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Shivakumar said: (Thu, Sep 3, 2015 03:09:53 PM)    
 
Hi everyone in my point of view I can say that this discussion is about decision making of men/women in marriage weather it should be decide by himself or by his parents in both cases he/she should love partners there may be love after marriage.

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Pooja Panchal said: (Wed, Sep 2, 2015 03:47:22 PM)    
 
I think there is no life without love and smartness. So It does not matter the way of marriage. Love and arrange marriages both will be successful if there is love, care, trust, smartness and understanding between his/her relationship.

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Abhilash Rathi said: (Tue, Sep 1, 2015 08:24:31 PM)    
 
Hey hello everyone,

In my opinion there is no perfect way to have marriage. Both love and arrange marriage have its own pros and cons.

In love marriage both person know each other very well and have great mutual understanding so only they have taken decision about marring each other.

But in case of arrange marriage groom or bride is chosen by parents, family members and marring person himself because of which many problems which can be faced by couple in future life are already prevented.

So, perfect way of marriage is consensus of all members of family members along with marring couple.

Thank you.

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Reshma said: (Mon, Aug 31, 2015 10:15:32 AM)    
 
Hello everyone. ,

In my opinion it doesn't matter which marriage we are doing but the thing is how much we are understanding them and how we are loving them. We can't say all love marriages will fail and we can't blame arranged marriages also.

But what I'm thinking is after marriage we have to live with him so in arranged marriages we don't know anything about them so it some what hard to adjust and yes it is not impossible also, but in love marriages atleast there is chance to know about them so it is very easy to adjust. But in any marriage along with our opinion our parents opinion also must and should.

Anyway I'll prefer love come arranged marriage because in my opinion it is vary hard to share our life with an unknown person that's why I'll prefer love marriage and I'm not against to my parents opinion. So I'll prefer love come arranged marriage.

But remember finally it doesn't matter love marriage or arranged but the thing is how we are understanding, loving and caring them.

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Logithahasini.A said: (Fri, Aug 28, 2015 08:48:58 PM)    
 
Hi friends.

Arranged marriage is better than love marriage because we are facing more problems in our whole life. Some time we are suffering due to our bad time so at a time we need meet our parents than only we are motivated to extreme level and also got full happiness without our parents without us because of arranged marriage is best of our youth world.

Thanking you.

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The Alternate Philosopher said: (Thu, Aug 27, 2015 04:11:28 AM)    
 
In this world, no matter what path you take, whatever you do, you must always make sure you end up with profit. Competition is ever growing, and only the best can ensure a decent future while the rest would perish. You can't keep depending on luck or fate, you have to build your own future.

In that case, arranged marriage is essential. You and your partner have to be excellent, to increase the chances of giving birth to a child even better. That child should repeat and would end up with a genetically boosted prodigy, capable of surviving in the future immense competition filled world.

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Manyone said: (Wed, Aug 26, 2015 09:47:08 PM)    
 
Hi,

Every parents will dream of their child's marriage.

Just imagine if when some person come to your house and say I love your daughter. If a father can really see the love and responsibility in that person and get his girl married to the boy with her consent irrespective of any social identity blockages which are there in their mind. By understanding the reality of our social existence. How beautiful the whole family would be. Especially their own kids.

When a person raping a girl in the bus, no one does anything. But the same dumb person can hunt and kill their own daughter and their love for the sake of so called unnecessary social identities.

Parents should dare to accept the truth of life and give life to their brave children who dare to take your consent even though they know they might fail.

Even parents love children, but not as much as an identity. Talk and accept the genuine love, children need you too.

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Subham said: (Tue, Aug 25, 2015 08:29:36 PM)    
 
Hi every body I think love marriage is better than the arrange marriage. Because in love marriage the couple should know each other in past life. Then they have a good relationship in their future. Then I think love marriage is a better option than arrange marriage.

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Keerthi Kumar said: (Tue, Aug 25, 2015 06:28:06 PM)    
 
Hi friends,

According to me Love marriage is best if we chose the right person. Just because we will have ample time to understand each other feelings & lead a happy life. If you think arranged marriage is better than love marriage then love the person whom your parents choose.

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Akshay Bitake said: (Tue, Aug 25, 2015 09:50:45 AM)    
 
Hi friends,

There is no perfect formula to make a marriage work. Both arranged and love marriages have their own strengths and faults. Many of us might currently be facing issues like how to choose a spouse, choose between arranged or love marriages, resolving our own fears about marriage, wondering what to expect in a marriage etc. If you have been struggling with these or similar issues for a while, and talking to friends or family members has not been enough, you might consider talking to a counselor.

It could help you look at the issue with new eyes and develop more awareness of your own opinions and priorities. At Talk It Over, we provide individual, couple and family counselling by qualified counselors to our clients for a range of issues. Love is blind so love is important feeling in every person life.

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Mo Ahtesham Khan said: (Sun, Aug 23, 2015 12:45:45 AM)    
 
My think arrange marriage is better than love marriage because our parent likely in arrange marriage so I suppose the 80% in arrange marriage and 20% in love marriage is true.

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Imteyaz said: (Sat, Aug 22, 2015 06:19:26 PM)    
 
Hello everyone,

As per my opinion arranged marriage is better for us. As we know very well every parent wants a better future for his/her child regarding the educational, social, financial and physical terms. They are taking right decision for their children at every stages of life, Hence how can we expect that they can think unexpected for our marriage life.

Respect yours parents and their valuable decision that would helps for your life success.

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Sidhi said: (Thu, Aug 20, 2015 02:49:24 PM)    
 
Hi friends arranged marriage is better than love marriage because our parents are dreaming child's marriage when he/she is born they too are interested or anxious to find groom or bride. Especially mother who gave birth to child by suffering pain. So we should sacrifice for them. We should think from their side so we can can know how worried are they of us.

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Mustafa Khan said: (Wed, Aug 19, 2015 10:06:13 PM)    
 
Love marriage is better than arrange marriage because those relationship long time they can understand each other.

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Rohit said: (Tue, Aug 18, 2015 03:26:11 PM)    
 
According to my point of view successful marriage is nothing but the our partners very well know each other, they understand each other, he give respect to his/her feelings, and he/she share the happiness and sorrow equally. It doesn't matter way to marriage.

