Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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San said:   8 years ago
I would prefer love marriage over arranged marriage. Its becasue in love marriages both the partners have known each other for years. And only after spending a lot of time with each other, they start getting comfortable with each other. Once they get comfortable with each other thay start to trust each other. For a marriage to be succesfull both the partners should have a good understanding of each other and should trust each other completely and that can only happen if they spend a lot of time with each other before getting married so that they can decide whether they really want to spend rest of their lives with each other or not. And not only in case of love marriages the partners also get time to know about each others family. Whereas in arranged marriage both the partners hardly get any time to meet and talk to each other. The only people who know each other are the family members of the partners and the partners who are going to spend rest of their life with each other haven't even talked to each other once. Many people may say that college love is infatuation, but not all of them are. And moreover in love marriages both partners try to know each other completely even their deep dark secrets whereas in arranged marriage one may not know how good or bad is the person whom he or she is getting married to, there are high chances of getting decieved by the partner's family members in order to hide something that may cause trouble ahead in their married life. In the end I would just like to say that love marriages have more advantages as compared to arranged marriage. So marry the person whom you love.
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Sanju said:   8 years ago
How they married is not a matter. The way they run thier life and mutual understanding between them makes life beautiful.
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Chhaya gupta said:   8 years ago
According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love a couple can know to each other very much they can spend a lot of time with each other n they can understand each other and they can trust to each and they can decide what they have to do in their life n how they want to spend their life.
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Sandhya said:   8 years ago
In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage, because in love marriage, both partners are understand each other very well.
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Shirin jahan said:   8 years ago
In opinion,

Love marriage and arrange marriage both depend on mutual understanding.

But if I get love marriage I know the partner very much because of we spend too much time together, and easy to know his/her mentality & how can he/she understand, which topic conversation which time is suitable for the starting day of marriage.

But know in this day also love marriage is little wrong in our society.

And arrange marriage is not a bed of roses, we are always listening to this line in our society arrange marriage is most successful than love marriage. But this is not too much true, In Arrange marriage is very difficult to understand a new partner in our life, and manage all that things according to him or his families.

But if both married couples are mutual understanding both marriages are successful in our life.
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Jithin R said:   8 years ago
I think the topic itself is not that worthy. It's their own choice whether to follow love marriage or arranged marriage.
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Priya said:   8 years ago
Hey, My opinion is love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because we spend more time with each other. And we understand each other thing. Mentality, Easy to deal with both families. They all depend on understanding.
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Chandrushinijg said:   8 years ago
Arrange marriage should be the second preference if you can't get a single partner then it leaves this option otherwise.

Love marriage is best for a new society and better life.
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Manish said:   8 years ago
Hi friends, in my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage because I respect and family support and the boy and girl stay in seven rounds in Arrange Marriage, so the bond is very unbreakable.
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Amarjeet kushwaha said:   8 years ago
Arrange marriage is the best because of bride and groom unknown and he doesn't know about each other and arrange marriage contract a two person and my partner choose by our Parents and elder so Arrange marriage is the best from love marriage.
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