Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Ashish said:
8 years ago
No one can say that love marriage or the arranged marriage is the best. It is totally dependent on wife and husband if the boy doesn't understand his wife and the girl also doesn't understand the feelings of her husband what he/she wants and what you are giving then their life will be like a hell and on the other hand if they understand each other then their life will be like a heaven.
In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.
Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.
And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.
In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.
Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.
And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.
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Sonam said:
8 years ago
According to me, Both marriages are best if their relationship has understanding, love and trust. Because this all depends upon these things. Without these things, no one marriage will succeed. Thank you.
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MANMOHAN YADAV said:
8 years ago
I am in favour of love marriage because in love marriage girl and boy knows each other very well. They aware about the behaviour, nature, and test of each other. They have better understanding they can solve issues related to their life easily, they can share their emotion with each without any hesitation. But in arrange both girl and boy are stranger. They do not know about each other nature due to this they face so many difficulties which may cause divorce. In most of arrange, marriage girls suffer a lot due to dowry issues.
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Deepa karwa said:
8 years ago
Hii Friends.
My self Deepa karwa.
In my views, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we accept each other with our own wish. After marriage, we don't have regret that we did not get chance to choose our life partner. But our decision should be mature enough. After knowing completely one should take a decision. I think then Love marriage will stable and the couple will live life more happily compared to the couple who are in arranged marriage. Thank you.
My self Deepa karwa.
In my views, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we accept each other with our own wish. After marriage, we don't have regret that we did not get chance to choose our life partner. But our decision should be mature enough. After knowing completely one should take a decision. I think then Love marriage will stable and the couple will live life more happily compared to the couple who are in arranged marriage. Thank you.
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Jyoti said:
8 years ago
I am in favour of love marriage because in love marriage girl and boy knows each other very well. They aware about the behaviour, nature, and test of each other. They have better understanding they can solve issues related to their life easily, they can share their emotion with each without any hesitation. But in arrange both girl and boy are stranger. They do not know about each other nature due to this they face so many difficulties which may cause divorce. In most of arrange, marriage girls suffer a lot due to dowry issues.
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Supriya said:
8 years ago
Hi,
In my point of view, arranged marriage is better than love marriage. They can love after their marriage also. In their life problems will be less as compared to love marriages. Anyway if they get any problem their relatives and family members can solve. In love marriages also problem can be solved if they get parents support. But nowadays we are all seeing that most of the parents were not encouraging love marriages. What I said it because of my observation around my surrounding. But I'm not criticizing anyone. Thank you very much.
In my point of view, arranged marriage is better than love marriage. They can love after their marriage also. In their life problems will be less as compared to love marriages. Anyway if they get any problem their relatives and family members can solve. In love marriages also problem can be solved if they get parents support. But nowadays we are all seeing that most of the parents were not encouraging love marriages. What I said it because of my observation around my surrounding. But I'm not criticizing anyone. Thank you very much.
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Naveena D said:
8 years ago
Good Morning Friends.
According to me, Love and Arranged marriage is better. Both of the equal role-playing in our life. Arranged marriage is better than love marriage. Because after marriage they are fall in love. They are start their life with the security. This is most beautiful life.
Love marriage is good one. Because they are fall in love. Those days is most happiest days. But their parents will never agree their love. Then so many problems will be create. So love marriage will be affect both of their family.
So arranged marriage is better. Because both of the family members will be happy. And other thing is love and arranged marriage is also better. If their family agree their love. Then it will be better.
According to me, Love and Arranged marriage is better. Both of the equal role-playing in our life. Arranged marriage is better than love marriage. Because after marriage they are fall in love. They are start their life with the security. This is most beautiful life.
Love marriage is good one. Because they are fall in love. Those days is most happiest days. But their parents will never agree their love. Then so many problems will be create. So love marriage will be affect both of their family.
So arranged marriage is better. Because both of the family members will be happy. And other thing is love and arranged marriage is also better. If their family agree their love. Then it will be better.
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Ashish Kumar Vishwakarma said:
8 years ago
Hello guys.
According to my opinion, both marriages are better. But make a good relationship and trust with our life partner.
I said marriage is depended upon a mutual understanding of both girl and boy.
Love marriage is the result of own decisions but arrange marriage is the result of our relative decisions.
Thank you.
According to my opinion, both marriages are better. But make a good relationship and trust with our life partner.
I said marriage is depended upon a mutual understanding of both girl and boy.
Love marriage is the result of own decisions but arrange marriage is the result of our relative decisions.
Thank you.
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Urman khan said:
8 years ago
Hello friends.
Myself Urman Khan.
According to my opinion, love marriage vs arrange marriage.
Both love marriage and arrange marriage are good but love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love, the couple knows their qualities, behaviour, and emotion very well.
And they can spend the perfect time of life and they can solve our problems.
But, in arrange marriage couple don't know to each other when you're family select a girl for you.
And after marriage, they find that their behaviour, emotion, thinking doesn't match that cause of divorce.
Love is life.
Thank you.
Myself Urman Khan.
According to my opinion, love marriage vs arrange marriage.
Both love marriage and arrange marriage are good but love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love, the couple knows their qualities, behaviour, and emotion very well.
And they can spend the perfect time of life and they can solve our problems.
But, in arrange marriage couple don't know to each other when you're family select a girl for you.
And after marriage, they find that their behaviour, emotion, thinking doesn't match that cause of divorce.
Love is life.
Thank you.
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Aakanksha Bansal said:
8 years ago
In my opinion,
Both love marriage and arrange marriage are at par. Ultimately the decision should be given in the hands of the guy and the girl as it solely depends upon their lives.
Earlier divorce cases were mostly heard as a result of love marriage but nowadays divorce filing has increased alot for arrange marriages as well.
This should not be anybody else decision but the couple and if parents are with them. Then Cheers!
Both love marriage and arrange marriage are at par. Ultimately the decision should be given in the hands of the guy and the girl as it solely depends upon their lives.
Earlier divorce cases were mostly heard as a result of love marriage but nowadays divorce filing has increased alot for arrange marriages as well.
This should not be anybody else decision but the couple and if parents are with them. Then Cheers!
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