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|Anu Patel said: (Sep 19, 2018)|
|Hello everyone according to me love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because marriage becomes only one time each person so its special for everyone and marriage all about depends on the two-person like dislike ambition efficiency and all that if two-person already knew each other, not facing future problem etc. So, In My point of view, the love marriage is better to thank you.|
|Ranjeet Kumar said: (Sep 17, 2018)|
|I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage because all parent ' wishs. My child follow me because no risk in our culture.|
|Anya said: (Sep 16, 2018)|
|According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage why because before marriage we know and understand with each other. But in arrange marriage our parents will bring matches and we agree to parents decision.|
|Mohit Khokhar said: (Sep 15, 2018)|
|I support the arrange marriage.
In an arranged marriage, parents do enquiry about each other family so there is a probability that the marriage will happen in the similar kind of family.
Parents or relatives will think about the future of economic conditions.
The couple most like think about both of their families so they will learn to adjust.
Family and well-wishers are still there if there happens something wrong after marriage.
|Abinash said: (Sep 15, 2018)|
In my opinion, I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we already knew each other. There is less chance of dowry during marriage and also domestic violence in the society would be less if its a love marriage. So, we should definitely encourage live marriage so that we can't get out of any trouble and enjoy the future life in safely.
|Kammy said: (Sep 3, 2018)|
|So, You basically have 3 Options - Stay as a bachelor, Find the love of your life and go for love marriage, and, finally, trust your parents in hope that they will find a best match for you i.e. going for an arranged marriage.
According to me, whether you want to become a bachelor for life, or get yourself engaged (love or arranged) - its totally upto you, upto your upbringing i.e.whether you have brought up in rural areas or urban areas (while this impacts your marriage decision a lot in terms of "Log kya Kahenge?") , what are your skills and education level, are you introvert or extrovert?, and your complete lifestyle. They really impact the MARRIAGE STUFF AT FIRST.
What else? Like everyone has said - go for love as there is better understanding or go for arranged as there are no divorce cases because your family with support you. Go for love as, since, you know your partner better, so, he will take care of you for lifetime and go for arranged, as no matter what the situation your family will always be there for you. Bla bla bla.
Hey Folks! "There are all standarized and so-old-sayings. Please come out of that". You will get love, support, care and dowry-free life from both marriages - - if your partner is good and if his family has a good modern thinking. I love doing "Love Marriages" because I love doing it and I have no particular reason of doing it. But, but, I am of the other opinion here as well. In case, I don't find a partner of my choice (who is good by heart, appearance doesn't matter too much | who will respect me and my parents | who will support me through every walks of life, IN RETURN, I ALSO HAVE TO MAKE SURE OF THIS). "Always try to have a Give and Take Attitude in your life", I will go for "Arranged Marriage" - who knows whom you were unable to find can be found by your Parents itself! May be, your parents can help you find the person of your type, taste and choice as they know you well so, they may know, who can fit you well.
So, In one aspect, Marriages are just matter of "CHOICES" and on other aspect, they are all about "THINKING" which you pals have provided in the discussion box.
Rest, there is no halt to this discussion of MARRIAGE. It will be complex as you will make it. So, KEEP IT SIMPLE, STUPID.
|Kartikey Verma said: (Sep 2, 2018)|
|In my opinion, both the topics stand equally right. In today's scenario, in arrange marriage, parents give both people ample of time to understand each other before taking a final call. This helps them to understand each other in a better way. While talking about love marriage, the understanding betwen the two persons is very high as they are together for a longer period of time and knows each other in a beter way in every aspect of life.
In my opinion, dealing with the today's scenario where the parents are supportive there is not much difference between the love and arrange marriage because in both of them you get the time to know your partner.
|Praveen said: (Aug 26, 2018)|
|Hello, my dear friends.
In my point of view, it's very difficult to say which is really better among love marriage and arranged marriage. Both or like head and tails. Sometimes love marriage is better as same time arranged also better in some cases. But marriage is most important part of every ones life. I ll try to explain with an example as we know very well arranged marriages are can be done by parents without knowing their children opinion, we can say its a family forced marriage, but they ll care about them before and after marriage also. They will protect and save them in difficult situations even. But the persons who are going to marry thy don't know each others much. They may face problems after getting married. If come to love marriage both are comfortable with each other because they knew their behavior, tastes, decision making ufcourse everything. So they can live very easily but they might be eliminated by the families in some cases. At that time they might not have much protection. One more point I want to mention as we know now a days the persons who got love married they are also taking divorce then what is the meaning of love and where is the love. Where she/ he wants to go ? This we can see in arranged marriage also. The family save them. Finally, I'm concluding this topic it's difficult to say but I can stick with arranged marriage only. Thank you.
|Anand said: (Aug 24, 2018)|
|The gap what we observe between love marriage and arrange marriage can be minimised if parents starts seeing love marriage not in negative sense. They should think what is more important the community or their children. Simultaneously if a person decides to go against their parents they must think million times because no-one can be more important for a person than his/her mom and dad. There could be various issues of different people with their parents but they are always most respected.|
|Malini said: (Aug 22, 2018)|
According to me, love marriage is everyone's dream but all dreams can't happen in reality.
So family support is most necessary if not.
Then anyone should do arrange marriage because nothing is bigger than our family which is our base.
