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|Kusuma Reddy said: (Aug 22, 2018)|
Yes, of course, nice guys finish last because they focus mostly on perfection but not about time and remember one thing " Last but not lest".
|Dhananjay said: (Jul 25, 2018)|
|Hi everyone. This is Dhananjay.
In my opinion, this statement is absolutely correct. In today's generation, Being nice means You have to suffer a lot. Because if you are nice then you will expect the same from other. But. Today's world is so selfish that they will never care about you. Whether you feel hurt or whatever more of all. I like to say; in today's generation, Your 1st choice should be your first priority.
|Naveena D said: (May 2, 2018)|
|Good Morning Friends,
According to me, Nice guys finish last. Because of, they are finding the well defined and properly solving the problems or anything.
They will give detailed solution in proper way.
|Sai Raj said: (Apr 21, 2018)|
|Compare with others nice guys usually taking some extra time to finish their works. Yes, I agree with this topic. Nice guys have a well defined and foolproof plan and they believe in doing work with patience and concentration.|
|Megha Malhotra said: (Mar 5, 2018)|
The given topic is "nice-guys-finish-last".
In my point of view, firstly, the nice word here refers to the one who is truly responsible towards his work with full dedication, confidence, courage. I know that's very easy to say because the young generation is fed up with all this. They always want to apply the shortcuts to reach at the top of the world in this rat race.
In our childhood, we all surely listen to the story of rabbit and tortoise. In this story, rabbit loses the race because of overconfidence and tortoise wins as here tortoise is nice guys.
The major problem lies in the mindset of the people. This only words "nice guys finish last" can't drastically change the mindset of the people and at the end, I only want to say do the work for your satisfaction not to satisfy the others.
|Krishna Vivek said: (Oct 3, 2017)|
|Yes, I agree with the statement that "NICE GUYS FINISH LAST. "Generally, in most of the cases, nice guys finish late but not late. They finish it late to make the work more effective and interesting.
Even though they are late to work they feel happy to discover something new to the society within time.
|Uttara said: (Aug 23, 2017)|
|Nice guys are humble to let others speak first. Nice guys are well mannered to present their presentation in the last cause nice guys know that it does not matter where you go first or go last good things are aways appraised by others irrespective of the timing. More over nice guys take their own time to prepare well for any upcoming venture and they tend to give the perfect touch to their project so it is better for them to be patient rather than fool.|
|Kavya said: (Feb 27, 2017)|
|In my point of view finishing the work perfectly matters a lot. Nice guys first prefer to collect complete knowledge and experience from the ones who already did that work. During this period they develop their brains to think laterally. Nice guys don't care about finishing first or last. They complete the work in their own way. Generally, perfection takes some extra time.|
|Prajwal said: (Jan 6, 2017)|
|Hello, Today's generation is very smart in taking decisions and also has very high potential, confidence, self-belief, try to go fast to reach to the top of the world. But sometimes it could face large implications and due to this confidence losses and there in mind we think that if he/she loses they get nervous, depression by this they fear of losing and they reach at last and the one who takes smart decision and think with proper way and stay in positive thoughts then he/she can win and finish at last or first. In race, there, the one who comes first is winner for world but if someone comes last he thinks there he/she loose and the game is over. There are so many people who are not having all qualities but they develop, train themselves with positive thoughts and win. If someone who is the last rank in previous competition does hard work, thinks where he looses focus and grows with positive thoughts then the last on also comes first. So the nice guy finishes last by proving himself as first.|
|Prajakta Dhone said: (Jan 6, 2017)|
|There's nothing like to finish first or last, a good, hardworking, loyal and dedicated person will always try to do his best. It does take time to finish a perfect work, even if he is last his work is always appreciated first!|
|Ahmed said: (Sep 21, 2016)|
|Nice people never finish last. They always emerge as the winner in the end. The problem in today`s world is that most people try to take shortcuts which at times is either illegal or unethical. These people might get the desired result but in the long run, face serious repercussions.
