Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Onion said: (Thu, Mar 26, 2015 05:33:42 PM)    
I see lots of comments that say arranged love is better than love marriage. Arranged marriage is between 2 families. Yes, but its not the family who supposed to get married or love each other. Its between the girl and the boy! Not the whole family. And love marriage is way much better than arranged. Just sharing my opinion.

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Sunil Nair said: (Wed, Mar 25, 2015 11:45:21 PM)    
Of course arranged marriage. Because they started loving after marriage. If love marriage they already loved before marriage and they can't love after marriage (they will love, but for a time being because the mentality of boy and girl are same).

They may be thinking that I know very well about him/her he/she was dating with him before me. Might be he/she is still having affair with him/her. May be they are perfect but in some occasion that doubt will always be in their bottom of their heart. That will become as cancer.

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Mizan said: (Wed, Mar 25, 2015 09:38:59 PM)    
Hi friend. I am Mizan.

In my point of view arranged marriages is better then love marriage because I seen many couple do love marriage but there not happy. So love is just attraction today truly love in world. So I like arrange marriage is better then better love marriage your parents support. So good love marriage.

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Ateeb said: (Wed, Mar 25, 2015 09:20:30 PM)    
First of all, marriage is a big deal. You spend 30+ years with your partner. Marriage requires understanding, trust, loyalty and love to run long. Starting with arranged marriage:- Now, your parents decide your life partner. If you are lucky you get a chance to meet up and assess the person, if not it can't be helped. Now parents consider wealth, education, family background, character of the guy/girl.

Now you expect the guy/girl to have same level of understanding, trust, loyalty as you have. If your expectations turn out to be reality. Viola, you had a great deal. But if your expectations does not meet up, you choose to compromise and sooner or later your frustration would lead to a bad marital life. And if the person is of just opposite thoughts your life turns out to be hell.

Talking about love marriage:- Your love must be true not an attraction. You have a better understanding, naturally since you are taking your relationship to marriage. What actually happens after marriage, you get changed and its natural since earlier you were trying to get him/her married to you and now you are done, so your attention to your partners feeling changes a bit. But your partner fell in love with old you not the new one. So you should try to remain the way you earlier were. If not clashes are bound to happen.

Since you have same mental levels, so you can tackle this problem easily. But if not, you both with mutual agreement seek for divorce, that's why divorce rate is much higher in love marriages than arranged marriages. You can get away here as it was your choice to marry the person but you will have to live a life of suffocation in arrange marriages to keep your parents happy. Basically the root cause of this only problem in love marriage is that you change your ways. Please try to remain same.

Conclusion:- Love marriage is better. Arranged marriage comes with an "uncertainty" but love marriage comes with a "surety".

I have not made any assumptions like your parents are against love marriage and you are making your parents sad. I have talked in a generalised way.

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Arka said: (Tue, Mar 24, 2015 11:05:10 PM)    
Hi all.

According to me, if we see globally Indian marriage system is very powerful in which most of marriages are arranged and in western countries most are love marriages which are not that much relayed. I have seen most of love marriages not ended that much happily not because of only lack of family support but also the misunderstandings between them.

Even some reports are saying that most of the divorcees are love marriages. In love marriages most of cases it is not love it is attraction because of that they are becoming failure. Arranged love marriages will be better.

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Poonam said: (Tue, Mar 24, 2015 10:45:21 PM)    
Hey its poonam.

In my point of view arrange marriage is best. Because it plays a vital role of two families. Its not a marriage between two people. Its about between two families with most of trust, loyalty baseline.

So that's my point of view.

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Saddam Hussain said: (Tue, Mar 24, 2015 02:04:40 PM)    
To the best of my knowledge that love marriage is better then arrange marriage because I have seen many person who has got arrange marriage but not success.

At the first time arrange marriage go to easy but after same time argue start to each other because couple having different think and think dose not mach to each other these due in the love marriage. Partner knows very well about each other.

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Mansi Parihar said: (Sat, Mar 21, 2015 10:29:43 PM)    

As per my point of view love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in arrange marriage couple having different thinking and there is no mutual understanding and the few months may be years are spent to knowing each other and today's busy lives no one has much time to know each other.

But in love marriage there is a great understanding b/w the couple and a happy married life understanding is the great thing and it will workout you know very well each other and have already a plan for your bright future how you will compromise with each other but in arrange marriage you have much expectation and hope what you want.

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Prakash Sagar said: (Sat, Mar 21, 2015 10:22:26 AM)    
Love marriage is better than arranged ones, if the love is true and not a mere infatuation. There is mutual understanding between the partners so life is easy going. However in arrange marriages you relay on a hope that your partner is what you want. I saw many people have posted that we should go with our parents choice as they are more experienced.

I think its a piece of shit, how can parents tell who is better they neither know your lover nor the one they want you to marry. Moreover everybody has got one life and they should go for what they want. I think we Indian must broaden our views, parents disown their child in many cases if they go for love marriage, is this the love of parents, if some parents do that, they are just selfish.

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Ankit Srivastav said: (Thu, Mar 19, 2015 10:12:39 PM)    
Hi everyone. I am Ankit Srivastav. Went through all your views. I appreciate both the sides for their views.

What is think is love marriage is certainly a better option as here you know the person from well before. So there is a great understanding between the two. And endless love. But what about the parents. If your lover has equal respect for you and your parents. Then probably its the best thing. But if not then its very hard to go alone without family support in the long run.

The next thing which is quite commonly seen in today's time. Frequent break ups, patch ups, loosing of interest, unable to give time. Its fine within relationship but not after marriage. Because after marriage great responsibility comes on your shoulder. So you need from everyone friends, wife, parents, family. In love marriage its hard to keep everyone happy. But if you can keep its better than arrange marriage.

Next comes arrange marriage. Everyone will be happy. You'll get both sides of family support. Partner will respect you. There nothing about loosing interest. Life will be smooth going loving and knowing your partner. But what if the guy or the gal turns out to be other way round. Then the life will be worst than hell. So at last friends I would suggest.

If you want to do love marriage then. Judge your partner. In terms of love. Respect for you and your family. Understanding. And also convince your parents about the guy or the gal you have chosen is right. And have a happy successful love marriage.

But if you want arrange marriage. Then try to know about the person by talking, meeting and exchanging views which you think is necessary. And have a very wonderful and exciting arrange marriage.


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Surya Bannu said: (Thu, Mar 19, 2015 03:33:49 PM)    
Hai I'm Surya.

Love marriage vs arranged marriages fine this topic can run good debate.

