Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

Hello everyone,

In my point of view, there is no one who can say that the love marriage is better then arrange marriage or arrange marriage is better then love marriage. Because the success of married life is totally based on understanding if husband and wife understands each other very well then their married life will become heaven for them and similarly if they don't understand each other then their married life will surely become hell for both of them.

So if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should go for love marriage. And if you are failed to find then you should go for arrange marriage and let the god decide, may be god find someone very special for you.

But there is one another point that I want to focus here is that there are still some narrow minded people who consider love marriage a taboo.

They have to change their thinking because if you force someone to get married with whom they don't want to get married then it will destroy their life because how can they live their whole life with whom they don't love. That also happens in arrange marriage where parents force their children to marry without respecting their choice.

That's the area where are society needs to improve. Because now we are living in modern era where everyone has right to take decision of his/her life.

And at the end, I would like to say that it's the matter of love and love can be happen before marriage and also it can be happen after the marriage.

I am Swapnil.

Most of the peoples don't know what is love.

Love is trust, love is caring, bonding of each other, can't live each other.

But some peoples make love as a joke or game, they play with feelings, use and throw.

They make difference between boyfriend and arrange marriage boy, obviously, boyfriend is not well settled but arrange marriage person is fully settle and some more qualified.

Some bloody idiot girls thinking are: -- In love marriage, there are so many problems.

-- They don't know whether they are doing right or wrong.

-- In that age, they felt that is love but actually that is an infatuation.

-- At that time whatever they are doing is right but not.

-- They are married but after some days going on, they face some problems.

-- At that, they are alone no coordinating between them.

I want to ask one question to this kind of girls. Why you should fall in love and break heart. If you want to marry as per family decision then don't waste time and play with boys feelings. Nowadays some girls fad are arrange marriage because they have more expectations and they don't want adjustment. They time pass with boy and finally do arrange marriage.

I fully support to love marriage.

Life is a journey we can't predict our life so trust a person who really love you.

Girls if you support A boy in the whole journey then that lovely boy do anything for you trust me. Please try to understand.

First of all, Good morning to all of you. I am Manoj.

Now I am expressing my views on the topic and topic is Love marriage V/S Arrange marriage.

There are many advantage and disadvantage of love marriage and arrange marriage.

Love marriage.

1) The marriage is life_long commitment. So, selecting a life partner should be one's own hand.
2) In love marriage, the couple know each other very well and there will be no hesitant weather also love Or not.
3) people who go for love marriage is more choice that who go for arrange marriage because almost arrange marriage happen in the same religion/caste.

DISADVANTAGE of love marriage:

1) people who go for love marriage, is also independent of their relationship.
2) Love marriage is socially unacceptable in some parts of India.
3) Love is not only important in life. We should check our family background and economical conditions.

ARRANGE MARRIAGE:

1) In arrange marriage couple both parents know each other and agree on both of parents.
2) Parents and well-wishers are thought about their future and economical conditions.

DISADVANTAGE:

1) Arrange marriage is like a lottery.
2) Couples do not share their view in a long way because there is very less time before marriage.
3) Divorce rate is less in arrange marriage compared to love marriage. So we can not say that arrange marriage is happy in life.
So, that's all about my views on the topic.

Thanks.

Hello, my dear friends.

In my point of view, it's very difficult to say which is really better among love marriage and arranged marriage. Both or like head and tails. Sometimes love marriage is better as same time arranged also better in some cases. But marriage is most important part of every ones life. I ll try to explain with an example as we know very well arranged marriages are can be done by parents without knowing their children opinion, we can say its a family forced marriage, but they ll care about them before and after marriage also. They will protect and save them in difficult situations even. But the persons who are going to marry thy don't know each others much. They may face problems after getting married. If come to love marriage both are comfortable with each other because they knew their behavior, tastes, decision making ufcourse everything. So they can live very easily but they might be eliminated by the families in some cases. At that time they might not have much protection. One more point I want to mention as we know now a days the persons who got love married they are also taking divorce then what is the meaning of love and where is the love. Where she/ he wants to go ? This we can see in arranged marriage also. The family save them. Finally, I'm concluding this topic it's difficult to say but I can stick with arranged marriage only. Thank you.

Hello, everyone, this is Akshay, talking about love marriage and arrange marriage is an endless topic. Every single person has his/her own view, and they are even correct because you don't know what they have faced or what they are currently facing in their life. I have read almost all the comments mentioned here and everyone has shared their own thoughts of what they think about this topic.

At Love Marriages are the most beautiful thing that happens on this earth only before coming into reality, every partner is understanding and they want their home to be always happy but please look after how you both can make out when any of you are emotional, financially or physically hampered this is the time when the real love is shown. Before marriage, one should know each other in every single way so that they can lead a happy life whether it be love marriage or arrange marriage. I would say marriage is about love and togetherness whether it be Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage. Before getting married spend plenty of time with your partner even though it is love marriage or arrange marriage thing of all the possibilities, pros and cons and then take the decision together of getting married.

