Are Live-in Relationships better than Marriage?

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Deepak said:   1 decade ago
Everything has its pros and cons. But according to me the advantages of marriage are much more than those in live-in relationships. It is not always necessary that two unknown individuals marry each other. If one wants to understand the other person there are many other ways rather than going in for live-in relationships. They can meet each other regularly and speak their heart out. Only when they feel comfortable should they marry. Thus, the security and commitment from both parties can be assured in marriage as well as disadvantages of live-in relationships can be done away with. Marriages are better than live-in relationships.

Rakeshraju said:   2 decades ago
I would like to say that marriages are better when compared to living relationships. Because, Indian marriage system consists of set of rules and regulations say register marriage or traditional marriage. Where as, for living relationships there is no rules and regulations and if any thing happens unpredictable in future, there is no third party involvement. Also, now a days people are just quiting themselves for small reasongs and especially this is more with livings.

So guys i would say, go for nice traditional marriage and live your life happily.
Nothing danger happens if you love your better-half after marriage.

Heri krishna` said:   1 decade ago
We are Indians the culture is important to us. I really support to Marriage. Because in Marriage The couple have Mutual understand for each other. In marriage couple don't loose their parents. The relationship but two families have understand for each other. In our culture marriage plays an important role to improve relationships between the people. After marriage if the couple have decided to live individually they can divide legally by the court. The court will give some time to reduce the egos but the couple in that time if the couple can understand to each other the proposal of divorce will be cancelled.
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Spk said:   1 decade ago
i just want to comment on "Azeez said: (Mon, Jul 19, 2010 02:23:40 PM" . he's bike example
azeez think yourself as the bike , and someone bought u now that guy is replacing u because u have some flows or defects. that time you r not the subject n u become the object. if u r thinkin for others ,others will also think of u.
in india marriage is not always the love ,it's about understanding and accepting others with there flows.one should peep in his own mind ,before commenting on others. i think in live in relations such respect will not be there. and so my support is to "marriage"

Vimal said:   2 decades ago
As per me... i think the most important thing in any relationship is the trust... and its not easy to form that thing ...secondly... the compatability factor...means what better than it is if both the partner can live together. If both the families have no prob. I agree that such thing is not that much favorable in our country but look at the other side also.

What if u marry someone...and later find out that u cant live under one roof... it may lead to divorce or any such bad consequences... So its better to check your compatability and i think the best way is live in relationship...

Aman said:   2 decades ago
Hi friends, we cannot forecast that marriage is better or live in relation for someone. Its depend our personal choice and apathy. If both patner want to live together it doesn't affect are they married or not, because they are assured to each other. I oppose the my frinds who says in marriage we can't live our partner. If spouse doesnot under stand each other it will create woe.

We can't say our culture does not allow this, as you know we are going to be western so we should try to adopt it as early as possible. If you talk about our culture it refrain the women liberty.

Ankit tiwari said:   1 decade ago
i think live in relationship is better bcoz dere is no case of dowry which is a major problem in our country due to which many gals lost there lives.bt i can be made bst if some limitations are provided by d government!in live in relationship man and women both have equal responsibilities .like both have to share every thing.we can think for utopain in live in relationship.if we have to make our country developed and controlled populated then this way can be used!in marraige we have to reproduce but it is not neccesary in live in relationship it is not neccesary.

Zoyaa said:   1 week ago
Everything has its own advantages and disadvantages, and when it comes to here.

I feel that life in is not that much wrong it is a process of knowing and understanding each of them better knowing every aspect of each other don't take the idea of if a boy and girl stays together it would be improper no it depends on the person without even conforming he is the one how can we grab our families into this marriage is a bond that has to be cherished and full of responsibilites treating each others families as their own families and a much lot.

Saurabh said:   1 decade ago
HI.........FRIENDS,In my point of view, i think marriage is better than relationship,bcz whenever u get married with someone than automatically a family will be created where u can find peace,love everything.Also a commitment will be formed in which we should be honest towards our partner.Another thing is u get a huge support of ur relatives in any kind of bad situation,and also our culture is not allowing us in doing so.

So MY dear friends i m totally agree with the marriage in place of live-in-Relationship.

Kirti said:   1 decade ago
In my opinion live in relationship is not better than marriage. Like science rules live in relationship applies to ideal world. But it never has been the perfect and ideal. In live in rel. If one partner betrays the other one the other will be helpless then. He/she can't do anything about it. Marriages are the most secure method. It gives you the right to speak against the partner who deceives. And it supports our culture and makes life disciplined. One learns being responsible.

So I support the marriage.


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