Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Souhardya said: (Mon, Nov 23, 2015 03:22:17 AM)    
I think arranged come love is better. Because in this case you and your parents, both will be very happy and there won't be any complications in future. This is a modern concept that I am in love with. Thanks everyone.

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Naveeen said: (Sat, Nov 14, 2015 10:14:18 AM)    
Love marriage waste marriages in world. Every one think in our parents and her life. We face the many problems. But we are solute our problems. Come in point some peoples are do the love marriage. We not success in our partner ship in life.

Love marriage are not solute any problems and face many problems. Love marriage in first face the problems in money. Parents will not supported at the love marriage understanding is ok in love. Problems are not solute. So arrange marriage is best marriage in world.

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Aman Goyal said: (Mon, Nov 9, 2015 03:26:51 AM)    
Hello everyone.

As per my opinion love marriage is better than arrange marriage because today's generation is different from previous. Some changes are done in society. As taken consideration of society, generation, love marriage is take most precious step in removing the CASTISM.

There is a understanding between boy and girl because they know each other and they also know what are his/her +'ve & -'ve point.

Now-a-days everyone have a bf or gf so that ways make easy parents headache. Everyone know better well what is right & what is wrong.

In love marriage we can select the best partner for our life, we can understand each other fully before get marry.

The most imp thing in marriage is respect, trust, honest, understanding, if that thing get in your relation you don't need anything in your precious life.

Thank you.

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Vishwas said: (Fri, Nov 6, 2015 10:23:53 PM)    
Hi friends.

Only words to tell about marriage is bond between partners. Bond should be strong. Care trust truth loyal respect are the bond.

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Sana said: (Fri, Nov 6, 2015 06:47:57 PM)    
Hi friends,


According to me its not the thing that depends on love marriage and arrange marriage it depends on particular person whom we are marrying there are many cases where not only love marriage fails but even arrange marriage too.

If we consider love marriage. Obviously no support from parents. But there is kind of understanding between two person which sometimes lead to a happy life.

If we consider arrange marriage. DOWRY system the thing which still going on which in turn makes burden to our parents. And in these arrange marriage experiences from elders means lot to live a better life.

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Sanjay Kumar Bindhani said: (Fri, Nov 6, 2015 05:53:23 AM)    
Hi, friends.

I would like to say a little things, since our birth to adult whatever we do on our own choice. Like playing game, use of stylish dress, food etc. Because its our right. So the choosing of life partner should be by us that's why the coming life would be better like our previous unmarried life. Hence love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Thank you.

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Sachin Kumar Mahra said: (Thu, Nov 5, 2015 11:42:21 AM)    
Hi friends, good morning to all.

According to my opinion. Love marriage is better than arrange marriage because I also like love marriage. And in the love marriage we get a chance to know about the girls. So. That what is her character and what is her desire. We can say in love marriage we have to familiar with that girl.

So I thing love marriage is better then arrange marriage. But in arrange marriage. We have to accept stranger girl. So it create many problems for us. We don't know any thing about the girls in arrange marriage. What is her feelings. What is characters. So that many problem.

I know, there is some problem in love marriage. Because and we also know India is cultural country, so as a Indian our father and mother will not agree with me. So I will have to compromise with our family and society.

Thanks to all.

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Patel Parth said: (Wed, Nov 4, 2015 10:02:54 PM)    
Hello friend.

My point of view I think the love marriage is more best compared with the arrange marriage because in love marriage partner was already understand each other and start the life with faith and trust in same case arrange marriage the partner try to do for same.

And now for this days parents also support children's love because they also know love is best thing to compared arrange. So my opinion is going to love marriage.

Thank you!

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Vishal said: (Mon, Nov 2, 2015 01:12:11 AM)    
Well read lots of good points, As far as my opinion is concerned I think I want a combo pack of Arrange Marriage and Love Marriage. And I think every one who is reading this wants the same. But the question comes why parents don't allow their kids to take such a big decision of their life? Parents love their kids, they always want to see them happy in their life.

But theirs always a fear in each parents mind that may be in future just because of their kids decision they have to face some kind of embarrassment in the society so they don't allow their kids to take this decision individually. If you convince them then definitely you are going to have this duo-combo pack.

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Hritik Mishra said: (Sun, Nov 1, 2015 09:04:12 PM)    
I think love marriage is better because if you do love arrange marriage then you have a lot of misunderstanding between you and your wife then you blame your family is it right no this is burden for your family for their wrong decision.

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Kamal said: (Sun, Nov 1, 2015 04:02:16 PM)    
Hi friends,

According to me love marriage is the best way, because everyone has a right to live life according to his/her way and to choose the life partner according to his/her interests. If they are doing the marriage it means they have trust and good understanding between them and these two are the important parameters for any relationship.

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Keerthi said: (Thu, Oct 29, 2015 08:19:20 PM)    
I think it's about the person we going to marry. Either if it's love or arrange marriage, if there's love whatever happens we will be happy, we feel strong, we have to love the one we going to marry even after we died.

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Aasil said: (Tue, Oct 27, 2015 03:51:38 PM)    
I will like to share my opinion about both the type of marriages. In love marriage many of us may say that love disappears after marriage but it is not that love disappears but it is due to infatuation not love many of us just attracted to other people it is not love.

