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|Chaitra Havanur said: (Jun 22, 2016)|
|Of course arranged marriage is better than love marriage because in case of love marriage only you are looking toward your career & your life by looking toward the beauty of girl or the boy its just attraction by looking towards any person its not a love actually real love is carrying & protecting your heart from every problem but this if you are arranged marriage there will be respect from the society.|
|Neha said: (Jun 20, 2016)|
|Most of the people in this discussion are saying love marriage is better because you already know each other. I will tell you one thing most of the time around 70% - 80% cases, people will pretend in front of you (faking themselves). You will see their actual face after love marriage. SO 60% - 70% end up in divorce in 5 - 10 year. If you are extremely lucky your love marriage may be successful.
But in arrange marriage this possibility is very less (approx 20%) , If you know the family of boy/girl very well. In Arrange marriage also divorce is there but it is very less around 10%, that is because of dowry problem and illegal physical relationship with others after marriage.
So request to all doesn't make India like western countries. Do not support Love marriages.
LOVE MARRIAGE : 80% failure in India.
Attraction is not LOVE. It's temporary once it is over it will end up in divorce in max cases.
ARRANGED MARRIAGE: 10 - 20% failure in India (we can overcome this by 10% by removing dowry system).
The rule for the successful marriage: trust, honesty, respect (usually these things are not present in LOVE marriage).
Because in love marriage (90% cases) people concentrate on physical appearance than people Nature or attitude.
|Uday Kumar said: (Jun 20, 2016)|
|Hai, I am Uday from MPK I have to vote for love marriages because love marriage life is very happy because both are understanding very well and clearly talking about any matter once you do love marriage without blesses of our parents they are very angry with you and your life partner but after some days the matter is closed and which is not liking by your parents but after that they also feel happy whether your wife is looking after very well them. The second want is your life is moulded how to you want. My suggestion to all my dear love marriage couples please doesn't neglect our gods (parents) after you get married on your own choice (Love Marriage).|
|Rohan Kale said: (Jun 20, 2016)|
|Firstly I can say love marriage is good if both families agreed upon. But I really hate those people who used to run away from home. In the movie, it always seems too good to watch them. But in the movie, they only used to concentrate on the couple who ran away from home. But they never used to give the whole description of what is their family is suffering from. People who ran away from home are just selfish people and they just care about them only but they really don't consider their families. Families must keep first in mind. They only see themselves over two families. They destroy the life of families. Family always made the good decision for their children. They used to give them a good education but this bastard doesn't care about what their family has done for them. What situation are families are going from? It always bad from them. They always want to connect their relative. But this person ran away from family make them disgust and keep their mind away from the relative. They loose their connection from the relative. They loose people nearby because of the just selfishness of two people. Yes, selfishness of two people. A lot of people can not be selfish over these two people.|
|Priyanka said: (Jun 20, 2016)|
|Most of the people in this discussion are saying love marriage is better than arrange because you know the person from 1-2 year or maybe more. Do you confirm that the person is real and not pretending in front of you (facing himself/herself)? This usually happens in case of Love relationship.
Actual thing will come in front of you after marriage. Hence, divorce is increasing in love marriages.
And due to relation (people called love) before marriage, arrange marriage are also getting affected. Hence, the divorce case is increasing in arrange marriage also.
Conclusion : I prefer Arrange marriage over love marriage but marriage should not be outside.
One's relative circle, otherwise you can not check the background of boy and girl.
The mentality of Modern Generation: I am in the relationship with boy/girl from last 2 years and this is more important for me (It's my life) than your parents with whom you are staying from last 25 years.
Arrange Marriage divorce case are increasing: Because of physical relation with 1-2 people before marriage, modern Indian generation called love. So please don't destroy the life of another person with arrange marriage if you have relation before marriage.
So the failure of arrange marriage (70% (relationship before marriage with other guy/girl) + 30% Due to dowry) , we can do something to remove dowry, But very difficult to change the mind of the bunch of idiots (modern generation).
If this keep happening you can after 10 years there will be 40%-50 % divorce cases in India like US, Europe, UK.
|Tanmay Ojha said: (Jun 18, 2016)|
For this topic, my opinion is that arranged marriage is comparatively better than love marriage. I am just talking about the love marriage is being done in this modern technical era that couples used to meet in any occasion or on social websites (like facebook) and starts talking about each others like and dislikes and after a while they understand that we are committed to each other and finally come to marriage and used do same. In this whole process, they don't have exercised to meet one another's parents or family so that they will be happy if they know that we are happy for marrying to each other because ultimately they have to live with their family after marriage.
