Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages


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Ydj said: (Sep 24, 2016)  
Hey, everyone, I am Yash.

Girl if don't raise her voice for her love so who can she raise her voice for persecution which gifted her by husband & other relatives after arranged marriage.

I think about human every boy/girl even once in life fall in love with some1, success or not its depend on conditions.

As I think arrange marriage is arrangement of 2 broken heart & which heart how to fail to express the feeling of love toward lover or family.

Love marriage makes heaven if fall in love by flow & manage it with maturity.

Arrange marriage is like quite be good for those how to think that. Adjustment is best for us. Love marriage is best for those how to think that. Make everything for us.

Love marriage is best ever by heart by passion by us.

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Sheshu said: (Sep 23, 2016)  
Some point of view arranged marriages are good and some point of view love marriages are good but arranged marriages have more responsibilities when compared to love marriages, before the marriage parents think 1-100 times which is good and which is bad, but here before the marriage interaction between the couples is may be very less, that's why you don't know the behavior of your life partner, after marriage sometimes it creates a problem, but whenever understanding between the people is strong it's not a problem,

Conclusion: whenever understanding between the peoples is strong it's not a problem, either arranged marriage or love marriage.

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Anaya said: (Sep 23, 2016)  
As far as my view is concerned, I think to arrange marriage is the best. By arrange marriage everyone is happy especially Our parents. In marriage, love comes with time but that love arises after analyzing your partner's merit and demerits both. So I support arrange marriage.

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Sri said: (Sep 22, 2016)  
Arrange marriage is best for our youth. Because our parents also satisfied for their choice. If there is any problem arise in the couple they will convince easily. But the couple wanted one year gap for after the engagement. In that gap, they want to know each other.

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Ankita said: (Sep 21, 2016)  
For INDIAN Culture ARRANGE marriage is best, LOVE is thing that happens with time when you get to know each other. But there should be at least 1-year gap before ARRANGE Marriage so that you can understand each other.

IN India LOVE marriages are biggest failure as compared to other countries, because we are trying to copy the western culture and we are not perfect in that.

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Karthik Prabha said: (Sep 21, 2016)  
Arrange marriage is good one for all youngster because the lack of decision making skills.

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Pooja said: (Sep 20, 2016)  
Marriage is about adjustment, commitment and compromise.

People who are supporting LOVE marriages please see the success rate, you can take examples of western countries, 80% of Marriages do of surviving more than 5 years.

When people are in LOVE (attracted) towards someone they can not see his good and bad things. A person will only show his positive side to you and hide his negative side in most of the cases. Life after marriage is totally different because 70-80% of LOVE marriages person hides their negative side. Hence divorce cases are more in LOVE marriages.

If you know some person from 5-6 year then you can go for LOVE marriage. If you are in the relationship with someone for 1-2 year, never go for LOVE marriage, you will regret after marriage.

I will prefer ARRANGE marriage but only in known family.

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Inneth Maki said: (Sep 20, 2016)  
Hi, everyone.

My point of view about love marriage and arranged marriage is that nowadays almost the whole population of Vanuatu are engaged in love marriage. Because it is the main decision that is made by both girl and boy.

So I prefer to choose LOVE MARRIAGE.

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Sneha said: (Sep 20, 2016)  
True LOVE is very very rare Nowadays. I have seen fraud/cheat cases in both LOVE and ARRANGE marriages.

So girls better do Marriage in some known family whether LOVE or ARRANGED.

Because for girls, Marriage is very big decision.

According to me, ARRANGE marriage is better than LOVE marriage. LOVE is just feeling between boy and girl, which can happen after Marriage also.

SO for Indian culture, ARRANGE marriage is better.

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Avinash Shukla said: (Sep 19, 2016)  
In my think love marriage are not suffer long.

Because a person will do the marriage from love bases than most of the chances divorce.

In arrange marriage person get together and then marriage from this base of relation are suffer longer time.

But nowadays the ratio of love marriages are increasing.

But more Indian prefer to arrange marriage.

Thanks.

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Gaurav Patel said: (Sep 19, 2016)  
In my point of view, Love marriage is better than the arrange marriage. Because in arrange marriage there may be understanding or respect with each other but certainly there is not love, it may happen with some time or may not. But in love marriage couple end up with marriage because there are love and understanding between them. So my point is one should not compromise his/her present in order to secure the better future.

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Dhaval said: (Sep 18, 2016)  
People think that someone who has done a love marriage is a dude, while others engaged in an arranged marriage are fools. Let's assume that it's true. But if it's so, then how in the hell can the people who love each other, can get separated just because they weren't able to adjust with each other in their married life, and they thought afterwards that it was not a love, just the greatest mistake of their life. If "true love"do exist in between them then they will withstand all the circumstances that came in their life, rather than giving up for stupid lame excuses. I m not against love marriages, but they should also think practically, they should not leave their loved ones, but before marriage, they should prepare themselves well enough -both financially and responsibly, for all sort of problems.

Only one sentence as a tip: if a boy is in true love with his girlfriend, he will make himself perfect in terms of his financial condition and commitment, but if he isn't in true love he will be just in a hurry to get married, so that he will get a permanent licence legalised by our Indian society to satisfy his physical greed on bed, a and that's where the "true face" of his " fake love" comes into existence. Finally, the marriage will get collapsed brutally. Endpoint: the 2 lovers will be called as " true haters, rather than true lovers". I'm not saying that love marriage is disgusting, but most of the times it's not durable. This situation might even occur in a arranged marriage but it's quite rare. But to be very frank, I must say that if we will get the list of the top 10 successful marriages of all times, and even of the current generation - " no doubt, all of them would be love marriages for sure".

Love is a feeling that can even be ignited after marriage, so whether arranged or love, it's in our hand, how to make a marriage " a beautiful journey of our life that will confirm lifelong without any accident".

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Nisha said: (Sep 16, 2016)  
LOVE between boy and girl is nothing but physical attraction (scientifically proved).

True LOVE is respect, commitment, compromise, honesty.

For INDIAN marriage is the very important decision of life (its lifetime commitment). So we also have to take advice from our parents also.

If you want to follow western culture it's your choice (80 % of LOVE marriages do not survive more than 5 years).

In the case of LOVE marriages, people are not ready for comprise and they start fighting on small things, they are just blinded by LOVE, but the real world is totally different.

But in the case of Arrange marriage people are ready for compromise and commitment, hence arrange marriage is more successful.

SO I will prefer ARRANGE Marriage, not old fashion forced marriages.

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Manoranjan Singh said: (Sep 16, 2016)  
Hello, everyone.

According to me, I think being loved or arranged its really doesn't matters, the things which matters is your mutual understandings, emotional attachments, ability to solve conflicts, your atitude, your behaviour with your partner. And the happiness in this will always depends on how you manage the situation and how easily you tackled it with love and care. And this leads a happy life.

So for both are depends on fundamentals of bondings.

But I prefer to arrange.

