Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages


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Nive said: (Jan 20, 2017)  
Both at times fails. Even arranged marriages sometimes lead to failure. So marriage is where both boy and girl adjust themselves and lead a happy life.

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Sruthi Sree said: (Jan 18, 2017)  
Hi friends,

ARRANGED MARRIAGE.

-- Arranged marriages are better than love marriages.
-- In arranged married life they have some understanding between them.
-- In olden Days the parents are sitting together and they talk each other family background.
-- For suppose the couple have any problem they met their parents and solve their problems and lead their life happily.
-- Before their marriage, they know the partners likes, dislikes.
-- And they have mutual understanding between them.

LOVE MARRIAGE.

-- In love marriage, there are so many problems.
-- They don't know whether they are doing right or wrong.
-- In that age, they felt that is love but actually that is a infatuation.
-- At that time what ever they are doing is right but not.
-- They are married but after some days going on, they face some problems.
-- At that, they are alone no coordinating between them.

CONCLUSION.

-- Many problems are in both married life. At last, I believe that arranged marriages lead more role from olden days onwards.

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M.Sruthi Sree said: (Jan 18, 2017)  
In My View, the arranged marriages are better love marriages why because for suppose in love marriages if they have any problems in their married life. They won't come to their parents. Why because their leaved their parents and they thought that they have mutual understanding between them. But in my there is no mutual understanding between them. They thought like that but actually not like that. In particular age they that love but it is absolutely wrong. In that age that is not at all love it is infatuation. But they don't know that at that time. They felt that after some years that is wrong but at that time but there is no use. Coming to arranged marriages there is a mutual understanding between the couple and their parents also. In olden days all marriages are arranged but now most of the marriages are love. At that time the parents are sitting together they talk each other their children and their traditions all are they talked each other. And then they married each other. For suppose any problem come between them they talked with their parents. So that they solved their problems like that. And the most important thing is in either arranged or love marriages the cooperation between them is very important. At last, I conclude that arranged marriages is better than love marriages.

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Tripti Rathore said: (Jan 17, 2017)  
I felt really bad after I see this vs between the two. What people meant with love marriage-marrying someone with love and knowing the person very well irrespective of parents choice. Arrange marriage-marriage with more involvement from parents.

Love never see love marriage or arrange it just happens after or before marriage. It can happen to anybody any part of your life with your partner. Never got in confusion like this that love marriage is only having love more than arrange, it is ambiguous in nature. Just depends on person to person. If a person knows how to love definitely he/she would love his/her, partner, anyway.

Life is beautiful love is beautiful. Marriage itself is a beautiful thing.

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Arya Kumar Pawan said: (Jan 17, 2017)  
I agree with all of my friends, but according to my point of view, I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In case of love marriage, we know the quality, the behavior and mentality of our future life partner very well. You have to spend your life yourself with your life partner. So we choose our life partner ourselves.

I always suggest love marriage.

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Arthapurba said: (Jan 16, 2017)  
Hi everyone. After I read all the statement before me, I realise something that actually unique.

Most of us thought that arrange married are part of tradition and women as a commodity. But have you realize something? For me arrange married is a man and a woman married by their parents because a lot of reason for example that the daughter and the son have an age that actually perfects to become a bride or groom, but there a condition that makes there can't getting married soon like they only focus on study, workaholic, still alone a. K. A doesn't have any mate before, don't wanna fall in love or never fall in love, or can't find the true match, weird, etc. That makes their parents worried, 'what if my son or daughter still life alone after I died? Who will take care him or her?' That's why arranged married is needed to be held. That's why parent seek the perfect match for their kid, start from health (there is no parent want their kid marriage with someone full of disease), wealth (its kind of materialistic, but who parents want their kid life in poverty, no one want it), and background (that's the matter after all to know the truth identity).

And love marriage. It's just love. Have no reason to be in love and to be love with or by someone.

But marriage about love is not the simple like what people always read on book or novel or by watching drama on TV.

Marriage by love is needed preparation first, start to prepare from metal until wealth.

Why mental? Bcs we know it's not a taboo again that our mate can change into another people just for less than 24 hours we living together with them. Somehow a relationship before marriage & their appearance such wonderful may be a little bit annoying but still can acceptable by us. But after marriage, we will stay with them 24 hours on 7 days without holiday that can make a new behaviour that never shows before marriage, become a huge drama section on marriage life.

And for me which one of the best?

Both of that are perfect for their own reason.

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Sayli Patil said: (Jan 15, 2017)  
I think so love marraige is best in arrange marraige lots of time is required for understanding our patner but in love marraige we know who is important to our patner what should we do make him.

I always suggest love marraige.

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Shivansh said: (Jan 13, 2017)  
Hi friends.

