Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Kuldeep gupta said:   8 years ago
Actually, both the things are nearly same if we think a little bit more.

In both the cases very first time we meet a girl or boy who is a strange person for us.

In arrange marriage the reference for that strange person is our parents where as In Love marriage the reference may be our friend or we directly get familiar with that person come across the behavior and starts liking each other.
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Abhishek said:   8 years ago
I am in support of love marriage. We are mature enough to take the decision what is good for us. We are to live with that person, not our family so this decision should be taken by us. Love marriage is decreasing the customs in India previously there was a lot of customs in India like child marriage, dowry.

In love marriage, you love the person by their heart not by face but in arrange marriage they judge you by your physical appearance.

Most of the people have the wrong assumption about love marriage that it will get boring after marriage and then in this way so many misunderstanding will take place. It's wrong if you have a better understanding that it won't Be happen in marriage.
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SHIWANI said:   8 years ago
I am in support of love marriage. We are mature enough to take the decision what is good for us. We are to live with that person not our family so this decision should be taken by us. Love marriage is decreasing the customs in India previosly there was lot of customs in India like child marriage, dowry.

In love marriage you love the person by their heart not by face but in arrange marriage they jaudge you by your physical appearance.

Most of the people have wrong assumption about love marriage that it will get bored after marriage and then in this way so many misunderstanding will take place. It's wrong if you have better understanding that it won't Be happen in marriage.
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Sarah said:   8 years ago
If you have found someone to love and is loved in return, of course then it will be a love marriage.

Not everyone is so lucky, then you have to go for arranged marriage.

Just don't betray your love to have an arranged marriage because of dated ideas that arranged marriage is better than love marriage or parental pressure.
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Sanjay said:   8 years ago
Arrange marriage is the best because of bride and groom unknown and he doesn't know about each other and arrange marriage contract a two person and my partner choose by our Parents and elder so Arrange marriage is the best from love marriage.
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Sanjay said:   8 years ago
Arrange marriage is the best because of bride and groom unknown and he doesn't know about each other and arrange marriage contract a two person and my partner choose by our Parents and elder so Arrange marriage is the best from love marriage.
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Saurabh Kumar said:   8 years ago
A very important and an ongoing social factor going on in our country. By the way, I am not against arrange or love marriages as this is our right to choose our future. Everyone saying that if we are going with b love marriages this hurts our parents the most but I want to ask you guys are you going to live with him/her or your parents. It's you right so, of course, it's your right to choose your partner as this is not for your time being this relationship is going to be for life and you have to be satisfied with it so guys go on whether arrange or Love marriage be sensible and be confident in urself on what you choose. And give your 100% in that relationship. And most importantly be happy. Keep away all your ego. Be patient towards your partner and the most important thing is to adjust. As you're going to be together for every good and bad happens in your life. Live your best as we get a life.
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Vivek said:   8 years ago
In love marriage, both know each other perfectly before marriage and In arrange marriage both don't know each other perfectly before marriage but after marriage, both have to spend time to know each other.
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Achyut said:   8 years ago
Hi I am Achyut,

After love marriage creating a big problem in our family, then people are said this is love married problem. And after arrange marriage creating a big problem in our family, then people are said that they do not match their minds and thoughts, couples are not known each other, but not a blame arrange marriage.
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Honey said:   8 years ago
In my point of, both marriages depend in own self.

In love marraige, they connect with each other in all ways already.

In arrange marraige, they will connect with each other in ways they excited to know about many things to partner.

For me both marriages are good.
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