Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages


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Indrajeet Kumar Sharma said: (Dec 10, 2017)  
Hello guys, according to me, a love marriage is far better than an arranged marriage. Because one has the complete freedom to select his or her life partner. No elder decides. Both people know each other already and mutually decides to spend whole life with each other. The Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry. Because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level. But an arrange marriage like a lottery, love may or may not blossom between the couple.

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Pradeep said: (Dec 7, 2017)  
I like love marriage. Because love marriage people are Powerful in their bonding and relationship between them is very strong no miss understanding between them.

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Pavetthren said: (Dec 7, 2017)  
I'll go with love marriage, if we think logically arrange marriage is some kind of nuisance happenning to both sexes involved, my only question is how could you really decide your right companion through rest of your life.

Without even knowing their character or without being obnoxious about their behaviour, or decide them behalf of your parent's wish, it must be you who should decide your partners and more over I think what you get while first sight is some kind of attraction not love. And only through love you get close to someones heart, so that you could get to know each other and whether both their characters are in sink and also to know about their past life and situations they are facing and what the right companion could do to make them happy.

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Ankit Singh said: (Dec 7, 2017)  
Whether it is love marriage or Arranged marriage, the "Love" is the only adhesive of bondage the souls of both.

As long as Love exists, there will be no problem at all.

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Sri said: (Dec 4, 2017)  
Hello friends,

In my thinking, both love marriage and arranged marriage are good. Marriage is not based on love or arranged which is based on two hearts. If they can trust and care together then they will survive and they will understand together. So live a life with care and trust.

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Vignesh Murthi said: (Dec 4, 2017)  
Hi guys! Love Or Arrange what would you select? I don't have a idea about that but I know something about those things Just share you here First and best is love. From the Ancient to the modern stories based on love show what love means Is like caring of each other or just made for each other. In My opinion, Love is just talking a person Within you or two souls caring each other and Where the love is born and Another arrange marriage I don't Oppose these too because arrange marriage is Carried by selection of your cared one who I mean is your parents. But when you choose these you may know that specific person only for a short period and another thing is A person who really loves you is an Awsome thing.

But nowadays a confusion rises between term crush and love. So many confusion arises. A true Love is so rare only from a good person.

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Mona said: (Dec 2, 2017)  
In my opinion, both the marriage are good. It's not about the type of marriage but it's about the type of couple and their understanding to each other. Eventually, I m in favor of love marriage and with the acceptance of parents because when the couples are happy, then they can handle their family in the happiest way.

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Tejpal Sharma said: (Dec 1, 2017)  
Hello guys, according to me, both marriages have their own joy. As like life marriage is also full of uncertainties so it depends on couple how they deal with it. If they understand each other and do small sacrifices for each other and lives happily then it doesn't matter that the marriage is arranged or love.

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Alok Sharma said: (Nov 28, 2017)  
No one can say that love marriage or the arrange marriage is the best. It is totally dependent on wife and husband if the boy doesn't understand his wife and the girl also doesn't understand the feelings of her husband what he/she wants and what you are giving then their life will be like a hell and on the other hand if they understand each other then their life will be like a heaven.

In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.

Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.

And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.

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Saroj said: (Nov 22, 2017)  
Marriage is the meeting of two souls who will bring happiness to the families either it is love or arrange.

It depend on both the companion that how they make their life beautiful, happy and energetic.

Requirements is same in both the case, only thing is in love marriage they know each other more might be but in arrange marriage they also know each other but with the choice of their parents.

In love marriage, if something good or bad you have no choice to blame/praise anyone, you are responsible for what you have chosen. As per human nature, we always find someone to blame for our bad happing's (if any) in that case arrange marriage is good.

I think this is a never-ending topic of discussion.

It only depends on the couple what they want to do with their life, some will make their arrange marriage so happens that people will consider them as a love couple and vice versa.

So, in my point of view, live your life at the fullest, love your partner, understand your partner, leave your ego and enjoy the warmth of the relationship either it is love or arrange marriage.

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Med said: (Nov 18, 2017)  
I think the love marriage is good because before you marriage you know the behaviours of your husband the thing that make him funny and angry even you can't make a mistake but arranged mariage is bad because you don't any behaviours to your husband even you mary today and you will devorce him tomorow it mean that marriage can't take a long periode it so short periode. Thanks.

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Ashu Yadav said: (Nov 17, 2017)  
Hello Everyone.

I support Both types of marriage have their own fun. And as you all know that many people in our society believe in love marriage. Because this types of marriage is based on understand between two parts and the settlement in there family. And in love marriage we know each other very well and from this can build good understanding. But in arrange there is an amazing thing that is person whom we doesn't know she or he become life partner so we have so much things to share because it is arranged by parents that's all thanks.