According to me, love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because in love marriage we already knows about likes and dislikes of our partner, in this way we can run our life smoothly, but in arrange marriage we don't know about our partners likes and dislikes which creates problems in the life, we are not a product, as a human being we also have the feelings for someone to whom we love, it should be our decision to whom we want to marry, if parents will think about their status in the society, and their name in the society, is they don't know that others will help them in the happiness only but when they are in trouble nobody will stand behind them for their protection. Parents should also respect the feelings of their child.

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Jothimurugan said: (Jan 12, 2017)  
Hi.

In this topic love marriage and arrange marriage both have pros and cons. It depends on the person. We can't blame any one of the above.

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Moupriya Dev said: (Jan 11, 2017)  
First of all, marriage is not the conclusion of life. Love or Arrange a marriage is a lifetime commitment. Loving someone is not easy but staying in love with someone is more difficult. When you accept someone for who they are and go through every pain and still want to be with them then you should marry them.

When we talk about love marriage it is like loving a stranger. It's like trying to know someone every day and trying to explore their lives everyday. And the fear of losing one another is gone because there is family pressure too. To have a happy married life you have to stop judging others.

Falling in love and getting married or arranged marriage both has love but in different ways. So it's about loving someone imperfect perfectly.

Marriage is very special in itself, it is to keep. You have to make sacrifices without sacrificing urself.

Be strong enough to be able to make a good choice and to be able to live the commitment of marriage and to be able to build a relationship. And be the best spouse who chooses the same person every day.

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Hitendar Rohilla said: (Jan 11, 2017)  
Hello friends, I agree with all of you, because every friend is right in itself, but my point of view. Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because they understand each other a long Time, there is no dowry system, no casteism, no religion, who is better for our country, because these problems created a lot of problems. There is no problem in love marriage, if the marriage take place with the help of parents, and we talk about arrange marriage, we don't know each other, how can we sleep each other, there is no love, there is only mean to live life Nd born child, in arrange marriage we don't know past relationship and type of relationship, because some relationship never ended, your partner cheated you in arrange marriage, but in love marriage cheating chances is very low, so I like love marriage, you live your life, not your parents, so you can choose your life partner, I give an example, when you buy a mobile, you don't ask to your parents, because you know the feature of mobile, that's why in love marriage we know very well our partner, So friends love marriage is best.

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Akhil Umrao said: (Jan 10, 2017)  
I agree with all of my friends. But according to my point of view, I think Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In case of love, we know the quality, the behaviour and the mentality of our future wife very well. You have to spend your life yourself. With your life partner. So we should choose our life partner ourselves.

That's it.

Thank you all of you.

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Venkat said: (Jan 9, 2017)  
Hi, in my point of view, Arrange marriages are better than love marriages why because Parents support them.

If love marriages some Risky problems facing long life.

Anyways couples understanding is good. Any problems coming face it.

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Anu said: (Jan 9, 2017)  
As I have seen the comments people are believing in both. Love and arrange.

Arrange marriage is best. I agree on this because parents are choosing for their child, yes obviously the best bride or best groom. But if you are loving someone then how come you will do a arrange marriage.

Don't you think that it is a foolishness? I know parents are making a good decision. But they have to understand this thing also. That their child is not a kid now. He or she may fall in love n he or she wants to marry as per choice. It's the 21st century. Boy and girl should be measured in same parameters. Then why only for a boy they looking a better girl. Why girl can't give their decision to their parents.

Seriously for you, your parents are choosing someone n then they will ask you to marry that guy. Why I'm not understanding. They only think of their respect in society n all about culture.

For me, I full support to love marriage but for that parents also accept this one. Because girls are not a commodity or a thing, that whom you want you can give it to them.

Love marriage is good, but only with parents blessings.

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Arshia said: (Jan 6, 2017)  
Hi friends,

Arrange marriage is always better than love marriage. As we all of us know Mistakes will happen by humans only some of which will teach us life lessons.

Confusing! Let me tell you my point of view, because, In both cases, there is a chance of choosing wrong person as a life partner. We may realize it after marriage ar some point of time whether it is love or arrange.

In case of love 'U' are purely responsible for everything and will not get any support, but in case of arrange, parents are responsible for everything and they always stand beside U as a strong supporter which you actually need when you are heartbroken either in love or arrange.

In case of love marriage, You should only stand and collect all the broken pieces of heart. In case of arrange Marriage, before you fall or even after falling, your family will make you stand again and will help you in collecting the broken heart pieces.

Support from parents and family is always the greatest strength ever!!!

Hope you guys like it.

Thank you.

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Kasim said: (Jan 5, 2017)  
Hi friends.

According to my point of view, in arrange marriages parents select husband for their daughter with their own measuring rods which may not suit a girl.

They considered the girls only a commodity to be handed over to the boy of their choice.

It an insult to the principle of the equality of sexes.

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Rinku Yadav said: (Jan 4, 2017)  
Hi, I'm Rinku Yadav. I likes love marriage. They knew about each other past time so they will no facing any problem who is relative each other. I knows that them parents against marriage because perents don't understands about them love. However parents declare marriage but they (parents) want to marriage acording society. According to me, shoud be replace love marriage.