Our parents do so many sacrifices for us and.
Unfortunately, they are demanding for arrange marriage and they are against of love marriage then only do whatever our family want because our love marriage feelings are too small in front of their love, care, financial support and most importantly so many sacrifices.
Finally, love after or before marriage does not matter but understanding, care and love make a happy married life forever.
|Shivanjali Gupta said: (Aug 10, 2018)|
I would say that I support love marriages because we have been taught that marriage is not a game and everyone has to take it seriously. Love marriage allows a person to know their partners in a better way that is likes, dislikes, comfort zones etc. Which can help them in taking their bond to an upper level. Love is the only guardian of every relationship and in arrange marriages love doesn't happens by choice but because their is no other choice. If you say that there can be problems between parents and children because love marriage then let me tell you sir that problems may occur in arrange marriages too. And what matters is that one should have the right to choose their own life partners because one has to spend one's whole life with that person.
|Manisha said: (Aug 6, 2018)|
|Hi myself Manisha.
My perception is candid about both ways of marriage. If you succeed in your life and you have the best relationship with someone, spontaneously your family will agree easily in case of love marriage. And arranged marriage would be your option. Thank you.
|Rashi said: (Aug 5, 2018)|
|In my opinion, the arrange marriages are much better than love marriages because first of all it is according to the consent and happiness of both the families. Secondly, parents are children's best wishes. So they decide the best for their children. And life is much more sorted in arrange marriage than a love marriage.|
|Ashutosh Singh Kushwaha said: (Aug 5, 2018)|
Good morning all my dear friends.
Myself Ashutosh Singh Kushwaha.
Today topic is Love Marriage Vs Arrange Marriage.
I don't have much knowledge about life, especially marriage life. In my opinion, LOVE MARRIAGE IS BETTER THAN ARRANGE MARRIAGE. Because in love marriage we know everything about our partners before marriage. Generally, both the partners know each other very well in terms of likes, dislikes, ambition etc and they already idea about their future. In love marriage, the most important factor is that destroy the dowry system.
LOVE IS GIFT OF GOD.
That's why I supported LOVE MARRIAGE.
|Priya Manchanda said: (Aug 4, 2018)|
|Arrange marriage is better than because my parents are allowed them and make me happy but love marriage is not successful because love is after the marriage but not in before the marriage many expectations is available in after the marriage in love marriage so better is arrange marriage.|
|Ashish Pandey said: (Aug 3, 2018)|
Good evening everyone.
Finally, I think that the love marriage is better than the arranged marriage, because it has many benefits such and the understanding between the two couples'', and the happiness and peace in the family and I want to send the message to all the youth to be careful in their love, and their emotions especially in marriage.
|Monalisa said: (Jul 27, 2018)|
Good Evening to one and all present here!
Of course, I agree to all of you who support Love Marriages and their reasons but I would like to support Arranged Marriages because, In love marriages, some of the parents may not agree them getting married. So as a result Parents and their children are getting separated and there arises alot of disputes between them. Therefore when a problem comes between the couple who gets married will directly apply to divorce due to the lack of good suggestions, knowledge and support from their parents. Whereas in arranged marriages, Parents will be supportive, together with us in all difficult situations. Parents and children are both happy because parents see all the 7 generations of each other's (bride and bridegroom) side are perfect or not and get their children married to not have any disputes/problems and lead a happy life after they get married.
|Randi said: (Jul 26, 2018)|
Talking about love marriage generally both the partners know each other very well in terms of likes, dislikes, ambitions etc and they have already had an idea about their future. Both the partners had already opened to each other and also they have evaluated their relationship before marriage how long can they take up. All these things are not possible in arrange marriage. Some of the times in arrange marriage one agrees to get married because of their parents. Love marriage gives you the freedom to decide the path of your life. So love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
|Shubham said: (Jul 26, 2018)|
In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because love marrige people are powerful in their boning and releactionship bettween them. I think we do arrange marrige for our parents and society.
|Adarsh Awasthi said: (Jul 24, 2018)|
In my opinion, love marriage is much better than arrange marriage because in love marriage there is a mutual understanding between a couple & they always cooperate with each other & they share everything between themselves while another side if one person is elder & 2nd one is younger then sometimes they feel shy to say anything & they don't share any matter.
|Sakshi said: (Jul 20, 2018)|
|According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage if our parents support us. Because in love marriage we know most of the things (likes and dislikes) about our partner. But in the arrange marriage there may be the pressure from our parents and we can suffer from it in our future.|
|Pinkal Patel said: (Jul 18, 2018)|
|I like love marriage.
Because love marriage people are Powerful in their bonding and relationship between them is very strong no miss understanding between them. Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we know everything about our partner. Her/his behaviour, character, taste choices everything. But in arrange marriage by arranging one meeting how could they decide that they made for each other. I think that we do arrange a marriage for our parents and society. But in love marriage, we can satisfy ourselves. That's why I support love marriage.
|Akash Raj Verma said: (Jul 17, 2018)|
According to me, arrange marriage is more beneficial than the love marriage because nowadays both are become a very similar thing whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage etc.
If I would talk about this generation somehow our parents begin to understand our feeling what we really want in future husband/wife, so that is very nice to us.
