Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

Group Discussion
Points to remember before you participate in this discussion:
  • Assume you are one of the members of a real group discussion.
  • Take the initiative to participate and contribute your thoughts.
  • Contribute your positive thoughts towards providing the solution.
  • Post your thoughts here.
Discussion:
611 comments Page 29 of 62.

Shefali sharma said:   8 years ago
I think it totally depends on the person's choice. Whether he is compatible with his lover or the one his parents chose. It's completely ok if he loves a person. He can ask his parents and if they agree, it's well & good otherwise he will have to start new innings. But in this process, he ought not to blame his parents if something goes wrong.

It's good to know a person already before getting married, but it's also fine when you get to explore after marriage.
(20)

Shubham Raj said:   7 years ago
My dear friends.

As far as, I know arrange marriage is very best because if you arrange marriage than everyone will give respect in your society and your parents will live with you forever but if you love marriage everyone will abuse you and it may that your parents will not to talk with you. Ok tell me one think friends what is necessary for you respect or love. If you want respect than you should obey your parents and you should arrange marriage.

THANKYOU.
(70)

Khushboo Goyal said:   9 months ago
In my opinion, whether it be love or arranged marriage, both individuals need to understand each other's needs and should be respectful of each other's decisions. Only then can we say that marriage is worth it.

On the other hand, in a love marriage, there will be lots of expectations from your partner because you already know each other. On the contrary, in an arranged one, there will not be many expectations, which can lead to fewer arguments and complexity.
(9)

Sona singh said:   5 years ago
In my point of view,

Love marriage is better than Arrange marriage.

Marriage is like life-long commitment. In love marriage, the couple knew each other very well, they understood each other fully, Hence there won't be many conflicts.

In Arrange Marriage, the couple does not know each other well. People who go for arranged marriage may not be that comfortable to discuss everything in detail before marriage. This may cause problems after marriage.

Thanks.
(20)

Harry said:   8 years ago
Both marriages can be successful if two people are ready to accept each other without any demands and bias. But I personally believe Love marriage is better than Arranged marriage because In love marriage, the couple already have an understanding of each other and they are ready to live happily. Marriage is a compromise done by two souls who are ready to become a single soul. So, with proper understanding, love and affection, Love marriage will be preferred.
(25)

RAHUL SHARMA said:   8 years ago
Love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because in these marriages there should be a better understanding in a couple.

They know each other.

But in Arranged marriage, boy and girl should not be a understand each other.

They understand each other after long time.

In arranged marriages, the families meet in same religion. But in love marriages there should be two cultures meet. Like if girl is belong to south Indian and boy belongs to punjab.
(38)

Devendra sharma said:   8 years ago
Marriage is done to spend life easier for boy and girl. Life can be easier in arrange marriage as well as with love marriage. But it all depends on situation that will be formed after marriage. Arrange marriage is supported by our families and society whereas Love marriage is not. If support is beneficial then families guide them by their experience. If not there arises cases of DOWRY harassment cases.

So, both can be best or worst depends on situation.
(19)

Aarti kumari said:   5 years ago
In my opinion, Both marriage are good. But if we love someone with the view of marriage, we must love according to our situations, family background, financial conditions and such types of more things. Then we can arrange and can take the support of our family for marriage. But in during love, we must not share our weakness to the partners, otherwise, it will help in divorce after marriage. In my point of view, the love marriage is better.

Thank you.
(12)

Himanshu Kumar said:   5 years ago
Hello everyone.

In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage.

I want to share my own views in front of you about love marriage.

1. In the love marriage the couple understand each other very well so they solve the problem each other and handle it easily.

2. They choose to each other without any compromise so the parents do not found to demand dowry. It is a blessing for society.

3. In the love marriage the caste system has ended.
(49)

Raghu said:   7 years ago
Hello everyone.

Nowadays love marriages become often, you can see it in anywhere. My opinion is love marriages are not false but without intimating to their parents so many couples are getting married and they were thinking that their parents are villain for their love. Arranged marriages are better compared to love marriages as because so many love marriages are not accepted by their parents. So start loving your wife after the arranged marriage.
(11)


Post your thoughts here:

Your comments will be displayed after verification.