Nice Guys Finish Last

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Siva vignesh said:   1 decade ago
Like the "nice guy, " the "people-pleaser" will suppress their own needs in order to satisfy the perceived needs of others. However, while the nice guy syndrome was clearly elaborated as a men-specific problem, the "disease to please" focuses more on women who can have very similar behavior patterns.
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Rati said:   2 decades ago
Nice guys try to please everyone and in the process end up last, it is definitely not advisable that everything should be done with a perfectionist attitude. Being nice only can not lead to fruitful results;a person has to be decisive and learn to say no when the situation arises.
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Udhaya said:   2 decades ago
Absolutely, Some guys are looking very smart. But everybody things they are looking good, so they have done their work earlier. The real fact is not. They are very very lazy.
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R.Tamilarasan said:   1 decade ago
Compare with others nice guys usually taking some extra time to finish their works. The fellow who is going to talk at last had chance to know different views of other peoples. So he can put up nice points which is different from others.

It's not been that Nice guys always finish at last.
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Krishna said:   1 decade ago
Nice guys are not looking to be different. They just looking for the perfection
and uniqueness, so it is viewed different to others because many of them are trying the same thing which is previously done.
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Rahul said:   2 decades ago
Yes i Agree with Surey..
When a thing is done last it means it is done late.
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Madhu said:   2 decades ago
Not all nice guys finish last.. and all guys who are finishing last are not nice guys..!!

There are many cases. If a NICE GUY wants to show his identity earlier he goes first as he is talented and has a good presence of mind.. Some go last when they want to be peculiar.. or may be.. uninterested, devoid or overconfident..and guys...people who shows last... are always not nice guys too.. :)
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Koki said:   2 decades ago
I didn't agree it. because, nice guys try to finish their works with perfectness, different approach and ideally and they want to be a first person of finishing that work.
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TAMIL KING said:   1 decade ago
My dear friend Sankar,

When a thing is done last it means it is done late. May be he could finish the work within the given time but before him many would have completed in a better way. It cannot be always good to be in last. Waiting to get an experience is good but waiting till last is not preferable thing. So nice guys can do a work in a better way ranking himself first.
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Gowri said:   2 decades ago
my dear surey,

there is lot of difference between last and late.with in the time a person complete his work but he submit last is said to be last, if time exceed that is said to be late.
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