Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Vasam ias said:
8 years ago
According to me, I support arranged marriages, why because its time taking to know each other. Being unknown to each other they try to express their love and respect. But in the case, of love megs, it won't be like that. The arguments or anything is more tragedic b/w known while compared with unknown. Arrange marriages can group two families into one. But how ever whether arranged marriages or love marriages are made in heaven. But if you made our partner made for each other and first have to b better half no matter what ever the marriages.
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Vasam ias said:
8 years ago
Hai frnds,
I support arranged marriages, because its time taking to each to know about each other, during that they try to impress, love, and respect. They don't fully the character of each, little bit hesitated to oppose. That too they are bonded devotionally. But in the case of love marriages, they knew each, they already loved and enjoyed the life. Chance neglect them because they knew about their partner.
Finally, I conclude that what ever it may be the marriage if you give respect to them and treat, change them as made for each other it holds the relation strong.
I support arranged marriages, because its time taking to each to know about each other, during that they try to impress, love, and respect. They don't fully the character of each, little bit hesitated to oppose. That too they are bonded devotionally. But in the case of love marriages, they knew each, they already loved and enjoyed the life. Chance neglect them because they knew about their partner.
Finally, I conclude that what ever it may be the marriage if you give respect to them and treat, change them as made for each other it holds the relation strong.
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Mohd Ahmad khan said:
8 years ago
In my opinion, I think arranged marriage is good with a comparison to love marriage because I read and saw many cases like as Julius Caesar, Laila Majnu, Orlando Oliver His life became useless in love affair his in those person love is not a success. Then how I can say love marriage is good and also it not relate my Indian culture so I think arranged marriage is good.
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Swamy Reddy said:
8 years ago
Love marriage is very good. Because they can adjust among themselves and solve a problem among themselves very easily.
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Manishanker said:
8 years ago
Hello friends I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because if we do love marriage they know each other well and what they like what they don't like understanding was good and they share their thinkings what comes to mind when that love started coming to arrange marriage it is good I'm not saying bad in arrange they want some time understand each other.
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Vishakha said:
8 years ago
Both are good in their perspective, but for comparison love marriage is cool. One should rise in love not fall and the couple should build their career first then everyone will agree.
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Vanaja said:
8 years ago
According to my point of view, both are good. But mostly arranged marriage is best why because parents are known which person is suitable for us. And more over good understanding also is there.
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Kuldeep Gupta said:
8 years ago
Hello Friends,
1-Love marriages are always better than a arranged marriages. In the love marriage, we never think about the cast and status which is good for our society to break the casteism chain and status.
2- In the love marriage we take decision according to our mutual understanding and capabilities and only we are responsible for our future. it encourages us to get our goal.
3- In the same time in arranged marriage, we totally depend on our family for maximum decisions.
4- In arranged marriages dowry system involved mostly.There is also pressure to show off their status in society, it is also a part of dowry system.
At the end conclusion is;
If we are not capable of taking any decision for our life itself, then After arranged marriage how you will take decisions for your future?
1-Love marriages are always better than a arranged marriages. In the love marriage, we never think about the cast and status which is good for our society to break the casteism chain and status.
2- In the love marriage we take decision according to our mutual understanding and capabilities and only we are responsible for our future. it encourages us to get our goal.
3- In the same time in arranged marriage, we totally depend on our family for maximum decisions.
4- In arranged marriages dowry system involved mostly.There is also pressure to show off their status in society, it is also a part of dowry system.
At the end conclusion is;
If we are not capable of taking any decision for our life itself, then After arranged marriage how you will take decisions for your future?
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Aishwarya SA said:
8 years ago
Hello everyone,
According to me, both love and arrange marriages are good, but it totally depends on individuals and in Indian culture, it totally depends on our parents and family. We always cannot say that arrange marriages are good because we will not be knowing the partner which may sometimes lead to many problems like:.
1) He/She may be forcefully agreed for the marriage.
2) As we will not know their family, there may be a risk of torchure, dowry etc because some marriages are made only by the status of his family.
3) Partner may show only positive side at first so as to impress but one day truth reveals and lead to divorce.
AS a reason love marriage is more successful if he/she respect partner, know him well in terms of good and bad thoughts, should settle first, respect society and discuss with parents about their relationships and finally should be careful whether the partner really cares and loves you or just physical attraction so as to avoid divorce further.
According to me, both love and arrange marriages are good, but it totally depends on individuals and in Indian culture, it totally depends on our parents and family. We always cannot say that arrange marriages are good because we will not be knowing the partner which may sometimes lead to many problems like:.
1) He/She may be forcefully agreed for the marriage.
2) As we will not know their family, there may be a risk of torchure, dowry etc because some marriages are made only by the status of his family.
3) Partner may show only positive side at first so as to impress but one day truth reveals and lead to divorce.
AS a reason love marriage is more successful if he/she respect partner, know him well in terms of good and bad thoughts, should settle first, respect society and discuss with parents about their relationships and finally should be careful whether the partner really cares and loves you or just physical attraction so as to avoid divorce further.
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Kamlesh said:
8 years ago
Hello, Friends.
According to my point of view, Arrange Marriage is better than the Love Marriage because in love marriage there is a relation between two persons but in arrange marriage there is a bonding between two families so relation will be more protected and there will be more moral support.
According to my point of view, Arrange Marriage is better than the Love Marriage because in love marriage there is a relation between two persons but in arrange marriage there is a bonding between two families so relation will be more protected and there will be more moral support.
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