And in arranged marriage first of all individuals, families meet each other and then decided that this will be batter for us not and then after individual used to meet and finally both decides that we should make relation with them or not. In arrange marriage person and their family have no any problem regarding marriage because they have met before and came to an agreement that the family going to merge in my family is not only matched to us they are also happy to make relation with us. In this case families of both individuals will be happy for a long time than the case of love marriage. So I prefer arranged marriage instead of love marriage.
|Shweta Sankhla said: (Jun 18, 2016)|
|Understanding is very important in every successful marriage. So no matter marriage is love or arrange because if you have understanding, trust and care for your partner you will set an example of successful marriage. But in today boy and the girl thought attraction is love and they will get marry without their parent's permissions. And this is the reason of increasing no.of divorces and even fact shows 90% of love marriages is not successful because they live in dream life they don't live in real life.|
|Meenakshi said: (Jun 17, 2016)|
|Marriage is some kind of social setup which promotes an individual to fulfill their lively hood.
In my point of view, I don't think that (love marriage is best) -or- (arranged marriage is best). Both the married life will lead to happy, only with the mutual understanding.
BUT, the love imposed from our parents is much more precious than the love imposed from the other persons. So, parents should be given the first priority in both the LOVE and ARRANGED marriages.
|Priyanka Singh said: (Jun 16, 2016)|
I had love marriage and we are a loving couple even after 9yrs of marriage. I have so many friends of mine and my husband who had arranged marriages - some of the girls living pathetic lives n always cribbing about in-laws, husband. Some of them are even separated and there seems none with the same compatibility as we have. As a child too I could not understand how someone can take such a big gamble as arranged marriage.
Everyone here is talking about love marriage as something where people marry against their parents, running away from home. Like filmy love marriages. I do not support teenager falling in love n making marriage decisions. However, one should be independent before making any decision about marriage. Teenage infatuation is not love. It's when two people understand each other and develop trust and compatibility with each other. Marriage is a decision which should only take place when people are independent. I see no reason why parents should oppose such a marriage though our society is so narrow-minded (blinded by caste, religion) that love marriages are less acceptable in India. There is no comparison of love n arrange marriage. Love marriage is the best thing that can happen to a couple.
People talking about arrange marriage being ties of two families also know very well that no two families can develop a compatibility. Two families cannot save a marriage if couples do not have trust and love.
Regarding fewer divorces in arrange marriages, I do not have any statistics though I feel divorce should not be the only criteria. Are the ppl who are living with each other happy? Mostly arrange marriage occurs in families who value society n what ppl would say more than their own happiness and they keep leading miserable life too instead of getting divorces simply because they do not have the courage to get rid of what society expects from them. Ultimately decision is yours, if you are independent and have confidence that you can make a good decision, go ahead with the person you trust and love. If you fear that who would help me if my husband and in-laws are not compatible. Go ahead with arrange marriage pretending that people would actually help you in anything. The only one who can help you is your husband/wife and no in-laws, society and even I have seen parents to not help kids get rid of their miserable marriages just to keep their reputation - so choose wisely. Choose your partner wisely. Love is not blind. Love is strong.
|Abi said: (Jun 15, 2016)|
I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because our family is very very important in our life. Our parents are the best decision makers in our life. So I think arrange marriage is the best.
|Mounika Rayaprolu said: (Jun 15, 2016)|
|Hello, everyone. I feel glad to discuss on this topic. Because I feel this is one of the important aspects that everyone should get awareness. Hope the discussion gives a fruitful result. Love binds two hearts. While marriage binds two families. For every healthy relation, there should be trust and understanding. In a relation like marriage, this is one of the crucial aspects. But nowadays we have to feel pity that this trust and understanding between couples are vanishing. So that is the main reason why conflicts are arising. Both love marriages and arranged marriages are a part of this. Neither of it is exceptional. The person trust, love, understanding is important for healthy and happy relation whether it is in love marriage or arranged marriage. At last, there is a great saying that "marriages are made in heaven". But we are responsible for making our relation either heaven or hell.|
|Akaya said: (Jun 15, 2016)|
|Either love marriage or arranged marriage you should know the person with whom you are going to spent rest of your life. From childhood, we would have told that not to take things from the stranger so why we would have to live with strangers. I am not against the arranged marriage but in arranged marriage couples didn't get much time to know each other so the mutual understanding between them is not as good as those couples who already in a relationship. At some level love, marriage is always better than arranged marriage.|
|Priyanka J Nair said: (Jun 13, 2016)|
While I don't see fault in any kind of marriage, I am more in favor of arranged marriage only because I feel marrying someone is giving them the trust of always being there for them no matter what. In a society with advanced technology, we no longer have the need to adjust, we can get anything we want, anywhere at any cost, thus making it difficult for us to adapt or change our lifestyle. Arranged marriage is a proposal based on two families who are identical in their social and financial standards, religious beliefs and general decision makings. Thus, it is easier for the couple to adapt because they both hail from the same environment, making it easier for them to understand each other better.
However, it is wrong to judge people by the choices they make or based on the statistical report. While everyone talks about the marriages that don't work, nobody bothers to mention about the marriages that do work and are an ideal example.
|Nikil said: (Jun 12, 2016)|
|Love marriage is the best compare to arrange marriage because in love marriage after understanding each other they can get married but in arrange marriage it's two people come into the relationship without knowing anything about each other and many misunderstandings will be there. So I prefer love marriage is the best.|
|Priya said: (Jun 11, 2016)|
|There is No such thing called Love, It is just an attraction between boy and girl (It's a natural addiction and treating it like an addiction can help you).
