Nice Guys Finish Last

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R.Tamilarasan said:   1 decade ago
Compare with others nice guys usually taking some extra time to finish their works. The fellow who is going to talk at last had chance to know different views of other peoples. So he can put up nice points which is different from others.

It's not been that Nice guys always finish at last.
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Siva vignesh said:   1 decade ago
Like the "nice guy, " the "people-pleaser" will suppress their own needs in order to satisfy the perceived needs of others. However, while the nice guy syndrome was clearly elaborated as a men-specific problem, the "disease to please" focuses more on women who can have very similar behavior patterns.
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Sunil said:   1 decade ago
It all depends how we all define the word "Nice" here. It is not automatically implied that "Nice" people are always ethical or speak true or do good things. " Sometimes flattery people are also termed Nice people. Who cares!

I totally do not agree the statement "Nice Guys Finish Last" in contrary. Nice guys get things done easily and quicker than any other can. They know how to handle people and to develop relationships.

Whatever. This is what I think.

Healthy comments are welcomed.
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Harikrishnan said:   1 decade ago
Good evening.

Nice guys will always have the own idea.

They will think out of the box and try to make something good, better and make feel different. It can differentiate from the normal person from that guy. That makes him feel preferable and achieves him a perfect one.

He rules his own time, the place where he present.

There is no any restrictions given to him. He will make the best product of him. And make it best.
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Hitesh said:   1 decade ago
It is an interesting topic that we have been given here. The unique feature is that it can be comprehended in different manners. One of them could be that a nice guy essentially defines a person who plays by the book and is morally and ethically astute. He stands by his ideals and principles come what may. Such approach to life may be beautiful and inspiring but in today's cut throat world where survival of the fittest mantra holds supreme being on top may mean compromising on those beliefs. Those who adapt will prosper while those who don't shall perish.

Thank you for this opportunity to speak.
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Mahesh said:   1 decade ago
Nice guys finish things last Yes, I agree. Nice guys finish things last but not late. Actually these nice guys will have an idea and want to be different approach with perfectness which won't be similar to other, so some of the guys take views and experiences from previously done guys.
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Pravalya said:   1 decade ago
Hi friends,

Can we describe this situation in an another way.

Can we take this as a situation like nice things always comes last with lot of struggles.

Even though we face difficulties, our nice efforts will never get wasted. They will ultimately results in to a success.
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Anjan said:   1 decade ago
I think topic indicates those people remain as dark horse but at the end they come out with wonderful results. They are nice in the sense that, they have better strategies and out of box thinking. If you remain as dark horse nobody would be expecting from you to win and due to which there will be no pressure on you to win. You will have only to gain and nothing to lose. If you think like that you have obviously better chance to perform well.
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Radhika said:   1 decade ago
The ones who work wholeheartedly with dedication but are slightly gullible is the meaning of 'nice' I'm taking into consideration. I don't exactly agree with the point -'the nice ones are accepted by all'. They are honest and straightforward and long for perfection which may not garner everybody's votes.

Also, they may lose out on a few things where smartness works than perfection and end up being among the last ones which they definitely don't deserve.
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SATYANAND KOMMURI said:   1 decade ago
Good day friends,

The quote "nice guys finish last", means a person who is smart, courageous in doing given task. He works with his colleagues by taking their suggestions, involving every member in his team. If he is alone that means solo performance, he will take valuable suggestions from his well wishers preparing them into notes. He will engage with his friends to complete a job, just like group discussion meant for evaluating a perfect solution for a problem by a reasonable discussion. Roughly we can name him as "LEADER".
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