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Surjeet Kumar Panda said: (Sep 16, 2016)  
Hello to all. Firstly you don't compare love vs arrange marriage because this 2 life changing words are very dangerous than poison, I am personally saying that there is nothing failure rate at all; we all are follow the ancient thing both are good just we have to compromise each other. Love and arrange marriage always good.

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Ashu said: (Sep 15, 2016)  
Whatever people say it is the fact that ARRANGE Marriage is more successful than LOVE Marriages.

For Any Kind of marriage to be successful you need commitment and compromise.

I have seen around my circle itself LOVE marriage is a very big failure, for Live example, you can take the example of USA where 99 % Marriages are LOVE marriages and 80% marriages end up in divorce in a time of 5 years.

LOVE Marriage is riskier than ARRANGE Marriage.

So, I will Prefer ARRANGE Marriage.

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Vinita said: (Sep 14, 2016)  
Hello Everyone,

According to my point of view, there is no difference between love marriage and arrange marriage all we need to understand is loyalty, compromises, commitments towards out partner.

It may be possible that after arranging marriage both will understand each other and also possible that both will not understand.

Whether it is love or a arrange it depends on one's behavior, loyalty towards their partner if all these things are there then it will be a successful marriage.

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Sharry Wahla said: (Sep 13, 2016)  
Hello everyone,

According to my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage. As we all know it an important decision of life. So we have to take advice from our parents also. They have their experience of life. Parents never want to spoil their children life.

Moreover, we can see in the majority of love marriages people started fighting and they blame each other. It happens just because of a wrong decision which they took. Because that time they were attracted toward each other and they just think about their physical attractions. When they started surviving in a real world they start fighting.

To epitomize, I think arranged marriages are better than love marriages.

Thank you all.

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Krutika said: (Sep 12, 2016)  
According to my opinion, arrange marriage is better because it is done with the approval of our parents. As our parents have scarifies their whole life in taking our care they have given importance to our need and wishes. So we should not cheat them.

The ratio of successful love marriage is very less as compared to arrange marriage. When two unknown persons unite together they try to understand each others feeling & emotion.

While in arrange marriage they both know each other since long so no kind of attraction is there in between them as that of arrange marriage so they are more successful.

Some times disputes may occur so they solve with the help of family members means we can share them. Whereas in love marriage this is not possible because no one is happy with the decision so there is no one to support us if parents support love marriage then its good but if not it brings a tough moment in our life.

Thus I conclude by saying that every coin has its two sides good or bad. It is according to us how we inculcate in our life.

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Nishu said: (Sep 12, 2016)  
Peoples who are claiming love marriage is best, please see the facts of LOVE marriage in western countries, where 99% marriages are LOVE marriage, and 80% end up in divorce in 5 years. Because people treat physical attraction as LOVE.

People are not ready financially, mentally they are just get blinded due to LOVE, Their eyes open after marriage and they end up in divorce.

For Any Kind of marriage to be successful you need commitment and compromise.

I am not against LOVE marriages some LOVE marriages are very successful.

But Arrange marriage much better because the person is financially and mentally ready for marriage, not just blinded due to LOVE.

TRUE LOVE is respect, honesty toward your life partner.

I will prefer ARRANGE marriage over LOVE marriage.

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Mouli said: (Sep 12, 2016)  
Well in my case I would say love do exist. I got married to my love with whom I was committed past 8 years that too in a long distance relationship. We have faced lot of things together in terms of career and family Issues. We tried convincing our families it took 2 years to convince them but after that, we got married in a beautiful way with the blessings of Bhagwan Ji and both the families. I would also mention that we have faced an extremely tensed situation when our families got involved. We had extreme fights also but lastly we didn't leave each other and fulfill our commitments. My in-laws are awesome they accepted me whole heartedly and touch wood I can sum up saying I m happily married to the love of my life.

So, from my view, Love marriage is best.

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Rankjith said: (Sep 12, 2016)  
I have been chosen to go with arranged marriage because there is more chance of successful marriage let take it from our parent view,

If they have been chosen a girl/boy for us, they will definitely know his/her background and parents of opposite party.

They could make a better life their son/daughter and, Even if you fail in a relationship your parents are always with you remember they are the most supportive for us.

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Siddhant Rai said: (Sep 11, 2016)  
Where it is written that arrange marry will successful and love marriage is unsuccessful. If a man or woman is not loyal then is it guaranteed that after arrange marriage she will become loyal with that person and will not break his trust. First thing is that marriage is all depend on trust, care, understanding the respect that we have to give to our mates.

Surveys say that 80% arrange is successful and 10-20% love marriage is successful I just want to say how much percent there is love marriage in India and in that unsuccessful marriage. How much percent societies, parents respect and accept their marriage? After love marriage, most of the people of society behave that the couples had done something so terrible that they disrespect them. Love marriage is also one kind of marriage they also want same respect and acceptance from other society it is not like that love marriage has their own world and there is no effect of society on them. I am not saying that arrange marriage is wrong it is also right just want to say that after marriage the whole life has to spend with them so it is up to us to accept or reject them. I also heard that in nowadays that in arrange marriage boy and girl accept them and then marry just want to say if that happens then why they oppose love marriage and also if in arrange marriage parents force to marry then is it OK and who says in arrange marriage boy and girls takes decision, yes it happens in some arrange marriage but not in all so it correct to forcibly marry right?

Arrange and love marry are same but in arrange marriage parents decide and in love marriage we decide. Just we have to support be committed, respect and understand our wife/husband. And it is not that there is no divorce and all in arrange marriage we all heard the worst case after arrange marriage so no marriage is wrong or right and we can't say love marriage is unsuccessful because marriage is not a person which is wrong but conditions and people make love marriage wrong. If we respect and be committed and understand and society supports same as they support arrange marriage then surely love marriage is also the best option. So we have to improve our thought.

Sorry if anybody was hurt by my comment I don't want to hurt anyone and their feeling but if I hurt then I am sorry from my heart.

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Amrutha said: (Sep 11, 2016)  
Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages.

Arrange marriage is better because it provides fall in love after the marriage that is super feeling. So both have curious to know each behavior and likes but in love marriage before they know all about each other periodically attraction, infatuation, crush will be reduced then quarrel happens also divorce makes in love marriage. If it is true love how you know don't know he flirts after marriage n run away then how you face parents so much trouble already the God put someone in our life don't be panic.

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Pushpanjali said: (Sep 10, 2016)  
Hello, friends.

