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|Abhishek Jagota said: (Jun 26, 2017)|
|Marriage is a sacred ritual in our Indian society its not only about bonding of two people it's about bonding of two families and cultures arranged marriage is the better one because in it the person who will become our life partner is chosen by our parents and our parents are our BEST WELL WISHERS and want to see us happy and if we take the examples of our parents and our relatives most of whom have done arranged marriages are living happily and successfully whereas if we see the current scenario relationship has become a part of style and trend rather than being based on true love which leads to complications pain and distress after the marriage so I think one should go with arranged marriage which is acceptable to all and keeps one's parents happy and content.
On a Humorous note: sometimes due to arranged marriage, we get such a good life partner which one can't ever dream of having a relationship with.
|Shefali Sharma said: (Jun 26, 2017)|
|I think it totally depends on the person's choice. Whether he is compatible with his lover or the one his parents chose. It's completely ok if he loves a person. He can ask his parents and if they agree, it's well & good otherwise he will have to start new innings. But in this process, he ought not to blame his parents if something goes wrong.
It's good to know a person already before getting married, but it's also fine when you get to explore after marriage.
|Prateeksha said: (Jun 26, 2017)|
|I think whatever the marriage it is whether arranged or love the couples should be the matured ones. They should love each other care 4 each other but at the same time should let their partner have personal space.
If you find a partner who has these qualities just go for them don't think that it should be arranged only because it's you who is going to stay a long life with them. Life is a wonderful gift we get so why to make it sorrow 4 others happiness it's you who is going to stay with them so better you select the person with whom you can stay life long till your death separates.
What I wanted to say is whatever the marriage it be it's you who is gonna make it special or ruin it a life long. It only depends on you cuz you are matured nd well enough to take your decisions on your own.
|Balveer/Kunal said: (Jun 25, 2017)|
|In my point of view, arrange marriage is best for maintain relationship both. Many time love marriage become fail because they don't understand both.|
|Heera Singh Gusain said: (Jun 24, 2017)|
|As per my view, anyone who has true lover is luckiest person in the world. He/she must marry him/her as they can't find better partner than that. So, from this context love marriage is better.
But today's generation's problem is that they they think making relationship is a fashion or style. So they somehow manage to make relationship but it may not be true love it may only be attraction, like friendship on Facebook leads to love without knowing him/her personally. Do you think that may be true love? That love doesn't last longer and gets fade away after sometime.
People who get married on this basis, get to know about their life partner after few years of marriage, and that leads to arguments and even divorce.
Furthermore, in most of cases, love begins with physical attraction and remains upto that, these types of love is also not going to give you anything except pain.
So conclusion is that love marriage is best when you get a perfect life partner otherwise arrange marriage is also good and they have their good points too.
Both marriages have their own advantages and disadvantages, and it should totally depend on a person which type of marriage he wants to do, which makes him happy.
|Buty said: (Jun 24, 2017)|
|The love marriage is easy to live the long life because couple already well knows about each other in spite in arrange marriage long time spend to identify one's nature and hobbies, as well as love marriage, begets more satisfaction and feeling of the succeed important part of life.
So love marriage is always reliable and friendship remains till last breath so life and every sphere of life easily steady and success by the couple.
|Sohail Shaikh said: (Jun 22, 2017)|
In My point of view, the person should arrange his marriage and in between, he has to love the person who's is going to marry her so the both understand after marriage to each other so I think first have to arrange the marriage and after do the marriage.
|Shivanshu Dubey said: (Jun 21, 2017)|
|Love marriage or arrange marrige is both good with their own perspective. Only need to understand each other, have full trust on your partner which can led your marriage till life. Off course in these days young generation like love marriage so what's big deal if we have achieved our goal in life. I think no parents would check you to do so. As they are happy in our happiness.|
|Amit said: (Jun 20, 2017)|
|I am in the favour of Arrange Marriages which can be a Love marriage. I mean to say Person can make love marriages to arrange marriage by the allowance of their parents. Nowadays, every parent wants their children goodness and 70% of parents can never refuse their children's choice.|
|Namdev said: (Jun 17, 2017)|
According to my point of view,
Arrange marriage is best for maintain relation ship both. Arrange marriage are also permit by our parents I think parents plays best role in our life then why we avoid thinking about marriage. If they will agree love marriage then no problem but your parent are ignore for love marriage and you are doing love marriage it's not good for breaking hearts of our parents. Many time love marriage become fail because they don't understand both. I think many when doing love marriage that women don't want and like his mother-in-law and fatherinlaw she want to live in single and different then the start problem breaking heart of parents.
|Neel said: (Jun 12, 2017)|
|It's not that good to live with a person you don't know. So if you already have that feeling for someone special that you can commit to live with forever so it's good that I think.|
|Mayank Hooda said: (Jun 12, 2017)|
I am Mayank and I am in the favour of arrange marriage because in arrange our parents or our elders are with us but in love marriage, we are breaking the heart of our parents and if we are doing something so will be our mistake that's why I am in the favour of the arrange marriage.
|Mayank Hooda said: (Jun 12, 2017)|
|Friends, I am in favour of arranged marriage because in arrange marriage, our parents are with us but in love marriage, if we are doing something so doing on our own thinking.|
|Rinku Kumar said: (Jun 12, 2017)|
|Hi to all, I am Rinku and now I'm going to allocate that which is better in b2n love and arrange marriage.