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Smruti said: (Jan 3, 2017)  
In my point of view, love marriage is good. Because in love marriage they both know each other from a long time and they already knew about each others background like dislike character nature everything after knowing this much they choose each other so if they will marry each other then they will not face any major problem. I know parents might oppose them for marriage but if they are really want to spend their hole life together then they should convince their parents.

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Sohail said: (Jan 2, 2017)  
Hi, I am Sahil, l say about love marriage is better because of both understand one another better.

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Anom said: (Jan 2, 2017)  
Look, Arrange marriage are good for the person who did not fall in love. But the person who really falls in love and wanna spend a great time with their partner should choose love marriage. Whatever parents will say but you should do love marriage and prove your real love in that love marriage and relationship. You should not care about what will others say. You should only care about your love and your partner after or before a love marriage. All you need to prove yourself to others about your true love!

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Shreya Patra said: (Dec 30, 2016)  
I completely support arranged marriage because, at present date, the youth reaches the conclusion of a wedlock at a very early stage what basically they have is lust or infatuation with degrading values they have no idea of love. A love marriage last just as long as the spark is alive and 1ce it is dead, the relationship collapses but and arrange marriage there is considerable amt of family pressure!

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Girish said: (Dec 29, 2016)  
I think love marriage is better because they both are understand themselves and then can live with love for lifelong.

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Bipul Prakash said: (Dec 29, 2016)  
Hi friends.

According to me, arranged marriages is much more better than love marriages.

Love marriages give temporary pleasure but permanent pain.

Arrange marriage gives temporary pain but permanent pleasure.

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Sravya said: (Dec 28, 2016)  
Hi friends, in my point of view both marriages are best. Whatever it is love or arranged marriage every husband and wife must understand each other. Otherwise, it will become divorce.

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Pavan Nandigama said: (Dec 27, 2016)  
In my point of view, so many love marriages are not successful in life without parents permission because arranged marriage is best.

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Harsha said: (Dec 27, 2016)  
I think Love Marriages are better than Arranged Marriages. I can put many points in favor of love marriages. The main thing is which I want to say that love and affection is very crucial thing to bind any relation and today each and every relation depends on expectations. In these expectations mostly people expect financial security, comfortable living status, and the most important thing is independence in relationship. If I clarify the term "Independence in Relationship" that is a comfortable space in between any relation. In traditional marriage systems it seems that sometimes a person has to confine in the relationship at anyway but If we choose love marriage option then we can understand the person's feelings and his or her expectations towards for upcoming relations before the marriage so it gives more help for choosing the better option.

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Marella Triveni said: (Dec 26, 2016)  
In my point of view, Arrange marriage is 100% perfect, because our parents are love very much, in studies you study 4 years at a college.

They search the many colleges and chose the best one our's.

So, it is same that in our 4 years of life they select many colleges and gives the best option. Same to same of our 80 years of life they give the best one of the life partner.

In the world, No love is greater than our parents love.

Thank you much.

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Triveni said: (Dec 26, 2016)  
According to my point of view, Love and Arranged Marriages are both of successful in the world. But Some Love marriages are failed after a few years, they both are not understood to each other, before the love marriage they think that we are made for each other, some people are correct, because they understand, and compromise one of them, but in arranged marriage both of you compromise and understand.

Thank you.

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Aneesh said: (Dec 25, 2016)  
The most beautiful thing in this world is love of it is love or arranged marriage the most important things in marriage life is trust with each other if it's lost everything is lost but in arranged marriage if any problems come soon after marriage family members will be more support for the couples but in love marriage it Will no support from family members.

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Naveen said: (Dec 23, 2016)  
Hi Everyone,

In my point of view arrange marriages is better how to I say means marriage after easily understand, commitment one to other. So increase trust to the couple.

Thank you.

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Misha said: (Dec 22, 2016)  
Marriage is a bond between two persons who want to live their rest of life with each other. I am in favour of love marriage because two people who decided to live life with each other must have good understanding, compassionate about each other.

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Amit said: (Dec 22, 2016)  
Both are having some merits and demerits but, As my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage because in love marriage girl and guy both are familiarized to each other so after marriage we happy till few time but when you are not inculcating to full fill requirements problems are created and relationship is weak or finished no one involved this matter but in arrange marriage having some foundations and supported by parents.

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Vishal said: (Dec 22, 2016)  
There are so many love marriages are in the world they are happy and too successful and also there are so many arrange marriages those are very much successful. Everyone has its own choice. So, live happy whatever it is.

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Varsha said: (Dec 19, 2016)  
According to me, arrange marriage is better than the love marriage because of many reasons it is supported by the family and also society, I live in rural area so I know very well about the mindset of the rural people.

So these people not accept the love marriage.