According to me, marriages are tie up of two soles with the bond of love, respect, trust, security etc. A marriage will be successfull if you have the above things in your relationship whether it is love or arrange. Now coming towards love or arrange, in both cases love or arrange for marriage first of all we have to choose a partner. In love, we ourself in arrange they are chosen by our parents. In love, we have more time to understand our partner than arrange marriage, but with a condition that in love marriage you have an option to quit if the condition is getting worse but this doesn't mean that you choose and quit, but in arrange marriage after a limit time or in better case after 2 or 3 rejection you have to choose one and get married. So if after that you face any problem you have only option to compromise because there are family and society pressure. So there are less divorce rate, whereas in love marriage if the youngesters didn't find their match with maturity and only on the basic of money, look etc. Then at a time they became unable to handle their relationship and get divorced, here divorce rate are high because there are no family or society pressure. As many people have pointed out the divorce rate very aggressively so I want to tell them that if in love marriage divorce rate is high then in arrange marriage death rate due to dowery can't be ignored. And another big problem comes in arrange marriage is for girls as they are not on their feet and they are tought by their parents that after marriage the house of her husband and his family is everything for her they can't return to their parental home, so hey suffer the most in any type of problem. So I think divorce is better option than to suffer. So if you will chhose your partner wisely and with maturity surely it will last forever whether it is love or arrange.

Thanks.

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Nisha said: (Sep 10, 2016)  
LOVE marriage is the biggest failure because young generation treats physical attraction as LOVE. A genuine case of a LOVE affair is very less around 20%. Remaining 80% just want to satisfy their physical needs, once that over LOVE affair is over.

That's why People are afraid of LOVE marriages and opting for ARRANGE marriages, and they are more successful than LOVE marriages because people are ready for commitment, compromise. That's why ARRANGE marriage success rate is 80%.

Marriage is a very big responsibility which requires commitment, compromise.

So nowadays ARRANGE marriage is better.

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Raton Roy said: (Sep 9, 2016)  
As my point of view, love marriage is better than the arranged marriage because in love marriage there is nothing any caste discrimination, dowry problems, any feelings about rich or poor. Fair or unfair etc. There is only trust, care, like the handle, belief, mutual understanding etc. Which are generally absent in arranged marriage. It happens really you just think about it how could it.

Possible within a short period of time like 2 months or maximum 6 months. It impossible to know about an unknown person. Then misunderstanding, divorce, disturbances in married life so many problems will arise. That's why love marriage should be 1st choice for both the girls and boys.

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Ankit Raj said: (Sep 8, 2016)  
I think love marriage is not success long life because 90% young do love to see their beauty. And not see their behaviour. So I can say that arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

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Gowtham said: (Sep 7, 2016)  
According to me, the difference between the love marriage and arrange marriage is, in love marriage the couple will jumps down in to the well by opening their eyes. But in case of arrange marriage the couple jumps down in to the well by closing their eyes. But even arrange marriage will get some support from parents. So from my view, arrange marriage is better one.

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Charmi said: (Sep 1, 2016)  
Love marriages are a very good thing but carefully guys your parents will not hear of your decision.

If your parents agree then a good thing do marriage.

Also, arrange marriage is good but take the time to understand to each other after marriage.

But in this scenario couples are not given sometimes for relation.

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Chetan Sanjay Nehere said: (Sep 1, 2016)  
Love or arranged, it is important to do it with the support of your parent's, relatives and society.

Everyone's view should be considered & no one should be left behind for our relation. If everyone supports you that's the right time and right person to get marry.

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Shivani said: (Aug 31, 2016)  
Please do not compare attraction with LOVE.

TRUE LOVE (base of successful marriage) is trust, commitment, honesty, give each other lots of room, compromise, forgive and forget, Do not try to change each other, loyalty.

These things are not present in LOVE affairs because people treat attraction as LOVE. That's why LOVE Marriage failure rate is very high. People get blind due to LOVE and not able to see anything except this, their eyes open after marriage and hence divorce rate is as high as 80%.

In ARRANGE Marriage these things are present at least 70-80% cases. So success rate of ARRANGE MARRIAGE is very high.

If you are not ready for commitment, compromise, do not marry, otherwise, you will destroy the life of two people.

The main thing in the failure of marriage is that people are not ready to compromise due to their ego.

That's why ARRANGE MARRIAGE are more Successful than LOVE Marriages.

So I will go For ARRANGE MARRIAGE because I am old fashion.

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Nisha Sharma said: (Aug 31, 2016)  
People who are claiming that LOVE marriage is better, that is not actual LOVE that is just attraction happens at a young age. Not all people are serious about marriage after LOVE affairs, hardly 10-20 % are serious about marriage. Remaining 80 % just want a physical relationship.

You can know someone's like/dislike in 6 month time also, the main thing required for successful marriage is a commitment, trust, honesty, compromise.

Nowadays arrange marriage are not like old fashion forced marriage, you have enough time before marriage to understand each other, at least 1 year.

So, NO difference between LOVE and ARRANGE marriage.

The main thing is to be with the right person it does not better LOVE or ARRANGE Marriage.

But I am completely against LOVE marriages, Because nowadays TRUE LOVE is very rare, everything is about a physical relationship.

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Mr. Subodh said: (Aug 31, 2016)  
In my opinion, love marriage is beating option because of they both know to each other, they manage how to live life, they even know their likes dislikes what they want everything they know. "commitment " they already discuss about their life even they discuss about their parent's life. They will free to take their decision.

But in arrange marriage the girls don't gets chance to decide.

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Saranya said: (Aug 30, 2016)  
My opinion is both marriages equally likes and dislikes. Increases love and care both of trust each other. The secret of life adjustment and commitment. Either it will be a love or arrange marriages who makes real our life fully filled with happiness.

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Rasmhi said: (Aug 30, 2016)  
First tell me what is LOVE?

TRUE LOVE is Honesty, Respect, Loyalty towards your life partner, which is almost zero in LOVE affairs. 3-4 out of 100 love affair is genuine.

I will tell you one thing people who are doing ARRANGED marriages at least 60 % belongs from good family background, and their parents had taught them how to behave with your life partner after marriage, That's why ARRANGE marriage are very very successful(at least 60-70% are very successful).

In LOVE marriage this percentage is around 10%.

If you need live examples, in USA 99% marriages are LOVE marriage and 80% are a failure, its truth.

Indian are following a western culture that's why divorce cases and rape cases are increasing in INDIA.

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Shilpi said: (Aug 30, 2016)  
TRUE LOVE does not exist nowadays, everything is about money and etc, and I have seen many cases in my circle with 80% of LOVE marriage are failed.

True LOVE is very rare 5 %. 4-5 cases out of 100.

So, girls think 1000 times before getting into a relationship with some random guy. Always do marriage in the known family.

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Shilpa said: (Aug 30, 2016)  
In my opinion, arranged marriages are more successful than love marriage. When a parent finds guys for her daughter, he will always choose the best for her. We might something take wrong decision for our life so we are not the best persons to choose. Few ages before, there would be some two to three cases of love marriages and the word divorce was never heard but nowadays it has become a common thing. By this, we can understand how successful is a love marriage.

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Pooja Thakur said: (Aug 30, 2016)  
TRUE LOVE does not exist Nowadays, everything is about money and physical attraction, and I have seen many cases in my circle. 80% of LOVE marriage are failed.

True LOVE is very rare (5/100).

So, girls think 1000 times before getting into a relationship with some random guy. Always do marriage in the known family.