As per my view, the marriage types are not important but relationship are important to each other. If we ignore parents suggestion about the arrange marriage May be possible that to break relation between them. And if we agree with the parents, and if we love to anyone then there is also break the relation between lovers.
Both are situation are puzzling.
Most of the parents in our country support to arrange marriage because they think it will be better for us.
But most of the new generation support to love marriage because they fell in love. A Lot of lovers could not complete our willing due to custom, parents, job etc. Then they destroy our willing and press the thought of love and our lovely dreams That is they don't want to do it.
Love is not a bad thing and parents think always better for us. Therefore Both have importance for us. Change love marriage into the arrange marriage with satisfaction our parents.
Be happy with your lover and parents.
|Shrikant Vishvakarma said: (Jun 11, 2017)|
|Hi friends my name is Shrikant Vishvakarma.
According to my side of view, arrange marriage is most better than love marriage because some people are disappointed with love marriage and arrange marriage arrange marriage is good and related our culture thank you.
|Ishan Jangir said: (Jun 10, 2017)|
|In arranged marriage, there is a support of parents. In love marriage, there is no responsibility of parents if any thing happens wrong it will go on a couple. So arrange marriage is best.|
|Mayank Saurabh said: (Jun 10, 2017)|
|I think it doesn't a matter friends that we go for love or arrange marriage. Most important thing in any relation is love, understanding, cooperation among two as well as family members too. Getting married seems to be a new life as someone is dependent on you now. So go for love or arrange marriage where you find this but make agree your parents.|
|Aparna said: (Jun 8, 2017)|
Both marriages have pros and cons. Instead of debating which is better. Just find your unconditional love, your soulmate. Understanding love for each other is mandatory here. Once unconditional love has come inside her/him, no other external factors will degrade their bond.
No matter arranged or love marriage, Its just a beautiful thing called LOVE plays a significant role.
|Gaurav Bisht said: (Jun 8, 2017)|
|I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known person is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. They could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.|
|Yaaridhu said: (Jun 4, 2017)|
|Totally depends on who you are. While arranged marriages barely end in divorces, many love marriages do. Is that because love marriage is a stupid thing? Of course not. Most people just tend to handle it in a stupid way. If you wanna get married to someone you love, that's a beautiful thing. But when you plan to live the rest of your life with someone you love, you need to know them as more than just a sex partner. You need to learn to trust each other, to fully understand each other, to teach one another to responsibly and maturely handle children, cook, clean, run a household, pay the bills. Love carries away a lot of people from this necessary practicality, and thus problems occur, and they fight, and they break up. Now arranged marriage isn't as preferable, I mean you're getting married to someone you don't even know, but it's a strong commitment to your parents and relatives that you will live with this other person, and thus, breakups almost never happen, because it's the couple's responsibility to stay together. And it's also a great option for people who will probably have a hard time finding a legitimate girlfriend, like the guy writing this. Still, arranged marriages are less guaranteed to bring you happiness. So once again, it depends.|
|Pooja said: (Jun 3, 2017)|
First of all, the meaning of marriage leads to understanding. And based on the people it will be ruled but both are equal right both have equal scores for me if partners will understand both the sides. It not an issue of love or arranged. You will be happy every time.
|Allen said: (Jun 1, 2017)|
|A very important and an ongoing social factor going on in our country. By the way, I am not against arrange or love marriages as this is our right to choose our future. Everyone saying that if we are going with b love marriages this hurts our parents the most but I want to ask you guys are you going to live with him/her or your parents. It's you right so, of course, it's your right to choose your partner as this is not for your time being this relationship is going to be for life and you have to be satisfied with it so guys go on weather arrange or Love marriage be sensible and be confident in urself on what you choose. And give your 100% in that relationship. And most importantly be happy. Keep away all your ego. Be patient towards your partner and the most important thing is to adjust. As your going to be together for every good and bad happens in your life. Live your best as we get a life.|
|Bhupesh Kumar said: (May 30, 2017)|
I am in favour of love marriage but it doesn't mean that I am against of arrange marriage. I love it too. I would like to say as people have already mentioned above that we must have a mutual understanding. We must have faith and respect for each other, it is either love marriage or marriage. Yes, it's true that we should not go against our parents but sorry to say, friends, no doubt our parents always think for our better future but it doesn't mean that every decision which was taken by them will be good for our future. Maybe this time they are wrong. Now, we are mature, we have an ability to think if we can choose a better partner for our future then why not we should? But first, you must be honest opposite your partner. Never try to cheat her/him. Hope, by the grace of God you will find a good partner for your future and will enjoy for the whole life.