But in case of arrange marriage conflicts arises during marriage but mutual understanding is required for any relationship to survive which is present in arrange marriage. There must be private space for both men and women in any relationship.

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Samresh Kumar Shukla said: (Sun, Oct 25, 2015 06:07:46 PM)    
Hi friends.

In my opinion love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage you know your partner very well and also makes the planning of your life. And the work is happen in planning is best. In arrange marriage we understand the partner firstly and always confused to share the felling to each other.

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Pinky Ansari said: (Thu, Oct 22, 2015 11:40:05 PM)    
Hi friends,

In my opinion love marriage is best than arrange marriage. Because now a days every body have a girl friend or boy friend so that ways make easy parents headache. Every body know better well what is right and whats wrong. So I want say that love marriage is the best.

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Manasa said: (Thu, Oct 22, 2015 10:39:55 PM)    
Hi friends,

I would like to say arranged marriage is better than love marriage. We may know a person either by chatting or by talking, that person may behave differently than what he actually is. He may hide something and may become close to you.

People used to say that when feelings or tastes of two persons match they are in love and can marry. That's not a better idea. In life some situations may arise where we can feel that our decision is wrong and we cannot change our life. Love after marriage is good. May be due to adjustment we live together, know each other correctly.

Most of our parents would have done arranged marriages and are leading their life peacefully then why can't we.

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Deepika said: (Wed, Oct 21, 2015 01:07:26 PM)    
Love marriage is better than arrange marriage because In love mrg both partner knows very well to each other and have well understanding.

Only both are enjoy in love marriage. Everybody enjoying arrange marriage.

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Yogesh Patil said: (Mon, Oct 19, 2015 05:05:40 PM)    
My opinion about the same is that love marriage and arrange marriage are same but only difference is that in love marriage the couple is ready to live with each other with faith and trust, and in other case the couple try to do same. If we deeply think then it is better to go for love marriage only if the couple is strongly committed and trusting on each other and know the negatives and positives very well. So that the life long relation is going out happily.

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Anaya said: (Mon, Oct 19, 2015 11:58:59 AM)    
According to me, whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage, it is all about the understanding between partners. There are cases where even arrange marriage don't turn to be successful. Still I think that if a person is in love and wants to spend his or her life with someone, he or she should be set free to do so because it is ultimately the person who has to spend the life with his partner and not the entire family or communities that people keep on talking about.

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Dhiya said: (Sun, Oct 18, 2015 02:09:18 PM)    
In my point of view love marriage is better but I am not saying that arrange marriage is not better. In love marriage the understand each other more properly but in arrange marriage they are strangers before marriage. First of all they don't know each other and they have never met before. But in love marriage you know each other well.

In love marriage you can talk to the other person freely you can share your views and ideas everything but in arrange marriage you feel shame of sharing your ideas with the other person. In love marriage the girl and the boy understand each other very well. So according to me love marriage is the best.

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Veerendra Baghel said: (Sat, Oct 17, 2015 10:11:11 AM)    
My opinion is arrange marriage is best for our life. Because this is our family choice. As you know every parents and mother have some dream about his son marriage. One thing is we are Indians we follow our religious and India is culture country. Most time I have seen failed to love marriage. So arranged marriage is best for best life.

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Hamza said: (Thu, Oct 15, 2015 10:52:05 PM)    
My opinion arrange marriage are best for life. Because first of all your family support and second you start our life without any tension or misunderstanding. After arrange marriage you also decided our whole life spend our partner and developing the understanding between us.

In other word when you create understanding before love marriage if you developed understanding after arrange marriage I think so it's better for married life.

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Shubham Katiyar said: (Thu, Oct 15, 2015 05:37:47 PM)    
In my point of view, I support the love marriage because in love marriage there is a emotional and immortal understanding between each other. In some cases there will be misunderstanding and that not mean that they divorce each other because before marriage there had been also be misunderstanding and that time their parents are not there, some of them friends also help him.

So I think that we choose the best partner according to our self with that we can spend the life with great happiness. After some time of period parents also supports because in the happiness of children their lies the happiness of parents.

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Akki said: (Wed, Oct 14, 2015 07:05:21 PM)    
Love marriage is good as compared to arrange one because there is a good understanding between them as they know each other well and arrange one is opposite to it.

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Sabitha said: (Wed, Oct 14, 2015 04:05:31 PM)    
Good evening friends,

Am sabitha.

My point of view,

Now a days so many love marriages were doing love marriages may in future also. There is no chances of which marriages is best to telling its completely depends on husband and wife. They understanding each and other. For example love marriage couple understanding not good between two people.

They can't do any thing because they can't share problems with others. Same as it is arrange marriage couple also understanding is not good they can't do any thing. But they share to their parents it is the arrange marriage plus point I support both marriages. Which marriage we do first of all understanding and trust is very important.

Thank you friends.

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Vamshika said: (Fri, Oct 9, 2015 01:00:25 PM)    
In my opinion love marriage is better than arrange marriage because we understand each other before the marriage in arranged marriage we don't know about him and we don't know his attitude in only some cases arrange marriage better but not all cases.

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Azruddin Khan said: (Fri, Oct 9, 2015 08:55:34 AM)    
Hi friends,

I support love marriage because there is a understanding between girls and boys. Because they know each other and they also know what are his/her week point and positive point. They can understand each other but people who love someone then tell to your family because your family always support you because they want that our children always live happy.