Unlike these people, nice guys always measure the steps they take, make sure they proceed in the right direction and no one is harmed by their actions. They dedicate themselves to everything they do and make sure their actions yield positive results. The whole process might take a little time but the end result will always be fruitful.
|Nitin said: (Jul 23, 2016)|
In my point of view, the statement "Nice guys finish last" is not always true because being nice in any work produce output which Is far superior from being first without being nice, so whatever things, idea, plan. Nice guys will always be a champion in every aspect.
|Dipul said: (Apr 22, 2016)|
|Recall the story of tortoise and rabbit. As rabbit lose the race overconfidence but tortoise was a nice guy. Hmmm. People honest, work in proper manner and idea to complete work in a "kind" way are nice guys. Time is not a measure in their dictionary but work completion with the more effective outcome is their highest measure.
So they finish last.
|Neeraj said: (Mar 29, 2016)|
As per my understanding, nice person is that person who works hard always with full of attention so taking the first step or last step doesn't matter because whatever will be done so that task will take place as per the situation and that time can face anytime whether it be first or last. We consider always last because whoever will take place in last so that will remain to remember.
Good luck !
|Bobby said: (Mar 7, 2016)|
|I'm not preferring that "nice guy finish last", first of all we have to know what is the meaning of nice in here. #nice like to be responsible toward his work what he has done, or another hand in nature. Nice guy always complete their work systematically and correct. Doesn't matter last but in a giving duration. That is mine, and the other key point. His work is better than another.|
|Raj said: (Feb 15, 2016)|
|If I have to consider a nice enough guy then it's really not necessary that he will finish last because I have seen many people who finish 1st because as said by some person above 1st impression is the last impression then obviously when a nice guy comes in front of someone then his 1st impression is counted which is very good and then he finishes 1st.
Nice guy always wants to complete its work 1st. To make good impression. And he never hesitate to work overtime and make it on the time. So from as far as my point of view its never necessary that he always comes last.
|Shashank said: (Jan 27, 2016)|
|Nice guy always have a second plan if first plan is not going in his/her favour. That's why nice guys finish last but come up with better result.|
|Krishna said: (Sep 15, 2015)|
|"Nice guys finishes last", this may be a true statement for a short term. But for a long term consistency it is a nice guy who ends up successfully. Dealing with shortcuts is smart and it may give a person an illusion of him getting all he wants. But a famous proverb says, "God provides a bad guy all he wants, but won't help him at difficult times.
But he does not give everything to nice guys but he never forgets to stand by his side during difficulties". The proverb looks lengthy because its a translation of a Tamil proverb. Last I would like to say that nice guys finish last for a short run, but in a long run he will win.
|Arnab Bhowmick said: (Aug 24, 2015)|
|"Nice guys finish last". According to me What you achieve, how you achieve and the outcome of the achievement matters and not the position whether you achieve it on one go or after n number of attempts. To achieve something significant one must follow the correct path with full determination, honesty and hard work that a nice person can only do. He may get success in his later part of his life but the success which he will get will be permanent and not short lived.|
|Vishwa said: (Jul 31, 2015)|
Here nice guys always tries to give the work with quality not with the quantity, but they had a time management and ideas, so they will put the work quality with in time and other guys try to be first in, but he would be first in fool, from quotes "Slow steady wins the race".
|Snehil said: (Jul 24, 2015)|
|Nice guys can complete the task on time and in proper time but it would be like "BOOK KNOWLEDGE" other guys (not intelligent) may take time but the way they completed will be new and more interesting then the nice guys.|
|Kali said: (Dec 3, 2014)|
|When nice guy finishing in last minute it is OK, he is doing thing in first time itself, there will be less chance to make error, but some people doing thing very fast without meaning full result, its no use. Without plan and thinking will do work but no proper direction.|
|Hemant said: (Aug 1, 2014)|
|Actually nice guys do their work with proper planning and thinking. So there planning may take time. But we all know that proper planning means half of the work has done already. But after planning they try to do there work as fast as they can. So nice guys are not finishing last at all rather they want to do it first and be an example to others.|
|Rimjhimbothra said: (Jul 29, 2014)|
|Nice guy always think before doing any act. But foolish people act then think. As nice guys think before so although they are late comers but comes with strong action. As we know action speaks louder than words. They ponder over the matter from every angle then come to ultimate solution i.e. approaching towards perfection. While many people get tangled with facts after doing anything. For example many youngsters love to a person without thinking anything and get into trouble.|
|Tamil King said: (Jul 25, 2014)|
|My dear friend Sankar,
When a thing is done last it means it is done late. May be he could finish the work within the given time but before him many would have completed in a better way. It cannot be always good to be in last. Waiting to get an experience is good but waiting till last is not preferable thing. So nice guys can do a work in a better way ranking himself first.
|R.Tamilarasan said: (Jul 25, 2014)|
|Compare with others nice guys usually taking some extra time to finish their works. The fellow who is going to talk at last had chance to know different views of other peoples. So he can put up nice points which is different from others.
