Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Suresh said:   7 years ago
According to me, love marriages are better than arranged marriages because in love marriages girl and boy they are able to understand with each other before to the marriage. In arranged marriages, Just by arranging one meeting looking to each other and parents will decides that they are made for each other it is absolute nonsense just because of looks they can't decide that they are made for each other and after marriage if their tastes, preferences, habits are different then its difficult live with each other so it will lead to the divorce.
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Gaurav thakur said:   7 years ago
According to my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage if our parents are happy with this. But if they do not happy, we can not do so. Because if we want respect from others, we should obey our parents. In arrange marriage we take some time to understand the feelings of each other. Where in love marriage we understand feelings of each other very well. But we can not blamed others if our relationship get broken, and we are disrespected from all people. This is the main reason that arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
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Ansh singh Thakur said:   5 years ago
Hello friends, I am Singh hailing from Sultanpur. Today we are going to discuss on the topic of love marriage vs arranged marriage. In my point of view, both marriages have some pros and some cons.

Whether it love marriage or arrange marriage the relationship will work only if the partners are serious and honest in the relationship. Life partners must be selected according to their own will and not by force. Nowadays people are taking the time to know about each other before marriage even in arranged marriages. So this is a sign of society.
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Manisha said:   8 years ago
Hi friends,

In my opinion, both marriages are good and its not about type of marriage its about partners. Its about how they cooperate with each other, understanding and trust between them. This relationship can work only if partners want otherwise it can't work anyhow. Both marriages have their own advantage and disadvantage. Main advantage in love marriage is compatibility between partners and in arrange marriage support and acceptance of family and society that helps to survive. So don't go for type for marriage go for a better partner.
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Mudasir Rasool said:   7 years ago
According to my thinking; love marriage is very better than arrange marriage because in arrange marriage we don't know the couple' s biography means what she has been done in her life is she loved someone or loving someone nobody in this world who never passes in this situation everybody in his /her life loves someone and this way we can't say what has been done in his or her relation eg romance. So guys are cautious about arrange marriage I think love marriage is very nice because we know our lover's biography what has been done with her.
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Ashu Yadav said:   8 years ago
Hello Everyone.

I support Both types of marriage have their own fun. And as you all know that many people in our society believe in love marriage. Because this types of marriage is based on understand between two parts and the settlement in there family. And in love marriage we know each other very well and from this can build good understanding. But in arrange there is an amazing thing that is person whom we doesn't know she or he become life partner so we have so much things to share because it is arranged by parents that's all thanks.
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Yesh said:   3 years ago
In my point of view, both love and arrange marriage have pros and cons. It is not a matter of arrange or love marriage if they both have an understanding nature. They need to spend time with partners and discuss what is the likes and dislikes.

In a love marriage, We need to convince the parents if they accept then ok, otherwise, we need to face a lot of problems. If anything goes wrong with the partner then we can't go back and talk with the parents. But in arrange, marriage parents will take care of and they will settle down everything.
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Samrudhi said:   8 years ago
In my point of view, arranged marriage is best. In arrange marriage, we have a strong support of our parents which is most important thing in our life. To make our parents sad and marry with a person who came just in our life it is not good. If our parents fully supported our decisions then it is good thing. We should respect our parent's feelings and their opinions. They give us all happiness and when time comes to give happiness to them we think about others. So do the marriage with happiness of our parents. And love marriage is good.
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Supriya said:   7 years ago
Hi,

In my point of view, arranged marriage is better than love marriage. They can love after their marriage also. In their life problems will be less as compared to love marriages. Anyway if they get any problem their relatives and family members can solve. In love marriages also problem can be solved if they get parents support. But nowadays we are all seeing that most of the parents were not encouraging love marriages. What I said it because of my observation around my surrounding. But I'm not criticizing anyone. Thank you very much.
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Indian said:   9 years ago
We are blindly following the western culture physical attractions, love affair before marriage is the main reason behind the increasing divorce cases in India.

Some stupid are telling we are modern generation we will do LOVE marriage. If this keeps happening no one believes in marriage. This thing already happening, people are afraid to get married, because of false dowry harassment cases/ Love affair after marriage.

Follow your own culture. Do not destroy Indian culture due to western culture (physical attractions/love affairs).
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