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Prakash Thakur said: (Fri, Jan 30, 2015 08:02:17 PM)    
 
Hi everyone.

I would like to share my story with all of you.

I love a girl and she love me indeed but their family thinks that arrange marriage is more successful than love marriage. All I want to do is to change their mentality and I want them to know me. All we want to do is break the tradition of arrange marriage and should be free to follow our heart to write our own destiny. I don't want to ruin my life with someone who is almost stranger to me. Although I trust my family but I will not let them decide which girl is good for me and which one is not.

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Jabbi said: (Thu, Jan 29, 2015 06:40:33 PM)    
 
Hi friends.

In my view loving a person is nothing but we are very with that person. And feel that we can freely share our secrets with them.

But before loving we have to look over parents then it will definitely provides us the solution over love. We have to convince our parents and express our feelings with them.

Parents are gods gift by birth. But love is created by god at only certain age.

Now choice is yours. Thank you.

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Steevan Pinto said: (Wed, Jan 28, 2015 11:41:29 PM)    
 
Steevan pinto.

I think love marriage is the best medicine to love, care and share our feelings to each other. By understanding each other and solve all the problems can be solve in no second time. We together can believe in happiness and live happily in this world. Parents are also happy seeking that we are doing our best in life. Beautiful word love means know each other and be caring each other till world end.

Thanks you with love and care.

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Eva said: (Wed, Jan 28, 2015 10:28:39 PM)    
 
Hello, this is Eva. I am not Indian but I have many friends there and I would like to share my opinion.

Maybe it is not that important to state which one is better but rather to remember that this is a life-changing choice and each boy or girl should be free to make his or her own decision. The family has to give a strong advice but never force or blackmail them into an arranged marriage.

I think one should be free to decide whether accept a partner chosen by one's parents or marry the person one falls for.

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Deepak Singh said: (Wed, Jan 28, 2015 11:16:18 AM)    
 
Hi this is Deepak Singh,

I am in favor of love marriage, because love marriage is symbol of love and love is the gift of God. In love marriage we can understand each other very well, in love marriage there is no restriction such as caste, dowry system and social status.

Its said that love is life, and God seems in true love, God made all of us and He wants that we live with love so in my opinion love marriage is better than arrange marriage.

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Nirupama said: (Tue, Jan 27, 2015 09:13:21 PM)    
 
Very good evening friends.

This is Nirupama. Now a days biggest problem is love and arrange marriage. But marriage is depend only on that two persons. This point of view love marriage is better but parents and family is also important.

So their view and they think arrange marriage is better. But in love marriage they already in love and they are understanding each other. Both have knows their behaviour, weakness etc. After marriage they are adjust easily. In arrange marriage two families arrange them.

In my view love com arrange marriage is better and don't hurt parents. Because they are gods to us. If we can love, once ask the permission to marry her/him. Explain your feelings to them but just ask them. In future if we got any problem then we have their support.

Thanks for this opportunity.

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Gobinath said: (Tue, Jan 27, 2015 05:19:23 PM)    
 
Hi friends.

This is my first experience to share my favor. Thank you. I am favor about the love marriage. Nowadays, the every women and men had love. There is no one hate the love. But, there situation and there understanding is the first reason to breaking.

Nowadays many love can be acceptable by family. That is why means, the parents are also had a love marriage. Love is not a word, that is a life. You should said in your life, there is no love upto today? Go and ask your parents, Dad/mom gets love in his/her past.

I want to specified to you in the above paragraph's I seen this " LOVE IS A AFFECTION" if love is affection means there is no one living. So, "LOVE MARRIAGE" is better than "ARRANGED MARRIAGE".

Thank you friends to read this. Bye.

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Dibyendu said: (Sat, Jan 24, 2015 05:21:16 PM)    
 
Well, there is definitely no absolute correct answer to this. It totally depends on the parties involved.

Those who have better compromising ability but are yet to find the right partner, for them the arranged marriage would suit very well. It is in this type of marriage that the parties come into play ready with the goal of "marriage" at hand, and that they are required to tie the knot in a relatively smaller period of time. But if are notable to compromise in a balanced way, they end up either distancing themselves from their close ones or each other, both of which are an undesirable scenario.

In a love marriage, especially in those relationships that have stretched a long period of time, it can be very well assumed that both the parties and their close ones know each other fairly well, and that the couple themselves have gone through many hurdles and thus have nurtured a "mature" love and respect towards each other and the immediate family.

In this kind of marriage the parties know each other fairly well. A point to note here, that the parties went 1st started dating probably didn't think of "marriage" in an upfront way. This is the difference. Now depending on the parties, after marriage due to social norms and pressure, things may start talking a turn towards the worse, which they may not handle well enough and in process thoughts like "this wasn't how I imagined it/ this wasn't suppose to be" may start rolling in cause lets face the fact.

Before marriage and after marriage lives are quite different from each other. Romance is one thing and commitment at marriage level is different, especially for those who aren't prepared for whats at stake, the goal of "marriage".

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Ruchi said: (Fri, Jan 23, 2015 06:59:15 PM)    
 
Hello Friends,

Its very difficult to define which marriage is better but you have to know only one thing that in any relation either I am talking about love or arrange in both cases we have to understand feeling of each other. We have to make a balance between two families and we have to keep respect in our heart for each other. If you share each and everything with your life partner then in future you will get positive result with this. So its your choice you can do anything but try to put honesty in your relation.

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Ankit Gupta said: (Fri, Jan 23, 2015 06:54:41 PM)    
 
I should fever of arrange marriage. You can easily understand to life partner. You do some quarrel of husband or wife. Parent does solve the problem. Because arranged marriage is connected with two families not only two persons.

Now a days lovers feel they are loving each other but in fact they attract with each other. They feel we are understanding each other but why they are breaking their love. I agree with one thing 100% arranged marriages are not successful but almost all happy couples are arranged marriages.

In our India arranged marriage has very strong foundation. So it will not break easily. Marriage means bond between two souls not with persons. That possible in our arranged marriages. Love marriage is attraction. It is not a real love. Some boys do misuse the girl. It is increase the case of rape. It is the main reason of love marriage. He is not real love.

THANK YOU.

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Abhijit said: (Thu, Jan 22, 2015 07:40:09 PM)    
 
Hello everyone,

I am in favour of Love Marriage because in case of love marriage the bonding and understanding level between the couple is very high and they are very know each other very well.

God made love and it is the most beautiful word in the earth. And at the present time in the Earth love needs the most. If you love someone, then you will get more love from that person.

But in modern society most of the love marriage breaks because lack of understanding, lack of faith between the couples. But if someone have undying love and unending faith for his/her partner then God is surely with you. Sometimes love breaks you but still keeps you together and if you have a power to love like that then this love is called true love. And your love is surely be the full of success.

So enjoy the life with the person whom you love the most, who can feel your feelings and stand besides you in your bad or happy moments. Support love marriage and bring happiness and peace to everyone.

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Viswanath said: (Thu, Jan 22, 2015 11:57:53 AM)    
 
Hello friends,

In my point of view if you connect with your partner both both love and arrange marriages are beautiful.

In love marriages both the partners known about the each other and lives accordingly, so their life is beautiful.