|Harry said: (May 29, 2017)|
|Both marriages can be successful if two people are ready to accept each other without any demands and bias. But I personally believe Love marriage is better than Arranged marriage because In love marriage, the couple already have an understanding of each other and they are ready to live happily. Marriage is a compromise done by two souls who are ready to become a single soul. So, with proper understanding, love and affection, Love marriage will be preferred.|
|Devendra Sharma said: (May 28, 2017)|
|Marriage is done to spend life easier for boy and girl. Life can be easier in arrange marriage as well as with love marriage. But it all depends on situation that will be formed after marriage. Arrange marriage is supported by our families and society whereas Love marriage is not. If support is beneficial then families guide them by their experience. If not there arises cases of DOWRY harassment cases.
So, both can be best or worst depends on situation.
|Aayanka Pany said: (May 28, 2017)|
See both love marriage and arrange marriage are goods. First of all, all the couples in the world must know the meaning of love. Love means respect towards each other, understanding and cooperation. So, written above by someone that in love marriages the couple knows each other very earlier and after marriage, they will get bored. Then, why do people love somebody in their teenage? Now, you will tell it as an attraction. Then can you tell what it attraction? why we get attracted? its because we feel and see ourself in that person. If we can see ourself in that person then how that love can be lead to conflicts or litigations or how we can get bored of it? its all depends on us because after marriage we have to stay with our partner, not our parents. If any problems occur after marriage then it will be difficult to be solved in case of arrange marriage but incase of love marriage at least we can came to know good and bad habits of our partners and can make a choice of our own that we can or not be able to stay with him or her till our last breathe. So I will love cum arrange marriage. First study your decided partner then give a proposal to your parents if you are comfortable with him/her then get married.
|Chandini said: (May 28, 2017)|
|Marriage is an important step in everyone's life.
In my opinion, both love marriages and arranged marriages have equal importance.
Both the marriages have pros and cons.
In case of love marriage, you don't have enough maturity to choose the right person, you are in a stage of attraction, where everything good or bad seems to be right or you. Also if you marry the person without your parents concern, it effects their pride and dignity in the society. So, when you think you love someone just put your opinion in front your parents. They can judge who's good and best suitable for you.
Whereas, in case of arranged marriage it's a very daring step to marry a complete stranger. But the thing is that you need to have complete faith in your parents that they never make a wrong choice for you, they see the family, background, status everything and then they present guy/girl in front you.
Therefore, it all depends on you, to maintain a healthy relationship and happy life which is all concerned about understanding each other without ego's, commitment, person's space and honesty.
|Rohit said: (May 24, 2017)|
|Arrange marriage is good because of marriage is not just becoming between 2 couples its becoming with 2 families. All family members have hope about to their child if you go out from their words means they won't do support is future.|
|Rahul Sharma said: (May 20, 2017)|
|Love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because in these marriages there should be a better understanding in a couple.
They know each other.
But in Arranged marriage, boy and girl should not be a understand each other.
They understand each other after long time.
In arranged marriages, the families meet in same religion. But in love marriages there should be two cultures meet. Like if girl is belong to south Indian and boy belongs to punjab.
|Mohit Saini said: (May 19, 2017)|
|According to my side of view, arrange marriage is most better than love marriage because if you do love marriage then it's not only of your choice it's of all your family members and how much you know if one person decide something then he is not always right but if many people decide something then many times it is right so I am with arrange marriage and we are also secured by both the families and in arrange marriage we don't have any problems if we have than many people are there to solve it.
|Reddy said: (May 15, 2017)|
|In my view, Arranged Marriages is more better than Love Marriages. AM always make us more responsible that leads to life move forward in a blessed way and both partners work hard and without ego's for the bright features. AM also more secure bc we have lot of support from both bride& groom families.
In LM, mostly it would happen on Attraction, Passion, arrow view on positive way and Age of beauty. These all things won't lead a life for a long time might there is a chance of breaks and diverse due to misunderstanding, ego issues and no support from family, society, friends, no security.
|Alka G said: (May 14, 2017)|
According to me, Arrange marriage is quite beautiful because two unknown people are involved in this relationship. And both families support this. And help the future husband and wife to understand each other. When these two people come together they start understanding each other very closely and slowly and I think this makes their relationship beautiful. And their interest in their partner slowly increases day by day. And this will make their marriage quite strong as compare to love marriage. Because in love marriage, the both people know each other already and after marriage, they will get bored and lost d feeling and interest in each other. So My point of you Arrange marriage is most beautiful and strong marriage which not only come two people together but also join two families together.
|Akash said: (May 14, 2017)|
|From my point of view, love after marriage is good. In that case we can have our family with us.|
|Monika Pal said: (May 12, 2017)|
|I think love marriage and arrange marriage both are good but it depends on partners understanding.|
|Sachin Jain said: (May 10, 2017)|
|I strictly support arrange marriages every aspect as both pros and cons.