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Anikait said: (Thu, Oct 8, 2015 07:47:28 AM)    
According to me love marriage is more effective so far I have concerned. Because I love marriage only both the couples knows it each for long time. And in that way only if the bonding occurs then only they step for marriage.

Guy or girl are going to lead or start their life so according to them partner should be. Because if anything will happen in future then at time time no one is going to deny or regret.

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Mukesh said: (Tue, Oct 6, 2015 10:28:29 PM)    
Hello everyone according to my point of view both love and arrange marriage is good if you find a good partner who understand your feelings properly. Haapy married life depend upon person, person's happiness doesn't depend on the way of marriage.

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Khandare Archana said: (Mon, Oct 5, 2015 12:30:31 AM)    
Hello everyone,

I am Khandare Archana.

As per my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because today's generation is different than previous. Some changes are done in society. As taken consideration of society, generation, love marriage is take most precious step in removing the castism and another name of marriage is LOVE.

Marriage is most important point in life, We are a independent. So every person have it's own decision on that. And most important thing in marriage is TRUST, RESPECT and HONESTY. If you can get these things in your relation then no need of anything in your precious life.

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Nausheen Sayed said: (Sun, Oct 4, 2015 10:06:43 PM)    
There are many cases in the society where people do love marriage but its very rarely found that they are successful. Either its the matter of lack of understanding between each other or lack of bonding between each other.

And after knowing the person in and out, the curiosity of knowing each other dies a natural death where as in case of arrange marriage both the unknown souls are curious to know each other and from then onwards begins a new life!

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Latha said: (Sun, Oct 4, 2015 07:15:37 PM)    
Hi friends.

I think love and arrange is best.

Because the arrange marriage we have a parents support. In love marriage we have love, understanding, caring and affection. So we want to have a happy and safety life I prefer love and arrange marriage.

Thank you.

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Latesh Shownkeen said: (Sun, Oct 4, 2015 11:35:17 AM)    
Hi everyone.

I am in favour of love marriage because its the best choice a person can ever make and most importantly its the matter of whole life and taking the decision by ourselves by understanding the person well and knowing each other, later on making decisions is better than living a life with unknown person!

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Nausheen Sayed said: (Fri, Oct 2, 2015 01:19:27 PM)    
Actually love marriages are not successful as far as I have seen. Its better to go with arrange marriage because sometimes the wrong decisions taken at small age cost us for lifetime. If the marriage is against the parents then its more dangerous because if due to any reason the partners don't agree with each other, then they have no other option than quoting and then living a hasty life that too alone. Rather if its arrange marriage then even if the partners undergo a clash or a divorce, they have the support of parents and can make a new beginning!

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Srinivas Aravind Majji said: (Thu, Sep 24, 2015 08:13:00 AM)    
According to me love arranged marriages are the best because. In arranged marriages there is no love exists and no understanding between couples. Other side in love marriages though love and understanding exists if our own parents are not with us then too its not good at times there will not be any help when really required off. So love-arranged is the best option we can choose, I believe in love-arranged because only such marriages both love, understanding & our parents all the three most required present.

So parents its a request from my end please ask your children whether your son/daughter is in love or being deeply & really loved by any of their friends who really cannot live without them. Let me give live example I'm deeply in love with a girl so I'm going to speak with their parents and marry her. And my dear friends please accept people who really cannot live without you.

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Divija said: (Wed, Sep 23, 2015 07:03:40 PM)    
Hi friends it almost universal doubt on arranged or love marriages in my point of view I supported both because when you have ability to choose perfect guy or girl on quality behavior on belief then you try to love others to convince your parents for love marriage you don t have that much ability or risk then you choose arrange marriage our parents also think about of our life more than us it depend on ourselves capability mostly I support arrange marriage because now a days youth are in not in real love break ups are very common.

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Basavaraj said: (Mon, Sep 21, 2015 08:16:37 PM)    
I think both conditions are same. If both conditions have problems then there have their solutions also. You just need to be loyal, helpful, support, and adjustable to each other.

In arranged marriage your family supports you. There is no doubt with this. But in love marriage if you live with that thing what I have said before. Then your family will supports you in love marriage also.

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Shekugha said: (Mon, Sep 21, 2015 08:00:35 PM)    
Hi Friends,

In my point of view,

Love marriage is better then arrange marriage in a lot of ways. First off, arranged marriage doesn't mean listening to your parents and getting married and also it doesn't always mean its good for you. 'Choosing the best for you?' Seriously? Because in the end, it is you who will live with the one you married. Not your parents. That doesn't mean that it does not work. Yes, there are many places where it has been a success. That's why it is still prevalent today.

In love marriages, we assume that either the boy or the girl will cheat, or take advantage. Who is to say that this thing doesn't happen in arrange marriage? We say that in arrange marriage, we find some +ve and -ve and cope with it. Who says that all love marriage doesn't have these? In love, we break up. Isn't there divorce in arranged marriages?

The point I'm trying to make is that being in an arrange marriage doesn't necessarily mean living for the sake of your parents. Its your life. You are the one that's going to live with the other person. Isn't knowing and loving the other person before hand better then knowing him/her in the brink of marriage? Just give that a thought.