But, in my point of view love marriage is a little better than arranged marriages. As in love marriages we have choice to select your life partner who is having the character we like, the care want. But whereas in arranged marriages we didn't know our partners character likes, dislikes etc. Which reasons in future make certain problems and fighting in future.

The only one main thing that separates these two is understanding. In love marriages it is plenty. Whereas in arranged it can be seen very sparsely and that life's are seen as happily. But inner voice of theirs comes with some bitterness. But one main thing is all love stories are not happy as due to lack of parents support.

Finally this is not a question it is a thing of both sides of a coin. Which one is great means we can't say!:-)

Thank you. Yours lovingly>>Surya.

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Hema said: (Wed, Mar 18, 2015 07:51:58 PM)    
Hi friends.

Love is a precious feeling that is caused without any conditions. For marriage the most needed is understanding. In love marriages we first understand each other and then commit to marriage. But in arranged we first get married then there may be or may not be understanding between the two. Most people commit to arranged marriages because of their parents happiness.

If before marriage love didn't happen then there is a 99% probability that both will be happy. But if love happens before marriage and parents will not accept it then their life would be hell after marriage, neither can't be happy with the married person nor can't forget the loved one. In my opinion it is not correct to fight against parents for a lover.

Parents always do only what is good for us. Everyone will know before whether their parents will accept love marriage or not. If they will accept then they will be the most luckiest persons. But if you know that your parents in no case accepts love marriage then it is better to control our feelings over the person at the beginning itself rather than when it reaches a peak stage. Even if we are not satisfied with our life it is important to keep our parents happy.

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Balaji said: (Wed, Mar 18, 2015 12:39:58 AM)    
Marriage is a sacred bond which not only involves the couple but also the two families of the bride and the bridegroom respectively. Be it arrange marriage or love marriage, marriage is nothing different for both.

Love marriage vs arrange marriage is just a question prevalent in minds of married couples who are not satisfied or are scared to live with an unknown partner for whole life.

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Mir Sarang said: (Wed, Mar 18, 2015 12:39:28 AM)    

I support Love Marriage because Love bring a lot of happiness in life and every person will fall in love once in life, In Love you already knows the character of your partner as well as His/Her Habits, Nature, Likes, Dislikes, Goodness, Bad thinks and better knows each and every thing about your prophesy, Love is the key of Happy Life.

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Nikhil Srivastav said: (Tue, Mar 17, 2015 10:10:55 PM)    
Hi I am Nikhil srivastav from kolkata, I would like to go with my parents obviously they are everything for me and trust them. They will do their best to find perfect soul mate for me. According to some survey I came to know that mostly separation happen in love marriage.

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Rekha said: (Tue, Mar 17, 2015 08:48:35 PM)    
Hi I am Rekha.

I think that arrange marriage is better because two family accept each other and if you go with love marriage family do not accept you and you two are alone there no one help you in your argument but if it is arrange all family make your mind that give him/her time.

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Mukti said: (Thu, Mar 12, 2015 11:27:31 PM)    
Well I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage you know the likes, dislikes, nature of your partner and I think the best part of love marriage is that you are going to spend your entire life with that person whose love is never going to end for you and your love is never going to end for him.

Well this is my opinion about love marriage however I haven't find my partner but hope so I will find him soon because love definitely happens once in a life time so don't forget to fall in love.

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Ashish said: (Thu, Mar 12, 2015 07:12:38 PM)    
Hello friends,

Love marriage is very popular these days. Our ancestor still don't like love marriages but youth believe love marriage is much better than arranged marriage because before getting married couple knows each other very well. They have a good understanding that's why they decide to get married.

Understanding is very important in any relation to keep the train on track. As we know these days everybody is short tempered and no body tolerates its better to marry with whom we knows very well and we understand very well.

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Teju said: (Sun, Mar 8, 2015 03:40:28 PM)    
What our Indian culture says to do a arrange marriage. Which is decided by elder peoples in our family. Who have more experience than us. So I think arrange marriage is best. A marriage having family support from the both side of boy as well as girl.

And what is the love even small children saws in TV and says I love you to him/her which is not love. They think we fall in love so decided to do marriage and within few moths they realize that this is not love. So I think arrange marriage is best.

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Shraddha said: (Sat, Mar 7, 2015 06:40:56 PM)    
Hi guys this is Shraddha. According to me both the marriages are best if our life partners are trust-able, lovable and caring. Still if I would get chance to choose between my love and my parents choice I will definitely choose my love.

Its not that I am opposing my parents its just that when I truly and someone truly loves me then its fairly better to choose him. If you both really have good understanding love care between both of you then their is no problem in choosing your love. So I support love marriage.

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Priyaah said: (Sat, Mar 7, 2015 01:05:50 PM)    
Hi am Priyaah,

I Would Like to say my feel about Love & Arrange marriage.

Love marriage is really better when they loves starts & ends with true hearts.

Arrange Marriage starts with respect & chance to get neither love nor affection.

So love comes arrange marriage is really good because love & respect starts from "True Hearts".

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Priya said: (Sat, Mar 7, 2015 10:16:57 AM)    
According to me love comes arranged marriage best. Because love is the powerful medicine to cure misunderstanding and recovers from the feelings illness. Love comes arranged marriage we are getting the family support too without family support we can't lead a life at present situation. So prepare for happy with love and understanding with marriage.

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Steffy said: (Fri, Mar 6, 2015 10:35:53 PM)    
In my point of view both marriage are same. But, we married only knowing person at least three or four years familiarity. That is better way to successful in marriage life.

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Karan said: (Fri, Mar 6, 2015 06:04:11 PM)    

Arrange and love marriage is different from each other. In arrange marriage couple will get good respect and family support and according to the Indian tradition arrange marriage will get much prestige.

And coming to the love point in most cases in love marriage couple will proud them self. Because they marry with there beloved. But after one or tow years latter they heart to each other. Because within them understanding point will be decline day by day.

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Sravan said: (Tue, Mar 3, 2015 10:19:02 PM)    
Hi friends.

I would like to tell one think in arrange or love marriage both the people need to understand each other and then they will get ready to marry.

Coming to love marriage boy and girl have lot of understand each other compare to arrange marriages. In arrange marriages less time to understand each other. And I support love come arrange marriages are very good.

Parents need to support it and girl and boy need bring love matter to their parents. And coming to divorce point in arrange marriages is less because if their is any problem between couple their family people will help to solve that problems. But in love marriages parents will not support because of their ego.