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Prashant Singh said: (Nov 16, 2017)  
Hello friends,

My name is Prashant singh. Our topic is about love marriage vs arrange marriage. In my opinion, both situations is right. It is depends on couples and his behavior. I thought that love marriage is a marriage when a girl or boy fall in love and he wants to marry. If his love is believable, he can success in his life. On the other hand, arrange marriage is our society system, it is depend on parents opinion so if any person doesn't fall in love he do arrange marriage and live happy with his life.

If we talk about present situation, most of the boys or girls fall in love and want to live with another. It is only depend on love with each other, believe with each other and respect with each other. So I think both situations is right. It is depend on couple. Thank you for reading me.

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Mithilesh said: (Nov 13, 2017)  
In my opinion whether there is love marriage or arrange marriage the only thing which is important is understanding between husband and wife. If they understand each other than their life defiantly be heaven.

Similarly if understand b/w husband and wife not good than their life surely become hell.

If you find your lover with whom you can spent whole life then you should go through love marriage. And if not then go through arranged marriage then, let it put to the god hand, who knows there will be one of the happiest couple.

And at last I would like to say that it's the matter of love and love can be happen before marriage and also can be happen after marriage.

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Vignesh Murthi said: (Nov 13, 2017)  
First of All, Everyone of us Might fall in love Once in our lifetime, Think That Love marriage is Way of Nature Where other beings Select their own life partner, just like human too have some feelings we should respect that but only maturity says Your Selected partner is Right or wrong. So to my opinion arrange marriage or inter caste marriage is abnormal. And for those for lovers Need is understanding between them. If there is no understanding Both type of marriages may fail. Thank you For reading.

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Shahrukh Khan said: (Nov 9, 2017)  
In my opinion, both type of marriage is good, it's not about type of marriage, it's all about partners, I have seen both the marriage converted into divorce so it doesn't matter which type of marriage we go through, most important thing in marriage is understanding between partner's, trust, honesty, loyalty and how they cooperate with each other.

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Devendra said: (Nov 5, 2017)  
Its simple, you can't decide that when you will fall in love. Its a sudden incident. We grown up with a moral thought that give love and get love. So why not love marriage is a moral thing? Arrange marriage is decision of our parents when we don't have any choice, when we don't get happy by just seeing someone. Love is a great feeling, its god gifted so we have to accept it nor refuse. Both are best but love is a pure form of relationship.

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Neha said: (Nov 5, 2017)  
I have seen people suffering in both so I guess it doesn't matter how you met that person through a relative or a friend what matters is you are happy with him/her or not.

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Priyanka Singh said: (Nov 5, 2017)  
Most of people do not know the definition of LOVE, and saying that LOVE marriage is better than Arrange marriage.

Not everyone is able to choose life partner themselves, Some people are too busy with their carrier, so for them arrange marriage is the only option.

Marriage is all about honesty, loyalty towards each other. It does not matter LOVE or arranged.

Here I am talking about modern arrange marriage (where both children and parents decide), which is far better than LOVE marriage.

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Manisha said: (Nov 5, 2017)  
Hi friends,

In my opinion, both marriages are good and its not about type of marriage its about partners. Its about how they cooperate with each other, understanding and trust between them. This relationship can work only if partners want otherwise it can't work anyhow. Both marriages have their own advantage and disadvantage. Main advantage in love marriage is compatibility between partners and in arrange marriage support and acceptance of family and society that helps to survive. So don't go for type for marriage go for a better partner.

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Shivraj Pawar said: (Nov 2, 2017)  
In Conclusion,

Whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage, relationship will work only if both the partners are serious and honest in relationship for love. Life partner must selecting to their own hands or not by force. In India arrange marriage to taking time about understood to each other before arrange marriage.

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Mohammad Danish said: (Nov 1, 2017)  
First of all marriage is not a union of just two person just coming together of two families or two social networks who are more closely thab ever before. So while looking for a partner to their son/daughter, parents will first check the potential of bride/groom family background, socio-economic level, level of education n different values. If so, they feel that then can safely gat married n they can take care of as their parents.

But there are some drawbacks in arranged marriage, not much importance is given in such a marriage because the couple might not have some time/more time to get to know to each other's values, understanding, opinions. And many of them, who are about to get into arranged marriage seem strong sense to obligation and duty to their parents n to do otherwise they perceive of disrespect of their parents and betrayal to their parents n they are ready to get marriage while they know they are unhappy just so their family is happy.

But critics of arranged marriage would say that love in arranged marriage reaches to peak when couple have been about 5 years after.

So I reached at a conclusion that both type of marriage have their own ups n downs, there is no perfect formula for marriage to work its totally depent on our preference in which we feel a settlement.

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Anom said: (Oct 27, 2017)  
Love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage before getting married the 2 can understand their hearts.