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Ankita said: (Aug 29, 2016)  
People are saying LOVE marriage is very good, But truth is that LOVE does not exist nowadays its very rare.

Todays LOVE is all about MONEY and physical attraction.

So I do not believe in LOVE marriage at all.

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Ankit Suman Sharma said: (Aug 29, 2016)  
What I saw in life make me feel that the arranged marriage are more successful than the love marriage. But according to my personal thinking love marriages may be more fruitful than arrange marriages, because it is very important to know our partner whom we want to spend the whole life with, which is not possible many times in arranging marriages. In love marriage, we met people first met as a friend and get time and opportunity to know like and dislike of his/her. But in arrange marriage most of the time we don't come across the others idea effectively and the life becomes boredom also many times a lifetime contract.

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Himanshi said: (Aug 29, 2016)  
I think arranged marriage is better than love marriage. Nowadays no true love exists basically I love you word become a mathematical equation where I love is constant and you is variable.

I think our parents choose the best person for us. Nowadays Love only for a physical relationship.

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Nisha said: (Aug 29, 2016)  
To all whether you are doing LOVE or ARRANGED MARRIAGE do in a known family. Nowadays there are many cases of harassment in both LOVE and ARRANGE Marriages.

LOVE marriage is very very risky nowadays. My one of a friend had LOVE marriage 1 year back, after marriage her husband asked for DOWRY of 15 lakhs. She was in a huge depression and finally she suicided.

There are many such cases in LOVE marriages.REAL LOVE does not exist. So stay away from LOVE marriages.

At least ARRANGE Marriages done in the known family are successful.

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Anshika said: (Aug 28, 2016)  
From my point of view, both the love and the arrange marriage will only be successful if both the person are honest and trustworthy to each other and if both gives equal respect to each other.

A marriage is a beautiful bond that is created by god. It's a changing point of every person's life. A pure relationship which was sometimes broken by dowry or some misunderstanding or by any other complications.

In arranged marriage, your parents simply choose your life partner and in love marriage you choose your life partner by yourself. But both requires HONEST, RESPECT, TRUTH, ASSURANCE.

Whether it is love or arranged, a marriage will only be successful if both the person become loyal to each other.

Thank You.

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Neha said: (Aug 28, 2016)  
It's not just about love marriage or arrange marriage. It's only thing required for a successful companionship is "trust". True lovers do exist. Though rare.

Not necessarily all arrange marriages come with a tag of being successful even they don't have a tag. So for me better knowing your partner is important either love or arranged.

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Naga Kamesh said: (Aug 28, 2016)  
Hai friends. I've observed your ideas. Friends let me tell you one thing. People say 80% of love marriages are getting divorced. Why you can't say 20% of love marriages are successful. It seems like many of you are negative minded. Well, I support love marriages. Because it is the only way one can get a complete understanding on another. So that he/she is true, loyal, respectful, critic, funny to their partner. Another point is love is not a lust. It is a great feeling. Love gives the courage. So whether it is intercaste or anything you can convince the parents and you can say that he/she is the right (not perfect) partner of mine. Your parents also feel relaxed because you already found a partner. So there are no more worries. Thank you.

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Pankaj said: (Aug 26, 2016)  
Nowadays before ARRANGE MARRIAGE you have enough time to understand each other. So technically there is no difference between LOVE and ARRANGE Marriage.

Todays LOVE is about physical attraction, that's the main reason of the failure of marriage whether LOVE or ARRANGED Marriage.

If TRUST, HONESTY, RESPECT is the base of marriage any kind of marriage will be successful.

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Nisha said: (Aug 26, 2016)  
Some people is saying that do not do ARRANGE MARRIAGE with the person choose by your parents because they will die one day and go for LOVE marriage.

See the mindset of MODERN GENERATION, Today's LOVE is only for a physical attraction.

According to me, LOVE is trust and honesty with your life partner, whether it is LOVE or ARRANGE MARRIAGE.

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Sunil said: (Aug 26, 2016)  
Modern generation thinks that they have been with some person for 2 years, so this is LOVE. This is just an attraction and this is natural. Are you 100% sure that person is not pretending in front of you?

He is real, No 80% of person do not show their actual face because they want to impress you.

True LOVE is Trust, Honesty, Respect.

It does not matter LOVE or ARRANGE MARRIAGE.

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Arun said: (Aug 26, 2016)  
Some people are saying that LOVE marriage is very good because you know likes/dislikes with each other .

Nowadays you have at least 1 year for arranging a marriage before marriage you will know with each other, so there is no difference.

TRUE definition of LOVE : TRUST, HONESTY, RESPECT.

MODERN Generation definition of love : Only physical attraction

TRUE LOVE Is respect, trust, it does not matter whether LOVE or ARRANGE Marriage.

Some people are telling that in LOVE marriage people are very compatible with each other. But it's not true.

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Prashant said: (Aug 26, 2016)  
Some people are saying ARRANGE marriage people stay together because of social pressure its true, because marriage is all about ARRANGEMENT, COMMITMENT, TRUST. If you do not have social pressure, we will see 60-70% divorce cases.

Today LOVE is about physical factors only, See around you how many LOVE Marriage is successful.

Because there is no social pressure in case of LOVE marriage hence 80% Love marriage are fail.

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Ravidu said: (Aug 26, 2016)  
Love marriage is better than Arranged marriage definitely there is no argument about it! Arranged marriages in India becomes successful due to social and cultural pressure, however the times of such pressure of society has come to slowly die since men and women have started to stand up for their rights to choose, those who say arranged marriages are great are the people who are either lazy to get a partner or simply spineless.

And with the right understanding and the commitment I think love marriage could be very successful even if it out of religion or caste or the boundaries what matter is the commitment to understand to work things out, Love can really win when you become humble enough to understand, however when it comes to two religions it is important to accept each other's faith and respect and make sure the children's religions are decided. Love should be used as an element of strength in a relationship that the key to the success of many interracial and inter-religious success marriages.

And people who show stats saying that arranged marriage is successful are saying the truth but the truth behind that fact is that religious pressure and cultural pressure forces men and women to be together however in case of love marriages since society demotes them they are highly demotivated and end up losing hope on each other, which is the sad reality.

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Yash said: (Aug 26, 2016)  
I have seen some of the answers here and most of the people here seem to be like having no mind of their own. So let me clear something up first.

Yes, parents are important. They give us everything. They give us our childhood. However, as you progress in life, you become wise enough to decide what's suitable for you. That's the whole point of growing up. I WILL NEVER SUPPORT A PERSON WHO SAYS THEY'RE GOING TO GO WITH THEIR PARENTS' DECISION OF ARRANGE MARRIAGE. Why? Simple. Because you're refusing to stand up for yourself. You're refusing to speak up for your right to be happy, just so that you don't offend them. In other words, you're a coward. You don't respect yourself. Living your life means you have to be brave enough to make certain choices which may do you good but others may not be pleased. It's a part of growing up.

