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Priyanga said: (Thu, Feb 11, 2016 07:06:08 PM)    
 
I think both conditions are waste. Whatever the parents give, cannot be fulfilled by any others and sorry for this.

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Rahul said: (Thu, Feb 11, 2016 05:55:54 PM)    
 
Guys in my opinion love marriage is the best gift that a family can give to their child, moreover it's the child who is going to live with the life partner. But in some families the decision of the child's marriage is wholly taken by the parents.

But parents fail to understand that they are not of our age. They argue bye saying that "Some years before we were also at your age". But they don't know that the time has changed drastically.

So guys at last I want to conclude that go ahead with your decision and finally your parents will also accept you if you will behave decently with them after marriage.

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Abdul said: (Thu, Feb 11, 2016 12:47:57 PM)    
 
If parents of some lovers refused their love. Lovers should married themselves without parents support. If any small problems come in their life after marriage they could not have the ability to solve the problem.

In arrange marriage parents gave some ideas to solve the problem so arrange marriage is the best one.

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Bindu said: (Thu, Feb 11, 2016 08:50:47 AM)    
 
Hi.

According to me everything has two sides like a coin. One which is good and other is bad. So love marriage and arrange marriage both have some bad points and some good points like.

In love marriage both people knows each other very well and they love each other, they care each other, they have better understanding but somehow anything happens which leads to end up the relationship than you are only the person responsible for, in that case family support is not been given because it's your decision not the family's.

In arrange marriage, there two people don't know each other but they get marry due to their family reviews. But in that case they have much time to understand each other, love each other and come to know each of one's likes or dislikes. But if any case happened and they get separated than in that case you have your family support because they insist you to get marry.

So, I can't say that love marriage is good or a arrange marriage is good. Both have some Positive factors and some negative.

Thank you.

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Supritha said: (Tue, Feb 9, 2016 05:59:51 PM)    
 
Hi friend.

According to my knowledge love marriage is good. They both know them earlier. They understand each other very well. They can lead a beautiful life than arrange marriage.

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Kanhaiya said: (Tue, Feb 9, 2016 05:09:01 PM)    
 
I don't think who is good or bad in love or arrange marriage but I know the all people want to do some new is his/her own life that's like arranged marriage because arrange marriage give us a beautiful time to spend with our family and our friends.

Arrange marriage give us too many blesses and family support us forever..

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Ashutosh said: (Tue, Feb 9, 2016 10:19:48 AM)    
 
According to me love marriage is the thing which leads to a great life. In love marriage both of them understands each other feeling and choices as well. Occurred it will be hilarious if it is love cum arrange. If parents support us then it will the pleasant thing ever.

Afterall you are going to live together, you are going to get your life involved to each other so it should be your decision to choose whom you would like to spent your life with.

But when it comes to the parents, it is difficult to make them understand, try this best, after all they are parents, they love you and they don't ever want to see a little bit of sadness on your face, try you're best they will definitely understand you.

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Hansraj Purohit said: (Mon, Feb 8, 2016 12:54:04 AM)    
 
Arrange marriage is better than love marriage because in love we are clear about every things and arrange marriage we clear problem life time and understand each other lifetime.

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Bhumika said: (Sat, Feb 6, 2016 10:30:38 AM)    
 
Hi friends,

According to it does not matter either you do love marriage or arranged marriage. Marriage life depend on mutual understanding of two people and in arrange marriage both should give time to each other to understand.

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Beena said: (Fri, Feb 5, 2016 10:31:47 PM)    
 
Hello everyone.

I would like to share my personal experience of arranged marriage. About 4 years ago I got married. Beyond my expectation I got my prince charming. He is very caring. He proved me wrong which I thought about arranged marriage.

I believed that how can two unknown person can fall in love. But after getting married. I came to know that there can be love, attraction between couple. I am blessed to have my husband and my 1 year old baby in my life.

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Jatan Lal Maurya said: (Wed, Feb 3, 2016 10:33:36 PM)    
 
Hi guys according to me the best way to spend our life without much issued, a person who wants to marry, the first thing is if he/ she convince his/ her family then life will become like heaven but the other thing is if he/she has not convince his or her family then life become hell.

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Charanya said: (Wed, Feb 3, 2016 02:28:40 PM)    
 
All of the comments are good that from their own point of view but the main fact is that either love marriage or arranged we have to stand on our legs to support it financially. Whether you are a millionaire or a paper. The next is mental disturbances should be avoided. And finally do not lose hope.

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Ganesh Laharpure said: (Wed, Feb 3, 2016 12:10:02 PM)    
 
Good morning.

According to me arrange marriage is better than love marriage because our parents love us more than other at childhood time. And they have there own expectations from us. So if they don't agree with our love marriage. So we can't have any right's to heart there fillings. For our sometimes love.

Thanks to all.

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Divya.A said: (Tue, Feb 2, 2016 10:41:42 PM)    
 
Hi. In my point of view, Arranged Marriage is good and better than the Love Marriage. According to me, marriage is the thing made in heaven. Someone prefers love marriage, but it leads to failure in life. After marriage, they fight each other or maybe live happy. But in arrange marriage, I agree that all of the both family Will be ever happy. And there is a special feel in arrange marriage. Whoever fall in love I request you to talk with your parents and then marry your lover it will be the happiest moment in your life and your family will be happy because parents are the first-ever. Best of luck. Be happy and get sad moment to be ever happy.