In arrange marriages partners connect with each other no relation is better than arrange marriages.

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Bharu said: (Wed, Jan 21, 2015 03:21:57 PM)    
 
Hello friends,

My self Bharu.

In my opinion arranged marriage is the best. Because arranged marriage is connected with two families not only two persons. Now a days lovers feel they are loving each other but in fact they attract with each other. They feel we are understanding each other but why they are breaking their love. I agree with one thing 100% arranged marriages are not successful but almost all happy couples are arranged marriages. In our India arranged marriage has very strong foundation. So it will not break easily. Marriage means bond between two souls not with persons. That possible in our arranged marriages.

Thank You.

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Fakru said: (Tue, Jan 20, 2015 05:19:55 PM)    
 
Hello Friends!

I am Fakru,

My point to think a best marriage is a love marriage. The love marriage is understanding marriage. The one man and woman is understanding must. And will starting a love. The love is a union of man and woman. The any one person is continue a true love is reach to best lover (woman). Thy any one girl is continue a true love is to reach great lover (man).

So, point to love marriage is best.

Thank you.

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Sunaina said: (Sun, Jan 18, 2015 02:21:37 AM)    
 
Hello friend,

I am Sunaina!

In my point of view love marriage is Best than arrange. In love marriage you very well to know your partner.
You share your feeling and sadness with your partner. I mean to say that mutual understanding is more.

But in arrange marriage, understanding is less. Love is everything and marriage is a bonding of two Souls or two person. And for any relationship, trust is more important.

But now a days there is do much issues in both of love Or arrange. Someone whose love is successful then they says Love marriage is better. But that is also a real fact that Arrange marriage maintained last long time as compare to Love. It means that both marriage having some complication But I will support in love marriage.

Thank you!

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Deepak Kushwah said: (Fri, Jan 16, 2015 10:43:09 PM)    
 
Hello friends,

We are here to talk about and to found out the actual meaning of love marriage and arrange marriage, my point of view is that.

There is nothing and it is does not any matter if, the boy and girl understand each other very well and they know all about the feelings which they have about each other, when they get marry but now the problem is, if is it arrange or love, its depend on the situation.

But some time family create issues and they are against a love marriage but it is happened when the family do not know about what happening and not understand the situation of actual love so I feel if both the person who get married, it is arranged or love but they love each other so there is no issue of love or arrange both marriages are right on their views. So now the final conclusion is if the boy and girl support each other and wants to having a life partner, then they get married by any of the situation, thank you friends.

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Debasish Rout said: (Wed, Jan 14, 2015 11:36:04 PM)    
 
Love is everything. There is do much issues in love marriage & arrange marriage now a days. So one can't say that love is better than arrange or viceversa. The blessings of god on those couples whose love is success, only they can say the understanding of love but I have to say one thing i.e. arrangement is one type of adjustment.

But sometimes arrange marriage maintains last longer as compared to love marriage. I suggest to all my friends go for arranged love means selection by parents & love her/him after complete understanding.

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Namrata Pawar said: (Tue, Jan 13, 2015 01:13:31 PM)    
 
Love is God. God made love. Love is pure. Then why to oppose God. We make religion. A Girl or a Boy never blindly love each other they always think about there parents first. Matured lovers, They never choose a wrong person for there self or for there own family. They always think, the person whom they love is that capable to keep.

There parents happy and also think that will there parent be happy with the one they love. I only think is that parents who support arrange marriage won't trust there child, They always think there child is small he or she can not make there own correct decision.

If that is so, then why do they want there child to marry according to there own choice, If there child is not that mature to take there own decision then how can he or she be that good enough to carry the decision that seriously which you want to put on them without there wish.

Its a request trust your son and daughter they love you and they want your support to make there love story the most beautiful love story ever. Love is pure if you allow the love to come in your life, your life will be beautiful and it has that power like magnet that attract the beauty and to glow rest of others with it to. Support love marriage and make them arrange it will glow like a gold and bring happiness and peace to every one.

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Kamparth said: (Sat, Jan 10, 2015 02:22:24 PM)    
 
Hi dear.

I support love marriage and I did too. After marriage you will face a lot of issue with your loved one. But still you will be in love with her in your life end. Because you love her and same too from girl side, if she has the same feeling.

In arrange Marriage every thing will be decided by parents. After Marriage you can get all the support from parents but nothing will be good for you to lead a life when you both are not in love.

Without love, the marriage life is really painful.

Take care.

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Raj Kumar said: (Sat, Jan 10, 2015 10:15:32 AM)    
 
Hello Friends!

Myself: Raj kumar.
My views are:

I think arranged marriage is better than love marriage. In arranged marriage parents decide to whom they have to marriage their son or daughter. It is also good because parents know each other family background and education. This marriage is done in present of many people. In India I think all marriage are arranged marriage due to it demerit.

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Shravan S Ramesh said: (Fri, Jan 9, 2015 12:16:05 PM)    
 
In point of view arranged marriage is good, marriage is not a bond between two person, its a bond between two families and culture. In love marriage first outlook is the important thing, but days pass it will also gone.

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Jangraravi Jangra said: (Tue, Jan 6, 2015 08:26:17 PM)    
 
Hello, I am Ravi.

I am in the favour of love marry because there is everything openly. I think that this is the matter of understanding of a person about his life partner and his all family. What type of life he is living there. If he is frank with all that will be easy for him to solve every type of problem if he is facing. Give love to all. Then you will get more. That's why love marriage is good.

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Sam said: (Tue, Jan 6, 2015 12:03:12 PM)    
 
Hello friends,

In my point of view love marriage is far better than arrange marriage because the best thing in love marriage is mutual understanding. Marriage is the bounding of two souls whether it's love marriage or arrange marriage!

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Ide Ntify said: (Mon, Jan 5, 2015 02:01:17 AM)    
 
Hi friends.

I am in the side of Love marriage. In all life once age is that when most of peoples like some or another. But they will never talk because they'll parents are strongly against the love marriage. Its nothing that arrange marriage can only be successful. If we have decided the correct partner for all our life than it we never create any of the obstacles in all life. We can understand the feelings of our life partner while it cannot happen in arrange marriage every time. And life is so short for enjoyment so its in your hands what to do?

Enjoy the life with the person whom you love the most who can feel your feelings very deeply or get married with the person whom you have never mate.

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Yien Tharngoany Wiel said: (Thu, Jan 1, 2015 05:40:02 PM)    
 
Arranged marriage is better than love marriage. Since all the doubt that may occur between the partner are being discussed by not only the partner but also by the parent of the lover for along period of time and thank.

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Hari Prasad said: (Tue, Dec 30, 2014 07:42:54 AM)    
 
Think about your parents, whether they married by love marriage or arranged. Most of them would be married by arrange marriage. See till today they are good with each other and they lead their whole life till death successfully.

In today's society 90% of love marriage fails (only stays strong till they involve in physical contact) after that nobody cares. There will be no support from family. You can't show feeling to your parents.

Marriage is the bonding between 2 families not 2 person. So arrange marriage is good, you can love after arrange marriage. The beauty may fade away but the character will remain for long.

A small hint to those who wish to love marriage. Don't love anyone by seeing face, go for the character!