Marriage can only be successful when you trust your life partner, honest with your partner, respect your partner, care for your life partner. This is Real love (Very difficult to get such life partner).
So I believe in Arrange marriage with the proper background check of boy and girl because western culture has destroyed the actual meaning of marriage. Nowadays 30-40 % boys and girls in India has physical relation before marriage, they think this is love and we should get married. When their parents are not ready, they will marry to some guy according to their parents choice and they will destroy his/her life too.
I am totally against love marriage (Western culture) , because of this divorce cases are increasing day by day in India. In US and Europe, 99% marriages are Love marriage and 60% of people takes divorce after 5-10 year of marriage, because they come to know that physical relation is not the only thing in marriage. India is also following their path.
Nowadays if you ask any boy or girl they will say love marriage is best because we are the modern generation. First, Ask them do you know the meaning of love (Physical attraction is not to love).
But we need to remove dowry system from our society for successful arrange marriage.
|Raghu said: (Jun 11, 2016)|
|According to me love marriage better than arrange marriage but I think no problem understanding each other and love is the purpose of our life but arranged marriage make a bargain of one family to another family that proves that the dealing of life. We see come to maximum cases divorce. Who is behind it ? That is answer arrange marriage because unknown person.|
|Sani Chauhan said: (Jun 8, 2016)|
|I think love marriage is better because in the way we have any tension of dowry.|
|Sri said: (Jun 7, 2016)|
In my opinion, both arranged marriages and love marriages are more preferable, because both have their own respect in their own place.
In arranged marriages there is a main role for two families, such that better understanding and good commitment of the two families make the relationship of the two people very strong. Arranged marriages are made not only for connecting two people, they are for connecting two families in two one family.
In love marriages, there is the main role for two persons. Trust and love of the two persons make their relationship very strong. Love marriages make the life of two people very beautiful. If these love marriages are accepted by the parents they became love com arranged marriages, they are the best marriages forever.
|Saumya Agrawal said: (Jun 1, 2016)|
|According to me, both marriages are equally on own places but arrange marriage is better than love marriage because to love marriage, we can't find socially support and parents support. We need too many and lot of support teenager period so it's dangerous.
My point of view. Mainly focused on dowry system. Critically in arrange marriage but didn't found in love marriage.
|Adarsh Kumar said: (May 27, 2016)|
|Love marriage is better than arrange marriage I believe in love marriage because from the marriage girls when we move the new family, new home then there is must one person who knows. And also in love marriage, the person has enough time to understand each other.
As we in arrange marriage yet dowry system but love marriage only love and trust with go.
I think love marriage is better.
|Aruna Bisht said: (May 25, 2016)|
|Both marriages have some merits and demerits (faults) and it depends on both how they manage their relationship. For every relationship if there is anything that is trust, belief, and understanding.|
|Shubham said: (May 23, 2016)|
In India especially in rural areas people do not mingle with people with another caste. And hence, not many people look out for inter-caste marriages.
But for a united India, we need to break these barriers named caste and religion.
And therefore, I believe inter-caste marriages are a good way through.
And therefore I would prefer love marriages.
|K.V. Prasad said: (May 19, 2016)|
|In my opinion failure and success in the relationship has nothing to do with the Love or Arranged Marriages. But the Love marriages have an asset in changing the age-old headache of dowry system which is a big burden to the girl's parents Love marriage can put an end the discretion of caste creed religion and the business of wedding. The Bridegroom practically gets sold for a price and keeps demanding more ransom it almost looks like a big profitable business. In which the girl pays a big sum and gifts to go and do bondage in the bridegroom's house. And it is done in the presence of all the elderly people. Isn't it funny?|
|Pushparaj said: (May 18, 2016)|
|I agree with this above example's, But in my point of view both marriage's are good because nowadays we are not giving surety that love marriage is going well & arrange are going well, Every person has a right to take decisions but it is also better that first we take to our parent's and tell them about our current status so sure they will give you a better tips because nowadays all parents know what's going on in their children life, So come back to the point. In my view, today children are getting into relationship in the age 14-15 and they don't know anything about life so it's a parent's responsibility that they make a good atmosphere in home, But in many cases parents admonish their children that you have to marry with this girl only no it's wrong, Your children have life too so please don't interrupt in their life but give suggestion that they are going wrong or right.|
|Shifali said: (May 18, 2016)|
I believe love marriages are better than arrange marriage because from the perspective of girls when we move to a new family, new home, new life, new atmosphere then there must be one person who knows you, who could understand you, who could make you comfortable in his family. If we go with arrange marriage, then, nobody will be there who could understand you. Everything will be new for that girl which could create disputes among the family members, expectations of the girls as well as the family members.
|Gaurav Singh said: (May 13, 2016)|
|I think we should not favour any one because both marriages is best to depend on upon their understanding between each other of the couple.|
|Ijazshmed.And Saba. said: (May 10, 2016)|
|Both are good marriages. One thing is that there should be a good understanding in the couples there should be a respect trust believe. And there should be family support of the couples. Lack of these things causes failure.|
|Anshul said: (May 7, 2016)|
|I am most supportable to love marriage but not completely against arrange too. I think in love marriages the person has enough time to understand each other and starts a good Relation with him or she. And on other side in arrange marriage in which there is not enough time to understand each other.
