Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages


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Manu said: (Feb 21, 2018)  
Hello everyone.

Our topic for discussion is love vs arranged marriage.

Firstly I want to start the discussion by saying that one cannot judge the best out of these two marriages as it depends upon the understanding, trust between the couple itself and nothing to do with the type of marriage.

In both the marriages pros and cons are there. Coming to love marriage;

1. There will be good understanding b/w the couple as they know each other pretty well.

2. As they know each others likes n dislikes they will behave accordingly.

3. Planned love lives will result in great future.

4. Equality prevails in their relationship.

Disadvantages:

1. As they are mostly independent they take their own decisions quickly without considering parents and relatives like taking divorse.

2. Youngsters these days are confusing attraction to love and facing prblms after marriage.

Arrange marriage advantages.

1. Parents once for twice before coming up with a match.

2. They verify completely about the family background so that there shouldn't be any prblm in future.

3. The couple will think of their families and try to understand instead of going for divorce for silly reasons.

Disadvantages.

1. If there is no much tym to interact before marriage one cannot understand each other properly and will face prblms to share anything after marriage with their partners.

2. Whether love will blossom b/w each other or not will be a big question.

At last, I would like to conclude saying marriage is a life long commitment so decision should be in ones hand.

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Kumari Muskan said: (Feb 21, 2018)  
Hello. Everyone.

And have a charming morning to you all.

According to my poiint Of veiw arrange marriage is preferable to love marrige, because after arrange marriage couple get so many love, support, gifts. Etc. For enjoying their life.

But after love marrige they don't get such things.

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Zeba said: (Feb 19, 2018)  
I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage because even though we know the person in love marriage But it is not always successful. Whatever the parents think for us is best for us so we should have trust in our parents and in reality.

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Pathan said: (Feb 15, 2018)  
In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage Because we spend more time with each other, And we understand each other thing.

And we can say it depends on both of them (husband & wife) how they prepare their own lives.

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Ruchita Sonkusare said: (Feb 14, 2018)  
Hello friends,

I think love is in the air only till you get married, after marriage no matter whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage.

Love marriage is not appreciated in a traditional society like India because in India it's not the marriage of 2 souls not a marriage of 2 families.

Love is nothing but chemical locha, in other words, its infatuation only.

In today's world, people fall in love numerous times in life. With so many incidents of falling in love, at last, only mind can help you to make a right choice.

Those who listen to their mind, go for arrange marriage, if you start taking decisions from the heart then life will be a mess.

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Malika said: (Feb 13, 2018)  
I think LOVE MARRIAGE is better than ARRANGED MARRIAGE because in my point of view marriage means a union between man and woman. Union means the action of joining together. Love means a strong feeling of affection, that affection makes both perfect. In love marriage there is a mutual understanding between the couple, That makes them happy.

Not only LOVE MARRIAGES Even ARRANGED MARRIAGES have the same affection but some of them are not adjusted, rest of the remaining are so HAPPY.

I am not discouraged ARRANGED MARRIAGES and I am also not Encouraged LOVE MARRIAGES because LOVE happens at any time to anyone so don't judge that marriage is so good that type of marriage is bad.

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Ashish said: (Feb 12, 2018)  
No one can say that love marriage or the arranged marriage is the best. It is totally dependent on wife and husband if the boy doesn't understand his wife and the girl also doesn't understand the feelings of her husband what he/she wants and what you are giving then their life will be like a hell and on the other hand if they understand each other then their life will be like a heaven.

In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.

Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.

And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.

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Sonam said: (Feb 8, 2018)  
According to me, Both marriages are best if their relationship has understanding, love and trust. Because this all depends upon these things. Without these things, no one marriage will succeed. Thank you.

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Manmohan Yadav said: (Feb 7, 2018)  
I am in favour of love marriage because in love marriage girl and boy knows each other very well. They aware about the behaviour, nature, and test of each other. They have better understanding they can solve issues related to their life easily, they can share their emotion with each without any hesitation. But in arrange both girl and boy are stranger. They do not know about each other nature due to this they face so many difficulties which may cause divorce. In most of arrange, marriage girls suffer a lot due to dowry issues.

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Deepa Karwa said: (Feb 7, 2018)  
Hii Friends.

My self Deepa karwa.

In my views, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we accept each other with our own wish. After marriage, we don't have regret that we did not get chance to choose our life partner. But our decision should be mature enough. After knowing completely one should take a decision. I think then Love marriage will stable and the couple will live life more happily compared to the couple who are in arranged marriage. Thank you.

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Jyoti said: (Feb 6, 2018)  
I am in favour of love marriage because in love marriage girl and boy knows each other very well. They aware about the behaviour, nature, and test of each other. They have better understanding they can solve issues related to their life easily, they can share their emotion with each without any hesitation. But in arrange both girl and boy are stranger. They do not know about each other nature due to this they face so many difficulties which may cause divorce. In most of arrange, marriage girls suffer a lot due to dowry issues.

