Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Sachin Jain said:   8 years ago
I strictly support arrange marriages every aspect as both pros and cons.
So as arranged marriages have a legal and a assurance of being marriage due to our family as it is a supported by our family with full acceptance but in love marriages, there is no support and it leads to breakups and divorces which not only break 2 persons but also families. There is one saying that. LOVE IS BLIND so one is attracted physically but not mentally which later lead to creating a cut off between them.
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Taj Randhawa said:   7 years ago
In my opinion, I prefer the arrange marriage then love marriage because this is not the marriage of 2 souls, this is to make a relationship between the 2 families. All we know, that our family choose the best for us. We can also do after the marriage our family gives us so much time to understand the feeling of each other. All we know, love is another name of compromise. To understand the feelings and lead a happily life with your partner and family. Also lead a respectable life.

Thx.
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Jitesh said:   8 years ago
In my opinion, Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because we can easily know about our life partner. Because understanding is too mandatory. Because it a most important step of our life. If you believe in arrange marriage. It's not a right way. Because we have to spend our entire life. I think in arrange marriage. We have to more sacrifice than love marriage. If someone highly educated than you. In that time, you'll have to face lots of problems. So it's my point of view.
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Vinit said:   3 years ago
From my perspective, a love marriage is better than arranged marriage because in a love marriage couples love each other & like each other. Thus they can lead a happy marriage.

For marriage love, trust, choices, and likes are important aspects for maintaining the relationship of husband and wife.

It only can be possible when the boy and the girl know each other.

Love marriage is one of the best solutions to tackle the problems of dowry and also all the crimes related to dowry.
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Pooja said:   9 years ago
New generation supporting LOVE marriages, and claiming LOVE marriage is successful. But the reality is totally opposite. In my friend circle itself, many Love marriages are failed.

I am not saying ARRANGE marriage are very good. But much better than LOVE marriages. Because your parents will always choose the better partner for you, after checking person's and his family background. Because many frauds happing in both LOVE and ARRANGE marriages.

So I will prefer Arrange marriage.
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Indrajeet kumar sharma said:   8 years ago
Hello guys, according to me, a love marriage is far better than an arranged marriage. Because one has the complete freedom to select his or her life partner. No elder decides. Both people know each other already and mutually decides to spend whole life with each other. The Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry. Because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level. But an arrange marriage like a lottery, love may or may not blossom between the couple.
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Mudasir said:   7 years ago
According to my thinking, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in arrange marriage we don't know the couple's biography means what she has been done in her life is she was loving someone or not I think everybody is being or has been passed in this situation and in this way what has been done by her in her relation e, g romance in bad type so friends be cautious about arrange marriage. In love marriage, we know our partner's biography because we know very firstly.
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Pallavi Rajput said:   6 years ago
Marriage means commitment of two peoples to one another legally and mutually understandably. Success of Marriage depends upon the partners whether its love or arrange. According to me, arrange marriage is very much depends upon luck because in arrange we don't know about the partner properly. In India, many places favors only arrange marriages and also creates many problems if couple wants to do love marriage. In 21st century, India still does not accept love marriage completely.
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Sohit said:   6 years ago
Marriage is a life long commitment of two partners and also a close bonding of two families.

If they are love marriage or arrange marriage.

But according to my view love marriage is best.

1. In love marriage one has already know one's partner like, dislike and all about him.
2. In love marriage to people connect hurtly.
3. Understanding is necessary for making the relation.
4. Love marriage is the best way to end castism.
5. Love marriage is cheaper than the arrange marriage.
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Naveen Malik said:   7 years ago
Good afternoon everyone.

My self Naveen Malik.

In my view love marriage and arrange marriage both are ok. In love marriage, both the partners know each other very well and in arrange marriage the partners will take time to know each other. Obviously parents will choose a better half for us but still in my personal opinion love marriage has better results compared to arrange marriages.

So, in my view, love marriage has greater value in today's modernisation India.

Thank you.
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