Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

It just depends upon the person with which you going to marriage. Because if you choose or your family selects a bad person & you don't know about him then what will you do? And it happens with love also just think that a person you love most and after marriage he/she ignoring you.

Then, most important thing is that life has two faces good or bad and also marriage has both ways means either good or bad. Choose your life partner attentively. Because it is India.

Hi everyone. After I read all the statement before me, I realise something that actually unique.

Most of us thought that arrange married are part of tradition and women as a commodity. But have you realize something? For me arrange married is a man and a woman married by their parents because a lot of reason for example that the daughter and the son have an age that actually perfects to become a bride or groom, but there a condition that makes there can't getting married soon like they only focus on study, workaholic, still alone a. K. A doesn't have any mate before, don't wanna fall in love or never fall in love, or can't find the true match, weird, etc. That makes their parents worried, 'what if my son or daughter still life alone after I died? Who will take care him or her?' That's why arranged married is needed to be held. That's why parent seek the perfect match for their kid, start from health (there is no parent want their kid marriage with someone full of disease), wealth (its kind of materialistic, but who parents want their kid life in poverty, no one want it), and background (that's the matter after all to know the truth identity).

And love marriage. It's just love. Have no reason to be in love and to be love with or by someone.

But marriage about love is not the simple like what people always read on book or novel or by watching drama on TV.

Marriage by love is needed preparation first, start to prepare from metal until wealth.

Why mental? Bcs we know it's not a taboo again that our mate can change into another people just for less than 24 hours we living together with them. Somehow a relationship before marriage & their appearance such wonderful may be a little bit annoying but still can acceptable by us. But after marriage, we will stay with them 24 hours on 7 days without holiday that can make a new behaviour that never shows before marriage, become a huge drama section on marriage life.

And for me which one of the best?

Both of that are perfect for their own reason.

In My View, the arranged marriages are better love marriages why because for suppose in love marriages if they have any problems in their married life. They won't come to their parents. Why because their leaved their parents and they thought that they have mutual understanding between them. But in my there is no mutual understanding between them. They thought like that but actually not like that. In particular age they that love but it is absolutely wrong. In that age that is not at all love it is infatuation. But they don't know that at that time. They felt that after some years that is wrong but at that time but there is no use. Coming to arranged marriages there is a mutual understanding between the couple and their parents also. In olden days all marriages are arranged but now most of the marriages are love. At that time the parents are sitting together they talk each other their children and their traditions all are they talked each other. And then they married each other. For suppose any problem come between them they talked with their parents. So that they solved their problems like that. And the most important thing is in either arranged or love marriages the cooperation between them is very important. At last, I conclude that arranged marriages is better than love marriages.

I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because boy and girl know each other. They also know their likes and dislikes. So I think that love marriage is better than arrange marriage.

Hello, friends, l am Govind Kushawaha.

According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In this marriage, bridge and groom will by couple together. They like each other after then they will be married. So better than arrange marriage. Thank you.

Hi, friends.

In my thinking love and mutual understanding is much more important between couple rather its love marriage or arrange marriage. If this thing is there both the marriage successful.

In case of love marriage sometimes it's difficult to get the permission of parents at that time keep patience and try to get permission.

Because without parents permission you can't enjoy this marriage.

Hi friends, myself Vinay Kumar Gaddala.

In my way, both are same but one thing is understanding is important between couples. If there is no understanding any relation will break up either it love marriage or arranged marriage. But in love, both persons spend their time for each other that may help to understand each other. But in arranged marriages, there is no conversation between both couples before marriage in past. Nowadays, after marriage fixing they making conversation themselves.

What I mean to say is understanding play an important role in life either it love or arranged marriage.

Thank you.

Love marriage is better one because in that the two persons can understand each other. There is total transparency about each other. A boy knows well if his soulmate can manage his family as a integral unit, if she is perfect to fit into the system.

So, I strongly support love marriage.

A very important and an ongoing social factor going on in our country. By the way, I am not against arrange or love marriages as this is our right to choose our future. Everyone saying that if we are going with b love marriages this hurts our parents the most but I want to ask you guys are you going to live with him/her or your parents. It's you right so, of course, it's your right to choose your partner as this is not for your time being this relationship is going to be for life and you have to be satisfied with it so guys go on weather arrange or Love marriage be sensible and be confident in urself on what you choose. And give your 100% in that relationship. And most importantly be happy. Keep away all your ego. Be patient towards your partner and the most important thing is to adjust. As your going to be together for every good and bad happens in your life. Live your best as we get a life.

Friends, I am in favour of arranged marriage because in arrange marriage, our parents are with us but in love marriage, if we are doing something so doing on our own thinking.