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Rohit said: (Oct 25, 2017)  
Basically, there is no guarantee that love marriage continues to have that essence of love. Psychologically every bachelor thinks that love marriage is better without analyzing that arrange one can bring a lot more happiness. So practically arranged is better.

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Ranjan Gupta said: (Oct 21, 2017)  
Hello, friends, my name is Ranjan Gupta and here we are discussed about love marriages versus arrange marriages. In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriages. It's because of the only parents love. That means parents think about who is better for me and also an arrange marriage to focus on this family union. So by these reasons, it is a fact that about 90%Indian still have arranged marriages.

Nowadays we are seeing so many love failure problem. As an example In the Bollywood the famous couple "Malaika Arora - Arbaz Khan", The famous couple who is an actor, director as well as a singer "Farhan Akthar-Adhuna Akthar", Hrithik Roshan -Sussanne Khan, Aamir Khan -Reena Khan. So in my opinion, best is arranged marriages.

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Abhishek Pandey said: (Oct 20, 2017)  
Hello everyone.

Everyone shared there opinion. And everyone is right in their own perception. But we cannot say that which type of marriage is good or bad. See both of them has its own pros and cons.

So in my opinion, both love and arranged marriage is good. But the only thing required is LOVE no matter whether it is love marriage or arranged marriage.

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Usama Mengal said: (Oct 19, 2017)  
According to my opinion, Arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because our parent's happiness is our happiness.

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Girish said: (Oct 19, 2017)  
I think love marriage with permission of both families is wise decision. Because you require a stable family to survive life. Of course, you two are a major chunk of it but in case you are a revolt then you need to care much more for each other to make it work. If this doesn't happen you question urself why do I do this?

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Shubham said: (Oct 18, 2017)  
Hey friends, I just think that love marriage is the best option in this generation because in this generation everyone has his/her bf/gf. And if there is an arrange marriage the love affairs can be shown after marriage. And in other hand love marriage both know everything about each other. I am in the favour of love marriage. Thanks.

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Ramisetty Bharathi said: (Oct 16, 2017)  
In my point of way, arrange marriage is best, because nowadays we are seeing so many love failure problems so the way of understanding is doesn't possible to each other. So arrange marriage is best.

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Shivam Shakya said: (Oct 14, 2017)  
Hai guys. I think arrange marriage is good because many parents are not accepting the love marriage because there is no future of love marriage.

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Tahsin said: (Oct 11, 2017)  
Hi Friends, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because the love marriage at least people known of each other.

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Rai said: (Oct 10, 2017)  
I think love marriages is good. Because before marriage they spent time with each other and they understand each other. Then they take the decision to marriage.

And if you want to spend your whole life with everyone firstly you have to understand Him/her.

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Savej Saifi said: (Oct 5, 2017)  
According to me, both marriages are good but a person should manage with his partner. If a person do the love marriage then he follows the procedure of arrange marriage, means first love with your partner and spends the time at least one year. If the partner is suitable for you then convince your parent and do the love marriage.

Thanks.

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Sachin Sainthiya said: (Oct 5, 2017)  
Hello, friends According to me, love marriage is the best.

Many people in our society believe in love marriage. Because this type of marriage is based on understanding between the two parts. And settlement in their family they also love in happiness and peace. Because the had chosen each other from the beginning.

Happiness is also very important benefit of love marriage. As everyone in the family will feel with comfort the couple can enjoy their life. They will b content about themselves they will not make the usually quarrel which we see in most of the families.

Finally, I think that the love marraige is better than arrange marraige. Because it has many benefits, Such as the understanding between the two couple and the happiness and peace in the family, and I want to send a message to all the youth to be careful in their love. And their emotions specially in marriage.

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Manu said: (Oct 4, 2017)  
According to me, love marriage is the best one but before loving to choose the best person who can understand you respect you admire you support you and moreover shows love towards you and respect to your family members then love marriages wins otherwise better go for arranged only.

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Umakant Chouhan said: (Sep 30, 2017)  
Yeah, according to me, love marriage is best because they know everything each other before marriage also respects each other families. I m promise to my partner. We are conducting love marriage.

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Ajay Kr said: (Sep 27, 2017)  
Hi, guys.

I think both marriages are Rights on their places.

There is an only different of thinking.

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Vijaykumar S said: (Sep 27, 2017)  
According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage why because love marriage is an easy way to understand the two hearts and it is I mean love means an agreement between two hearts. In love marriage, they can easily understand each other and respect each other and it is also one of the ways of creating or bonding the two families but arrange marriage is also good but in arrange marriage couples can't understand each other immediately it will take more to just adjustment between each other. IN arrange marriage they know each other after marriage but in love marriage, both are very close and they are knowing about each other perfectly by their love feelings.

