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|Sandhya said: (Aug 18, 2017)|
|In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage, because in love marriage, both partners are understand each other very well.|
|Chhaya Gupta said: (Aug 18, 2017)|
|According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love a couple can know to each other very much they can spend a lot of time with each other n they can understand each other and they can trust to each and they can decide what they have to do in their life n how they want to spend their life.|
|Sanju said: (Aug 17, 2017)|
|How they married is not a matter. The way they run thier life and mutual understanding between them makes life beautiful.|
|San said: (Aug 16, 2017)|
|I would prefer love marriage over arranged marriage. Its becasue in love marriages both the partners have known each other for years. And only after spending a lot of time with each other, they start getting comfortable with each other. Once they get comfortable with each other thay start to trust each other. For a marriage to be succesfull both the partners should have a good understanding of each other and should trust each other completely and that can only happen if they spend a lot of time with each other before getting married so that they can decide whether they really want to spend rest of their lives with each other or not. And not only in case of love marriages the partners also get time to know about each others family. Whereas in arranged marriage both the partners hardly get any time to meet and talk to each other. The only people who know each other are the family members of the partners and the partners who are going to spend rest of their life with each other haven't even talked to each other once. Many people may say that college love is infatuation, but not all of them are. And moreover in love marriages both partners try to know each other completely even their deep dark secrets whereas in arranged marriage one may not know how good or bad is the person whom he or she is getting married to, there are high chances of getting decieved by the partner's family members in order to hide something that may cause trouble ahead in their married life. In the end I would just like to say that love marriages have more advantages as compared to arranged marriage. So marry the person whom you love.|
|Priyanka Gupta said: (Aug 10, 2017)|
|According to my point of view, both love marriage and arranged marriage have good and bad aspect.
For a marriage to be successful, the main thing that is necessary are mutual understanding, love, affection, cooperation and trust. This is possible only when both partners understand each other in every way. This can be possible both in love as well as arranged marriage but it mainly depends on partners that how much they cooperate with each other. The thing is in love marriage, couples know each other well and build a good relationship and they go for marriage but in the case of arranged marriage, it takes time for couples.
In love marriage, partners can be sure that they can lead their life fruitfully or not but that's a question mark in case of arranged marriage.
We can't say that doing arranged marriage may create a happy family as our parents decide because we can see a number of family issues and dowry issues due to which both male and female both are being a victim and create a bad memory for several years. The Demand of dowry in arranged marriage is just like a curse to girls family. And for sure. Due to all these issues, neither couples nor family may create a good example of successful arrange marriage.
Love marriage is better than arranged one because the partners have a good understanding about themselves. They can do every work in a co-operative way. There's no issue of dowry at all and female and male both are never dominated, there's respect for each other. If couples respect themselves, then for sure they will respect each others family, culture and tradition. And if family love their child, they will respect their child choice and would be happy with their decision. Yes, but one thing should be kept in mind that if any couple go for marriage with their lover, parents decision should be given main priority because they sacrifice a lot for us throughout their life.
|Nandhu said: (Aug 8, 2017)|
|My point of view, love/arrange marriage is that I support both are correct. Because even in the arrange marriage love plays the vital role. Love during school are college divert concentration from studies and at that stage, we are not mature enough to decide good are bad. It's all just affection or infatuation which we consider it as a love.|
|Lokdeep Singh Patel said: (Aug 6, 2017)|
|In my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because many times they are immature about their married life & other things. But I don't neglect love because love is everywhere but understanding is better than love.|
|Pooja said: (Aug 4, 2017)|
|According to my point of view, Both types of marriages are right on their places because, basically marriage is the collaboration, union between two respective families which are combined by two people, the agreement between two families causes the new relationship between two people.
Basically arranged marriage is the tradition in our country. Where two unknown people are spending their lives together with the agreement of their respective families, tradition, nature. They spend their lives to gather. But at some point, if husband and wife's thoughts not matched then it will become the big issues between their families and it may affect on family, their tradition also and causes the end of the relationship.
|Noman Khan said: (Jul 31, 2017)|
In my point of view, there is no one who can say that the love marriage is better then arrange marriage or arrange marriage is better then love marriage. Because the success of married life is totally based on understanding if husband and wife understands each other very well then their married life will become heaven for them and similarly if they don't understand each other then their married life will surely become hell for both of them.
So if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should go for love marriage. And if you are failed to find then you should go for arrange marriage and let the god decide, may be god find someone very special for you.
But there is one another point that I want to focus here is that there are still some narrow minded people who consider love marriage a taboo.
They have to change their thinking because if you force someone to get married with whom they don't want to get married then it will destroy their life because how can they live their whole life with whom they don't love. That also happens in arrange marriage where parents force their children to marry without respecting their choice.
That's the area where are society needs to improve. Because now we are living in modern era where everyone has right to take decision of his/her life.
And at the end, I would like to say that it's the matter of love and love can be happen before marriage and also it can be happen after the marriage.
|Jagmohan Yadav said: (Jul 30, 2017)|
|According to me, arrange marriage better than love marriage because our family like arrange marriage but some people like love marriage I want to tell everybody arrange marriage give lot of benefit when I don't have a money I can giving money my father and I can tell my father I have a lot of problem in my life so please help me but love marriage is not good Because lot of problems our family does not agree love marriage so couples decided love marriage they have a lot of problems it's my.|
|Anamika said: (Jul 29, 2017)|
I read some comments but still confused.