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Dilip said: (Mon, Aug 17, 2015 11:31:50 AM)    
 
Well there are 2 faces of every coin but, according to me love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we are very well aware of our partner, which brings better level of understanding. And to live a better life a better understanding is must.

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Arjay said: (Thu, Aug 13, 2015 05:14:55 PM)    
 
Love marriages vs arranged marriages.

People have the right to choose their partner in life and we have the freedom to do it. Yes, our parents wants us to have a brighter future but it depends on you, what's more important to you, love or pride?

Because I assumed that the one who settled this so called "arranged marriages" is the parents (or one of the parents) of the married couples and the only reason that I can think is because of pride. Am I right?

So going back to the topic, if love is more important to you then marry the person you love but if you want the fame, money or the pride, then agree to your parents if they force you to marry the person they want. For my personal opinion, choose wisely choose the person you love and at the same time, the one you think that you have a brighter future.

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Jaideep Soni said: (Thu, Aug 13, 2015 06:51:19 AM)    
 
Hi friends I am Jaideep and according to my point of view marriage is a festival for two families.

In love marriage our parents plays no role and our marriage becomes shaggy but in arrange marriage not only our parents but other family members also celebrate a lot and a happy atmosphere spreads all over like festival.

But in love marriage there is only sadness and tension all around. Something we will have to love alone only with our partner, in love marriage.

So I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

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Kuldeep Chakradhar said: (Wed, Aug 12, 2015 11:49:32 PM)    
 
Hey friends.

According to me both are good. It depends on yours mind what do you want? If you do love any girl and wants to marry her. It not wrong. But problem is this your parents agree or not. If they agree this so it is good otherwise seek another way.

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Nikita said: (Wed, Aug 12, 2015 09:38:36 PM)    
 
Every coin has two sides. Marriage is a very important decision in anyone's life. I think that love marriage is better since we know the person very well, there is love, respect, caring and also we get comfortable with that person and also there is mutual understanding between the two.

Also we know the likes and dislikes of the person. Any relationship has ups and downs. It depends on the two persons how to be together and handle and solve the situations. It all depends on the trust.

This is my opinion on marriages.

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Baba said: (Wed, Aug 12, 2015 04:58:12 PM)    
 
Love relation is a very beautiful part of life. Every person want to convert love relation into marriage. But sometime the love marriage problems are occurs in the love life. Because love marriage is not accepted by all. So many problems occurs in love marriage. There are several problems in love marriage.

But love marriage solution bureau gives you many different solutions regarding to love marriage problems The horoscope is a failed native, was constantly received the love trickery in the field of love.

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Rahul Kumar Yadav said: (Tue, Aug 11, 2015 09:45:50 AM)    
 
I would to say love marriage is better than arrange marriage because that not need of dowry in love marriage. But we know each other in love marriage. But we don't know each other in arrange marriage. So I think love marriage is better. So I believe in love marriage.

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Ragapriya said: (Mon, Aug 10, 2015 11:07:42 AM)    
 
Hi,

In my point of view, in arranged marriage, the bride and groom are chosen wisely in terms of finance, maturity level, education, and more taking their kids life into account, but, in love marriages, there are a few things which cannot be learned just with a few meetups. This would be a love for some time and when it comes to our own family, children, money, savings and others it is just best suit only when marriages are decided by our parents/elders. Their experience in their life will prevent a lot of issues basically even before the wedding. And rest of the life is how we take it forward.

But love marriage has a lot of issues even before starting our life and due to that, our settling in life, mental peace are shattered. Always, arranged marriages are loving, safe, best, super happy and overall it is a give back pride to our parents.

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Nabu said: (Sat, Aug 8, 2015 11:52:47 PM)    
 
I don't know who are believing in arranged marriage "do they don't know how to love? or are they afraid to love". It may be that they also have crush with someone else but they just want to that they are believing in Indian tradition. In arranged marriage also you need love. Actually they prove that they are unable to find their right choice. They are dependent on somebody after being established sociologically.

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Manisha said: (Sat, Aug 8, 2015 09:29:56 PM)    
 
Hi guys,

This is Manisha.

In my point of view both are correct. Because both have advantages and disadvantages. Coming to arranged marriages parents engaged either a boy or a girl to a unknown person and unknown family. It is a disadvantage. Because without knowing anything we want to adjust ourselves with that family. In love marriages there is no problem. While in arranged marriages there is one secured felling of a person that their partner should not leave them without a reason. In love marriage there is no such secured feeling.

It is not the matter that in what manner they are engaged it is the point that at what extent they are giving preference to the relation and also to their partner. These are my views.

Thank you.

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Gagandeep Sudan said: (Sat, Aug 8, 2015 06:17:56 AM)    
 
I remember an old saying "Imperfectness is the only truth". I would say if two people are ready to accept each other for a life time with all imperfectness and challenges life will throw at them then whether or not it's love or arrange marriage nothing matters, what matters two people in love and respect and care for each other till eternity and beyond.

However, last not the least when any relationship ends it's fault of two people and not because of either love marriage or arrange marriage status.

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Dinesh Kumar said: (Fri, Aug 7, 2015 11:20:19 AM)    
 
This is Dinesh.

Coming to the topic of GD, its the kind of topic where we can't support or oppose.

Love has no beginning or ending. No one can guess when they will fall in love. It is right that to choose a life partner, we have to understand him/her. But I think we should love at the right age, means after we are in a situation that we should at least be able to lead life independently. And we can also choose life partner by arranged marriages because we can love our life partner even after marriage.

Many of them specified a point that we can't marry unless we understand each other. But how many marriages at present are long lasting. So, we should understand each other not only before marriage but also in every situation after marriage, because "Life is nothing but adjustment".

Thanks for valuable opportunity.

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Lokesh Kumar Di said: (Wed, Aug 5, 2015 08:58:10 PM)    
 
Arrange marriage is an Indian traditional. According to my point of view the arrange marriage is the best way to get a good life if we will get arrange marriage it will gives to happiness to our family also we should think about our family our parents and their happiness they are always dreaming about their children's and by birth our parents are always making sacrifice to our growths then why should not do this simple thinks right I do no about your opinion guys but my opinion the above things what I'm said so we should give some sacrifice to our parents also.