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Aditya Sharma said: (Sep 26, 2017)  
Hello, friends.

I am Aditya Sharma, as both marriages are good whether arrange or love, marriage is a word after seeing this we have a smile on our face. According to me love marriage is very nice if partners having good understanding, they know each other qualities, positive, negative all things in this marriage they will not take that much time to understand each other they will enjoy their rest life they full fill their dreams which they have seen before marriage together and they respect their families each other if they love each their family will also cooperate with each other. In arrange marriage there will be hesitation there will be Question mark what is the nature of my partner there are lots of things to do rather than this. Best marriage first you love then say to your parents and then make it like arrange marriage there will be fun. Thanks.

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Sagar Goswami said: (Sep 26, 2017)  
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known person is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. They could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.

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Ms Rakshit said: (Sep 24, 2017)  
According to me, marriage is not only a bonding of two people but also it is a bonding of two families. Marriage is more about knowing each other, respect each other. If you want to make a successful marriage life you should have enough understanding power and adjusting capability. In love marriage, you have the opportunity to know each other's family members, their cultures etc. So that, you can adjust easily. But in an arranged marriage, these things are not possible. Moreover, some arranged marriage demands dowry which is a social curse. But every arranged marriage is not bad and vice versa. If two persons have enough love, respect, adjusting ability then it will become successful.

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Ankit Kumar Yadav said: (Sep 23, 2017)  
Hi matey.

According to me, love marriage is better because love marriage finished dowry system in rural areas many people penurious and he can't capable give the dowry.

Thank you.

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Akshay said: (Sep 22, 2017)  
Hello, everyone, this is Akshay, talking about love marriage and arrange marriage is an endless topic. Every single person has his/her own view, and they are even correct because you don't know what they have faced or what they are currently facing in their life. I have read almost all the comments mentioned here and everyone has shared their own thoughts of what they think about this topic.

At Love Marriages are the most beautiful thing that happens on this earth only before coming into reality, every partner is understanding and they want their home to be always happy but please look after how you both can make out when any of you are emotional, financially or physically hampered this is the time when the real love is shown. Before marriage, one should know each other in every single way so that they can lead a happy life whether it be love marriage or arrange marriage. I would say marriage is about love and togetherness whether it be Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage. Before getting married spend plenty of time with your partner even though it is love marriage or arrange marriage thing of all the possibilities, pros and cons and then take the decision together of getting married.

I wish all the marriages remain successful whether it is Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage just take some time understand each other.

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Preethi Baskaran said: (Sep 21, 2017)  
Hai, I'm Preethi Baskaran from India.

Love marriage or arranged marriage depends on one's mindset. I am not against of love marriage or arranged marriage. In my point of view, many people decide their life based on the parent's decision. That's not fair for everyone. Everyone has inner feeling about their future. Decide your life by your own (boy or girl). If you love someone who never leaves you at any situation, live for him/her. Convenience your decision with your parents. Make that happen. If you prefer for the arranged marriage, talk with him/her about your past life. Mutually understand with each other. If he/she suits your life, then go for it.

Thanks.

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Akash said: (Sep 20, 2017)  
Hi, friends. This is Akash. In my point of view, love marriage is better when compared with the arranged marriages because arranged marriages are just like buying a product in Amazon or Flipkart as we are searching for the person with whom we want to share our future. Is it so pity that we have to leave our 3/4th of life with the person whom we choose just like a product in any app. But in case of love marriages, they will have a mutual understanding between each other and they are matured enough to take decisions rather than loving blindly. They have guts to satisfy their parents then only they have to step forward to love with others.

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Dharmendra Kumar said: (Sep 20, 2017)  
I think arrange marriage is better. Because many parents are not accepting the arrange marriage. Because there is no future of love marriage. So The decision taken in a hurry is always wrong. I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

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Nibedita Satapathy said: (Sep 18, 2017)  
I think arrange marriage is better than love.

Because parents never choose a rough candidate for their child. In arrange marriage all the family members are happy and the couple gets the blessings.

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Sachin Sharma said: (Sep 11, 2017)  
I think, arranged love marriage would be best. Isn't it? If one's parents choose a partner for their son/daughter and allow them to understand each other in some time then both boy and girl will be happy after marriage.

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Keshav said: (Sep 9, 2017)  
I think arrange marriage is better, because at the time when there is not a good relation between girl and boy after marriage the whole family of the both sides stand with you in arrange marriage but in love marriage, you are alone because you fight with them for your love one.

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Kuldeep Gupta said: (Sep 9, 2017)  
Actually, both the things are nearly same if we think a little bit more.

In both the cases very first time we meet a girl or boy who is a strange person for us.

In arrange marriage the reference for that strange person is our parents where as In Love marriage the reference may be our friend or we directly get familiar with that person come across the behavior and starts liking each other.

