Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Hariom Kaushik said:   7 years ago
In my opinion, love marriage is prefer to arrange marriage because in love marriage couples understand each other in long time but in arrange marriage couples understand each other in one meeting. So, I support love marriage. Thanks.
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VIPUL said:   7 years ago
In Love Marriage, more expectation than the surprise of love after Marriage, whereas in Arranged Marriage there is always a surprise of love with less expectation. In Love Marriage, most of the times Love ends and Marriage life (expectation) starts whereas in Arranged Marriage, Marriage life (expectation) ends and the surprise of Love starts.
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Rajendra Rathore said:   7 years ago
In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we know everything about our partners. Like her hobby. Choice, Behaviour. Everything but in arrange marriage by arranging in one meeting how could they say that they made for each other.
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Kanika Rajkhowa said:   7 years ago
Hi, my name is Kanika. I respect what all of your point of view but what my point of view is, that I prefer love marriage because in love marriage people understand each other so much what they want or not etc but it doesn't mean I criticize arrange marriage or I am against of arrange marriage because all people have their own choice and own opinions so I think no one can take bad decisions for themselves. That's all.

Thank you.
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Deepu said:   7 years ago
Hi everyone, what I feel is love marriage is far better than arranged because, I have seen most of the people in relationships who are actually happy even after years because during the relationship they get to know about each other, their tastes and they have a proper understanding between them. It's not that in arranged marriages there is no love and understanding at all but what I think is once we get married we don't have any other option to do if we come to know that the person is not right for us. For whole life, we need to tolerate him even if we don't want to. There are some cases like even if we like a person and want to share an entire life with him parents doesn't support and it finally leads to an arranged marriage. Love or arranged marriage whatever it is we need to love a person as a human being as he is going to be a partner forever and I'm not telling that it's destiny but it's our choice towards everything and need to stay happy because it's our life. We don't need to give any apologies to anyone.
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Ayush Anand said:   7 years ago
Arrange marriage is far better than love marriage because there is respect between husband and wife and they.

Clear their disputes calmly whereas in love marriage some time parents are not happy and without the happiness of parent the marriage is like hollow gift. And any dis[utes leads to divorce or act as a fire in breaking.

Thread of love between parents.
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Chandini said:   7 years ago
Some people like love marriages because there have understanding before the marriage so then prefer love.

But arrange marriages have understandings after the marriages.

Our 4 to 5 years love may lose our childhood relationships in some causes so I prepare to support arrange marriages.
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Akash Raj Verma said:   7 years ago
Hi friends.

According to me, arrange marriage is more beneficial than the love marriage because nowadays both are become a very similar thing whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage etc.

If I would talk about this generation somehow our parents begin to understand our feeling what we really want in future husband/wife, so that is very nice to us.

They finding a people according to us even they allow to meet them and and left some time to understand them, officially they meet numbers of time throughout the day since they know themselves for the first time, till the marriage, eventually they fully understand each other and finally they have fallen in love and got married to each other so far as my thinking its best way to getting arrange marriage despite given pain and hurt (love marriage) to anyone especially parent.
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Pinkal Patel said:   7 years ago
I like love marriage.

Because love marriage people are Powerful in their bonding and relationship between them is very strong no miss understanding between them. Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we know everything about our partner. Her/his behaviour, character, taste choices everything. But in arrange marriage by arranging one meeting how could they decide that they made for each other. I think that we do arrange a marriage for our parents and society. But in love marriage, we can satisfy ourselves. That's why I support love marriage.
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Sakshi said:   7 years ago
According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage if our parents support us. Because in love marriage we know most of the things (likes and dislikes) about our partner. But in the arrange marriage there may be the pressure from our parents and we can suffer from it in our future.
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