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Svi said: (Mon, Mar 2, 2015 10:18:55 AM)    
I think love marriage is better than arrange now because there was a time when girl were not educated they had not right to take her decisions own but now time changed girls are educated now and they can choose their life partner. And love marriage is that relation which start from love and love never be wrong.

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Meghna said: (Sun, Mar 1, 2015 05:32:48 PM)    
Hello everyone.

In my opinion both arranged & love marriages have their own merits and demerits but yes it is said that arrange marriages are like agarbatti. They burn slowly but burn for a long period of time & love marriages are like candles they burn brightly but for a short period of time. This can be true in most of the cases.

I think it depends may be on person or situation it really should be love cum arranged marriage it looks like a new term by which I actually mean to say that love marriage should be there by everyone's support & arranged marriage should be there with the couple's full support by heart so that in both cases no one can blame anyone for any achievement after all everyone in our family matters for us.


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Pradeep said: (Sat, Feb 28, 2015 09:47:11 PM)    
In my view arrange marriage is more better. Because in love marriage, lovers do many promises and plan their future accordingly, but in real life after marriage they find difficulties to fulfill their promises and relationship starts fading.

In arranged one, couples have no such demands. They really understand their situations and plan accordingly.

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Sudhanshu Sekhar said: (Sat, Feb 28, 2015 08:21:49 PM)    
According to mine love marriage is better than the arranged marriages because in love they know what he/her partners does like and doesn't like things etc so they can easily understand to each other so they are happy in their future.

Coming to arranged marriages I saw most of the couples lives terrible life they're life because they don't know about he/her partners so they always silence in their relationship so finally my conclusion is true love never ends.

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Raveena said: (Wed, Feb 25, 2015 11:47:57 PM)    
Hi friends,

In my point of view love marriage is spreading around the youngsters which makes them to segregate from their parents, friends and especially studies. There is an age limit for voting and marriage. But, for love there is no age limit. There can be sayings like "love is blind", " love is life". But the reality is that it does not suit for real life.

In 2 states book Chetan Bhagat will be explaining about the love like these :

"A Boy loves a Girl and a girl loves a boy, they get married, but in India the boy's family should like the girl, the girl's family should like a boy, the boy's family should like the girl's family, the girl's family should like the boy's family". This is cent percent true. The real love will go through all these process and come out with flying colors. But, now the word PATIENCE is not in the youngster's dictionary.

The mother who carries you for 10 months, the father who travels along with you know what to be done to you in future. They care for you always than the guy or a girl you get impressed.

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Shashikumar Mn said: (Wed, Feb 25, 2015 07:09:10 PM)    
Arranged marriage gives happiness to people like relations, parents, etc. But love marriage gives happiness to only true lovers like Laila Majnu.

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Dhinesh said: (Wed, Feb 25, 2015 03:13:49 PM)    
Hi am Dhinesh,

Some peoples things that dowry is drawback for arrange marriage. But in my point of view dowry is important because its our culture.

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Gaurav said: (Wed, Feb 25, 2015 12:34:00 AM)    
I think arrange marriage is good because your parents who always cares for your desire, your will. Never deceive you. They will definitely take your opinion about the girl who is selected for you. So I don't love marriage is good.

In arrange marriage, a person also get time to decide. And even no more about each other and their family as well.

In arrange marriage both the couple get the support of their families. Even entire family celebrates the occasion. Their parents can also solve the misunderstanding between them. As well as they can advise and suggest notion.

Finally as per my concern. I will say arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

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Smitha said: (Tue, Feb 24, 2015 08:03:35 PM)    
I am confused. All love marriages are not successful same goes for arranged marriages too. As long as each partners are honest and understanding everything is good. Sometimes people start thinking differently.

One will wonder does he love me the same? And the other side wonders does he love me or is it all responsibility and obligations? Then there are ego issues in both cases. Basically everything depends on people.

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Jesun said: (Mon, Feb 23, 2015 03:14:52 AM)    
Some great discussions going on in this forum. In my opinion, you should do a thorough background check on your potential mate whether your family parents brought the proposal or whether you know the person for a long time. Don't be naive and simple minded. I think that arranged marriages are safer for girls in India because most of the time during love there can be sexual contact.

Now especially in a traditional country like India, where once you are used you are looked as used good, It is better that you seek the help of your parents or cousins before proceeding to find your life partner. Boys can do whatever they want (including former affairs) , but at time of marriage most want to marry a virgin bride. Now with more women empowerment in our country, there are also girls who can walk similar to boys before marriage. Even some people can lie that they did not have any affairs. As a girl, I value my parents opinion more than any boy who can come up to me and say "I love you. " Don't just break your future on the basis of somebody saying he or she loves you.

Please choose wisely, just concerned so many kids are being orphans now a days with increasing divorce rates just because mom/dad did not think wisely before marriage. Love is a 2 sided weapon. It can be a disease or used for the good of the society. Now a word regarding inter caste marriages. If somebody had thought about their kids, they would not choose their partner outside of their community. Studies show that marriages work in the long run if partners are similar in education, wealth, beauty, compatibility and spiritual beliefs. If you think your in love with a person, please let your parents/friends know about it.

I have seen many people end up in trouble because they end in trouble. Now when somebody ends in trouble, they tend to go to their parents. Just remember, no body can love you sacrificially like your parents, siblings or family.

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Priya said: (Sat, Feb 21, 2015 08:54:51 PM)    
Hi friends am Priya.

I can't say that love marriage is good or arrange as per my knowledge both marriages are similar because now a days both marriages are getting divorced yeah but not all.

In love marriage before their marriage they will be happy because they show only their best side. But they can be happy after marriage too as they know somewhat at-least about each other.

Coming to arrange marriage yeah now a days they are giving time to about each other after they have been engaged. Every relation based on love and trust on each other.

Last point a relation will be going good even if they don't understood each other but a relation will be collapsed if there are misunderstandings between them.

Thanks for spending your valuable time on reading my views.

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Vivek said: (Thu, Feb 19, 2015 10:16:25 PM)    
Hi Friends,

I am Vivek and according to me love and arrange marriages both are best at their own but now a days a new trend is going on love cum arrange which is very best option for getting marriage because marriage is not all about two people but its about the families and their respect so in my view both are good if the couple and their family members agrees.

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Kunwar Prashant said: (Thu, Feb 19, 2015 08:27:16 PM)    
I would like to explain some facts about both love marriage and arranged marriage. Love marriage is the term used primarily in south India, Pakistan and Srilanka to describe a marriage deviates from arranged marriage but there is no any clear definition of love marriage.