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Subhan said: (Tue, Feb 2, 2016 10:56:33 AM)    
 
Hai friends,

In my point view love marriage is best because it does not depend on caste, religion, etc. It is understanding of two persons with love and care and mutually good understanding between them.

Thanks.

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Akash Singh said: (Sun, Jan 31, 2016 11:06:05 PM)    
 
A arrange marriage today is just a business, how much money is exchanged. Well love marriage is real marriage. Love is a greatest thing on earth.

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Sandra Chandran said: (Fri, Jan 29, 2016 07:39:08 PM)    
 
Hi friends,

In my point of view love with arranged marriage is good. In our society parents are not ready to accept love marriage, at first this situation has to change. Love with arrange is better for safety and long lasting married life.

Thanks.

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Neha said: (Wed, Jan 27, 2016 10:26:58 AM)    
 
Hi everyone,

Marriage is the important decision of every individual's life. In my opinion, both have their own pros and corns.

Arrange marriage is something where two people are unknown to each other, they need to spend time to know about each other's attitude, lifestyle choice. Arrange marriage has security that in case if anything happens in future they have moral support from their parents.

In love marriage the couple are well known to each other and aware about each other's habit, likes and dislikes with complete understanding. So managing here becomes easy. When it comes to long lasting survival it's only them who will be responsible for handling their relation with no moral support. As it was their decision to be together.

Thank you.

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Ashwini Durgad said: (Mon, Jan 25, 2016 10:26:03 PM)    
 
Hai everyone, according to me marriages are made in heaven whether its love marriage or arrange. Every relationship live stronger when there is mutual understanding love care and affection between two hearts.

The most important part of relationship is promises between two souls to live together Forever, success of the relationship is true feelings between two hearts whether it's love marriage are arrange.

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Biju said: (Mon, Jan 25, 2016 05:05:55 PM)    
 
Decisions should be personal. Not depend on family. It's not family getting into married relations. Talking, each other makes them know better. Love marriage will help them to build their world.

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Mann J said: (Sat, Jan 23, 2016 12:37:07 PM)    
 
Hi guys according to me love marriage is best because boy and girl are known clearly about himself. I think without love no life and with love relation will be successful. But in India all peoples are not good thought regarding love marriages and the parents are not allowed to choose the boy and girls.

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Rutu said: (Fri, Jan 22, 2016 11:01:21 PM)    
 
In my opinion, any day love marriages are better for the simple reason it's in the word itself. It's "love" marriage you love the person who you are going to marry. And well arranged on the other side is kind of like an "agreement" arrangement to love the person for your entire life!

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Pankaj Kumar said: (Fri, Jan 22, 2016 08:57:39 PM)    
 
Hello friends.

I think that love and arrange marriage both are good when you pursuing your relationship on a right track such as you both are support each other and you do something that make coordination better than best. Marriage is all about love, care, patience, and coordination.

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Biju said: (Fri, Jan 22, 2016 10:58:34 AM)    
 
Hello.

Marriage was found by God for our better living. It was meant for reproduction. Putting off fornication and adultery. In the sense we marry To reveal and fulfill Godly desires. You are free to choose your own partner nor go for family selection. In both don't go for selfish attitude. Go for God's attitude. For more understanding please read bible.

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Aks said: (Thu, Jan 21, 2016 08:57:41 AM)    
 
Arranged marriage today is just a business, how much money is exchanged. Well love marriage is real marriage. Love is the greatest thing on earth.

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Sree said: (Tue, Jan 19, 2016 08:21:56 PM)    
 
My opinion we should not support love marriages because in India most of the divorce are happening on love marriages only. I think there is no love between a girl and boy it's just an attraction between the two persons.

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Elfa said: (Sat, Jan 16, 2016 07:14:30 PM)    
 
Hello I am Elfa. For me love marriage is better than arranged marriage. In love marriage both couple knows each other and they love each other.

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Rohit said: (Thu, Jan 14, 2016 07:23:05 PM)    
 
Hello everyone.

In my point of view, love marriage is more effective than simple arranged one.

Because our whole life, whole future directly depends on our life partner.

Some people of old era thinks that love before marriage belongs to the characterless status for the boy/girl. They think that what the society will think about them, and what their relative think and mostly girls suffer more in this situation than boys.

This is nothing but a sort of dust in their minds.

But in this modern era relationships built on mutual understanding and trust which I think is much better in love marriages.

I am not totally against the arrange marriages as it can also be successful if some gap must be put in between engagement and marriage ceremony so that both can understand each other.

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Anup said: (Thu, Jan 14, 2016 01:11:35 PM)    
 
I do not know why most of the people likes love marriage. I agree the in love marriage both (boy & girl) know each other firstly both want to spent whole life with each other but most divorce case in India is only due to love marriage most of the couple who separated they do love marriage first and drastic sufferer is their children. A child do not know any thing but only suffers he do not know why their parents separated because first of all both (parents) know each other from childhood age. Both of them knows each other like and dislike things so after marriage they bore with each other that the main reason both irritated with each other and lastly divorce.

But in arrange marriage both don't know each other so after marriage firstly they want to know about each other and after time went on and as they know about each other age comes up to (35-40) and also child grows up so there is no time to fight and live their life up to end.

That's why arranged marriage is successful than love marriage.

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Ajin Antony said: (Mon, Jan 11, 2016 10:25:20 AM)    
 
Hey guys.

I support love marriage because in love marriage the both boy and girl knows each others faults and there negatives and positives so they can adjust each other they can continue a happy life till end but in arranged marriage only families are joined together but the couples they are forced to join together and there will be problems these guys have to face.

