Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

No one can say that love marriage or the arranged marriage is the best. It is totally dependent on wife and husband if the boy doesn't understand his wife and the girl also doesn't understand the feelings of her husband what he/she wants and what you are giving then their life will be like a hell and on the other hand if they understand each other then their life will be like a heaven.

In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.

Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.

And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.

I think LOVE MARRIAGE is better than ARRANGED MARRIAGE because in my point of view marriage means a union between man and woman. Union means the action of joining together. Love means a strong feeling of affection, that affection makes both perfect. In love marriage there is a mutual understanding between the couple, That makes them happy.

Not only LOVE MARRIAGES Even ARRANGED MARRIAGES have the same affection but some of them are not adjusted, rest of the remaining are so HAPPY.

I am not discouraged ARRANGED MARRIAGES and I am also not Encouraged LOVE MARRIAGES because LOVE happens at any time to anyone so don't judge that marriage is so good that type of marriage is bad.

Hello friends,

I think love is in the air only till you get married, after marriage no matter whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage.

Love marriage is not appreciated in a traditional society like India because in India it's not the marriage of 2 souls not a marriage of 2 families.

Love is nothing but chemical locha, in other words, its infatuation only.

In today's world, people fall in love numerous times in life. With so many incidents of falling in love, at last, only mind can help you to make a right choice.

Those who listen to their mind, go for arrange marriage, if you start taking decisions from the heart then life will be a mess.

In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage Because we spend more time with each other, And we understand each other thing.

And we can say it depends on both of them (husband & wife) how they prepare their own lives.

I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage because even though we know the person in love marriage But it is not always successful. Whatever the parents think for us is best for us so we should have trust in our parents and in reality.

Hello. Everyone.

And have a charming morning to you all.

According to my poiint Of veiw arrange marriage is preferable to love marrige, because after arrange marriage couple get so many love, support, gifts. Etc. For enjoying their life.

But after love marrige they don't get such things.

Hello everyone.

Our topic for discussion is love vs arranged marriage.

Firstly I want to start the discussion by saying that one cannot judge the best out of these two marriages as it depends upon the understanding, trust between the couple itself and nothing to do with the type of marriage.

In both the marriages pros and cons are there. Coming to love marriage;

1. There will be good understanding b/w the couple as they know each other pretty well.

2. As they know each others likes n dislikes they will behave accordingly.

3. Planned love lives will result in great future.

4. Equality prevails in their relationship.

Disadvantages:

1. As they are mostly independent they take their own decisions quickly without considering parents and relatives like taking divorse.

2. Youngsters these days are confusing attraction to love and facing prblms after marriage.

Arrange marriage advantages.

1. Parents once for twice before coming up with a match.

2. They verify completely about the family background so that there shouldn't be any prblm in future.

3. The couple will think of their families and try to understand instead of going for divorce for silly reasons.

Disadvantages.

1. If there is no much tym to interact before marriage one cannot understand each other properly and will face prblms to share anything after marriage with their partners.

2. Whether love will blossom b/w each other or not will be a big question.

At last, I would like to conclude saying marriage is a life long commitment so decision should be in ones hand.

Hello everyone.

Nowadays love marriages become often, you can see it in anywhere. My opinion is love marriages are not false but without intimating to their parents so many couples are getting married and they were thinking that their parents are villain for their love. Arranged marriages are better compared to love marriages as because so many love marriages are not accepted by their parents. So start loving your wife after the arranged marriage.

Good morning guys.

Love vs arrange marriage according to me, just realise it guys a simple answer is a span of love before marriage is love marriage and span of after marriage is arrange marriage. So nothing wrong whether its love or arrange but only thing matters is true love only then your life will be successful and meaningful marriage life. If you love someone its wrong only if you don't marry them. Be confident and strive 100 % for your relationship with patience and prudence for your right choice.

I agree with my friend Raghu, most of the parents don't accept their marriage proposal because in girl's side they would expect that the boy should have a good job and home so that he would make their daughter throughout her life, whereas in boy's side they would expect some dowry or gift from the girl's side, if their parents don't fulfil this requirement, this results them called as villains.