Some people says in love marriages the children goes against to his/her parents, but in my opinion when we love someone and want to marry, then discuss to your parents.
About your partner, they will always support you in your decision.
On other hand in Arrange marriage as still dowry system is present in India some people are pressurized for money. Scenarios says that 95% arrange.
Marriages a follow dowry system, but in love marriages only love and trust is the base of relationship, there is no space for dowry related problems there.
So both are good in their own place. This is little bit hard to choose the best between both.
|Ashu said: (May 6, 2016)|
|As both the marriages have their own advantages but in my opinion arranged marriage is better because the parents know their child much better the child himself or herself. They know everything about our choice and our level of comfort and they search the partner of their child according to that only. Every parent chooses the world's best partner for their child. And from scenarios also it is proved that 90% of the arranged marriages are successful, which is very big scenario than love marriage. Love happens after marriage also with much better understanding and trust which can't be fake in your whole life. So it is really best and safe to marry a person which ones parents choose for their child.|
|Edirisinghe said: (May 6, 2016)|
Both marriages are good! but I think, arranged marriages are better than love marriages! because our parents decide that who's the best partner to us!so we can have a good lifestyle! on the other hand, love marriages also good,if they having continuously it!!! both marriages depend on couples behavior!!!
|Ganesh said: (May 5, 2016)|
|The difference of love marriage & arrangement noting is the difference how much trust depend on upon couple between more & more patient to know about us & make some time to know about your relation on a family & themselves.|
|Unknown said: (Apr 26, 2016)|
|Love marriage and arrange marriage both are better. It's all depends on the partners. In love marriage if the partners have best bonding and understanding then they are together along. In arrange marriage if partners have supportive family and parents then its always helpful for them. Arrange marriage, it's all about trust each other and it grows day by day.|
|Aditya Shrivastava said: (Apr 22, 2016)|
|Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages:
My point of love marriage and arranged marriage both are good depend on your own respect and values. But my side love marriage is better than arranged marriage. Actually, I feel every time love is memorable things because arranged marriage is the business of two family is not good things of our society. So I respect and support love marriage.
|Aditi said: (Apr 22, 2016)|
|Most of the peoples viewing that love marriage are better. Why? because we get to choose our partner ourselves so the relationship will bloom.
My question is, Did we choose our parents? Or our brothers or sisters? Or did we opt to be born in India? NO.
But we still love them all. By arranged marriage we don't mean those Hindi movies sort of marriages where the person is forced to marry the person of his/her parents choice. The person has a say in arranged marriages as well. Agreed it takes the time to understand a person but sometimes even a lifetime is not enough to understand a person. It depends on a bit on your luck. But at the end what matters the most is your adaptability and how you make the correct decision in that short span of time by judging the person.
|Jsonu said: (Apr 22, 2016)|
|Marriage is an agreement and commitment on between each other. Everyone must be given the respect to the marriage. Marriage is a beautiful thing in our life. But marriages are dividing two types that are love and arrange. Love marriage is very bright in someone's life and also arrange marriage. If you are loving someone if in case he get married to you after he changed. Then if you have confidence you have changed his behaviour with your love. Then you are good partner to your partner and that is the power of love.
Arrange marriage means love creates between each other after marriage that is also called love but difference between two marriages.
Marriage is a good thing forever because it gives the new relation to us.
Don't misuse this any problem and everything is solved with your patient and livingness. Because you are the creator of your marriage life.
|Shital Srivastava said: (Apr 19, 2016)|
Today's topic is love marriage vs arranged marriage.
According to me, they both have their own value in their own respect. Now a day love marriage is common in our society. In love marriage trust is the biggest thing. Couples make sure that they have trust in each other. They know each other they have to understand. In every couple'life, they have ups nd down. So I think love marriage is much better than arrange marriage.
|Unknown said: (Apr 16, 2016)|
Love marriages are beneficial because people are able to bond together. However nowadays marriage is all about money, some people even pretend to love another just so they can get their hands on gold. This is result causes countless grief and hurt to their partner. Arranged marriages are also beneficial because the partner is supported by family and your parents. If you personally dislike them you can say no but in my opinion arranged marriages are better as you can gain true trust and love from each other.
|Hariom said: (Apr 15, 2016)|
|In arrange marriage love is grown as you go along.
In love marriage it goes away as you go along.
|Hariom said: (Apr 15, 2016)|
|I think Arrange marriage is much better the love marriage. Because in love marriage people keep a lot of expectation from an own partner. Mostly they don't get what they want. Because in today scenario definition of love is changed. Now definition of love = money.
