Are Live-in Relationships better than Marriage?

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Zoyaa said:   6 days ago
Everything has its own advantages and disadvantages, and when it comes to here.

I feel that life in is not that much wrong it is a process of knowing and understanding each of them better knowing every aspect of each other don't take the idea of if a boy and girl stays together it would be improper no it depends on the person without even conforming he is the one how can we grab our families into this marriage is a bond that has to be cherished and full of responsibilites treating each others families as their own families and a much lot.

Yunus said:   1 month ago
Hi everyone.

In my opinion, live-in relationships are not better than marriage, because live-in relationships have many trust issues in their relationships compared to a marriage relationship. Our Indian culture has considered marriage relationships; in this relationship, parent should find the right match for their child.

Rajeshwari said:   6 months ago
Yes, of course, our culture is to marry someone and we have to live with them for the rest of our life, and it's the correct way of living too.
The life after the marriage will be bitter for some time but it will be fruitful after some time, but the live in relationship will be very much fruitful in the beginning and it will turn out into a scary thing later, so my opinion about this is marriage life is very much better than live in relationships.
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Sarveshwar Reddy said:   9 months ago
According to me, I don't think so live-in relationship is better than marriage because in living in a relationship are parents will never agree to that and without informing them we will leave another person so it will not be good for us and our parents also and his parents will not accept us in that situation like if I live in with him before marriage in a relationship so yeah it will not good so according to me I think so that it will be better if we will share with our parents if they will agree then we have to get married directly so after live in a relationship not accepting these types of things it is bad for other people and relatives it is too insulting your parents will also feel insult people will backbite about the couple and parents.

The first one is there is no commitment in live-in a relationship. Your partners can leave you anytime in the middle of any problem, and they will have not to bear any responsibility of the other partner, you can't claim in court for the mishappenings because relationships are not legal in India.

The second one is live-in relationships do not succeed in the long run because there is just an infatuation which happens for a short time and also gets over in a very short time so you have to face all the difficulties afterwards.

The third one is that suppose if you are in some relationship and it's not working out then you can't move to your parents' house but in marriage, if there is some problem You can share it with your parents and you also have the support of the law.

The fourth one is that there is no family in a live-in relationship whereas you get a family in marriage,
The fifth one is live-in relationships also deteriorate our Indian culture.

One can be independent and free and need not be under the control of wife or husband and mutual respect will exist in live-in relationships. In marriage, we may or may not have chances.

So, I support marriages rather than live-in relations.
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Nithyalakshmi said:   1 year ago
Hello everyone!

My opinion is that whether it is a live-in relationship or a marriage the person we choose should be the right one.
We can see many successful live-in relationships and many failures in marriages too.
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Alisha said:   2 years ago
According to me, I don't think so live-in relationship is better than marriage because in living in a relationship are parents will never agree to that and without informing them we will leave another person so it will not be good for us and our parents also and his parents will not accept us in that situation like if I live in with him before marriage in a relationship so yeah it will not good so according to me I think so that it will be better if we will share with our parents if they will agree then we have to get married directly so after live in a relationship not accepting these types of things it is bad for other people and relatives it is to insulting your parents will also feel insult people will backbite about the couple and parents.
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Qureshi Mubashira said:   2 years ago
From my point of view, marriages are better than living relatioships.

As we all follow our culture.

Our cultures don't take living relationships in a positive way. Being in living relationship, doing everything to make your partner happy, giving your best to make your partner loves you, working together for better future, being physical, thats all while when you get married you have responsibilities of your family, partner and in future your childrens resposibility, you become more mature and more understanding, you will be having a happy family.

Suppose if you are in live-in-realtionships and its not working out then you can't move to your parents house but in marrige if there is some problem You can share it with your parents also and you also have support of law.

It's not only like that living relationship doesn't work at all. Some living relationships are enjoying their lifes as they want and being happier than married couples but as you know and I said it firstly culture is must important.

So i'll definately say that living relationship is not better than marriage.
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Amit said:   1 decade ago
I m totally disagree with mr. Azeez comments on marriage. Your thougt may make happy only you not other. If everyone think like that then you can't amagine how our life's become dirty. If every sate led man doe't like to marry & and make comfort to take divorce he become to take interest in single. Our generation become losser. How our generation become good life. If there parents wants self fun only. My conclusion is that.

Marraige is the best thing for everyone for better life.
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Minal said:   1 decade ago
Hi all.

I believe that marriages are better than live-in relationships by all ways. If anyone want a life partner then why not marriage. In Indian culture marriage is legal as well accepted. Lets forget about culture if we think about our personal life also we should go for a committed relation rather than a non-committed, in committed relation there is security for both not only for girls. But there is not a single committment in live in relationship. They are free and can ditch their partner for other without any fear. Lets suppose in a relation if one partner is in a problem and other helped him/her but at the time other one has any problem he/she can sinmply run away from the problem by leaving his/her. No doubt marriage means responsibilty but real way resposbility makes a man somehow perfect and a good person. If you are in a relationship then why not you choose marriage you should have that much faith on your partner or else you can live freely as a single.
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Heri krishna` said:   1 decade ago
We are Indians the culture is important to us. I really support to Marriage. Because in Marriage The couple have Mutual understand for each other. In marriage couple don't loose their parents. The relationship but two families have understand for each other. In our culture marriage plays an important role to improve relationships between the people. After marriage if the couple have decided to live individually they can divide legally by the court. The court will give some time to reduce the egos but the couple in that time if the couple can understand to each other the proposal of divorce will be cancelled.
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