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Supriya said: (Feb 6, 2018)  
Hi,

In my point of view, arranged marriage is better than love marriage. They can love after their marriage also. In their life problems will be less as compared to love marriages. Anyway if they get any problem their relatives and family members can solve. In love marriages also problem can be solved if they get parents support. But nowadays we are all seeing that most of the parents were not encouraging love marriages. What I said it because of my observation around my surrounding. But I'm not criticizing anyone. Thank you very much.

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Naveena D said: (Feb 4, 2018)  
Good Morning Friends.

According to me, Love and Arranged marriage is better. Both of the equal role-playing in our life. Arranged marriage is better than love marriage. Because after marriage they are fall in love. They are start their life with the security. This is most beautiful life.

Love marriage is good one. Because they are fall in love. Those days is most happiest days. But their parents will never agree their love. Then so many problems will be create. So love marriage will be affect both of their family.

So arranged marriage is better. Because both of the family members will be happy. And other thing is love and arranged marriage is also better. If their family agree their love. Then it will be better.

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Ashish Kumar Vishwakarma said: (Feb 3, 2018)  
Hello guys.

According to my opinion, both marriages are better. But make a good relationship and trust with our life partner.

I said marriage is depended upon a mutual understanding of both girl and boy.

Love marriage is the result of own decisions but arrange marriage is the result of our relative decisions.

Thank you.

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Urman Khan said: (Feb 2, 2018)  
Hello friends.

Myself Urman Khan.

According to my opinion, love marriage vs arrange marriage.

Both love marriage and arrange marriage are good but love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love, the couple knows their qualities, behaviour, and emotion very well.

And they can spend the perfect time of life and they can solve our problems.

But, in arrange marriage couple don't know to each other when you're family select a girl for you.

And after marriage, they find that their behaviour, emotion, thinking doesn't match that cause of divorce.

Love is life.

Thank you.

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Aakanksha Bansal said: (Feb 1, 2018)  
In my opinion,

Both love marriage and arrange marriage are at par. Ultimately the decision should be given in the hands of the guy and the girl as it solely depends upon their lives.

Earlier divorce cases were mostly heard as a result of love marriage but nowadays divorce filing has increased alot for arrange marriages as well.

This should not be anybody else decision but the couple and if parents are with them. Then Cheers!

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Kiran Mourya said: (Jan 25, 2018)  
According to me, both are better love marriage as well as arrange marriage because In love marriage boy and girl know each other. They have a mutual understanding to one another about their nature, behaviour etc.

But in arrange marriage couple do not know one another they are completely stranger. In arrange marriage, relatives are involved to set up their marriage.

Marriage is depended upon a mutual understanding of both boy and girl.

Mutual understanding and relation with one other make successful their marriage.

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Ramdev Chhaba Falka said: (Jan 24, 2018)  
Hi, guys good morning.

According to my opinion, both love and arrange marriage are good. But love marriage is own decision and arrange marry is our relative decision. We want to love marry only when then our parents on agree on that. I thing marry is a union of two soul. Marry is decided our future because whole life buzz with one person. So both good but take a good decision.

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Ramdev Chhaba Falka said: (Jan 24, 2018)  
Hii guys.

Good morning.

According to my opinion, both love and arrange marriage are good. But love marriage is own decision and arrange marry is our relative decision. We want to love marry only when then our parents on agree on that. I think marriage is a union of two souls. Marry is decided our future because of whole life buzz with one person. So both good but take a good decision.

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Madhu Sri said: (Jan 22, 2018)  
Hi, Guys,

This is MADHUSRI,

In my opinion, it depends on the mutual understanding between the bride and bride groom but not on the type of marriage.

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Muneam Akram said: (Jan 20, 2018)  
Hi every one,

Today my topic is about love marriage and arrange marriage both.

According to my opinion, arrange marriage is better then love marriage. Because love marriage is totally based on the externally physical personality time attractions and economical base of his lover.

But in arrange marriage is brightless of our future life. The arrange is developed our relative relation and in arrange marriage your other relative's are very happy to your marriage than love marriage. So, In my thoughts the arrange marriage is most better than love marriage.

Good luck.

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Saurabh Kumar said: (Jan 19, 2018)  
Love marriage vs Arranged Marriage.

I support both loves and arrange because marriage is not a game. But only there is a problem in love marriage in India is not acceptable by parents and family members because there are so many issues comes over such as tradition caste system which is a vital and critical issue for our society thinking. i.e, is why couples are not supported by parents when there is a problem. But in some family members who are educated then acceptable only and only both couples are in a good job or both are in same dignity and having a same education degree.

In arrange Marriage there is no such type of problem i.e, parents always with us.

And family members, society accepted easily.

But there is a problem dowry system which is also a critical issue which damaged girl's life.

We have to think that marriage is whole life bonding. And we have to understand it's a marriage love or arranged first understand to each other. His /her emotions and feelings.

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Gaurav Joshi said: (Jan 18, 2018)  
I think it is not the matter of arrange or love marriage, but is of the two persons involved in it and how they understand each other feelings and affection. If an individual put behind its social-economic ego and comparison and make a relationship happier than it does not matter either the marriage is love or arranged. An understanding person nurture their life after being married and manage their relationship far well in future.