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Boopathi said: (Wed, Aug 5, 2015 11:54:05 AM)    
 
Hi I am Boopathi.

In my point of view both type of marriage better to our world. And better we can do the love marriage because from that we can easily understand their feeling, needs, strength and weakness. And we can choose our best partner from the love marriage only.

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Saima Qureshi said: (Tue, Aug 4, 2015 04:10:55 PM)    
 
In this conversation majority says that a love marriages are good because a girl or boy know very well about each other before spouse and you guys are absolutely right in your point of you that a girl or boy know about each other but as a sense of a girlfriend or boyfriend not in the sense of as husband or wife as long life partners and their needs as well as sharing their life that's why after few months as long a year.

They love but after that they guys are regretting his or her self that I wished, I accepted my parents decision so, today I wasn't this position. And it is 100% true you can ask to everyone who got a love marriage and try to get his or her experiences then justify your self that's it.

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Sonu said: (Mon, Aug 3, 2015 05:46:25 PM)    
 
Hi everyone,

According to me arrange marriage is better than love marriage because, in love marriage we think that we have found the better partner but he reality comes against us is totally different. First the age matters, second the thinking of mind is totally different between the marriage couples hence lead to quarreling or divorce hence no family support.

In arrange marriage the family members decide who is and will be your better life partner, who can understand you well and in every ups and downs your partner is ready to support you and quarreling may happen but for divorce both think twice before they act. And if such things happen the family is always ready to support you.

Always support arrange marriage. Your parents must have some dreams for you so don't hurt them.

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Pravesh Maurya said: (Sun, Aug 2, 2015 12:16:36 AM)    
 
In my point of view love marriages are better then arranges marriage, because we know our society better it always wants to pull your feet. In love marriages we know our partner better, we have much time to understand her/him and one of the most bad thing that I always see in our society that is DOWRY it is one of the very very disgusting system and I totally hate this.

If we think about our culture then there is a lots of cases happen when bride had to kill there self just because of less dowry. In arranged marriage only bride faces the problem.

That is my opinion about marriages.

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Vishal said: (Sat, Aug 1, 2015 10:19:56 AM)    
 
According to my experience love marriage and arrange marriage both are good but in a love marriage some girl/boys make a fake love with his partner that's why relationship is not carried well forever.

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Ved said: (Fri, Jul 31, 2015 10:47:22 PM)    
 
I think marry should be arranged but after your love I help to happy urself and parents but never cheats your partner 70% love marriage got divorced 85% arrange marriage gets success so we should be of both type.

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Rahul said: (Fri, Jul 31, 2015 08:02:21 PM)    
 
According to me love marriage and arranged marriage both are good because its totally depend on you. We should support each another any short of problem so you can enjoy your life with your partner as well as newer should be any short of misconception to each other.

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Nitesh said: (Thu, Jul 30, 2015 11:02:17 PM)    
 
This is NItesh.

According to me arrange marriage is an Indian tradition, and world is following or adopting our culture. So I am agree with our ancestors that what they had decided for us is good for our culture or our society. We should not adopt western culture it is ruining our society.

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Biplob said: (Wed, Jul 29, 2015 08:33:28 PM)    
 
Hi,

In my point of view, love marriage is best. In love marriage we can select the best partner for our life, we can understand each other fully before get marriage. But in arrange Marriage Its difficult to select our better life partner, because after marriage only they can understand each other.

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Abhishek said: (Tue, Jul 28, 2015 07:51:23 PM)    
 
Hi all.

This is Abhishek.

According to me both Love and Arrange marriage are same. The only difference between the two is if your parents find you a girl/boy, its arrange marriage and if you find a girl/boy is love marriage. No parents should force to marry a particular guy or girl because they are not gonna live with them. Marriage must happen totally with full satisfaction of the bride/groom. This itself brings happiness in their life.

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Nisha said: (Mon, Jul 27, 2015 11:11:15 PM)    
 
In our culture marriage is not only between two soul but also between the family. But today's scenario says one should select their partner by own because it will be your decision what you select you will not blame anyone after if any misconception or any problems arise with your partner and also it help you to cope with the situation.

Marriage is the trust respect loyal caring nature understanding feel between the two souls so go with either arrange or love marriage but select with your own without any force.

But these qualities of marriage mostly comes under the love marriage so from my view love marriage is stronger in comparison with arrange as in this also many parents support.

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Chithra said: (Mon, Jul 27, 2015 04:55:20 PM)    
 
Hi friends. I am Chithra.

In my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Medically it is advisable to have a age difference of 4 to 5 ages. But people who are loving each other mostly belong to same group of age. This creates some problem in their life.

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Nishtha said: (Sun, Jul 26, 2015 04:43:29 PM)    
 
Hi everyone,

According to me, love marriages are better than arrange marriages because how can anyone be committed without knowing a person. Just one and two talks cannot define a person's character. But in love marriage you already know a person and you also know that he/she will understand you. A person who understand you, loves you, cares for you, respects you, will always be a great choice. And one cannot give his life into stranger's hand.

Thanks.

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Nuts said: (Sat, Jul 25, 2015 03:58:14 PM)    
 
Whether you love or marry, the two most important thing is that both has to adjust and compromise for various purpose of life and without these two things you can never lead a happy life. Now the only difference between love and arranged marriage is that in the first case you love someone before marrying and in second case you do the same thing after marriage as simple as that.

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Megha said: (Fri, Jul 24, 2015 10:01:42 AM)    
 
Love or arrange doesn't matter what matters is your partner should be loyal love marriages face divorces and arrange marriage face the same. So if trust and respect is not there nothing will be there.

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Venkatesh said: (Tue, Jul 21, 2015 09:27:52 PM)    
 
Hi I am Venkatesh.

According to me both love and arranged marriages are same. The main thing is to understanding between them. Because we must understand and adjustment aspects to lead our life happily. Life is a ups and downs. Without these there is no life. They have to live together for life long not for some years. So they have to understand and moves towards that and should lead their successful life.

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Vishal said: (Tue, Jul 21, 2015 06:38:53 PM)    
 
According to me both love and arrange marriage are best. It is depend upon how the mentality of the person. If the nature of person is adjustable then there will not problems.

Thanking you!

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Shruthi Shivareddy said: (Sat, Jul 18, 2015 02:48:24 PM)    
 
Hi friends,

I am Shruthi Reddy.