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Abhishek said: (Sep 6, 2017)  
I am in support of love marriage. We are mature enough to take the decision what is good for us. We are to live with that person, not our family so this decision should be taken by us. Love marriage is decreasing the customs in India previously there was a lot of customs in India like child marriage, dowry.

In love marriage, you love the person by their heart not by face but in arrange marriage they judge you by your physical appearance.

Most of the people have the wrong assumption about love marriage that it will get boring after marriage and then in this way so many misunderstanding will take place. It's wrong if you have a better understanding that it won't Be happen in marriage.

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Shiwani said: (Sep 3, 2017)  
I am in support of love marriage. We are mature enough to take the decision what is good for us. We are to live with that person not our family so this decision should be taken by us. Love marriage is decreasing the customs in India previosly there was lot of customs in India like child marriage, dowry.

In love marriage you love the person by their heart not by face but in arrange marriage they jaudge you by your physical appearance.

Most of the people have wrong assumption about love marriage that it will get bored after marriage and then in this way so many misunderstanding will take place. It's wrong if you have better understanding that it won't Be happen in marriage.

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Sarah said: (Sep 2, 2017)  
If you have found someone to love and is loved in return, of course then it will be a love marriage.

Not everyone is so lucky, then you have to go for arranged marriage.

Just don't betray your love to have an arranged marriage because of dated ideas that arranged marriage is better than love marriage or parental pressure.

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Sanjay said: (Sep 1, 2017)  
Arrange marriage is the best because of bride and groom unknown and he doesn't know about each other and arrange marriage contract a two person and my partner choose by our Parents and elder so Arrange marriage is the best from love marriage.

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Sanjay said: (Sep 1, 2017)  
Arrange marriage is the best because of bride and groom unknown and he doesn't know about each other and arrange marriage contract a two person and my partner choose by our Parents and elder so Arrange marriage is the best from love marriage.

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Saurabh Kumar said: (Aug 31, 2017)  
A very important and an ongoing social factor going on in our country. By the way, I am not against arrange or love marriages as this is our right to choose our future. Everyone saying that if we are going with b love marriages this hurts our parents the most but I want to ask you guys are you going to live with him/her or your parents. It's you right so, of course, it's your right to choose your partner as this is not for your time being this relationship is going to be for life and you have to be satisfied with it so guys go on whether arrange or Love marriage be sensible and be confident in urself on what you choose. And give your 100% in that relationship. And most importantly be happy. Keep away all your ego. Be patient towards your partner and the most important thing is to adjust. As you're going to be together for every good and bad happens in your life. Live your best as we get a life.

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Vivek said: (Aug 29, 2017)  
In love marriage, both know each other perfectly before marriage and In arrange marriage both don't know each other perfectly before marriage but after marriage, both have to spend time to know each other.

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Achyut said: (Aug 29, 2017)  
Hi I am Achyut,

After love marriage creating a big problem in our family, then people are said this is love married problem. And after arrange marriage creating a big problem in our family, then people are said that they do not match their minds and thoughts, couples are not known each other, but not a blame arrange marriage.

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Honey said: (Aug 28, 2017)  
In my point of, both marriages depend in own self.

In love marraige, they connect with each other in all ways already.

In arrange marraige, they will connect with each other in ways they excited to know about many things to partner.

For me both marriages are good.

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Sujeet Vishwakarma said: (Aug 26, 2017)  
Hello, guys,

I am Sujeet.

From my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage because in arrange marriage we don't know each other. Which is so exciting. And it gives a chance to know that person how is that?And after that before getting marriage both are very excited and nervous but that thing converts into love. But in love marriage, nothing to know anything. And after some times they become bored because they already know well their lack ness and quality.

Further love marriage becomes bored.

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Amarjeet Kushwaha said: (Aug 23, 2017)  
Arrange marriage is the best because of bride and groom unknown and he doesn't know about each other and arrange marriage contract a two person and my partner choose by our Parents and elder so Arrange marriage is the best from love marriage.

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Manish said: (Aug 22, 2017)  
Hi friends, in my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage because I respect and family support and the boy and girl stay in seven rounds in Arrange Marriage, so the bond is very unbreakable.

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Chandrushinijg said: (Aug 22, 2017)  
Arrange marriage should be the second preference if you can't get a single partner then it leaves this option otherwise.

Love marriage is best for a new society and better life.

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Priya said: (Aug 21, 2017)  
Hey, My opinion is love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because we spend more time with each other. And we understand each other thing. Mentality, Easy to deal with both families. They all depend on understanding.

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Jithin R said: (Aug 21, 2017)  
I think the topic itself is not that worthy. It's their own choice whether to follow love marriage or arranged marriage.

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Shirin Jahan said: (Aug 19, 2017)  
In opinion,

Love marriage and arrange marriage both depend on mutual understanding.

