Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Mushu said:
5 years ago
Good evening!
Thank you for allowing me to speak on one of the most controversial topics which is LOVE MARRIAGE OR ARRANGE MARRIAGE.
I would start by elaborating on both.
Marriage is a legal form to recognize two people as partners.
Love marriage is a type a marriage where both individuals agree to spend their rest of their life together.
Arrange marriage is a type of marriage where the parents chose their partners.
According to my opinion Love marriage is better and more comfortable. Both the partners already know about each other, they know about there interests and mundanes.
Also, they have already been together, so more comfortable around each other and more understanding.
While in arrange marriage you don't know who the person really is, there is some news in which many of the few times the husband is not educated, or are already married. Hence it is necessary to have a background check before you marry the person.
But it's not the same case with all the arrange marriages, arrange marriage is beautiful too. It's just you need to choose the right person.
I will end by concluding whether it is love or arrange a search for the right person, and be the right person, everything else is secondary.
THANK YOU.
Thank you for allowing me to speak on one of the most controversial topics which is LOVE MARRIAGE OR ARRANGE MARRIAGE.
I would start by elaborating on both.
Marriage is a legal form to recognize two people as partners.
Love marriage is a type a marriage where both individuals agree to spend their rest of their life together.
Arrange marriage is a type of marriage where the parents chose their partners.
According to my opinion Love marriage is better and more comfortable. Both the partners already know about each other, they know about there interests and mundanes.
Also, they have already been together, so more comfortable around each other and more understanding.
While in arrange marriage you don't know who the person really is, there is some news in which many of the few times the husband is not educated, or are already married. Hence it is necessary to have a background check before you marry the person.
But it's not the same case with all the arrange marriages, arrange marriage is beautiful too. It's just you need to choose the right person.
I will end by concluding whether it is love or arrange a search for the right person, and be the right person, everything else is secondary.
THANK YOU.
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Ravi Raj said:
5 years ago
Marriage is an important social institution and every individual wants to have a perfect match. In love marriages, individuals choose partners on their own, while in case of arranged marriages, partners are being chosen by the family. However, we all know that a great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences, be it love marriage or an arranged one.
Conclusion:
Both " the love and the arranged marriages " have their merits as well as demerits and marriage is a decision of lifetime. Though families are involved in most of the marriages, yet it's the couple who has to live together for lifetime. So, the decision to choose life partner should be left to the individuals. Ultimately, no one can certify the best way for a perfect marriage because just like life, marriages too are full of uncertainties.
Conclusion:
Both " the love and the arranged marriages " have their merits as well as demerits and marriage is a decision of lifetime. Though families are involved in most of the marriages, yet it's the couple who has to live together for lifetime. So, the decision to choose life partner should be left to the individuals. Ultimately, no one can certify the best way for a perfect marriage because just like life, marriages too are full of uncertainties.
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Anchal kumari said:
5 years ago
Good morning everyone.
Myself Anchal kumari.
And according to me, love marriage is much better than arrange marriage. It does not mean that I said that every love marriage is good because along with love some other things also matter just like finical condition. If both the member is independent then yes love marriage is a good option because you know each other very well. You know all the strength and weakness, bad and good habits of each and before marriage, you accept this all thinks but in arrange marriage you don't know each other you don't know the good and bad habits of each other and some habits can make problems in your relationship because this is true that parents never tell bad habits at the time of marriage then only show you the good habits good thinks of her daughter /son.
And the most important thing that only loves marriage can remove and that is dowry.
Myself Anchal kumari.
And according to me, love marriage is much better than arrange marriage. It does not mean that I said that every love marriage is good because along with love some other things also matter just like finical condition. If both the member is independent then yes love marriage is a good option because you know each other very well. You know all the strength and weakness, bad and good habits of each and before marriage, you accept this all thinks but in arrange marriage you don't know each other you don't know the good and bad habits of each other and some habits can make problems in your relationship because this is true that parents never tell bad habits at the time of marriage then only show you the good habits good thinks of her daughter /son.
And the most important thing that only loves marriage can remove and that is dowry.
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Firoj khan said:
5 years ago
Marriage is a connection of the two soul.
It is a very important part of life. We need a partner in life they help each other in difficult situations. In love marriage, we know our partners before marriage and we understand each other very well as well as we know how to react in different condition. But in arrange marriage we not know each other before and we take some time and our likes and dislike may be different as well as our understanding and behaviour may be different. In arrange marriage not only join two couple but also join two families. The most important thing in marriage is understanding behaviour and how can they stand in a difficult time.
It is a very important part of life. We need a partner in life they help each other in difficult situations. In love marriage, we know our partners before marriage and we understand each other very well as well as we know how to react in different condition. But in arrange marriage we not know each other before and we take some time and our likes and dislike may be different as well as our understanding and behaviour may be different. In arrange marriage not only join two couple but also join two families. The most important thing in marriage is understanding behaviour and how can they stand in a difficult time.
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Ch.Sai Sireesha said:
4 years ago
According to me, whether it is love or arranged marriage accepting and understanding each other is very important. In a love marriage, it is easy to understand each other because they spend a lot of time before marriage, In an arranged marriage, it takes some time to understand others. Once the bond is established between each other they can live happily by adjusting and compromising to the day to day problems. Therefore in my personal opinion, a love marriage with parents happiness is the best option.
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Gaurav Kumar said:
1 year ago
Firstly, we can't say which marriage is better than the other.
People who had an arranged marriage and who had a love marriage are happy in their lives, but there are some who are not.
But In my opinion, it is very important to know the person to whom you are getting married. Marriage is also like a phase of life that can cherish or ruin your life. So, it is very important that you choose your partner wisely. Whether it is a love marriage or arrangement. The judgement of the partner should made with the consent of the persons who are going to marry each other.
People who had an arranged marriage and who had a love marriage are happy in their lives, but there are some who are not.
But In my opinion, it is very important to know the person to whom you are getting married. Marriage is also like a phase of life that can cherish or ruin your life. So, it is very important that you choose your partner wisely. Whether it is a love marriage or arrangement. The judgement of the partner should made with the consent of the persons who are going to marry each other.
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Marella Triveni said:
9 years ago
In my point of view, Arrange marriage is 100% perfect, because our parents are love very much, in studies you study 4 years at a college.
They search the many colleges and chose the best one our's.
So, it is same that in our 4 years of life they select many colleges and gives the best option. Same to same of our 80 years of life they give the best one of the life partner.
In the world, No love is greater than our parents love.
Thank you much.
They search the many colleges and chose the best one our's.
So, it is same that in our 4 years of life they select many colleges and gives the best option. Same to same of our 80 years of life they give the best one of the life partner.
In the world, No love is greater than our parents love.
Thank you much.
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Sunny Basoya said:
8 years ago
I also support and favor of love marriage. Because in love marriage both of them know each other and likes and dislike. But we need parents acceptance in love marriage.
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Priya said:
8 years ago
Hey, My opinion is love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because we spend more time with each other. And we understand each other thing. Mentality, Easy to deal with both families. They all depend on understanding.
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Prasath said:
7 years ago
Hi, friends.
love marriage is better than arrange marriage because the love marriage couples are very known and understanding to each one characteristic so easy to solve any problems at every situation. But the arrange marriage is only satisfied our parents and family, not for yours. I think I don't like unknown person enter in my life.
love marriage is better than arrange marriage because the love marriage couples are very known and understanding to each one characteristic so easy to solve any problems at every situation. But the arrange marriage is only satisfied our parents and family, not for yours. I think I don't like unknown person enter in my life.
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