Arranged marriage is a traditional type of marriage which is filled with ritual and celebration that continues for several days. Now there is big misconception that in arranged marriage couple don't know each other but its not true in arranged marriage there is also willingness of both partners is important.

According to the definition of vivah in Hinduism. I think the way to get married is not important but the understanding of value relationship and love is more important. Love and marriage is inseparable, without love, marriage has no meaning, love is the basis of each relationship.

The unrealistic expectations to your partner can spoil your relation, relations made on the basis of true love has no unrealistic expectations but they want to fulfill all the dreams of there partner without expecting anything from him. Anyone of the marriage can accepted if we truly realize the Love.

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Deepika said: (Wed, Feb 18, 2015 08:47:55 PM)    
Hi friends,

According to me both love and arranged marriages are best. Whatever whether it is love marriage or arranged marriage understanding between wife and husband should be strong. So to me it may comes from love cum arranged or arranged cum love marriages.

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Lokesh said: (Wed, Feb 18, 2015 11:49:06 AM)    
Hello Friends,

My self Lokesh bansal. I would like to share my point of views about love marriage and arrange marriage.

My point of views about love marriage and arrange marriage are, I think both marriage are best in India. But, I will give first preference to love marriage. And I go first with the love marriage. And it is possible that, love marriage can be converted into arrange marriage but, most of parents do not think that, love marriage can be converted into arrange marriage.

They just think only about the Samaj and people, they do not think about there child's and there future. That, they only think about what is cast of girls & boys. Why is it so. Why do not think about there children. If girls & boys do love to each other. So why parents do agree with them. I know very well, marriage is not a joke. So why parents do not think about there children.

Do you know friends, why do not success the love marriage because, the parents do not agree. And they always think about the cast. I don't know. Why parents are against in inter cast marriage. In out of 100% to 90% parents are against the love marriage by inter cast marriage.

Thanks Friends that all are point of views, I have to share.

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Avni said: (Tue, Feb 17, 2015 05:55:06 PM)    
In my opinion both types can be successful if there is love and respect towards each other. And if a person loves someone its not just because of attraction.

There are people who fall in love with people whom they have known since years. So attraction might be a reason for some people but not for all. In fact in arranged marriages people look for good looks more than in a loved marriage. And not all parents are perfect and will think only for their child's benefits.

There are so many parents who simply say no to loved marriage because they feel there name will get spoiled in the community and for keeping their so called izzat intact they wouldn't mind marrying off their children to any person whose family is respectable but they don't know anything about that person's past. If one doesn't have a gf/bf and is of the age of marrying then only their parents should interfere and look for someone suitable for them.

But if they love someone they have every right to marry them. Of course the parents also have the right to enquire about that person and make their opinion but ultimately the decision should be in the person's hand who is supposed to get married.

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Zain Usmani said: (Tue, Feb 17, 2015 01:01:08 PM)    
He said speak your mind. OK then listen what is in my mind.

Yeah I'm fall-in love with one girl and I respect her even I don't know he is mine or not.

Yeah I have read all view here some are good about love marriage and some are totally against.

But just one thing I want to know about arrange marriage I mean how can we get married with that person we didn't know about her past and even she doesn't know about my past. Yeah I know people do arrange marriage but maybe before arrange marriage they fall in love and breakup. Its happens.

In my mind. In ARRANGE MARRIAGE you can he Happy if you doesn't share your past with your wife. And your wife doesn't share her past with you. Simply its call OK MOVE ON. Now we are married. Its call ARRANGE MARRIAGE.

But in love marriage as Vipul said in love marriage the understanding is already built between a couple you know your partner and you trust him or her.

Love marriage is better then arrange marriage in my way.

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Rnu said: (Sun, Feb 15, 2015 10:25:48 PM)    
Hello friends.

According to my view both marriages have their own value. In India there is a tradition of arrange marriage but love marriage is helpful in modern India. Because when we do love marriage with any girl we does not saw her cast. Therefore IT help to remove casteism system from India. Also love marriage help to terminate dowry system from India. But we can not forget our tradition. We must terminate these evil from India by aware people of our society. Overall both are good only people should be aware.

Thank you.

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Madhu said: (Sat, Feb 14, 2015 07:48:42 AM)    
Love marriage is only of attraction but arranged marriage is of attraction with love. After marriage they will be happy each other and they will have responsibilities, for the responsibilities and love towards their kids some couples are not divorce.

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Raman Dhaliwal said: (Fri, Feb 13, 2015 07:18:39 PM)    
According to me arrange marriage better than love marriage. Because our parents are our god. They do not consider about their children. And children do not know about good and bad. As we know that love is blind than how we believe in blind relation.

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Niranjan Meena said: (Wed, Feb 11, 2015 07:03:15 PM)    
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because at this time in India dowry system in arrange marriage and this is not a marriage who love each other this is compromise between family. Bride take some money, car and other item for marriage with a girl. So if we want to remove dowry system than love marriage is good.

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Anuj Garg said: (Wed, Feb 11, 2015 04:52:22 AM)    
I can say both are same but main thing is that how we treat each other because we know each other only and after we live together under one roof. By living under one roof we can know best and the worst part of HE/SHE because we always present our good part when we are in love.

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Pooja Gupta said: (Tue, Feb 10, 2015 07:40:03 PM)    
Hi friend.

I think love marriage is better then arrange marriage. The main reason is that the couple is more comfortable with love marriage as compared to the arrange marriage. They know a lot about each other & get enough time to decide if they want to be together or not.

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Shailesh said: (Mon, Feb 9, 2015 12:35:54 AM)    
Hello dear friends,

As per my opinion arrange marriage is much better than love marriage.

People generally fall in love at the age of 15 to 25. They have an average experience of interpreting their world is 15 year or more. These 15 years is 1/5th of their life. They are unknown for the experiences what is happening the near future. Most of people said that "LOVE IS BLIND". How one can trust the blind relationship.

Generally people argue that the in love marriage they know each other very well as compare to arrange marriage. There is whole life after marriage to know each others like or dislike. Love is nothing like a attraction towards each other when the attraction is over then the love is also over.

Marriage is a turning point in the life of individual. From this point one is turning towards the responsibility. It is very necessary to starts a new life from this point. Also I want to included that people argue that love marriage is break the barrier of dowry, caste and freedom to women.

People can also remove the dowry system in arrange marriage and also freedom to women after giving them priority in her course of action in a acceptable means. Our parents know us till our birth. They know what we like or not. They have much experience about the persons behavior because they meet more people then us.

Our parents is our GOD. What they do they do for our better. So people must go with their parents never against them.