According to me arrange marriage is best way to get a good life. Because our parents are obviously well known about us and they will find the best bride/groom who suits their child well. When we born then the parents love us more and they sacrifice everything for our happiness and they think children happiness are their happiness.

As parents sacrifices for us its very good for us to sacrifice in this matter for them and think my parents happiness is my happiness. If some misunderstanding between relationship obviously our parents will support us and they will convince us to lead our life happily without any misunderstandings. I mean we will get 100% support from our parents so no worries to get into an arranged marriage.

If we get a love marriage its very difficult for us to lead a good life as we will not have any support from any of our family as we oppose them to get love marriage. When we are in love the boy/girl may be acting as he/she is very good and after the marriage you will get his/her reality then you may regret so much. But regretting is of no use when you have entered into a wrong life. Nobody will be there for you to support even your strength which is your parents.

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Prachi Srivastava said: (Thu, Jul 16, 2015 08:17:39 PM)    
 
Hi every one.

I am Prachi Srivastava. My opinion love marriage and arrange marriage both are important because when our known as a partner like dislike and goodness him/her. In love relationship are happy life. Love marriage converting into arranged marriage then success love marriage.

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Shraddha Pashankar said: (Tue, Jul 14, 2015 03:13:59 PM)    
 
According to my point of view, love marriage with arrange is good. Because in love marriage we make first friend then partner. But in arrange marriage this not happen mostly we have to be adjust according to partner. So love+arrange marriage is best.

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Sukanya Sasidharan said: (Sat, Jul 11, 2015 02:12:32 PM)    
 
In my opinion both love marriages and arranged marriages are equally good. Unanimously I can say that person who has not fallen in love with anyone of the persons in their life definitely has to go with arranged marriage as she or he does not has any other option and their successful life depends completely upon mutual understanding, love and care between them.

In case of a person who found his or her real love by matured thinking which means by understanding the inner traits of hers or his and loving a person with such inner traits can definitely go with love marriage and hardly it can lead to an unsuccessful life.

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Mounika said: (Fri, Jul 10, 2015 11:41:35 AM)    
 
Love marriage is better than arranged marriages. Because before getting married couple understand each other. They maintain good relationship and now a days love marriage is very popular. Love definitely happens once in a life time so don't forget to fall in love.

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Ranjith said: (Thu, Jul 9, 2015 06:03:17 PM)    
 
Hi friends,

According to my point of view the arrange marriage is the best way to get a good life if we will get arrange marriage it will gives to happiness to our family also we should think about our family our parents and their happiness they are always dreaming about their children s and by birth our parents are always making sacrifice to our growths then why should not do this simple thinks right I do no about your opinion guys but my opinion the above things what I'm said so we should give some sacrifice to our parents also.

Thank you.

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Anny said: (Sat, Jul 4, 2015 01:11:18 PM)    
 
I think that the marriage is love or arrange both will be successful if both having love, respect, care and trust with a loyal and honest heart.

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Dineshkumar said: (Tue, Jun 30, 2015 10:24:48 AM)    
 
Love marriage is always better than the arrange marriage. Because as love marriage is considered they have a very good relationship between them. They can understand each other.

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Anamika said: (Sun, Jun 28, 2015 11:11:57 AM)    
 
Any marriage is successful if you find a good partner who understands you, respects your feelings and shares your joys and sorrows equally. Happy married life depends on persons, persons happiness doesn't depend on the way of marriage.

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Altaf Ali said: (Fri, Jun 26, 2015 11:12:50 PM)    
 
Hi friends.

In my point of view both love marriage and arrange marriage are equally good. Love marriage is good on the other side and bad on other side and arrange marriage too. Important things in marriage is that first check the maturity of couples second trust each other. And have a source of income so as to have a happy married life and they like each other.

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Amit Goswami said: (Fri, Jun 26, 2015 06:16:06 PM)    
 
Hello friends,

I would like to say arrange marriage is better than love marriage. In love marriage partner have high level of exceptions of each other which they can not achieve. At this point problems are start to create & they don't know how to handle these problem.

And other side in arrange marriage our parent & elder find out the partner for his & her who are accordingly fit. We are start our new life with much responsibility.

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Mukesh Rathore said: (Fri, Jun 26, 2015 12:05:50 PM)    
 
Hi friends.

I think love marriage are better than arrange marriage because in love marriage the couples are understand be each other. Love is the best thing to know each other you know. They know each other and after understanding they choose for whole life spend with one another couple have knowledge about his or her and they understanding each other.

That's it.

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Mukesh said: (Thu, Jun 25, 2015 10:23:16 PM)    
 
I think love marriage is a better than arrange marriage because that not need of dowry in love marriage. And that's not arrange of any drama and any movement, so I believed in love marriage.

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Chamoli said: (Tue, Jun 23, 2015 03:26:19 PM)    
 
Hello Friends,

Love and arrange marriage both have pros and cons in their own way. The important thing in marriage is the understanding and the maturity level between a couple. If anyone finds a partner for themselves, they need to understand each other. They need to be confident enough to back up each other at times of need and also to respect each others thoughts.

It is not that love marriage have more no.of divorces as compared to arranged marriage, it is just that in love marriage people today get attracted to physical traits rather than inner traits. One needs to have mature outlook towards life. Change is part of our life and it needs to be implemented as demanded by situation and this is the reason that people change after marriage because they are adorned with responsibilities.

On the other hand, in arrange marriage people have acquired their maturity level and also the other person is new, so we imagine that person's behaviour to be as he will be after marriage.

In my opinion, a marriage that combines both of them is the best. A partner can be found by anyone, be it be the person or parents, they need to have understanding, they need to have matured and optimistic outlook towards life and both will live happily.

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Tiara said: (Mon, Jun 22, 2015 01:17:51 AM)    
 
In my opinion there is no rule of thumb over love or arranged marriages which ones are successful and which are not. The first three important things in a marriage (even more important than love) are 1 understanding, 2 trust, 3 compatibility. Love comes fourth then comes family support. What is important is to find the right person and it doesn't matter how you find them.

Love marriages can be total fiasco for immature rebellious individuals who would maybe turn the worst kind of infatuation into love and eventually expect to marry them. On the other hand people who have never come out of their cocoon their whole life may end up in a suffocating arranged marriage always agreeing to whatever parents and society thrust upon them.