Thank you.

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Ganesh said: (Mon, Sep 21, 2015 02:08:13 PM)    
I think arrange marriage always better because if a person is in love someone he/she cheat them another he or she break up totally in love because in love person depend on only their partner. But in arrange marriage if person cheat his or her they can get out from the situation from family support.

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Basavaraj said: (Mon, Sep 21, 2015 02:06:39 PM)    
I, would like to say arrange marriage is better than love marriage. In love marriage partner have high level of exceptions of each other which they can not achieve. At this point problems are start to create & they don't know how to handle these problem.

And other side in arrange marriage our parent & elder find out the partner for his & her who are accordingly fit. We are start our new life with much responsibility.

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Basavaraj said: (Mon, Sep 21, 2015 01:04:19 PM)    
I think, arrange marriage are much better than love marriage because if a girl who could not understand her parents who has been the integral part of her life for 20-25 years, then how she is going to survive with a man who she has been knowing for merely 3-4 years, for rest 50-60 years of life.

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Ibrahim Zakarei said: (Sat, Sep 19, 2015 07:20:14 AM)    
I think arranged marriages is better than love marriages because in arranged marriages their would not be misunderstanding between the wife and the husband as the parents would at the status of the husband and they would not demand something from the husband which he can't afford as they are capable of understanding each other.

But in love marriages the parents don't care about his condition and they demand things which the husband cannot bear it and it would lead to misunderstanding and the marriage would not succeed which lead to divorce.

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Md Ansar Alam said: (Fri, Sep 18, 2015 09:21:41 PM)    
1st of all I would like to thanks all of you.

I think arrange marriage would be always better. Love for marriage is thing is not going to happen with everyone. Indian culture has accepted arrange marriage and it had shown good results. I believe that if you are in love then it becomes your necessity to marry. Like nowadays a new point is coming in society called live in relationship. It's good as it gives same rights to your girlfriend like your wife. So I think by arrange marriage it will take time but it is always good.

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Aquib Javed said: (Fri, Sep 18, 2015 11:47:35 AM)    
Love marriage are not based on rules of society so people getting married don't care for dowry or other social costumes which not be very good as per modern time.

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Carab said: (Thu, Sep 17, 2015 05:24:57 PM)    
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because you don't know the arrange marriage is deeply bad and it like to marring my sweet heart girlfriend okay.


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Rashmi said: (Wed, Sep 16, 2015 11:18:47 AM)    
Hi everyone,

According to me arrange marriage is best because our family support will be there. Marriage is the one thing where new two hearts will meet and relationship starts. Our parents usually offer us good things from our birth itself, they will not do any mistake for selecting a good partner for us.

If in case of love marriage if boy/girl cheats there will be no one to support us. But if any misunderstanding arises in case of arrange marriage then there will be our family to always support us.

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Ajay Thakur said: (Tue, Sep 15, 2015 10:30:24 PM)    

Now days its very difficult to know this what is suitable for himself. Because most important stage of life is marriage it is that relation and stage come in every life of people our topic are similar at this point. Love marriage is better but arrange marriage is also better than love marriage. Love marriage give fever of he and she not in the fever of parent.

In the rural area its not good for family member for her annotation. Because they thinks its opposite at our rules of my family. In arrange marriage we meets and know at new people & relational. Finally I am angry at this point & repeat again arrange marriage is the lot of happiness.

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Binny said: (Tue, Sep 15, 2015 06:52:12 PM)    
I find the whole concept of arranged marriage extremely repugnant. Marriage to me involves an element of love between the partners it is often the culmination of a loving relationship where partners commit absolutely to each other. It is not possible to arrange love. The modification of marriage implicit in arranged marriages is abhorrent to me, the very thought of it makes me queasy.

It seems to me that the objective of arranged marriages is to reduce the necessity of trial and error which results from the dating scene until the person in search for a suitable partner finally stumbles across a marriageable match. This is sought to be achieved by matching people on the basis of some criteria, typically financial status and security, educational qualifications and physical attributes, to ostensibly satisfy the mutual needs and wants of the parties seeking marriage, rendering them compatible at least "on paper. ".

That being said, arranged marriages do not always result in failures. Sure, sometimes they can produce successful couples, and the survival and longevity of the system of arranged marriages through the centuries attests to the fact that it is not a complete failure, as an institution. However, I'm more inclined to believe that any marriage that results from love is more likely to succeed than a marriage based on arbitrary and ancillary criteria.

It is my belief therefore, that love marriages are much better than arranged marriages.

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Archana said: (Sat, Sep 12, 2015 06:24:17 PM)    
Hello friends,

According to me love marriage is better than the arranged marriage because at last its all about our future or life. In love we already know about each other, we know her/his good or bad quality or we spending so much time with each other. But in arranged marriage we don't know about the person. We don't know her/his good or bad qualities. When your parents are choose guy for you, you directly saying yes for him because you respect your parents and also you and your family respect our culture.

But they don't know today's generation. I think everyone falls in love, but no one share her/his feelings with there parents so when you are in love and you want a love marriage then conveyance your parents. I think they also supporting for love marriage.

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Priyadrasan D Aju Michel said: (Sat, Sep 12, 2015 02:53:10 PM)    
Hi guys according to me arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because now a days love comes he or she will not show their. They always impressed each other. And some of them love some days and if any problem comes break up their love.

