Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Aayanka pany said:
8 years ago
Hi, guys.
See both love marriage and arrange marriage are goods. First of all, all the couples in the world must know the meaning of love. Love means respect towards each other, understanding and cooperation. So, written above by someone that in love marriages the couple knows each other very earlier and after marriage, they will get bored. Then, why do people love somebody in their teenage? Now, you will tell it as an attraction. Then can you tell what it attraction? why we get attracted? its because we feel and see ourself in that person. If we can see ourself in that person then how that love can be lead to conflicts or litigations or how we can get bored of it? its all depends on us because after marriage we have to stay with our partner, not our parents. If any problems occur after marriage then it will be difficult to be solved in case of arrange marriage but incase of love marriage at least we can came to know good and bad habits of our partners and can make a choice of our own that we can or not be able to stay with him or her till our last breathe. So I will love cum arrange marriage. First study your decided partner then give a proposal to your parents if you are comfortable with him/her then get married.
See both love marriage and arrange marriage are goods. First of all, all the couples in the world must know the meaning of love. Love means respect towards each other, understanding and cooperation. So, written above by someone that in love marriages the couple knows each other very earlier and after marriage, they will get bored. Then, why do people love somebody in their teenage? Now, you will tell it as an attraction. Then can you tell what it attraction? why we get attracted? its because we feel and see ourself in that person. If we can see ourself in that person then how that love can be lead to conflicts or litigations or how we can get bored of it? its all depends on us because after marriage we have to stay with our partner, not our parents. If any problems occur after marriage then it will be difficult to be solved in case of arrange marriage but incase of love marriage at least we can came to know good and bad habits of our partners and can make a choice of our own that we can or not be able to stay with him or her till our last breathe. So I will love cum arrange marriage. First study your decided partner then give a proposal to your parents if you are comfortable with him/her then get married.
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Devendra sharma said:
8 years ago
Marriage is done to spend life easier for boy and girl. Life can be easier in arrange marriage as well as with love marriage. But it all depends on situation that will be formed after marriage. Arrange marriage is supported by our families and society whereas Love marriage is not. If support is beneficial then families guide them by their experience. If not there arises cases of DOWRY harassment cases.
So, both can be best or worst depends on situation.
So, both can be best or worst depends on situation.
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Harry said:
8 years ago
Both marriages can be successful if two people are ready to accept each other without any demands and bias. But I personally believe Love marriage is better than Arranged marriage because In love marriage, the couple already have an understanding of each other and they are ready to live happily. Marriage is a compromise done by two souls who are ready to become a single soul. So, with proper understanding, love and affection, Love marriage will be preferred.
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Bhupesh Kumar said:
8 years ago
Hi friends,
I am in favour of love marriage but it doesn't mean that I am against of arrange marriage. I love it too. I would like to say as people have already mentioned above that we must have a mutual understanding. We must have faith and respect for each other, it is either love marriage or marriage. Yes, it's true that we should not go against our parents but sorry to say, friends, no doubt our parents always think for our better future but it doesn't mean that every decision which was taken by them will be good for our future. Maybe this time they are wrong. Now, we are mature, we have an ability to think if we can choose a better partner for our future then why not we should? But first, you must be honest opposite your partner. Never try to cheat her/him. Hope, by the grace of God you will find a good partner for your future and will enjoy for the whole life.
Thank you.
I am in favour of love marriage but it doesn't mean that I am against of arrange marriage. I love it too. I would like to say as people have already mentioned above that we must have a mutual understanding. We must have faith and respect for each other, it is either love marriage or marriage. Yes, it's true that we should not go against our parents but sorry to say, friends, no doubt our parents always think for our better future but it doesn't mean that every decision which was taken by them will be good for our future. Maybe this time they are wrong. Now, we are mature, we have an ability to think if we can choose a better partner for our future then why not we should? But first, you must be honest opposite your partner. Never try to cheat her/him. Hope, by the grace of God you will find a good partner for your future and will enjoy for the whole life.
Thank you.
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Allen said:
8 years ago
A very important and an ongoing social factor going on in our country. By the way, I am not against arrange or love marriages as this is our right to choose our future. Everyone saying that if we are going with b love marriages this hurts our parents the most but I want to ask you guys are you going to live with him/her or your parents. It's you right so, of course, it's your right to choose your partner as this is not for your time being this relationship is going to be for life and you have to be satisfied with it so guys go on weather arrange or Love marriage be sensible and be confident in urself on what you choose. And give your 100% in that relationship. And most importantly be happy. Keep away all your ego. Be patient towards your partner and the most important thing is to adjust. As your going to be together for every good and bad happens in your life. Live your best as we get a life.
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Pooja said:
8 years ago
Hi everyone.
First of all, the meaning of marriage leads to understanding. And based on the people it will be ruled but both are equal right both have equal scores for me if partners will understand both the sides. It not an issue of love or arranged. You will be happy every time.
Thankyou.
First of all, the meaning of marriage leads to understanding. And based on the people it will be ruled but both are equal right both have equal scores for me if partners will understand both the sides. It not an issue of love or arranged. You will be happy every time.
Thankyou.
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Yaaridhu said:
8 years ago
Totally depends on who you are. While arranged marriages barely end in divorces, many love marriages do. Is that because love marriage is a stupid thing? Of course not. Most people just tend to handle it in a stupid way. If you wanna get married to someone you love, that's a beautiful thing. But when you plan to live the rest of your life with someone you love, you need to know them as more than just a sex partner. You need to learn to trust each other, to fully understand each other, to teach one another to responsibly and maturely handle children, cook, clean, run a household, pay the bills. Love carries away a lot of people from this necessary practicality, and thus problems occur, and they fight, and they break up. Now arranged marriage isn't as preferable, I mean you're getting married to someone you don't even know, but it's a strong commitment to your parents and relatives that you will live with this other person, and thus, breakups almost never happen, because it's the couple's responsibility to stay together. And it's also a great option for people who will probably have a hard time finding a legitimate girlfriend, like the guy writing this. Still, arranged marriages are less guaranteed to bring you happiness. So once again, it depends.
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Gaurav bisht said:
8 years ago
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known person is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. They could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.
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Aparna said:
8 years ago
Hello, friends.
Both marriages have pros and cons. Instead of debating which is better. Just find your unconditional love, your soulmate. Understanding love for each other is mandatory here. Once unconditional love has come inside her/him, no other external factors will degrade their bond.
No matter arranged or love marriage, Its just a beautiful thing called LOVE plays a significant role.
Both marriages have pros and cons. Instead of debating which is better. Just find your unconditional love, your soulmate. Understanding love for each other is mandatory here. Once unconditional love has come inside her/him, no other external factors will degrade their bond.
No matter arranged or love marriage, Its just a beautiful thing called LOVE plays a significant role.
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MAYANK saurabh said:
8 years ago
I think it doesn't a matter friends that we go for love or arrange marriage. Most important thing in any relation is love, understanding, cooperation among two as well as family members too. Getting married seems to be a new life as someone is dependent on you now. So go for love or arrange marriage where you find this but make agree your parents.
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