We can never really predict precisely the future of a marriage because it is just not about finding the right person and family but subject to their partners choices and embrace how they change and grow. Here family support can be proved as a pro but individual compatibility and understanding is the most important.

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Farhan Khan said: (Sat, Jun 20, 2015 07:39:23 PM)    
 
My dear friends.

I think love marriage is better than arrange. Because in love marriage couple know about each other. They know each other and after understanding they choose for whole life spend with one another couples have knowledge about his or her and they understand each other.

They know how to handle each other in any conditions. They do truly love each other. And also they choose one another for whole life easily. After marriage they do any work with a new think.

A best matter in love marriage is a social evil dowry doesn't have any place. So I think it is better than arrange.

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Firoj said: (Sat, Jun 20, 2015 06:10:27 PM)    
 
Hello guys.

According to me love marriage is better then arrange marriage because love is the best thing to know each other you know. You have chance to know his or her nature, likes, dislikes everything whatever you want to know.

You can say everything from your any place of mind before marriage. I have saw many peoples who get there love marriage everybody means 90% out of 100% people is happy, they can face any problem easily and they can spent there life happy happy.

That's it.

Thanking you with my respect.

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Pranav said: (Thu, Jun 18, 2015 11:07:01 PM)    
 
Hi,

This is Pranav.

Coming to this topic arranged marriage vs love marriage.

To be frank there are pros and cons on both sides. Arranged marriage is a well known fact in other countries and we are taunted as well. The main reason the person you never know how can you marry him. It is full of drama most of them going with there chest thumping arranged marriage as the best because you get the family support no matter what. The other excuse one has given is by saying the girl who goes against her parents wish and get married to someone else how can you be sure about that girl. Well said as if the person who is saying is a holy cow. Everyone has there own opinion and has to be respected. And when it comes to love marriage many of them argue about the statistics and the divorce rate being higher than arranged one. Love marriage is also a type of show off. Now let me brief you about both.

Arranged marriages as I said its a full of drama like finding a horoscopes its nothing new. Our country is a god fearing and a superstitions country. The other factor is the most common phenomena i.e. Caste and even worse dowry. In India most of the women immolate themselves because of dowry harassment and one of the reasons for divorce. You will agree our nation is said to be predominantly a male dominated society. The problems still persists. Tourist who came here for study has said male considers themselves as much superior to women. Similarly those who say about arranged marriage being far better than love marriage give such sort of silly excuses their can be this kind of mindsets raising their views. Definitely welcome it but times are changing.

When it comes to backward areas things are much more terrible. Child marriages do often happen in remote places. Most of the marital rape happens in arranged marriages. The highest rate of pregnancies in this country happens at the age group of 15 to 16 years. Most of the marital rape happens here at this age group minors are being forced who is responsible. Is it a girl or the parents who decided get her married at this young age. The one who is suffering need the backing where is the backing. Many of them say families resolving it together. But the one who is ultimately suffering is the girl she can't do anything about it even if she wants to because the parents decision is the final decision. Parents may know about the issues very well but they just tend to eyewash it as they believe everything will be okay.

After few years when they realize that situation has become far worse it becomes too late. Two things happen fist is suicide out of psychological and physical torment because the family didn't object it first the situation became far terrible. Coming to the second point family do act it becomes too late because they could have done it first but they did nothing. Finally divorce happens this is why divorce happens late in arranged marriages because most of the families despite knowing do nothing about it out of fear and social stigma. Whatever the opinion may be in the end mostly the women suffers.

The basic problem is many of the family reasons being one you have married you have to live rest of your life with that same individual despite being in worst case scenario. And the other thing being imposed on them not to have second marriage or else it will be a shame. Society is naive they will never help you but will say many things about you. Especially this will be a gossiping issue. So when I discuss about this issue I say make your own decision be on your own. There is no where written in any holy book to continue your life with an individual once married and you cannot thing twice on it. When it comes to our nation we talk about moral values and blessings it sounds very good.

But is this not a reality that our country tops in ancestral rape and also where female is an issue. First thing we need to respect a women. The inferiority complex shown by male is very wrong. When it comes to love marriage I described it as a type of showoff the reason being you are not being yourself despite many years of relationship here too inferiority complex against each other one of the main reasons for divorce. The reason being after marriage you start to be real you. Behavioral pattern changes and many things come out which you have never seen before. But still if you do ask me about my opinion I will go with love marriage. In life you make choices you take decisions but its not always right. That doesn't mean you stop taking decisions. No one is perfect. When it comes to backing I say it again be on your own. True quote a family is the one who never abandons you no matter what you do you may abandon them but they will never abandon you. At time of need they will always have your back.

The most important thing about marriage is knowing each other. One of them truly pointed out well known fact when its an arranged marriage especially the boy the girl who doesn't know him just had two to three meetings will it be that easy. Just because the boy belongs to financial background ten years elder doesn't look good and from inside even the girl doesn't like him. Does the family really care. When it comes to marriage. It has to be on a trust which comes through proper understanding. You have to respect each other and should be well affectionate towards each other. When you are five to six years in relationship you probably tend to know each other very well. You go for an interview and one thing most of the HR definitely ask where do you see yourself after five years. Most of them reply as a manager.

But one basic question arises why after five years, the answer is simple they know with that kind of experience you will definitely excel yourself to leadership skills. There is no guarantee about life there is no guarantee about any products. So when it comes to marriage make your decisions wise.

Thank You.

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Durga Karanam said: (Thu, Jun 18, 2015 09:30:21 PM)    
 
Hi,

My dear friends,

Love marriages are better than arrange marriages. Because in love marriages the couples are understand be with each other. Loving is not living alone without parents. Who has the capacity to accepted by the parents then only they love. Who will agree with the above lines should love. At that time your parents are happy and you also be happy with your partner.

Thank you.

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Pramesh said: (Wed, Jun 17, 2015 09:39:27 AM)    
 
I think arranged more much better because if any problems creating between husband and wife in arranged marriage then boy family will be understand his son and girl family also understand his girl and all problems solve both family member but in love marriage any family member not interfere in his problems.