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Dev Pandey said: (Jan 16, 2018)  
Hi, friends.

According to my opinion, arrange marriage is batter than love marriage.

Because love marriage is totally based on physical attraction and beauty.

When time passed physical beauty abridge and our love is finish.

In arrange marriage we marry such a person who is chosen by our parent. Our parents have much understanding of life so they choose for us best.

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Ajay Sehray said: (Jan 6, 2018)  
Hello friends.

By point of view.

I am in the favor of love marriage because in love marriage the couple knows their quality, behavior and emotion very well. They understand their problem very well and they can solve those problems very easily. But in arrange marriage couple don't know each other very well after arranged marriage they find that their thinking, behavior, quality, emotion don't match that cause of divorce. So, friends, I prefer love marriage than an arranged marriage.

Thank you.

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Shilpa Verma said: (Jan 4, 2018)  
In my Opinion,

Love marriage is almost good than arrange marriage because Every one girl or a boy know about their behavior, nature, Emotions, etc each other.

In India, All the In Indians preferred to arrange marriage According to their situation, thinking etc. Everyone thinks different in different-different situations. Most people have their own thinking according to the atmosphere.

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Rahul Sharma said: (Jan 3, 2018)  
Hello friends,

As we are discussing on love or arranged marriage, I prefer love marriage because in love marriage couples are well known about each other. They know about like habits, unlike habits, nature, behavior etc each other. They can spend the perfect time of life than arranged marriage if they know what is the true love? If the parents also agree for love marriage then life is also more wonderful and lovely. And if parents do not agree for love marriage, and you left home for love marriage, then love marriage can create a huge problem in future.

But in an arranged marriage, if parents choose a girl for you then couples are not well known to each other. There can be so many confusions, different mindset, unlike behavior, that can create problem and life can be spoiled.

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Humaira said: (Jan 2, 2018)  
I think it depends on which marriage you get offered first. If you fall in love with someone I think it's best to talk to your family about marrying this person so they do sort out any marriage arrangements they have made or want to make. You need to consider the couple feelings. I know a family who is in problems because their son is in love with one girl but his parents have made him marry his cousin whom they arranged. Now he has both women and he is only happy with the one he fell in love with. He keeps the wife his parents chose because he wants to make them happy and keep family pride. To make it worst he has kids with both women. I think love marriage is better in this case. If he had not found someone he loves then yes he can just do arrange marriage. In love marriage, you fall in love with the things you get to know about the person. That's why we fall in love. In arrange marriage you only start to love the person because you care for them, they look after your family perhaps. But it is in most cases, not true love.

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Nancy said: (Dec 29, 2017)  
In my opinion,

Both are good but arrange marriage is better for our Indian society.

If we prefer love marriage against our parents and that marriage for some reason didn't last for long years then we would be in no condition to go back to our parent's house as they won't accept us. If in case they will, then society won't let them live happily. It will create a problem only for our parents.

In case of arranged marriage, at least if the marriage for some reason didn't last for long, parents will take us back as they chose that guy for you and it was their mistake.

For me, arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

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Sunakshi said: (Dec 27, 2017)  
Hi, guys.

In this topic, I will say that if you find a nice person whom you think you can be spent your whole with that person you should go for love marriage otherwise leave it on your parents they will surely find a nice guy for you.

Thanks.

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Raja said: (Dec 26, 2017)  
Hello friend.

Today we are discuss about love marriage and arrange marriage according to my opinion arrange marriage is better than love marriage because in arrange marriage we are not choose girl family are choose family are support and in the love marriage love between two heart family are not support.

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Himanshu said: (Dec 24, 2017)  
Hello friends, today we are discussing on the topic arrange marriage vs love marriage. I think that arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because in love marriage we see that many of the couples do not understand with their views of mind, that causr of their devorce. , because marriage is a relationship between two heart and in this there is any problems we can not accept it.

And on the other hand, we must think what our family want if thry are satisfied with us then we give reference to anything so I think that arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

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Subhajit Podder said: (Dec 23, 2017)  
Good morning my dear all friend.

Here topic is love marriage and arrange marriage, which is good. It's thought to me that love marriage is very much better than arrange. Because maximum people tell that 70% or above love marriage has been destroying for any reason. I am telling that it's true. But we should think why it is happening. There are some problem who takes love marriage in their life. Actually problem is that unfortunately maximum people can't know what is meaning of love. How to care both each other. How to respect think of both person or etc. This is the problem. That's why love marriage cannot continue. If we think for a time to the earlier era I mean earlier person then can understand who accepted love marriage in their life and they could continue. Because they knew how to love. Here I am indicating the point that in our time we have been forgetting what is the love. That's way the problem is creating to the young person. Except that here are second problem. That is before maturity a boy or girl have been so much involving with love. For a result they are facing may problem. So for these type problem love has been destroying and divorcing. If we think it logically that love helps us to know each other before marriage which is not possible if anybody go to arrange marriage. So, end of discussion in a nutshell I must say that love is not wrong before marriage. We have to understand the problem and compare. Then we can solve the problem. So according to my views, love should be kept to the last point. That's all. Thank you.