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Ravi said: (Mon, Dec 29, 2014 07:36:04 PM)    
 
Hello everyone, I am Ravi.

I am in the favour of love marriage because in this we already know all about our partner but I'm arrange marry total against. We are bounded here. To live happy. In arrange we can't share everything.

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Mehrab said: (Sun, Dec 28, 2014 11:47:16 AM)    
 
Hello. Friends I'm Mehrab.

From my points of view arranged marriage is better than love marriage b/c in arrange marriage parents supports is they're. And after marriage we will love that's enough.

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Saurabh said: (Thu, Dec 25, 2014 11:19:37 PM)    
 
There is no disparity between the success or failure of both. I think it entirely depends on your fortune as you could end up finding the perfect perfect partner in either of them.

The post is more in context with probability of higher success rate. The notion here sits here clearly with arranged marriage because of the following reasons:

1. Most of couple pretending to be in love nowadays are driven into marriages by infatuation. Hence, the real character of their prospective spouse remains concealed until it starts to peel off layer by layer after marriage.

2. No involvement of family means they play by their own rules. Imagine a game without the intervention of referee, one can guess the outcome apparently.

3. Love marriage couple seldom apprehend the smaller thongs or brawls that may be on decisive at the end of the day.

I don't advocate arrived arrange marriages over love marriages but I am slightly inclined towards arranged ones. Enough said !

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Keshav Krishan said: (Thu, Dec 25, 2014 11:06:17 AM)    
 
Hi friends as per my opinion. I say that marriage is the bonding of two souls. Whether love marriage and arrange marriage but I support love marriage there is no religion, no caste, no dowry and fully happiest life that is LOVE IS LIFE.

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Srinath Krishnan said: (Sat, Dec 20, 2014 06:38:49 PM)    
 
Hi Guys,

I would like to go with arranged marriage because most of the time love doesn't happen at the correct age. At that age (during school and college days) one doesn't have enough experience to choose their life partner. And in love marriages the couples would have shared literally everything to their respective partners.

So they won't have much to share after their marriage. This is trigger the void in their early post marriage life. This void is the main reason for fights for no reasons. So it is better to marry a girl as per your parents wish and start loving her after the marriage and I hope this would to appropriate.

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Deepak said: (Fri, Dec 19, 2014 02:50:05 AM)    
 
Hi Friends.

As per my opinion I am favoring Arrange Marriage. Since in records which attain high success rate in society.

This is all theoretical give up on that. Be practical, Who said people do not compromise and sacrifice with their partner if they are in love and marry later, they do. I think same is required in Arrange too. There are facts where people adjust, fight even after marrying when been in love and signed off divorce ultimately.

Actually they live in world of pretense and take decisions without thinking there actual life starts after marrying only which require unconditional love for each other. One more common thing in love everyone get to know about the others weakness, strength i.e. more than enough which is required and try to be a dominating part. Less dignity between partners, low family involvement and low success rates.

India is so mod these days still maintain with values, Just Dowry and Caste System should be eradicated anyways. Look at the fact, People go overseas be exceptionally modern still look for their life partner from India. Just because they can not compare Indian Values with anything else.

I am not recommending the ways to marry of course I have not rights to interrupt, exceptions are always there. Still be wise when deciding about future partner, you are whole sole taking up the decisions. Love is always right, but choosing right partner is another story.

Thanks and Seeking your valuable revert.

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Frederick said: (Mon, Dec 15, 2014 05:49:17 PM)    
 
Hello:

To me love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because it has a important rule in our life and it depends on how we actually get a partner in life, we may better to think twice before we act and first of all we need to follow our heart. Because our heart will bring us to the greatest. But we actually use our brain, because heart+ brain is equal to success. Success that will bring us happiness and joy in our entire life. And GOD will bless us and he will guide us to him.

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Avni said: (Mon, Dec 15, 2014 02:30:23 PM)    
 
Hi friends.

According to me love marriage is better then arrange. Because we born ones and we all will die one day. So why we should live our life according to other wish or wants.

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Debajyoti said: (Thu, Dec 11, 2014 12:03:39 PM)    
 
Hello everyone.

The topic love vs arranged marriages is a very relevant topic in today's scenario. I would cast my vote for love marriage because of the following reasons:

You could know a lot about your life partner with whom you are going to spend the rest of your life.

The compatibility with your partner becomes the best when you opt for love marriage whereas complications arise in case of arranged marriages due to ego problems and many other things.

You could also know about the family background of the person with whom you are going to be engaged if you are in a relationship with that person for a long time.

So I think that it's best if you go for love marriage as you don't want to spend the rest of your life in a complicated and haphazard way.

Thank you.

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Bidyut said: (Thu, Dec 11, 2014 01:46:57 AM)    
 
I would like to arranged marriage:

1. Love is Spontaneous act, so it can't be said people can't take Right Decision.

2. It is said LOVE IS BLIND. So two blind people can't take right decision for their life.

3. Love is Not everything. Other things like family background, income, caste etc also have to take care when two people decided to live forever.

4. Statistics - DIVORCE RATE of arranged marriage in India is 1% and whole world is 6% so it is more successful.

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Honey said: (Wed, Dec 10, 2014 10:52:59 AM)    
 
Hai Friends.

In my opinion there is no need of marriage. Many people think that marriage is to give birth and increase their family members. It is better to adopt an orphan child and to look after them without marrying anyone. I am against marriage. Like if you are against marriage. Let us see how many hate marriages?

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Shaikh Bashirali said: (Tue, Dec 9, 2014 02:50:29 PM)    
 
Hi friends.

Let take look that being a human we are born in our mother we either don't know that who is she? But all love is enlarge for her same to it our life is same. A arrange marriage give same type of felling which is a strong love forever.

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Zafaryab Qasmi said: (Thu, Dec 4, 2014 01:00:55 PM)    
 
My name Zafaryab Qasmi.

I will stay on arrange. Because it the spiritual possess. Why I am saying because in here 21th century very lover promised to her beloved that he he will love spiritually but it happens rarely which leads to break strong relation due to not keeping promises. And another point is that its up to them. And understanding will come gradually. Thanks friends.

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Azarudeen.B said: (Thu, Dec 4, 2014 10:07:07 AM)    
 
Hi friends, I am Azar.

In my point of view love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because without knowing the attitude and character of our life partner we doesn't run our life smoothly. The only way to know about the life partner is love only.

Shajakhan said that"I don't say to fall in love, I just say to feel the love. Don't miss life in love and Don't miss love in life".

From the quotes it is clear that love is "one of the source to succeed in life and not the only source".

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Vivek Kumar said: (Wed, Dec 3, 2014 07:31:37 PM)    
 
Hi friends,

I am Vivek Kumar Ready.

First of all, I would like to say that marriage is the bonding of two souls whether That is love marriage or arrange marriage. According to time both are right, but I support arrange marriage, because it is arranged by our parents and it is more successful than love marriage. Arrange marriage long lasting. If you do arrange marriage then family, relatives & good society respect you.

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Sandeep Shrestha said: (Wed, Dec 3, 2014 07:24:34 PM)    
 
Love is divine and the purest virtue, if a person love someone truly (without expecting anything in return not even the given love back) then love marriages are the best option since both of them compromise each other well.