And there is whole life to fall in love. Why you take tension of these things so earlier it is your parents responsibility to find a partner for you. After marriage you can start loving each other and this will acceptable by every one and make a perfect example of perfect family.

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Anonymous said: (Sun, Feb 8, 2015 04:39:47 PM)    
In my Opinion.

Love marriage or Arranged marriage, Both are meant to marry someone, the process of marrying is different.

Love marriage : India doesn't have love marriage system, It is something which was modified version of "dating" with Indian tradition and customs. So this is Indian style of dating. In love marriages, people choose, discuss about each other, know each other's likes and dislikes. Strength and weakness and future plans. Simply " test drive " with a tag line "love". If it works move forward or else go for another test drive. Simply objectification of humans. In 21st century, we are mostly materialistic, So better to go with love marriages. We take care because we love. It's CHOICE.

Arranged marriage: Arranged marriages are ancient traditions in India. Every one stereotype's Arranged marriages as objectification of "Men". Basically in arranged marriage families make decision based on bride and grooms family background, fortune and etc. If everything matches they get married. They get Husband/wife just like we get birth or death naturally without our notice like destiny. However she/he is, we have to take care and love because He/She is our partner. Here they don't "test drive" partner's, we have to believe blindly based on "brand" (parents) It's DESTINY.

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Sandeep said: (Sun, Feb 8, 2015 02:29:07 PM)    
After listening to all the views in my opinion true love is more important rather its a love marriage or a arranged marriage. They should have POSITIVE ATTITUDE and respect for each other. Love can happen at any stage of life.

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Rahul K said: (Sun, Feb 8, 2015 09:05:26 AM)    
Love marriage is better only if they are matured and they know each other from a long time.

Here comes a arranged marriage it is better when they are immature. And if they wanted to go on a train even they don't know where to get down.

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Deepika said: (Fri, Feb 6, 2015 12:30:29 PM)    
Hi I am Deepika.

In my point of view love marriage is best.

In arranged marriage we don't know anything about our life partner and we don't know what is gonna happen in future. We need parents support if we are in love we must wait for our parents support so that our life will be so beautiful.

So I prefer everyone go with love marriages.

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Lakshmi Narayana said: (Fri, Feb 6, 2015 11:27:38 AM)    

I support both love and arranged marriages. There are many people happy in their life by love and arranged marriages. But in my views I support arranged marriages because either boys or girls are in love because he/she has wealth. After completion of marriage he/she makes them to transfer their whole wealth and killing them and going to other states and settle with others. I am not saying that all are not like that but mostly of the people are doing like that.

In arranged marriages there are understanding nature in their lives.



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Prasanth Telanakula said: (Tue, Feb 3, 2015 10:53:25 AM)    
Hi friends,

I want to share my views about love vs arrange.

I do support love marriage, in present situations of culture and activities I go with love marriage, in busy and competitive life we have to get a understanding wife, who thinks about us. There is no difference in love or arrange marriage. We do spent time after marriage to understanding in arrange marriage, in love marriage it is visa-verse. If everyone understand it India will be free from all religious beliefs.


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Prakash Thakur said: (Fri, Jan 30, 2015 08:02:17 PM)    
Hi everyone.

I would like to share my story with all of you.

I love a girl and she love me indeed but their family thinks that arrange marriage is more successful than love marriage. All I want to do is to change their mentality and I want them to know me. All we want to do is break the tradition of arrange marriage and should be free to follow our heart to write our own destiny. I don't want to ruin my life with someone who is almost stranger to me. Although I trust my family but I will not let them decide which girl is good for me and which one is not.

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Jabbi said: (Thu, Jan 29, 2015 06:40:33 PM)    
Hi friends.

In my view loving a person is nothing but we are very with that person. And feel that we can freely share our secrets with them.

But before loving we have to look over parents then it will definitely provides us the solution over love. We have to convince our parents and express our feelings with them.

Parents are gods gift by birth. But love is created by god at only certain age.

Now choice is yours. Thank you.

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Steevan Pinto said: (Wed, Jan 28, 2015 11:41:29 PM)    
Steevan pinto.

I think love marriage is the best medicine to love, care and share our feelings to each other. By understanding each other and solve all the problems can be solve in no second time. We together can believe in happiness and live happily in this world. Parents are also happy seeking that we are doing our best in life. Beautiful word love means know each other and be caring each other till world end.

Thanks you with love and care.

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Eva said: (Wed, Jan 28, 2015 10:28:39 PM)    
Hello, this is Eva. I am not Indian but I have many friends there and I would like to share my opinion.

Maybe it is not that important to state which one is better but rather to remember that this is a life-changing choice and each boy or girl should be free to make his or her own decision. The family has to give a strong advice but never force or blackmail them into an arranged marriage.

I think one should be free to decide whether accept a partner chosen by one's parents or marry the person one falls for.

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Deepak Singh said: (Wed, Jan 28, 2015 11:16:18 AM)    
Hi this is Deepak Singh,

I am in favor of love marriage, because love marriage is symbol of love and love is the gift of God. In love marriage we can understand each other very well, in love marriage there is no restriction such as caste, dowry system and social status.

Its said that love is life, and God seems in true love, God made all of us and He wants that we live with love so in my opinion love marriage is better than arrange marriage.

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Nirupama said: (Tue, Jan 27, 2015 09:13:21 PM)    
Very good evening friends.

This is Nirupama. Now a days biggest problem is love and arrange marriage. But marriage is depend only on that two persons. This point of view love marriage is better but parents and family is also important.

So their view and they think arrange marriage is better. But in love marriage they already in love and they are understanding each other. Both have knows their behaviour, weakness etc. After marriage they are adjust easily. In arrange marriage two families arrange them.

In my view love com arrange marriage is better and don't hurt parents. Because they are gods to us. If we can love, once ask the permission to marry her/him. Explain your feelings to them but just ask them. In future if we got any problem then we have their support.

Thanks for this opportunity.

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Gobinath said: (Tue, Jan 27, 2015 05:19:23 PM)    
Hi friends.

This is my first experience to share my favor. Thank you. I am favor about the love marriage. Nowadays, the every women and men had love. There is no one hate the love. But, there situation and there understanding is the first reason to breaking.

Nowadays many love can be acceptable by family. That is why means, the parents are also had a love marriage. Love is not a word, that is a life. You should said in your life, there is no love upto today? Go and ask your parents, Dad/mom gets love in his/her past.

I want to specified to you in the above paragraph's I seen this " LOVE IS A AFFECTION" if love is affection means there is no one living. So, "LOVE MARRIAGE" is better than "ARRANGED MARRIAGE".