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Shiv said: (Dec 22, 2017)  
My dear friend, according to my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because if your family select a girl for you and after marriage quality of your wife is different from you then we face a problem. I support love marriage only one condition if the family of both boy and girl are satisfied with this marriage.

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Mohit said: (Dec 21, 2017)  
Hello friends,

According to me, arranged marriage is best in both because according to a survey we know about that mostly. I mean 70 percent divorce is done those who apply love marriage. Sometimes boys or girls left their families for this marriage (love marriage) and will go from home. This type of marriage creates a huge problem in his/her life. In some case, boys and girls take this type of decision in little age and these decisions create problems in life.

Thanks.

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Shahwaj Khan said: (Dec 18, 2017)  
Hi, friends.

According to my opinion, arrange marriage always better than love marriage because arrange marriage is not a contact b/w two people but a confluence of two familes and two familes involved in arrange marriage you know my dear friends in arrange marriage my life partner is select my familes and I think that my familes is selected my life partner better than me because he knows as my negative and positive points and my nature he know as which type girl is better than me and any parents is never wants he's son of life partner is wrong in any way so l think that arrange marriage better than love marriage, and in love marriage before marriage two person b/w love in love love time two person is always nose and look positive point with each other he's never shown own negative point and after being married he's known as negative points with each other and everyday great a new problem and he way of divorce and one day is divorce with each other so I think that love marriage is never better than arrange marriage, That's all.

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Indrajeet Kumar Sharma said: (Dec 10, 2017)  
Hello guys, according to me, a love marriage is far better than an arranged marriage. Because one has the complete freedom to select his or her life partner. No elder decides. Both people know each other already and mutually decides to spend whole life with each other. The Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry. Because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level. But an arrange marriage like a lottery, love may or may not blossom between the couple.

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Pradeep said: (Dec 7, 2017)  
I like love marriage. Because love marriage people are Powerful in their bonding and relationship between them is very strong no miss understanding between them.

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Pavetthren said: (Dec 7, 2017)  
I'll go with love marriage, if we think logically arrange marriage is some kind of nuisance happenning to both sexes involved, my only question is how could you really decide your right companion through rest of your life.

Without even knowing their character or without being obnoxious about their behaviour, or decide them behalf of your parent's wish, it must be you who should decide your partners and more over I think what you get while first sight is some kind of attraction not love. And only through love you get close to someones heart, so that you could get to know each other and whether both their characters are in sink and also to know about their past life and situations they are facing and what the right companion could do to make them happy.

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Ankit Singh said: (Dec 7, 2017)  
Whether it is love marriage or Arranged marriage, the "Love" is the only adhesive of bondage the souls of both.

As long as Love exists, there will be no problem at all.

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Sri said: (Dec 4, 2017)  
Hello friends,

In my thinking, both love marriage and arranged marriage are good. Marriage is not based on love or arranged which is based on two hearts. If they can trust and care together then they will survive and they will understand together. So live a life with care and trust.

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Vignesh Murthi said: (Dec 4, 2017)  
Hi guys! Love Or Arrange what would you select? I don't have a idea about that but I know something about those things Just share you here First and best is love. From the Ancient to the modern stories based on love show what love means Is like caring of each other or just made for each other. In My opinion, Love is just talking a person Within you or two souls caring each other and Where the love is born and Another arrange marriage I don't Oppose these too because arrange marriage is Carried by selection of your cared one who I mean is your parents. But when you choose these you may know that specific person only for a short period and another thing is A person who really loves you is an Awsome thing.

But nowadays a confusion rises between term crush and love. So many confusion arises. A true Love is so rare only from a good person.

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Mona said: (Dec 2, 2017)  
In my opinion, both the marriage are good. It's not about the type of marriage but it's about the type of couple and their understanding to each other. Eventually, I m in favor of love marriage and with the acceptance of parents because when the couples are happy, then they can handle their family in the happiest way.

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Tejpal Sharma said: (Dec 1, 2017)  
Hello guys, according to me, both marriages have their own joy. As like life marriage is also full of uncertainties so it depends on couple how they deal with it. If they understand each other and do small sacrifices for each other and lives happily then it doesn't matter that the marriage is arranged or love.

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Alok Sharma said: (Nov 28, 2017)  
No one can say that love marriage or the arrange marriage is the best. It is totally dependent on wife and husband if the boy doesn't understand his wife and the girl also doesn't understand the feelings of her husband what he/she wants and what you are giving then their life will be like a hell and on the other hand if they understand each other then their life will be like a heaven.

In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.

Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.

And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.

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Saroj said: (Nov 22, 2017)  
Marriage is the meeting of two souls who will bring happiness to the families either it is love or arrange.

It depend on both the companion that how they make their life beautiful, happy and energetic.