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K.Charan Kumar said: (Tue, Dec 2, 2014 09:03:50 PM)    
 
Hi I'm Charan kumar koribilli.

I just stay with arranged marriage because. Our parents keeping a lot of hopes on our marriage. So I don't want to disappoint my parents. Marriage is a place where we can gather all our friends and relatives and colleagues with full of love and affection so I don't want to disappoint my parents in that event.

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Sanu Saikh said: (Tue, Dec 2, 2014 12:29:09 PM)    
 
My name is Sanu Saikh.

In my opinion. Love marriage also right and Arrange marriage also right according to me. During to arrange marriage we don't know about life partner clearly. We think that what's nature of my life partner and what's behavior and something.

But according to our parents, arrange marriage is right and love marriage is not right. But I am thinking that love marriage is better than arrange marriage because during to love marriage we know about life partner nature behave and something. That's why we should do the love marriage. Because we will be pass my life my life partner neither parents. Thanks.

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Silversmall said: (Sun, Nov 30, 2014 10:01:41 AM)    
 
Well, whether its Love marriage or Arranged marriage the most important thing is to a background check on that other person. If you have a bad feeling about that other person, don't proceed.

I have seen a lot of people who had a bad gut feeling about their potential spouse when they were dating, but proceeded to marry since they were in love with them. However, marriage did not turn out to be great but sour. Some of them got divorced but others suffer silently. I would greatly suggest go in disguise or have someone go in disguise to meet your potential love interest (might not be practical). This is to make sure that the person they say are to you is actually real.

Don't fall in love blindly, but do it wisely. If you have the approval of a person from your friends or loved one regarding a person's character then proceed. Don't make wild guesses in light of an infatuation or feelings of love. Take care. Make sure your select your partner wisely whether its love or arranged.

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Kishore Nandi said: (Sat, Nov 29, 2014 04:00:06 PM)    
 
HELLO FRIENDS.

Love marriages better to our self because why?

When love marriage couple have any problem they solve easily but arrange marriage they can't then why they have some ego feelings. Any relationship have ego feelings they can't running successfully. So love marriages are better and best. Please don't use love just love the love it loves you.

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Haroon said: (Thu, Nov 27, 2014 10:49:05 PM)    
 
Hello dear, I am Haroon.

In my opinion, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage because the two couple clearly understand each other about their like dislike, feeling, behavior, character. And also they live a whole life not a hour day month.

In the above opinion some says that if in the love marriage if misunderstanding create that will go to the divorce, you are completely wrong because they know each other how to convince each other they will compromise each other and solve the problem by compromising. TRUE LOVE NEVER END.

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Jitendra Kumar said: (Tue, Nov 25, 2014 02:36:56 PM)    
 
Hello Friends,

As per My point of view, No marriage is good or bad as well. Our mind set or way of thing makes it good or bad. Each one's of life, every relation do have their priority & purity as well but only difference is each relation does have different meaning for every individual one. Which is depend on our deepness of the heart to understand the importance of the each and every relation.

For Example ; marriage which is a relation of purity & long lasting bonding between two similarly nature person or some time different nature person. It is just required only understanding & satisfactions which could be achieved in terms of some respect, Individual one understanding, Some loyalty & dignity & so on.

It is also true that, Actual meaning of the marriage will be attained with the happiness of individual one. Everyone also do have different thoughts or view for marriage, it;s does not means that which could change the real value & importance of this divine relation.

It also will be true that, misunderstanding or difference occurred each one of life, but in these case purity and bonding of the relation will be checked though how soon & effectively you settled down your differences.

Everyone of parents in this world do have some responsibility toward their children, they always think or wish for better life of each of children. If they choose a compatible party for their children, they are doing so, only for their happiness, not seeking for any benefit or profit. Same as, the modern generation are also mature enough to take individual right decision in their life, and parents also support their right decision too.

Jai Bharat.

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Gurunathan said: (Mon, Nov 24, 2014 07:14:41 PM)    
 
I supports Love marriages. It has the power to eradicate the dowry system, caste system, etc. These are the things that spoils our society for many years. To form a better society, we can support Love marriages.

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Shehnaz said: (Sun, Nov 23, 2014 07:32:25 AM)    
 
Hi,

Love marriage is better or arrange unless and until your partner and how much compatible you two are you cannot love each other. Now-a-days, its important even in arrange marriage that both the candidates of this marital institution know each other - good, bad. There are so many cases of unregistered marital rapes and the toll keeps on increasing, that shouldn't happen. Each partner shall voice there opinion.

I think love or arranged it is always important that how much the other person is loyal towards you. How much love shall you get. We cannot completely discard either of the two ways.

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Lochan Dhami said: (Fri, Nov 21, 2014 05:19:23 PM)    
 
Hi friend.

It's me Lochan Dhami.

In my opinion, Love marriage is better than Arrange marriage because love is everything, love is life in 21th century all person do love marriage those person who don't love, he is 18th centuries man in love marriage both person know about each other about his habits & character therefor all person love each other don't return 18th century, Thank you.

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Sulaman Mubarak said: (Tue, Nov 18, 2014 06:17:42 PM)    
 
Assalamoalaikum!

Hello there my friends. My name is Sulaman Mubarak and today I'm going to share my point of views about being married with a person who you love or not.

First, we must clear that a marriage is not just a tradition but it beyonds the limits of any relationship that could even banish all the traditional or cultural values, sometimes, in exceptional cases. If you know what I mean. Basically, a marriage is a contract between two people that they will spend their whole lives for the sake of each other no matter how much difficult times they will have to face.

Ok now get to the point, some people believe in Love marriages and mostly believe in Arranged. But the matter is WHY why they want to? Do people want a love marriage for the sake of satisfaction only or do people wanna arrange marriage in order to put a pressure or strong supervision on their partner to have a complete control.

I think neither arranged nor love marriage could help at all if anybody think like that. I believe a marriage is a process of communication to relation. More you have a stronger communication is, more stronger a relationship will be. In arrange marriages the communication factor lacks but in love marriages it never. On the other hand a sensual thread has bound two people who are involved in love relation but not in case of arranged marriage as the relation has newly started and excitement duly increases as the relation discover itself. For me whether a person do an arrange or love marriage a true spirit and determination must be needed to make the relation long life. In love marriage its a little bit easy job but for arrange marriage a little more is needed.

I am engaged and I am 21 years old and it has been 2 years ago to happen this. Its an arrange as well as love relation because everybody is happy and me and my fiance enjoying this period very much and I hope that it will help me to make my relation even more stronger than ever and now I am waiting for the day when we will finally become one. I personally believes in love marriage lol.

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Nitish Kumar said: (Mon, Nov 17, 2014 08:48:29 PM)    
 
HI.

I am Nitish kumar, s/o Mr.Gurar jee yadav from Chanawe, Gopalganj (Bihar).

As for as according to my arrange marriage is better than love because in arrange marriage our parents choose partner for us and they are obviously more experienced than us, so they choose better than us. And some bad condition is occur after marriage than its depends on our luck parents are not responsible for this. This may be happen in love marriage that our love would be changed after marriage.

