Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

Hi, guys.

See both love marriage and arrange marriage are goods. First of all, all the couples in the world must know the meaning of love. Love means respect towards each other, understanding and cooperation. So, written above by someone that in love marriages the couple knows each other very earlier and after marriage, they will get bored. Then, why do people love somebody in their teenage? Now, you will tell it as an attraction. Then can you tell what it attraction? why we get attracted? its because we feel and see ourself in that person. If we can see ourself in that person then how that love can be lead to conflicts or litigations or how we can get bored of it? its all depends on us because after marriage we have to stay with our partner, not our parents. If any problems occur after marriage then it will be difficult to be solved in case of arrange marriage but incase of love marriage at least we can came to know good and bad habits of our partners and can make a choice of our own that we can or not be able to stay with him or her till our last breathe. So I will love cum arrange marriage. First study your decided partner then give a proposal to your parents if you are comfortable with him/her then get married.

Some of my friends are saying that arranged marriage has more success rate. But according to governments survey most of the women harassment cases, dowry cases, violation cases registered in arrange marriages. But in love marriage either we have a happy life or we will get divorced. We will not get as many complaints we got in arranges marriage. Also want to say that we can't let our life on future possibilities that after arranging marriage we will get mutual understanding, love, bonding, trust etc, etc. We are the generation who believes in the present. Even, the government gives us the liberty to take our decision by yourself after 18 and makes you independent so why don't our parents let us take our decisions by once own.

Hi, myself Rajeev Kumar.

I think love marriage is better for our life because the two couples understand to each other before marriage.

They will be loyal each other. In love marriage, both of them know about their past and they can trust each other. But our parents always think our good future. But we should chouse our best life partner for our future.

Hello, friends.

I'm Ashish.

We are discussing love marriage is better or arrange marriage. But in my opinion, both are good. Both have positive as well negative effects in life. So, according to me arrange marriages are good but which are love marriages also. I mean to say that a person can love other people, but if there is an allowance of there parents then they marry to each other and live life in a better manner with the support of both sides.

Thank you.

I have seen people suffering in both so I guess it doesn't matter how you met that person through a relative or a friend what matters is you are happy with him/her or not.

Hii guys.

Good morning.

According to my opinion, both love and arrange marriage are good. But love marriage is own decision and arrange marry is our relative decision. We want to love marry only when then our parents on agree on that. I think marriage is a union of two souls. Marry is decided our future because of whole life buzz with one person. So both good but take a good decision.

Arrange marriage is far better than love marriage because there is respect between husband and wife and they.

Clear their disputes calmly whereas in love marriage some time parents are not happy and without the happiness of parent the marriage is like hollow gift. And any dis[utes leads to divorce or act as a fire in breaking.

Thread of love between parents.

The gap what we observe between love marriage and arrange marriage can be minimised if parents starts seeing love marriage not in negative sense. They should think what is more important the community or their children. Simultaneously if a person decides to go against their parents they must think million times because no-one can be more important for a person than his/her mom and dad. There could be various issues of different people with their parents but they are always most respected.

In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage they know each other they know their likes and dislikes their future plans their interest but in arrange marriage everything is very sudden and not get time to know each other and if it is like partners are not matching their mind perspective so they both have to face problems and in the end they get to go through divorce.

I think, Love is the main factor that binds two individuals. Saints and poets alike have praised it. Therefore love marriages have more chances of success because there is pre-marital understanding between the would-be couples. More often, unpleasant consequences arise only when love is obstructed or the period of courtship is very short. If love is given way to and the latter is taken care of, love marriages succeed and nothing else.