Thank you friends to read this. Bye.

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Dibyendu said: (Sat, Jan 24, 2015 05:21:16 PM)    
Well, there is definitely no absolute correct answer to this. It totally depends on the parties involved.

Those who have better compromising ability but are yet to find the right partner, for them the arranged marriage would suit very well. It is in this type of marriage that the parties come into play ready with the goal of "marriage" at hand, and that they are required to tie the knot in a relatively smaller period of time. But if are notable to compromise in a balanced way, they end up either distancing themselves from their close ones or each other, both of which are an undesirable scenario.

In a love marriage, especially in those relationships that have stretched a long period of time, it can be very well assumed that both the parties and their close ones know each other fairly well, and that the couple themselves have gone through many hurdles and thus have nurtured a "mature" love and respect towards each other and the immediate family.

In this kind of marriage the parties know each other fairly well. A point to note here, that the parties went 1st started dating probably didn't think of "marriage" in an upfront way. This is the difference. Now depending on the parties, after marriage due to social norms and pressure, things may start talking a turn towards the worse, which they may not handle well enough and in process thoughts like "this wasn't how I imagined it/ this wasn't suppose to be" may start rolling in cause lets face the fact.

Before marriage and after marriage lives are quite different from each other. Romance is one thing and commitment at marriage level is different, especially for those who aren't prepared for whats at stake, the goal of "marriage".

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Ruchi said: (Fri, Jan 23, 2015 06:59:15 PM)    
Hello Friends,

Its very difficult to define which marriage is better but you have to know only one thing that in any relation either I am talking about love or arrange in both cases we have to understand feeling of each other. We have to make a balance between two families and we have to keep respect in our heart for each other. If you share each and everything with your life partner then in future you will get positive result with this. So its your choice you can do anything but try to put honesty in your relation.

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Ankit Gupta said: (Fri, Jan 23, 2015 06:54:41 PM)    
I should fever of arrange marriage. You can easily understand to life partner. You do some quarrel of husband or wife. Parent does solve the problem. Because arranged marriage is connected with two families not only two persons.

Now a days lovers feel they are loving each other but in fact they attract with each other. They feel we are understanding each other but why they are breaking their love. I agree with one thing 100% arranged marriages are not successful but almost all happy couples are arranged marriages.

In our India arranged marriage has very strong foundation. So it will not break easily. Marriage means bond between two souls not with persons. That possible in our arranged marriages. Love marriage is attraction. It is not a real love. Some boys do misuse the girl. It is increase the case of rape. It is the main reason of love marriage. He is not real love.


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Abhijit said: (Thu, Jan 22, 2015 07:40:09 PM)    
Hello everyone,

I am in favour of Love Marriage because in case of love marriage the bonding and understanding level between the couple is very high and they are very know each other very well.

God made love and it is the most beautiful word in the earth. And at the present time in the Earth love needs the most. If you love someone, then you will get more love from that person.

But in modern society most of the love marriage breaks because lack of understanding, lack of faith between the couples. But if someone have undying love and unending faith for his/her partner then God is surely with you. Sometimes love breaks you but still keeps you together and if you have a power to love like that then this love is called true love. And your love is surely be the full of success.

So enjoy the life with the person whom you love the most, who can feel your feelings and stand besides you in your bad or happy moments. Support love marriage and bring happiness and peace to everyone.

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Viswanath said: (Thu, Jan 22, 2015 11:57:53 AM)    
Hello friends,

In my point of view if you connect with your partner both both love and arrange marriages are beautiful.

In love marriages both the partners known about the each other and lives accordingly, so their life is beautiful.

In arrange marriages partners connect with each other no relation is better than arrange marriages.

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Bharu said: (Wed, Jan 21, 2015 03:21:57 PM)    
Hello friends,

My self Bharu.

In my opinion arranged marriage is the best. Because arranged marriage is connected with two families not only two persons. Now a days lovers feel they are loving each other but in fact they attract with each other. They feel we are understanding each other but why they are breaking their love. I agree with one thing 100% arranged marriages are not successful but almost all happy couples are arranged marriages. In our India arranged marriage has very strong foundation. So it will not break easily. Marriage means bond between two souls not with persons. That possible in our arranged marriages.

Thank You.

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Fakru said: (Tue, Jan 20, 2015 05:19:55 PM)    
Hello Friends!

I am Fakru,

My point to think a best marriage is a love marriage. The love marriage is understanding marriage. The one man and woman is understanding must. And will starting a love. The love is a union of man and woman. The any one person is continue a true love is reach to best lover (woman). Thy any one girl is continue a true love is to reach great lover (man).

So, point to love marriage is best.

Thank you.

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Sunaina said: (Sun, Jan 18, 2015 02:21:37 AM)    
Hello friend,

I am Sunaina!

In my point of view love marriage is Best than arrange. In love marriage you very well to know your partner.
You share your feeling and sadness with your partner. I mean to say that mutual understanding is more.

But in arrange marriage, understanding is less. Love is everything and marriage is a bonding of two Souls or two person. And for any relationship, trust is more important.

But now a days there is do much issues in both of love Or arrange. Someone whose love is successful then they says Love marriage is better. But that is also a real fact that Arrange marriage maintained last long time as compare to Love. It means that both marriage having some complication But I will support in love marriage.

Thank you!

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Deepak Kushwah said: (Fri, Jan 16, 2015 10:43:09 PM)    
Hello friends,

We are here to talk about and to found out the actual meaning of love marriage and arrange marriage, my point of view is that.

There is nothing and it is does not any matter if, the boy and girl understand each other very well and they know all about the feelings which they have about each other, when they get marry but now the problem is, if is it arrange or love, its depend on the situation.

But some time family create issues and they are against a love marriage but it is happened when the family do not know about what happening and not understand the situation of actual love so I feel if both the person who get married, it is arranged or love but they love each other so there is no issue of love or arrange both marriages are right on their views. So now the final conclusion is if the boy and girl support each other and wants to having a life partner, then they get married by any of the situation, thank you friends.

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Debasish Rout said: (Wed, Jan 14, 2015 11:36:04 PM)    
Love is everything. There is do much issues in love marriage & arrange marriage now a days. So one can't say that love is better than arrange or viceversa. The blessings of god on those couples whose love is success, only they can say the understanding of love but I have to say one thing i.e. arrangement is one type of adjustment.

But sometimes arrange marriage maintains last longer as compared to love marriage. I suggest to all my friends go for arranged love means selection by parents & love her/him after complete understanding.