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Amit said: (Tue, Jun 16, 2015 03:04:34 PM)    
 
Everything is right, It doesn't matter whether it is your love or arranged marriage, what is important is understanding the things in a precise manner and if you think that things are not going well be open and resolve the things at mutual consent of both. However, harsh or wise is the decision accept it.

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Prashant Singh said: (Tue, Jun 16, 2015 12:40:56 PM)    
 
Love or arrange, no body can predict the success of marriage before hand. A marriage which lasts whole life due to over submissiveness of one of the spouse but has always remained full of negligence, unaffection, physical or mental torture, cheats, can't be said better than those who got divorced after marital conflict. In fact many arrange marriages in which one of the spouse is dependent over the other for financial stand and has no back up from home if marriage is broken (especially in case of women) has to compromise and suffer whole life if spouse is uncooperative, which many times ends up into any physiological or psychological diseases catching the victim.

Otherwise if we imagine a time comes in future that all the couples of arrange marriages are financially independent of each other then there would be drastic increase in divorce rate if compared to present time. Now a days, majority of divorces of arranged marriage occur of those couple in which both are financially independent. Where as in case of love marriages, most of the couples are earning or eligible to get any job so divorce rate is comparatively high. If anybody can find himself or herself companion of his or her liking, then love marriage is not the sin otherwise they can go for arrange marriage.

In arrange marriages parents only see financial background, family reputation in society, job and looks of the candidate. They can't know the psychology of candidate or their parents by meeting them couple of time or through friend and relatives. If this was the perfect criteria then every couple through arrange marriage would have been happy without any trauma or suffering. Marriage by love or arrange is only fruitful when two companions are affectionate to each other.

It is also said in Hindu Shastras and have been found in scientific researches that those couples who are in love, give birth to good, and joyful children who become constructive towards society where as children born are evil minded, unhappy, or become harmful towards society when parents are not affectionate to each other. Classical example is Mahabharata Yug where Kauravas were born when their father disliked their mother Kunti. And what was nature character of Kauravas was, most of us are aware of it.

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Nisha said: (Tue, Jun 16, 2015 11:57:06 AM)    
 
Hello guys.

Well according to me love marriage is the best option by which we can get a understanding and lovable life partner. If you are in love with someone. And he understands your desires and accept you as whatever you are. It means he will take care yourself during whole life.

On the other hand, In arrange marriage, I have seen many ups and downs in it. Most of the time it happens like you get married arranged and after some time you realize that you made blunder and starts domestic disputes.

I think we should get married that person who loves you and believe on you and most important understanding you. That's it.

Thanks.

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Shankey said: (Mon, Jun 15, 2015 03:50:58 PM)    
 
Well most of our life we live as per the society that society which never thinks about the person whose feelings and affection attached to someone whenever we do something being stopped for the sake of blush it society.

So life should be independent if any thinks love is perfect then go with it else arrange is not a problem after all families being a part of society selected someone for you so just enjoy.

But one thing I must life is precious and it should be lived up as per ones own will not by the others.

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Pradeep Chandel said: (Fri, Jun 12, 2015 11:05:37 PM)    
 
Hello guys,

I would like to add my point of view in this discussion.

According to me marriage is not only a relation between two persons but also between two families. There is many time a couple has to face many difficulties in their relation and that time they feel the support of family. Many youngsters consider their attraction as love, and despite of family protest they take the step of love marriage, by the taking of this type of step they loose the belief of their families.

After some days of marriage when their attraction is perished they start facing problem in their relation then in absence of family support discord will increase day by day and finally this become the result of failure of love marriages.

On the other hand if we do the marriage according to our family then we can skip these type of problem with the support of our family. Many of us think that I love someone and I can't imagine my life without him/her then we have an option to convert our love into arrange marriage by conveying our family.

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Arun Singh Tomar said: (Thu, Jun 11, 2015 11:03:04 PM)    
 
I think arrange marriage are much better than love marriage because if a girl who could not understand her parents who has been the integral part of her life for 20-25 years, then how she is going to survive with a man who she has been knowing for merely 3-4 years, for rest 50-60 years of life.

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Sukhdeep Singh said: (Thu, Jun 11, 2015 02:09:55 PM)    
 
Hello friends,

I 'm in support of love marriage as there is proper understanding between couple and they can sought out the problems together with complete understanding the sentiments and feelings of each other after the marriage. However, there are some expectations of family (girl's in laws) which should be fulfilled like respect and all that. If couple is able to cope up with such expectations then it's a successful marriage.

Moreover the love marriages can help to root out the evil which is pervasive in Indian community i.e. the dowry system. If both marrying beings make a decision not to follow dowry then that would be an example for others to follow and this evil will root out.

Thank you.

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Ankur said: (Tue, Jun 9, 2015 11:42:30 AM)    
 
Love or arranged both are based on empathy, responsibility, commitment, love and concern. So it's not just about initial love and attraction it needs a lot of dedication and effort to sustain a marriage. There is nothing like an ideal marriage it's all about the way you perceive your marriage. After all you should be happy with your life partner irrespective of love or arranged marriage.

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Ankur Maharaj said: (Tue, Jun 9, 2015 11:26:09 AM)    
 
Hi friends,

Arranged marriages, offer more protection and security to the women as the parents decide the family. Parents make use of their maturity and decision while choosing suitable spouses for their children. The decision of parents sometimes helps to make the right choice. But it doesn't mean that arranged marriages are ideal marriages. Even an arranged marriage there is a different sort of social pressure. Social evils like dowry, caste system, matching of horoscopes and community issues are taken at such extreme levels that people don't support arranged marriages. So whether it is love or arranged ultimately it is up to the individual to decide, which one to go for.

In case of arranged marriages the relation starts when the girl and the boy get to know each other in a couple of meeting before the final commitment. Before deciding anything the parents check the family background and financial stability. Which is also very important. Most people think that those who go for arranged marriage are not in an advantageous position, but it's not so you may get the right person for whom you have been waiting. Even in love marriages after many years of courtship people find their partner not suitable and they break up. So it is not about spending time together but successful marriage is all about understanding and respecting each other's feelings, love and concern.

It is argued that love marriages offer more independence and freedom as compared to arranged marriages since both of them know each other so the social and family pressures are less. If you know somebody before marriage it allows partners to have better respect and understanding for each other's needs and desires. In love marriages expectations are more compared to arrange marriages, as they know each other and want their partner to act in the best possible manner.