In point of me Arranged marriages are better than Love marriages, because these marriages are arranged by our parents. As our parents will love us so much they will choose a right person only for us and if any difficulty comes also our parents can be supporting for us.

I do not say that love marriage is not good but in the love marriage we cannot find parents support as it is the sole decision of the boy and the girl they both only have to face any situations. In love marriages divorces are also happening due to misunderstanding between themselves.

But in love marriages we can understand each other perfectly than the arranged marriages. Because in arranged marriages it takes some time to understand each others thoughts and feelings. But it is better to give respect to our parents thoughts and feelings and do the things as they have grown us up by working very hard in order to make us intelligent people or to develop us.

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Shwetha.S.Nair said: (Mon, Nov 17, 2014 05:22:21 PM)    
 
According to me, both love and arranged are good enough. If you are in a relationship with any person then you wouldn't be able to cop-up with another person chosen by your family members.

Authors usually tells us through their books that one can never break lovers. I think its true. After understanding each others behavior very well. one takes a decision to marry (love marriage). But one can't just understand a person by taking a tray full of tea cups and giving it to our future husband or mother-in-law and talking with the future husband just for 5 mins and accepting for marriage. I hate all this things.

Listening to our parents is quite good but marrying an unknown person just by talking with him for 5 mins no never. One should always understand each others' heart, souls, tastes etc. No matter with religion, caste, states, family, neighbors, society etc. Just move on what you feel is correct.

All the best for decision takers. Actually I can't tell whether love is better or arranged because I am too small to decide it studying in 9th, anyways this war b/w love v/s arranged will go on forever &ever&ever.

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Maduri said: (Sun, Nov 16, 2014 07:05:24 AM)    
 
Hi,

In my opinion Arranged marriages are better than Love marriages, because these marriages are arranged by our parents. As our parents will love us so much they will choose a right person only for us and if any difficulty comes also our parents can be supporting for us.

I do not say that love marriage is not good but in the love marriage we cannot find parents support as it is the sole decision of the boy and the girl they both only have to face any situations. In love marriages divorces are also happening due to misunderstanding between themselves.

But in love marriages we can understand each other perfectly than the arranged marriages. Because in arranged marriages it takes some time to understand each others thoughts and feelings. But it is better to give respect to our parents thoughts and feelings and do the things as they have grown us up by working very hard in order to make us intelligent people or to develop us.

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Rajiv Siddarth said: (Fri, Nov 14, 2014 12:33:56 AM)    
 
Hai I am Rajiv Siddarth.

Our topic is about Love/Arrange marriages according to mine Love marriage is better than the arranged marriages because in love they know what he/her partners does like and doesn't like things etc so they can easily understand to each other so they are happy in their future and coming to arranged marriages I saw most of the couples lives terrible life they're life because they don't know about he/her partners so they always silence in their relationship so finally my conclusion is true love never ends.

Thank you.

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Himani said: (Thu, Nov 13, 2014 05:52:03 PM)    
 
Hi good evening. Personally my view of thinking I totally agree with love marriage, In the love two persons are completely know each other. They are totally adjustable. They take care of one another.

Yes, our society and our family are not accept fully at this time but life is our. We live with each other not parents. If we are totally understand each other. Why should we listen to third person? Yes but we will not go against with our parents. We should understand them patiently.

In my personal opinion I think that how can we live our life with stranger?

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934758 said: (Wed, Nov 12, 2014 12:46:41 AM)    
 
Hi.

According to my opinion, if someone ask me to choose one of them I always prefer to arranged marriage because of my family who always think better for their crop, they are experienced in actual life but it would be better if they take suggestion and intention of their son or daughter before taking any conclusion.

As we know marriage is the need of our life and you are free for your choice but remember how many couples are succeed in love marriage I think a few after getting married by this system the train of our life run very fast but for limited period and the time comes when they hate each other by taking any type of matter whatever, because there is the absence of parent who always suggest the real path of life and the bridge between the two.

So I request to all of you take decision carefully which plant you for long term profit and satiation instead of short term enjoyment and always consult with your elder who are experienced.

Thanks.

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Sree said: (Tue, Nov 11, 2014 07:40:57 PM)    
 
Hi I am Sree, I will support for Love as well as Arrange marriages, because it is not the matter that all should Love and then marry it's all up to them. It is not the matter for both Love marriage as well as Arrange marriage, its only thing is after marriage they both should understand and love each other, compromise is more important for both of them. But true love never ends.

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Lonely said: (Tue, Nov 11, 2014 07:37:01 PM)    
 
Hi.

Love or Arrange.

I prefer Arrange, because I saw that when I am in love with my girlfriend and she also loves me but she refused me to get marry with me and she was accept that person whom her parents chosen for her and she got married with him and she lives happy today.

So it means that love is nothing it just an attraction between two person if in this world love happens then nobody will get Arrange marriage.

So please guys don't waste time on Love please concentrate on your future.

Love is nothing.

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Nirala said: (Tue, Nov 11, 2014 07:27:47 PM)    
 
Hi I am Nirala. I would prefer Arrange marriage, because marriage is the holy meeting of two souls or two persons, in Arrange marriage parents provides more time to boys & girls, to understand each other.

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Aaliya Khan said: (Fri, Nov 7, 2014 04:51:09 AM)    
 
Hey Guys.

According to me, Love marriage is better then Arrange marriage because marriage is the matter of a girl or a boy. If they have a love affair then what is wrong in it? They know each other well, they are careful for each other, they share their problems & everything with each other, they feel comfortable with each other, they know what does his partener like or what does he doesn't like, they know well about the choice of each other, they know the negative and positive points of each other, they support each other etc etc. Then what's the problem?

Mostly in arrange marriage, girls have to tolerate highhandedness but still she has to live silently. Dowry system is famous case of INDIA and funny or serious thing is that a husband plays a super-duper role in that case, he helps or support his family who always torcher to his wife expect to take a actual part to support his wife and against his family but we see very few cases in arrange marriage where a husband takes a part to secure his wife. In love marriage dowry doesn't means a matter. Boy always ready to marry his partner without any greed because he love her not money, car or dowry items.

In arrange marriage there is a deal that a girl who is mary has to live her life according to her husband as well as his family. She has to die her thoughts, her dreams, her aim. She can't feel freedom, she is going to place like a jail as and she has to live as she is any criminal. But love marriage is totally opposite of arrange marriage.

And I think parents should understand that their children has a life of their own and if he/she chooses their partner then what's wrong in it?

And childrens should remember that their parents love and care of their child and they don't want that something happens wrong with their child so they also don't do the step which hurts to their parent as well as family.

That's all.

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Oorja said: (Sat, Nov 1, 2014 12:01:07 AM)    
 
What matters is love and understanding, whether it is love or arrange marriage. Its ones personal choice. But time also matters. If we fall in love with somebody then it is obvious that we will choose marry him or her but if we don't then we will have an arrange marriage:P.

But world has seen that arrange marriages are more compatible than love marriages. This is because love sometimes may mean just attraction which is short termly.

Moreover in arrange marriages we don't know much about each other so we have our full life to know about each other but in love marriages we already know everything about each other so in some cases people get bored with their partners until it is a "TRUE, UNBREAKABLE LOVE" or they are made for each other.