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Namrata Pawar said: (Tue, Jan 13, 2015 01:13:31 PM)    
Love is God. God made love. Love is pure. Then why to oppose God. We make religion. A Girl or a Boy never blindly love each other they always think about there parents first. Matured lovers, They never choose a wrong person for there self or for there own family. They always think, the person whom they love is that capable to keep.

There parents happy and also think that will there parent be happy with the one they love. I only think is that parents who support arrange marriage won't trust there child, They always think there child is small he or she can not make there own correct decision.

If that is so, then why do they want there child to marry according to there own choice, If there child is not that mature to take there own decision then how can he or she be that good enough to carry the decision that seriously which you want to put on them without there wish.

Its a request trust your son and daughter they love you and they want your support to make there love story the most beautiful love story ever. Love is pure if you allow the love to come in your life, your life will be beautiful and it has that power like magnet that attract the beauty and to glow rest of others with it to. Support love marriage and make them arrange it will glow like a gold and bring happiness and peace to every one.

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Kamparth said: (Sat, Jan 10, 2015 02:22:24 PM)    
Hi dear.

I support love marriage and I did too. After marriage you will face a lot of issue with your loved one. But still you will be in love with her in your life end. Because you love her and same too from girl side, if she has the same feeling.

In arrange Marriage every thing will be decided by parents. After Marriage you can get all the support from parents but nothing will be good for you to lead a life when you both are not in love.

Without love, the marriage life is really painful.

Take care.

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Raj Kumar said: (Sat, Jan 10, 2015 10:15:32 AM)    
Hello Friends!

Myself: Raj kumar.
My views are:

I think arranged marriage is better than love marriage. In arranged marriage parents decide to whom they have to marriage their son or daughter. It is also good because parents know each other family background and education. This marriage is done in present of many people. In India I think all marriage are arranged marriage due to it demerit.

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Shravan S Ramesh said: (Fri, Jan 9, 2015 12:16:05 PM)    
In point of view arranged marriage is good, marriage is not a bond between two person, its a bond between two families and culture. In love marriage first outlook is the important thing, but days pass it will also gone.

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Jangraravi Jangra said: (Tue, Jan 6, 2015 08:26:17 PM)    
Hello, I am Ravi.

I am in the favour of love marry because there is everything openly. I think that this is the matter of understanding of a person about his life partner and his all family. What type of life he is living there. If he is frank with all that will be easy for him to solve every type of problem if he is facing. Give love to all. Then you will get more. That's why love marriage is good.

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Sam said: (Tue, Jan 6, 2015 12:03:12 PM)    
Hello friends,

In my point of view love marriage is far better than arrange marriage because the best thing in love marriage is mutual understanding. Marriage is the bounding of two souls whether it's love marriage or arrange marriage!

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Ide Ntify said: (Mon, Jan 5, 2015 02:01:17 AM)    
Hi friends.

I am in the side of Love marriage. In all life once age is that when most of peoples like some or another. But they will never talk because they'll parents are strongly against the love marriage. Its nothing that arrange marriage can only be successful. If we have decided the correct partner for all our life than it we never create any of the obstacles in all life. We can understand the feelings of our life partner while it cannot happen in arrange marriage every time. And life is so short for enjoyment so its in your hands what to do?

Enjoy the life with the person whom you love the most who can feel your feelings very deeply or get married with the person whom you have never mate.

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Yien Tharngoany Wiel said: (Thu, Jan 1, 2015 05:40:02 PM)    
Arranged marriage is better than love marriage. Since all the doubt that may occur between the partner are being discussed by not only the partner but also by the parent of the lover for along period of time and thank.

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Hari Prasad said: (Tue, Dec 30, 2014 07:42:54 AM)    
Think about your parents, whether they married by love marriage or arranged. Most of them would be married by arrange marriage. See till today they are good with each other and they lead their whole life till death successfully.

In today's society 90% of love marriage fails (only stays strong till they involve in physical contact) after that nobody cares. There will be no support from family. You can't show feeling to your parents.

Marriage is the bonding between 2 families not 2 person. So arrange marriage is good, you can love after arrange marriage. The beauty may fade away but the character will remain for long.

A small hint to those who wish to love marriage. Don't love anyone by seeing face, go for the character!

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Ravi said: (Mon, Dec 29, 2014 07:36:04 PM)    
Hello everyone, I am Ravi.

I am in the favour of love marriage because in this we already know all about our partner but I'm arrange marry total against. We are bounded here. To live happy. In arrange we can't share everything.

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Mehrab said: (Sun, Dec 28, 2014 11:47:16 AM)    
Hello. Friends I'm Mehrab.

From my points of view arranged marriage is better than love marriage b/c in arrange marriage parents supports is they're. And after marriage we will love that's enough.

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Saurabh said: (Thu, Dec 25, 2014 11:19:37 PM)    
There is no disparity between the success or failure of both. I think it entirely depends on your fortune as you could end up finding the perfect perfect partner in either of them.

The post is more in context with probability of higher success rate. The notion here sits here clearly with arranged marriage because of the following reasons:

1. Most of couple pretending to be in love nowadays are driven into marriages by infatuation. Hence, the real character of their prospective spouse remains concealed until it starts to peel off layer by layer after marriage.

2. No involvement of family means they play by their own rules. Imagine a game without the intervention of referee, one can guess the outcome apparently.

3. Love marriage couple seldom apprehend the smaller thongs or brawls that may be on decisive at the end of the day.

I don't advocate arrived arrange marriages over love marriages but I am slightly inclined towards arranged ones. Enough said !

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Keshav Krishan said: (Thu, Dec 25, 2014 11:06:17 AM)    
Hi friends as per my opinion. I say that marriage is the bonding of two souls. Whether love marriage and arrange marriage but I support love marriage there is no religion, no caste, no dowry and fully happiest life that is LOVE IS LIFE.

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Srinath Krishnan said: (Sat, Dec 20, 2014 06:38:49 PM)    
Hi Guys,

I would like to go with arranged marriage because most of the time love doesn't happen at the correct age. At that age (during school and college days) one doesn't have enough experience to choose their life partner. And in love marriages the couples would have shared literally everything to their respective partners.

So they won't have much to share after their marriage. This is trigger the void in their early post marriage life. This void is the main reason for fights for no reasons. So it is better to marry a girl as per your parents wish and start loving her after the marriage and I hope this would to appropriate.

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Deepak said: (Fri, Dec 19, 2014 02:50:05 AM)    
Hi Friends.

As per my opinion I am favoring Arrange Marriage. Since in records which attain high success rate in society.

