Are Live-in Relationships better than Marriage?

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Sumen said:   1 decade ago
In this fast n farward world we want everything quick and good. so dat marriage. keeping in view indian govt also permit live lin relation in some states like maharastra.now talk about what is live in relation. it is like living with anyone without any serious commitment and marraige is living with a serious commitment. it depends on us we belong to which cultre. what we like, what we think perfect for ur that is my culture. so if I find live in relation is better then marraige, in our generation then definately i will go for live. its all depends person to person.u r wise ,so if u find live in is god for u then nothing is wrong there to go for an live in relation.
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Fal said:   1 decade ago
No. I dont agree with the concept of live in relationship. Though you may sound me conservative butve indian are born and bought in the culture where we give more importance to our custom, culture and relation. we have seen or heard from our parent and grandparents that they use to marry even though that had not seen each other also but still the marriage was successful. Any relationship needs trust and understanding and people go for live in relationship thinking that they will be able to undertand each other but in livin you dont have any security and it means a lot in any relationship . live in relationship inderectly means no commitment , not ready to take any responsibilites.
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Nikki said:   1 decade ago
Hello Friends! I read many comments over here, some of you agree with 'live-in relationship is better than Marriage'. I really respect your thoughts. But I want to ask you - Is Living-In Relationship lives long? Is there any assurance? Is there any trust?Is there any commitment? I think we should respect our culture. Marriage increases the tolerance power of two. It not just increases the understanding between the two persons but between the two families too. If there comes any problem in marriage, atleast there are many people like their parents. Who really overcomes the problem.

So I strongly feel Marriages are more respectful. Its shame to compare between marriage and Live in relationship.
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Anubhav sharma said:   1 decade ago
Well I oppose live-in-realtionships because of many reasons. Firt one is there is no commitment in live -in raelationship. Your partners can leave you anytime in the middle of any problem, and they will have not to bear any responsibilites of other partner, you cant claim in court for the mishappenings because live-in-relationships are not legal in India.

Second one is live-in relationships are not succeed in a long run because there is jus an infactuation which is happen for a small time, and also get over in a very small time so you have to face all difficulties afterwards.

Third one is that suppose if you are in some live-in-realtionships and its not working out then you cant move to your parents house but in marrige if there is some problem You can share it with your parents also and you also have support of law.

Fourth one is that there is no family in live-in relationship whereas you get a family in marriges, fifth one is live -in-relationships also detereoate our indian-culture.
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Varun said:   1 decade ago
According to my views with the help of open relationship we know each other perfectly what he/she likes what they dislike which is necessary in future life.What he thinks about her and what she thinks about him.After know each other than they go for a marriage and that is the perfect time for a marriage.A long share of a people in our country takes wrong means of open relationship.

Saurabh said:   1 decade ago
HI.........FRIENDS,In my point of view, i think marriage is better than relationship,bcz whenever u get married with someone than automatically a family will be created where u can find peace,love everything.Also a commitment will be formed in which we should be honest towards our partner.Another thing is u get a huge support of ur relatives in any kind of bad situation,and also our culture is not allowing us in doing so.

So MY dear friends i m totally agree with the marriage in place of live-in-Relationship.

Malli said:   1 decade ago
Good morning friends my name is mallikharjuna, I would like to say few word about marriage I proudly say that our Indian customs is very good about the marriage in our India the relation between wife and husband is very good but some country it is not good I will give one example that if a person say to him I don't say my person properties no one then you ask really you will not your wife also then he replied that my wife is my body. This is our Indian custom thanque.

Alivia said:   1 decade ago
Well according to me marriage is better in any ways because in case of live in relationship we give our partner a chance to avoid responsibilities, we cant blame our partner if he or she leaves us as they can neglect their partner legally, but the bond of marriage is so strong that one bound to fall in love with his spouse even in the case of arrange marriage, because marriage is such a great thing when a couple starts to live together they must love each other, we hear "happily married", do you hear "happily lived in an open relationship" ever?not for our country atleast, girls of other countries are strong enough to face reality or to overcome when her partner cheats her but we can't move on so easily.

Kumar ujjawal said:   1 decade ago
well, i think live in relationship is being liked by those people who are very much of western minded, want to stay away from responsibility and go for only joy. marriage is a commitment to remain with each other in every state of life and for that both of them have to sacrifice and their sacrifice results in a happy married life. unfortunately we are very fond showing ourselves modern but can anyone of us kiss his girlfriend or boyfriend before our parents??? no... because we are basically Indians, we know our traditions. no one is perfect and one cannot get a person as per his/her liking, one has to adjust. one who does not adjust, cannot be successful in any walk of life, leave alone the marriage.

Anupriya singh said:   1 decade ago
According to me live in relationship is much better than the marriages because in marriages girls have to follow certain responsibilities and there is an boundary line.in this boundary line like girls have to respect the boys parents and sometime girls sacrifices their life, job,parents everything.so these things are not right for any girls.


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