They finding a people according to us even they allow to meet them and and left some time to understand them, officially they meet numbers of time throughout the day since they know themselves for the first time, till the marriage, eventually they fully understand each other and finally they have fallen in love and got married to each other so far as my thinking its best way to getting arrange marriage despite given pain and hurt (love marriage) to anyone especially parent.
|Chandini said: (Jul 16, 2018)|
|Some people like love marriages because there have understanding before the marriage so then prefer love.
But arrange marriages have understandings after the marriages.
Our 4 to 5 years love may lose our childhood relationships in some causes so I prepare to support arrange marriages.
|Ayush Anand said: (Jul 15, 2018)|
|Arrange marriage is far better than love marriage because there is respect between husband and wife and they.
Clear their disputes calmly whereas in love marriage some time parents are not happy and without the happiness of parent the marriage is like hollow gift. And any dis[utes leads to divorce or act as a fire in breaking.
Thread of love between parents.
|Deepu said: (Jul 14, 2018)|
|Hi everyone, what I feel is love marriage is far better than arranged because, I have seen most of the people in relationships who are actually happy even after years because during the relationship they get to know about each other, their tastes and they have a proper understanding between them. It's not that in arranged marriages there is no love and understanding at all but what I think is once we get married we don't have any other option to do if we come to know that the person is not right for us. For whole life, we need to tolerate him even if we don't want to. There are some cases like even if we like a person and want to share an entire life with him parents doesn't support and it finally leads to an arranged marriage. Love or arranged marriage whatever it is we need to love a person as a human being as he is going to be a partner forever and I'm not telling that it's destiny but it's our choice towards everything and need to stay happy because it's our life. We don't need to give any apologies to anyone.|
|Kanika Rajkhowa said: (Jul 12, 2018)|
|Hi, my name is Kanika. I respect what all of your point of view but what my point of view is, that I prefer love marriage because in love marriage people understand each other so much what they want or not etc but it doesn't mean I criticize arrange marriage or I am against of arrange marriage because all people have their own choice and own opinions so I think no one can take bad decisions for themselves. That's all.
|Rajendra Rathore said: (Jul 11, 2018)|
|In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we know everything about our partners. Like her hobby. Choice, Behaviour. Everything but in arrange marriage by arranging in one meeting how could they say that they made for each other.|
|Vipul said: (Jul 8, 2018)|
|In Love Marriage, more expectation than the surprise of love after Marriage, whereas in Arranged Marriage there is always a surprise of love with less expectation. In Love Marriage, most of the times Love ends and Marriage life (expectation) starts whereas in Arranged Marriage, Marriage life (expectation) ends and the surprise of Love starts.|
|Hariom Kaushik said: (Jul 8, 2018)|
|In my opinion, love marriage is prefer to arrange marriage because in love marriage couples understand each other in long time but in arrange marriage couples understand each other in one meeting. So, I support love marriage. Thanks.|
|Lekhika said: (Jul 3, 2018)|
|In my opinion, love marriage and arrange marriage is just a name, both are nothing without understanding, where the understanding met the word of marriage is successful. So, it is all about understanding love & care for each other. When the couple has all these things then they live a happy life, whether it is arranged or love marriage.|
|Afina Shamsudeen said: (Jun 28, 2018)|
I'm a girl of just 18 years old. I don't have much knowledge about life, especially marriage life. I think it depends on the nature of the people who are getting married, the longevity and prosperity of their married life. But I have an opinion of life is not a mere fantasy, I mean it gives pleasure for us to read an ideal true relationship in stories. But life is not a theory to be stated theoretically, rather it has a lot to do in practice. So I do believe in love, true love after marriage. It believes it will give the very same pleasure that a good love affair can give and it's so comforting to have a relationship after marriage with the partner.
Thanks. Have a nice time.
|Priyanka said: (Jun 21, 2018)|
|In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we know everything about our partner. Her/his behaviour, character, taste choices everything. But in arrange marriage by arranging one meeting how could they decide that they made for each other. I think that we do arrange a marriage for our parents and society. But in love marriage, we can satisfy ourselves. That's why I support love marriage.|
|Taj Randhawa said: (Jun 15, 2018)|
|In my opinion, I prefer the arrange marriage then love marriage because this is not the marriage of 2 souls, this is to make a relationship between the 2 families. All we know, that our family choose the best for us. We can also do after the marriage our family gives us so much time to understand the feeling of each other. All we know, love is another name of compromise. To understand the feelings and lead a happily life with your partner and family. Also lead a respectable life.
|Rai said: (Jun 15, 2018)|
|In my opinion arrange marriage is better than love marriage because before marraige in love no commitments and no more argues both thinking are we are true lovers and we can solve anything in our life problems but after marraige in loved both are initial stage very happy and life goes to heaven but some year passed they have trouble in life snd so much of worries. So arrange marraige is better.|
|Tripti said: (Jun 12, 2018)|
|In love marriage, you have that assurance before marriage itself that life partner will understand and support one doesn't need to adjust compromise much. Main is one knows the nature but observation regarding choosing the partner should be correct since it's your decision.