So as arranged marriages have a legal and a assurance of being marriage due to our family as it is a supported by our family with full acceptance but in love marriages, there is no support and it leads to breakups and divorces which not only break 2 persons but also families. There is one saying that. LOVE IS BLIND so one is attracted physically but not mentally which later lead to creating a cut off between them.
|Gayathri said: (May 9, 2017)|
|Guys, According to me, love marriage or arrange marriage both depends on understanding and compromise between each other.|
|Dan said: (May 7, 2017)|
|I believe that there is no use of debating whether love marriage is better or arranged because both are good in their own ways and it depends from person to person and from family to family.
It is always good to know a person really well before we take a step ahead and get married which is a feature of love marriage. And since both of you know each other well there is a strong chance of sustenance. Again in arranged marriage, our parents choose our life partner depending on compatibility and status which is again important because there will be ego clash if we don't belong to the same status.
Both has pros and cons because in the case of love marriage couples get bored of each other easily since they know each other beforehand whereas in arranged marriage they get to know each other slowly and gradually and their marriage grows slowly. Again in love marriage, you know the person well before you take the plunge but in arranged marriage, since we don't know the person well, he/she might turn out to be someone else after marriage. This discussion won't end so we can conclude that it depends totally on the person involve in marriage and also LUCK.
|Jitendra Baghel said: (May 6, 2017)|
|Hello, friends, my name is Jitendra Baghel.
According to me, that both marriages are good. But is depending on the person who how to feel in both marriages. In my way that both marriages is completely good for every person because I notice that every person is so happy with any type of marriage. I know that some people are disappointed with love marriage and arrange marriage. I think both marriages is good because in love marriage Boy and girl are know each other perfectly and they understand each other perfectly and also in arrange marriage boy and girl know each other after some time. So both marriage is completely good but you do not take any decision without your family permission because if you want love marriage but your family want to arrange marriage Then you take your family decision because our family never think bad for us.
|Satish Jetti said: (May 5, 2017)|
|Boss, it's all about marriage with whom, and how she/he commits with you, either its love or arrange.
When people really can't understand each other, when they don't have personal space, then that relation never stands forever.
Here, we can say one thing.
Love or arrange. When people get married, they have to be with their partner. So, better love your partner, at least relationship remain strong.
|Tejaswini said: (May 5, 2017)|
|In my point of view, both arranged and love marriages have the same role. In any marriage all we require is mutual understanding, mutual respect and loving each other, sharing their happiness and sadness and caring each other.
Support each other at any time of situation.
Finally, I want to say that either in love or arranged marriage which has love between the couple after marriage is the perfect. It looking like two persons but a single soul indicates a fabulous pair.
|Bhadale said: (Apr 30, 2017)|
|I will go for an Arranged marriage.
In love, there may be attraction towards each other which gets lost after some time. In love marriage, the boy and girl are leaving with their families. They are not independent. The game will start after independency. There are too many Bollywood actors actresses who love and breakup, divorce each other. Cases of wrong love marriage are also more. As the parents expectations from the bride may vary. Some will say to do job and house work both also. While some will say to leave the job. Traditions of grooms home will vary. And many times love marriage is only for bringing a good bride to home, where the drama of groom will end, after the marriage. Two families should have equal status. To leave in cojoint family or separated family also becomes the issue.
In arrange marriage this things are already discussed in between family persons and job of the bride groom, their status, grooms income, family conditions (whether to do job?, where to live cojoint?) are discussed neatly.
While love before marriage is not official and it can happen and break many times but the marriage and divorce are official. Love has no end and it does not need to be young age. It can happen at any time, so it's good to do official things than doing many unofficial things.
|Riya Gupta said: (Apr 29, 2017)|
As per my views, I think love marriages and arranged marriages both are equally good their is no need to discuss which one is better because it depends on person to person.
If a person and his family are comfortable with love marriage then it is best and if with arrange marriage then it's also OK.
But the main problem arises in our country is that most of the people consider love marriage as a crime. So because of this teenager take the wrong decision which is against the family and society thus because of this crime increases and condition of love marriage is going to bad day after day.
But I hope as we are of growing personality so in upcoming 30-40 years all such type of problems overcome because at that stage most of the people educated and aware of all these things and I wish it all happen as soon as possible.
|Deepak Mandal said: (Apr 29, 2017)|
|I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because, in love marriage, couples are known very well each other. Love marriage is our aspects of life.|
|Shalini said: (Apr 26, 2017)|
|I just think arrange marriage is far batter than love marriage. Because love marriage becomes failure after a small misunderstanding but a arrange marriage becomes long lasting. The main disadvantage of love marriage the couples know each other only as positively view not negatively view but in arrange marriage our family investigate all thing about bride/groom so that as my point of view arrange marriage is far batter than love marriage. But some time love marriage also become successful and some time arrange marriage also become failure it totally depends upon the couples.|
|Chinni said: (Apr 23, 2017)|
|In my opinion, love and arranged marriages have the equal importance.