I like arranged marriage where we get respect family support. In short, socially we feel positive.
But in other sides one of my best friends proposed me n we are having nice chemistry.
Even though I said no to him and now feeling restless. Can't see him with other girl and family expect settled guy.
So need your opinion. Should I go with love marriage with a friend or arrange marriage with a settled unknown guy.
|Adarsh Pandey said: (Jul 28, 2017)|
|Love marriage is far better than the arrange marriage because,
Normally, in love marriages, partners have their own mutual understanding and they know each other as well and that is the main point.
Parents can take our decisions but in others cases, because our parents is not going to live our life.
And another point is that parents always say that whatever they did in their life only for their child only for their happiness and if his/her child is happy to marry a girl to whom he knows very well then why not parents are ready to accept it.
This is the main thing I just want to say to you guys.
|Bilawal said: (Jul 28, 2017)|
|In my point of view,
Arrange and love marriage both are good in that situation if both boy and girl have understand to each other in better way.
|Ashish said: (Jul 28, 2017)|
We are discussing love marriage is better or arrange marriage. But in my opinion, both are good. Both have positive as well negative effects in life. So, according to me arrange marriages are good but which are love marriages also. I mean to say that a person can love other people, but if there is an allowance of there parents then they marry to each other and live life in a better manner with the support of both sides.
|Kamlesh said: (Jul 26, 2017)|
According to my point of view, Arrange Marriage is better than the Love Marriage because in love marriage there is a relation between two persons but in arrange marriage there is a bonding between two families so relation will be more protected and there will be more moral support.
|Aishwarya Sa said: (Jul 26, 2017)|
According to me, both love and arrange marriages are good, but it totally depends on individuals and in Indian culture, it totally depends on our parents and family. We always cannot say that arrange marriages are good because we will not be knowing the partner which may sometimes lead to many problems like:.
1) He/She may be forcefully agreed for the marriage.
2) As we will not know their family, there may be a risk of torchure, dowry etc because some marriages are made only by the status of his family.
3) Partner may show only positive side at first so as to impress but one day truth reveals and lead to divorce.
AS a reason love marriage is more successful if he/she respect partner, know him well in terms of good and bad thoughts, should settle first, respect society and discuss with parents about their relationships and finally should be careful whether the partner really cares and loves you or just physical attraction so as to avoid divorce further.
|Kuldeep Gupta said: (Jul 26, 2017)|
1-Love marriages are always better than a arranged marriages. In the love marriage, we never think about the cast and status which is good for our society to break the casteism chain and status.
2- In the love marriage we take decision according to our mutual understanding and capabilities and only we are responsible for our future. it encourages us to get our goal.
3- In the same time in arranged marriage, we totally depend on our family for maximum decisions.
4- In arranged marriages dowry system involved mostly.There is also pressure to show off their status in society, it is also a part of dowry system.
At the end conclusion is;
If we are not capable of taking any decision for our life itself, then After arranged marriage how you will take decisions for your future?
|Vanaja said: (Jul 24, 2017)|
|According to my point of view, both are good. But mostly arranged marriage is best why because parents are known which person is suitable for us. And more over good understanding also is there.|
|Vishakha said: (Jul 24, 2017)|
|Both are good in their perspective, but for comparison love marriage is cool. One should rise in love not fall and the couple should build their career first then everyone will agree.|
|Manishanker said: (Jul 23, 2017)|
|Hello friends I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because if we do love marriage they know each other well and what they like what they don't like understanding was good and they share their thinkings what comes to mind when that love started coming to arrange marriage it is good I'm not saying bad in arrange they want some time understand each other.|
|Swamy Reddy said: (Jul 23, 2017)|
|Love marriage is very good. Because they can adjust among themselves and solve a problem among themselves very easily.|
|Mohd Ahmad Khan said: (Jul 21, 2017)|
|In my opinion, I think arranged marriage is good with a comparison to love marriage because I read and saw many cases like as Julius Caesar, Laila Majnu, Orlando Oliver His life became useless in love affair his in those person love is not a success. Then how I can say love marriage is good and also it not relate my Indian culture so I think arranged marriage is good.|
|Vasam Ias said: (Jul 20, 2017)|
I support arranged marriages, because its time taking to each to know about each other, during that they try to impress, love, and respect. They don't fully the character of each, little bit hesitated to oppose. That too they are bonded devotionally. But in the case of love marriages, they knew each, they already loved and enjoyed the life. Chance neglect them because they knew about their partner.
Finally, I conclude that what ever it may be the marriage if you give respect to them and treat, change them as made for each other it holds the relation strong.
|Vasam Ias said: (Jul 19, 2017)|
|According to me, I support arranged marriages, why because its time taking to know each other. Being unknown to each other they try to express their love and respect. But in the case, of love megs, it won't be like that. The arguments or anything is more tragedic b/w known while compared with unknown. Arrange marriages can group two families into one. But how ever whether arranged marriages or love marriages are made in heaven. But if you made our partner made for each other and first have to b better half no matter what ever the marriages.|
|Sheyan Swaraj said: (Jul 19, 2017)|
As I think Love Marriage is more successful than Arrange Marriage because in love marriage there is only devotion.