In arrange marriage, there is a fear of how will be my partner. One definitely need to take time while choosing your life partners so definitely I will prefer love marriage.
|Ajay Chaudhary said: (Jun 9, 2018)|
|In my point of view, arrange marriage is preferred to love marriage in arrange marriage couples are respected by their socity and their family sport them strongly in present time every family gives enough time to their children for understanding to each other before marriage and parents always choose the best for their children and there is no quarrel among the members in arrange marriage and further generation of couples are nicely affected by arranging marriage after all I want to say that according to Indian civilization arrange marriage more acceptable than love marriage and arrange marriage follows a systematic order so arrange marriage preferable to love marriage.|
|Sachin Kr Chauhan said: (Jun 7, 2018)|
|In my opinion, lover marriage is good for those who understand each other very much and they have decided to live with each other till their last breath because I found some people who are getting married without their parent's consent and. After some year they will divorce to each other so. If you do not understand your partner from stem to stern then you should not have go through lover marriage. So, In my opinion, love marriage or arrange marriage is nothing but it is a combination of two families.|
|Rahmath Pasha said: (Jun 6, 2018)|
|In my view, both have different criteria.
Love marriage gives satisfaction to both partners but not to his family because they understand feelings and emotions each other before marriage. If conflicts occur in future they angry for sometime after they try to convince each other and finally get connected each other.
Arranged marriage gives satisfaction to entire family but it needs a time for the couple to understand each other. In the arranged marriage, if they don't like each other then they blame to their parents first and they have to make compromise each other otherwise it leads to a divorce way.
In a rare case, lovers break their relationship.
I give four stars to an arranged marriage and five stars to love marriage.
|Pritam G said: (Jun 2, 2018)|
|According to me, love Marriage and arrange marriage both are equally depend on the understanding I don't know more about on both matter but recently I saw two couples married with love relationship and I shocked no one understands to each other no any bounding in both couple who always beating and diputing to each other and both have equally ego and no one can hear the word of each other. No family members are involved in the husband wife matter because it was the love Marriage. So we can say that if you want to take support of year family fast of all you have to do the arrange Marriage. It is not only arrange Marriage it is mutual combination of two families.|
|Gaurav Thakur said: (Jun 2, 2018)|
|According to my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage if our parents are happy with this. But if they do not happy, we can not do so. Because if we want respect from others, we should obey our parents. In arrange marriage we take some time to understand the feelings of each other. Where in love marriage we understand feelings of each other very well. But we can not blamed others if our relationship get broken, and we are disrespected from all people. This is the main reason that arrange marriage is better than love marriage.|
|Roshan Pal said: (Jun 1, 2018)|
|Hello friends, I am telling about love marriage, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because love marriage in the know of each other and I can tell her about things. You enjoy complete freedom in love marriage. You understand each other hobbies and choice so I would like to love marriage is better to arrange marriage.
|Rachel said: (May 31, 2018)|
|Here people are discussing getting respect through arrange marriage, but in my point of view, we should change our mentality. Intercast marriage is fine and loving some other person is fine too. Having sex before marriage is fine. By arrange marriage you only can earn respect for narrow-minded people. Bored minded people will respect you by your behaviour and work. There nothing wrong in love marriage. Noone has to decide rule for other. No book has written such rules. Just live for life by your rules. And if people don't respect the girl you love they should not mean to you anymore.|
|Prashant Kumar said: (May 28, 2018)|
|In my point of view, arranged marriage is better than love marriage because in an arranged marriage, after marriage couple respect each other and try to know about life partner what is his/her desire. This marriage is also done by the support of parents and family members and blessings also.
|Altaf Ahmed said: (May 28, 2018)|
|I think love marriage is better but with the satisfaction of parents because they are our GOD. We can't go against them. If they are accepting your love then should go for love marriage otherwise shouldn't. Parents think always good for you.|
|Mudasir said: (May 27, 2018)|
|According to my thinking, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in arrange marriage we don't know the couple's biography means what she has been done in her life is she was loving someone or not I think everybody is being or has been passed in this situation and in this way what has been done by her in her relation e, g romance in bad type so friends be cautious about arrange marriage. In love marriage, we know our partner's biography because we know very firstly.|
|Mudasir Rasool said: (May 27, 2018)|
|According to my thinking; love marriage is very better than arrange marriage because in arrange marriage we don't know the couple' s biography means what she has been done in her life is she loved someone or loving someone nobody in this world who never passes in this situation everybody in his /her life loves someone and this way we can't say what has been done in his or her relation eg romance. So guys are cautious about arrange marriage I think love marriage is very nice because we know our lover's biography what has been done with her.|
|Jitendra Kumawat said: (May 23, 2018)|
According to my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage both couples know each other very well before marriage.
And in love marriage, the person does not regret his decisions because both couples are decided partner after knowing each other.
But arranged marriage has a different meaning.
In arrange marriage, both couple's parents decide a better match for him.
And both couples didn't know each other.
If their hobbies, Choice and behaviour is not matched then came a difficulty between both families and couples and finally it' lead to divorce.
So according to me, I like love marriage.
|Shubham Raj said: (May 16, 2018)|
|My dear friends.
