Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Sai velpuri said:
8 years ago
Sai: Hi friends. In my point of view, love marriage is the best one because they understand very well before the marriage. Particularly summing of two different religions it leads to unity in society. Love marriage can be a key parameter in social development. But in arrange marriage parents choose the bride/groom by seeing the appearance, wealth, job etc. Whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage we will be happy when we vanish our ego with soft nature. Yes particularly patience is very important in marriage life. Few members said arrange marriage can bond two families but love marriage can bond two religions or different castes.
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Swapnil said:
8 years ago
I am Swapnil.
Most of the peoples don't know what is love.
Love is trust, love is caring, bonding of each other, can't live each other.
But some peoples make love as a joke or game, they play with feelings, use and throw.
They make difference between boyfriend and arrange marriage boy, obviously, boyfriend is not well settled but arrange marriage person is fully settle and some more qualified.
Some bloody idiot girls thinking are: -- In love marriage, there are so many problems.
-- They don't know whether they are doing right or wrong.
-- In that age, they felt that is love but actually that is an infatuation.
-- At that time whatever they are doing is right but not.
-- They are married but after some days going on, they face some problems.
-- At that, they are alone no coordinating between them.
I want to ask one question to this kind of girls. Why you should fall in love and break heart. If you want to marry as per family decision then don't waste time and play with boys feelings. Nowadays some girls fad are arrange marriage because they have more expectations and they don't want adjustment. They time pass with boy and finally do arrange marriage.
I fully support to love marriage.
Life is a journey we can't predict our life so trust a person who really love you.
Girls if you support A boy in the whole journey then that lovely boy do anything for you trust me. Please try to understand.
Most of the peoples don't know what is love.
Love is trust, love is caring, bonding of each other, can't live each other.
But some peoples make love as a joke or game, they play with feelings, use and throw.
They make difference between boyfriend and arrange marriage boy, obviously, boyfriend is not well settled but arrange marriage person is fully settle and some more qualified.
Some bloody idiot girls thinking are: -- In love marriage, there are so many problems.
-- They don't know whether they are doing right or wrong.
-- In that age, they felt that is love but actually that is an infatuation.
-- At that time whatever they are doing is right but not.
-- They are married but after some days going on, they face some problems.
-- At that, they are alone no coordinating between them.
I want to ask one question to this kind of girls. Why you should fall in love and break heart. If you want to marry as per family decision then don't waste time and play with boys feelings. Nowadays some girls fad are arrange marriage because they have more expectations and they don't want adjustment. They time pass with boy and finally do arrange marriage.
I fully support to love marriage.
Life is a journey we can't predict our life so trust a person who really love you.
Girls if you support A boy in the whole journey then that lovely boy do anything for you trust me. Please try to understand.
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BIGBOSS DHEERAJ said:
8 years ago
In my opinion, love marrage is better than the arrange marrage marrage because in love marrage they understand both before the marrage.
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Patatu said:
8 years ago
Good morning everyone:
Today we have good topic for discussion i.e. love marriage vs arrange marriage.
In love marriage, both he and she become first friend after they are cared for each other and entered into commitment, while they are building a career.
But in arrange marriage, parents choosing a partner for her child after completion of their career and when they are settled down. After marriage, they become friends and then they entered into their life so that they are wasted there half-life for understanding each other and commitment.
So in my point of view love marriage is best!.
Good luck.
Today we have good topic for discussion i.e. love marriage vs arrange marriage.
In love marriage, both he and she become first friend after they are cared for each other and entered into commitment, while they are building a career.
But in arrange marriage, parents choosing a partner for her child after completion of their career and when they are settled down. After marriage, they become friends and then they entered into their life so that they are wasted there half-life for understanding each other and commitment.
So in my point of view love marriage is best!.
Good luck.
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Achu said:
8 years ago
Comparing with love marriage and arrange marriage, love marriage is the best because we can share anything to them they will support and guide us be in arrange marriage we have no option we can't share openly. This is my view.
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Samrudhi said:
8 years ago
In my point of view, arranged marriage is best. In arrange marriage, we have a strong support of our parents which is most important thing in our life. To make our parents sad and marry with a person who came just in our life it is not good. If our parents fully supported our decisions then it is good thing. We should respect our parent's feelings and their opinions. They give us all happiness and when time comes to give happiness to them we think about others. So do the marriage with happiness of our parents. And love marriage is good.
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Swathi said:
8 years ago
I think arrange marriage is better because our parents can't wrong in their son/daughter they think for we they live we so don't hurt parents they give life for me we use that in right way don't do anything for lover you think you are parents.
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Mritunjay said:
8 years ago
I think love marriage is better but after some time it becomes lose but in arranged marriage, it reverses. The couple is so old their love is increasing day to day.
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Sai ram said:
8 years ago
I strictily support Arranged marriages.
In most of the cases, it has proven that love marriages create lots of issues in their life. Love is just a kind of attraction between a girl and a boy, it looks beautiful when they are in the love but once if they won't listen to their parents words and start their life by getting married, problems will start, even misunderstandings also starts and the relations ship between them weakens and this will lead to breaking up of their marriage and their even parents don't have that much chance to talk with that people.
Arranged marriage is very good when compared to love marriage why because without knowing the details of person, family background our parents don't let us into that relationship. We can have a secured life, good relationship, family, and friends. They have very good understanding between each other, love in arranged marriages increases day by day whereas in love marriages it decreases gradually and even if any problems occur our parents are there to look after that in the arranged marriages.
In most of the cases, it has proven that love marriages create lots of issues in their life. Love is just a kind of attraction between a girl and a boy, it looks beautiful when they are in the love but once if they won't listen to their parents words and start their life by getting married, problems will start, even misunderstandings also starts and the relations ship between them weakens and this will lead to breaking up of their marriage and their even parents don't have that much chance to talk with that people.
Arranged marriage is very good when compared to love marriage why because without knowing the details of person, family background our parents don't let us into that relationship. We can have a secured life, good relationship, family, and friends. They have very good understanding between each other, love in arranged marriages increases day by day whereas in love marriages it decreases gradually and even if any problems occur our parents are there to look after that in the arranged marriages.
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Rajkumar Jaiswal said:
8 years ago
Hello, Friend's My Self Rajkumar.
I Strongly support love marriage.
I agree with all of you because they understand each other a long time, there is no dowry system, no category and no religion, which is better for our country, because these created a lot's of problem in arrange marriage. There is no problem in Love marriage.
So I think Love marriage is better than arranging marriage.
I Ful Support Love Marriage.
I Strongly support love marriage.
I agree with all of you because they understand each other a long time, there is no dowry system, no category and no religion, which is better for our country, because these created a lot's of problem in arrange marriage. There is no problem in Love marriage.
So I think Love marriage is better than arranging marriage.
I Ful Support Love Marriage.
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