And reliance between the couples. In it, they choose their life partner, it means.
That they can relinquish their life for their partner and completely confess the responsibilities of their partner. It makes them firm for handling the marriage & assist them in leading a peaceful life. They do really love each other. So they can face the difficulties together easily and exist their life happily. In this way, we can say that love marriage is perfect in this modern era.
|Manohar said: (Jul 19, 2017)|
|I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known people is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. Some of my friends are saying that arranged marriage has more success rate. But according to governments survey most of the women harassment cases, dowry cases, violation cases registered in arrange marriages. But in love marriage either we have a happy life or we will get divorced. We will not get as many complaints we got in arranges marriage. Also want to say that whey could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.|
|Munna Kumar said: (Jul 19, 2017)|
I think love marriage and arrange marriage both are good but it depends on partners understanding. We do have to spend the whole life with our partner so we should take the right decision. That's why I will prefer both.
|Rajeev Kumar said: (Jul 18, 2017)|
|Hi, myself Rajeev Kumar.
I think love marriage is better for our life because the two couples understand to each other before marriage.
They will be loyal each other. In love marriage, both of them know about their past and they can trust each other. But our parents always think our good future. But we should chouse our best life partner for our future.
|Asif said: (Jul 18, 2017)|
|As per my opinion, love marriage is not good because in love marriage I didn't see even a single lady who is not beautiful, I mean many boys just wanted to utilise girls for their comfort and then throw out them.|
|Utkarsh Pathak said: (Jul 17, 2017)|
|I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known people is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. They could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.|
|Veer said: (Jul 17, 2017)|
|I like love marriages. I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because understanding is two known person is more powerful than two known people. Parents can never refuse their children's choices.|
|Ishan said: (Jul 16, 2017)|
|It's all dependent upon the intensity of opposition from your parents. Somewhere parents easily allow love marriage and somewhere very hardly but the culture of each house is different. I am in love relation from twelve years but even today adjusting with my parents is even uncomfortable. Now, it's up to you to struggle in that particular situation or quit the ground but heavy opposition from parents also breaks us because we also want parents happy. But now I will suggest understanding your family if they are easily manageable and modifiable then only go for it.
LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST WHEN I CAME TO KNOW THE SOCIAL STRUCTURE IT WAS TOO LATE, GETTING OUT OF LOVE WAS NOT EASY FOR ME BUT IF YOU CAN PLEASE UNDERSTAND TIMELY.
|Sandeep said: (Jul 15, 2017)|
|Some of my friends are saying that arranged marriage has more success rate. But according to governments survey most of the women harassment cases, dowry cases, violation cases registered in arrange marriages. But in love marriage either we have a happy life or we will get divorced. We will not get as many complaints we got in arranges marriage. Also want to say that we can't let our life on future possibilities that after arranging marriage we will get mutual understanding, love, bonding, trust etc, etc. We are the generation who believes in the present. Even, the government gives us the liberty to take our decision by yourself after 18 and makes you independent so why don't our parents let us take our decisions by once own.|
|Bibin Devasia said: (Jul 9, 2017)|
|Love marriage is equally successful if both families like each other and they mutually accept their children's decision There is nothing wrong in love marriage. It's all about the mutal understanding.|
|Anurag said: (Jul 7, 2017)|
|Hello, Everyone! The Understanding between the partners is the basic and most important element for any kind of marriage to succeed whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage. Obviously, in the case of Love marriages, one gets to experience and develop this attribute much before taking the most important decision of marrying the person and hence I would give slightly more marks to Love marriages.
But then in today's generation, people prefer to have pizza delivered to their home in 30 minutes rather than sweating a bit in cooking food by their own hands. And this lack of patience can be seen in other fields too including relationships. I know cases of separation between both kinds of couples, the ones who did Love marriages and also an equal number of couples who did arrange marriage. And this shows that in the end cooking the dish of relationship to its best flavour completely boils down to the blending of ingredients named as Trust, Patience, Understanding and Forgiveness.
|Rima Karmakar said: (Jul 4, 2017)|
|I go for love marriage. But it doesn't mean that I m against arrange marriage. L prefer with this too. Actually, its depends on who you are, how you treat, how's your mentality opposite your love ones. You must be honest, loyal must have faith on your partner. Yes, I believe so that parent is our well-wisher but their point of views is not going right sometimes. So, it's up to our own.|
|Veronica said: (Jul 2, 2017)|
|I say that marriages are made in heaven only it's a love marriage or arranged if there is love, understanding, faith and bound then it's successful. And the other hand I agree on the viewer point of view. That in love marriage we know each other well and then get into a relationship Understand and then marry, nor to marry a person who is unknown and don't know anything about him or his fly so I feel choosing the person at right time for right choice to grow old with the person in sincere heart will have success.|
|Simran said: (Jun 30, 2017)|
This is Simran.