Also, consider this, your parents won't live forever. Eventually, they'll die and then you'll be stuck with the life partner they chose for you. What if that person turns out to be the wrong one? Obviously, in the majority of cases of arrange marriage, people don't know each other. They get married, they sleep together and then have a child. In most cases, there's no love. How would there be? You don't know the simplest things about your partner. You don't know what they like, you don't know what they dislike etc. People stick together just because of societal pressure so many times. My mother is a prime example of this.

And then, in the end, you end up hating yourself for not having the guts to speak up. Regret is all that's left.

However, I won't bash arrange marriages entirely, because plenty of them are also successful. Still like I said, in a traditional Indian society, the majority of arranged marriage couples stay together just because of the societal pressure and ostracization of windows. There's no denying it.

Love marriages on the other hand, by the definition of love of the current generation, are bound to failures. Physical attraction and popularity are considered the chief factors to marry someone by many immature and unwise youngsters. The mistake lust for love, hence it doesn't work.

To summarize it, what people need to do is to set their priorities and speak up for their rights. Trying to keep everyone around you happy only ends up with you being the saddest one. So, take a stand.

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Prashant said: (Aug 24, 2016)  
Both ARRANGE and LOVE Marriage are risky nowadays. In my friend circle, most of my friends had love marriages, out of 50% are divorced in the 4-5 year after marriage.

Now-a-days LOVE is about physical factors

Same case with Arrange marriage, Dowry is main cause of failure in ARRANGE marriage.

Better Choice is to be SINGLE.

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Nisha said: (Aug 24, 2016)  
Modern generation answer LOVE (attraction/lust) marriage is better because you know each other's likes/dislikes.

Likes/dislikes are not a base for marriage TRUST, HONESTY, RESPECT is the base of marriage, whether it is LOVE or ARRANGE marriage.

We cannot say which one is better LOVE or ARRANGED MARRIAGE.

In the US 99 % of marriages are LOVE marriages and 80% people take divorce in a 5-7 year, the same case in INDIA 80% love marriage are a failure.

ARRANGE marriage is also failure due to dowry issue.

SO better choice is that marry in a relative circle, whether LOVE or ARRANGED.

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Prabhakar Sarvepalli said: (Aug 23, 2016)  
Hey guys, most of you people are sticky on only one side of the discussion. Let me figure out PROBLEMS (not advantages) with both kind of marriages.

Love Marriage:

Frankly speaking most of we guys about 70% in this modern era, doesn't know how to choose the correct partner by expressing LOVE.

Definitely, most of us start loving, by perceiving physical factors of the partner. You have to realize on this point.

Say straight from your heart, the above point is wrong, you never. Many cases, first love starts from persons physical attractions.

Why we people are thinking like that. Here is the challenge let me pose you. Look your surroundings and friends, and observe boys are discussing girls - hey I have got my girlfriend who is so beautiful,

And from girls side - hey he so beautiful and from a rich background, 75% of statements are you getting like this. NO DOUBT on this point.

It is hard to find people who are getting love with the partners who doesn't look fair. I am not saying this is VALID in all the cases, but in all major cases this is the actual situation, keep on discussing the topic will not yet to complete, let me wrap up this.

Final conclusion over the Love marriage : Girls don't fell in love if you fell don't leave and betray boys. Most of the boys are wandering as mad because of LOVE FAILURE. For you girls, this situation will never happen.

ARRANGED MARRIAGE:.

The first and foremost point here I am bringing is WHY parents are searching for partners to their boy/girl from their own caste or religion.

It is hard to arrange marriages who mix up two religions by making a marriage. An example can you people spot out a Hindu family can make a marriage with a Muslim, never. This kind of STEREOTYPES should be popped out from our mindsets.

And the second one, why parents from girls side have to give money for boys side. Is marriage is a business proposal that you have to fix up it within COFEEDAY.

Keep on saying the points will go on, let me wrap up this.

Final conclusion: if you find arranged marriages that are never asking DOWRY, you can proceed. Else don't be stuck on this side.

Hope you all get the clarity.

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Pooja said: (Aug 23, 2016)  
Modern generation answer LOVE (attraction/lust) marriage is better because you know each other's likes/dislikes.

Likes/dislikes are not a base for marriage TRUST, HONESTY, RESPECT is the base of marriage, whether it is LOVE or ARRANGE marriage.

Some people are saying that if your parents are not ready run away with your lover. For 1-2 year of the relationship, you will break your 25-year relationship. Peoples who can break the 25-year relationship with parents, how they can be loyal to their life partner?

Do not hurt your parents, they always try to do best for their children.

You can know each other likes/dislikes after marriage also, marriage is about adjustment, commitment.

Nowadays LOVE is about the physical ability.

So I do not believe in LOVE marriage.

I will do marriage where my parents will decide because they are my life.

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Akash said: (Aug 23, 2016)  
In my opinion, marriage is a stage where a new life begins, we should remember one thing, people must know about the two marriage, if you choose an arranged marriage, you are not bothered about any girl/boy around you for love or any physical attraction, you should see him /her as a friend, when your marriage comes your parents will decide and take a decision and find a partner for you, so you are happy for the marriage, but after the marriage he /she show the real face to you, maybe it is good or bad, you don't know what kind of a partner you have got, maybe you are not happy with him/her, love exist only when your partner feels you happy and respect and behavior, if this is not getting from him /her you are in a big trouble, that is the problem of arrange marriage, but if you choose love marriage, you and you are loved will know each other, there will create a happiness and respect, behavior, should be trustful for each other, only a loved couple know's the real feel of love, let me say it some kind of MADNESS, it only ends when you marry, At the time when your parents are searching for a partner, you must tell them you find a perfect partner, and he/she is better for you, and also tell them, you will be always happy when you marry your loved partner, this is my opinion about marriage.

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Ayushi said: (Aug 22, 2016)  
In my view love as well as arrange marriages both are equally good provided you move ahead in your life with a complete sense of trust and faith on your partner. In my view couples who move ahead on the path of love, marriages should firstly let their parents know about their decision and should move ahead only after their blessings, because blessings of parents are very important for a happy married life.

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Arun Mano said: (Aug 22, 2016)  
I support for love marriage.

Somehow after marriage the girl leaves her home and joins the groom family where they spend rest of their lives. If they had loved each other the girl can feel the grooms home as hers and be happy.

In love marriage you know the person and what he is capable of. If you love someone and your family says no. Please don't worry about them go on continue to marry your loved one. They are your family and they will accept after they see both of you spend your lives happily.

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Karthik Karthii said: (Aug 21, 2016)  
In my opinion, both love marriages and arranged marriages are good. It depends upon the situations which to choose. Mainly parental bond, the personality of the partner we have chosen or our person, etc as said above. But the main thing we have to keep in mind is that we should not hurt our parents. They are the reason for what we are now today and also remember that we will be parents someday. So those who love their parents can only keep their partners happy.

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Arun said: (Aug 21, 2016)  
Nowadays Marriage is very risky.

Nowadays LOVE is about a physical ability , and you can not predict person in your 1-2 year of the relationship, he/she will not show his/her actual face because they want to impress you.