All we need is understanding, self-respect, and affection. They both should respect one another. Care for one another. Two bodies and single soul represents a good pair.
|Jack said: (Apr 22, 2017)|
|The one who loves you and whom you love back.
There are always good and bad sides of every person, love makes you accept a person along with his shortcomings.
If you do love marriage and continue to love that person after marriage, you will find that person to be perfect life partner.
Same case with arranged marriage, if you develop love after marriage, its OK, you will accept that person and will always try to look on the bright side, even in the dark times.
If there is no love in between the couple after marriage, then that marriage becomes a contract and that marriage is dragged for the sake of parents or children.
|Satyendra Kumar said: (Apr 20, 2017)|
|As for as the boot point is concerned love marriage vs arranged marriage. I'm in pros arrange marriage. According to my point of view, both are good as well as bad. Because that depends on the life partner but mostly new age boys and girls pros on love marriage. Because in the love marriage before a marriage you all know that about your life partner likes and dislikes etc.|
|Sandy said: (Apr 19, 2017)|
|I think Love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage boys and girls they take the own responsibilities. And, I think this is the most important part of our life.
Taking the responsibility is not a small thing.
I strongly support love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
|Jitesh said: (Apr 17, 2017)|
|In my opinion, Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because we can easily know about our life partner. Because understanding is too mandatory. Because it a most important step of our life. If you believe in arrange marriage. It's not a right way. Because we have to spend our entire life. I think in arrange marriage. We have to more sacrifice than love marriage. If someone highly educated than you. In that time, you'll have to face lots of problems. So it's my point of view.|
|Meghana said: (Apr 17, 2017)|
|Unlike the medieval times, parents of this generation are taking the opinion of the bride/groom before marriage and love marriages are accepted these days.
So keeping aside love and arranged both have advantages and disadvantages of their own. But one can lead happy life only when *boy/girl are ready for a positive breakup in love. They might be many reasons. Parents may oppose them, they might have a difference in opinions etc.
If you are able to convince your parents then its okay but there might be some chances of disapproving. So before you fall in love. Ensure yourself that you are emotional, mentally okay even after a breakup.
Well! Coming into arranged marriage. Having zero expectation on the spouse will make you lead a better life.
|Varaprasad said: (Apr 16, 2017)|
|Parents love is the only true love forever. Lovers love may or may not be true like the saying "All that glitters is not gold".
Love marriage means boy and girl should love each other and it should be acceptable to both of their parents. Then only it would be a true love marriage.
If I want to buy a product I will see the brand. If the brand is known, I can trust the product. Otherwise, that product may or may not be good. Lover is the product and parents are the brand. If you choose the product to inform your parents immediately. They inquire about the brand. If they accept ask them to make arrangements for marriage. After marriage, you love each other and be happy.
In India, one will get good match only for the first time. So don't take your own nasty decision. If it fails in the first time, your entire life will be spoiled. The Loss will be more for a girl. You will loose your life and your parents will lose their dignity and fame.
|Amy Dwivedi said: (Apr 15, 2017)|
|Apart from this, both love and arranged marriage are good based on the couples. In both relationships, they need to take care of each other, respect each other, love for each other and the main thing they don't have EGO for each other. Then their life will be very happy.|
|Anna Arya said: (Apr 12, 2017)|
According to me, both marriages have the same effect on life. As it is said the wedding is decided in heaven so no matter what you do. If you love someone and your family is ready for it then it is a perfect marriage. Your family's permission and happiness also should be included in your love relation because your parents have seen this world more than you and they more know the person, better than you. They will do whatever will be best for you because they will never want that their children will be woeful. They upbringing you and it is also your responsibility that you never make them unhappy just because of a boy/girl whom you know before some years. There are also some cases that couples get married and after some time flay occurs and both get separated that time family support is very important though family also stand with them that time.
So we should also understand our responsibility towards them. I am not saying love marriage is bad but the family's will and blessings also be with it.
|Mani said: (Apr 12, 2017)|
|Apart from this, both love and arranged marriage are good based on the couples. In both relationships, they need to take care of each other, respect each other, love for each other and the main thing they don't have EGO for each other. Then their life will be very happy.|
|Amit Rana said: (Apr 11, 2017)|
- Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.
- Couple is responsible for its choice and onus of the blame in future lies on the couple only and nobody else.
- Couple is aware of each other's likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well.
- Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.
- The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.
|Arya said: (Apr 11, 2017)|
|Love marriage is better one because in that the two persons can understand each other. There is total transparency about each other. A boy knows well if his soulmate can manage his family as a integral unit, if she is perfect to fit into the system.
So, I strongly support love marriage.
|Pooja Sharma said: (Apr 7, 2017)|
In my opinion, both marriages having some failure and some successes. So, I think both marriages are good and it totally based on couples. In both relationships, they need to trust, respect, love each other, take care of each other and the main thing they adjust and cooperate with each other and with their families also.
|Vipin Sharma said: (Apr 7, 2017)|
|Hi, I'm Vipin.