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Shreya Silwal said: (Dec 18, 2016)  
I prefer love marriage because in this type of marriage couples know before easily.

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Pearl Violette said: (Dec 18, 2016)  
In my opinion, both have their own pros and cons. Although, I am leaning on arranged marriage. And I can explain this. Many do not understand the concept of arranged marriage. You are not marrying a complete stranger. You can maintain a good bond with your parents and tell them what you look for in a partner. They will do the searching for you. Not to forget, marriage is not only the union of two people but also their families. Families do play an important role.

Sometimes you can fall in love with someone and be totally unaware of their family and culture. If so, what if you don't fit into their family?

Now, the chances of this happening in an arranged marriage is very very less. Because your parents know what is best for you and they do their research about the family that you are marrying into.

However, sometimes your loved one and their family might be a catch as well.

But in my opinion, Love marriages are a "hit or miss" like situation. It may or may not work out. Whereas, arranged marriages are a safe bet.

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Farook said: (Dec 16, 2016)  
Hi.

It's not a matter whether the marriage is arranged or loved, the commitment and understanding between the couple is takes more responsability in their marriage relationship.

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Ram said: (Dec 16, 2016)  
As per my knowledge both are equal.

Let the parents arrange marriage with a girl and between the gap of marriage love that girl as much as you want and marry her.

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Rafique said: (Dec 15, 2016)  
I support love marriage we love any girl in a lifetime. Love is increasing strong bond each other. We can convert love marriage to arrange marriage. We will happy and family members are happy also. Therefor, I support of love marriage.

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Bharathidevi said: (Dec 13, 2016)  
Hi.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment. I prefer arranged marriage. Because parents are supported and in future you have any problems parents are guided. In love marriages parents are not supported.

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Momatha said: (Dec 13, 2016)  
Hi.

So many different views about marriage. I agree that parents are our life. They brought us to this world. They fulfill all our needs. Their unconditional love is very great. When it comes to love between a guy and a girl, they fall in love, understands each other, (both must make sure its not attraction. . But you both are building d foundation for life). Also both must be ready to convince your parents if you really want your pure and true love to continue for lifetime. At times, it so happens that you. Both are so emotionaly. Attached that you jus can't even think of another guy/girl in your life. So at least now you realise its not ATTRACTION but its a deep AFFECTION and BOND.

So be bold too. Convince your parents. Love happens only once. Make that love for your lifetime and your life will be meaningful. Love your parents and also love your LOVE.

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Sonu Gupta said: (Dec 11, 2016)  
Hi friends,

Arrange marriage is better than love marriage because love marriage is not going a long time. Both are not respected each other and arrange marriage is supported from family so as both have commitment, honestly and respect each other. So I supported arrange marriage.

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Jagadeesh Jse said: (Dec 9, 2016)  
Marriage is a very important social institution. Every individual wants to have a perfect match, but the criteria for choosing the partner is different. In love marriages, individuals prefer to choose their partners on their own, while in the case of arrange marriages individuals prefers partners chosen by their family or parents. There is a continuous debate regarding the best way to choose the partner for marriage. Let\'s analyse which one of the two is better.

Love marriage:

- Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.
- The couple is responsible for its choice and the onus of the blame in future lies on the couple only and nobody else.
- The couple is aware of each other\'s likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well.
- The couple can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.
- The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.

Arrange marriage:

- Arrange Marriage is not a contract between two individuals alone but a confluence of two families.
- Two families involved in the arrange marriages know each other very well and are compatible with each other.
- Because there are more people involved in arrange marriage, the conflict between the couple will be effectively resolved or mitigated.
- The Couple is guided by parents experience whereas in love marriage couple is unknown about the future complexities in life and lacks this experience.

Conclusion:

Both ways have their merits as well as demerits and marriage is a decision of a lifetime. Though families are involved in most of the marriages, it\'s the couple which has to live together for a lifetime. So, the decision to choose life partner should be left to the individuals. Ultimately no one can certify the best way for a perfect marriage life because like life marriages too are full of uncertainties.

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Shanmugapriya said: (Dec 8, 2016)  
It is not a matter depending on whether it is love or arranged one, but the main thing is to be noted that one cannot maintain their relationship in an equal manner. Because I really felt the pain of love and also I agree with the terms of arranged marriage, but it is not at all a good one to marry an unknown person. It is only based on the thoughts that how we really understand the lovable one of our life. Marriage is a future of our happiness so be patient and choose your partner as your wish and also got married with the permission of your parents otherwise you would be waiting for your favourite life until you got the permission because waiting and patience did not disappointing anyone.

Be confident, you can feel the pleasure of love marriage.

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Surendra said: (Dec 8, 2016)  
Hi, Friends.

I Think arranged marriage would be always better because love for marriage is think is not doing to happen with everyone.

Indian culture has accept arrange marriage and it's had showed good results.

Like nowadays a new point in coming in society calling live in relationship.