Requirements is same in both the case, only thing is in love marriage they know each other more might be but in arrange marriage they also know each other but with the choice of their parents.

In love marriage, if something good or bad you have no choice to blame/praise anyone, you are responsible for what you have chosen. As per human nature, we always find someone to blame for our bad happing's (if any) in that case arrange marriage is good.

I think this is a never-ending topic of discussion.

It only depends on the couple what they want to do with their life, some will make their arrange marriage so happens that people will consider them as a love couple and vice versa.

So, in my point of view, live your life at the fullest, love your partner, understand your partner, leave your ego and enjoy the warmth of the relationship either it is love or arrange marriage.

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Med said: (Nov 18, 2017)  
I think the love marriage is good because before you marriage you know the behaviours of your husband the thing that make him funny and angry even you can't make a mistake but arranged mariage is bad because you don't any behaviours to your husband even you mary today and you will devorce him tomorow it mean that marriage can't take a long periode it so short periode. Thanks.

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Ashu Yadav said: (Nov 17, 2017)  
Hello Everyone.

I support Both types of marriage have their own fun. And as you all know that many people in our society believe in love marriage. Because this types of marriage is based on understand between two parts and the settlement in there family. And in love marriage we know each other very well and from this can build good understanding. But in arrange there is an amazing thing that is person whom we doesn't know she or he become life partner so we have so much things to share because it is arranged by parents that's all thanks.

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Prashant Singh said: (Nov 16, 2017)  
Hello friends,

My name is Prashant singh. Our topic is about love marriage vs arrange marriage. In my opinion, both situations is right. It is depends on couples and his behavior. I thought that love marriage is a marriage when a girl or boy fall in love and he wants to marry. If his love is believable, he can success in his life. On the other hand, arrange marriage is our society system, it is depend on parents opinion so if any person doesn't fall in love he do arrange marriage and live happy with his life.

If we talk about present situation, most of the boys or girls fall in love and want to live with another. It is only depend on love with each other, believe with each other and respect with each other. So I think both situations is right. It is depend on couple. Thank you for reading me.

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Mithilesh said: (Nov 13, 2017)  
In my opinion whether there is love marriage or arrange marriage the only thing which is important is understanding between husband and wife. If they understand each other than their life defiantly be heaven.

Similarly if understand b/w husband and wife not good than their life surely become hell.

If you find your lover with whom you can spent whole life then you should go through love marriage. And if not then go through arranged marriage then, let it put to the god hand, who knows there will be one of the happiest couple.

And at last I would like to say that it's the matter of love and love can be happen before marriage and also can be happen after marriage.

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Vignesh Murthi said: (Nov 13, 2017)  
First of All, Everyone of us Might fall in love Once in our lifetime, Think That Love marriage is Way of Nature Where other beings Select their own life partner, just like human too have some feelings we should respect that but only maturity says Your Selected partner is Right or wrong. So to my opinion arrange marriage or inter caste marriage is abnormal. And for those for lovers Need is understanding between them. If there is no understanding Both type of marriages may fail. Thank you For reading.

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Shahrukh Khan said: (Nov 9, 2017)  
In my opinion, both type of marriage is good, it's not about type of marriage, it's all about partners, I have seen both the marriage converted into divorce so it doesn't matter which type of marriage we go through, most important thing in marriage is understanding between partner's, trust, honesty, loyalty and how they cooperate with each other.

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Devendra said: (Nov 5, 2017)  
Its simple, you can't decide that when you will fall in love. Its a sudden incident. We grown up with a moral thought that give love and get love. So why not love marriage is a moral thing? Arrange marriage is decision of our parents when we don't have any choice, when we don't get happy by just seeing someone. Love is a great feeling, its god gifted so we have to accept it nor refuse. Both are best but love is a pure form of relationship.

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Neha said: (Nov 5, 2017)  
I have seen people suffering in both so I guess it doesn't matter how you met that person through a relative or a friend what matters is you are happy with him/her or not.

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Priyanka Singh said: (Nov 5, 2017)  
Most of people do not know the definition of LOVE, and saying that LOVE marriage is better than Arrange marriage.

Not everyone is able to choose life partner themselves, Some people are too busy with their carrier, so for them arrange marriage is the only option.

Marriage is all about honesty, loyalty towards each other. It does not matter LOVE or arranged.

Here I am talking about modern arrange marriage (where both children and parents decide), which is far better than LOVE marriage.

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Manisha said: (Nov 5, 2017)  
Hi friends,

In my opinion, both marriages are good and its not about type of marriage its about partners. Its about how they cooperate with each other, understanding and trust between them. This relationship can work only if partners want otherwise it can't work anyhow. Both marriages have their own advantage and disadvantage. Main advantage in love marriage is compatibility between partners and in arrange marriage support and acceptance of family and society that helps to survive. So don't go for type for marriage go for a better partner.

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Shivraj Pawar said: (Nov 2, 2017)  
In Conclusion,

Whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage, relationship will work only if both the partners are serious and honest in relationship for love. Life partner must selecting to their own hands or not by force. In India arrange marriage to taking time about understood to each other before arrange marriage.