If you know some person from 5-6 year only then go for LOVE marriage.

My 6 friends had love marriages, out of that 3 already divorced within 3 years of marriage, any they had paid 5-10 Lakh as compensation to the girl, so think properly before going for any kind of marriage.

Otherwise do ARRANGE marriage, but not outside your relative circle.

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Royal said: (Aug 21, 2016)  
Hello, boys and girls.

I prefer for love marriage because in that case there is one reason in arrange marriage you never know with whom you have to marry, afterward, problems starts in that case you prefer for love than you know his likes/or unlike. When a person in love then he will never hide (any problem etc).

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Avnish Kumar Sharma said: (Aug 19, 2016)  
I think love marriage is best when it Become arrange marriage.

Because when we fall in love we don't see his/her cast or family background etc. But we love only him/her.

We want to spend our whole life with her. But this love can't be successful without trust and honesty.

Nowadays in many cases boys or girls don't think about their parent's respect. But get marry with his/her love against for their families. It is really bad because if we can't make happy our parents then how can make happy that person who come in our life before some time.

Actually, in love marriage, we already know each other and care. But the real love does not exist now a day.

So.

I think to arrange marriage is best because our family is with us in all conditions.

Our family searches the best life partner for us.

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Khushbu Bharti said: (Aug 17, 2016)  
Hello everyone,

According to me, love marriages and arrange marriages both are good and risky. Because it depends on our luck and nature of human beings.

I think love means trust, honesty, and respect towards yours life pattern either it's love marriage or arrange marriage because sometimes some people fall in love or marrying with his/her only for because she/he is beautiful/handsome and sexy but then what happen marriage is not successful because he/she will not show his/her actual face.

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Gourav said: (Aug 17, 2016)  
I think love marriage is the best because a girl and boy we know very well to each other and his/her family also.

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Ankita said: (Aug 16, 2016)  
Both LOVE (Attraction) and ARRANGE marriage are same, you have to adjust with your life partner after marriage.

So there is no difference.

Understand each other, respect each other, trust each other, love will happen automatically whether it is love or arrange marriage.

Today's generation thinks that I have been with this person for 1 or 2 years, I am in love, that does not love that is just an attraction, happens at a young age, its natural addiction.

So become financially stable before thinking about this nonsense (LOVE), because if you are financially not stable marriage is like hell, you will fight on small things and finally, divorce.

True Love is respecting each others feeling, trust each other. If you follow this no one breaks your marriage.

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Sxaqina said: (Aug 15, 2016)  
Love each other than you'll get the happiness as you wish whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage. Actually, I am only 18 years girl. And I don't have any problem towards and arrange marriage and love marriage.

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Sneha said: (Aug 13, 2016)  
Nowadays arrange and love marriage both are same. In arrange marriage nowadays so have enough time to understand each other before marriage.

If you marrying someone because she is very beautiful and sexy then marriage will not be successful.

Whether it is love or arrange marriage you both should be financially good before going into a relationship, Because in this world without money you are nothing, you even can not afford food.

There is the difference between real life and movies. Love is not going to give free food, the basic requirement of life.

REAL LOVE is trust, honesty, and respect toward your life partner.

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Achira said: (Aug 12, 2016)  
I really don't have much knowledge in the percentile of failure or success of the love or arrange marriage. As per my feelings, I believe that the marriage may be love or arranged, its successful continuity mainly based on the trust, respect, and love for the partner.

I am quite in tune with the others who have said that in arrange marriage basically the payslip, looks, family background rules the main factor, but these things are not going to work for having a partner who truly loves you and Love marriage also don't portray a positive background if the partner is chosen based on the looks and personality. We all live on earth and under earth we can't get the absolute security in the worldly measure. Suppose some accident may happen and your partner may lose his job, the assets in worse cases he may lose his physical ability. Then if our starting based on this thing like money, looks, security then the whole relationship will surely face a big question. But if it will be based on love and respect on each other it will last. So I believe that whether it may a love or arrange marriage you both should be financially sound before going into a relation and should be in love with the person's all kind of feelings not with the thought of loving him.

Start the journey with the respect, come with love, and continue it with trust. I think this will be the only key to have a successful marriage. Whether it is arranged or loved.

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Shivani Thummar said: (Aug 11, 2016)  
Love marriage is better because he/she know that which things are he/she likes, they know everything about each other.

In love marriage person has enough time to understand each other.

I believe in love marriage because after marriage girls move to other families, at least she knows that one person whom she trusts will surely support in any conditions.

As per my view love marriage is best.

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Jayanth said: (Aug 11, 2016)  
As per my opinion both love and arrange marriages are Good.

Because we have to understand our coming life partner. We should not see that love or arrange. We have to understand.

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Neha said: (Aug 10, 2016)  
Both LOVE and ARRANGE are risky nowadays. Both depend on upon luck.

You cannot know the person in 1-2 person in a love relationship, he/she will not show his/her actual face. You will come to know their face after marriage. Please do not compare the physical appearance with LOVE.

The Same case is with ARRANGE Marriage.

After marriage both marriages are same. You have to adjust with your partner.

So do not marry outside your relatives circles whether it is LOVE or arranged marriage. You can not.

Predict someone in a 1-2 year.

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Nandhu said: (Aug 9, 2016)  
I thought Indian parents especially mothers fight with the girl that they found for their boy. Is that really necessary if the girl they found for their boy was perfect? This happens in 90% of the family.

Also, I don't know why people say people who do love marriage only go for the physical appearance like in arranged marriage looks don't matter at all.

In arrange marriage, it is Looks + money + parents support where money and parents support has more importance.

In love marriage, looks + personality (depends on the person) and no parents support and possibly no money. So love marriage eventually fall.

Still arranged marriage is just about luck. If you're lucky you will get person perfect for you. If you are unlucky then you won't.

Which girl/boy would want an ugly person as their mate even before knowing their personality?

Anyway, it's all about your luck.

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Neha Singh said: (Aug 8, 2016)  
True love is respected each others feeling, trust each other. So marriage based on this is 100% successful.

Today's Love is based on physical appearance. So the failure of LOVE marriage is high.

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Pooja said: (Aug 8, 2016)  
Today's love is based on physical appearance. So marriage based on this will fail 100%. Hardly 1-2 cases out of 10 are genuine. That's why LOVE marriage is the biggest failure.

ARRANGE marriage also failure is there but not that much. People are telling that you do not have enough time to understand each other, nowadays in arrange marriage also you have enough time to understand each other at least 1 year before marriage.

You will not get 100% compatible person whether it is love marriage or arranged marriage.

So for a successful marriage, you need to adjust with each other, trust each other.

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Ajay said: (Aug 8, 2016)  
Some jokers are telling that LOVE marriage is very good as compare to ARRANGE Marriage.

Marriage is about adjustment, commitment, respect.

People are saying arrange marriages happen in the rural area only. Go check the fact first, 90% of marriage are still arranged in India. Still, 60-70% of marriage in an urban area is also arranged.

