Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Ayush Anand said:   8 years ago
Arrange marriage is far better than love marriage because there is respect between husband and wife and they.

Clear their disputes calmly whereas in love marriage some time parents are not happy and without the happiness of parent the marriage is like hollow gift. And any dis[utes leads to divorce or act as a fire in breaking.

Thread of love between parents.
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Deepu said:   8 years ago
Hi everyone, what I feel is love marriage is far better than arranged because, I have seen most of the people in relationships who are actually happy even after years because during the relationship they get to know about each other, their tastes and they have a proper understanding between them. It's not that in arranged marriages there is no love and understanding at all but what I think is once we get married we don't have any other option to do if we come to know that the person is not right for us. For whole life, we need to tolerate him even if we don't want to. There are some cases like even if we like a person and want to share an entire life with him parents doesn't support and it finally leads to an arranged marriage. Love or arranged marriage whatever it is we need to love a person as a human being as he is going to be a partner forever and I'm not telling that it's destiny but it's our choice towards everything and need to stay happy because it's our life. We don't need to give any apologies to anyone.
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Kanika Rajkhowa said:   8 years ago
Hi, my name is Kanika. I respect what all of your point of view but what my point of view is, that I prefer love marriage because in love marriage people understand each other so much what they want or not etc but it doesn't mean I criticize arrange marriage or I am against of arrange marriage because all people have their own choice and own opinions so I think no one can take bad decisions for themselves. That's all.

Thank you.
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Rajendra Rathore said:   8 years ago
In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we know everything about our partners. Like her hobby. Choice, Behaviour. Everything but in arrange marriage by arranging in one meeting how could they say that they made for each other.
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VIPUL said:   8 years ago
In Love Marriage, more expectation than the surprise of love after Marriage, whereas in Arranged Marriage there is always a surprise of love with less expectation. In Love Marriage, most of the times Love ends and Marriage life (expectation) starts whereas in Arranged Marriage, Marriage life (expectation) ends and the surprise of Love starts.
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Hariom Kaushik said:   8 years ago
In my opinion, love marriage is prefer to arrange marriage because in love marriage couples understand each other in long time but in arrange marriage couples understand each other in one meeting. So, I support love marriage. Thanks.
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Lekhika said:   8 years ago
In my opinion, love marriage and arrange marriage is just a name, both are nothing without understanding, where the understanding met the word of marriage is successful. So, it is all about understanding love & care for each other. When the couple has all these things then they live a happy life, whether it is arranged or love marriage.
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Afina shamsudeen said:   8 years ago
Hi friends.

I'm a girl of just 18 years old. I don't have much knowledge about life, especially marriage life. I think it depends on the nature of the people who are getting married, the longevity and prosperity of their married life. But I have an opinion of life is not a mere fantasy, I mean it gives pleasure for us to read an ideal true relationship in stories. But life is not a theory to be stated theoretically, rather it has a lot to do in practice. So I do believe in love, true love after marriage. It believes it will give the very same pleasure that a good love affair can give and it's so comforting to have a relationship after marriage with the partner.

Thanks. Have a nice time.
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Priyanka said:   8 years ago
In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we know everything about our partner. Her/his behaviour, character, taste choices everything. But in arrange marriage by arranging one meeting how could they decide that they made for each other. I think that we do arrange a marriage for our parents and society. But in love marriage, we can satisfy ourselves. That's why I support love marriage.
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Taj Randhawa said:   8 years ago
In my opinion, I prefer the arrange marriage then love marriage because this is not the marriage of 2 souls, this is to make a relationship between the 2 families. All we know, that our family choose the best for us. We can also do after the marriage our family gives us so much time to understand the feeling of each other. All we know, love is another name of compromise. To understand the feelings and lead a happily life with your partner and family. Also lead a respectable life.

Thx.
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