As far as, I know arrange marriage is very best because if you arrange marriage than everyone will give respect in your society and your parents will live with you forever but if you love marriage everyone will abuse you and it may that your parents will not to talk with you. Ok tell me one think friends what is necessary for you respect or love. If you want respect than you should obey your parents and you should arrange marriage.
|Ankit Pandey said: (May 11, 2018)|
|Hello friends. In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage both the partners know very well and they don't face any problems to adjust them. In love marriage both partner are living well without any problem and parents live well. Incase arrange marriage is good but in arrange marriage both partners don't know each other and face many problems in their life. In arrange marriage parents are accepted this type of marriage and help any condition in life. But love marriage doesn't such as.|
|Md. Sahil said: (May 5, 2018)|
Dear friends according to my point of view, both marriages are having their different point of views related to criteria.
In arrange marriages take more time in understanding each other. But in love marriages, the lovely couple understand each other and they know their partner's taste.
|Pari Roy said: (May 3, 2018)|
|I prefer love marriage because in love marriage both the partners protect and support each other and understand each others feelings. While in arranged marriage women are always under pressure, she has to be obedient she cannot show her feelings her duty is to make everybody happy, expectations are very high from her.|
|G.R.Reddy said: (May 1, 2018)|
According to my point of view, both are good because no one person having same selection or taste, they prefer what they want.
But both love and arranged marriages are having problems.
1. In love marriage both genders are facing the main problem is to convince their parents.
2. Incase both families agree with their love they are very lucky couple.
3. Love marriage makes a strong bond between the couples because of they already know their feelings, behaviour, character everything, so they adjusted in their life.
4. They both families are don't know each other because they also having good effection.
1. A strong family support having these marriages.
2. In Arranged marriages mostly both are don't know their behaviour etc. So initially they get shy.
3. In case any Quarles among these people they families is combined and alive the problems.
Finally, both marriages are equal but in love, they mingle small point of time in arranged marriages they take a long time.
|Monalisa Sarangi said: (May 1, 2018)|
|I don't have any idea of love marriage because mine is arranged but I can say from my experience that in arrange marriage you didn't get enough time to know each other (my opinion) and after that adjusting yourself with someone whom you don't know properly and his parents is just a very hard task. Well, in this case, you have only one plus point that you could gain the support of your parents. And also it is not necessary that you will develop a love for your partner in arrange marriages (my opinion) I seriously want to know others views as I don't have any ideas on love marriage!|
|Mad said: (Apr 20, 2018)|
|Hi viewers, right now confusion is based on love or arrange marriage. My thought is that the arrange marriage is the best one because love is just an attraction towards a boy or a girl. But arrange marriage creates a best surroundings around the individual couples.
Love marriage makes us to sacrifices all things including parents also. But in arrange marriage no sacrifices, no violence, only peace full life. In some cases love marriage is also made into arrange marriage because of good families relationship. But 90% of love marriage is failed. So please think of it.
|Himanshu Maurya said: (Apr 18, 2018)|
|In my opinion, love marriages are better than arranged marriages because in love marriages, both the partners know each other before the marriage so they understand each other more as compared to arranged marriage couples.
As in love marriages, couples know each other from many times so they don't face trouble for adjusting with their partners as compared to arranged marriage couples.
|Shubham Thakur said: (Apr 16, 2018)|
According to me, love marriages is better than arranged marriages Because, In love marriages, both of boys and girls understand each other very well. In love marriages, the most important factor is that destroy the dowry system.
|Bergis Tabasum said: (Apr 16, 2018)|
|Arranged marriage is better than love marriage because arranged marriage people are Powerful in their bonding and relationship between them and family members are very strong no miss understanding between them.|
|Shubham Rangdal said: (Apr 16, 2018)|
According to my opinion, love marriage and arrange marriage are right from their own place.
But I am also in a relationship, Soo that I prefer for Love marriage because it connects two peoples Hurtly and they both also feels like that they made for each other. Mutual understanding between this two peoples is better. They can live a happier life because of mutual understanding.
And nowadays, Arrange marriage is a definition of "Compromise between two peoples".
|Suresh said: (Apr 15, 2018)|
|According to me, love marriages are better than arranged marriages because in love marriages girl and boy they are able to understand with each other before to the marriage. In arranged marriages, Just by arranging one meeting looking to each other and parents will decides that they are made for each other it is absolute nonsense just because of looks they can't decide that they are made for each other and after marriage if their tastes, preferences, habits are different then its difficult live with each other so it will lead to the divorce.|
|Bhuvi said: (Apr 14, 2018)|
|According to me, I prefer love marriage because in that, only the two hearts get connected. Marriage is the next step of each and everyone life. In arrange marriage, the couples cannot know each other and they can't understand each other. Only love marriage couples can easily understand their feelings and character.|
|Avinash said: (Apr 13, 2018)|
|According to my opinion, love marriage & arrange marriage are both rights on their own place because the only difference is that EGO is the main difference in both the relationships and partners behaviour & character depend on the person.|
|Parmod said: (Apr 9, 2018)|
|I think the love marriage is good because we know each other and there is no dowry system.|
|Abel said: (Apr 7, 2018)|
|According to me, arranged marriage is overall better than love marriage. Because in arranged marriage people get enough time to express their feeling with a partner. But in love marriage, they really don't understand each other. Most of the love in male and female occurs in their school time or college time. In that time, they have only seen few qualities of the people whom they love.|
|Jai said: (Mar 28, 2018)|
|In my opinion, arrange marriage is better then love because nowadays if any family choose boy for there girl and girl for there boy they give us time for understand to each other if we satisfied with each thought, like, dislike and any quality what are you want on there partner then they do marriage of couple. Nowadays no any family want their boy or girl live any trouble in future.|
|Riskey said: (Mar 22, 2018)|
|According to me, arrange marriage is best because it is done by the happiness and blessings of Parents and family members.|
|Akshay said: (Mar 18, 2018)|
|Hello, everyone, today's topic is arrange marriage VS love marriage. According to me, I think arrange marriage and love marriage right to own places. In those situations there are some kinds of merits or demerits depend upon the personality and character of partner. Ego are present in both cases, couple get divorced.|
|Nilesh said: (Mar 15, 2018)|
|In my point of views, I believe it doesn't matter what type we have chosen. How we handle this knot (marriage) that's a matter a lot. Whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage Trust, affection, equality and understanding this all things should be there with no ego only can ones marriage life lead a successful way.