Love marriage is much better than arranged marriage. So please support love marriage. They will be planning a happy life till they both fall in love if they get together they will have a happily ever after life for sure.

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Prince Singh said: (Wed, Jan 6, 2016 08:14:05 AM)    
 
Hi guys.

According to my sense Love marriage is better because in love marriage boy and girl always understand each other Because LOVE is most beautiful feeling for couple life and In love marriage boys parents not demands dowry for girls side.

So I think Love marriage is only solution to remove Dowry system, Because Dowry system is big issue for our country, If all boys and girls going on Love marriage Dowry system is automatically remove. Dowry System is Nonsense behavior for demanded parents.

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Ranveer Sequeira said: (Tue, Jan 5, 2016 07:42:38 PM)    
 
The most convincing reason that proves arranged marriages is better than Love marriages would be Statistics! In most cases, couples who had an arranged marriage are more understanding towards each other.

For in an arranged marriage, first few years of the marriage are spent in knowing and understanding the person. There is a sense and demand of spending more time with each other.

In a love marriage, before the marriage, the couple shares a very different level of understanding. This understanding when tied to social obligations expected once married, are difficult to obey.

It is easy to adjust with the partner in an arranged marriage as compared to love marriage. This is because in a love marriage things may often be taken for granted. Since the partners have never met before, in an arranged marriage, they care more about each others needs.

Arranged marriages help resolves domestic issues faster. There is a sense of fear of loosing the partner. For some unforeseen reason, the marriage does not work; there are many people who will support more.

In most cases, love marriages force the couple to stay away from family. This leaves them with no choice but to tackle their own problems.

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Pawan Pandey said: (Tue, Jan 5, 2016 06:57:02 PM)    
 
Hi friends.

According to my view love marriage is better than arrange marriage because if the couple's loved each other. There will most understanding each other and they solved problems together. In love marriage boy may love the girl and girl may love the boy after few days or month or years. But in arrange marriage boy and girls take some time for the understanding and they are not making good relationship.

Arranged marriage is a costly marriage but love marriage is short court marriage. At the time life is very fast so people don't want to engage in arrange marriage every people like short court marriage who don't want to loss the importance time. In love marriage good relation between the husband and wife. So according to my view love marriage is successful.

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Isaac said: (Sun, Jan 3, 2016 11:44:59 AM)    
 
In my point of view, Love marriages are best than arrange marriages because if the couple's loved each other there will most understanding between them and they both will not love each other first girl may love the boy or boy may love the girl and after few days or months or years they will accept each other in the meanwhile of their proposals they will see and observe their love, care or can they understand themselves in future or not. So that they'll be great understandings without any discrimination and domination between them and they'll be successful in their life.

But in the case of arranged marriage, in these days 98% of Girls and boys are having their boy are girl fends each other and they may have history behind. So if a boy got arranged marriage how come he know the care, behavior, history of that particular girl?

No he does not about that girl particularly till he experience the domination and discrimination after his marriage and so they can't be happy each other and there life will be spoiled. So I conclude that love marriages are Better than arranged marriages.

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Anu said: (Sun, Jan 3, 2016 02:43:10 AM)    
 
Hi everyone,

The topic is all about marriage and the forever relationship between the husband and wife. We can see the society with love marriages and arrange marriages and especially now-a-days society is with 70% of love cum arrange marriages and 30% with arrange marriages. In love marriages people want to know the persons nature before the marriage and gets married them with the Self affection towards them.

Where in the arrange marriages parents will take care of each and every point of the person before gets marriage and make the girl and boy to engage with each other to known each other well before marriage and then marriages them. Some marriages may fail it does not mean our choice is wrong it is all about not understanding each other. When marriage is done as a bond forever their should be a mutual understanding and helping each other to flow a sweet and affectionate married life.

Yes it's true, each of them as to support themselves to come out of the situations and settle soon. But these days we can see many are divorcing for simple reasons we will laugh at them when their explains why they are in divorce. Some may go with the worse situations to choose the divorce those are reasonable to take divorce but do not for the simple thing. Because "Marriages are made in heaven" it's really not a simple relation to break as you like it has some magical love and affection between the Girl and the boy.

Conclusion: Either it is a love marriage or a arrange marriage relationship must be strong by helping each other to live life long.

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Jessy said: (Fri, Jan 1, 2016 01:02:55 PM)    
 
It doesn't depend upon whether it was arranged or not but rather on how two people understand each other.

"Arranged marriages may seem awry to some, but you only realize when you have undergone or seen cases in which love marriages don't quite prove to be the best way out.

"Parents want the best for their child; when it comes to choosing someone you want to spend your life with, you can actually give benefit of the doubt to your parents.

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Ayon Sarkar said: (Fri, Jan 1, 2016 10:43:20 AM)    
 
I don't think love marriage is actually love marriage anymore. Even though there may be love between the two, but still you need to arrange a plenty before getting married, a good job, family settlement, and much more. Its love cum arrange marriage right now.

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Sri said: (Wed, Dec 30, 2015 12:38:07 PM)    
 
Hi friends,

In my point of view love arranged marriage is better thing. Why because in present situation every boy and girl have girl friend and boy friend. The persons who have true love between them better to ask their parents and marry each other. If parents are refuse your love try to make belief on your love to your parents.