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Gagandeep said: (Fri, Oct 31, 2014 06:33:01 PM)    
 
Good Morning.

I would like to share my views on the topic love marriage or Arrange marriage. In my opinion Love marriage is better then arrange marriage. When you go for arrange marriage there are many question inside your mind how would be your partner her liking and disliking, what would be her nature, her reaction towards your problems, all these create problem after marriage.

But in love marriage before marriage you very well know your partner, what is her nature, you spend more time with her before marriage. This actually helps both of you to understand each other culture and traditions.

The ultimate goal of marriage is to live with the partner whom you can share your happiness and sadness situation and are able to solve all yours problems. So its good marry someone whom you love.

So love marriage is better.

Thanks.

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Azhagar said: (Thu, Oct 30, 2014 04:52:38 PM)    
 
Hello friends,

Myself I am Azhagar, so our topic is "LOVE or Arranged Marriage". I am going to support for Love marriage. Because without love there is nothing in the world. How can you give your whole life with out knowing the person's behavior, mentality, character etc.

One should not choose life partner for parent's desire or some other reasons because we are going to live our life.

In Love marriage there is enough time for understanding each other and to decide how our life will be in future.

Even if you go for arranged marriage here also love only matters for happiest life but there is less chance for that love in most of the arranged marriages.

But everything has two sides love also has some problems but if that love is really a love then none can resist you happiest and affectionate life.

So I can openly say with out love Life is totally waste.

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Vinay said: (Sat, Oct 25, 2014 07:07:11 PM)    
 
Hi friends.

I am to here support love marriage but not completely arguing against arranged marriages, I think it's not a matter one agrees arranged marriages, but the problem raises when we loved someone.

I would like share some of the reasons why our parents don't agree love marriages are.

Caste feeling.
Social status.
They can't satisfy their ego by accepting.

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Aditi said: (Sat, Oct 25, 2014 12:33:28 AM)    
 
Hi friends,

Our topic is "love marriage VS arrange marriage:

As we all know every coin has two sides same applies in this case also. Arrange as well as love marriages have good as well as bad sides.

In case of love marriage two persons know each other very well before marriage n they decide to marry but the problem arises when they misconception love as it may be their ATTRACTION towards each other which will end in some years and can lead to a unsuccessful marriage and if it is true love no matter of any ups n downs in their lives they will make their live successful and hence marriage.

In case of arranged marriage our parents decide our partner that appears best match to them for us. This also has two sides. If we marry any unknown person without knowing him for keeping parent's heart or due to any force then it can lead to many problems after marriage but if we take sufficient amount of time to know the person, his nature, hobbies n all though chosen by parents can make a huge difference.

So I would like to conclude that it all depends on us about what to do and also our nature. LOVE between two persons can change even arranged marriage into love after marriage. It should be the wise decision taken by both bride n groom.

Thank you.

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Bhargavi said: (Thu, Oct 23, 2014 10:53:45 PM)    
 
According to my point of view, a successful marriage solely based on understanding between wife and husband but not on the other aspects. Coming to practicality these days both arranged marriage and love marriages stood in same place in succeeding.

Even loved ones before marriage is leaving their beloved partner alone. So understand the person whom you love and whom you marry and be a successful partner so that you can have a successful married life.

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Mohammad Arif said: (Thu, Oct 23, 2014 10:44:10 AM)    
 
I will give you some reasons for both arranged and love marriage.

In love marriage:

1. If the two partners have a good mutual understanding between themselves, they can handle situations very well.

2. Trust each other very well.

3. Their lives are fully dependent on each other.

4. And the most important thing they have chosen themselves for each other.

Then go for the love marriage.

In arranged marriage:

1. If you haven't loved any girl yet.

Then go for arranged marriage.

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Bhargavi said: (Mon, Oct 20, 2014 08:33:51 PM)    
 
Good evening friends am bhargavi,

In my point of view, I encourage both arranged and love marriages. We have many situations in society where we can see some failure love marriages and in even arranged also this depends on the person's behaviour, character, lifestyle and all.

Coming to love marriages persons on their own decides to marry each other disrespect to their parents of their parents weather it may be an attraction or love. Some people will get married of their own without acceptance from their parents in this case there will be no guidance of anyone when there is misunderstanding or any quarrel between them.

Same case if at all in arranged marriage parents will be handling situation and they will take care of them.

Am not specifying that love marriages are not good, am supporting the love cum arranged marriages.

Thank you all.

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Joseph Raj said: (Sat, Oct 18, 2014 11:04:58 AM)    
 
In my point of you arrange marriage is better. Because,

1. An arranged marriage is a marriage that is arranged by persons other than the two who are getting married. On the other hand, a love marriage is a marriage which is arranged by the partners themselves.

2. Unlike love marriages, arranged marriages are more stable.

3. In an arranged marriage, the couples must get the consent of their parents. On the other hand, in most of love marriages, the partners will not need the consent of the parents, or elders.

4. In arranged marriages, men are always more dominant than women.

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Sonycharan said: (Fri, Oct 17, 2014 03:12:47 PM)    
 
Hi Guys,

Love marriage and arranged marriage, in both words "marriage" is common, but every man/girl has right to choose their partner. If not, the parents will help in choosing the correct partner. So any way the final goal is to choose a right partner either by self or by the parents.

If you choose love marriage:

You are sure about the partners behavior (likes and dislikes).

You can set your future goal before marriage. No dowry matters in this.

If you choose arranged marriage:

You can get assured status (parents can get better status).

You will have to would yourself to get the love from your partner.

You need to adjust initially until you get clear idea about your partners like/dislikes Dowry matters here.

So finally, what I can suggest is that, "You will get both the benefits of love and arranged marriage which mentioned above, when your love can be accepted by both side parents and added a flavor of arranged :) ". So trust in partners love (either arranged marriage or love marriage) and respect each other.

"NO ONE CAN JUDGE YOU/YOUR RELATION MORE THAN YOU ".

Thanks.

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Kritika said: (Thu, Oct 16, 2014 01:00:23 AM)    
 
Hi everyone.

I am in support of love marriage. Yes it is true that our parents have full rights to choose a life partner for us but in today's world when a person is considered adult enough to take his/her own decisions regarding education, career, etc. Then why not this.

I agree Love is hard to find so is a difficult to judge a person you are meeting for the first time for arrange marriage. When our parents didn't allowed us to talk to strangers as a child then they can't even force us to marry one.

In love marriages people take time to understand each other to develop mutual trust and faith which do leads to successful life. Every thing have two sides.

We can trust a person we love we know from a long time but how can you anyone be sure of spending a whole life with someone they have just met and later own regret it.

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Mazid Bhati said: (Wed, Oct 15, 2014 09:55:47 PM)    
 
It's Mazid bhati.

In my opinion arrange marriage is better than love marriage because. Both partners don't know about behavior, so off-late time, craze is only love marriage and day by day increasing moreover law helps them, but this is not right because our parents loves us very much.

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Deepak Chauhan said: (Wed, Oct 15, 2014 08:34:01 PM)    
 
I think we can't say what is wrong or right. I think it just depend on your luck and person nature.