For love marriage:
When we have right to leave with our parents simultaneously we have right to find our partner.
We know our partner very well and know each possibility of him or her.
Social Evils like dowry can eradicate with a mutual understanding of couples.
For Arrange marriage:
Parents, the striking feature of arrange marriage is we have supported from parents and family.
Our parents also had gone through with arranging a marriage so they have more experience, haven't they? So we should trust them.
In love marriage, we already know our partner so if in future any quarrel will raise it definitely lead to divorce whereas in arrange marriage partner try to understand and manage the situation calmly while keeping their ego aside because they are totally new they try to make comfort zone and understand each other.
Every side has merits and demerits. It depends on partners that how they tackle situations.
|Farah Liyas said: (Mar 14, 2018)|
|In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because nowadays the most of failure by this love marriage. I hope when we take love marriage, most of the conversations there before marriage. It's not too fair and already knew what's like and dislikes and weak points too but if we take arrange marriage fully support of family and try to understand each other and find to know what's like or dislikes of partner and more and more. That time automatically loves will mix and be a great understandable life.
|Anurag Mishra said: (Mar 12, 2018)|
|Look, it is very simple to explain which is correct and which is incorrect.
Like many people said that one is good and other is bad.
But people. Don't you think? Arrange marriage is like a GAMBLING?
Leave the things like gifts, dowry, feast and all these. Only think about those two who will have to marry. Because we are human. And emotion and trust are the Main aspects on which relationship build.
As I said arrange marriage is like a GAMBLING. In which people just go to live with those to whom they do not know before. If you get a good girl or a good boy. Then it's your good luck in gambling or otherwise, it's a very bad luck.
And I think. You are taking the decision about your whole life. So how can you play the game of gambling for your whole life?
If you get your bad luck in marriage then in whole life you will feel that you need to adjust.
And I can say adjusting to the situation is okay. BUT. It is not okay with a person with whom you will live your whole life.
That's why. People you just go to live a happy life. Not go for adjustment. And that's why the Supreme Court has also made the law to provide protection to the human. Because it better knows love marriage is fairer than arrange.
|Prasath said: (Mar 12, 2018)|
love marriage is better than arrange marriage because the love marriage couples are very known and understanding to each one characteristic so easy to solve any problems at every situation. But the arrange marriage is only satisfied our parents and family, not for yours. I think I don't like unknown person enter in my life.
|Arindam said: (Mar 10, 2018)|
|In my opinion, LOVE MARRIAGE is always better than ARRANGE MARRIAGE. Marriage means union of two heart along with union of two families. In love marriage both the boy and girl are known to each other. They understand each other. So they can easily live together. On the other hand in Arrange marriage the boy and the girl are not known to each other before marriage. As a result there is chance of being misunderstanding between them and it is about negligible in love marriage.|
|Monjit said: (Mar 9, 2018)|
|As per my opinion, its very contradictory to compare between love marriage and arrange marriage, although whatever it may be it should be at a mature level and without any force either in terms of your family as well as from your partner. Respecting both to whom you are going to stay for the rest and to whom you admire. If in some part of life you are going to lost this co-relation, in both senses both the marriage will fail. So taking decision maturely helped a person achieve his goal.|
|Priyadharshini said: (Mar 9, 2018)|
|Love marriage is good when a girl or boy select their partner with maturity. Here the maturity means real love and not the infatuation. Nowadays school students and teen agers are in love. But it does not last long. So, they can take a decision only when they are standing on their own leg. While they love they should accept both the negative and the positive qualities of the partner which helps in avoiding the future misunderstandings.
Arrange marriage is not advisable because parents will show the bride or groom with the perception that their daughter or son will be happy. But the reality is they may not know each other before the marriage. Their expectations in the character may not be matched. In future, it may lead to divorce.
|Abc said: (Mar 9, 2018)|
|As you know both marriages is good no one is bad it totally depends on your mentality, according to me both marriages are important but in love marriage, its depend on your personality but I know many love marriage is a success but many families are supportive. Those family who is educated and understand your feelings then support you.
In arrange marriage, both couples are unknown to each other but your family is very happy. After marriage, they are in love and its love is very deep and it does not depend on your personality it's your nature.
So guys in both situations, marriage is good and its own place their own importance.
|Sana Nqhid said: (Mar 5, 2018)|
|According to my view, arranged marriage is better than love marriages. Because if you get love marriage no one support you like your family & relatives. And your parents never bless you.