It's good as it gives same right to your girlfriend like your wife.

So, I think by arranged marriage it will take time it is always good.

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Shalu said: (Dec 7, 2016)  
I would say, if you have chosen your partner wisely, not blindly fallen in love with someone so that you can't see what are his or her intentions, then love marriage is good. Because you know your partner's expectations, you build that understanding which keeps your efforts high towards the partner. Loving someone and getting love in return means a lot. Then you just need to convince your parents. Love marriage is not a crime. I just don't get why parents react like it's a crime. If they love us, they should support us and fight with people who are against it instead of fighting with us for those people who only pulls your leg down, never appreciate you when you are going up.

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Pooja Thakur said: (Dec 7, 2016)  
In India, marriage means lifetime commitment. So choose your partner wisely.

Things changes after marriage, even if you are in relationship with someone from 2-3 years, you cannot say marriage will be successful.

My preference will be marriage in some known family.

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Chandravir Singh Rawat said: (Dec 6, 2016)  
You can not say that which marriage is better, love marriage or arrange marriage.

Its depends on your understanding skills. How accept your mistakes. And how you improve yourself. When you both will be careful about each other. Your marriage will successful sure.

If you love a right person your parents will be with your decision always. Because they love you a lot.

You can change a love marriage into love with arrange marriage.

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Deepak Tripathi said: (Dec 5, 2016)  
It just depends upon the person with which you going to marriage. Because if you choose or your family selects a bad person & you don't know about him then what will you do? And it happens with love also just think that a person you love most and after marriage he/she ignoring you.

Then, most important thing is that life has two faces good or bad and also marriage has both ways means either good or bad. Choose your life partner attentively. Because it is India.

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Nisha said: (Dec 4, 2016)  
Slowly marriage is losing its ground, because of affairs before marriage, fake dowry cases and post marital affairs. Soon time will come when no one will believe in marriage.

We are blindly following the western culture. If you see the culture of western countries like USA/UK/Germany, You will see at least 80% people take divorce once in life and goes for second marriage.

My choice will be ARRANGE marriage in some known and respected family.

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Pooja said: (Dec 4, 2016)  
We require three main things for successful marriage.

Commitment, honesty, respect.

If you can not give these things, do not destroy the life of other person.

Love is just temporary attraction between boy and girl, but if you are honest, respectful and committed towards your life partner no one break your marriage.

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Ankita said: (Dec 4, 2016)  
Both marriages are good. Not everyone met with true LOVE in their life. But based on things I have seen, I can say ARRANGE marriages are more successful than LOVE marriages.

Because most of LOVE affairs are just infatuation (attraction), LOVE marriage based on this does not survive for long period.

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Anjali Patel (From Lawana) said: (Nov 30, 2016)  
Love marriages are not based on rules of society so people getting married don't care for dowry or other social customs which may not be very good as per modern time.

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Rian Ahmed said: (Nov 29, 2016)  
As I think the Arranged marriage is better than the love marriage.

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Sanju Bishnoi said: (Nov 29, 2016)  
I think arrange marriage is best for you and your parents because in love marriage everything happens before marriage so every people not like this.

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Amit &Quot;Paraajit&Quot; said: (Nov 29, 2016)  
I agree with you @ Neha Gupta.

But tell me one thing. As you are saying what to do if someone fall in love before marriage the true love. But tell me what if the person you are in love with is a fraud may be he/she is playing with you. Answer me just one thing. What is the guaranty of love?

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Khushi Chopra said: (Nov 28, 2016)  
According to me, arranged marriages are far better than love marriages. Because our parents are our only wellwishers even more than we are of ourselves and if others give us a reason to cry then just they give us a reason to smile so we must respect their decision first. We must marry and person they choose and later fall in love with that person. In arranged marriages, there is more understanding, love n less trust issues. :).

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Preeti Maurya said: (Nov 28, 2016)  
I support to arrange marriage because in love there is no hesitation to talk to each other but in arranging there is a feeling of hesitation to talk to each other which makes the CUTE RELATIONSHIP.

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Shilpa said: (Nov 27, 2016)  
According to my own opinion love marriage and arrange marriage both are equal but the only thing is that our partner should be a good person. We should keep trust, mutual understanding, bonding.

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Shankar said: (Nov 26, 2016)  
It's your choice whether to marry a person with similar interests or opposite interests. I think love marriage is a better choice.

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Ejaj said: (Nov 26, 2016)  
Love and marriage To different things.

So I support Arrange Marriage.

