Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Arshia said:   9 years ago
Hi friends,

Arrange marriage is always better than love marriage. As we all of us know Mistakes will happen by humans only some of which will teach us life lessons.

Confusing! Let me tell you my point of view, because, In both cases, there is a chance of choosing wrong person as a life partner. We may realize it after marriage ar some point of time whether it is love or arrange.

In case of love 'U' are purely responsible for everything and will not get any support, but in case of arrange, parents are responsible for everything and they always stand beside U as a strong supporter which you actually need when you are heartbroken either in love or arrange.

In case of love marriage, You should only stand and collect all the broken pieces of heart. In case of arrange Marriage, before you fall or even after falling, your family will make you stand again and will help you in collecting the broken heart pieces.

Support from parents and family is always the greatest strength ever!!!

Hope you guys like it.

Thank you.
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Kasim said:   9 years ago
Hi friends.

According to my point of view, in arrange marriages parents select husband for their daughter with their own measuring rods which may not suit a girl.

They considered the girls only a commodity to be handed over to the boy of their choice.

It an insult to the principle of the equality of sexes.
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RInku yadav said:   9 years ago
Hi, I'm Rinku Yadav. I likes love marriage. They knew about each other past time so they will no facing any problem who is relative each other. I knows that them parents against marriage because perents don't understands about them love. However parents declare marriage but they (parents) want to marriage acording society. According to me, shoud be replace love marriage.
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Smruti said:   9 years ago
In my point of view, love marriage is good. Because in love marriage they both know each other from a long time and they already knew about each others background like dislike character nature everything after knowing this much they choose each other so if they will marry each other then they will not face any major problem. I know parents might oppose them for marriage but if they are really want to spend their hole life together then they should convince their parents.
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SOHAIL said:   9 years ago
Hi, I am Sahil, l say about love marriage is better because of both understand one another better.
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Anom said:   9 years ago
Look, Arrange marriage are good for the person who did not fall in love. But the person who really falls in love and wanna spend a great time with their partner should choose love marriage. Whatever parents will say but you should do love marriage and prove your real love in that love marriage and relationship. You should not care about what will others say. You should only care about your love and your partner after or before a love marriage. All you need to prove yourself to others about your true love!
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Shreya patra said:   9 years ago
I completely support arranged marriage because, at present date, the youth reaches the conclusion of a wedlock at a very early stage what basically they have is lust or infatuation with degrading values they have no idea of love. A love marriage last just as long as the spark is alive and 1ce it is dead, the relationship collapses but and arrange marriage there is considerable amt of family pressure!
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Girish said:   9 years ago
I think love marriage is better because they both are understand themselves and then can live with love for lifelong.
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Bipul prakash said:   9 years ago
Hi friends.

According to me, arranged marriages is much more better than love marriages.

Love marriages give temporary pleasure but permanent pain.

Arrange marriage gives temporary pain but permanent pleasure.
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Sravya said:   9 years ago
Hi friends, in my point of view both marriages are best. Whatever it is love or arranged marriage every husband and wife must understand each other. Otherwise, it will become divorce.
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