Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Shivika said:   8 years ago
Most of youth treat physical attraction as LOVE. For relationship of 2-year people are ready to leave their parents with whom they stayed for 25 years.

When you date someone you will always show your positive side to another person (boy/girl) to impress them. You will always hide your negative side. When someone knows about negative side, they will break with you. People call it heartbreak or break marriage. That's the main reason of failure of LOVE marriage because expectation is very high.

People says that In LOVE marriage person is very compatible. Are you joking? To find the compatible person you need to date at least 50-100 persons. Hit rate is 5-10% in first attempt.

Have anyone has ever seen in LOVE marriage that girl is not attractive or good looking. 95% of LOVE marriages are based on look of girl.

I am not favoring ARRANGE marriage also.

SO instead of going for arrange or LOVE marriage. Find the person who respects others, kind hearted, honest. If you find such person you will fall in love with him/her again and again.
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Vaibhav said:   8 years ago
In my opinion, love marriage is best, however, we need to understand, As we live in India we have lots of restriction on girls and it's not possible for everyone to find his or her love so this statement does not not indicate that arranged marriages are completely useless.
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Bato ahmed said:   8 years ago
I agree that arranged marriage is better than romantic one because the arranged married couple can take good care of each other even though they never met before. And they can still respect and trust each other.
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Snigdha said:   8 years ago
Hi, everyone.

In my opinion, love marriage is better than a arrange marriage. Because in a love marriage already we have an idea about that person like his or her likes, dislikes. And from a long time, we have been cooperating with each other and that will remain for forwarding life also. So it's not about love also about mutual understanding in between two beautiful persons who will become a life partner. Life is not for a short span. Marriage is a vehicle and the wife and spouse are two wheels of that. So if there will no cooperation with each other that vehicle will face accident. So for such vehicle, it's important to know each other and love each other externally.
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Gayatri said:   8 years ago
In my opinion, Everyone should have right to choose their own life partner with whom they can share their every sorrow and happiness.

It doesn't matter they do love marriage or arrange marriage.

Love marriage and arrange marriage both are right if partners have understanding, respect and love for each other.
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AMAN said:   8 years ago
I think that the love marriage is more successful than arrange marriage because in the love marriage we known the person before marriage and their mutual understanding is more as compare to the arranged married people.

In love marriage, both of them known about their past and they can trust each other more confidently than in arranged married.
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Nasir kamal said:   8 years ago
I think love marriage more than success for life. Husband and wife don't misunderstanding. Also understand the life. After marriage be happy life. They will be enjoy the life.
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Daniyal kamal said:   8 years ago
I think love marriage is not the success for life. More than 2 years relationship. Husband and wife are more misunderstandings. Then go to the court take for the divorce.
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Dishu said:   8 years ago
For me - love marriage is better than arranged one, but a love marriage with a long-running affair, and not an affair of just a week and then marriage - no! That's not love. Love happens when you know you can even 'die' for this person, and when your relationship reaches to that intensity and passion, only then you should get married, and for me, I can't 'die' for a stranger in an arranged marriage!
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M.Harshavardhan said:   8 years ago
In my point of view, love marriages are better than arranged marriages because in love marriages there is no chance of egos. So the total life is beautiful.
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