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Nikita Kumawat said: (Nov 26, 2016)  
All we want from marriage is it doesn't have any expiry date. As we know in India, our custom is lifelong bonding between two person then it is a successful marriage. I can't choose one of them, both marriages are good. All we need in a marriage is better understanding between two persons then it's outcome will be definitely positive. So, it has nothing to do with love marriage or arrange marriage. There are many cases in. Which love marriage and arrange are successful and they are successful only because of better understanding between two people but if there won't be understanding then both marriages will be failure. Now coming to investigation of both the parties so it can be done in both cases as we you are doing love marriage then you must be knowing him/her from a long time and his/her parents too, if not then you should know about them fully, about their family values, education, occupation, religion, caste each and everything then only you should decide about marrying that person. Now investigating in arrange marriage can be done by asking from relatives, neighbors, common friends or dating before marriage, chats and knowing about likes, dislikes, morals, values, nature, occupation, education, everything about family then only you should think about marrying that person then its result will be positive. But as we know coin has two sides, so even after investigation of many years there can be something which we miss out or may be other side party hide something or lie about something then it may lead to failure. So a well known saying in Hindi is "The Fruit of marriage, the one who eats it shall suffer, the one who doesn\'t eat it shall also suffer". So we can conclude that chances of failure and good outcome have equality it depends on understanding and some adjustments.

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Indian said: (Nov 24, 2016)  
We are blindly following the western culture physical attractions, love affair before marriage is the main reason behind the increasing divorce cases in India.

Some stupid are telling we are modern generation we will do LOVE marriage. If this keeps happening no one believes in marriage. This thing already happening, people are afraid to get married, because of false dowry harassment cases/ Love affair after marriage.

Follow your own culture. Do not destroy Indian culture due to western culture (physical attractions/love affairs).

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Ponam said: (Nov 24, 2016)  
People who say LOVE marriages are successful, please check the result of LOVE marriages in western countries USA/UK. Where divorce rate is as high as 80 %.

But for Indian marriage is lifetime commitment. So instead of following western culture follow your own culture.

When you are in LOVE affair, Person will always use his positive side to impress you, you can ask this question to yourself.

So I will prefer ARRANGE marriage over LOVE marriage in some known family because we can know the full background of that person.

In your love affair of 2 years, you can not know person' s background, because 70-80% cases person will pretend, will not show his actual face.

But if you person and his family from 5-10 year, you can think of LOVE marriage.

So I will prefer ARRANGE marriage over LOVE marriage in some known family.

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Pooja said: (Nov 24, 2016)  
New generation supporting LOVE marriages, and claiming LOVE marriage is successful. But the reality is totally opposite. In my friend circle itself, many Love marriages are failed.

I am not saying ARRANGE marriage are very good. But much better than LOVE marriages. Because your parents will always choose the better partner for you, after checking person's and his family background. Because many frauds happing in both LOVE and ARRANGE marriages.

So I will prefer Arrange marriage.

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Shrutika Solat said: (Nov 23, 2016)  
Whether you go for love or arrange marriage doesn't matter you should keep one thing in mind that relationship should be based on mutual understanding, respect, trust, and commitment.

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M.Karthikeyan said: (Nov 23, 2016)  
Love marriage is the best because the understanding between the two members should been good in this relation during loving period both know their characters fully it helps to after marriage both are involve I small fights because the fight makes the relationship between two members stronger and stronger fully one of the person either boy or girl apologies each other as a result relation should be been stronger I love marriage.

In arrange marriage in between the six months both boy and a girl are acting each other but I love marriage no.

Parents also support love marriage then arrange marriage.

But some parents only.

Because of in caste marriage.

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Vishnupriya said: (Nov 21, 2016)  
Arranged marriage is better. Because if we get any problems after marriage. Parents will support us.

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Nanda Thwal said: (Nov 20, 2016)  
In my own opinion arrange marriage is better then love marriage because in arrange marriage the bond between parents and son/daughter becomes more strong. In arrange marriage their is respect of each of one family member but in love marriage it is rare.

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Rameshwari Thorat said: (Nov 19, 2016)  
Love marriage is far better than arrange marriage. Don't think about the society thinks about ourself. If we have done the love marriage the people will say for 3-4 days. But in love marriage couple will be happy but in arrange marriage can't identify to that person. It will take a long time to identify him.

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Priya said: (Nov 19, 2016)  
Arrange Marriage is suitable for Indian culture because marriage is a lifetime commitment in India. I am sure your parents will always take better decision than you because they have seen the world, they have more experience than you. They will always choose the best partner for you after checking his/her background. So the chance of failure of Arrange marriages is very less as compare to LOVE marriages.

If you want to go for LOVE marriage it's your choice, In western countries (99% marriages are LOVE) 70% of LOVE marriages fails because of wrong decision at a younger age.

The love between boy and girl is just a natural attraction.

For a successful marriage, you need an honest and loyal partner. In your affair of the 1-2 year, you can not know person's actual face, because he/she will always show his possible side because he/she wants to impress you.

If you know some person from childhood or 4-5 year, that you may think about LOVE marriage.

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Vishwa said: (Nov 19, 2016)  
Love marriage is the best Because True love exists today also. If you both love each other, respect and are honest and you wanna Marry you can. Some are saying Arrange Marriage is suitable for Indian culture but it is not true if you both love each other you can Mary. Never give up.