But if I get love marriage I know the partner very much because of we spend too much time together, and easy to know his/her mentality & how can he/she understand, which topic conversation which time is suitable for the starting day of marriage.

But know in this day also love marriage is little wrong in our society.

And arrange marriage is not a bed of roses, we are always listening to this line in our society arrange marriage is most successful than love marriage. But this is not too much true, In Arrange marriage is very difficult to understand a new partner in our life, and manage all that things according to him or his families.

But if both married couples are mutual understanding both marriages are successful in our life.

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Sandhya said: (Aug 18, 2017)  
In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage, because in love marriage, both partners are understand each other very well.

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Chhaya Gupta said: (Aug 18, 2017)  
According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love a couple can know to each other very much they can spend a lot of time with each other n they can understand each other and they can trust to each and they can decide what they have to do in their life n how they want to spend their life.

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Sanju said: (Aug 17, 2017)  
How they married is not a matter. The way they run thier life and mutual understanding between them makes life beautiful.

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San said: (Aug 16, 2017)  
I would prefer love marriage over arranged marriage. Its becasue in love marriages both the partners have known each other for years. And only after spending a lot of time with each other, they start getting comfortable with each other. Once they get comfortable with each other thay start to trust each other. For a marriage to be succesfull both the partners should have a good understanding of each other and should trust each other completely and that can only happen if they spend a lot of time with each other before getting married so that they can decide whether they really want to spend rest of their lives with each other or not. And not only in case of love marriages the partners also get time to know about each others family. Whereas in arranged marriage both the partners hardly get any time to meet and talk to each other. The only people who know each other are the family members of the partners and the partners who are going to spend rest of their life with each other haven't even talked to each other once. Many people may say that college love is infatuation, but not all of them are. And moreover in love marriages both partners try to know each other completely even their deep dark secrets whereas in arranged marriage one may not know how good or bad is the person whom he or she is getting married to, there are high chances of getting decieved by the partner's family members in order to hide something that may cause trouble ahead in their married life. In the end I would just like to say that love marriages have more advantages as compared to arranged marriage. So marry the person whom you love.

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Priyanka Gupta said: (Aug 10, 2017)  
According to my point of view, both love marriage and arranged marriage have good and bad aspect.

For a marriage to be successful, the main thing that is necessary are mutual understanding, love, affection, cooperation and trust. This is possible only when both partners understand each other in every way. This can be possible both in love as well as arranged marriage but it mainly depends on partners that how much they cooperate with each other. The thing is in love marriage, couples know each other well and build a good relationship and they go for marriage but in the case of arranged marriage, it takes time for couples.

In love marriage, partners can be sure that they can lead their life fruitfully or not but that's a question mark in case of arranged marriage.

We can't say that doing arranged marriage may create a happy family as our parents decide because we can see a number of family issues and dowry issues due to which both male and female both are being a victim and create a bad memory for several years. The Demand of dowry in arranged marriage is just like a curse to girls family. And for sure. Due to all these issues, neither couples nor family may create a good example of successful arrange marriage.

Love marriage is better than arranged one because the partners have a good understanding about themselves. They can do every work in a co-operative way. There's no issue of dowry at all and female and male both are never dominated, there's respect for each other. If couples respect themselves, then for sure they will respect each others family, culture and tradition. And if family love their child, they will respect their child choice and would be happy with their decision. Yes, but one thing should be kept in mind that if any couple go for marriage with their lover, parents decision should be given main priority because they sacrifice a lot for us throughout their life.

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Nandhu said: (Aug 8, 2017)  
My point of view, love/arrange marriage is that I support both are correct. Because even in the arrange marriage love plays the vital role. Love during school are college divert concentration from studies and at that stage, we are not mature enough to decide good are bad. It's all just affection or infatuation which we consider it as a love.

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Lokdeep Singh Patel said: (Aug 6, 2017)  
In my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because many times they are immature about their married life & other things. But I don't neglect love because love is everywhere but understanding is better than love.

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Pooja said: (Aug 4, 2017)  
According to my point of view, Both types of marriages are right on their places because, basically marriage is the collaboration, union between two respective families which are combined by two people, the agreement between two families causes the new relationship between two people.

Basically arranged marriage is the tradition in our country. Where two unknown people are spending their lives together with the agreement of their respective families, tradition, nature. They spend their lives to gather. But at some point, if husband and wife's thoughts not matched then it will become the big issues between their families and it may affect on family, their tradition also and causes the end of the relationship.

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Noman Khan said: (Jul 31, 2017)  
Hello everyone,

In my point of view, there is no one who can say that the love marriage is better then arrange marriage or arrange marriage is better then love marriage. Because the success of married life is totally based on understanding if husband and wife understands each other very well then their married life will become heaven for them and similarly if they don't understand each other then their married life will surely become hell for both of them.

