Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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DIBYAJYOTI PATTNAIK said:   7 years ago
Good morning ladies and gentlemen,

Marriage is nothing but a close bonding of two families. In my opinion both the marriage has equal importance. Like every dish has its own ingredients like wise every marriage has also its own ingredient and the main ingredients are love, caring, honesty, loyalty, understanding each other problem and standing for each other family. The ingredient which should be diminished or kept away is "EGO" of each other.

Problems arises in every marriage may be its love or arrange because in arrange marriage we don't know each other except names and in which company we are working, so it takes 1 to 2 year to know each other choices and behavior. In that period of time a lot of patience is required and the key to that special bond is the most important word called "SORRY".

Like wise in love marriage from the beginning we know each other so after marriage the expectation level of each other increases rapidly, and if in the same point your behavior changes then argument takes place.

Every problem which arises should be solved within the four walls of the room without involving a third party.

So, the major thing we should have a clear chit with our partner and make clear that there is no misunderstanding within us.

THANK YOU.
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Sanju Ghasal said:   7 years ago
Marriage is a life long commitment of two partners and also a close bonding of two families. Whether it is arranged marriage or love marriage, it will be successful only if both the partners are serious and honest in the relationship. It's only depends on their trust, care and understanding between them. In love marriage, one has already known one's partner's likes, dislikes and all about him. In arrange marriage, we can take time to learn about each other before marriage which is a sign of evolving society. Life partner must be selected according our own will, not by force but also allowance with our parents. Parents are the most important part of our life. We can't spend our life happily to hurt them.
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Tanya b. said:   7 years ago
For a marriage to be successful, I believe that few things are inmportant.

1. You should know your partner well. Of course, some arranged marriages work too, but I believe that Proper friendship and understanding is needed between two human beings for a marriage or union to work for life.

2, your family and their family should agree. I believe that no union is worth it to defy your family and loved ones. If your family is giving you a hard time, then you must give them time and gently make them understand you point of view.

For this, a successful marriage combines both aspects of love and arranged marriage- parents' approval and love and understanding of your partner.
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Sohit said:   6 years ago
Marriage is a life long commitment of two partners and also a close bonding of two families.

If they are love marriage or arrange marriage.

But according to my view love marriage is best.

1. In love marriage one has already know one's partner like, dislike and all about him.
2. In love marriage to people connect hurtly.
3. Understanding is necessary for making the relation.
4. Love marriage is the best way to end castism.
5. Love marriage is cheaper than the arrange marriage.
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RAHEEM said:   6 years ago
Hi.

I AM Raheem,

Marriage is very important aspects in human life. It is a backbone of a society. It is a beginning stage of a Family. It create a society. So that we should think more and more before we get marry, before we plan to marry. It is not only a partners life but also it is creating an ideal parents and children.

Here we can think about our would how to be. Even if it is love marriage or arranged marriage. The first and important thing should be morale couples. I am not blaming lovers, if they get marry by keeping their moral side before their marriage. But most if the case not. Arranged marriage is so humble and straight path and understanding both families each other peacefully. So the elders and experienced members of family can guide and advise the new couples whether they can sellect suitable partner.
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Radhika Tarika said:   6 years ago
According to my opinion, both marriages have merits and demerits we can not say that love marriage doesn't fail and arrange marriage doesn't have a happy life we need to love and care for a happy marriage life whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage. I saw many peoples who had a love marriage and they are not happy. In love marriage, we know each other before marriage and in arrange marriage we are going to know each other after marriage that's the only difference between both marriages. Both marriages should have understanding and love and also we must have patience because every marriage has ups and downs. Both marriages is a new and happy part of our life so we should live not to spoil it.
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Swati said:   6 years ago
Both arranged and love marriages have there pros and cons but it totally depends upon the husband and wife s mutual understanding.

In a couple there must be three things that are;
1. Love
2. Belief
3. Respect.

These 3 thing s are very important without these things no marriage will survive.

So no matter it is love marriage or arranges marriage both are good if the couple has love respect and beliefs on each other.
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Rajneeshmishra said:   6 years ago
Hi everyone.

My name is Rajneesh Mishra.

According to my point of views, both have merits and demerits. In love marriage both partner understand their feeling like and dislike it is plus point of love marriage but afterwards their relationship bounding is not same as before. Mostly divorce case happen in love marriage so at your own place both are right. In case of arrange marriage both partner does not understand each other. So it takes time for Harmony and he cannot show your feeling and both are feeling as shy. So some disadvantage in love marriage. So every type of marriage does not perfect we should have love emotions and respect.
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Sweety said:   6 years ago
According to my point of view, both marriages are good but love marriage is best because in love marriage we know all things about each other examples -likes, dislikes etc.

In love marriage, both are living happily with each other without any problems and there is no any problem happen for women related to her job because her life partner knows very well about her career, her choice etc so according to me love marriage is best.
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Khushboo said:   6 years ago
Good afternoon friends.

According to my point of view both are good but I supporting to arrange marriage. Because in arrange marriage parents chek the family background and proper knowledge about other side people. So in case after marriage, any type of problem occurred then parents support you. Problem like. In love marriage, After marriage in girls case if her husband takes drinks or any other type of addiction and her husband harm on girls then that time girls will have support to her parents and family members.
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