But after arrange marriage his/her love each other they should live together and they know both their - ve and + ve so they can manage each others. So after marriage you will start love that does not have any end.

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Sanil Philipose said: (Sat, Sep 12, 2015 02:50:43 PM)    
Arrange marriage is the best way to lead our life without much issues because a person who wants to marry make sure that he/she has been arranged financially for marriage. Both may understand better under elder's wish.

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Arj said: (Fri, Sep 11, 2015 02:03:21 AM)    
I think both conditions are same.

If Both conditions have problems then there have their solutions also. You just need to be loyal, helpful, support, and adjustable to each other.

In arranged marriage your family supports you. There is no doubt with this. But in love marriage if you live with that thing what I have said before. Then your family will supports you in love marriage also.

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Bhavani said: (Wed, Sep 9, 2015 08:42:34 PM)    
In my point of view arranged marriage is the best. Our parents supported us from our first step in any situation. They always desire our happiness and best future. They think so many times for the joining of our school, college or any institution and even to buy a dress to give their best. Then why they think wrong in the matter of our long life. They have a lot of experience to choose which one is best for us.

If any critical situation comes in our life they stand infront of us and they give their support as like a pillar to house. If we choose love marriage we missed a unique love of our parents. So in my point of view arranged marriage is best.

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Malavika said: (Tue, Sep 8, 2015 07:01:39 PM)    
I think it should be the choice of the people getting married. It is there choice and they should have the full right to choose their own life partner. But they should also see to that they do not hurt their family. Whether love or arranged if everyone is happy then it will be a good ending. That is my point of view.

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Sagar said: (Tue, Sep 8, 2015 05:05:53 PM)    
Hi friends,

I think in India love marriage are impossible to success because of our social design and mentality of person but in arrange marriage also there is hard to adjust with some unknown person. Both have their pluses or minuses. I think if love marriage successful then the cast division in India will break and India will be unite. I think the opinion of our parents about some other cast person is wrong it need to improve to unite India.


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Sajo Samuel said: (Mon, Sep 7, 2015 04:21:48 PM)    
Hello friends I'm Laxmi.

Arranged marriage is the better for love marriage. Arranged marriages is not between bride and groom its between two parents and now a days we seen lot of love marriages.

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Sherin Varghese said: (Mon, Sep 7, 2015 03:59:00 PM)    
It didn't matter whether it is arranged or love marriage. Every humans are unique and all of us have greatness and weakness. The way of understanding others feeling and weaknesses and adjusting according to it is the most important part of married life.

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Sajo Samuel said: (Mon, Sep 7, 2015 03:57:16 PM)    
I think there is no life without love and smartness. So It does not matter the way of marriage. Love and arrange marriages both will be successful if there is love, care, trust, smartness and understanding between his/her relationship.

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Pratibha said: (Mon, Sep 7, 2015 02:30:17 PM)    
I think arrange marriage is best, in arrange marriage our parents or our family members are going to select our partners by considering each every quality or by measuring every aspect of the guy and we may fail in selecting a perfect guy but our parents won't. And there will be support of our family members till the end of our life in arrange marriage and there will be no much risk.

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Rani said: (Sun, Sep 6, 2015 08:39:42 PM)    
Hi guys according to me arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because now a days love comes he or she will not show their. They always impressed each other. And some of them love some days and if any problem comes break up their love. But after arrange marriage his/her love each other they should live together and they know both their - ve and + ve so they can manage each others. So after marriage you will start love that does not have any end.

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Rahul Dutt said: (Fri, Sep 4, 2015 02:51:39 PM)    
I think both love and arrange marriage have loophole.

In love marriage, before marriage you know about your partner.

And his/her like, dislike, habits etc. I mean all thinks; on the one hand that is good but and another side after marriage you have nothing new. So, after some time of marriage argument are start. Like:-" before marriage you are not like this" and every situation girl do compromise. And family members are not give support to you, there view is that, you chose him/her you do manage.

In arrange marriage, you go with the person that whom you not see don't know about him/her. Some time it is the situation of shock. In arrange marriage before marriage, him/her dreams about the future partner. If they don't get like person as they want, they have to compromise. Some time it become the blunder.

Conclusion:- both have negative and positive point, but in arrange marriage your family, brother/sister, and relative always with you they stand with you. In love marriage family not drop you but there first finger points to you.

Fact:- 2012 Mumbai FC (family court) said most divorce come by love marriage.

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Shivakumar said: (Thu, Sep 3, 2015 03:09:53 PM)    
Hi everyone in my point of view I can say that this discussion is about decision making of men/women in marriage weather it should be decide by himself or by his parents in both cases he/she should love partners there may be love after marriage.

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Pooja Panchal said: (Wed, Sep 2, 2015 03:47:22 PM)    
I think there is no life without love and smartness. So It does not matter the way of marriage. Love and arrange marriages both will be successful if there is love, care, trust, smartness and understanding between his/her relationship.

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Abhilash Rathi said: (Tue, Sep 1, 2015 08:24:31 PM)    
Hey hello everyone,

In my opinion there is no perfect way to have marriage. Both love and arrange marriage have its own pros and cons.

In love marriage both person know each other very well and have great mutual understanding so only they have taken decision about marring each other.