So in arrange marriage at least you will not keep much of expectation from your partner. So it will not hurt you,
And my personal opinion is that ARRANGE MARRIAGE IS MUCH BETTER THAN LOVE MARRIAGE IN EVERY WAY.
|Randeep Deb Sharma said: (Apr 7, 2016)|
|Marriage is a god gift it is believed that relationship is made by god only he is only the creator he only decides who will be your life partner not we, we just obey his decision what he decide that is why many peoples fall in love because god does not make him/her for him/her. So according to me leave it to the god. Love marriage is also better but arranges marriage is far better than love marriage because families are concerned. But if your find one is excepted by your parents then it is better than both because it is said as love arrange marriage.
|Akash said: (Apr 3, 2016)|
|I feel love marriage is the best thing because arranged marriage in the business of two family is not a good thing. So I support love marriage.|
|Himanshu Sharma said: (Apr 2, 2016)|
|In my opinion, love marriage is much far better than arranged.
Citation: In love marriage couples knew each and everything about their partner after that they are ready to marry each other but the understanding in live marriage should be very strong without it the marriage will not turn in the way of happy ending.
|Ankit Kumar said: (Mar 29, 2016)|
|Do whatever you want & like whether its a arranged or love marriage. They both have merits & demerits of itself. But things you gonna nagged in last is its personal suitability with yourself. Do think about yourself first then about society, family's etc. Do Take time to think about the most important decision of your life which will play multiplayer mode in future. Thank you!|
|Satheesh said: (Mar 27, 2016)|
|In my experience, love marriage is a beautiful feeling between boy and girl and they mingle life long forever. Love is not a word its crazy moments in life. My view is who loves you more definitely you will give the whole life to her. My way is Love + arrange is great.|
|Manoj said: (Mar 27, 2016)|
|As per my opinion both arranged and love marriages are good.
Come to love marriages the boy and girl knew each other and also know about those +'s and -'s. After that, they will be ready to marry.
In Arranged marriages the boy and girl know about each other after the marriage still they have a good understanding, support, trust on one on other.
Finally, there is no matter in love or arranged marriage main is a commitment among boy and girl. They will lead the happy life.
|Himabindu said: (Mar 25, 2016)|
My point of view I think to arrange marriage and love marriage both of same. In arrange marriage after marriage couples are sacrifices, adjustment, sad and happiness and even love marriage also.
When standing relationship both of them mutual understanding is required.
|Mohd Sajid said: (Mar 23, 2016)|
|Love marriage and arranged marriage both are right as like people we don't know what will happen after marriage thus we should do that as our family want to.|
|Chudhary Zohaib Aksar said: (Mar 20, 2016)|
|I have decided that Arrange Marriage is better than Love marriage. Because I heard love is blind. So I think two blind peoples can't take a right decision.|
|Mohit Garg said: (Mar 19, 2016)|
Love Marriages:- Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other. The couple is responsible for its choice and onus of the blame in future lies on the couple only and nobody else. The couple is aware of each other's likes and dislikes. Therefore, they will get along well. The couple can eradicate social evils like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.
Arranged Marriages:- Arranged Marriage is not a contract between two individuals alone, but a confluence of two families. Two families involved in arranging marriages know each other very well and are compatible with each other. Because there are more people involved in arranging the marriage, the conflict between the couple will be effectively resolved or mitigated. A couple is guided by parents experience, whereas in love, marriage couple is unknown about the future complexities in life and lacks this experience.
|Sathees said: (Mar 18, 2016)|
In my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage, because our parents are know who is the best partner and good one.
|Nilesh Chavan said: (Mar 17, 2016)|
As per knowledge Arrange marriage is best for the happiness of the family and relatives, But nowadays every Boy and girl thinks there should be a person who will completely match for them.
There should be mutual understanding between couple and its not important that they are coupled by arrange or love marriage. If you have relationships before marriage and even your family supports from both way then you can make it Love comes arrange marriage.
If your love is true and you both are much more comfortable with each other then no one can stop you for marriage. But I think Love Marriage is the Best due to choice your own Mind is always better than others.
|Neethu said: (Mar 16, 2016)|
|In my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage because sometimes we are not able to know which is good or bad, that time we depend upon our parents. So, they know to give us the best thing in our life.|
|Kanaga said: (Mar 15, 2016)|
|In my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage, why because in love marriage in the sense we knows everything about our life partner. There is no excitement, surprising, I think it doesn't make us happy after marriage, why because the thing what will happen in before marriage the same thing will be happening in after marriage it will become boring. If it is arranged means there will be excitement, wondering, surprise everything will happen. There is an expectation we are trying to impress everything will happen.|
|Javid said: (Mar 13, 2016)|
According to me, marriage is excitement!, and people are being got married because they want to lead with partners. Our life is would be meaningless when we live alone. No matter whether love, marriage or arranged marriage, but there must be an equal understanding, sacrifice, and splendid way of knowing each other. We must get married when we settled up into our life financially as well as mentally. Therefore, both marriages are good after having all those commitments.
|Ria Chauhan said: (Mar 12, 2016)|
Our parents are the best decision makers in our lives. They will reach to a conclusion about our life partner after using all the experiences that they have gained all through their life.