If we start comparing love and arranged marriages we will see that both have certain pros and cons. But the common factor in both the concepts is physical attraction. When a man and a woman go out on their first date physical attraction is the deciding factor. Same in case of arranged marriage where the relation starts only after the girl or boy like each other. But there are certain things, which are found in love marriages and not in arranged. Like spending time together and getting to know each other for compatibility and understanding. People may argue that even after knowing each other for so long why people get divorced after a love marriage.

It is because when two people are in love they are at their best to impress each other. They behave, they talk and they wear what the other person likes. But it is after marriage that you get to know the real person. There are couples who are still discovering each other even after twenty years of their marriage. This is the actual beauty of a relationship where everyday you discover a new thing about your partner.

Love or arranged both are based on empathy, responsibility, commitment, love and concern. So it's not just about initial love and attraction it needs a lot of dedication and effort to sustain a marriage. There is nothing like an ideal marriage it's all about the way you perceive your marriage. After all you should be happy with your life partner irrespective of love or arranged marriage.

Good luck!

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Ayesha said: (Sat, Jun 6, 2015 05:26:03 AM)    
 
Hello friends Ayesha here,

According to me is people say that marriages are made in heaven I agree but the relation should be understanding respect towards each other and main thing is both are equal in few cases husbands behave as there should be upper hand.

But I think that's wrong where is love than both are equal in arrange marriage we will get parents support and in this world their are parents who support even in love marriage if the boy is well settled and if a girl is from a good family so it depends upon people.

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Vijay said: (Fri, Jun 5, 2015 02:57:20 AM)    
 
Hi my self Vijay,

I would like to tell you according to me arranged marriage is good. Because a girls who can go against her parents. After some time if you will not fill her wishes then she can go against you.

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Gourav Madaan said: (Thu, Jun 4, 2015 12:18:16 AM)    
 
For my opinion love is same in both marriage if a couple have a good compatibility and trust their relationship goes on forever without any hurdle my support for love marriage.

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Vinay said: (Wed, Jun 3, 2015 07:52:09 PM)    
 
I think arrange marriage always better because if a person is in love someone he/she cheat them another he or she break up totally in love because in love person depend on only their partner. But in arrange marriage if person cheat his or her they can get out from the situation from family support.

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Honey said: (Wed, Jun 3, 2015 04:54:02 PM)    
 
Hello all,

By my point of view arrange marriage is better than love marriage because now days there are 70-80% divorce are of love marriage. It is good to be with strangers than our one who break the relationship.

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Laxmi said: (Wed, Jun 3, 2015 03:13:55 PM)    
 
Hello friends I'm Laxmi.

Arranged marriage is the better for love marriage. Arranged marriages is not between bride and groom its between two parents and now a days we seen lot of love marriages.

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Javid Senj said: (Tue, Jun 2, 2015 07:37:19 PM)    
 
Hey there! this is Javid and want to deliver a few sentences about teenagers and elders.

According to my experience says that arrange marriage is the best way to lead our life without much issues because a person who wants to marry make sure that he/she has been arranged financially for marriage. Both may understand better under elder's wish.

Do you know why most people consider love marriage comes to an end divorce? Because teenagers' love are just an affection and it must be common for everyone. If they get married as arranged, they may not adjust all issues that is why most love marriage come to an end in divorce.

If someone got well-settled and seek a girl then it may agreed. Therefore, love a girl until you well-settled either physically and mentally.

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Katie said: (Sat, May 30, 2015 10:09:40 PM)    
 
Hi,

In my point of view,

Love marriage or arranged marriage doesn't matter, but the matter is how the married life is, Some supports love marriage and the rest supports arranged marriage, anyways that's marriage.

So making the life pleasant or unpleasant, depends on their minds and to lead a beautiful life the couples needs to be humans the reason is that if both of them are psychologically humans then they're supposed to enjoy the married life as they are capable of understanding each other.

Thank you.

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Gaurav said: (Sat, May 30, 2015 08:28:16 AM)    
 
I think that marriage is a most important decision of the life and every aspect of the life is different for different persons so they should choose that way which is perfect and appropriate for that person who is taking this decision of their life I think it depends upon the situations.

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Rajat said: (Thu, May 28, 2015 08:14:56 PM)    
 
Hi,

In my opinion both marriages are successful if their is better understanding between partners. In my opinion if you are felt in love and you want to marry with your girl friend /boy friend so you can share your choices or feelings with your parents that you are in love with a girl/boy and you can marry his/her. If there is better understanding between you and your lover so love marriage is more successful then arrange marriage.

But in arrange marriage the partners felt in love after marriage their is a lots of times to understand with each other and felt in love. So I think love marriage is more successful than arrange marriage.

Thanks.

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Haryy said: (Thu, May 28, 2015 12:26:06 PM)    
 
Hello,

I have one question, in arrange marriage (especially for girl) boy is like a strange person whom she doesn't know and they have to engage in physical relation, is it that easy for a girl to have such relation with that person to whom she doesn't know within just couple of days.

And one arrange marriage that I have seen in my area that a very beautiful girl is married to not so good looking boy who is even 6-7 years older than that girl just because the boy is rich. Now what kind of those parents are, are they really sacrificial for their daughter?

Thank you.

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Varsha said: (Sun, May 24, 2015 05:14:07 AM)    
 
I honestly believe that love marriages are better. Yes, there are higher divorce rates, but you give your child the opportunity to make his/ her own decisions on who they want to be with for the rest of their life. You give them the chance to make choices, as you cannot be making all their choices every single second in life. If your child wants an arranged marriage that's great, but I have seen people in love when their marriage wasn't arranged.

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Subhadeep Sarkar said: (Sun, May 24, 2015 12:31:42 AM)    
 
I read some points most of the people support love marriage because today's life love marriage is just like fantasy those who are in live they shows others how proud they are proud about themselves just like Laila and Majnu.

In arrange marriage we get to know about new people their are lots of things to share and many advantages we will get just like respect, loyalty, if there is any problem both the families come and support so that marriage works arrange marriage is far better than love marriage.