I wish all the marriages remain successful whether it is Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage just take some time understand each other.

In My View, the arranged marriages are better love marriages why because for suppose in love marriages if they have any problems in their married life. They won't come to their parents. Why because their leaved their parents and they thought that they have mutual understanding between them. But in my there is no mutual understanding between them. They thought like that but actually not like that. In particular age they that love but it is absolutely wrong. In that age that is not at all love it is infatuation. But they don't know that at that time. They felt that after some years that is wrong but at that time but there is no use. Coming to arranged marriages there is a mutual understanding between the couple and their parents also. In olden days all marriages are arranged but now most of the marriages are love. At that time the parents are sitting together they talk each other their children and their traditions all are they talked each other. And then they married each other. For suppose any problem come between them they talked with their parents. So that they solved their problems like that. And the most important thing is in either arranged or love marriages the cooperation between them is very important. At last, I conclude that arranged marriages is better than love marriages.

I will go for an Arranged marriage.

In love, there may be attraction towards each other which gets lost after some time. In love marriage, the boy and girl are leaving with their families. They are not independent. The game will start after independency. There are too many Bollywood actors actresses who love and breakup, divorce each other. Cases of wrong love marriage are also more. As the parents expectations from the bride may vary. Some will say to do job and house work both also. While some will say to leave the job. Traditions of grooms home will vary. And many times love marriage is only for bringing a good bride to home, where the drama of groom will end, after the marriage. Two families should have equal status. To leave in cojoint family or separated family also becomes the issue.

In arrange marriage this things are already discussed in between family persons and job of the bride groom, their status, grooms income, family conditions (whether to do job?, where to live cojoint?) are discussed neatly.

While love before marriage is not official and it can happen and break many times but the marriage and divorce are official. Love has no end and it does not need to be young age. It can happen at any time, so it's good to do official things than doing many unofficial things.

First of all marriage is not a union of just two person just coming together of two families or two social networks who are more closely thab ever before. So while looking for a partner to their son/daughter, parents will first check the potential of bride/groom family background, socio-economic level, level of education n different values. If so, they feel that then can safely gat married n they can take care of as their parents.

But there are some drawbacks in arranged marriage, not much importance is given in such a marriage because the couple might not have some time/more time to get to know to each other's values, understanding, opinions. And many of them, who are about to get into arranged marriage seem strong sense to obligation and duty to their parents n to do otherwise they perceive of disrespect of their parents and betrayal to their parents n they are ready to get marriage while they know they are unhappy just so their family is happy.

But critics of arranged marriage would say that love in arranged marriage reaches to peak when couple have been about 5 years after.

So I reached at a conclusion that both type of marriage have their own ups n downs, there is no perfect formula for marriage to work its totally depent on our preference in which we feel a settlement.

Good morning ladies and gentlemen,

Marriage is nothing but a close bonding of two families. In my opinion both the marriage has equal importance. Like every dish has its own ingredients like wise every marriage has also its own ingredient and the main ingredients are love, caring, honesty, loyalty, understanding each other problem and standing for each other family. The ingredient which should be diminished or kept away is "EGO" of each other.

Problems arises in every marriage may be its love or arrange because in arrange marriage we don't know each other except names and in which company we are working, so it takes 1 to 2 year to know each other choices and behavior. In that period of time a lot of patience is required and the key to that special bond is the most important word called "SORRY".

Like wise in love marriage from the beginning we know each other so after marriage the expectation level of each other increases rapidly, and if in the same point your behavior changes then argument takes place.

Every problem which arises should be solved within the four walls of the room without involving a third party.

So, the major thing we should have a clear chit with our partner and make clear that there is no misunderstanding within us.

THANK YOU.

Marriage is a lifetime partnership between two souls, who come together to celebrate their life journey with each other happily. In a love marriage, individuals choose their partners by their own choice, they love each other and get married with or without the consent of their parents. Whereas in an arranged marriage, parents and family members decide the future and partners of individuals.

The concept of arranged marriage is not wrong just the millennials could not fit in. Love marriage, on the other hand, is a suitable option choice for millennials because of its beauty of compatibility. Love marriage holds the characteristics which a modern couple is in search of.

Love marriage allows individuals to know each other well and to absorb each other’s flaws by taking as much time as they want to get ready for marriage and this is what makes it easy to hold on to the lifelong commitment. Education and surrounding also play a significant role in the preference of individuals. After, all the above discussion, one cannot strongly favor any of the two marriages. One cannot say, love marriages are more successful or vice versa, as a successful marriage is not when a perfect couple meets, but when two flawed persons accept each other completely and happily.