Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Malini said:   7 years ago
Hello everyone!

According to me, love marriage is everyone's dream but all dreams can't happen in reality.

So family support is most necessary if not.

Then anyone should do arrange marriage because nothing is bigger than our family which is our base.

Our parents do so many sacrifices for us and.

Unfortunately, they are demanding for arrange marriage and they are against of love marriage then only do whatever our family want because our love marriage feelings are too small in front of their love, care, financial support and most importantly so many sacrifices.

Finally, love after or before marriage does not matter but understanding, care and love make a happy married life forever.
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Anand said:   7 years ago
The gap what we observe between love marriage and arrange marriage can be minimised if parents starts seeing love marriage not in negative sense. They should think what is more important the community or their children. Simultaneously if a person decides to go against their parents they must think million times because no-one can be more important for a person than his/her mom and dad. There could be various issues of different people with their parents but they are always most respected.
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Praveen said:   7 years ago
Hello, my dear friends.

In my point of view, it's very difficult to say which is really better among love marriage and arranged marriage. Both or like head and tails. Sometimes love marriage is better as same time arranged also better in some cases. But marriage is most important part of every ones life. I ll try to explain with an example as we know very well arranged marriages are can be done by parents without knowing their children opinion, we can say its a family forced marriage, but they ll care about them before and after marriage also. They will protect and save them in difficult situations even. But the persons who are going to marry thy don't know each others much. They may face problems after getting married. If come to love marriage both are comfortable with each other because they knew their behavior, tastes, decision making ufcourse everything. So they can live very easily but they might be eliminated by the families in some cases. At that time they might not have much protection. One more point I want to mention as we know now a days the persons who got love married they are also taking divorce then what is the meaning of love and where is the love. Where she/ he wants to go ? This we can see in arranged marriage also. The family save them. Finally, I'm concluding this topic it's difficult to say but I can stick with arranged marriage only. Thank you.
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Kartikey verma said:   7 years ago
In my opinion, both the topics stand equally right. In today's scenario, in arrange marriage, parents give both people ample of time to understand each other before taking a final call. This helps them to understand each other in a better way. While talking about love marriage, the understanding betwen the two persons is very high as they are together for a longer period of time and knows each other in a beter way in every aspect of life.

In my opinion, dealing with the today's scenario where the parents are supportive there is not much difference between the love and arrange marriage because in both of them you get the time to know your partner.
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KAMMY said:   7 years ago
So, You basically have 3 Options - Stay as a bachelor, Find the love of your life and go for love marriage, and, finally, trust your parents in hope that they will find a best match for you i.e. going for an arranged marriage.

According to me, whether you want to become a bachelor for life, or get yourself engaged (love or arranged) - its totally upto you, upto your upbringing i.e.whether you have brought up in rural areas or urban areas (while this impacts your marriage decision a lot in terms of "Log kya Kahenge?") , what are your skills and education level, are you introvert or extrovert?, and your complete lifestyle. They really impact the MARRIAGE STUFF AT FIRST.

What else? Like everyone has said - go for love as there is better understanding or go for arranged as there are no divorce cases because your family with support you. Go for love as, since, you know your partner better, so, he will take care of you for lifetime and go for arranged, as no matter what the situation your family will always be there for you. Bla bla bla.

Hey Folks! "There are all standarized and so-old-sayings. Please come out of that". You will get love, support, care and dowry-free life from both marriages - - if your partner is good and if his family has a good modern thinking. I love doing "Love Marriages" because I love doing it and I have no particular reason of doing it. But, but, I am of the other opinion here as well. In case, I don't find a partner of my choice (who is good by heart, appearance doesn't matter too much | who will respect me and my parents | who will support me through every walks of life, IN RETURN, I ALSO HAVE TO MAKE SURE OF THIS). "Always try to have a Give and Take Attitude in your life", I will go for "Arranged Marriage" - who knows whom you were unable to find can be found by your Parents itself! May be, your parents can help you find the person of your type, taste and choice as they know you well so, they may know, who can fit you well.

So, In one aspect, Marriages are just matter of "CHOICES" and on other aspect, they are all about "THINKING" which you pals have provided in the discussion box.

Rest, there is no halt to this discussion of MARRIAGE. It will be complex as you will make it. So, KEEP IT SIMPLE, STUPID.
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Abinash said:   7 years ago
Hello friends.

In my opinion, I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we already knew each other. There is less chance of dowry during marriage and also domestic violence in the society would be less if its a love marriage. So, we should definitely encourage live marriage so that we can't get out of any trouble and enjoy the future life in safely.

Thank you.
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Mohit khokhar said:   7 years ago
I support the arrange marriage.

In an arranged marriage, parents do enquiry about each other family so there is a probability that the marriage will happen in the similar kind of family.

Parents or relatives will think about the future of economic conditions.

The couple most like think about both of their families so they will learn to adjust.

Family and well-wishers are still there if there happens something wrong after marriage.

Thank you.
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Anya said:   7 years ago
According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage why because before marriage we know and understand with each other. But in arrange marriage our parents will bring matches and we agree to parents decision.
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Ranjeet kumar said:   7 years ago
I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage because all parent ' wishs. My child follow me because no risk in our culture.
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Anu patel said:   7 years ago
Hello everyone according to me love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because marriage becomes only one time each person so its special for everyone and marriage all about depends on the two-person like dislike ambition efficiency and all that if two-person already knew each other, not facing future problem etc. So, In My point of view, the love marriage is better to thank you.
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