But in case of arrange marriage groom or bride is chosen by parents, family members and marring person himself because of which many problems which can be faced by couple in future life are already prevented.

So, perfect way of marriage is consensus of all members of family members along with marring couple.

Thank you.

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Reshma said: (Mon, Aug 31, 2015 10:15:32 AM)    
Hello everyone. ,

In my opinion it doesn't matter which marriage we are doing but the thing is how much we are understanding them and how we are loving them. We can't say all love marriages will fail and we can't blame arranged marriages also.

But what I'm thinking is after marriage we have to live with him so in arranged marriages we don't know anything about them so it some what hard to adjust and yes it is not impossible also, but in love marriages atleast there is chance to know about them so it is very easy to adjust. But in any marriage along with our opinion our parents opinion also must and should.

Anyway I'll prefer love come arranged marriage because in my opinion it is vary hard to share our life with an unknown person that's why I'll prefer love marriage and I'm not against to my parents opinion. So I'll prefer love come arranged marriage.

But remember finally it doesn't matter love marriage or arranged but the thing is how we are understanding, loving and caring them.

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Logithahasini.A said: (Fri, Aug 28, 2015 08:48:58 PM)    
Hi friends.

Arranged marriage is better than love marriage because we are facing more problems in our whole life. Some time we are suffering due to our bad time so at a time we need meet our parents than only we are motivated to extreme level and also got full happiness without our parents without us because of arranged marriage is best of our youth world.

Thanking you.

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The Alternate Philosopher said: (Thu, Aug 27, 2015 04:11:28 AM)    
In this world, no matter what path you take, whatever you do, you must always make sure you end up with profit. Competition is ever growing, and only the best can ensure a decent future while the rest would perish. You can't keep depending on luck or fate, you have to build your own future.

In that case, arranged marriage is essential. You and your partner have to be excellent, to increase the chances of giving birth to a child even better. That child should repeat and would end up with a genetically boosted prodigy, capable of surviving in the future immense competition filled world.

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Manyone said: (Wed, Aug 26, 2015 09:47:08 PM)    

Every parents will dream of their child's marriage.

Just imagine if when some person come to your house and say I love your daughter. If a father can really see the love and responsibility in that person and get his girl married to the boy with her consent irrespective of any social identity blockages which are there in their mind. By understanding the reality of our social existence. How beautiful the whole family would be. Especially their own kids.

When a person raping a girl in the bus, no one does anything. But the same dumb person can hunt and kill their own daughter and their love for the sake of so called unnecessary social identities.

Parents should dare to accept the truth of life and give life to their brave children who dare to take your consent even though they know they might fail.

Even parents love children, but not as much as an identity. Talk and accept the genuine love, children need you too.

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Subham said: (Tue, Aug 25, 2015 08:29:36 PM)    
Hi every body I think love marriage is better than the arrange marriage. Because in love marriage the couple should know each other in past life. Then they have a good relationship in their future. Then I think love marriage is a better option than arrange marriage.

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Keerthi Kumar said: (Tue, Aug 25, 2015 06:28:06 PM)    
Hi friends,

According to me Love marriage is best if we chose the right person. Just because we will have ample time to understand each other feelings & lead a happy life. If you think arranged marriage is better than love marriage then love the person whom your parents choose.

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Akshay Bitake said: (Tue, Aug 25, 2015 09:50:45 AM)    
Hi friends,

There is no perfect formula to make a marriage work. Both arranged and love marriages have their own strengths and faults. Many of us might currently be facing issues like how to choose a spouse, choose between arranged or love marriages, resolving our own fears about marriage, wondering what to expect in a marriage etc. If you have been struggling with these or similar issues for a while, and talking to friends or family members has not been enough, you might consider talking to a counselor.

It could help you look at the issue with new eyes and develop more awareness of your own opinions and priorities. At Talk It Over, we provide individual, couple and family counselling by qualified counselors to our clients for a range of issues. Love is blind so love is important feeling in every person life.

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Mo Ahtesham Khan said: (Sun, Aug 23, 2015 12:45:45 AM)    
My think arrange marriage is better than love marriage because our parent likely in arrange marriage so I suppose the 80% in arrange marriage and 20% in love marriage is true.

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Imteyaz said: (Sat, Aug 22, 2015 06:19:26 PM)    
Hello everyone,

As per my opinion arranged marriage is better for us. As we know very well every parent wants a better future for his/her child regarding the educational, social, financial and physical terms. They are taking right decision for their children at every stages of life, Hence how can we expect that they can think unexpected for our marriage life.

Respect yours parents and their valuable decision that would helps for your life success.

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Sidhi said: (Thu, Aug 20, 2015 02:49:24 PM)    
Hi friends arranged marriage is better than love marriage because our parents are dreaming child's marriage when he/she is born they too are interested or anxious to find groom or bride. Especially mother who gave birth to child by suffering pain. So we should sacrifice for them. We should think from their side so we can can know how worried are they of us.

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Mustafa Khan said: (Wed, Aug 19, 2015 10:06:13 PM)    
Love marriage is better than arrange marriage because those relationship long time they can understand each other.

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Rohit said: (Tue, Aug 18, 2015 03:26:11 PM)    
According to my point of view successful marriage is nothing but the our partners very well know each other, they understand each other, he give respect to his/her feelings, and he/she share the happiness and sorrow equally. It doesn't matter way to marriage.