In my perception, love marriage is the best choice for the couples because they love each other and love is the important part of our life when the person suffered by emptiness then the love makes feel you special and very important and our parents should understand their children's feelings.
Thanks a lot.
|Sukanya said: (Apr 7, 2017)|
I'm Sukanya, both love and arrange marriages are having some failures. Love marriages are sometimes not perfect at the same time arrange marriages also very poor. Because, of their cooperation, relationship, sharing, adjustments, love and caring. Some times both are thinking bad. I support arrange marriages why so parents select right family and right decessions, some cases it's not correct. Love marriages are somewhat good but they are not able to do acceptance of parent decisions they do own decisions.
|Poonam said: (Apr 6, 2017)|
In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage, however, it is fact that about 90% still have arranged marriages, an arrange marriage is the center is the attention of family union. Love marriage is nothing but it is only attraction after some time attraction will be finished and after some time they grumble to each other then they take big decision for divorce so love marriage has a not ever.
|Naveen said: (Apr 6, 2017)|
|Hi friends, in my opinion, I think marriage word is given by society. And in society, there are all including our family. And the human is the social animal. So doesn't matter marriage is love or arrange. Matter is how much blessings you have to their relationship. Because one is broken into all. God is one.|
|Sowndarya said: (Apr 5, 2017)|
Apart from this, both love and arranged marriage are good based on the couples. In both relationship, they need to take care for each others, respect each other , love for each other and the main thing they don't have EGO for each other. Then their life will be very happy.
|Gaddala Vinay Kumar said: (Apr 4, 2017)|
|Hi friends, myself Vinay Kumar Gaddala.
In my way, both are same but one thing is understanding is important between couples. If there is no understanding any relation will break up either it love marriage or arranged marriage. But in love, both persons spend their time for each other that may help to understand each other. But in arranged marriages, there is no conversation between both couples before marriage in past. Nowadays, after marriage fixing they making conversation themselves.
What I mean to say is understanding play an important role in life either it love or arranged marriage.
|Vipulsoni said: (Apr 4, 2017)|
|I won't say what is good and what is bad but for the ones who are in love they should prefer for love arranged marriage rather than hurting their parents and disrespecting them it's not necessary that the person who is he/she is in love with will be good they should have a perfect information about their partners rather than going with dem blindly if your parents are still not accepting then you should not leave the topic but try convincing dem who knows what changes their mind 2nd thing is about arrange marriage it's not true when your parents find your partner is good dey will 70% see their wealth and then they'll see what their nature is the point is see how is the person it's not necessary when your parents find a guy or girl is always good, even dey haven't met dem properly how can they suggest the child for the upcoming future? it's your life dude you have some rights go for love or arrange but see that your partner understands you trust you support you and there is a bright future together.|
|Rabindra Kumar said: (Apr 4, 2017)|
|I thought that love marriage and arrange marriage is same because the main point is understanding in two couple marriage is not a game. What he/she thought and his thinking and his life partner chose himself and his parents agree that their children chose their life partner is correct or not.|
|Siddesh said: (Apr 2, 2017)|
|Hi, friends. Myself Siddesh.
According to my point of view, love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because in love marriage they understand both before the marriage.
And also, you will have to know about your partner you will have to spend your whole life.
|Adarsh Singh said: (Apr 2, 2017)|
|I think arranged marriages are better than the love marriages because in the mostly love marriages a young boy and a young girl who loves each other them they do not learn the family background of their partner in this way mostly crimes and devote was done on the love marriage. That's why I think arranged marriages are mostly best.|
|Sunny Chaudhari said: (Apr 2, 2017)|
|In my point of view, arrange marriage is best to love marriage, because each love is not successful and he/she family members is not understand of boy and girl and arrange marriage is successful for history but love marriage is not happy to family members so I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Thanks to all.|
|Bijesh Patidar said: (Mar 31, 2017)|
|In my view, arrange marriage is good because it relate our culture. So that's good for us.|
|Suchi said: (Mar 29, 2017)|
|In my point of view in both arrange and love marriage need of love, understanding, carring, respectiveness are very necessary. Without these things, both are impossible to leave together.|
|Sunny Basoya said: (Mar 27, 2017)|
|I also support and favor of love marriage. Because in love marriage both of them know each other and likes and dislike. But we need parents acceptance in love marriage.|
|Anonymn said: (Mar 26, 2017)|
|Just attraction and infactuation doesn't mean love. A person can spend money of their father's on his lover. Unless he earns and do hard work. He/she won't understand its importance. According to me arrange marriage. Where people would have been settled and known the responsibility of everything.|
|Manish Chaurasia said: (Mar 26, 2017)|
|In my point of view, both marriages are successful. But arrange marriage is more successful than love marriage. Because in love marriage young girls and boys say that we know each other completely and they get married. But I think they know each other only towards positively their negative activities are hidden. And also in love marriage less family support. So love marriage Is not maintain relationship with all the members of families for a long time. But in arrange marriage right understanding between bride and bridegroom's family. Relationship maintained for long time and marriage couple trust and respect each other too much. In India divorce rate is very low as compared to advanced countries. Because in our country gives more priority of arrange marriage. According to divorce rate of most of the countries divorce rate of love marriage is too much more than arrange marriage. So according to me arrange marriage is much better than love marriage and safe.|
|Barbie Ken said: (Mar 25, 2017)|
|I think love marriage is best. As in arrange marriage that boy or girl appears to be best but after marriage, they leave or girls can be harrassed and all. In love marriage there is love and both are ready to do anything for each other. And parents will also accept as their happiness lies in the happiness of their child.|
|Nisha said: (Mar 25, 2017)|
|Young youth is blindly supporting LOVE marriages. Because you know each other from 2 years because you were dating from 2 years. So you are 100% compatible with each other. This is bullshit.