Now a days parents also think about their children's love and accept their choices. If you don't have dare to discuss about your love with your parents better to do arranged marriage. That's better than leave your lover alone. Just adjust with your parents decision. If you have luck and fate surly you will be happy with arranged marriage.

One small suggestion guys if you have love story before marriage please don't remember his or her after married with other person just give up the past. Because don't deceive your partner and you should devote your life to your partner then only your marriage life would be successful with true love. Why because your love is an intangible asset to your partner.

Thank you.

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Jayani said: (Sun, Dec 27, 2015 05:52:43 AM)    
 
Hello all of you!

In my point of view marriage is very successful when we met the right person. Sometimes it may be more difficult to choose one. But however we met the right person we will able to live with him or her with happy mood.

In Asia there are so many arrange marriages than love marriages and also divorce rate is more less than love. I think it works may be due to children financial & social issues. In arrange marriages parents have more responsible to look after couple than love. According to me Arrange marriages are more successful than love. But before they marry they must have a good understand about themselves thoroughly.

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Kamini said: (Fri, Dec 25, 2015 11:22:00 AM)    
 
Love marriage and arranged marriage similarities, true color of the couple will come out only after marriage.

Lovers: Hidden information, only after marriage both of them will come to know. The result of marriage is infatuation or love or self motivation?

Arranged marriage: Till marriage parents words will be the best, if money plays role then after marriage one spouse will easily find the other not fit to them in terms of beauty, qualification i.e., education, job, dressing sense. Don't the same is known at the time of finalizing the marriage? When the boy/girl applies for divorce it is the same parents whom they fight with. Why don't they fight before marriage? This problem is found with lovers too.

So as to stop dowry people were going for love marriage so that they can choose a life partner who will love his/her character. Current generation youngster and their parents are very smart with love cum arranged marriage where they don't fail to get dowry.

In my circle love marriage, girl spend for marriage where as the boy's family came as a usual arranged marriage boy side parents enter with nothing and leave the mandapam with the girl along with her gifts (which is not a dowry in the current trend).

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Koushal said: (Thu, Dec 24, 2015 01:33:27 AM)    
 
Hello friends.

According to love marriages is good because two people know each other very well their likes dislikes how they are little fights happens in every relation but they never break their relation that's only happen with the help of love.

And in arranged marriage people don't know each other they only know when they got married and its take time to know each other.

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Roja said: (Wed, Dec 23, 2015 01:20:15 AM)    
 
This is Roja Eswaran.

In my point of view. Love marriage is the best thing when compared to the arranged marriage. Say for an example just for buying a new dress we will be going for the familiar shop. And if we tend to go to doctor we will be going to the one who is more familiar with us. Marriage is the most important part in our life. This is the thing which helps us to choose the partner whom we gonna to spend our remaining part of life.

So the person who is gonna to share with our life must know about our self to the greater extent. Only with the love marriages we will be getting this opportunity. And love come arranged marriage is extraordinarily superb. Love marriages are best forever.

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Navneet Kr said: (Tue, Dec 22, 2015 12:40:50 PM)    
 
I just want to say that love marriage should me there and our society should grow up these things because the main concern is people are backbiting to each other for their lives and love. If anyone who likes to someone then according to my point of view there should be no any complications. Its not like a ruddy attire that they have to use for minute a while.

They know each other very well with their conscience. But it should be in a healthy way means if they are already in a relationship then they have to represent themselves with a quite and respect in front of their genesis and should be convince them as they are they are their originator so definitely they will listen them at the end of the moment.

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Siddhant said: (Fri, Dec 18, 2015 06:30:10 PM)    
 
Friends if we see statics the number of divorces is greater in LOVE MARRIAGE than in arrange marriage. Those who say love marriage is better because we came to know about each others, friends when we are in love we are not in position to judge the opposite person.

In love marriage people are attracted just by physical and some what mental looks. We see in arrange marriage we have knowledge about ones family and many other things, so chances of success in arrange marriages are high.

Problem arise when people live under one roof this happens in love marriage, as we were not in position to judge, as we say LOVE IS BLIND. So arrange marriages be preferred.

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Mukesh Kumar said: (Fri, Dec 18, 2015 01:05:00 PM)    
 
I just want to say that arranged marriage is kind of legal rape because people get married without knowing each other where there is no feelings no love I think this is such a big crime, so before marriage parents must know what their children really want.

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Prashant Rastogi said: (Fri, Dec 18, 2015 12:36:36 PM)    
 
Arrange marriage and love marriage both can only be successful when you meet a right person. Respect is also the most important factor if you cannot respect each other no matter how much you love, one day the relation will end up like hell.

Love Marriage: Love marriages should happen within 2 years of relation only, when it stretches more than conflicts occurs, while we are in love who don't see the understanding level initially later on we came to know yes we have understanding issues (if any) If understanding level are on the same track than go for love marriage. In physically involved during relation. Marriage altogether is a different stage of life be it a arrange or love if understanding fails its end of a that relation.

Arrange Marriages : In this marriage you don't get that much time to know each other its just, kundli matching, both family agree, both couple like each just with talk of few minutes of few days, its also true it took some time to know a person sometimes its took a lifetime to know a person so again it depends. What I believe arrange marriage is a gamble, if you found the right life partner you won, if you marry to wrong person you only lose no one else.

The conclusions is for both marriages.

1. Understanding.
2. Respect.
3. Support.
4. Trust.

These all 4 can make any marriage successful.

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Pavan said: (Wed, Dec 16, 2015 10:24:30 PM)    
 
Hi friends.