Can anyone define LOVE?

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Prashant Singh said: (Aug 8, 2016)  
People who are saying 80% gets a divorce in LOVE marriage I have few things to say.

1. You accept it or not people who do arrange marriages are mostly from Rural (no proper education) area and most of them helpless and cannot stand against their husband who is exploiting or torturing them.

2. These women do not have much knowledge of divorce who ends up staying with his husband unwillingly or kill herself if she can\'t tolerate.

3. The women in the rural area also do not have any option if she is leaving her husband's house that is either because of the society or because of the habit of being dependent on her husband for food.

4. They are many women in arrange marriage who is staying with his husband unwillingly so that the life of their children are not off the track.

5. These are the few things which are the main reason why people (arrange marriage) hesitate to go for divorce and due to which the divorce rate is low in case of arrange marriage.

I had already given my below Thought in Favor of LOVE Marriage.

1. There are many advantages in love marriage like the couples know each other well in advance, they are familiar with their likes and dislikes which help them in adjusting to each other in the long run.

2. People do not do love, it happens automatically. Love does not see caste, religion or race which helps them in learning one another's culture or religion.

3. There are more chances of asking Dowry in arrange marriage. If not dowry they called it a gift, which is we can say is 0 in the case of love marriage. In rural areas (also some part of urban) an unborn daughter is killed because of the fear of dowry in future.

4. It is always better to blame oneself rather than blaming one's parents in case of failure of marriage, which serve the purpose of love marriage.

5. Another advantage is already given above by the people like Trust, compatibility, etc.

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Prityush Raj said: (Aug 7, 2016)  
In my opinion, marriage is all about love, care, respect. It depends on the couple, if the couple truly loves each other then both the marriage is considered better. But at the end of the day, I would strongly favour love marriage because considering the merits love marriage has more merits. The partners personally know each other their small things what they like and what they dislike. So accordingly they try to adjust to each other. Keeping aside all merits and demerits and just fully focusing on love which acts as a force which binds the couple before marriage in case of love marriage. But in arrange marriage it could be that the couple may not love each other and have to stay in the relationship just becaue they are married.

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Tamana said: (Aug 7, 2016)  
Arrange marriage is better because your parents won't choose a wrong person for yourself and both of them would get time to know each other before their marriage also.

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A Kid said: (Aug 7, 2016)  
It's always better to try to have a "loved arranged marriage" rather than a love marriage or arranged marriage. Before falling in love someone, thoroughly check their background including cast, financial condition etc.

If you think your family won't accept a girl or boy from other casts never try to fall in love with the person.

Also, you should have a clear concept about a girl or boy you love. Don't just love someone because of their looks but if you are bothered with the looks try to get the person with right personality and looks. There are lots of girls who friend zone guys just because they think that they are not their type. Consider what happens if that girl marries the type guy like that. She will be stuck with him for their rest of their life. Also for people who tells divorce rates are high in America and not in India its only because of our society. Most couples just don't divorce because thinking of their children and it will be solved with time and help from people who are close to us but in America, they just divorce and marry a new person. Instead of trying to solve the problem.

If you go for arranged marriage, although you will only get to know the personality and financial condition but it doesn't mean that the person is perfect for you. If you think every boy in the world is perfect for every girl then you are pretty stupid. Honestly, I don't like some of the girl's characters that I meet in real life. And I can assume most of the girls would not like the type of a guy like me too.

If I am a guy with average looks, the normal character the chance of a girl that will like me is just 50% in an arranged marriage. That means only 1 girl out of 2 girls can be happy at having me. If I marry the other girl she will end up being sad. But with time nearly all of the arranged marriage will only end up being good because when someone is made to spend time with another person for a long time they will eventually start to like each other. This what that keep arranged marriage being successful. But if the girl or boy meet with some other guy which was perfect they start liking the other person. It takes a lot of time and by the time you will miss all of your love life.

No parent will say no to a love marriage if they are ok with the financial condition and cast. But it's extremely hard to find a person like that with all of this religion BS. We have three religions and this religion is again divided into numerous sub-caste so you have to choose from 5-10 girl/boy from every 100 girls/boys. Also, you have to find someone perfect for you and that person have to love you also.

Even if that happens there are only a few guys have sensed what their future would be. If they don't work well during their studies they will end up losing them because of their financial condition.

In a nutshell. Love marriage is always good as long as you don't hurt your parents or yourself. If you want to make your life happy then find someone which you think both of the families are ok with. Then all the guy have to do is work hard, get a good job and request her parents for marrying her to you and it will be all fine.

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Suraj Mitra said: (Aug 7, 2016)  
In love marriage both of them know that what his/her partner likes to do, what to eat, and many other things and a big thing is that if in future they both get divorced then it's not their fault of their parents or elders fault and if there the fault would be of their parents like in arrange marriage they will say that for their parents their Lyf became hell and we don't see us just see others mistake but in love marriage it's fault of yours, not your parents or elders and you will regret that and it's better.

The many have different opinion but it's better to regret your mistake then your parents mistake, and even the I respect both arrange and love marriage but if do you do something for your partner then she will be happy because you know what does she really wants and what make their partner happy and they will do that. So its better but if in arrange marriage if you do something to impress her then also something get missed even what you brought he/she doesn't like that so better to know that and ups and downs are there in every relationship in arranging and even in love but we should not leave our partner and marriage is a meeting of two souls so better ko keep happy your partner either it may be love or arrange.

Thank you.

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Maneesha said: (Aug 7, 2016)  
Hai everyone.

In my point of view, both have same values. We cannot say directly and firmly this is the best one. Because it depends on love. As we are seeing many cases in news channels. Recently the issue had come that was about Madhurima who is one of the popular folk singer I think you might be heard about her. We cannot say this is good or this is bad. Every relationship bond with love only. When there is a love then there is a strong relationship. First of all, there should be love between them. It's not only matter whether it is a love marriage or arranged marriage.

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Ankita said: (Aug 6, 2016)  
I request everyone do not support LOVE marriages in India, Because of this western culture divorce cases are very high in India, 90% of love marriage are the failure in the India. You see around you hardly 2 cases out of 10 are successful or very successful.

ARRANGE marriage is not gambled as some people are saying in this discussion if you choose your partner inside your relative circle Because it is very important to know the background of boy/girl and his family before marriage.

In your 1-2 year of your love (Lust nowadays) relationship, you cannot know the background of boy/girl or his family, that's why LOVE marriage are the failure in India, because in India so have to adjust with boys family.

For some idiots who is saying love marriage are very good, In USA, UK, Europe 99% marriages are LOVE marriage and 80 % ends up in divorce in a maximum 5-7 year. The bitter truth of LOVE marriage.

If you still want to go for LOVE marriage it's your wish.

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Pooja said: (Aug 6, 2016)  
In my point of view, arranged marriages better than love marriages. In love marriages they are trying to impress each other, so you can not see his/her original face. That is the reason behind the failure of LOVE marriage in the world. Hardly 1-2 love marriage out of 10 are genuine, remaining is sex or lust based.