When you date someone 90% people will hide their negative side. When other person knows about this it will result in breakup of divorce. No one is 100% perfect. If you need most comestible person than you need to date at least 40-50 girls/boys. First time hit rate is very low.
Instead of this nonsense find someone who respects others, kind hearted. If you cannot find yourself, give your parents chance to find the right person for you. Do not simply defame ARRANGE marriages.
Still, ARRANGE marriage are much better than LOVE marriages.
|Shivika said: (Mar 25, 2017)|
|Most of youth treat physical attraction as LOVE. For relationship of 2-year people are ready to leave their parents with whom they stayed for 25 years.
When you date someone you will always show your positive side to another person (boy/girl) to impress them. You will always hide your negative side. When someone knows about negative side, they will break with you. People call it heartbreak or break marriage. That's the main reason of failure of LOVE marriage because expectation is very high.
People says that In LOVE marriage person is very compatible. Are you joking? To find the compatible person you need to date at least 50-100 persons. Hit rate is 5-10% in first attempt.
Have anyone has ever seen in LOVE marriage that girl is not attractive or good looking. 95% of LOVE marriages are based on look of girl.
I am not favoring ARRANGE marriage also.
SO instead of going for arrange or LOVE marriage. Find the person who respects others, kind hearted, honest. If you find such person you will fall in love with him/her again and again.
|Vaibhav said: (Mar 25, 2017)|
|In my opinion, love marriage is best, however, we need to understand, As we live in India we have lots of restriction on girls and it's not possible for everyone to find his or her love so this statement does not not indicate that arranged marriages are completely useless.|
|Bato Ahmed said: (Mar 24, 2017)|
|I agree that arranged marriage is better than romantic one because the arranged married couple can take good care of each other even though they never met before. And they can still respect and trust each other.|
|Snigdha said: (Mar 23, 2017)|
In my opinion, love marriage is better than a arrange marriage. Because in a love marriage already we have an idea about that person like his or her likes, dislikes. And from a long time, we have been cooperating with each other and that will remain for forwarding life also. So it's not about love also about mutual understanding in between two beautiful persons who will become a life partner. Life is not for a short span. Marriage is a vehicle and the wife and spouse are two wheels of that. So if there will no cooperation with each other that vehicle will face accident. So for such vehicle, it's important to know each other and love each other externally.
|Gayatri said: (Mar 23, 2017)|
|In my opinion, Everyone should have right to choose their own life partner with whom they can share their every sorrow and happiness.
It doesn't matter they do love marriage or arrange marriage.
Love marriage and arrange marriage both are right if partners have understanding, respect and love for each other.
|Aman said: (Mar 22, 2017)|
|I think that the love marriage is more successful than arrange marriage because in the love marriage we known the person before marriage and their mutual understanding is more as compare to the arranged married people.
In love marriage, both of them known about their past and they can trust each other more confidently than in arranged married.
|Nasir Kamal said: (Mar 21, 2017)|
|I think love marriage more than success for life. Husband and wife don't misunderstanding. Also understand the life. After marriage be happy life. They will be enjoy the life.|
|Daniyal Kamal said: (Mar 21, 2017)|
|I think love marriage is not the success for life. More than 2 years relationship. Husband and wife are more misunderstandings. Then go to the court take for the divorce.|
|Dishu said: (Mar 20, 2017)|
|For me - love marriage is better than arranged one, but a love marriage with a long-running affair, and not an affair of just a week and then marriage - no! That's not love. Love happens when you know you can even 'die' for this person, and when your relationship reaches to that intensity and passion, only then you should get married, and for me, I can't 'die' for a stranger in an arranged marriage!|
|M.Harshavardhan said: (Mar 19, 2017)|
|In my point of view, love marriages are better than arranged marriages because in love marriages there is no chance of egos. So the total life is beautiful.|
|Neha said: (Mar 19, 2017)|
|It's not about LOVE marriage or Arrange marriage. Failure happens in both cases. Out of my 4 cousins, 2 had arranged marriage and they are very happy. One cousin had LOVE marriage (after relation of 3 years) and they are planning for divorce, after 2 years of marriage, 4th cousin is happy in their LOVE marriage.