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Mohammad Danish said: (Nov 1, 2017)  
First of all marriage is not a union of just two person just coming together of two families or two social networks who are more closely thab ever before. So while looking for a partner to their son/daughter, parents will first check the potential of bride/groom family background, socio-economic level, level of education n different values. If so, they feel that then can safely gat married n they can take care of as their parents.

But there are some drawbacks in arranged marriage, not much importance is given in such a marriage because the couple might not have some time/more time to get to know to each other's values, understanding, opinions. And many of them, who are about to get into arranged marriage seem strong sense to obligation and duty to their parents n to do otherwise they perceive of disrespect of their parents and betrayal to their parents n they are ready to get marriage while they know they are unhappy just so their family is happy.

But critics of arranged marriage would say that love in arranged marriage reaches to peak when couple have been about 5 years after.

So I reached at a conclusion that both type of marriage have their own ups n downs, there is no perfect formula for marriage to work its totally depent on our preference in which we feel a settlement.

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Anom said: (Oct 27, 2017)  
Love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage before getting married the 2 can understand their hearts.

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Rohit said: (Oct 25, 2017)  
Basically, there is no guarantee that love marriage continues to have that essence of love. Psychologically every bachelor thinks that love marriage is better without analyzing that arrange one can bring a lot more happiness. So practically arranged is better.

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Ranjan Gupta said: (Oct 21, 2017)  
Hello, friends, my name is Ranjan Gupta and here we are discussed about love marriages versus arrange marriages. In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriages. It's because of the only parents love. That means parents think about who is better for me and also an arrange marriage to focus on this family union. So by these reasons, it is a fact that about 90%Indian still have arranged marriages.

Nowadays we are seeing so many love failure problem. As an example In the Bollywood the famous couple "Malaika Arora - Arbaz Khan", The famous couple who is an actor, director as well as a singer "Farhan Akthar-Adhuna Akthar", Hrithik Roshan -Sussanne Khan, Aamir Khan -Reena Khan. So in my opinion, best is arranged marriages.

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Abhishek Pandey said: (Oct 20, 2017)  
Hello everyone.

Everyone shared there opinion. And everyone is right in their own perception. But we cannot say that which type of marriage is good or bad. See both of them has its own pros and cons.

So in my opinion, both love and arranged marriage is good. But the only thing required is LOVE no matter whether it is love marriage or arranged marriage.

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Usama Mengal said: (Oct 19, 2017)  
According to my opinion, Arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because our parent's happiness is our happiness.

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Girish said: (Oct 19, 2017)  
I think love marriage with permission of both families is wise decision. Because you require a stable family to survive life. Of course, you two are a major chunk of it but in case you are a revolt then you need to care much more for each other to make it work. If this doesn't happen you question urself why do I do this?

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Shubham said: (Oct 18, 2017)  
Hey friends, I just think that love marriage is the best option in this generation because in this generation everyone has his/her bf/gf. And if there is an arrange marriage the love affairs can be shown after marriage. And in other hand love marriage both know everything about each other. I am in the favour of love marriage. Thanks.

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Ramisetty Bharathi said: (Oct 16, 2017)  
In my point of way, arrange marriage is best, because nowadays we are seeing so many love failure problems so the way of understanding is doesn't possible to each other. So arrange marriage is best.

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Shivam Shakya said: (Oct 14, 2017)  
Hai guys. I think arrange marriage is good because many parents are not accepting the love marriage because there is no future of love marriage.

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Tahsin said: (Oct 11, 2017)  
Hi Friends, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because the love marriage at least people known of each other.

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Rai said: (Oct 10, 2017)  
I think love marriages is good. Because before marriage they spent time with each other and they understand each other. Then they take the decision to marriage.

And if you want to spend your whole life with everyone firstly you have to understand Him/her.

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Savej Saifi said: (Oct 5, 2017)  
According to me, both marriages are good but a person should manage with his partner. If a person do the love marriage then he follows the procedure of arrange marriage, means first love with your partner and spends the time at least one year. If the partner is suitable for you then convince your parent and do the love marriage.

Thanks.

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Sachin Sainthiya said: (Oct 5, 2017)  
Hello, friends According to me, love marriage is the best.

Many people in our society believe in love marriage. Because this type of marriage is based on understanding between the two parts. And settlement in their family they also love in happiness and peace. Because the had chosen each other from the beginning.

Happiness is also very important benefit of love marriage. As everyone in the family will feel with comfort the couple can enjoy their life. They will b content about themselves they will not make the usually quarrel which we see in most of the families.

Finally, I think that the love marraige is better than arrange marraige. Because it has many benefits, Such as the understanding between the two couple and the happiness and peace in the family, and I want to send a message to all the youth to be careful in their love. And their emotions specially in marriage.

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Manu said: (Oct 4, 2017)  
According to me, love marriage is the best one but before loving to choose the best person who can understand you respect you admire you support you and moreover shows love towards you and respect to your family members then love marriages wins otherwise better go for arranged only.