It's not been that Nice guys always finish at last.
|Siva Vignesh said: (Jul 18, 2014)|
|Like the "nice guy, " the "people-pleaser" will suppress their own needs in order to satisfy the perceived needs of others. However, while the nice guy syndrome was clearly elaborated as a men-specific problem, the "disease to please" focuses more on women who can have very similar behavior patterns.|
|Sunil said: (Apr 26, 2014)|
|It all depends how we all define the word "Nice" here. It is not automatically implied that "Nice" people are always ethical or speak true or do good things. " Sometimes flattery people are also termed Nice people. Who cares!
I totally do not agree the statement "Nice Guys Finish Last" in contrary. Nice guys get things done easily and quicker than any other can. They know how to handle people and to develop relationships.
Whatever. This is what I think.
Healthy comments are welcomed.
|Harikrishnan said: (Mar 1, 2014)|
Nice guys will always have the own idea.
They will think out of the box and try to make something good, better and make feel different. It can differentiate from the normal person from that guy. That makes him feel preferable and achieves him a perfect one.
He rules his own time, the place where he present.
There is no any restrictions given to him. He will make the best product of him. And make it best.
|Hitesh said: (Nov 8, 2013)|
|It is an interesting topic that we have been given here. The unique feature is that it can be comprehended in different manners. One of them could be that a nice guy essentially defines a person who plays by the book and is morally and ethically astute. He stands by his ideals and principles come what may. Such approach to life may be beautiful and inspiring but in today's cut throat world where survival of the fittest mantra holds supreme being on top may mean compromising on those beliefs. Those who adapt will prosper while those who don't shall perish.
Thank you for this opportunity to speak.
|Mahesh said: (Oct 1, 2013)|
|Nice guys finish things last Yes, I agree. Nice guys finish things last but not late. Actually these nice guys will have an idea and want to be different approach with perfectness which won't be similar to other, so some of the guys take views and experiences from previously done guys.|
|Pravalya said: (Sep 16, 2013)|
Can we describe this situation in an another way.
Can we take this as a situation like nice things always comes last with lot of struggles.
Even though we face difficulties, our nice efforts will never get wasted. They will ultimately results in to a success.
|Anjan said: (Aug 25, 2013)|
|I think topic indicates those people remain as dark horse but at the end they come out with wonderful results. They are nice in the sense that, they have better strategies and out of box thinking. If you remain as dark horse nobody would be expecting from you to win and due to which there will be no pressure on you to win. You will have only to gain and nothing to lose. If you think like that you have obviously better chance to perform well.|
|Radhika said: (Aug 25, 2013)|
|The ones who work wholeheartedly with dedication but are slightly gullible is the meaning of 'nice' I'm taking into consideration. I don't exactly agree with the point -'the nice ones are accepted by all'. They are honest and straightforward and long for perfection which may not garner everybody's votes.
Also, they may lose out on a few things where smartness works than perfection and end up being among the last ones which they definitely don't deserve.
|Satyanand Kommuri said: (Jun 21, 2013)|
|Good day friends,
The quote "nice guys finish last", means a person who is smart, courageous in doing given task. He works with his colleagues by taking their suggestions, involving every member in his team. If he is alone that means solo performance, he will take valuable suggestions from his well wishers preparing them into notes. He will engage with his friends to complete a job, just like group discussion meant for evaluating a perfect solution for a problem by a reasonable discussion. Roughly we can name him as "LEADER".
|Manish Mittal said: (May 8, 2013)|
|Nice guys finish last it means three points.