In my point of view love with arranged in best. If we goes against our parents then nobody in the world whose more believable than parents. If we stuck any problem than only our parents whose take care of ours there is nobody expect parents whose care ours.

Conclusion is that do love marriage if parents are agree otherwise don't go against to your parents because parents is like ours god.

Thanks to all.

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Savari said: (Wed, Dec 16, 2015 09:23:42 AM)    
 
According to me, it is in the hands of the couples. Love plays vital role in marriage. If they love each other there will not be any problem. And also money plays vital role. Because of money only many family divided.

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Anita said: (Sun, Dec 13, 2015 12:00:38 AM)    
 
Love marriage is really blessed but I feel It's gonna be very heart paining at fights ESP for true lovers.

Whereas in arranged marriage there is no mind wrecking emotions even if there are fights. Because they both aren't in love with each other truly.

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Umi said: (Thu, Dec 10, 2015 10:21:27 AM)    
 
Actually our society is undergoing a transition phase in which present generation people preferred love marriages over arrange marriages. I am also in a favor of love marriages. But whether it is love or arrange both needs commitment, adjustments and understanding of each others thought.

Obviously knowing each other properly before marriage helps in being compatible even after marriage which is very important as they are going to be part of new families on both sides. One will become more expressive and open by the time but knowing each others nature, behavior, likes, dislikes prior marriage definitely helps starting a good married life together. I think love marriages can be proved helpful in curbing the problem of cast-ism in our society.

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Chetan Chauhan said: (Wed, Dec 9, 2015 08:55:58 AM)    
 
Marriage is a very important social institution. Every individual wants to have a perfect match, but the criteria for choosing the partner is different.

My point of view love marriage is best:

1) Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.

2) Couple is responsible for its choice and onus of the blame in future lies on the couple only and nobody else.

3) Couple is aware of each other's likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well.

4) The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.

5) They have mutual understanding.

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Jai said: (Tue, Dec 8, 2015 11:07:57 PM)    
 
Hi this is Jai.

Marriage are fixed in Heaven, "Love and care your wife as a lover" your whole life became more happy. This is the only solution for a happy and healthy life.

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Krishna Sai said: (Tue, Dec 8, 2015 07:21:16 PM)    
 
Here it is not about love or arranged. It depends on mind set of couples. Even arranged marriages people are not happy but pretend to be happy because of their parents and never talk to each other if fought on any topic/issue. Lovers will patch up soon even after a big fight.

Now a days in Arranged marriages, couple are cheating each others by having affairs with ex or others. In love, couple know each other and then they get married so there are less changes of affairs.

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Krishna Sai said: (Tue, Dec 8, 2015 07:16:34 PM)    
 
Hi All,

Getting married to loved one is very difficult. Love married Couple are more expressive than the arranged married couple.

True love is always better then arranged love. In arranged you are not you. You will adjust and compromise with conditions. In love you don't have obstacles and give importance to only loved one than others.

True Love is one rarest magic happens in life time to very few and if that happen they never forget through out the life.

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Siddique Ahmed said: (Sun, Dec 6, 2015 01:01:57 AM)    
 
My point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because of that in love marriage we choice e yourself we now our future better we both are now our feeling form long times therefore love marriage is best marry for a person.

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Grishma Akhand said: (Sat, Dec 5, 2015 09:51:17 AM)    
 
According to me, the marriage is arranged or love doesn't matter. It depend on that two people who want spent there life with each other.

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Mohini Pandey said: (Fri, Dec 4, 2015 08:16:31 PM)    
 
I think arranged marriage is better because our parents choose our spouse extremely carefully. They will make sure it is someone who matches our own belief and values to ensure compatibility. How can we hurt our parents for sometime relationship as compare to our long time relationship with our parents.

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Shahzad Hawari said: (Fri, Dec 4, 2015 07:40:34 PM)    
 
Hi.

Good evening all of you my dear.

If we are talk about love marriage in my opinion the combination of two heart is called love and as you know that a boy and girl know very well in his student life than they also want to marry with each other is called love marriage.

But, In arrange marriage you don't know how is she but again you have to married with her because somebody don't want broke heart his parents I think that it is good because you find fully freedom and help of your family exiting in love netter no anybody help you that's all.

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Dilshiii said: (Fri, Dec 4, 2015 05:44:02 PM)    
 
Hello friends I think love marriage is better. Because it is a kind of precaution. Why I am saying like this is, through love affairs we can select the best person according to our thoughts and our life style. We can leave if he is not the person with the expected qualities. In arranged marriage no option can be seen like this. It' s kind of entering to a strange nature rather than a familiar nature like in love marriages. So love marriage can be recommended.

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Manoj Vaishnav said: (Wed, Dec 2, 2015 10:36:06 AM)    
 
Good morning.

I think arranged marriage is best grater than love marriage. Because it is choice our parents. We know that before married parents told we that are happy in this case after than our choice that we accepted or we did not accepted. In this case we happy and our family happy.

So arrange marriage is best.

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Nitin said: (Sun, Nov 29, 2015 10:24:01 PM)    
 
In my opinion love com arrange marriage is best. But in many cases that can't be possible. In love marriage they can understand each other. At this generation everyone has a boy and girl friend. So in love marriage you will marry your own lover and in arrange marriage you will marry someones lover. So now you have to choose.

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Vedanshi Tomar said: (Sun, Nov 29, 2015 12:24:30 PM)    
 
Hello friends,

According to me love marriage is better than arrange marriage because we don't know about that whom we are marrying. We accept strange boy after marriage we don't know about him. His character and his life he is smoker or drinker or how he react with the girls.

