Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Pooja thakur said:   8 years ago
In India, marriage means lifetime commitment. So choose your partner wisely.

Things changes after marriage, even if you are in relationship with someone from 2-3 years, you cannot say marriage will be successful.

My preference will be marriage in some known family.
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Chandravir singh rawat said:   8 years ago
You can not say that which marriage is better, love marriage or arrange marriage.

Its depends on your understanding skills. How accept your mistakes. And how you improve yourself. When you both will be careful about each other. Your marriage will successful sure.

If you love a right person your parents will be with your decision always. Because they love you a lot.

You can change a love marriage into love with arrange marriage.
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Deepak tripathi said:   8 years ago
It just depends upon the person with which you going to marriage. Because if you choose or your family selects a bad person & you don't know about him then what will you do? And it happens with love also just think that a person you love most and after marriage he/she ignoring you.

Then, most important thing is that life has two faces good or bad and also marriage has both ways means either good or bad. Choose your life partner attentively. Because it is India.
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Nisha said:   8 years ago
Slowly marriage is losing its ground, because of affairs before marriage, fake dowry cases and post marital affairs. Soon time will come when no one will believe in marriage.

We are blindly following the western culture. If you see the culture of western countries like USA/UK/Germany, You will see at least 80% people take divorce once in life and goes for second marriage.

My choice will be ARRANGE marriage in some known and respected family.
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Pooja said:   8 years ago
We require three main things for successful marriage.

Commitment, honesty, respect.

If you can not give these things, do not destroy the life of other person.

Love is just temporary attraction between boy and girl, but if you are honest, respectful and committed towards your life partner no one break your marriage.
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Ankita said:   8 years ago
Both marriages are good. Not everyone met with true LOVE in their life. But based on things I have seen, I can say ARRANGE marriages are more successful than LOVE marriages.

Because most of LOVE affairs are just infatuation (attraction), LOVE marriage based on this does not survive for long period.
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Anjali patel (From Lawana) said:   8 years ago
Love marriages are not based on rules of society so people getting married don't care for dowry or other social customs which may not be very good as per modern time.
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Rian Ahmed said:   8 years ago
As I think the Arranged marriage is better than the love marriage.
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Sanju bishnoi said:   8 years ago
I think arrange marriage is best for you and your parents because in love marriage everything happens before marriage so every people not like this.
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Amit "paraajit" said:   8 years ago
I agree with you @ Neha Gupta.

But tell me one thing. As you are saying what to do if someone fall in love before marriage the true love. But tell me what if the person you are in love with is a fraud may be he/she is playing with you. Answer me just one thing. What is the guaranty of love?
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