Life before marriage is totally different, When you date someone you will always try to impress each other with your positive things and you try to hide your negative side. This happens in both cases LOVE and ARRANGED marriage.
Remember below things for successful marriage.
Honesty, respect and commitment, person space.
|Ankit said: (Mar 18, 2017)|
In my thinking love and mutual understanding is much more important between couple rather its love marriage or arrange marriage. If this thing is there both the marriage successful.
In case of love marriage sometimes it's difficult to get the permission of parents at that time keep patience and try to get permission.
Because without parents permission you can't enjoy this marriage.
|Vaibhav said: (Mar 17, 2017)|
|I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage parson well understand to each other and they spend more time with each other and my opinion when some people care too much I think its called love. In arrange marriage I think two people meet only eye contact within the fraction of minutes and decide he/she perfect for me it is not true as my personal opinion. Thanks.|
|Mona said: (Mar 15, 2017)|
I think in both of married life Husband and Wife should cooperative and understanding. It's necessary things for good and lovely relationship. If in the married life there is a cooperation and understanding is fulfill so definitely it makes good relation and life become a heaven for you.
I want to just suggest as a friend firstly make a friend and then start every relationship now you will see and also you feel your life is full of enjoyable with your arrange or love partner. You can share every problem very easily and relax after it.
|Rofikul Islam said: (Mar 13, 2017)|
|I am full support for arrange marriage because love marriage has not existed a long time. I think after love is pre ur love.|
|Shanu said: (Mar 13, 2017)|
|I feel love marriage best in some cases like if their both family accepts then di family members fight if any problem occurs. Because nowadays we can't believe anyone. Knowing person before marriage is important because it's a long long relation.
Arranged marriage good but parents must think of person behavior not only about family. Love plays a very important role in life. That builds even family relations. Love has do power to change.
|Jitendra Parwate said: (Mar 13, 2017)|
|According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage but it depends on person compatibility understand to each other than can be love marriage successful otherwise arrange marriage is better than Love marriage, thanks.|
|Aryan Anjum said: (Mar 12, 2017)|
|I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because you will have to know about your partner to whom you have to spend your whole life.|
|Aryan Anjum said: (Mar 12, 2017)|
|I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because you will have to know that how is your partner in so far as you have to spend your whole life with your partner.|
|Atul Kumar said: (Mar 12, 2017)|
|Marriage, a sacred knot for the rest of our life after the day it took place. The basic requirement is to have love affection and care for our partner. And if it's a love marriage, we are fulfilling the basic requirements before hand. The rest depends on the partners in action or on their bonhomie or how easily and maturely they cope with each other. So, I prefer love over arranged one.
However, there are certain difficulties for the case which I prefer and it's caste or religion in most of the cases. But if we reconsider over it then we will find that actually, these are the vices that are weakening our nation, rather humanity. So, we should support humanity and even our nation as much as possible.
|Sandip said: (Mar 11, 2017)|
|Love marriage is equally successful if both families like each other and they mutually accept their children's decision.
There is nothing wrong in Love marriage. Its all about mutual understanding.
|Neha Joe said: (Mar 11, 2017)|
|Hi. I believe the success of both love and arranged marriage depends on the life partners who are bound in this beautiful institution. Marriage is all about adjustments and compromises with each other. So it is better to adjust with the person you know already than adjusting with a stranger whom you have seen once or twice before marriage. So if you can't adjust with the person your parents found for you, then aren't you disappointing them? It is better to convince your parents and adjust and live with the person you love because, at the end of the day, it is only you who is affected.|
|Mounica Varma said: (Mar 10, 2017)|
|Hai, this is Mounica.
In my view, it does not matter what sort of marriage it is. May be it is a loved or arranged. It depends on how understand each other and how we adjust according to situations.
|Karnajit Paul said: (Mar 9, 2017)|
|According to my view, I like love marriage because if we choose our own life partner with d qualities that we want dan we can live our life more happily because we can know our likings nd disliking from earlier and we could also b strong to take decisions in every field without any complications nd can live our life happily ever after. And in arrange marriage if everything does not match well dan we may need to blame our parents for that at last, which I do not want to happen. So I prefer love instead of arrange.|
|Ashish Malik said: (Mar 4, 2017)|
This is Aashish Malik.
I think arrange marriage is best because when will we do arrange marriage our parents we be happy and they always love you like you and they are always sporting you. One more thing spouse you got love married after that your partner can't love your parents so what will are you doing and can you left your partner for parents (I can't) because of parents that god who gave our an every small beautiful movement. They never think bad for ours. In that boys all love to someone but it's must because without life is nothing But this love we should do after marriage. Spouse you have to way one way go to your love and one way go to your parents you have chosen any one So What will you choose. One who that your love or second your parents. Whom you wanna left is this question. So I can't say love life is bad but after that arrange marriage.
Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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