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Sharmila said: (Nov 16, 2016)  
Love marriage is some what Risk But arrange marriage is not like that.

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Husain said: (Nov 15, 2016)  
I think Arrange marriage is something one should go for.

The main reason I think love marriage does not work very long is, The duo have already gone through all the ups & downs of life & they have hardly to share as they already know each other so well.

While in arrange marriage its like starting from fresh. Everything you always thought about your wife can be much more interesting.

Also, you can always come up with new surprises for your wife which will cheer her up. While in love marriage staying together after 1 or 2 years might be boring as hell.

I personally am a guy who is single & think that I will do a lot of adventure with my wife which will always keep us going.

After all this, I am sure of one thing that "Being a Boyfriend after becoming her Husband is lot better than becoming a husband after her Boyfriend!

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Pooja Balayan said: (Nov 14, 2016)  
According to me, Love marriage is very risky and arranged marriages is very good.

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Deepa Chaubey said: (Nov 13, 2016)  
In my opinion, Arrange marriage is better than Love marriage. I think happiness and respect of our parents in society is much more important than our love. Our parents love us since our childhood very selflessly and for that endless love if we have to sacrifice for our love then we should sacrifice. I would say that first try to convince your parents tell then about whom you love to let them meet that guy and after that if they think that your choice is good or everything in future will be good then do arrange marriage because now your parents with you and their blessings with you and then that marriage will never fail. Our parent is much experienced than us so we should never point finger on their decision. So according to me do love marriage but with your parent approval and convert it in arranging. :-).

That's all.

Thank you.

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Arshdeep said: (Nov 12, 2016)  
According to me, both are perfect. It's all depend on the fate and luck whom you are going to marry. Everyone is good in there on respective its just that there is need to understand each other and ignore the flaws. Love after marriage is more romantic plus the new generation is far different from the typical husband wives. They love each other make each other comfortable and understands much better irrespective they are short tempered. If they control there egos and anger they can be the good couple.

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Hitam said: (Nov 11, 2016)  
I think, arrange marriage is better because love is the think which is not going to happen with everyone. And also true love meets very rarely. Almost people can't understand it's true love or attraction only.

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Nitin said: (Nov 8, 2016)  
First, we need to understand that choosing love or arranged marriage is not always in our hand. One can feel so who gets into love. The only thing that matters is that how committed, understanding and trustworthy your future partner is. I have seen several arrange marriages also fail in my close circles and also seen several love marriages flourish well. When making a decision, you need to introspect and look inside you to find the reason why you want to go for love marriage with your chosen partners and if the answer is trust, faith, love, understanding, respect and ability to cope up social pressure in every thick and thin then you should go for it. If you find infatuation or mere attraction in your love partner then better go for arrange marriage.

No doubt, arrange marriage has social approval and support if your parents but finally your partner counts in your whole life to make it good or worse. So serious thought to me given up if an option comes for you. No one else can decide on your behalf.

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Yugal Kishor Meena Iit Delhi said: (Nov 8, 2016)  
According to my opinion arrange marriage is the better one then love marriage. Because nature gives us some rule wich is we have to follow then, If we will arrange marriage then that's effect go on our children, and our follower little guys. Then they will be thought to arrange marriage. May be they don't follow them parents.

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Arasada Ramya said: (Nov 7, 2016)  
All think about which marriage is good. But all bother about their society, not about themselves. Just think what is good for us. Does my life partner understands me or not. In love marriage, love is the main one where both understands their feelings nd go through their life. Whereas in arranged marriage money is d major part. Though girl gives more money there is no guarantee she is treated well or not. After arranged marriage, they feel like they missed the person who she/he loved. Sure I can say that after this marriage they think about their ex. So just think who is your correct understanding life partner. Dnt bother about parents neighbours or society.

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Neha Gupta said: (Nov 5, 2016)  
Most of the people are against of love marriage. I just wanted to ask one question to them that,

- What to do if one fall in love (true love) before marriage to someone as love is not in our control?

- Should he or she leave that guy after expanding some happy memories with him or her?

- Should he continue their relationship till their whole life?

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Kunal Aryan said: (Nov 4, 2016)  
Hello, everyone. According to my opinion, Arranged marriage is the best. Because in the arranged marriage we follow our culture and we get the support from our family whether boys or girls side. Most important things that we get the bless from our elders. Everyone is happy and they cheer so much. We know a different kind of culture. It has been seen that arrange marriage successful in every angle no fear of DIVORCE. In the Arrange marriage, we follow our INDIAN culture whereas In the Love marriage we follow WESTERN culture. In the love marriage the decision of only boy & girl Whereas in the Arrange marriage the decision of our parents he is the guide of my life.

That's all :).

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Surender Sheokand said: (Nov 3, 2016)  
In my point of view.

