Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Anurag Mishra said:   7 years ago
Look, it is very simple to explain which is correct and which is incorrect.

Like many people said that one is good and other is bad.

But people. Don't you think? Arrange marriage is like a GAMBLING?

Leave the things like gifts, dowry, feast and all these. Only think about those two who will have to marry. Because we are human. And emotion and trust are the Main aspects on which relationship build.

As I said arrange marriage is like a GAMBLING. In which people just go to live with those to whom they do not know before. If you get a good girl or a good boy. Then it's your good luck in gambling or otherwise, it's a very bad luck.

And I think. You are taking the decision about your whole life. So how can you play the game of gambling for your whole life?

If you get your bad luck in marriage then in whole life you will feel that you need to adjust.

And I can say adjusting to the situation is okay. BUT. It is not okay with a person with whom you will live your whole life.

That's why. People you just go to live a happy life. Not go for adjustment. And that's why the Supreme Court has also made the law to provide protection to the human. Because it better knows love marriage is fairer than arrange.
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Prasath said:   7 years ago
Hi, friends.


love marriage is better than arrange marriage because the love marriage couples are very known and understanding to each one characteristic so easy to solve any problems at every situation. But the arrange marriage is only satisfied our parents and family, not for yours. I think I don't like unknown person enter in my life.
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Arindam said:   7 years ago
In my opinion, LOVE MARRIAGE is always better than ARRANGE MARRIAGE. Marriage means union of two heart along with union of two families. In love marriage both the boy and girl are known to each other. They understand each other. So they can easily live together. On the other hand in Arrange marriage the boy and the girl are not known to each other before marriage. As a result there is chance of being misunderstanding between them and it is about negligible in love marriage.
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MONJIT said:   7 years ago
As per my opinion, its very contradictory to compare between love marriage and arrange marriage, although whatever it may be it should be at a mature level and without any force either in terms of your family as well as from your partner. Respecting both to whom you are going to stay for the rest and to whom you admire. If in some part of life you are going to lost this co-relation, in both senses both the marriage will fail. So taking decision maturely helped a person achieve his goal.
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Priyadharshini said:   7 years ago
Love marriage is good when a girl or boy select their partner with maturity. Here the maturity means real love and not the infatuation. Nowadays school students and teen agers are in love. But it does not last long. So, they can take a decision only when they are standing on their own leg. While they love they should accept both the negative and the positive qualities of the partner which helps in avoiding the future misunderstandings.

Arrange marriage is not advisable because parents will show the bride or groom with the perception that their daughter or son will be happy. But the reality is they may not know each other before the marriage. Their expectations in the character may not be matched. In future, it may lead to divorce.
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Abc said:   7 years ago
As you know both marriages is good no one is bad it totally depends on your mentality, according to me both marriages are important but in love marriage, its depend on your personality but I know many love marriage is a success but many families are supportive. Those family who is educated and understand your feelings then support you.

In arrange marriage, both couples are unknown to each other but your family is very happy. After marriage, they are in love and its love is very deep and it does not depend on your personality it's your nature.

So guys in both situations, marriage is good and its own place their own importance.
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Sana Nqhid said:   7 years ago
According to my view, arranged marriage is better than love marriages. Because if you get love marriage no one support you like your family & relatives. And your parents never bless you.

And if you get arrange marriage everyone supports you and your family blessing you.

If you have your parents bless your marriage will be successful.

And if haven't your parents bless your marriage will be never success.

I think so that arrange marriage is really best marriage.
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Neha Dagar said:   7 years ago
I think love marriage is good. There is a stigma in mind of people that love marriage. It can't last long as in parents and relatives opinion. They even don't to listen to anything about their child decisions. They all need approval from society and emotional drama society. But I personally society begin with ourselves. If both boy and girl are happy then parents are happy.

Society is always evil who will pull the legs from behind if you are from standardised family basically in Haryana people are orthodox and I must say they have 2 faces. It is up to parents that they want their child happy or not if they really listen to society. They can't be happy and their child would not be happy in future.

Let go to arrange marriage I really want to tell people who are in favour of arranged marriage these people also have two faces one according to family and other for his personal life. Basically, boy who do arrange marriage has extra affair they were attached to their previous lover. Then what is the meaning of this useless marriage when you are not true to your partner.

I really disagree with a partner who cheats their other soul mate.
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Kajal Mittal said:   7 years ago
In my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage, love marriage is not good because nowadays we are seeing so many love failure problems so the way of understanding is doesn't possible to each other. So arrange marriage is best.
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Prarthna Sahu said:   7 years ago
In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in that case, we know the person, his good habits and his bad habits, we understand each other that's why we are together in a relationship.

In love marriage, we know the person before marriage, so we know that person is good for us or not.
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