And if you get arrange marriage everyone supports you and your family blessing you.
If you have your parents bless your marriage will be successful.
And if haven't your parents bless your marriage will be never success.
I think so that arrange marriage is really best marriage.
|Neha Dagar said: (Mar 3, 2018)|
|I think love marriage is good. There is a stigma in mind of people that love marriage. It can't last long as in parents and relatives opinion. They even don't to listen to anything about their child decisions. They all need approval from society and emotional drama society. But I personally society begin with ourselves. If both boy and girl are happy then parents are happy.
Society is always evil who will pull the legs from behind if you are from standardised family basically in Haryana people are orthodox and I must say they have 2 faces. It is up to parents that they want their child happy or not if they really listen to society. They can't be happy and their child would not be happy in future.
Let go to arrange marriage I really want to tell people who are in favour of arranged marriage these people also have two faces one according to family and other for his personal life. Basically, boy who do arrange marriage has extra affair they were attached to their previous lover. Then what is the meaning of this useless marriage when you are not true to your partner.
I really disagree with a partner who cheats their other soul mate.
|Kajal Mittal said: (Mar 3, 2018)|
|In my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage, love marriage is not good because nowadays we are seeing so many love failure problems so the way of understanding is doesn't possible to each other. So arrange marriage is best.|
|Prarthna Sahu said: (Mar 1, 2018)|
|In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in that case, we know the person, his good habits and his bad habits, we understand each other that's why we are together in a relationship.
In love marriage, we know the person before marriage, so we know that person is good for us or not.
|Bhanusree said: (Mar 1, 2018)|
|We can't say that love marriage is good or bad and arrange marriage is good or bad. It's only depends on couples who were going to lead their life with partnership. Love or arrange marriage anything it may be understanding is the main thing and have to be very confident in their relationship.|
|Anand said: (Feb 26, 2018)|
|I agree with my friend Raghu, most of the parents don't accept their marriage proposal because in girl's side they would expect that the boy should have a good job and home so that he would make their daughter throughout her life, whereas in boy's side they would expect some dowry or gift from the girl's side, if their parents don't fulfil this requirement, this results them called as villains.|
|Athira said: (Feb 26, 2018)|
|Good morning guys.
Love vs arrange marriage according to me, just realise it guys a simple answer is a span of love before marriage is love marriage and span of after marriage is arrange marriage. So nothing wrong whether its love or arrange but only thing matters is true love only then your life will be successful and meaningful marriage life. If you love someone its wrong only if you don't marry them. Be confident and strive 100 % for your relationship with patience and prudence for your right choice.
|Raghu said: (Feb 24, 2018)|
Nowadays love marriages become often, you can see it in anywhere. My opinion is love marriages are not false but without intimating to their parents so many couples are getting married and they were thinking that their parents are villain for their love. Arranged marriages are better compared to love marriages as because so many love marriages are not accepted by their parents. So start loving your wife after the arranged marriage.
|Manu said: (Feb 21, 2018)|
Our topic for discussion is love vs arranged marriage.
Firstly I want to start the discussion by saying that one cannot judge the best out of these two marriages as it depends upon the understanding, trust between the couple itself and nothing to do with the type of marriage.
In both the marriages pros and cons are there. Coming to love marriage;
1. There will be good understanding b/w the couple as they know each other pretty well.
2. As they know each others likes n dislikes they will behave accordingly.
3. Planned love lives will result in great future.
4. Equality prevails in their relationship.
1. As they are mostly independent they take their own decisions quickly without considering parents and relatives like taking divorse.
2. Youngsters these days are confusing attraction to love and facing prblms after marriage.
Arrange marriage advantages.
1. Parents once for twice before coming up with a match.
2. They verify completely about the family background so that there shouldn't be any prblm in future.
3. The couple will think of their families and try to understand instead of going for divorce for silly reasons.
1. If there is no much tym to interact before marriage one cannot understand each other properly and will face prblms to share anything after marriage with their partners.
2. Whether love will blossom b/w each other or not will be a big question.
At last, I would like to conclude saying marriage is a life long commitment so decision should be in ones hand.
|Kumari Muskan said: (Feb 21, 2018)|
And have a charming morning to you all.
According to my poiint Of veiw arrange marriage is preferable to love marrige, because after arrange marriage couple get so many love, support, gifts. Etc. For enjoying their life.
But after love marrige they don't get such things.
|Zeba said: (Feb 19, 2018)|
|I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage because even though we know the person in love marriage But it is not always successful. Whatever the parents think for us is best for us so we should have trust in our parents and in reality.|
|Pathan said: (Feb 15, 2018)|
|In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage Because we spend more time with each other, And we understand each other thing.
And we can say it depends on both of them (husband & wife) how they prepare their own lives.
|Ruchita Sonkusare said: (Feb 14, 2018)|
I think love is in the air only till you get married, after marriage no matter whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage.
Love marriage is not appreciated in a traditional society like India because in India it's not the marriage of 2 souls not a marriage of 2 families.
Love is nothing but chemical locha, in other words, its infatuation only.
In today's world, people fall in love numerous times in life. With so many incidents of falling in love, at last, only mind can help you to make a right choice.