So if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should go for love marriage. And if you are failed to find then you should go for arrange marriage and let the god decide, may be god find someone very special for you.

But there is one another point that I want to focus here is that there are still some narrow minded people who consider love marriage a taboo.

They have to change their thinking because if you force someone to get married with whom they don't want to get married then it will destroy their life because how can they live their whole life with whom they don't love. That also happens in arrange marriage where parents force their children to marry without respecting their choice.

That's the area where are society needs to improve. Because now we are living in modern era where everyone has right to take decision of his/her life.

And at the end, I would like to say that it's the matter of love and love can be happen before marriage and also it can be happen after the marriage.

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Jagmohan Yadav said: (Jul 30, 2017)  
According to me, arrange marriage better than love marriage because our family like arrange marriage but some people like love marriage I want to tell everybody arrange marriage give lot of benefit when I don't have a money I can giving money my father and I can tell my father I have a lot of problem in my life so please help me but love marriage is not good Because lot of problems our family does not agree love marriage so couples decided love marriage they have a lot of problems it's my.

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Anamika said: (Jul 29, 2017)  
Hello Everyone,

I read some comments but still confused.

I like arranged marriage where we get respect family support. In short, socially we feel positive.

But in other sides one of my best friends proposed me n we are having nice chemistry.

Even though I said no to him and now feeling restless. Can't see him with other girl and family expect settled guy.

So need your opinion. Should I go with love marriage with a friend or arrange marriage with a settled unknown guy.

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Adarsh Pandey said: (Jul 28, 2017)  
Love marriage is far better than the arrange marriage because,

Normally, in love marriages, partners have their own mutual understanding and they know each other as well and that is the main point.

Parents can take our decisions but in others cases, because our parents is not going to live our life.

And another point is that parents always say that whatever they did in their life only for their child only for their happiness and if his/her child is happy to marry a girl to whom he knows very well then why not parents are ready to accept it.

This is the main thing I just want to say to you guys.

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Bilawal said: (Jul 28, 2017)  
In my point of view,

Arrange and love marriage both are good in that situation if both boy and girl have understand to each other in better way.

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Ashish said: (Jul 28, 2017)  
Hello, friends.

I'm Ashish.

We are discussing love marriage is better or arrange marriage. But in my opinion, both are good. Both have positive as well negative effects in life. So, according to me arrange marriages are good but which are love marriages also. I mean to say that a person can love other people, but if there is an allowance of there parents then they marry to each other and live life in a better manner with the support of both sides.

Thank you.

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Kamlesh said: (Jul 26, 2017)  
Hello, Friends.

According to my point of view, Arrange Marriage is better than the Love Marriage because in love marriage there is a relation between two persons but in arrange marriage there is a bonding between two families so relation will be more protected and there will be more moral support.

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Aishwarya Sa said: (Jul 26, 2017)  
Hello everyone,

According to me, both love and arrange marriages are good, but it totally depends on individuals and in Indian culture, it totally depends on our parents and family. We always cannot say that arrange marriages are good because we will not be knowing the partner which may sometimes lead to many problems like:.

1) He/She may be forcefully agreed for the marriage.

2) As we will not know their family, there may be a risk of torchure, dowry etc because some marriages are made only by the status of his family.

3) Partner may show only positive side at first so as to impress but one day truth reveals and lead to divorce.

AS a reason love marriage is more successful if he/she respect partner, know him well in terms of good and bad thoughts, should settle first, respect society and discuss with parents about their relationships and finally should be careful whether the partner really cares and loves you or just physical attraction so as to avoid divorce further.

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Kuldeep Gupta said: (Jul 26, 2017)  
Hello Friends,
1-Love marriages are always better than a arranged marriages. In the love marriage, we never think about the cast and status which is good for our society to break the casteism chain and status.

2- In the love marriage we take decision according to our mutual understanding and capabilities and only we are responsible for our future. it encourages us to get our goal.
3- In the same time in arranged marriage, we totally depend on our family for maximum decisions.
4- In arranged marriages dowry system involved mostly.There is also pressure to show off their status in society, it is also a part of dowry system.

At the end conclusion is;
If we are not capable of taking any decision for our life itself, then After arranged marriage how you will take decisions for your future?

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Vanaja said: (Jul 24, 2017)  
According to my point of view, both are good. But mostly arranged marriage is best why because parents are known which person is suitable for us. And more over good understanding also is there.

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Vishakha said: (Jul 24, 2017)  
Both are good in their perspective, but for comparison love marriage is cool. One should rise in love not fall and the couple should build their career first then everyone will agree.