Arranged marriages are better than the love marriages because in arranged marriages we get the supports of our parents from both side boys and girls. After of all we love our wife after marriage and it is new challenges for us well understanding an unknown girl in a different environment.

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J Obaiah said: (Nov 2, 2016)  
As per my opinion, arranged marriage is the best one because in love marriage the lovers had already been enjoyed their feelings by watching movies, picnics, exhibitions etc. So that after marriage when they go to real life then that would not expect to enjoy as earlier, In arranged marriage, the couple would enjoy their feelings and life style from beginning.

So that, friends give the best preference to arranged marriage to overcome such type on numerous problems.

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Pooja said: (Nov 2, 2016)  
Both depend on upon your understanding after marriage. Even if you are in LOVE with someone with 4-5 year you can not say marriage will be successful, because things change after marriage.

So try to find the partner whether LOVE or ARRANGED, who are ready for commitment and little bit of compromise.

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Kalai said: (Nov 1, 2016)  
In My Point of View,

Love Marriage is Good. But I didn't Say wrong about Arrange Marriage.

In Love Marriage, Understanding level is better. They didn't want a dowry which likes Money, Jewels, etc. They want Only Love as their Dowry. Most of Love Marriage Got Succeed but That love didn't Display to the world because of Media. They display only the person one who tease the girl or who tease the boy. Media want only their Channel rate only. Peoples also came back to that news. All Parents Fear about love marriage and hate that. So only Love marriage Is Fails in India.

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Kunal Deurekhkar said: (Oct 29, 2016)  
According to me, in this world true love doesn't exists.

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Shahnawaz said: (Oct 28, 2016)  
Love marriage or arranged marriage, it depends on our luck.

It depends upon you, that how much importance you give to your husband/wife. How you react each other? Either arranged or love marriage, how we will react each other, we will find that type of effects,

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Syeda Mariya said: (Oct 28, 2016)  
According to my point of view, marriage is an empty box. In that box, the couple needs to put few things such as trust, understanding, love, communication, respect, friendship. These things can make a life happier. In arrange marriage we come across happiness joy n full support of families. First thing is we don't come across taunts here. In society, you lead a respectful life as mostly society discourages love marriage. In arranging, you can feel love after marriage but in love marriage already you had come across the feeling of love so the love period will be less after marriage.

Arrange marriage is happier marriage so one individual has to prefer to arrange rather than love marriage.

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Ajit Singh said: (Oct 28, 2016)  
The topic is that love marriage vs arrange marriage then I will go to arrange marriage because love marriage is the end of love but arrange marriage is beginning of love. In arrange marriage we haven't to more struggle to marriage its total responsible of our parents.

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Sidanj said: (Oct 26, 2016)  
I says love marriage will makes our life more beautiful when both sides of parents accepted. Try to convince parents first then take choice.

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Farhan Khan said: (Oct 25, 2016)  
My point of view, love marriage not successful in life without parents permission because my parents is best.

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Ajay said: (Oct 25, 2016)  
Hello, everyone.

We are discussing the topic of love marriage and arrange marriage.

According to my point of view, love marriage and arrange marriage both will be at the same level if we understand our partners feeling and we take the decision to talk with each other.

If we sacrifice our choices not at all but at many levels that would be bearable to both of us.

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Meenaxi said: (Oct 25, 2016)  
Love marriage may break caste, community and religion barriers. Love marriage is better than arrange.

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Nikha said: (Oct 25, 2016)  
Arrange marriage is best for our society.

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Nikhat Shah said: (Oct 25, 2016)  
In my point of view, Love marriage not successful in life without parents permission.

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Abishna said: (Oct 23, 2016)  
Arrange marriage is good one for all youngsters because the lack of decision making skills. So arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

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Sunil Seth said: (Oct 23, 2016)  
Hiii arrange marriage is better than love marriage. In arrange marriage, your parent fully supported you I know we don't know each other you and your partner but in such cases the main thing both system most important of couples trust commitments, understanding, behaviour, and emotional touches my parents also did arrange marriage there are better understanding each other in love marriage you knows everything about the girls, and knows everything about the boys. We can see in western culture 99% love marriage but up to 5 year finishes the marriage and show the divorce system let one more thing in love marriage finishes the dowry system so according to me arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

Thank you.

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Anish Sethiya said: (Oct 23, 2016)  
I prefer to arrange marriage, it is better than love marriage because when we see our Indian society.

If one community girl/boy is in love with another community girl/boy then people try teases or humiliate their parents. And people also say that we will kick you out from our community.

So I think it will very shameful situation to our parents.

AND YES.

I want to say who prefer to do love marriage that your parents are doing love from your childhood till now but you are making a relationship of 20 days with any girl/boy and you forgot all the lovable memories with your parents and take decision self and ignore them parents to choose your life partner. So your parents will more sharp and experienced to choose someone for you.

Their self-decisions.

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