First we take love marriage. In this marriage we fall in love with each other. It can be a attraction. Because that time you think only about that person who loves you or you love him/her. 2 or 3 year it continuous but after marriage it's changed. Person doesn't seem like before he was because that attraction is no more.

And now lets take arranged marriage. In this marriage our parents select a perfect partner from there side. Whether it is family reputation, financial reputation. You get a perfect partner but after marriage we see some activity which we don't like.

So I just want to say whether it is love marriage or arranged it is depend on you how you treat your partner because if you give respect than you should have wish to take respect. And sometime it's also depend on your luck what kind of partner you got whether by love or arranged.

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Arjun Philips said: (Tue, Oct 14, 2014 03:34:44 PM)    
 
I'll be keeping it short and crisp. True love can be heaven. There's nothing like it. No matter how you find it. If Incidentally, well enough. Through arrange marriage, equally good.

But once you're in love, nothing else matters. If you're compatible with one another, all that matters is your partners happiness over your own, your partner's priorities over your own. Even when you pray you ask for your partners good and healthy life. Each time you see a shooting star you wish for your partner's success more than yours. Its beautiful. Someone caring for you more than your own self. Find it through accident or through an arrange marriage, doesn't matter. The only thing I want to convey is that. If you're lucky enough to find such a person in your life and your short stay on earth, never let go of them. Don't cheat. Let them know how important they are in your life.

And if you haven't yet found that person, keep searching.

Because as soothing as love may be, once it breaks and you're left alone, there's nothing worse. So guys please chose wisely. Be it arranged or love. The prime thing is love, pyaar, ishq, mohabbat, prem. Its the only thing worth living on earth.

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Bharat said: (Sat, Oct 11, 2014 01:06:55 PM)    
 
Loving to a girl can be termed as attraction and convert it into marriage can be said trouble if you don't cast upon the consequences. Love is the gift of God, love should be spread ed among people. Love marriage is canal and arrange marriage is ocean.

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Sashi said: (Fri, Oct 10, 2014 08:27:06 PM)    
 
Arranged marriage a review:

1). Parents of a boy know all the things about their son but how can they know anything about the girl in just a month or so, also parents think they know everything about their children but there are many things that are important in marriage like sexual compatibility etc which can also play a major role in ruining a marriage.

2). Secondly Indian girls have changed they are more independent and more confident now, they have more legal support too and they know when to stand against domestic violence. Earlier divorce rates were low because women used to just tolerate everything for her children and "pati parmeshwar" idiology. How can you know in an arranged marriage whether the guy you are getting your daughter married doesn't get high with domestic abuse.

3). More women are choosing for a permanent career hence they stand equally in the household status this is sometimes unacceptable by the in-laws and even by the husband.

Why not choose a partner of your own choice, if your parents trust you they should trust your choices too after all they raised you. Why should they assume that it is a bad decision rather they should be proud that they raised as an independent person who can take the most important decision of his life on his own.

Come on people stop going for a groom/bride hunting, sometimes it feels like boys go with their parents to a candy shop and they point towards the candy they like and their parents will buy it for him grow a pair.

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Narasimhan said: (Mon, Oct 6, 2014 08:23:40 AM)    
 
In law of contract the word 'CONSENSUS AD IDEM' is an important term for conclusion of contract which means parties to a contract are thinking on the same sense and same object.

Likewise, I would suggest youngsters to think about their customs/habits, income level, future planning before going to love.

Changing of habits/religion will not survive in the long run. Likewise, polygamy nature of gents/ladies will spoil their children life not only in income level but social status. In a nutshell, parents are the affected persons in case of love marriage becomes failure.

In arranged marriages, parties to the marriage should have a clean and open thinking with no EGO on their minds in order to secure a good life for their children.

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Krishnaa said: (Fri, Oct 3, 2014 07:11:14 PM)    
 
Hello Friends,

In my opinion, LOVE for lifetime is important whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage, Life partner means to live a life with a person in every happiness and sad situation, If couple loves each other they will have great understanding in between them. All the hurdles can be overcome whether it is money, status, social hurdles etc, The only thing which must exists between couple is Love.

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Rija Anwar said: (Fri, Oct 3, 2014 06:29:33 PM)    
 
Well I think arranged marriage is more reliable than love because our parents known us better they know all our habits likes and dislikes so when they search a partner for us they see all these things in him to so when they find someone for us so it has same habits likes and dislikes so we can manage all our life with him easily but in a love marriage minds are different thoughts are different so its not easy to manage one is going to compromise always then the relation will go on otherwise its always fighting and bad moods but in arrange both will be willing on the same thing so no one has to compromise and both lives happily.

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M.V.Krishna/Palvoncha said: (Wed, Oct 1, 2014 05:41:02 PM)    
 
Dear All,

We can't justify that 'Arranged Marriage' is correct or 'Love Marriage' is correct. Because there are some failures in both Arranged and Love Marriages. The failures are due to lack of understanding each other but not on type of marriage. Whatever may be the marriage, there should be an understanding and love between a boy and a girl before marriage and also after marriage.

In arranged marriages, parents know likes and dislikes of their child. So, they choose a person with qualities whom they think their child will be satisfied. Parents observes many parameters very keenly, so that their children must not face any challenges after marriage even in their absence. Even in arranged marriage the boy/girl should not marry blindly the person whom their parents suggest. Each and every individual should be wise enough in deciding their partner. After marriage the individual have to LOVE their partner and make life happy.

In Love marriage, the individuals themselves choose a person with the qualities they like. The same thing is done by the parents for their children in the concept of Arranged Marriage.

The boy/girl should share their feelings/opinions with their parents and should be able to convince them if required. Quarrelling with parents, running away from home, marrying unwillingly a person chosen by parents etc are not good to either persons and their families.

It will be very good if the individual make their Love as Arranged marriage, because - marriage not only belongs to the individuals, but also to the families of either side.

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Sanjeev Jha said: (Wed, Oct 1, 2014 02:33:45 PM)    
 
Hello everyone, This is me Sanjeev jha.

I am glad to say that I am going to give my opinion on this topic.

That is arrange marriages are always better than love marriages.

Parents are the first friends of everyone who can understand better than others that we all have.

They brought up their children despite of having so many social and economic difficulties.

They fulfill our every demand either they are suffering from problem and never complain for anything.

Now matter is that how can our parents understand my soul and about my life partner then answer is that they know us from last 25 years, if a girl fully understand a boy in 2 to 5 years relationship then definitely our parents know us better than girl who Know us from 25 years.

If any obstacles arises in married life they will help us to overcome it.

They have an idea that, what is right and what is wrong for their child.

No one cares us more than our parents.

Marriage is not only the bonding between two souls but also the bonding between two families.

They know the better taste of life more than us.

Even, so many cases have been seen that after sometimes of love marriage the boy's family first demand that give me a luxury car, gold etc and if their demand has not.

Taken seriously then they threat to girl's family that they kill their daughter and such type of mentally torture again and again resulting at last both have to sign on divorce paper.

That's the reason that arranged marriages are always better than love marriage.

Thanks to everyone listen me.

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Vishal Pahwa said: (Sun, Sep 28, 2014 02:35:04 AM)    
 
Hello friends.

My name is Vishal.