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because understanding is two known person is more powerful than two unknown persons. I mean to say a person can make love marriage in arrange marriage by the allowance of their parents. Parents can never refuse their children's choice.
|Abhishek Jagota said: (Jun 26, 2017)|
|Marriage is a sacred ritual in our Indian society its not only about bonding of two people it's about bonding of two families and cultures arranged marriage is the better one because in it the person who will become our life partner is chosen by our parents and our parents are our BEST WELL WISHERS and want to see us happy and if we take the examples of our parents and our relatives most of whom have done arranged marriages are living happily and successfully whereas if we see the current scenario relationship has become a part of style and trend rather than being based on true love which leads to complications pain and distress after the marriage so I think one should go with arranged marriage which is acceptable to all and keeps one's parents happy and content.
On a Humorous note: sometimes due to arranged marriage, we get such a good life partner which one can't ever dream of having a relationship with.
|Shefali Sharma said: (Jun 26, 2017)|
|I think it totally depends on the person's choice. Whether he is compatible with his lover or the one his parents chose. It's completely ok if he loves a person. He can ask his parents and if they agree, it's well & good otherwise he will have to start new innings. But in this process, he ought not to blame his parents if something goes wrong.
It's good to know a person already before getting married, but it's also fine when you get to explore after marriage.
|Prateeksha said: (Jun 26, 2017)|
|I think whatever the marriage it is whether arranged or love the couples should be the matured ones. They should love each other care 4 each other but at the same time should let their partner have personal space.
If you find a partner who has these qualities just go for them don't think that it should be arranged only because it's you who is going to stay a long life with them. Life is a wonderful gift we get so why to make it sorrow 4 others happiness it's you who is going to stay with them so better you select the person with whom you can stay life long till your death separates.
What I wanted to say is whatever the marriage it be it's you who is gonna make it special or ruin it a life long. It only depends on you cuz you are matured nd well enough to take your decisions on your own.
|Balveer/Kunal said: (Jun 25, 2017)|
|In my point of view, arrange marriage is best for maintain relationship both. Many time love marriage become fail because they don't understand both.|
|Heera Singh Gusain said: (Jun 24, 2017)|
|As per my view, anyone who has true lover is luckiest person in the world. He/she must marry him/her as they can't find better partner than that. So, from this context love marriage is better.
But today's generation's problem is that they they think making relationship is a fashion or style. So they somehow manage to make relationship but it may not be true love it may only be attraction, like friendship on Facebook leads to love without knowing him/her personally. Do you think that may be true love? That love doesn't last longer and gets fade away after sometime.
People who get married on this basis, get to know about their life partner after few years of marriage, and that leads to arguments and even divorce.
Furthermore, in most of cases, love begins with physical attraction and remains upto that, these types of love is also not going to give you anything except pain.
So conclusion is that love marriage is best when you get a perfect life partner otherwise arrange marriage is also good and they have their good points too.
Both marriages have their own advantages and disadvantages, and it should totally depend on a person which type of marriage he wants to do, which makes him happy.
|Buty said: (Jun 24, 2017)|
|The love marriage is easy to live the long life because couple already well knows about each other in spite in arrange marriage long time spend to identify one's nature and hobbies, as well as love marriage, begets more satisfaction and feeling of the succeed important part of life.
So love marriage is always reliable and friendship remains till last breath so life and every sphere of life easily steady and success by the couple.
|Sohail Shaikh said: (Jun 22, 2017)|
In My point of view, the person should arrange his marriage and in between, he has to love the person who's is going to marry her so the both understand after marriage to each other so I think first have to arrange the marriage and after do the marriage.
|Shivanshu Dubey said: (Jun 21, 2017)|
|Love marriage or arrange marrige is both good with their own perspective. Only need to understand each other, have full trust on your partner which can led your marriage till life. Off course in these days young generation like love marriage so what's big deal if we have achieved our goal in life. I think no parents would check you to do so. As they are happy in our happiness.|
|Amit said: (Jun 20, 2017)|
|I am in the favour of Arrange Marriages which can be a Love marriage. I mean to say Person can make love marriages to arrange marriage by the allowance of their parents. Nowadays, every parent wants their children goodness and 70% of parents can never refuse their children's choice.|
|Namdev said: (Jun 17, 2017)|
According to my point of view,
Arrange marriage is best for maintain relation ship both. Arrange marriage are also permit by our parents I think parents plays best role in our life then why we avoid thinking about marriage. If they will agree love marriage then no problem but your parent are ignore for love marriage and you are doing love marriage it's not good for breaking hearts of our parents. Many time love marriage become fail because they don't understand both. I think many when doing love marriage that women don't want and like his mother-in-law and fatherinlaw she want to live in single and different then the start problem breaking heart of parents.
|Neel said: (Jun 12, 2017)|
|It's not that good to live with a person you don't know. So if you already have that feeling for someone special that you can commit to live with forever so it's good that I think.|
|Mayank Hooda said: (Jun 12, 2017)|
I am Mayank and I am in the favour of arrange marriage because in arrange our parents or our elders are with us but in love marriage, we are breaking the heart of our parents and if we are doing something so will be our mistake that's why I am in the favour of the arrange marriage.
|Mayank Hooda said: (Jun 12, 2017)|
|Friends, I am in favour of arranged marriage because in arrange marriage, our parents are with us but in love marriage, if we are doing something so doing on our own thinking.|
|Rinku Kumar said: (Jun 12, 2017)|
|Hi to all, I am Rinku and now I'm going to allocate that which is better in b2n love and arrange marriage.