This is all theoretical give up on that. Be practical, Who said people do not compromise and sacrifice with their partner if they are in love and marry later, they do. I think same is required in Arrange too. There are facts where people adjust, fight even after marrying when been in love and signed off divorce ultimately.

Actually they live in world of pretense and take decisions without thinking there actual life starts after marrying only which require unconditional love for each other. One more common thing in love everyone get to know about the others weakness, strength i.e. more than enough which is required and try to be a dominating part. Less dignity between partners, low family involvement and low success rates.

India is so mod these days still maintain with values, Just Dowry and Caste System should be eradicated anyways. Look at the fact, People go overseas be exceptionally modern still look for their life partner from India. Just because they can not compare Indian Values with anything else.

I am not recommending the ways to marry of course I have not rights to interrupt, exceptions are always there. Still be wise when deciding about future partner, you are whole sole taking up the decisions. Love is always right, but choosing right partner is another story.

Thanks and Seeking your valuable revert.

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Frederick said: (Mon, Dec 15, 2014 05:49:17 PM)    

To me love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because it has a important rule in our life and it depends on how we actually get a partner in life, we may better to think twice before we act and first of all we need to follow our heart. Because our heart will bring us to the greatest. But we actually use our brain, because heart+ brain is equal to success. Success that will bring us happiness and joy in our entire life. And GOD will bless us and he will guide us to him.

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Avni said: (Mon, Dec 15, 2014 02:30:23 PM)    
Hi friends.

According to me love marriage is better then arrange. Because we born ones and we all will die one day. So why we should live our life according to other wish or wants.

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Debajyoti said: (Thu, Dec 11, 2014 12:03:39 PM)    
Hello everyone.

The topic love vs arranged marriages is a very relevant topic in today's scenario. I would cast my vote for love marriage because of the following reasons:

You could know a lot about your life partner with whom you are going to spend the rest of your life.

The compatibility with your partner becomes the best when you opt for love marriage whereas complications arise in case of arranged marriages due to ego problems and many other things.

You could also know about the family background of the person with whom you are going to be engaged if you are in a relationship with that person for a long time.

So I think that it's best if you go for love marriage as you don't want to spend the rest of your life in a complicated and haphazard way.

Thank you.

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Bidyut said: (Thu, Dec 11, 2014 01:46:57 AM)    
I would like to arranged marriage:

1. Love is Spontaneous act, so it can't be said people can't take Right Decision.

2. It is said LOVE IS BLIND. So two blind people can't take right decision for their life.

3. Love is Not everything. Other things like family background, income, caste etc also have to take care when two people decided to live forever.

4. Statistics - DIVORCE RATE of arranged marriage in India is 1% and whole world is 6% so it is more successful.

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Honey said: (Wed, Dec 10, 2014 10:52:59 AM)    
Hai Friends.

In my opinion there is no need of marriage. Many people think that marriage is to give birth and increase their family members. It is better to adopt an orphan child and to look after them without marrying anyone. I am against marriage. Like if you are against marriage. Let us see how many hate marriages?

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Shaikh Bashirali said: (Tue, Dec 9, 2014 02:50:29 PM)    
Hi friends.

Let take look that being a human we are born in our mother we either don't know that who is she? But all love is enlarge for her same to it our life is same. A arrange marriage give same type of felling which is a strong love forever.

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Zafaryab Qasmi said: (Thu, Dec 4, 2014 01:00:55 PM)    
My name Zafaryab Qasmi.

I will stay on arrange. Because it the spiritual possess. Why I am saying because in here 21th century very lover promised to her beloved that he he will love spiritually but it happens rarely which leads to break strong relation due to not keeping promises. And another point is that its up to them. And understanding will come gradually. Thanks friends.

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Azarudeen.B said: (Thu, Dec 4, 2014 10:07:07 AM)    
Hi friends, I am Azar.

In my point of view love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because without knowing the attitude and character of our life partner we doesn't run our life smoothly. The only way to know about the life partner is love only.

Shajakhan said that"I don't say to fall in love, I just say to feel the love. Don't miss life in love and Don't miss love in life".

From the quotes it is clear that love is "one of the source to succeed in life and not the only source".

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Vivek Kumar said: (Wed, Dec 3, 2014 07:31:37 PM)    
Hi friends,

I am Vivek Kumar Ready.

First of all, I would like to say that marriage is the bonding of two souls whether That is love marriage or arrange marriage. According to time both are right, but I support arrange marriage, because it is arranged by our parents and it is more successful than love marriage. Arrange marriage long lasting. If you do arrange marriage then family, relatives & good society respect you.

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Sandeep Shrestha said: (Wed, Dec 3, 2014 07:24:34 PM)    
Love is divine and the purest virtue, if a person love someone truly (without expecting anything in return not even the given love back) then love marriages are the best option since both of them compromise each other well.

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K.Charan Kumar said: (Tue, Dec 2, 2014 09:03:50 PM)    
Hi I'm Charan kumar koribilli.

I just stay with arranged marriage because. Our parents keeping a lot of hopes on our marriage. So I don't want to disappoint my parents. Marriage is a place where we can gather all our friends and relatives and colleagues with full of love and affection so I don't want to disappoint my parents in that event.

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Sanu Saikh said: (Tue, Dec 2, 2014 12:29:09 PM)    
My name is Sanu Saikh.

In my opinion. Love marriage also right and Arrange marriage also right according to me. During to arrange marriage we don't know about life partner clearly. We think that what's nature of my life partner and what's behavior and something.

But according to our parents, arrange marriage is right and love marriage is not right. But I am thinking that love marriage is better than arrange marriage because during to love marriage we know about life partner nature behave and something. That's why we should do the love marriage. Because we will be pass my life my life partner neither parents. Thanks.

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Silversmall said: (Sun, Nov 30, 2014 10:01:41 AM)    
Well, whether its Love marriage or Arranged marriage the most important thing is to a background check on that other person. If you have a bad feeling about that other person, don't proceed.

I have seen a lot of people who had a bad gut feeling about their potential spouse when they were dating, but proceeded to marry since they were in love with them. However, marriage did not turn out to be great but sour. Some of them got divorced but others suffer silently. I would greatly suggest go in disguise or have someone go in disguise to meet your potential love interest (might not be practical). This is to make sure that the person they say are to you is actually real.

Don't fall in love blindly, but do it wisely. If you have the approval of a person from your friends or loved one regarding a person's character then proceed. Don't make wild guesses in light of an infatuation or feelings of love. Take care. Make sure your select your partner wisely whether its love or arranged.

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