Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Manasa said:   6 years ago
No matter if it is love or arranged marriage. If they maintain mutual understanding in life and if both partners respectful, patient, love each other it leads to a happy life. It is a matter of two persons as well as their families to be loved. According to the India divorce list, love marriages are getting divorced more than an arranged marriage. Mostly in love marriages people are not maintaining there relationship till end of life. You have many reasons to love him/her before marriage and people should not find reasons to get divorce after marriage the love at starting should be maintained till the end of life. If both partners are in love till the end of life apart of love or arranged marriage they lead happy life.
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Rekha said:   6 years ago
In my opinion love marriage and arrange marriage both are good. Because it depends on two people mutual understanding. How to treat each other behavior, love, honesty, care. In love marriage, they know each other good hobbies bad hobbies how to treat partner when he angry they know everything before marriage happy, unhappy things how to handle upon our partner.

And in arrange marriage they know after marriage each other they take time to understand each other about partner behavior, care, anger, like, and it depends on similarity and Understanding. In arrange marriage problems come so your parents do compromise about two people. If love marriage comes a problem so couples self solve own problems. According to me both marriage are good marriages all depend on two people thinking Understanding and behavior nothing at all.
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Swapnil said:   6 years ago
Hello everyone,
My name is swapnil pawar.

According to me, It cannot be decided which marriage will be most successful (love or arranged).

Essentially love marriage takes place when both the partners fall in love with each other, they understand each other better, however in arranged marriages, both the partners only know a little about each other. They are totally unaware about their partners likes and dislikes, their habits etc. But this unawareness makes the marriage that interesting. However, It is still impossible to determine which marriage is better.
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R P said:   6 years ago
I will talk about the modern generation, Not the old generation where there were only arranged marriages. First, let's talk about arranged marriage. In an arranged marriage, we have to marry an unknown person. We completely don't know about his/her character. If he/she has a previous affair or loved someone before, then he/she will not be able to give full love to his arranged partner or one day when they meet and you get to know that your wife/husband has feelings for someone. How would that feel to you? Another disadvantage. If you don't fit with your partner or you don't like their habit or behavior.

How will you manage with that person for a lifetime? And nowadays girls are aware and educated. If they don't feel good with you or things didn't go well. Then you both can have a divorce. In the case of Love Marriages. In the modern age, most girls are smart. They think whether a guy would be fit with them or not. If they feel her parents will not agree then she will not involve her in life. If both partners love each other and if they are of the same caste. AND IF BOTH PARENTS AGREE AND DONT HAVE ANY PROBLEM WITH MARRIAGE. SO BOTH PARTNERS WILL GET FAMILY SUPPORT AND IT WILL BE BEST AND HAPPY MARRIAGE EVER.
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Dharmendra Rajoriya said:   6 years ago
Hello friends.

Good afternoon.

According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in the love marriage, we get to know each other very well and remain satisfied with each other or we can live each other a long time so love marriage is better than arrange marriage in modern situation.
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Shubham said:   6 years ago
As far as I am concerned love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In love marriage both partner know about each and every thing about her / him also they tuning is better they have spend lot's of time with together that'y They made perfect for each other aslo they know about their secrets.
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Hritik Solanki said:   6 years ago
Hi I am Hritik,

According to me for a healthy relationship, it doesn't matter whether it was arranged marriage or love marriage. What ultimately matters is love and happiness. If the couple is happy with each other, they care for each other, they respect each other then they can face each and every problem of life and live happily.
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Chandan kumar said:   6 years ago
Hello everyone, I'm Chandan. Today I am going to give my best opinion about the love marriage vs Arranged marriage. From my point of view, love marriages is better than arranged marriages. Because in love marriages you already know the Lifepartner, her/his habits and behaviour and way of living and treating. So I will suggest to all for love marriages.
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Sagar Gogade said:   5 years ago
In my point of view, we can't decide which is right. In love marriage they people know each others but in arrange marriage they take more time to understand. If we get good partner in arrange then its OK, but here is very low possibility to get good and understandable partner. So I am in fever of love marriage 70% and arrange marriage 30%. Thank you.
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Swechchha mishra said:   5 years ago
As per my point of view, I support love marriage as compared to arrange marriages as in love marriage we get ample of time to know about the person and their feelings. We get time to know whether we can spend our whole life with each other or no.
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