For my opinion love marriage is better then arrange marriage. First of all I am telling you arrange marriage. If you are going with arrange marriage there is lot of question coming in your mind. Like what is the nature of your partner, you don't know anything about your partner, and more important is that you don't know her past, all that things creates a big problems in your life. But if you are going with love marriage, you know very well about your partner, what her nature, what she like, you are spending more time before marriage you know well how to solve your problem, all the situation you are easily handle that's why I am in the favour of love marriage. So I think love marriage is better then the arrange marriage.

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L@Vi Singh said: (Thu, Sep 25, 2014 08:46:42 PM)    
 
Good evening Friends.

My name is Lavi and.

I'm student of British School of Language tomorrow I'm about to speech at this topic so I saw your comments and I don't know about anything at this topic because I hate marriage.

According to me both marriage can be secure and good and if I have to select one then I will select love marriage first and second arrange marriage in second because in love marriage we knows all about our partner but in arrange marriage we have to marriage in compulsion because of happiness of our parents without know about the partner's bad habit.

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Siddharth Tirole said: (Wed, Sep 24, 2014 04:18:45 PM)    
 
I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Most of boys and girls have shared their opinion that in arrange marriage boy/girl has to compromise with partner about their habits both can not know each other etc. Etc.

Arrange Marriage is not "On the spot marriage" i.e. parents take the final decision after the yes/no of their son/daughter. And there is a lot of time to know each other if boy/girl says yes for arrange marriage.

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Rohini Chaudhari said: (Wed, Sep 24, 2014 12:13:11 PM)    
 
I completely agree with Vipul, that the marriage is understanding between two partners. In case of love marriage this thing is more as compare to arrange because in love marriage the understanding is already built between a couple and also had a great bonding and in case of arrange to built a understanding and bonding, caring take lots of time. According to me in case of love marriages the chances of divorce are less.

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Parag Bagga said: (Mon, Sep 22, 2014 10:20:47 PM)    
 
I believe that marriage is aggregation of two souls so we know better what our soul admires than our parents. Marriage is a life time commitment it's a perpetual habit of our society to eradicate such customs. There be never a chance of regression on our decision if its love marriage there will be no expectations and no compromises. In arrange marriage we have to compromise with every habit and the nature of our partner which ultimately will lead to frustration and fights and finally a divorce. And love marriage eradicates dowry and caste system. The goal of a human being should be towards humanity and love. Rather than involving love with their outdated thinking. I agree our parents have a far more bitter experience of life but they can't never know what kind of partner their child admires.

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Abhay Rajpoot said: (Sun, Sep 21, 2014 05:41:32 PM)    
 
Hello. I am Abhay rajput student of American institute of english language.

Love and death both are two uninvited guest nobody knows when they are comes but both are do the same work on it take its heart and anthortake its beat.

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Uswa said: (Sun, Sep 21, 2014 09:17:17 AM)    
 
It's my opinion arrange marriage as compared to love marriage is better because in arrange marriage formally boy and girl liking and two families decision are involve.

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Laxmi said: (Sat, Sep 20, 2014 06:59:23 PM)    
 
Hi friends,

I am Laxmis. I agree the topic & also we are already told but love marriages and arrange marriages are very good, now-a-days love marriages are common in the entire world but love marriage is better than the arrange marriage. Whenever love marriage is creating the problems and immediately take the divorce also. My point of view love marriage is very good but he/she already know about him/her that's way I told. I really say love marriages is creating the new relationships. Marriage is not a game & very important in the entire life.

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Rohit said: (Sat, Sep 20, 2014 03:06:34 PM)    
 
As per my view that marriage types are not important but Relations are Important to each other, if we ignore parent suggestion about arrange marriage, may be possible that to break relation between them and if we agree with parents and if we love to anyone then there is also break the relation between lover.

In both divorce also possible, no issue that why? but it is possible to any reason.

So we understand all situations and after that we decide but I also agree with arrange marriage better than love marriage due to relation with parent is more important than love.

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Jony Saini said: (Fri, Sep 19, 2014 06:44:13 AM)    
 
Hi. I'm Jony.

According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage.

When a person get marry with someone, he/she decided to spend whole life with her/him.

We should know about him/her before marry.

In case of arrange marry, we try to know about his/her nature, quality, likes and dislike etc. I think we have to compromise, we have to love to each other.

But in case of love marriage, we already know about each other. In case of any problem after marry we can handle easily because we know more and we can make understand to each other.

And if we get love marry after asking to our parents so there will not be matter of divorce. And it should be, we should not hurt to our parents.

Thank you.

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Bhabani Sankar Mishra said: (Thu, Sep 18, 2014 07:16:10 AM)    
 
Hi friends. In my opinion whatever be the marriage is there is no link with divorce. In both the marriages love is unavoidable requirement. People always judge the marriage according to divorce, means if there is no divorce the marriage is good whether the couple live happily. Our aim is not to focus on divorce rather on our happy married lives. Divorce is an option not a solution. Can anybody give guarantee that there will be happy married life & no divorce in arranged marriage. If No. Then we should forget about the type of marrige. We should always think about the parents & families & we have to convince if required.

* Whether it is love or arrange does not matter, marriage is a name of responsibility. Thank you.

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Divya said: (Sun, Sep 14, 2014 08:38:22 PM)    
 
In my opinion love marriage and arrange marriage both have their own merits and demerits. As per my opinion love marriage is better because here both the people get a chance to know each other well before they take a decision to be together for life long. And as far fights and differences are concerned I think before going for love marriage the couple should involve and convince their family too so that their is no room for divorce like conditions. And I find it a win win situation for both the partners and families.

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Dinesh said: (Sun, Sep 14, 2014 01:46:53 PM)    
 
I am Dinesh.

In my opinion arrange marriage is best because in love marriage more expectations will be have if that is not happen its turn to divorce but in arrange marriage its will be very less so arrange marriage will be best option.

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Shan said: (Sat, Sep 13, 2014 10:53:16 PM)    
 
Hai this is Shan.

In my opinion loving each other in before marriage is not the matter for both love marriage as well as in arrange marriage, its only thing is after marriage they both should have love each other, compromise with each other is more important in their life.

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Merlin Jose said: (Sat, Sep 13, 2014 12:05:39 AM)    
 
Hai Friends.

In my opinion arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Parents are the most lovable source that god has gifted us. They brought up their children despite of having so many socio-economic difficulties. They fulfill our every demand and never complain for anything. If any obstacles arises in married life they will help us to overcome it. They have an idea that what is right and what is wrong for their child.

No one cares us more than our parents. Marriage is not only the bonding between two souls but also the bonding between two families. They know the bitter taste of life more than us. So Arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

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Monallisha Mallick said: (Fri, Sep 12, 2014 02:24:05 PM)    
 
Hi I'm Monallisha mallick.

From my side I prefer love marriages because here two persons makes a very sensible decision after spending great times with each other before marrying each other and it gives them a very unimaginary happiness unlike arranged marriages.

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Amit Kumar said: (Fri, Sep 12, 2014 01:14:02 PM)    
 
Hii friends my self amit kumar, I would like to say that, love marriage is a amazing marriage, you will say how, because in love marriage we can feel each other which will not happen in arranged marriage,

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