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Umakant Chouhan said: (Sep 30, 2017)  
Yeah, according to me, love marriage is best because they know everything each other before marriage also respects each other families. I m promise to my partner. We are conducting love marriage.

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Ajay Kr said: (Sep 27, 2017)  
Hi, guys.

I think both marriages are Rights on their places.

There is an only different of thinking.

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Vijaykumar S said: (Sep 27, 2017)  
According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage why because love marriage is an easy way to understand the two hearts and it is I mean love means an agreement between two hearts. In love marriage, they can easily understand each other and respect each other and it is also one of the ways of creating or bonding the two families but arrange marriage is also good but in arrange marriage couples can't understand each other immediately it will take more to just adjustment between each other. IN arrange marriage they know each other after marriage but in love marriage, both are very close and they are knowing about each other perfectly by their love feelings.

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Aditya Sharma said: (Sep 26, 2017)  
Hello, friends.

I am Aditya Sharma, as both marriages are good whether arrange or love, marriage is a word after seeing this we have a smile on our face. According to me love marriage is very nice if partners having good understanding, they know each other qualities, positive, negative all things in this marriage they will not take that much time to understand each other they will enjoy their rest life they full fill their dreams which they have seen before marriage together and they respect their families each other if they love each their family will also cooperate with each other. In arrange marriage there will be hesitation there will be Question mark what is the nature of my partner there are lots of things to do rather than this. Best marriage first you love then say to your parents and then make it like arrange marriage there will be fun. Thanks.

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Sagar Goswami said: (Sep 26, 2017)  
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known person is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. They could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.

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Ms Rakshit said: (Sep 24, 2017)  
According to me, marriage is not only a bonding of two people but also it is a bonding of two families. Marriage is more about knowing each other, respect each other. If you want to make a successful marriage life you should have enough understanding power and adjusting capability. In love marriage, you have the opportunity to know each other's family members, their cultures etc. So that, you can adjust easily. But in an arranged marriage, these things are not possible. Moreover, some arranged marriage demands dowry which is a social curse. But every arranged marriage is not bad and vice versa. If two persons have enough love, respect, adjusting ability then it will become successful.

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Ankit Kumar Yadav said: (Sep 23, 2017)  
Hi matey.

According to me, love marriage is better because love marriage finished dowry system in rural areas many people penurious and he can't capable give the dowry.

Thank you.

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Akshay said: (Sep 22, 2017)  
Hello, everyone, this is Akshay, talking about love marriage and arrange marriage is an endless topic. Every single person has his/her own view, and they are even correct because you don't know what they have faced or what they are currently facing in their life. I have read almost all the comments mentioned here and everyone has shared their own thoughts of what they think about this topic.

At Love Marriages are the most beautiful thing that happens on this earth only before coming into reality, every partner is understanding and they want their home to be always happy but please look after how you both can make out when any of you are emotional, financially or physically hampered this is the time when the real love is shown. Before marriage, one should know each other in every single way so that they can lead a happy life whether it be love marriage or arrange marriage. I would say marriage is about love and togetherness whether it be Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage. Before getting married spend plenty of time with your partner even though it is love marriage or arrange marriage thing of all the possibilities, pros and cons and then take the decision together of getting married.

I wish all the marriages remain successful whether it is Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage just take some time understand each other.

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Preethi Baskaran said: (Sep 21, 2017)  
Hai, I'm Preethi Baskaran from India.

Love marriage or arranged marriage depends on one's mindset. I am not against of love marriage or arranged marriage. In my point of view, many people decide their life based on the parent's decision. That's not fair for everyone. Everyone has inner feeling about their future. Decide your life by your own (boy or girl). If you love someone who never leaves you at any situation, live for him/her. Convenience your decision with your parents. Make that happen. If you prefer for the arranged marriage, talk with him/her about your past life. Mutually understand with each other. If he/she suits your life, then go for it.

Thanks.

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Akash said: (Sep 20, 2017)  
Hi, friends. This is Akash. In my point of view, love marriage is better when compared with the arranged marriages because arranged marriages are just like buying a product in Amazon or Flipkart as we are searching for the person with whom we want to share our future. Is it so pity that we have to leave our 3/4th of life with the person whom we choose just like a product in any app. But in case of love marriages, they will have a mutual understanding between each other and they are matured enough to take decisions rather than loving blindly. They have guts to satisfy their parents then only they have to step forward to love with others.

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Dharmendra Kumar said: (Sep 20, 2017)  
I think arrange marriage is better. Because many parents are not accepting the arrange marriage. Because there is no future of love marriage. So The decision taken in a hurry is always wrong. I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

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Nibedita Satapathy said: (Sep 18, 2017)  
I think arrange marriage is better than love.

Because parents never choose a rough candidate for their child. In arrange marriage all the family members are happy and the couple gets the blessings.

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Sachin Sharma said: (Sep 11, 2017)  
I think, arranged love marriage would be best. Isn't it? If one's parents choose a partner for their son/daughter and allow them to understand each other in some time then both boy and girl will be happy after marriage.

