Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Riya said:
3 years ago
Hello everyone.
I also wanted to say something regarding love marriage vs arranged marriage. Both have some pros and cons.
I think in an arranged marriage, the best part is everyone is happy and give their blessings to the newlywed. Every parent has the dream that someday they will choose the right person for their son or daughter. It's their right totally because they spend all their lives taking care of us.
Also now in arranged marriage, there are many changes with time. It's not like your family will force someone on you. Definitely, they will ask for your consent. There are unofficial meetings between both of them where they can decide if they like the other person or not.
So, I think if possible one can go for an arranged marriage but if you truly love someone and wanted to spend your life with that person only then try to convince your parents and please only after their consent take that biggest step of your life.
These are my thoughts based on the environment around me.
I also wanted to say something regarding love marriage vs arranged marriage. Both have some pros and cons.
I think in an arranged marriage, the best part is everyone is happy and give their blessings to the newlywed. Every parent has the dream that someday they will choose the right person for their son or daughter. It's their right totally because they spend all their lives taking care of us.
Also now in arranged marriage, there are many changes with time. It's not like your family will force someone on you. Definitely, they will ask for your consent. There are unofficial meetings between both of them where they can decide if they like the other person or not.
So, I think if possible one can go for an arranged marriage but if you truly love someone and wanted to spend your life with that person only then try to convince your parents and please only after their consent take that biggest step of your life.
These are my thoughts based on the environment around me.
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Ankit Pandey said:
8 years ago
Hello friends. In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage both the partners know very well and they don't face any problems to adjust them. In love marriage both partner are living well without any problem and parents live well. Incase arrange marriage is good but in arrange marriage both partners don't know each other and face many problems in their life. In arrange marriage parents are accepted this type of marriage and help any condition in life. But love marriage doesn't such as.
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Sahil Hamza said:
9 years ago
Love Marriage is only a bonding of two hearts, while Arrange Marriage is the bonding of two families. For me my parents are everything, they bring me into this world, nurtured me, fulfil all my needs. How could I ditch them when they are in need? So, I would prefer to arrange marriage, which can be turned into a love marriage afterwards.
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Priyanka singh said:
8 years ago
Most of people do not know the definition of LOVE, and saying that LOVE marriage is better than Arrange marriage.
Not everyone is able to choose life partner themselves, Some people are too busy with their carrier, so for them arrange marriage is the only option.
Marriage is all about honesty, loyalty towards each other. It does not matter LOVE or arranged.
Here I am talking about modern arrange marriage (where both children and parents decide), which is far better than LOVE marriage.
Not everyone is able to choose life partner themselves, Some people are too busy with their carrier, so for them arrange marriage is the only option.
Marriage is all about honesty, loyalty towards each other. It does not matter LOVE or arranged.
Here I am talking about modern arrange marriage (where both children and parents decide), which is far better than LOVE marriage.
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Saloni said:
7 years ago
In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we know all about our partner's likes dislikes and behaviour. It connects two peoples Hurtly and they both also feels like that they made for each other. Mutual understanding between this two peoples is better. Because these things are very important for a couple to continue there happy life.
But in arrange marriage we are unknown about each other. And most of the love marriages are converted to a arrange marriage by the permission of parents. They will also support this.
But in arrange marriage we are unknown about each other. And most of the love marriages are converted to a arrange marriage by the permission of parents. They will also support this.
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Gayatri said:
9 years ago
In my opinion, Everyone should have right to choose their own life partner with whom they can share their every sorrow and happiness.
It doesn't matter they do love marriage or arrange marriage.
Love marriage and arrange marriage both are right if partners have understanding, respect and love for each other.
It doesn't matter they do love marriage or arrange marriage.
Love marriage and arrange marriage both are right if partners have understanding, respect and love for each other.
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Sachin sharma said:
8 years ago
I think, arranged love marriage would be best. Isn't it? If one's parents choose a partner for their son/daughter and allow them to understand each other in some time then both boy and girl will be happy after marriage.
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Rahmath pasha said:
7 years ago
In my view, both have different criteria.
Love marriage gives satisfaction to both partners but not to his family because they understand feelings and emotions each other before marriage. If conflicts occur in future they angry for sometime after they try to convince each other and finally get connected each other.
Arranged marriage gives satisfaction to entire family but it needs a time for the couple to understand each other. In the arranged marriage, if they don't like each other then they blame to their parents first and they have to make compromise each other otherwise it leads to a divorce way.
In a rare case, lovers break their relationship.
I give four stars to an arranged marriage and five stars to love marriage.
Thanks.
Love marriage gives satisfaction to both partners but not to his family because they understand feelings and emotions each other before marriage. If conflicts occur in future they angry for sometime after they try to convince each other and finally get connected each other.
Arranged marriage gives satisfaction to entire family but it needs a time for the couple to understand each other. In the arranged marriage, if they don't like each other then they blame to their parents first and they have to make compromise each other otherwise it leads to a divorce way.
In a rare case, lovers break their relationship.
I give four stars to an arranged marriage and five stars to love marriage.
Thanks.
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Indrajeet kumar sharma said:
8 years ago
Hello guys, according to me, a love marriage is far better than an arranged marriage. Because one has the complete freedom to select his or her life partner. No elder decides. Both people know each other already and mutually decides to spend whole life with each other. The Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry. Because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level. But an arrange marriage like a lottery, love may or may not blossom between the couple.
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Anurag Mishra said:
8 years ago
Look, it is very simple to explain which is correct and which is incorrect.
Like many people said that one is good and other is bad.
But people. Don't you think? Arrange marriage is like a GAMBLING?
Leave the things like gifts, dowry, feast and all these. Only think about those two who will have to marry. Because we are human. And emotion and trust are the Main aspects on which relationship build.
As I said arrange marriage is like a GAMBLING. In which people just go to live with those to whom they do not know before. If you get a good girl or a good boy. Then it's your good luck in gambling or otherwise, it's a very bad luck.
And I think. You are taking the decision about your whole life. So how can you play the game of gambling for your whole life?
If you get your bad luck in marriage then in whole life you will feel that you need to adjust.
And I can say adjusting to the situation is okay. BUT. It is not okay with a person with whom you will live your whole life.
That's why. People you just go to live a happy life. Not go for adjustment. And that's why the Supreme Court has also made the law to provide protection to the human. Because it better knows love marriage is fairer than arrange.
Like many people said that one is good and other is bad.
But people. Don't you think? Arrange marriage is like a GAMBLING?
Leave the things like gifts, dowry, feast and all these. Only think about those two who will have to marry. Because we are human. And emotion and trust are the Main aspects on which relationship build.
As I said arrange marriage is like a GAMBLING. In which people just go to live with those to whom they do not know before. If you get a good girl or a good boy. Then it's your good luck in gambling or otherwise, it's a very bad luck.
And I think. You are taking the decision about your whole life. So how can you play the game of gambling for your whole life?
If you get your bad luck in marriage then in whole life you will feel that you need to adjust.
And I can say adjusting to the situation is okay. BUT. It is not okay with a person with whom you will live your whole life.
That's why. People you just go to live a happy life. Not go for adjustment. And that's why the Supreme Court has also made the law to provide protection to the human. Because it better knows love marriage is fairer than arrange.
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