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Dilip said: (Mon, Aug 17, 2015 11:31:50 AM)    
Well there are 2 faces of every coin but, according to me love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we are very well aware of our partner, which brings better level of understanding. And to live a better life a better understanding is must.

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Arjay said: (Thu, Aug 13, 2015 05:14:55 PM)    
Love marriages vs arranged marriages.

People have the right to choose their partner in life and we have the freedom to do it. Yes, our parents wants us to have a brighter future but it depends on you, what's more important to you, love or pride?

Because I assumed that the one who settled this so called "arranged marriages" is the parents (or one of the parents) of the married couples and the only reason that I can think is because of pride. Am I right?

So going back to the topic, if love is more important to you then marry the person you love but if you want the fame, money or the pride, then agree to your parents if they force you to marry the person they want. For my personal opinion, choose wisely choose the person you love and at the same time, the one you think that you have a brighter future.

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Jaideep Soni said: (Thu, Aug 13, 2015 06:51:19 AM)    
Hi friends I am Jaideep and according to my point of view marriage is a festival for two families.

In love marriage our parents plays no role and our marriage becomes shaggy but in arrange marriage not only our parents but other family members also celebrate a lot and a happy atmosphere spreads all over like festival.

But in love marriage there is only sadness and tension all around. Something we will have to love alone only with our partner, in love marriage.

So I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

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Kuldeep Chakradhar said: (Wed, Aug 12, 2015 11:49:32 PM)    
Hey friends.

According to me both are good. It depends on yours mind what do you want? If you do love any girl and wants to marry her. It not wrong. But problem is this your parents agree or not. If they agree this so it is good otherwise seek another way.

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Nikita said: (Wed, Aug 12, 2015 09:38:36 PM)    
Every coin has two sides. Marriage is a very important decision in anyone's life. I think that love marriage is better since we know the person very well, there is love, respect, caring and also we get comfortable with that person and also there is mutual understanding between the two.

Also we know the likes and dislikes of the person. Any relationship has ups and downs. It depends on the two persons how to be together and handle and solve the situations. It all depends on the trust.

This is my opinion on marriages.

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Baba said: (Wed, Aug 12, 2015 04:58:12 PM)    
Love relation is a very beautiful part of life. Every person want to convert love relation into marriage. But sometime the love marriage problems are occurs in the love life. Because love marriage is not accepted by all. So many problems occurs in love marriage. There are several problems in love marriage.

But love marriage solution bureau gives you many different solutions regarding to love marriage problems The horoscope is a failed native, was constantly received the love trickery in the field of love.

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Rahul Kumar Yadav said: (Tue, Aug 11, 2015 09:45:50 AM)    
I would to say love marriage is better than arrange marriage because that not need of dowry in love marriage. But we know each other in love marriage. But we don't know each other in arrange marriage. So I think love marriage is better. So I believe in love marriage.

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Ragapriya said: (Mon, Aug 10, 2015 11:07:42 AM)    

In my point of view, in arranged marriage, the bride and groom are chosen wisely in terms of finance, maturity level, education, and more taking their kids life into account, but, in love marriages, there are a few things which cannot be learned just with a few meetups. This would be a love for some time and when it comes to our own family, children, money, savings and others it is just best suit only when marriages are decided by our parents/elders. Their experience in their life will prevent a lot of issues basically even before the wedding. And rest of the life is how we take it forward.

But love marriage has a lot of issues even before starting our life and due to that, our settling in life, mental peace are shattered. Always, arranged marriages are loving, safe, best, super happy and overall it is a give back pride to our parents.

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Nabu said: (Sat, Aug 8, 2015 11:52:47 PM)    
I don't know who are believing in arranged marriage "do they don't know how to love? or are they afraid to love". It may be that they also have crush with someone else but they just want to that they are believing in Indian tradition. In arranged marriage also you need love. Actually they prove that they are unable to find their right choice. They are dependent on somebody after being established sociologically.

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Manisha said: (Sat, Aug 8, 2015 09:29:56 PM)    
Hi guys,

This is Manisha.

In my point of view both are correct. Because both have advantages and disadvantages. Coming to arranged marriages parents engaged either a boy or a girl to a unknown person and unknown family. It is a disadvantage. Because without knowing anything we want to adjust ourselves with that family. In love marriages there is no problem. While in arranged marriages there is one secured felling of a person that their partner should not leave them without a reason. In love marriage there is no such secured feeling.

It is not the matter that in what manner they are engaged it is the point that at what extent they are giving preference to the relation and also to their partner. These are my views.

Thank you.

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Gagandeep Sudan said: (Sat, Aug 8, 2015 06:17:56 AM)    
I remember an old saying "Imperfectness is the only truth". I would say if two people are ready to accept each other for a life time with all imperfectness and challenges life will throw at them then whether or not it's love or arrange marriage nothing matters, what matters two people in love and respect and care for each other till eternity and beyond.

However, last not the least when any relationship ends it's fault of two people and not because of either love marriage or arrange marriage status.

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Dinesh Kumar said: (Fri, Aug 7, 2015 11:20:19 AM)    
This is Dinesh.

Coming to the topic of GD, its the kind of topic where we can't support or oppose.