As per my view, the marriage types are not important but relationship are important to each other. If we ignore parents suggestion about the arrange marriage May be possible that to break relation between them. And if we agree with the parents, and if we love to anyone then there is also break the relation between lovers.
Both are situation are puzzling.
Most of the parents in our country support to arrange marriage because they think it will be better for us.
But most of the new generation support to love marriage because they fell in love. A Lot of lovers could not complete our willing due to custom, parents, job etc. Then they destroy our willing and press the thought of love and our lovely dreams That is they don't want to do it.
Love is not a bad thing and parents think always better for us. Therefore Both have importance for us. Change love marriage into the arrange marriage with satisfaction our parents.
Be happy with your lover and parents.
|Shrikant Vishvakarma said: (Jun 11, 2017)|
|Hi friends my name is Shrikant Vishvakarma.
According to my side of view, arrange marriage is most better than love marriage because some people are disappointed with love marriage and arrange marriage arrange marriage is good and related our culture thank you.
|Ishan Jangir said: (Jun 10, 2017)|
|In arranged marriage, there is a support of parents. In love marriage, there is no responsibility of parents if any thing happens wrong it will go on a couple. So arrange marriage is best.|
|Mayank Saurabh said: (Jun 10, 2017)|
|I think it doesn't a matter friends that we go for love or arrange marriage. Most important thing in any relation is love, understanding, cooperation among two as well as family members too. Getting married seems to be a new life as someone is dependent on you now. So go for love or arrange marriage where you find this but make agree your parents.|
|Aparna said: (Jun 8, 2017)|
Both marriages have pros and cons. Instead of debating which is better. Just find your unconditional love, your soulmate. Understanding love for each other is mandatory here. Once unconditional love has come inside her/him, no other external factors will degrade their bond.
No matter arranged or love marriage, Its just a beautiful thing called LOVE plays a significant role.
|Gaurav Bisht said: (Jun 8, 2017)|
|I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known person is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. They could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.|
|Yaaridhu said: (Jun 4, 2017)|
|Totally depends on who you are. While arranged marriages barely end in divorces, many love marriages do. Is that because love marriage is a stupid thing? Of course not. Most people just tend to handle it in a stupid way. If you wanna get married to someone you love, that's a beautiful thing. But when you plan to live the rest of your life with someone you love, you need to know them as more than just a sex partner. You need to learn to trust each other, to fully understand each other, to teach one another to responsibly and maturely handle children, cook, clean, run a household, pay the bills. Love carries away a lot of people from this necessary practicality, and thus problems occur, and they fight, and they break up. Now arranged marriage isn't as preferable, I mean you're getting married to someone you don't even know, but it's a strong commitment to your parents and relatives that you will live with this other person, and thus, breakups almost never happen, because it's the couple's responsibility to stay together. And it's also a great option for people who will probably have a hard time finding a legitimate girlfriend, like the guy writing this. Still, arranged marriages are less guaranteed to bring you happiness. So once again, it depends.|
|Pooja said: (Jun 3, 2017)|
First of all, the meaning of marriage leads to understanding. And based on the people it will be ruled but both are equal right both have equal scores for me if partners will understand both the sides. It not an issue of love or arranged. You will be happy every time.
|Allen said: (Jun 1, 2017)|
|A very important and an ongoing social factor going on in our country. By the way, I am not against arrange or love marriages as this is our right to choose our future. Everyone saying that if we are going with b love marriages this hurts our parents the most but I want to ask you guys are you going to live with him/her or your parents. It's you right so, of course, it's your right to choose your partner as this is not for your time being this relationship is going to be for life and you have to be satisfied with it so guys go on weather arrange or Love marriage be sensible and be confident in urself on what you choose. And give your 100% in that relationship. And most importantly be happy. Keep away all your ego. Be patient towards your partner and the most important thing is to adjust. As your going to be together for every good and bad happens in your life. Live your best as we get a life.|
|Bhupesh Kumar said: (May 30, 2017)|
I am in favour of love marriage but it doesn't mean that I am against of arrange marriage. I love it too. I would like to say as people have already mentioned above that we must have a mutual understanding. We must have faith and respect for each other, it is either love marriage or marriage. Yes, it's true that we should not go against our parents but sorry to say, friends, no doubt our parents always think for our better future but it doesn't mean that every decision which was taken by them will be good for our future. Maybe this time they are wrong. Now, we are mature, we have an ability to think if we can choose a better partner for our future then why not we should? But first, you must be honest opposite your partner. Never try to cheat her/him. Hope, by the grace of God you will find a good partner for your future and will enjoy for the whole life.
|Harry said: (May 29, 2017)|
|Both marriages can be successful if two people are ready to accept each other without any demands and bias. But I personally believe Love marriage is better than Arranged marriage because In love marriage, the couple already have an understanding of each other and they are ready to live happily. Marriage is a compromise done by two souls who are ready to become a single soul. So, with proper understanding, love and affection, Love marriage will be preferred.|
|Devendra Sharma said: (May 28, 2017)|
|Marriage is done to spend life easier for boy and girl. Life can be easier in arrange marriage as well as with love marriage. But it all depends on situation that will be formed after marriage. Arrange marriage is supported by our families and society whereas Love marriage is not. If support is beneficial then families guide them by their experience. If not there arises cases of DOWRY harassment cases.
