Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Anurag Mishra said:   7 years ago
Look, it is very simple to explain which is correct and which is incorrect.

Like many people said that one is good and other is bad.

But people. Don't you think? Arrange marriage is like a GAMBLING?

Leave the things like gifts, dowry, feast and all these. Only think about those two who will have to marry. Because we are human. And emotion and trust are the Main aspects on which relationship build.

As I said arrange marriage is like a GAMBLING. In which people just go to live with those to whom they do not know before. If you get a good girl or a good boy. Then it's your good luck in gambling or otherwise, it's a very bad luck.

And I think. You are taking the decision about your whole life. So how can you play the game of gambling for your whole life?

If you get your bad luck in marriage then in whole life you will feel that you need to adjust.

And I can say adjusting to the situation is okay. BUT. It is not okay with a person with whom you will live your whole life.

That's why. People you just go to live a happy life. Not go for adjustment. And that's why the Supreme Court has also made the law to provide protection to the human. Because it better knows love marriage is fairer than arrange.
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Farah Liyas said:   7 years ago
In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because nowadays the most of failure by this love marriage. I hope when we take love marriage, most of the conversations there before marriage. It's not too fair and already knew what's like and dislikes and weak points too but if we take arrange marriage fully support of family and try to understand each other and find to know what's like or dislikes of partner and more and more. That time automatically loves will mix and be a great understandable life.

Thank you.
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NILESH said:   7 years ago
In my point of views, I believe it doesn't matter what type we have chosen. How we handle this knot (marriage) that's a matter a lot. Whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage Trust, affection, equality and understanding this all things should be there with no ego only can ones marriage life lead a successful way.

For love marriage:

When we have right to leave with our parents simultaneously we have right to find our partner.

We know our partner very well and know each possibility of him or her.

Social Evils like dowry can eradicate with a mutual understanding of couples.

For Arrange marriage:

Parents, the striking feature of arrange marriage is we have supported from parents and family.

Our parents also had gone through with arranging a marriage so they have more experience, haven't they? So we should trust them.

In love marriage, we already know our partner so if in future any quarrel will raise it definitely lead to divorce whereas in arrange marriage partner try to understand and manage the situation calmly while keeping their ego aside because they are totally new they try to make comfort zone and understand each other.

Every side has merits and demerits. It depends on partners that how they tackle situations.

Thnks.
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Akshay said:   7 years ago
Hello, everyone, today's topic is arrange marriage VS love marriage. According to me, I think arrange marriage and love marriage right to own places. In those situations there are some kinds of merits or demerits depend upon the personality and character of partner. Ego are present in both cases, couple get divorced.
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Riskey said:   7 years ago
According to me, arrange marriage is best because it is done by the happiness and blessings of Parents and family members.
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Jai said:   7 years ago
In my opinion, arrange marriage is better then love because nowadays if any family choose boy for there girl and girl for there boy they give us time for understand to each other if we satisfied with each thought, like, dislike and any quality what are you want on there partner then they do marriage of couple. Nowadays no any family want their boy or girl live any trouble in future.
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ABEL said:   7 years ago
According to me, arranged marriage is overall better than love marriage. Because in arranged marriage people get enough time to express their feeling with a partner. But in love marriage, they really don't understand each other. Most of the love in male and female occurs in their school time or college time. In that time, they have only seen few qualities of the people whom they love.
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Parmod said:   7 years ago
I think the love marriage is good because we know each other and there is no dowry system.
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Avinash said:   7 years ago
According to my opinion, love marriage & arrange marriage are both rights on their own place because the only difference is that EGO is the main difference in both the relationships and partners behaviour & character depend on the person.
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Bhuvi said:   7 years ago
According to me, I prefer love marriage because in that, only the two hearts get connected. Marriage is the next step of each and everyone life. In arrange marriage, the couples cannot know each other and they can't understand each other. Only love marriage couples can easily understand their feelings and character.
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