem come between them they talked with their parents. So that they solved their problems like that. And the most important thing is in either arranged or love marriages the cooperation between them is very important. At last, I conclude that arranged marriages is better than love marriages.

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Tripti Rathore said: (Jan 17, 2017)  
I felt really bad after I see this vs between the two. What people meant with love marriage-marrying someone with love and knowing the person very well irrespective of parents choice. Arrange marriage-marriage with more involvement from parents.

Love never see love marriage or arrange it just happens after or before marriage. It can happen to anybody any part of your life with your partner. Never got in confusion like this that love marriage is only having love more than arrange, it is ambiguous in nature. Just depends on person to person. If a person knows how to love definitely he/she would love his/her, partner, anyway.

Life is beautiful love is beautiful. Marriage itself is a beautiful thing.

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Arya Kumar Pawan said: (Jan 17, 2017)  
I agree with all of my friends, but according to my point of view, I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In case of love marriage, we know the quality, the behavior and mentality of our future life partner very well. You have to spend your life yourself with your life partner. So we choose our life partner ourselves.

I always suggest love marriage.

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Arthapurba said: (Jan 16, 2017)  
Hi everyone. After I read all the statement before me, I realise something that actually unique.

Most of us thought that arrange married are part of tradition and women as a commodity. But have you realize something? For me arrange married is a man and a woman married by their parents because a lot of reason for example that the daughter and the son have an age that actually perfects to become a bride or groom, but there a condition that makes there can't getting married soon like they only focus on study, workaholic, still alone a. K. A doesn't have any mate before, don't wanna fall in love or never fall in love, or can't find the true match, weird, etc. That makes their parents worried, 'what if my son or daughter still life alone after I died? Who will take care him or her?' That's why arranged married is needed to be held. That's why parent seek the perfect match for their kid, start from health (there is no parent want their kid marriage with someone full of disease), wealth (its kind of materialistic, but who parents want their kid life in poverty, no one want it), and background (that's the matter after all to know the truth identity).

And love marriage. It's just love. Have no reason to be in love and to be love with or by someone.

But marriage about love is not the simple like what people always read on book or novel or by watching drama on TV.

Marriage by love is needed preparation first, start to prepare from metal until wealth.

Why mental? Bcs we know it's not a taboo again that our mate can change into another people just for less than 24 hours we living together with them. Somehow a relationship before marriage & their appearance such wonderful may be a little bit annoying but still can acceptable by us. But after marriage, we will stay with them 24 hours on 7 days without holiday that can make a new behaviour that never shows before marriage, become a huge drama section on marriage life.

And for me which one of the best?

Both of that are perfect for their own reason.

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