Those who listen to their mind, go for arrange marriage, if you start taking decisions from the heart then life will be a mess.
|Malika said: (Feb 13, 2018)|
|I think LOVE MARRIAGE is better than ARRANGED MARRIAGE because in my point of view marriage means a union between man and woman. Union means the action of joining together. Love means a strong feeling of affection, that affection makes both perfect. In love marriage there is a mutual understanding between the couple, That makes them happy.
Not only LOVE MARRIAGES Even ARRANGED MARRIAGES have the same affection but some of them are not adjusted, rest of the remaining are so HAPPY.
I am not discouraged ARRANGED MARRIAGES and I am also not Encouraged LOVE MARRIAGES because LOVE happens at any time to anyone so don't judge that marriage is so good that type of marriage is bad.
|Ashish said: (Feb 12, 2018)|
|No one can say that love marriage or the arranged marriage is the best. It is totally dependent on wife and husband if the boy doesn't understand his wife and the girl also doesn't understand the feelings of her husband what he/she wants and what you are giving then their life will be like a hell and on the other hand if they understand each other then their life will be like a heaven.
In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.
Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.
And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.
|Sonam said: (Feb 8, 2018)|
|According to me, Both marriages are best if their relationship has understanding, love and trust. Because this all depends upon these things. Without these things, no one marriage will succeed. Thank you.|
|Manmohan Yadav said: (Feb 7, 2018)|
|I am in favour of love marriage because in love marriage girl and boy knows each other very well. They aware about the behaviour, nature, and test of each other. They have better understanding they can solve issues related to their life easily, they can share their emotion with each without any hesitation. But in arrange both girl and boy are stranger. They do not know about each other nature due to this they face so many difficulties which may cause divorce. In most of arrange, marriage girls suffer a lot due to dowry issues.|
|Deepa Karwa said: (Feb 7, 2018)|
My self Deepa karwa.
In my views, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we accept each other with our own wish. After marriage, we don't have regret that we did not get chance to choose our life partner. But our decision should be mature enough. After knowing completely one should take a decision. I think then Love marriage will stable and the couple will live life more happily compared to the couple who are in arranged marriage. Thank you.
|Jyoti said: (Feb 6, 2018)|
|I am in favour of love marriage because in love marriage girl and boy knows each other very well. They aware about the behaviour, nature, and test of each other. They have better understanding they can solve issues related to their life easily, they can share their emotion with each without any hesitation. But in arrange both girl and boy are stranger. They do not know about each other nature due to this they face so many difficulties which may cause divorce. In most of arrange, marriage girls suffer a lot due to dowry issues.|
|Supriya said: (Feb 6, 2018)|
In my point of view, arranged marriage is better than love marriage. They can love after their marriage also. In their life problems will be less as compared to love marriages. Anyway if they get any problem their relatives and family members can solve. In love marriages also problem can be solved if they get parents support. But nowadays we are all seeing that most of the parents were not encouraging love marriages. What I said it because of my observation around my surrounding. But I'm not criticizing anyone. Thank you very much.
|Naveena D said: (Feb 4, 2018)|
|Good Morning Friends.
According to me, Love and Arranged marriage is better. Both of the equal role-playing in our life. Arranged marriage is better than love marriage. Because after marriage they are fall in love. They are start their life with the security. This is most beautiful life.
Love marriage is good one. Because they are fall in love. Those days is most happiest days. But their parents will never agree their love. Then so many problems will be create. So love marriage will be affect both of their family.
So arranged marriage is better. Because both of the family members will be happy. And other thing is love and arranged marriage is also better. If their family agree their love. Then it will be better.
|Ashish Kumar Vishwakarma said: (Feb 3, 2018)|
According to my opinion, both marriages are better. But make a good relationship and trust with our life partner.
I said marriage is depended upon a mutual understanding of both girl and boy.
Love marriage is the result of own decisions but arrange marriage is the result of our relative decisions.
|Urman Khan said: (Feb 2, 2018)|
Myself Urman Khan.
According to my opinion, love marriage vs arrange marriage.
Both love marriage and arrange marriage are good but love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love, the couple knows their qualities, behaviour, and emotion very well.
And they can spend the perfect time of life and they can solve our problems.
But, in arrange marriage couple don't know to each other when you're family select a girl for you.
And after marriage, they find that their behaviour, emotion, thinking doesn't match that cause of divorce.
Love is life.
|Aakanksha Bansal said: (Feb 1, 2018)|
|In my opinion,
Both love marriage and arrange marriage are at par. Ultimately the decision should be given in the hands of the guy and the girl as it solely depends upon their lives.
Earlier divorce cases were mostly heard as a result of love marriage but nowadays divorce filing has increased alot for arrange marriages as well.
This should not be anybody else decision but the couple and if parents are with them. Then Cheers!
|Kiran Mourya said: (Jan 25, 2018)|
|According to me, both are better love marriage as well as arrange marriage because In love marriage boy and girl know each other. They have a mutual understanding to one another about their nature, behaviour etc.
But in arrange marriage couple do not know one another they are completely stranger. In arrange marriage, relatives are involved to set up their marriage.
Marriage is depended upon a mutual understanding of both boy and girl.
Mutual understanding and relation with one other make successful their marriage.
Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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