Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Buty said:
8 years ago
The love marriage is easy to live the long life because couple already well knows about each other in spite in arrange marriage long time spend to identify one's nature and hobbies, as well as love marriage, begets more satisfaction and feeling of the succeed important part of life.
So love marriage is always reliable and friendship remains till last breath so life and every sphere of life easily steady and success by the couple.
So love marriage is always reliable and friendship remains till last breath so life and every sphere of life easily steady and success by the couple.
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Heera Singh Gusain said:
8 years ago
As per my view, anyone who has true lover is luckiest person in the world. He/she must marry him/her as they can't find better partner than that. So, from this context love marriage is better.
But today's generation's problem is that they they think making relationship is a fashion or style. So they somehow manage to make relationship but it may not be true love it may only be attraction, like friendship on Facebook leads to love without knowing him/her personally. Do you think that may be true love? That love doesn't last longer and gets fade away after sometime.
People who get married on this basis, get to know about their life partner after few years of marriage, and that leads to arguments and even divorce.
Furthermore, in most of cases, love begins with physical attraction and remains upto that, these types of love is also not going to give you anything except pain.
So conclusion is that love marriage is best when you get a perfect life partner otherwise arrange marriage is also good and they have their good points too.
Both marriages have their own advantages and disadvantages, and it should totally depend on a person which type of marriage he wants to do, which makes him happy.
But today's generation's problem is that they they think making relationship is a fashion or style. So they somehow manage to make relationship but it may not be true love it may only be attraction, like friendship on Facebook leads to love without knowing him/her personally. Do you think that may be true love? That love doesn't last longer and gets fade away after sometime.
People who get married on this basis, get to know about their life partner after few years of marriage, and that leads to arguments and even divorce.
Furthermore, in most of cases, love begins with physical attraction and remains upto that, these types of love is also not going to give you anything except pain.
So conclusion is that love marriage is best when you get a perfect life partner otherwise arrange marriage is also good and they have their good points too.
Both marriages have their own advantages and disadvantages, and it should totally depend on a person which type of marriage he wants to do, which makes him happy.
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Balveer/kunal said:
8 years ago
In my point of view, arrange marriage is best for maintain relationship both. Many time love marriage become fail because they don't understand both.
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Prateeksha said:
8 years ago
I think whatever the marriage it is whether arranged or love the couples should be the matured ones. They should love each other care 4 each other but at the same time should let their partner have personal space.
If you find a partner who has these qualities just go for them don't think that it should be arranged only because it's you who is going to stay a long life with them. Life is a wonderful gift we get so why to make it sorrow 4 others happiness it's you who is going to stay with them so better you select the person with whom you can stay life long till your death separates.
What I wanted to say is whatever the marriage it be it's you who is gonna make it special or ruin it a life long. It only depends on you cuz you are matured nd well enough to take your decisions on your own.
If you find a partner who has these qualities just go for them don't think that it should be arranged only because it's you who is going to stay a long life with them. Life is a wonderful gift we get so why to make it sorrow 4 others happiness it's you who is going to stay with them so better you select the person with whom you can stay life long till your death separates.
What I wanted to say is whatever the marriage it be it's you who is gonna make it special or ruin it a life long. It only depends on you cuz you are matured nd well enough to take your decisions on your own.
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Shefali sharma said:
8 years ago
I think it totally depends on the person's choice. Whether he is compatible with his lover or the one his parents chose. It's completely ok if he loves a person. He can ask his parents and if they agree, it's well & good otherwise he will have to start new innings. But in this process, he ought not to blame his parents if something goes wrong.
It's good to know a person already before getting married, but it's also fine when you get to explore after marriage.
It's good to know a person already before getting married, but it's also fine when you get to explore after marriage.
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Abhishek Jagota said:
8 years ago
Marriage is a sacred ritual in our Indian society its not only about bonding of two people it's about bonding of two families and cultures arranged marriage is the better one because in it the person who will become our life partner is chosen by our parents and our parents are our BEST WELL WISHERS and want to see us happy and if we take the examples of our parents and our relatives most of whom have done arranged marriages are living happily and successfully whereas if we see the current scenario relationship has become a part of style and trend rather than being based on true love which leads to complications pain and distress after the marriage so I think one should go with arranged marriage which is acceptable to all and keeps one's parents happy and content.
On a Humorous note: sometimes due to arranged marriage, we get such a good life partner which one can't ever dream of having a relationship with.
On a Humorous note: sometimes due to arranged marriage, we get such a good life partner which one can't ever dream of having a relationship with.
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Simran said:
8 years ago
Hello, friends.
This is Simran.
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because understanding is two known person is more powerful than two unknown persons. I mean to say a person can make love marriage in arrange marriage by the allowance of their parents. Parents can never refuse their children's choice.
This is Simran.
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because understanding is two known person is more powerful than two unknown persons. I mean to say a person can make love marriage in arrange marriage by the allowance of their parents. Parents can never refuse their children's choice.
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Veronica said:
8 years ago
I say that marriages are made in heaven only it's a love marriage or arranged if there is love, understanding, faith and bound then it's successful. And the other hand I agree on the viewer point of view. That in love marriage we know each other well and then get into a relationship Understand and then marry, nor to marry a person who is unknown and don't know anything about him or his fly so I feel choosing the person at right time for right choice to grow old with the person in sincere heart will have success.
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Rima karmakar said:
8 years ago
I go for love marriage. But it doesn't mean that I m against arrange marriage. L prefer with this too. Actually, its depends on who you are, how you treat, how's your mentality opposite your love ones. You must be honest, loyal must have faith on your partner. Yes, I believe so that parent is our well-wisher but their point of views is not going right sometimes. So, it's up to our own.
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Anurag said:
8 years ago
Hello, Everyone! The Understanding between the partners is the basic and most important element for any kind of marriage to succeed whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage. Obviously, in the case of Love marriages, one gets to experience and develop this attribute much before taking the most important decision of marrying the person and hence I would give slightly more marks to Love marriages.
But then in today's generation, people prefer to have pizza delivered to their home in 30 minutes rather than sweating a bit in cooking food by their own hands. And this lack of patience can be seen in other fields too including relationships. I know cases of separation between both kinds of couples, the ones who did Love marriages and also an equal number of couples who did arrange marriage. And this shows that in the end cooking the dish of relationship to its best flavour completely boils down to the blending of ingredients named as Trust, Patience, Understanding and Forgiveness.
But then in today's generation, people prefer to have pizza delivered to their home in 30 minutes rather than sweating a bit in cooking food by their own hands. And this lack of patience can be seen in other fields too including relationships. I know cases of separation between both kinds of couples, the ones who did Love marriages and also an equal number of couples who did arrange marriage. And this shows that in the end cooking the dish of relationship to its best flavour completely boils down to the blending of ingredients named as Trust, Patience, Understanding and Forgiveness.
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