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Keshav said: (Sep 9, 2017)  
I think arrange marriage is better, because at the time when there is not a good relation between girl and boy after marriage the whole family of the both sides stand with you in arrange marriage but in love marriage, you are alone because you fight with them for your love one.

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Kuldeep Gupta said: (Sep 9, 2017)  
Actually, both the things are nearly same if we think a little bit more.

In both the cases very first time we meet a girl or boy who is a strange person for us.

In arrange marriage the reference for that strange person is our parents where as In Love marriage the reference may be our friend or we directly get familiar with that person come across the behavior and starts liking each other.

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Abhishek said: (Sep 6, 2017)  
I am in support of love marriage. We are mature enough to take the decision what is good for us. We are to live with that person, not our family so this decision should be taken by us. Love marriage is decreasing the customs in India previously there was a lot of customs in India like child marriage, dowry.

In love marriage, you love the person by their heart not by face but in arrange marriage they judge you by your physical appearance.

Most of the people have the wrong assumption about love marriage that it will get boring after marriage and then in this way so many misunderstanding will take place. It's wrong if you have a better understanding that it won't Be happen in marriage.

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Shiwani said: (Sep 3, 2017)  
I am in support of love marriage. We are mature enough to take the decision what is good for us. We are to live with that person not our family so this decision should be taken by us. Love marriage is decreasing the customs in India previosly there was lot of customs in India like child marriage, dowry.

In love marriage you love the person by their heart not by face but in arrange marriage they jaudge you by your physical appearance.

Most of the people have wrong assumption about love marriage that it will get bored after marriage and then in this way so many misunderstanding will take place. It's wrong if you have better understanding that it won't Be happen in marriage.

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Sarah said: (Sep 2, 2017)  
If you have found someone to love and is loved in return, of course then it will be a love marriage.

Not everyone is so lucky, then you have to go for arranged marriage.

Just don't betray your love to have an arranged marriage because of dated ideas that arranged marriage is better than love marriage or parental pressure.

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Sanjay said: (Sep 1, 2017)  
Arrange marriage is the best because of bride and groom unknown and he doesn't know about each other and arrange marriage contract a two person and my partner choose by our Parents and elder so Arrange marriage is the best from love marriage.

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Sanjay said: (Sep 1, 2017)  
Arrange marriage is the best because of bride and groom unknown and he doesn't know about each other and arrange marriage contract a two person and my partner choose by our Parents and elder so Arrange marriage is the best from love marriage.

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Saurabh Kumar said: (Aug 31, 2017)  
A very important and an ongoing social factor going on in our country. By the way, I am not against arrange or love marriages as this is our right to choose our future. Everyone saying that if we are going with b love marriages this hurts our parents the most but I want to ask you guys are you going to live with him/her or your parents. It's you right so, of course, it's your right to choose your partner as this is not for your time being this relationship is going to be for life and you have to be satisfied with it so guys go on whether arrange or Love marriage be sensible and be confident in urself on what you choose. And give your 100% in that relationship. And most importantly be happy. Keep away all your ego. Be patient towards your partner and the most important thing is to adjust. As you're going to be together for every good and bad happens in your life. Live your best as we get a life.

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Vivek said: (Aug 29, 2017)  
In love marriage, both know each other perfectly before marriage and In arrange marriage both don't know each other perfectly before marriage but after marriage, both have to spend time to know each other.

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Achyut said: (Aug 29, 2017)  
Hi I am Achyut,

After love marriage creating a big problem in our family, then people are said this is love married problem. And after arrange marriage creating a big problem in our family, then people are said that they do not match their minds and thoughts, couples are not known each other, but not a blame arrange marriage.

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Honey said: (Aug 28, 2017)  
In my point of, both marriages depend in own self.

In love marraige, they connect with each other in all ways already.

In arrange marraige, they will connect with each other in ways they excited to know about many things to partner.

For me both marriages are good.

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Sujeet Vishwakarma said: (Aug 26, 2017)  
Hello, guys,

I am Sujeet.

From my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage because in arrange marriage we don't know each other. Which is so exciting. And it gives a chance to know that person how is that?And after that before getting marriage both are very excited and nervous but that thing converts into love. But in love marriage, nothing to know anything. And after some times they become bored because they already know well their lack ness and quality.

Further love marriage becomes bored.

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Amarjeet Kushwaha said: (Aug 23, 2017)  
Arrange marriage is the best because of bride and groom unknown and he doesn't know about each other and arrange marriage contract a two person and my partner choose by our Parents and elder so Arrange marriage is the best from love marriage.

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Manish said: (Aug 22, 2017)  
Hi friends, in my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage because I respect and family support and the boy and girl stay in seven rounds in Arrange Marriage, so the bond is very unbreakable.

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Chandrushinijg said: (Aug 22, 2017)  
Arrange marriage should be the second preference if you can't get a single partner then it leaves this option otherwise.

Love marriage is best for a new society and better life.

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