So, both can be best or worst depends on situation.
|Aayanka Pany said: (May 28, 2017)|
See both love marriage and arrange marriage are goods. First of all, all the couples in the world must know the meaning of love. Love means respect towards each other, understanding and cooperation. So, written above by someone that in love marriages the couple knows each other very earlier and after marriage, they will get bored. Then, why do people love somebody in their teenage? Now, you will tell it as an attraction. Then can you tell what it attraction? why we get attracted? its because we feel and see ourself in that person. If we can see ourself in that person then how that love can be lead to conflicts or litigations or how we can get bored of it? its all depends on us because after marriage we have to stay with our partner, not our parents. If any problems occur after marriage then it will be difficult to be solved in case of arrange marriage but incase of love marriage at least we can came to know good and bad habits of our partners and can make a choice of our own that we can or not be able to stay with him or her till our last breathe. So I will love cum arrange marriage. First study your decided partner then give a proposal to your parents if you are comfortable with him/her then get married.
|Chandini said: (May 28, 2017)|
|Marriage is an important step in everyone's life.
In my opinion, both love marriages and arranged marriages have equal importance.
Both the marriages have pros and cons.
In case of love marriage, you don't have enough maturity to choose the right person, you are in a stage of attraction, where everything good or bad seems to be right or you. Also if you marry the person without your parents concern, it effects their pride and dignity in the society. So, when you think you love someone just put your opinion in front your parents. They can judge who's good and best suitable for you.
Whereas, in case of arranged marriage it's a very daring step to marry a complete stranger. But the thing is that you need to have complete faith in your parents that they never make a wrong choice for you, they see the family, background, status everything and then they present guy/girl in front you.
Therefore, it all depends on you, to maintain a healthy relationship and happy life which is all concerned about understanding each other without ego's, commitment, person's space and honesty.
|Rohit said: (May 24, 2017)|
|Arrange marriage is good because of marriage is not just becoming between 2 couples its becoming with 2 families. All family members have hope about to their child if you go out from their words means they won't do support is future.|
|Rahul Sharma said: (May 20, 2017)|
|Love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because in these marriages there should be a better understanding in a couple.
They know each other.
But in Arranged marriage, boy and girl should not be a understand each other.
They understand each other after long time.
In arranged marriages, the families meet in same religion. But in love marriages there should be two cultures meet. Like if girl is belong to south Indian and boy belongs to punjab.
|Mohit Saini said: (May 19, 2017)|
|According to my side of view, arrange marriage is most better than love marriage because if you do love marriage then it's not only of your choice it's of all your family members and how much you know if one person decide something then he is not always right but if many people decide something then many times it is right so I am with arrange marriage and we are also secured by both the families and in arrange marriage we don't have any problems if we have than many people are there to solve it.
|Reddy said: (May 15, 2017)|
|In my view, Arranged Marriages is more better than Love Marriages. AM always make us more responsible that leads to life move forward in a blessed way and both partners work hard and without ego's for the bright features. AM also more secure bc we have lot of support from both bride& groom families.
In LM, mostly it would happen on Attraction, Passion, arrow view on positive way and Age of beauty. These all things won't lead a life for a long time might there is a chance of breaks and diverse due to misunderstanding, ego issues and no support from family, society, friends, no security.
|Alka G said: (May 14, 2017)|
According to me, Arrange marriage is quite beautiful because two unknown people are involved in this relationship. And both families support this. And help the future husband and wife to understand each other. When these two people come together they start understanding each other very closely and slowly and I think this makes their relationship beautiful. And their interest in their partner slowly increases day by day. And this will make their marriage quite strong as compare to love marriage. Because in love marriage, the both people know each other already and after marriage, they will get bored and lost d feeling and interest in each other. So My point of you Arrange marriage is most beautiful and strong marriage which not only come two people together but also join two families together.
|Akash said: (May 14, 2017)|
|From my point of view, love after marriage is good. In that case we can have our family with us.|
|Monika Pal said: (May 12, 2017)|
|I think love marriage and arrange marriage both are good but it depends on partners understanding.|
|Sachin Jain said: (May 10, 2017)|
|I strictly support arrange marriages every aspect as both pros and cons.
So as arranged marriages have a legal and a assurance of being marriage due to our family as it is a supported by our family with full acceptance but in love marriages, there is no support and it leads to breakups and divorces which not only break 2 persons but also families. There is one saying that. LOVE IS BLIND so one is attracted physically but not mentally which later lead to creating a cut off between them.
|Gayathri said: (May 9, 2017)|
|Guys, According to me, love marriage or arrange marriage both depends on understanding and compromise between each other.|
|Dan said: (May 7, 2017)|
|I believe that there is no use of debating whether love marriage is better or arranged because both are good in their own ways and it depends from person to person and from family to family.
It is always good to know a person really well before we take a step ahead and get married which is a feature of love marriage. And since both of you know each other well there is a strong chance of sustenance. Again in arranged marriage, our parents choose our life partner depending on compatibility and status which is again important because there will be ego clash if we don't belong to the same status.