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Maria said: (Fri, May 22, 2015 05:58:54 AM)    
 
I believe in love marriage but after reading some of these comments I'm really not sure, love is all good and well in the beginning but once you have issues in the relationship, you might not have the family support you need but at the same time you are with someone you know and want to be with but with arranged marriages you are stuck with someone you may not even know though you would have family support.

But now days people are also openly gay so marriage could also be complicated in it is arranged. Love marriage you marry for the right reasons, love. Arranged you often marry for money or status. Both have advantages and disadvantages.

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Aaaa said: (Thu, May 21, 2015 06:54:31 PM)    
 
I support both love and arrange marriage because at last its about the two individuals who have to spend rest of their lives together. In my opinion arrange marriages are much more challenging and risky.

Because in arrange marriages the individuals get very less time to understand each other and if after marriage they are not compatible then they have no choice to step out of it except for divorce which is not considered to be good the society.

On the other hand in love marriage you have an open choice to marry your lover or not.

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Manish Jain said: (Thu, May 21, 2015 06:02:19 PM)    
 
In an arranged marriage, first few years of the marriage are spent in knowing and understanding the person. There is a sense and demand of spending more time with each other. Since the partners have never met before, in an arranged marriage, they care more about each others needs in most cases, love marriages force the couple to stay away from family. This leaves them with no choice but to tackle their own problems.

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Vishal said: (Thu, May 21, 2015 09:26:20 AM)    
 
Its all about understanding and also before marrying anyone we should ask question to our self day. Can I stay with her/him for next 40-50 years? One last thing. Sometimes in love its difficult to arrange everything. But in arrange its not difficult to love.

Thanks.

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Oks said: (Tue, May 19, 2015 06:14:04 PM)    
 
Hello everybody,

Personally, I feel the love marriage is better than arrange marriage because the couples already love each other. They have mutual understandings about each other so there will be less arguments between them. Every time they see each other, they will feel happiness. Most of you probably had a boyfriend or girlfriend at least once and you would understand how being able to love the person you want to would feel.

Since it's based on love, there will be understanding build out of love. Even if one person made some mistakes, their partner will overlook them. The results of this are happiness and peacefulness at home.

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Tanuhya said: (Sun, May 17, 2015 11:29:54 PM)    
 
Hi friends,

In my point of view love and arranged marriages have equal importance. The only thing that everybody should think is that the belief that a couple should have on each of them. And a good understanding should be there between couple. I agree that in arranged marriages there is no enough time to understand each other but parent's are always supportive. In love marriages there is good understanding between couple.

But I don't totally agree that love marriages are better. There are failures in arranged and in love marriages. The only that everybody should think is that after marriage one should understand each other and one should have trust on their partners. That's enough to have good relationship between couple.

Finally I conclude saying that love and arranged marriages both are best the bond between couple depends on belief and understanding. So, friends think of this once.

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Siri said: (Sun, May 17, 2015 03:35:10 PM)    
 
Hi friends,

We are can't say in one word for which marriage is best. But I know both are best for me because love is same in two marriages but only difference is thinking perception and individual mind set. Any relationship is breakout means there lack of understanding. And ego is main problem for problem of love.

But one thing love marriage buildup with family support its very great love. Arranged marriage is fill up with family support when there is less problems because here fear and responsibility are more. This is my opinion.

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Shubham said: (Sat, May 16, 2015 02:46:45 PM)    
 
Hello guys,

I completely support both kind of marriage, weather love or arrange basically there are two people who are going to leave there rest of the life together helping each other, there with each other in there good times and bad times, only the basic difference is in love marriage the both love each other before marriage and in arrange marriage the start loving after marriage so what difference does it make.

In the end of the day they both have to love each other and stay together. I agree love marriage has many difficulties but in my opinion love with out difficulties is that true love. So guys keep loving nothing matter till the time you guys are happy with each other.

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Balram Gupta said: (Fri, May 15, 2015 09:44:17 AM)    
 
Hi friends,

I support both types of marriage both types their own fun in love marriage. We know each other very well and from this we can build good understanding. But arrange marriage there is one amazing thing that is the person whom we doesn't know and suddenly. She or he becomes life partner. So we have much things to share.

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Amaran said: (Thu, May 14, 2015 06:28:51 PM)    
 
Hi.

For love is not the most important because it come and go. Arrange or love marriage is same you can't run away from problem that may occur some day. But something that make the happy marriage is that how the couple face the problem together all the problem that they face will make their love grow. So what I want to say is people will make a mistake one in their life.

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Simran said: (Wed, May 13, 2015 10:08:18 PM)    
 
Hi Simran here,

I support arrange marriage as we know the bride or the groom has been selected by parents for their children after due search and check. Even if their some problem arises (in case of girls) or their is some misunderstanding between the couple the parents re always there to support the girl.

But in case of love marriage, the unhappy parents want the girl to resolve her own issues for the parents sake I think the arrange marriage is the best option.

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Prashant said: (Tue, May 12, 2015 01:36:23 PM)    
 
Hi guys,

According to me, love marriage is best cause, in love marriage couple know each other very well. And they understand each other. But all of above every marriage depend on believe, if you believe on your partner then love marriage is best. Instead all of this, in arrange marriage has short time to understand each other, and many of terms like I don't like her/him or how is she/he looking.

But love marriage doesn't mean that you marry with your partner in a wrong way like marry with your partner in temple. You have to convince your parents and change love marriage in arrange. We know that parents doesn't allow for this but one time you have to say.

So lastly I want to say that love marriage is best it's my point of view.

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Akhi said: (Fri, May 8, 2015 09:25:53 PM)    
 
Hello everyone,

Love and affection is important thing in life. It doesn't matter whether it is a love marriage or arranged marriage. Good understanding and perfect love is main theme.

Let me explain my view clearly.

In case of love marriage, its just became a fake and fault now a days. We really can't expect a true love now a days, very few are honest in love remaining all cases are just fake (love through social communications like Facebook and whats app, there are just shit) Love arranged marriages are happy marriages in my view because the couple have good understanding between themselves and they have capability to convey there parents.

In case of arranged marriage, parents wish is, that we should have great life. So they enquiry each and everyone before they confirm the marriage. In the same sense due to poor knowledge some couples ruin there life's, this is only because of there misunderstandings and mismatching of there opinions.

Finally what I WANT TO SAY IS LOVE AND UNDERSTANDING IS IMPORTANT whether it is a love or arranged.

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