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Manishanker said: (Jul 23, 2017)  
Hello friends I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because if we do love marriage they know each other well and what they like what they don't like understanding was good and they share their thinkings what comes to mind when that love started coming to arrange marriage it is good I'm not saying bad in arrange they want some time understand each other.

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Swamy Reddy said: (Jul 23, 2017)  
Love marriage is very good. Because they can adjust among themselves and solve a problem among themselves very easily.

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Mohd Ahmad Khan said: (Jul 21, 2017)  
In my opinion, I think arranged marriage is good with a comparison to love marriage because I read and saw many cases like as Julius Caesar, Laila Majnu, Orlando Oliver His life became useless in love affair his in those person love is not a success. Then how I can say love marriage is good and also it not relate my Indian culture so I think arranged marriage is good.

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Vasam Ias said: (Jul 20, 2017)  
Hai frnds,

I support arranged marriages, because its time taking to each to know about each other, during that they try to impress, love, and respect. They don't fully the character of each, little bit hesitated to oppose. That too they are bonded devotionally. But in the case of love marriages, they knew each, they already loved and enjoyed the life. Chance neglect them because they knew about their partner.

Finally, I conclude that what ever it may be the marriage if you give respect to them and treat, change them as made for each other it holds the relation strong.

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Vasam Ias said: (Jul 19, 2017)  
According to me, I support arranged marriages, why because its time taking to know each other. Being unknown to each other they try to express their love and respect. But in the case, of love megs, it won't be like that. The arguments or anything is more tragedic b/w known while compared with unknown. Arrange marriages can group two families into one. But how ever whether arranged marriages or love marriages are made in heaven. But if you made our partner made for each other and first have to b better half no matter what ever the marriages.

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Sheyan Swaraj said: (Jul 19, 2017)  
Hi, Friends.

As I think Love Marriage is more successful than Arrange Marriage because in love marriage there is only devotion.

And reliance between the couples. In it, they choose their life partner, it means.

That they can relinquish their life for their partner and completely confess the responsibilities of their partner. It makes them firm for handling the marriage & assist them in leading a peaceful life. They do really love each other. So they can face the difficulties together easily and exist their life happily. In this way, we can say that love marriage is perfect in this modern era.

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Manohar said: (Jul 19, 2017)  
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known people is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. Some of my friends are saying that arranged marriage has more success rate. But according to governments survey most of the women harassment cases, dowry cases, violation cases registered in arrange marriages. But in love marriage either we have a happy life or we will get divorced. We will not get as many complaints we got in arranges marriage. Also want to say that whey could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.

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Munna Kumar said: (Jul 19, 2017)  
Hello friends,

I think love marriage and arrange marriage both are good but it depends on partners understanding. We do have to spend the whole life with our partner so we should take the right decision. That's why I will prefer both.

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Rajeev Kumar said: (Jul 18, 2017)  
Hi, myself Rajeev Kumar.

I think love marriage is better for our life because the two couples understand to each other before marriage.

They will be loyal each other. In love marriage, both of them know about their past and they can trust each other. But our parents always think our good future. But we should chouse our best life partner for our future.

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Asif said: (Jul 18, 2017)  
As per my opinion, love marriage is not good because in love marriage I didn't see even a single lady who is not beautiful, I mean many boys just wanted to utilise girls for their comfort and then throw out them.

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Utkarsh Pathak said: (Jul 17, 2017)  
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known people is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. They could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.

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Veer said: (Jul 17, 2017)  
I like love marriages. I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because understanding is two known person is more powerful than two known people. Parents can never refuse their children's choices.

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Ishan said: (Jul 16, 2017)  
It's all dependent upon the intensity of opposition from your parents. Somewhere parents easily allow love marriage and somewhere very hardly but the culture of each house is different. I am in love relation from twelve years but even today adjusting with my parents is even uncomfortable. Now, it's up to you to struggle in that particular situation or quit the ground but heavy opposition from parents also breaks us because we also want parents happy. But now I will suggest understanding your family if they are easily manageable and modifiable then only go for it.

LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST WHEN I CAME TO KNOW THE SOCIAL STRUCTURE IT WAS TOO LATE, GETTING OUT OF LOVE WAS NOT EASY FOR ME BUT IF YOU CAN PLEASE UNDERSTAND TIMELY.

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Sandeep said: (Jul 15, 2017)  
Some of my friends are saying that arranged marriage has more success rate. But according to governments survey most of the women harassment cases, dowry cases, violation cases registered in arrange marriages. But in love marriage either we have a happy life or we will get divorced. We will not get as many complaints we got in arranges marriage. Also want to say that we can't let our life on future possibilities that after arranging marriage we will get mutual understanding, love, bonding, trust etc, etc. We are the generation who believes in the present. Even, the government gives us the liberty to take our decision by yourself after 18 and makes you independent so why don't our parents let us take our decisions by once own.

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