Sometimes they may go wrong, but the statistics prove that there are many cases of failures in love marriage than in arrange marriage.
Marriage is not for only 2 people, but it is also a start of relation between two families. If the two families are in favour of the marriage, there will be a long life commitment between the partners. And everyone will be happy and that's what we all want in our lives.
That's the reason I support is arranged marriages over love marriages.
|Savitha said: (Mar 7, 2016)|
|Marriage is a sacred thing that bring together two individuals as two body and one soul. For some may prefer love marriage wherein one could find the partner by themselves and understand each other to proceed with marriage and others may go for arranged marriage which in turn is an arranged love as we call these-days. Considering both type of marriage, a marriage is bond between not only two individuals but also between two families, so whether arranged or love what matters the most is the understanding between both the partners and their families.|
|Mayur Bhatt said: (Mar 7, 2016)|
|Arrange marriage is best.
Love marriage is better than arrange marriage because In love marriage both partner knows very well to each other and have well understanding.
Only both are enjoy in love marriage. Everybody enjoying arrange marriage.
|Sri said: (Mar 3, 2016)|
In my point of view both love and arranged marriage's are good in certain situation. Main point is mutual understanding between the couple. If you really love a girl, do convience your parents. Nowadays most of the love couple eloping far with intimating others it may lead bad.
|Harshit Sharma said: (Mar 2, 2016)|
|Arranged with love marriage is the best relationship because ashirwad with parents and mutual understanding with your partner. If you don't have a great mutual understanding with partners is broken relationship with a partner. If we don't have ashirwad of parents, they think we don't respect her or him.|
|Paulsypaul said: (Feb 27, 2016)|
|Hi friends, in my point of view arranged marriage will be better than love marriage. Because love marriage itself means that both parties know each other well and they will have so many expectations about their life. If either of them fail to reach up to this standard problems will arise. If this was a marriage without the parent's consent they themselves have to suffer. So its better to go with an arranged marriage and I am sure that more people will be successful in getting adopted to new things with the support of family.|
|Anu Joseph said: (Feb 24, 2016)|
|According to me both marriages depends on individuals. For some family and culture love marriage will not be an issue. We have to consider our parents before taking this kind of decisions.
If you are able to find a person who is perfect match for you then with the permission from parents you can think about marriage. Better understanding before marriage is good. I also support the love after marriage.
So friends life is yours and think before taking decisions. What ever may be the decisions you must be happy in future.
|Vimal Yadav said: (Feb 22, 2016)|
|I think arranged marriage will be better than love marriage. Because in love marriages, it may be affected by considering the caste of both couples.
Nowadays every family want make relation in same caste so it can be matter. It is not possible that falling in love is same caste cast means love is blind it happened.
|Joyson Js said: (Feb 22, 2016)|
|Hi friends I am Joyson.
I think Arranged marriage is best.
Family is very important in our life. In other word when you create understanding before love marriage if you developed understanding after arranged marriage I think so it's better for married life. Love marriage I like and best are arrange marriage because this is good way for me and my family.
Thank you friends.
|Lakshmi said: (Feb 22, 2016)|
|From my point getting married either love or arranged the life should need to be happy. I don't think that only love marriage is best or arranged marriage is best. In both the couples should be an understanding to each other.
In both marriages we should not hurt anyone. To lead a happy life both marriages are best but it is possible only there is mutual understanding between each other.
|Buvana said: (Feb 21, 2016)|
|According to me, it's better to know our parents thoughts about love marriage, like questioning them indirectly and watching their activities towards love marriage then proceeding with our decisions is the best way, because nowadays parents are not that much strict, life after everyone's marriage is really unpredictable so its not has to be considered before marriage.|
|Sri said: (Feb 20, 2016)|
|According to me both love & arrange marriages are correct. Love come arranged marriage is better option because when falling in love both are understanding each other & mutual communication between them.
If we are love sincerely then don't fear about society fastly go and tell your love to your parents. If you choose the correct person then our parents also accepted then go to marriage. In case some problems occured you have to take your parents.
|Bala said: (Feb 19, 2016)|
|It's simple, you have 2 options.
1. Make your own way.
2. Follow the usual path.
It's upto you, your life. Love are arranged doesn't matter which suits to you. That only matters. But don't blame others i.e your parents.
|Thakur said: (Feb 19, 2016)|
|Family is very important in our life. But freedom, choice or love also one of important thing. If you are love with someone then you have to marry with them and if no then do whatever your family told. This is simple but when there is condition when you are in love and your family against with your decision at this time you both take time to manage your family and changing their mind.
It can take 3 to 4 year may be 4+ but don't worry because your life partner with you. With any stage of your life. So be confident and take decision after all your family also Love you and Love is love it always win. The result is Love marriage is best.
|Harshit Sharma said: (Feb 18, 2016)|
|I think arranged marriage is better than love because many people have different culture and religion after some time in most of the cases it make a situation of divorce first we have to arrange marrige then make a love feeling in you and your partner's heart.|
|Ram said: (Feb 15, 2016)|
|I think love with arranged marriage is the best for our life because supporting from our parents and mutual understanding with each other (when falling in love).