Both has pros and cons because in the case of love marriage couples get bored of each other easily since they know each other beforehand whereas in arranged marriage they get to know each other slowly and gradually and their marriage grows slowly. Again in love marriage, you know the person well before you take the plunge but in arranged marriage, since we don't know the person well, he/she might turn out to be someone else after marriage. This discussion won't end so we can conclude that it depends totally on the person involve in marriage and also LUCK.
|Jitendra Baghel said: (May 6, 2017)|
|Hello, friends, my name is Jitendra Baghel.
According to me, that both marriages are good. But is depending on the person who how to feel in both marriages. In my way that both marriages is completely good for every person because I notice that every person is so happy with any type of marriage. I know that some people are disappointed with love marriage and arrange marriage. I think both marriages is good because in love marriage Boy and girl are know each other perfectly and they understand each other perfectly and also in arrange marriage boy and girl know each other after some time. So both marriage is completely good but you do not take any decision without your family permission because if you want love marriage but your family want to arrange marriage Then you take your family decision because our family never think bad for us.
|Satish Jetti said: (May 5, 2017)|
|Boss, it's all about marriage with whom, and how she/he commits with you, either its love or arrange.
When people really can't understand each other, when they don't have personal space, then that relation never stands forever.
Here, we can say one thing.
Love or arrange. When people get married, they have to be with their partner. So, better love your partner, at least relationship remain strong.
|Tejaswini said: (May 5, 2017)|
|In my point of view, both arranged and love marriages have the same role. In any marriage all we require is mutual understanding, mutual respect and loving each other, sharing their happiness and sadness and caring each other.
Support each other at any time of situation.
Finally, I want to say that either in love or arranged marriage which has love between the couple after marriage is the perfect. It looking like two persons but a single soul indicates a fabulous pair.
|Bhadale said: (Apr 30, 2017)|
|I will go for an Arranged marriage.
In love, there may be attraction towards each other which gets lost after some time. In love marriage, the boy and girl are leaving with their families. They are not independent. The game will start after independency. There are too many Bollywood actors actresses who love and breakup, divorce each other. Cases of wrong love marriage are also more. As the parents expectations from the bride may vary. Some will say to do job and house work both also. While some will say to leave the job. Traditions of grooms home will vary. And many times love marriage is only for bringing a good bride to home, where the drama of groom will end, after the marriage. Two families should have equal status. To leave in cojoint family or separated family also becomes the issue.
In arrange marriage this things are already discussed in between family persons and job of the bride groom, their status, grooms income, family conditions (whether to do job?, where to live cojoint?) are discussed neatly.
While love before marriage is not official and it can happen and break many times but the marriage and divorce are official. Love has no end and it does not need to be young age. It can happen at any time, so it's good to do official things than doing many unofficial things.
|Riya Gupta said: (Apr 29, 2017)|
As per my views, I think love marriages and arranged marriages both are equally good their is no need to discuss which one is better because it depends on person to person.
If a person and his family are comfortable with love marriage then it is best and if with arrange marriage then it's also OK.
But the main problem arises in our country is that most of the people consider love marriage as a crime. So because of this teenager take the wrong decision which is against the family and society thus because of this crime increases and condition of love marriage is going to bad day after day.
But I hope as we are of growing personality so in upcoming 30-40 years all such type of problems overcome because at that stage most of the people educated and aware of all these things and I wish it all happen as soon as possible.
|Deepak Mandal said: (Apr 29, 2017)|
|I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because, in love marriage, couples are known very well each other. Love marriage is our aspects of life.|
|Shalini said: (Apr 26, 2017)|
|I just think arrange marriage is far batter than love marriage. Because love marriage becomes failure after a small misunderstanding but a arrange marriage becomes long lasting. The main disadvantage of love marriage the couples know each other only as positively view not negatively view but in arrange marriage our family investigate all thing about bride/groom so that as my point of view arrange marriage is far batter than love marriage. But some time love marriage also become successful and some time arrange marriage also become failure it totally depends upon the couples.|
|Chinni said: (Apr 23, 2017)|
|In my opinion, love and arranged marriages have the equal importance.
All we need is understanding, self-respect, and affection. They both should respect one another. Care for one another. Two bodies and single soul represents a good pair.
|Jack said: (Apr 22, 2017)|
|The one who loves you and whom you love back.
There are always good and bad sides of every person, love makes you accept a person along with his shortcomings.
If you do love marriage and continue to love that person after marriage, you will find that person to be perfect life partner.
Same case with arranged marriage, if you develop love after marriage, its OK, you will accept that person and will always try to look on the bright side, even in the dark times.
If there is no love in between the couple after marriage, then that marriage becomes a contract and that marriage is dragged for the sake of parents or children.
|Satyendra Kumar said: (Apr 20, 2017)|
|As for as the boot point is concerned love marriage vs arranged marriage. I'm in pros arrange marriage. According to my point of view, both are good as well as bad. Because that depends on the life partner but mostly new age boys and girls pros on love marriage. Because in the love marriage before a marriage you all know that about your life partner likes and dislikes etc.|
|Sandy said: (Apr 19, 2017)|
|I think Love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage boys and girls they take the own responsibilities. And, I think this is the most important part of our life.
Taking the responsibility is not a small thing.