1. He use the time completely as much as possible output he takes from that precious time.
2. He does the things in his own way and definitely leave a way to follow for others.
3. He never try to come first as his deeds makes him the no 1 automatically so he won't mind of doing things slowly but perfectly.
|Ujjwal said: (Oct 20, 2012)|
|Nice guys are the ones who finish their work in a perfect way so this perfection requires time so we say nice guy finish last. We can't end here we can also define it as nice people are known for a long time even after their death.|
|Prasanna said: (Aug 23, 2012)|
|Nice guy probably the one who is not studious even the one who is good in attitude acquainting the positive path. He adopts optimism and tries to accomplish the tasks in a honest way. These nice guys finishes the work last which the result of their quest of perfection. Though the work may be perfect it lags with respect to time. Anyways in the longer run these guys may be benefited and yields to fruitful results. But at the same time it must be remembered that time end tide waits for none. Summing up in simple terms it can be concluded that these nice must perform the work in smarter way rather than in perfect way.|
|Bhargavi said: (Jul 11, 2012)|
|Definition of a Nice guys may not always say about the work they do or how they do. It may also define the nature of the person. It may also say about attitude or behaviour of person towards others. Coming to finishing last it may be like this "the nice person is known for longer time i.e., the people speaks about nice person even after their death ".|
|Nayan1623 said: (May 10, 2012)|
|First of all, we need to define what a Nice guy here refers to?
Be it a nice guy in studies, nice in nature, nice in thinking. Nice can be termed as Noble, Innovative, Challenging and Eclectic. So if a guy is noble definitely he is not going to find out wrong ways of doing things which now a days most of the people do.
If he is innovative and likes challenges then he will try to do things in a different way. And being Selective and meticulous about his work, definitely will take more time than others but the result will be definitely be Epitome of that field.
|Deepika said: (Feb 7, 2012)|
|It is not necessary at a nice guy always finish last if he does last that is only because he does things with perfection. I am quite against the motion because nice guys does not mean that he does things very slowly with perfection rather it means that he is nice as he is smart, he know the approach to be followed. So I would say it does not matter to finish last or first for a nice guy rather matter is how perfectionaly he does complete for a given duration.|
|Shamik Bandyopadhyay said: (Dec 30, 2011)|
|Nice is a nice word. It is a positive sign of a person. A nice guy becomes nice because everybody accepts him/her. This means that the person thinks positive about others. The psychology can react in different ways. That person really can feel bad when somebody hearts because of him/her. So, he/she may not push himself/herself to that extent which leads him/her to the top because people generally depress when they becomes second or so.
In another way, no body can last because life has no finish until death. The person loose one way win in another that may not be visible.
So, we cannot firmly say this statement because there exist both the sides.
|Yashwant said: (Aug 11, 2011)|
|No one in the world can be called as a nice guy, because doing good to one may cause bad to another.
Well a descent guy always has a great possibility to be 1. There can be very few instances where he is last. But there can be an apprised reason for being last. Some times it can happen because he strives for perfection or overlooks d syllabus or can look in to matters in a pedantic way, which makes him last.
I conclude agreeing to a statement that A descent guy can finish last. But not A descent guy will finish last.
|Krishna said: (Jun 26, 2011)|
|Nice guys are not looking to be different. They just looking for the perfection
and uniqueness, so it is viewed different to others because many of them are trying the same thing which is previously done.
|Anderson said: (Jun 14, 2011)|
|I really liked the topic but the thing is how do you define a "Nice guy" ? becz I think its quite subjective topic and a person who is nice to one can be bad to another, so there is nothing like a nice guy.
But if I have to consider a decent enough guy then its really not necessary that he will finish last because I have seen many people who finish 1st because as said by some person above 1st impression is the last impression then obviously when a decent guy comes in front of someone then his 1st impression is counted which is very good and then he finishes 1st.