We don't know anything about him. So in my opinion what the girls and boys want to live life with whom we can give chance to them to choose a right partner and marry them. Thank you!

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Souhardya said: (Mon, Nov 23, 2015 03:22:17 AM)    
 
I think arranged come love is better. Because in this case you and your parents, both will be very happy and there won't be any complications in future. This is a modern concept that I am in love with. Thanks everyone.

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Naveeen said: (Sat, Nov 14, 2015 10:14:18 AM)    
 
Love marriage waste marriages in world. Every one think in our parents and her life. We face the many problems. But we are solute our problems. Come in point some peoples are do the love marriage. We not success in our partner ship in life.

Love marriage are not solute any problems and face many problems. Love marriage in first face the problems in money. Parents will not supported at the love marriage understanding is ok in love. Problems are not solute. So arrange marriage is best marriage in world.

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Aman Goyal said: (Mon, Nov 9, 2015 03:26:51 AM)    
 
Hello everyone.

As per my opinion love marriage is better than arrange marriage because today's generation is different from previous. Some changes are done in society. As taken consideration of society, generation, love marriage is take most precious step in removing the CASTISM.

There is a understanding between boy and girl because they know each other and they also know what are his/her +'ve & -'ve point.

Now-a-days everyone have a bf or gf so that ways make easy parents headache. Everyone know better well what is right & what is wrong.

In love marriage we can select the best partner for our life, we can understand each other fully before get marry.

The most imp thing in marriage is respect, trust, honest, understanding, if that thing get in your relation you don't need anything in your precious life.

Thank you.

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Vishwas said: (Fri, Nov 6, 2015 10:23:53 PM)    
 
Hi friends.

Only words to tell about marriage is bond between partners. Bond should be strong. Care trust truth loyal respect are the bond.

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Sana said: (Fri, Nov 6, 2015 06:47:57 PM)    
 
Hi friends,

A KNOWN DEVIL IS BETTER THAN UNKNOWN GHOST.

According to me its not the thing that depends on love marriage and arrange marriage it depends on particular person whom we are marrying there are many cases where not only love marriage fails but even arrange marriage too.

If we consider love marriage. Obviously no support from parents. But there is kind of understanding between two person which sometimes lead to a happy life.

If we consider arrange marriage. DOWRY system the thing which still going on which in turn makes burden to our parents. And in these arrange marriage experiences from elders means lot to live a better life.

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Sanjay Kumar Bindhani said: (Fri, Nov 6, 2015 05:53:23 AM)    
 
Hi, friends.

I would like to say a little things, since our birth to adult whatever we do on our own choice. Like playing game, use of stylish dress, food etc. Because its our right. So the choosing of life partner should be by us that's why the coming life would be better like our previous unmarried life. Hence love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Thank you.

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Sachin Kumar Mahra said: (Thu, Nov 5, 2015 11:42:21 AM)    
 
Hi friends, good morning to all.

According to my opinion. Love marriage is better than arrange marriage because I also like love marriage. And in the love marriage we get a chance to know about the girls. So. That what is her character and what is her desire. We can say in love marriage we have to familiar with that girl.

So I thing love marriage is better then arrange marriage. But in arrange marriage. We have to accept stranger girl. So it create many problems for us. We don't know any thing about the girls in arrange marriage. What is her feelings. What is characters. So that many problem.

I know, there is some problem in love marriage. Because and we also know India is cultural country, so as a Indian our father and mother will not agree with me. So I will have to compromise with our family and society.

Thanks to all.

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Patel Parth said: (Wed, Nov 4, 2015 10:02:54 PM)    
 
Hello friend.

My point of view I think the love marriage is more best compared with the arrange marriage because in love marriage partner was already understand each other and start the life with faith and trust in same case arrange marriage the partner try to do for same.

And now for this days parents also support children's love because they also know love is best thing to compared arrange. So my opinion is going to love marriage.

Thank you!

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Vishal said: (Mon, Nov 2, 2015 01:12:11 AM)    
 
Well read lots of good points, As far as my opinion is concerned I think I want a combo pack of Arrange Marriage and Love Marriage. And I think every one who is reading this wants the same. But the question comes why parents don't allow their kids to take such a big decision of their life? Parents love their kids, they always want to see them happy in their life.

But theirs always a fear in each parents mind that may be in future just because of their kids decision they have to face some kind of embarrassment in the society so they don't allow their kids to take this decision individually. If you convince them then definitely you are going to have this duo-combo pack.

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Hritik Mishra said: (Sun, Nov 1, 2015 09:04:12 PM)    
 
I think love marriage is better because if you do love arrange marriage then you have a lot of misunderstanding between you and your wife then you blame your family is it right no this is burden for your family for their wrong decision.

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Kamal said: (Sun, Nov 1, 2015 04:02:16 PM)    
 
Hi friends,

According to me love marriage is the best way, because everyone has a right to live life according to his/her way and to choose the life partner according to his/her interests. If they are doing the marriage it means they have trust and good understanding between them and these two are the important parameters for any relationship.

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Keerthi said: (Thu, Oct 29, 2015 08:19:20 PM)    
 
I think it's about the person we going to marry. Either if it's love or arrange marriage, if there's love whatever happens we will be happy, we feel strong, we have to love the one we going to marry even after we died.