"Do love your life partner & love your parents".
|Vivek Kumar said: (Feb 13, 2016)|
|According to me it is very hard to say, what is good love or arranged marriage. I think it's totally depend on ourselves. If you love someone and you think you didn't do any crime don't be fear from society or other thing just go and tell your family.
Your family has rights to know about your life and after telling the truth your family will definitely support you. If you think arranged marriage is good then you should go for arrange marriage. Don't make it tough with hard definition or comments both is simple and lovely.
|Priyanga said: (Feb 11, 2016)|
|I think both conditions are waste. Whatever the parents give, cannot be fulfilled by any others and sorry for this.|
|Rahul said: (Feb 11, 2016)|
|Guys in my opinion love marriage is the best gift that a family can give to their child, moreover it's the child who is going to live with the life partner. But in some families the decision of the child's marriage is wholly taken by the parents.
But parents fail to understand that they are not of our age. They argue bye saying that "Some years before we were also at your age". But they don't know that the time has changed drastically.
So guys at last I want to conclude that go ahead with your decision and finally your parents will also accept you if you will behave decently with them after marriage.
|Abdul said: (Feb 11, 2016)|
|If parents of some lovers refused their love. Lovers should married themselves without parents support. If any small problems come in their life after marriage they could not have the ability to solve the problem.
In arrange marriage parents gave some ideas to solve the problem so arrange marriage is the best one.
|Bindu said: (Feb 11, 2016)|
According to me everything has two sides like a coin. One which is good and other is bad. So love marriage and arrange marriage both have some bad points and some good points like.
In love marriage both people knows each other very well and they love each other, they care each other, they have better understanding but somehow anything happens which leads to end up the relationship than you are only the person responsible for, in that case family support is not been given because it's your decision not the family's.
In arrange marriage, there two people don't know each other but they get marry due to their family reviews. But in that case they have much time to understand each other, love each other and come to know each of one's likes or dislikes. But if any case happened and they get separated than in that case you have your family support because they insist you to get marry.
So, I can't say that love marriage is good or a arrange marriage is good. Both have some Positive factors and some negative.
|Supritha said: (Feb 9, 2016)|
According to my knowledge love marriage is good. They both know them earlier. They understand each other very well. They can lead a beautiful life than arrange marriage.
|Kanhaiya said: (Feb 9, 2016)|
|I don't think who is good or bad in love or arrange marriage but I know the all people want to do some new is his/her own life that's like arranged marriage because arrange marriage give us a beautiful time to spend with our family and our friends.
Arrange marriage give us too many blesses and family support us forever..
|Ashutosh said: (Feb 9, 2016)|
|According to me love marriage is the thing which leads to a great life. In love marriage both of them understands each other feeling and choices as well. Occurred it will be hilarious if it is love cum arrange. If parents support us then it will the pleasant thing ever.
Afterall you are going to live together, you are going to get your life involved to each other so it should be your decision to choose whom you would like to spent your life with.
But when it comes to the parents, it is difficult to make them understand, try this best, after all they are parents, they love you and they don't ever want to see a little bit of sadness on your face, try you're best they will definitely understand you.
|Hansraj Purohit said: (Feb 8, 2016)|
|Arrange marriage is better than love marriage because in love we are clear about every things and arrange marriage we clear problem life time and understand each other lifetime.|
|Bhumika said: (Feb 6, 2016)|
According to it does not matter either you do love marriage or arranged marriage. Marriage life depend on mutual understanding of two people and in arrange marriage both should give time to each other to understand.
|Beena said: (Feb 5, 2016)|
I would like to share my personal experience of arranged marriage. About 4 years ago I got married. Beyond my expectation I got my prince charming. He is very caring. He proved me wrong which I thought about arranged marriage.
I believed that how can two unknown person can fall in love. But after getting married. I came to know that there can be love, attraction between couple. I am blessed to have my husband and my 1 year old baby in my life.
|Jatan Lal Maurya said: (Feb 3, 2016)|
|Hi guys according to me the best way to spend our life without much issued, a person who wants to marry, the first thing is if he/ she convince his/ her family then life will become like heaven but the other thing is if he/she has not convince his or her family then life become hell.|
|Charanya said: (Feb 3, 2016)|
|All of the comments are good that from their own point of view but the main fact is that either love marriage or arranged we have to stand on our legs to support it financially. Whether you are a millionaire or a paper. The next is mental disturbances should be avoided. And finally do not lose hope.|
|Ganesh Laharpure said: (Feb 3, 2016)|
According to me arrange marriage is better than love marriage because our parents love us more than other at childhood time. And they have there own expectations from us. So if they don't agree with our love marriage. So we can't have any right's to heart there fillings. For our sometimes love.