Then there might be some cases where even a decent guy with a good 1st impression finishes last because he spends lots of time in perfection.
|Rajsekhar said: (Apr 23, 2011)|
|In my views a nice always wants to make everything with perfections and also in time limit or even first. They always tries to do take the advantages of leading but with perfection. Going first doesn't assure the leadership that's why they some time wait for right time and perfection to come.|
|Nandini said: (Mar 23, 2011)|
|"Nice guys finish last" it's sometimes true but not always. We all know that first impression is the best impression. If a nice boy loose the first chance then that impression goes to the one who begins first. For example take a elocution competition if a nice boy wants to finish first otherwise his topic may be told by other person.|
|Ramesh said: (Aug 21, 2010)|
|Intelligent people (nice guys ) if they do not the exact idea about the topic , then they wait for others to respond. In the mean while he grap or extract some points based on that . If not possible he will conclude the discussion. But actually if they are quite familiar with topic they will start at 3rd or 4th position out 7 peoples .|
|Reeta Singh said: (Aug 21, 2010)|
|Yes I agree with this topic. Nice guys have a well defined and foolproof plan and they believe in doing work with patience and concentration. Their aim is to complete work properly instead of completing it earlier then others.|
|Suresh said: (Aug 18, 2010)|
|All my dear friends the real fact is whatever points which is talked in first or last. If the point is fresh and different from others means then automatically it gets its value...
The fellow who is going to talk at last had chance to know different views of other peoples. So he can put up nice points which is different from others...
It's not been that Nice guys always finish at last..
|Arun said: (Aug 18, 2010)|
|I thing most of the persons are like to speak in ending session.|
|Mani said: (Aug 17, 2010)|
|It depends...A guy may have been taking too much time for it to be perfect... Or he might have been just too lazy to finish soon enough... "Nice" does not have anything to do with when a guy finishes...And i have a doubt...Why is it "guys"? Why not "people"?|
|Madhu said: (Aug 16, 2010)|
|Not all nice guys finish last.. and all guys who are finishing last are not nice guys..!!
There are many cases. If a NICE GUY wants to show his identity earlier he goes first as he is talented and has a good presence of mind.. Some go last when they want to be peculiar.. or may be.. uninterested, devoid or overconfident..and guys...people who shows last... are always not nice guys too.. :)
|Wanted said: (Aug 13, 2010)|
|Nice guys are not looking to be different. They just looking for the perfection
and uniqueness, so it is viewed different to others because many of them are trying the same thing which is previously done.
|Rahul said: (Aug 10, 2010)|
|Yes i Agree with Surey..
When a thing is done last it means it is done late.
|Rajesh said: (Aug 9, 2010)|
|It is absolutely true because nice guys always thing differently from others, thats why the do things differently.|
|Rani said: (Aug 7, 2010)|
|Ya I agree with Udhaya. Nice guys not only lazy they have some overconfidence that they can finish their work at the last time itself.|
|Sundar said: (Aug 6, 2010)|
|Compare with others nice guys usually taking some extra time to finish their works. Because they are think about the uniqueness and different style so nice guys finish the work in last minutes.|
|Udhaya said: (Jul 31, 2010)|
|Absolutely, Some guys are looking very smart. But everybody things they are looking good, so they have done their work earlier. The real fact is not. They are very very lazy.|
|Rati said: (Jul 30, 2010)|
|Nice guys try to please everyone and in the process end up last, it is definitely not advisable that everything should be done with a perfectionist attitude. Being nice only can not lead to fruitful results;a person has to be decisive and learn to say no when the situation arises.|
|Koki said: (Jul 30, 2010)|
|I didn't agree it. because, nice guys try to finish their works with perfectness, different approach and ideally and they want to be a first person of finishing that work.|
|Gowri said: (Jul 29, 2010)|
|my dear surey,
there is lot of difference between last and late.with in the time a person complete his work but he submit last is said to be last, if time exceed that is said to be late.
|Swamy said: (Jul 28, 2010)|
|Yes, I agree. Nice guys finish things last but not late. Actually these nice guys will have an idea and want to be different approach with perfectness which wont be similar to other, so some of the guys take views and experiences from previously done guys.|
|Surey said: (Jul 13, 2010)|
|My dear friend Sankar,
When a thing is done last it means it is done late.may be he could finish the work within the given time but before him many would have completed in a better way. it cannot be always good to be in last. Waiting to get an experience is good but waiting till last is not preferable thing. So nice guys can do a work in a better way ranking himself first.
|Sankar said: (Jul 7, 2010)|
|Yes, I agree. Nice guys finish things last but not late. Actually these nice guys will have an idea and want to be different approach with perfectness which wont be similar to other,so some of the guys take views and experiences from previously done guys.|
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