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Aasil said: (Tue, Oct 27, 2015 03:51:38 PM)    
 
I will like to share my opinion about both the type of marriages. In love marriage many of us may say that love disappears after marriage but it is not that love disappears but it is due to infatuation not love many of us just attracted to other people it is not love.

But in case of arrange marriage conflicts arises during marriage but mutual understanding is required for any relationship to survive which is present in arrange marriage. There must be private space for both men and women in any relationship.

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Samresh Kumar Shukla said: (Sun, Oct 25, 2015 06:07:46 PM)    
 
Hi friends.

In my opinion love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage you know your partner very well and also makes the planning of your life. And the work is happen in planning is best. In arrange marriage we understand the partner firstly and always confused to share the felling to each other.

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Pinky Ansari said: (Thu, Oct 22, 2015 11:40:05 PM)    
 
Hi friends,

In my opinion love marriage is best than arrange marriage. Because now a days every body have a girl friend or boy friend so that ways make easy parents headache. Every body know better well what is right and whats wrong. So I want say that love marriage is the best.

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Manasa said: (Thu, Oct 22, 2015 10:39:55 PM)    
 
Hi friends,

I would like to say arranged marriage is better than love marriage. We may know a person either by chatting or by talking, that person may behave differently than what he actually is. He may hide something and may become close to you.

People used to say that when feelings or tastes of two persons match they are in love and can marry. That's not a better idea. In life some situations may arise where we can feel that our decision is wrong and we cannot change our life. Love after marriage is good. May be due to adjustment we live together, know each other correctly.

Most of our parents would have done arranged marriages and are leading their life peacefully then why can't we.

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Deepika said: (Wed, Oct 21, 2015 01:07:26 PM)    
 
Love marriage is better than arrange marriage because In love mrg both partner knows very well to each other and have well understanding.

Only both are enjoy in love marriage. Everybody enjoying arrange marriage.

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Yogesh Patil said: (Mon, Oct 19, 2015 05:05:40 PM)    
 
My opinion about the same is that love marriage and arrange marriage are same but only difference is that in love marriage the couple is ready to live with each other with faith and trust, and in other case the couple try to do same. If we deeply think then it is better to go for love marriage only if the couple is strongly committed and trusting on each other and know the negatives and positives very well. So that the life long relation is going out happily.

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Anaya said: (Mon, Oct 19, 2015 11:58:59 AM)    
 
According to me, whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage, it is all about the understanding between partners. There are cases where even arrange marriage don't turn to be successful. Still I think that if a person is in love and wants to spend his or her life with someone, he or she should be set free to do so because it is ultimately the person who has to spend the life with his partner and not the entire family or communities that people keep on talking about.

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Dhiya said: (Sun, Oct 18, 2015 02:09:18 PM)    
 
In my point of view love marriage is better but I am not saying that arrange marriage is not better. In love marriage the understand each other more properly but in arrange marriage they are strangers before marriage. First of all they don't know each other and they have never met before. But in love marriage you know each other well.

In love marriage you can talk to the other person freely you can share your views and ideas everything but in arrange marriage you feel shame of sharing your ideas with the other person. In love marriage the girl and the boy understand each other very well. So according to me love marriage is the best.

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Veerendra Baghel said: (Sat, Oct 17, 2015 10:11:11 AM)    
 
My opinion is arrange marriage is best for our life. Because this is our family choice. As you know every parents and mother have some dream about his son marriage. One thing is we are Indians we follow our religious and India is culture country. Most time I have seen failed to love marriage. So arranged marriage is best for best life.

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Hamza said: (Thu, Oct 15, 2015 10:52:05 PM)    
 
My opinion arrange marriage are best for life. Because first of all your family support and second you start our life without any tension or misunderstanding. After arrange marriage you also decided our whole life spend our partner and developing the understanding between us.

In other word when you create understanding before love marriage if you developed understanding after arrange marriage I think so it's better for married life.

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Shubham Katiyar said: (Thu, Oct 15, 2015 05:37:47 PM)    
 
In my point of view, I support the love marriage because in love marriage there is a emotional and immortal understanding between each other. In some cases there will be misunderstanding and that not mean that they divorce each other because before marriage there had been also be misunderstanding and that time their parents are not there, some of them friends also help him.

So I think that we choose the best partner according to our self with that we can spend the life with great happiness. After some time of period parents also supports because in the happiness of children their lies the happiness of parents.

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Akki said: (Wed, Oct 14, 2015 07:05:21 PM)    
 
Love marriage is good as compared to arrange one because there is a good understanding between them as they know each other well and arrange one is opposite to it.

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Sabitha said: (Wed, Oct 14, 2015 04:05:31 PM)    
 
Good evening friends,

Am sabitha.

My point of view,

Now a days so many love marriages were doing love marriages may in future also. There is no chances of which marriages is best to telling its completely depends on husband and wife. They understanding each and other. For example love marriage couple understanding not good between two people.

They can't do any thing because they can't share problems with others. Same as it is arrange marriage couple also understanding is not good they can't do any thing. But they share to their parents it is the arrange marriage plus point I support both marriages. Which marriage we do first of all understanding and trust is very important.

Thank you friends.

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Vamshika said: (Fri, Oct 9, 2015 01:00:25 PM)    
 
In my opinion love marriage is better than arrange marriage because we understand each other before the marriage in arranged marriage we don't know about him and we don't know his attitude in only some cases arrange marriage better but not all cases.