Thanks to all.
|Divya.A said: (Feb 2, 2016)|
|Hi. In my point of view, Arranged Marriage is good and better than the Love Marriage. According to me, marriage is the thing made in heaven. Someone prefers love marriage, but it leads to failure in life. After marriage, they fight each other or maybe live happy. But in arrange marriage, I agree that all of the both family Will be ever happy. And there is a special feel in arrange marriage. Whoever fall in love I request you to talk with your parents and then marry your lover it will be the happiest moment in your life and your family will be happy because parents are the first-ever. Best of luck. Be happy and get sad moment to be ever happy.|
|Subhan said: (Feb 2, 2016)|
In my point view love marriage is best because it does not depend on caste, religion, etc. It is understanding of two persons with love and care and mutually good understanding between them.
|Akash Singh said: (Jan 31, 2016)|
|A arrange marriage today is just a business, how much money is exchanged. Well love marriage is real marriage. Love is a greatest thing on earth.|
|Sandra Chandran said: (Jan 29, 2016)|
In my point of view love with arranged marriage is good. In our society parents are not ready to accept love marriage, at first this situation has to change. Love with arrange is better for safety and long lasting married life.
|Neha said: (Jan 27, 2016)|
Marriage is the important decision of every individual's life. In my opinion, both have their own pros and corns.
Arrange marriage is something where two people are unknown to each other, they need to spend time to know about each other's attitude, lifestyle choice. Arrange marriage has security that in case if anything happens in future they have moral support from their parents.
In love marriage the couple are well known to each other and aware about each other's habit, likes and dislikes with complete understanding. So managing here becomes easy. When it comes to long lasting survival it's only them who will be responsible for handling their relation with no moral support. As it was their decision to be together.
|Ashwini Durgad said: (Jan 25, 2016)|
|Hai everyone, according to me marriages are made in heaven whether its love marriage or arrange. Every relationship live stronger when there is mutual understanding love care and affection between two hearts.
The most important part of relationship is promises between two souls to live together Forever, success of the relationship is true feelings between two hearts whether it's love marriage are arrange.
|Biju said: (Jan 25, 2016)|
|Decisions should be personal. Not depend on family. It's not family getting into married relations. Talking, each other makes them know better. Love marriage will help them to build their world.|
|Mann J said: (Jan 23, 2016)|
|Hi guys according to me love marriage is best because boy and girl are known clearly about himself. I think without love no life and with love relation will be successful. But in India all peoples are not good thought regarding love marriages and the parents are not allowed to choose the boy and girls.|
|Rutu said: (Jan 22, 2016)|
|In my opinion, any day love marriages are better for the simple reason it's in the word itself. It's "love" marriage you love the person who you are going to marry. And well arranged on the other side is kind of like an "agreement" arrangement to love the person for your entire life!|
|Pankaj Kumar said: (Jan 22, 2016)|
I think that love and arrange marriage both are good when you pursuing your relationship on a right track such as you both are support each other and you do something that make coordination better than best. Marriage is all about love, care, patience, and coordination.
|Biju said: (Jan 22, 2016)|
Marriage was found by God for our better living. It was meant for reproduction. Putting off fornication and adultery. In the sense we marry To reveal and fulfill Godly desires. You are free to choose your own partner nor go for family selection. In both don't go for selfish attitude. Go for God's attitude. For more understanding please read bible.
|Aks said: (Jan 21, 2016)|
|Arranged marriage today is just a business, how much money is exchanged. Well love marriage is real marriage. Love is the greatest thing on earth.|
|Sree said: (Jan 19, 2016)|
|My opinion we should not support love marriages because in India most of the divorce are happening on love marriages only. I think there is no love between a girl and boy it's just an attraction between the two persons.|
|Elfa said: (Jan 16, 2016)|
|Hello I am Elfa. For me love marriage is better than arranged marriage. In love marriage both couple knows each other and they love each other.|
|Rohit said: (Jan 14, 2016)|
In my point of view, love marriage is more effective than simple arranged one.
Because our whole life, whole future directly depends on our life partner.
Some people of old era thinks that love before marriage belongs to the characterless status for the boy/girl. They think that what the society will think about them, and what their relative think and mostly girls suffer more in this situation than boys.
This is nothing but a sort of dust in their minds.
But in this modern era relationships built on mutual understanding and trust which I think is much better in love marriages.
I am not totally against the arrange marriages as it can also be successful if some gap must be put in between engagement and marriage ceremony so that both can understand each other.
|Anup said: (Jan 14, 2016)|
|I do not know why most of the people likes love marriage. I agree the in love marriage both (boy & girl) know each other firstly both want to spent whole life with each other but most divorce case in India is only due to love marriage most of the couple who separated they do love marriage first and drastic sufferer is their children. A child do not know any thing but only suffers he do not know why their parents separated because first of all both (parents) know each other from childhood age. Both of them knows each other like and dislike things so after marriage they bore with each other that the main reason both irritated with each other and lastly divorce.
But in arrange marriage both don't know each other so after marriage firstly they want to know about each other and after time went on and as they know about each other age comes up to (35-40) and also child grows up so there is no time to fight and live their life up to end.
That's why arranged marriage is successful than love marriage.
Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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