Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Pathan said:   8 years ago
In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage Because we spend more time with each other, And we understand each other thing.

And we can say it depends on both of them (husband & wife) how they prepare their own lives.
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Ruchita Sonkusare said:   8 years ago
Hello friends,

I think love is in the air only till you get married, after marriage no matter whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage.

Love marriage is not appreciated in a traditional society like India because in India it's not the marriage of 2 souls not a marriage of 2 families.

Love is nothing but chemical locha, in other words, its infatuation only.

In today's world, people fall in love numerous times in life. With so many incidents of falling in love, at last, only mind can help you to make a right choice.

Those who listen to their mind, go for arrange marriage, if you start taking decisions from the heart then life will be a mess.
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Malika said:   8 years ago
I think LOVE MARRIAGE is better than ARRANGED MARRIAGE because in my point of view marriage means a union between man and woman. Union means the action of joining together. Love means a strong feeling of affection, that affection makes both perfect. In love marriage there is a mutual understanding between the couple, That makes them happy.

Not only LOVE MARRIAGES Even ARRANGED MARRIAGES have the same affection but some of them are not adjusted, rest of the remaining are so HAPPY.

I am not discouraged ARRANGED MARRIAGES and I am also not Encouraged LOVE MARRIAGES because LOVE happens at any time to anyone so don't judge that marriage is so good that type of marriage is bad.
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Ashish said:   8 years ago
No one can say that love marriage or the arranged marriage is the best. It is totally dependent on wife and husband if the boy doesn't understand his wife and the girl also doesn't understand the feelings of her husband what he/she wants and what you are giving then their life will be like a hell and on the other hand if they understand each other then their life will be like a heaven.

In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.

Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.

And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.
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Sonam said:   8 years ago
According to me, Both marriages are best if their relationship has understanding, love and trust. Because this all depends upon these things. Without these things, no one marriage will succeed. Thank you.
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MANMOHAN YADAV said:   8 years ago
I am in favour of love marriage because in love marriage girl and boy knows each other very well. They aware about the behaviour, nature, and test of each other. They have better understanding they can solve issues related to their life easily, they can share their emotion with each without any hesitation. But in arrange both girl and boy are stranger. They do not know about each other nature due to this they face so many difficulties which may cause divorce. In most of arrange, marriage girls suffer a lot due to dowry issues.
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Deepa karwa said:   8 years ago
Hii Friends.

My self Deepa karwa.

In my views, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we accept each other with our own wish. After marriage, we don't have regret that we did not get chance to choose our life partner. But our decision should be mature enough. After knowing completely one should take a decision. I think then Love marriage will stable and the couple will live life more happily compared to the couple who are in arranged marriage. Thank you.
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Jyoti said:   8 years ago
I am in favour of love marriage because in love marriage girl and boy knows each other very well. They aware about the behaviour, nature, and test of each other. They have better understanding they can solve issues related to their life easily, they can share their emotion with each without any hesitation. But in arrange both girl and boy are stranger. They do not know about each other nature due to this they face so many difficulties which may cause divorce. In most of arrange, marriage girls suffer a lot due to dowry issues.
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Supriya said:   8 years ago
Hi,

In my point of view, arranged marriage is better than love marriage. They can love after their marriage also. In their life problems will be less as compared to love marriages. Anyway if they get any problem their relatives and family members can solve. In love marriages also problem can be solved if they get parents support. But nowadays we are all seeing that most of the parents were not encouraging love marriages. What I said it because of my observation around my surrounding. But I'm not criticizing anyone. Thank you very much.
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Naveena D said:   8 years ago
Good Morning Friends.

According to me, Love and Arranged marriage is better. Both of the equal role-playing in our life. Arranged marriage is better than love marriage. Because after marriage they are fall in love. They are start their life with the security. This is most beautiful life.

Love marriage is good one. Because they are fall in love. Those days is most happiest days. But their parents will never agree their love. Then so many problems will be create. So love marriage will be affect both of their family.

So arranged marriage is better. Because both of the family members will be happy. And other thing is love and arranged marriage is also better. If their family agree their love. Then it will be better.
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