After arranged marriage, they have full time to understand and fall in love each other. Arranged marriage is best because our parents choose our partner after checking the background of boy/girl.

That is must thing for Marriage.

Modern generation says I am in love with boy/girl from 1-2 year. Are you 100 % sure that person is good for you when you are attracted towards someone you are not able to judge him? So stop saying this nonsense that LOVE marriage is good.

Marriage is Adjustment, arrangement commitment.

Real Love : Respect your partner, listen to him/her.

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Neha said: (Aug 6, 2016)  
In my point of view, arranged marriage is better than love marriages. In love marriages they are trying to impress each other, so you can not see their original face. So LOVE marriage is a failure. In my friend circle, almost every second love marriage has been failed.

After arranged marriage, they have a full time to understand and fall in love each other. Arranged marriage is best because a parent decides best for us after checking the background of his/her family.

Are you 100 % sure that person you has to choose yourself is best for you, because when you are attracted toward somebody, you are not in a position to judge him/her, you will try to impress him/her?

So my suggestion does not do marriage outside your relatives circle because you cannot know the nature.

And the background of boy and girl.

Modern generation says I love with that boy or girl from 2 years. How can you understand someone in the 1-2 year, if you are not able to understand your parents in the 20-25 year?

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Nikki said: (Aug 4, 2016)  
I prefer a love marriage reason why is because I can't imagine having my family choose a husband for me I respect their opinions but I want to marry the man I love not the man I just met. I want to grow more in love with my husband not just have the fondness for him and become comfortable in settling. At the end of the day arrange marriages are a gamble if you get paired up with the right man your lucky but if you're not so lucky all I can say to you is be ready to be miserable.

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Sai said: (Aug 3, 2016)  
In my point of view, arranged marriages better than love marriages. In love marriages they are trying to impress each other. After arranged marriage they have full time to understand and fall in love each other. Arranged marriage is best.

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Rakhi Rawat said: (Aug 3, 2016)  
Love marriage is batter than arranged marriage because in love marriage when a girl and boy lives each other without any condition and are ready to spend whole life together. Love is a beautiful filling parent don't talk about dowry. Most love affairs starts with friendship.

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Nikhil said: (Aug 3, 2016)  
As my point of view, Marriage is important in our life. In arrange marriage. People search for a better person. Well educated, Beauty, Good or bad, etc. We are searching for a better future. It's a business thing. But in love, we understand each other well. The way of living.

True love makes life happier than a business life. That too, true love should be on both sides. It's not like one is having true love. And the another one is blindly going on. It won't work.

So. Love someone who makes uh complete person. By this. Values. I support love marriage. That too true love on both sides.

Thank you.

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Suparna Kushwaha said: (Aug 3, 2016)  
In my opinion, both marriages are best whether it is love marriage or arranged marriage. They both have their own merits and demerits. A relationship only works when there is the mutual understanding among couples. They do support, love, care, respect each other. These are the basic ingredient of marriage. A healthy relationship only exists when there is communication between them. Communicate to know their likes dislikes, hobbies, what they want from each other because marriage is not for some time it for the life time. There is someone who always be with you, to support, to care for you. There is an old saying that behind every successful men there is a woman so it be reverse behind every successful woman there is a man. Then marriage gonna worth it.

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Nidhi said: (Aug 2, 2016)  
In love marriage, people know each other from at least a year in which they know their fault's and are ready to marry them with those fault and stay happy.

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Dileep said: (Aug 2, 2016)  
Hi friends,

My name is Dileep from Karimnagar.

I would you like to share some knowledge on arranged marriages-vs-love marriages.

According to my point of view, both marriages are very good.

This kind of marriages mutual understanding is place a big important role in a love marriages couples or arranged marriages couples.

If there understanding good they can lives very good with the complete family.

Some {lovers} people think like this parent are not supports for love marriages, my point of view every parent always support their children's at one stage.

Lovers went outside from the house, getting to ready their love marriages before to do that think a one minute about your parents. Thank you.

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Harinathreddy C said: (Aug 2, 2016)  
As per my thought, Arranged marriages are good and also the love marriages better sometimes.

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Deepak Khattana said: (Jul 31, 2016)  
The one and only thing which makes the marriage successful is that a person who decides to marry is an earning person. And the second thing is that he has the power and capability to make his partner happy. Now nothing is matter either it is love or arranged marriage. My elder brother married in 1998 with his lover through court marriage. My parents also accepted both of them. But today we facing a problem from the side of our community. They people refuses us they ignore me and my sisters for marriage. So now I completely decide to go for love marriage. If this is our culture then I don't care. Go for love marriage. East to west only love marriage is best.

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Pooja said: (Jul 30, 2016)  
I believe in ARRANGE Marriage because marriage is kind of arrangement/commitment only.

Some people will say this is old fashion, but I am OK with that.

Some people says in arrange marriage we do not have enough time to understand each other, fell in love with each other, do not worry you have the full life to understand and love each other.

Respect each other, understand each other, try to solve problems together, you will fall in love with each other forever. This is real love.

Once you are following above things, no one can break your marriage.

Sex is part of life, do not compare it with Real Love.

Today's LOVE is sex and lust, once this over your LOVE marriage is over. Because 90% of cases boy/girl attracted towards physical appearance, not toward his character. Hence failure rate of love marriage is above 80% in India.

So girls once think before taking some big step.

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Roshan said: (Jul 30, 2016)  
Hello friends,

In love marriage is understanding feelings of each other, that's life going to better in love marriage.

Love marriage didn't mean of attraction which means of belive in each other..

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Shanaya said: (Jul 29, 2016)  
Both the marriages will go wrong all will base upon our fate which is written by god. So don't worry love marriage or arranged. One day we will get married that's all be cool. God will know which is best for us.

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Sonu said: (Jul 29, 2016)  
Hi. In my point of view arrange marriages are more successful because in Arrange marriage we are happily blessed from our parents and relatives. And I think without blessings there is not anything that will success in our life. So parents blessings are most important as they are our god. So whether its love or arrange doesn't matter. Just the point is parents should not hurt by their children. If we will hurt our parent's god is also there to tell us what is right or wrong.

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Azad said: (Jul 28, 2016)  
Hello, all my dear friends.

I am here to share my view on both of marriages. According to me both are best and not good because both marriages have own merits and demerits. So in love marriage we know better that person with whom we spend our time. And some people canspeak easily love marriage is not good it is against with our culture, traditional and whatever. But who's fall in truth love. We called to them they are blind they cannot see their future it's happen only intercast or not equal in wealth with other. If Love marriage fail then there is only one reason and reason is misunderstanding and we cannot think for some time to take decision then we immediately take wrong decision and after some time we remorse. And comes to arrange marriage we can happly do it we increase our parents repect in our home, society, city, state, and whole world.

I think both marriages are good if there is an understanding among the couple.

Thanking you.

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