Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Kuldeep gupta said:   8 years ago
Actually, both the things are nearly same if we think a little bit more.

In both the cases very first time we meet a girl or boy who is a strange person for us.

In arrange marriage the reference for that strange person is our parents where as In Love marriage the reference may be our friend or we directly get familiar with that person come across the behavior and starts liking each other.
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Keshav said:   8 years ago
I think arrange marriage is better, because at the time when there is not a good relation between girl and boy after marriage the whole family of the both sides stand with you in arrange marriage but in love marriage, you are alone because you fight with them for your love one.
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Sachin sharma said:   8 years ago
I think, arranged love marriage would be best. Isn't it? If one's parents choose a partner for their son/daughter and allow them to understand each other in some time then both boy and girl will be happy after marriage.
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Nibedita Satapathy said:   8 years ago
I think arrange marriage is better than love.

Because parents never choose a rough candidate for their child. In arrange marriage all the family members are happy and the couple gets the blessings.
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Dharmendra kumar said:   8 years ago
I think arrange marriage is better. Because many parents are not accepting the arrange marriage. Because there is no future of love marriage. So The decision taken in a hurry is always wrong. I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
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Akash said:   8 years ago
Hi, friends. This is Akash. In my point of view, love marriage is better when compared with the arranged marriages because arranged marriages are just like buying a product in Amazon or Flipkart as we are searching for the person with whom we want to share our future. Is it so pity that we have to leave our 3/4th of life with the person whom we choose just like a product in any app. But in case of love marriages, they will have a mutual understanding between each other and they are matured enough to take decisions rather than loving blindly. They have guts to satisfy their parents then only they have to step forward to love with others.
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Preethi Baskaran said:   8 years ago
Hai, I'm Preethi Baskaran from India.

Love marriage or arranged marriage depends on one's mindset. I am not against of love marriage or arranged marriage. In my point of view, many people decide their life based on the parent's decision. That's not fair for everyone. Everyone has inner feeling about their future. Decide your life by your own (boy or girl). If you love someone who never leaves you at any situation, live for him/her. Convenience your decision with your parents. Make that happen. If you prefer for the arranged marriage, talk with him/her about your past life. Mutually understand with each other. If he/she suits your life, then go for it.

Thanks.
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Akshay said:   8 years ago
Hello, everyone, this is Akshay, talking about love marriage and arrange marriage is an endless topic. Every single person has his/her own view, and they are even correct because you don't know what they have faced or what they are currently facing in their life. I have read almost all the comments mentioned here and everyone has shared their own thoughts of what they think about this topic.

At Love Marriages are the most beautiful thing that happens on this earth only before coming into reality, every partner is understanding and they want their home to be always happy but please look after how you both can make out when any of you are emotional, financially or physically hampered this is the time when the real love is shown. Before marriage, one should know each other in every single way so that they can lead a happy life whether it be love marriage or arrange marriage. I would say marriage is about love and togetherness whether it be Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage. Before getting married spend plenty of time with your partner even though it is love marriage or arrange marriage thing of all the possibilities, pros and cons and then take the decision together of getting married.

I wish all the marriages remain successful whether it is Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage just take some time understand each other.
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Ankit kumar yadav said:   8 years ago
Hi matey.

According to me, love marriage is better because love marriage finished dowry system in rural areas many people penurious and he can't capable give the dowry.

Thank you.
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Ms Rakshit said:   8 years ago
According to me, marriage is not only a bonding of two people but also it is a bonding of two families. Marriage is more about knowing each other, respect each other. If you want to make a successful marriage life you should have enough understanding power and adjusting capability. In love marriage, you have the opportunity to know each other's family members, their cultures etc. So that, you can adjust easily. But in an arranged marriage, these things are not possible. Moreover, some arranged marriage demands dowry which is a social curse. But every arranged marriage is not bad and vice versa. If two persons have enough love, respect, adjusting ability then it will become successful.
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