Love has no beginning or ending. No one can guess when they will fall in love. It is right that to choose a life partner, we have to understand him/her. But I think we should love at the right age, means after we are in a situation that we should at least be able to lead life independently. And we can also choose life partner by arranged marriages because we can love our life partner even after marriage.

Many of them specified a point that we can't marry unless we understand each other. But how many marriages at present are long lasting. So, we should understand each other not only before marriage but also in every situation after marriage, because "Life is nothing but adjustment".

Thanks for valuable opportunity.

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Lokesh Kumar Di said: (Wed, Aug 5, 2015 08:58:10 PM)    
Arrange marriage is an Indian traditional. According to my point of view the arrange marriage is the best way to get a good life if we will get arrange marriage it will gives to happiness to our family also we should think about our family our parents and their happiness they are always dreaming about their children's and by birth our parents are always making sacrifice to our growths then why should not do this simple thinks right I do no about your opinion guys but my opinion the above things what I'm said so we should give some sacrifice to our parents also.

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Boopathi said: (Wed, Aug 5, 2015 11:54:05 AM)    
Hi I am Boopathi.

In my point of view both type of marriage better to our world. And better we can do the love marriage because from that we can easily understand their feeling, needs, strength and weakness. And we can choose our best partner from the love marriage only.

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Saima Qureshi said: (Tue, Aug 4, 2015 04:10:55 PM)    
In this conversation majority says that a love marriages are good because a girl or boy know very well about each other before spouse and you guys are absolutely right in your point of you that a girl or boy know about each other but as a sense of a girlfriend or boyfriend not in the sense of as husband or wife as long life partners and their needs as well as sharing their life that's why after few months as long a year.

They love but after that they guys are regretting his or her self that I wished, I accepted my parents decision so, today I wasn't this position. And it is 100% true you can ask to everyone who got a love marriage and try to get his or her experiences then justify your self that's it.

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Sonu said: (Mon, Aug 3, 2015 05:46:25 PM)    
Hi everyone,

According to me arrange marriage is better than love marriage because, in love marriage we think that we have found the better partner but he reality comes against us is totally different. First the age matters, second the thinking of mind is totally different between the marriage couples hence lead to quarreling or divorce hence no family support.

In arrange marriage the family members decide who is and will be your better life partner, who can understand you well and in every ups and downs your partner is ready to support you and quarreling may happen but for divorce both think twice before they act. And if such things happen the family is always ready to support you.

Always support arrange marriage. Your parents must have some dreams for you so don't hurt them.

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Pravesh Maurya said: (Sun, Aug 2, 2015 12:16:36 AM)    
In my point of view love marriages are better then arranges marriage, because we know our society better it always wants to pull your feet. In love marriages we know our partner better, we have much time to understand her/him and one of the most bad thing that I always see in our society that is DOWRY it is one of the very very disgusting system and I totally hate this.

If we think about our culture then there is a lots of cases happen when bride had to kill there self just because of less dowry. In arranged marriage only bride faces the problem.

That is my opinion about marriages.

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Vishal said: (Sat, Aug 1, 2015 10:19:56 AM)    
According to my experience love marriage and arrange marriage both are good but in a love marriage some girl/boys make a fake love with his partner that's why relationship is not carried well forever.

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Ved said: (Fri, Jul 31, 2015 10:47:22 PM)    
I think marry should be arranged but after your love I help to happy urself and parents but never cheats your partner 70% love marriage got divorced 85% arrange marriage gets success so we should be of both type.

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Rahul said: (Fri, Jul 31, 2015 08:02:21 PM)    
According to me love marriage and arranged marriage both are good because its totally depend on you. We should support each another any short of problem so you can enjoy your life with your partner as well as newer should be any short of misconception to each other.

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Nitesh said: (Thu, Jul 30, 2015 11:02:17 PM)    
This is NItesh.

According to me arrange marriage is an Indian tradition, and world is following or adopting our culture. So I am agree with our ancestors that what they had decided for us is good for our culture or our society. We should not adopt western culture it is ruining our society.

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Biplob said: (Wed, Jul 29, 2015 08:33:28 PM)    

In my point of view, love marriage is best. In love marriage we can select the best partner for our life, we can understand each other fully before get marriage. But in arrange Marriage Its difficult to select our better life partner, because after marriage only they can understand each other.

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Abhishek said: (Tue, Jul 28, 2015 07:51:23 PM)    
Hi all.

This is Abhishek.

According to me both Love and Arrange marriage are same. The only difference between the two is if your parents find you a girl/boy, its arrange marriage and if you find a girl/boy is love marriage. No parents should force to marry a particular guy or girl because they are not gonna live with them. Marriage must happen totally with full satisfaction of the bride/groom. This itself brings happiness in their life.

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Nisha said: (Mon, Jul 27, 2015 11:11:15 PM)    
In our culture marriage is not only between two soul but also between the family. But today's scenario says one should select their partner by own because it will be your decision what you select you will not blame anyone after if any misconception or any problems arise with your partner and also it help you to cope with the situation.

Marriage is the trust respect loyal caring nature understanding feel between the two souls so go with either arrange or love marriage but select with your own without any force.

But these qualities of marriage mostly comes under the love marriage so from my view love marriage is stronger in comparison with arrange as in this also many parents support.

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