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Azruddin Khan said: (Fri, Oct 9, 2015 08:55:34 AM)    
 
Hi friends,

I support love marriage because there is a understanding between girls and boys. Because they know each other and they also know what are his/her week point and positive point. They can understand each other but people who love someone then tell to your family because your family always support you because they want that our children always live happy.

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Anikait said: (Thu, Oct 8, 2015 07:47:28 AM)    
 
According to me love marriage is more effective so far I have concerned. Because I love marriage only both the couples knows it each for long time. And in that way only if the bonding occurs then only they step for marriage.

Guy or girl are going to lead or start their life so according to them partner should be. Because if anything will happen in future then at time time no one is going to deny or regret.

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Mukesh said: (Tue, Oct 6, 2015 10:28:29 PM)    
 
Hello everyone according to my point of view both love and arrange marriage is good if you find a good partner who understand your feelings properly. Haapy married life depend upon person, person's happiness doesn't depend on the way of marriage.

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Khandare Archana said: (Mon, Oct 5, 2015 12:30:31 AM)    
 
Hello everyone,

I am Khandare Archana.

As per my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because today's generation is different than previous. Some changes are done in society. As taken consideration of society, generation, love marriage is take most precious step in removing the castism and another name of marriage is LOVE.

Marriage is most important point in life, We are a independent. So every person have it's own decision on that. And most important thing in marriage is TRUST, RESPECT and HONESTY. If you can get these things in your relation then no need of anything in your precious life.

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Nausheen Sayed said: (Sun, Oct 4, 2015 10:06:43 PM)    
 
There are many cases in the society where people do love marriage but its very rarely found that they are successful. Either its the matter of lack of understanding between each other or lack of bonding between each other.

And after knowing the person in and out, the curiosity of knowing each other dies a natural death where as in case of arrange marriage both the unknown souls are curious to know each other and from then onwards begins a new life!

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Latha said: (Sun, Oct 4, 2015 07:15:37 PM)    
 
Hi friends.

I think love and arrange is best.

Because the arrange marriage we have a parents support. In love marriage we have love, understanding, caring and affection. So we want to have a happy and safety life I prefer love and arrange marriage.

Thank you.

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Latesh Shownkeen said: (Sun, Oct 4, 2015 11:35:17 AM)    
 
Hi everyone.

I am in favour of love marriage because its the best choice a person can ever make and most importantly its the matter of whole life and taking the decision by ourselves by understanding the person well and knowing each other, later on making decisions is better than living a life with unknown person!

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Nausheen Sayed said: (Fri, Oct 2, 2015 01:19:27 PM)    
 
Actually love marriages are not successful as far as I have seen. Its better to go with arrange marriage because sometimes the wrong decisions taken at small age cost us for lifetime. If the marriage is against the parents then its more dangerous because if due to any reason the partners don't agree with each other, then they have no other option than quoting and then living a hasty life that too alone. Rather if its arrange marriage then even if the partners undergo a clash or a divorce, they have the support of parents and can make a new beginning!

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Srinivas Aravind Majji said: (Thu, Sep 24, 2015 08:13:00 AM)    
 
According to me love arranged marriages are the best because. In arranged marriages there is no love exists and no understanding between couples. Other side in love marriages though love and understanding exists if our own parents are not with us then too its not good at times there will not be any help when really required off. So love-arranged is the best option we can choose, I believe in love-arranged because only such marriages both love, understanding & our parents all the three most required present.

So parents its a request from my end please ask your children whether your son/daughter is in love or being deeply & really loved by any of their friends who really cannot live without them. Let me give live example I'm deeply in love with a girl so I'm going to speak with their parents and marry her. And my dear friends please accept people who really cannot live without you.

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Divija said: (Wed, Sep 23, 2015 07:03:40 PM)    
 
Hi friends it almost universal doubt on arranged or love marriages in my point of view I supported both because when you have ability to choose perfect guy or girl on quality behavior on belief then you try to love others to convince your parents for love marriage you don t have that much ability or risk then you choose arrange marriage our parents also think about of our life more than us it depend on ourselves capability mostly I support arrange marriage because now a days youth are in not in real love break ups are very common.

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Basavaraj said: (Mon, Sep 21, 2015 08:16:37 PM)    
 
I think both conditions are same. If both conditions have problems then there have their solutions also. You just need to be loyal, helpful, support, and adjustable to each other.

In arranged marriage your family supports you. There is no doubt with this. But in love marriage if you live with that thing what I have said before. Then your family will supports you in love marriage also.

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Shekugha said: (Mon, Sep 21, 2015 08:00:35 PM)    
 
Hi Friends,

In my point of view,

Love marriage is better then arrange marriage in a lot of ways. First off, arranged marriage doesn't mean listening to your parents and getting married and also it doesn't always mean its good for you. 'Choosing the best for you?' Seriously? Because in the end, it is you who will live with the one you married. Not your parents. That doesn't mean that it does not work. Yes, there are many places where it has been a success. That's why it is still prevalent today.

In love marriages, we assume that either the boy or the girl will cheat, or take advantage. Who is to say that this thing doesn't happen in arrange marriage? We say that in arrange marriage, we find some +ve and -ve and cope with it. Who says that all love marriage doesn't have these? In love, we break up. Isn't there divorce in arranged marriages?

The point I'm trying to make is that being in an arrange marriage doesn't necessarily mean living for the sake of your parents. Its your life. You are the one that's going to live with the other person. Isn't knowing and loving the other person before hand better then knowing him/her in the brink of marriage? Just give that a thought.

Thank you.

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