I strongly support love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
|Jitesh said: (Apr 17, 2017)|
|In my opinion, Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because we can easily know about our life partner. Because understanding is too mandatory. Because it a most important step of our life. If you believe in arrange marriage. It's not a right way. Because we have to spend our entire life. I think in arrange marriage. We have to more sacrifice than love marriage. If someone highly educated than you. In that time, you'll have to face lots of problems. So it's my point of view.|
|Meghana said: (Apr 17, 2017)|
|Unlike the medieval times, parents of this generation are taking the opinion of the bride/groom before marriage and love marriages are accepted these days.
So keeping aside love and arranged both have advantages and disadvantages of their own. But one can lead happy life only when *boy/girl are ready for a positive breakup in love. They might be many reasons. Parents may oppose them, they might have a difference in opinions etc.
If you are able to convince your parents then its okay but there might be some chances of disapproving. So before you fall in love. Ensure yourself that you are emotional, mentally okay even after a breakup.
Well! Coming into arranged marriage. Having zero expectation on the spouse will make you lead a better life.
|Varaprasad said: (Apr 16, 2017)|
|Parents love is the only true love forever. Lovers love may or may not be true like the saying "All that glitters is not gold".
Love marriage means boy and girl should love each other and it should be acceptable to both of their parents. Then only it would be a true love marriage.
If I want to buy a product I will see the brand. If the brand is known, I can trust the product. Otherwise, that product may or may not be good. Lover is the product and parents are the brand. If you choose the product to inform your parents immediately. They inquire about the brand. If they accept ask them to make arrangements for marriage. After marriage, you love each other and be happy.
In India, one will get good match only for the first time. So don't take your own nasty decision. If it fails in the first time, your entire life will be spoiled. The Loss will be more for a girl. You will loose your life and your parents will lose their dignity and fame.
|Amy Dwivedi said: (Apr 15, 2017)|
|Apart from this, both love and arranged marriage are good based on the couples. In both relationships, they need to take care of each other, respect each other, love for each other and the main thing they don't have EGO for each other. Then their life will be very happy.|
|Anna Arya said: (Apr 12, 2017)|
According to me, both marriages have the same effect on life. As it is said the wedding is decided in heaven so no matter what you do. If you love someone and your family is ready for it then it is a perfect marriage. Your family's permission and happiness also should be included in your love relation because your parents have seen this world more than you and they more know the person, better than you. They will do whatever will be best for you because they will never want that their children will be woeful. They upbringing you and it is also your responsibility that you never make them unhappy just because of a boy/girl whom you know before some years. There are also some cases that couples get married and after some time flay occurs and both get separated that time family support is very important though family also stand with them that time.
So we should also understand our responsibility towards them. I am not saying love marriage is bad but the family's will and blessings also be with it.
|Mani said: (Apr 12, 2017)|
|Apart from this, both love and arranged marriage are good based on the couples. In both relationships, they need to take care of each other, respect each other, love for each other and the main thing they don't have EGO for each other. Then their life will be very happy.|
|Amit Rana said: (Apr 11, 2017)|
- Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.
- Couple is responsible for its choice and onus of the blame in future lies on the couple only and nobody else.
- Couple is aware of each other's likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well.
- Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.
- The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.
|Arya said: (Apr 11, 2017)|
|Love marriage is better one because in that the two persons can understand each other. There is total transparency about each other. A boy knows well if his soulmate can manage his family as a integral unit, if she is perfect to fit into the system.
So, I strongly support love marriage.
|Pooja Sharma said: (Apr 7, 2017)|
In my opinion, both marriages having some failure and some successes. So, I think both marriages are good and it totally based on couples. In both relationships, they need to trust, respect, love each other, take care of each other and the main thing they adjust and cooperate with each other and with their families also.
|Vipin Sharma said: (Apr 7, 2017)|
|Hi, I'm Vipin.
In my perception, love marriage is the best choice for the couples because they love each other and love is the important part of our life when the person suffered by emptiness then the love makes feel you special and very important and our parents should understand their children's feelings.
Thanks a lot.
|Sukanya said: (Apr 7, 2017)|
I'm Sukanya, both love and arrange marriages are having some failures. Love marriages are sometimes not perfect at the same time arrange marriages also very poor. Because, of their cooperation, relationship, sharing, adjustments, love and caring. Some times both are thinking bad. I support arrange marriages why so parents select right family and right decessions, some cases it's not correct. Love marriages are somewhat good but they are not able to do acceptance of parent decisions they do own decisions.
|Poonam said: (Apr 6, 2017)|
In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage, however, it is fact that about 90% still have arranged marriages, an arrange marriage is the center is the attention of family union. Love marriage is nothing but it is only attraction after some time attraction will be finished and after some time they grumble to each other then they take big decision for divorce so love marriage has a not ever.
|Naveen said: (Apr 6, 2017)|
|Hi friends, in my opinion, I think marriage word is given by society. And in society, there are all including our family. And the human is the social animal. So doesn't matter marriage is love or arrange. Matter is how much blessings you have to their relationship. Because one is broken into all. God is one.|
|Sowndarya said: (Apr 5, 2017)|
Apart from this, both love and arranged marriage are good based on the couples. In both relationship, they need to take care for each others, respect each other , love for each other and the main thing they don't have EGO for each other. Then their life will be very happy.
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