Should Triple Talaq be Banned in India or Not?

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Karishma said:   7 years ago
Triple talaq.

What comes to our minds when we think of this?

It's a Muslim law, that supresses the women.

It's a law where man treats the wife as a commodity? And leave her whenever she wants, just by saying that word 3 times?

No, it's not that,

If you read Quran, you will know what it means.

It's a beautiful concept which gives right to both "husband and wife" to warn the partner, if they have some issues, they should resolve it.

They should talk about it, and at the same time warn the partner that, I might have to end this relationship if you do not treat me well. It's the right of both husband and wife.

Once you can say talaq.

The next time it is repeated you say talaq Talaq.

And if the partner is repeating it again, it means they really don't want to be with you as they are not showing any signs of change and hence you say "talaq talaq talaq".

Which is considered to be the divorce, accepted by both partners.

I think it's fair.

But for Indian men, no law is straight.

They want to twist and turn it for their own advantage. And so, just like any other law, they have made this a law to fulfill men's wishes. Which is totally against the triple talaq law.

So, I wouldn't blame the law. The law is beautiful at its purest form.

But it should be banned in India as the typical Indian men will not stop using it for their own benefit.

So, for safeguarding our women, it needs to go.

Thank you.
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Avinsh said:   7 years ago
Yes, triple talaq must be ban in India because it is not about religion it is about their right of equality. There are many cases where a man said talaq thrice through WhatsApp, phone, mail and say now we have no relation. Muslim activists connect this with there religion but in Hindu also there was Sati Pratha but it has been banned in past so why not this triple talaq. There is also no provision of plenty for the husband how the wife run there life. For Muslim women betterment, equality and good condition it must be ban.
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Nandan said:   7 years ago
Hello Everyone.

In my opinion, triple talaq must be banned in India. As it raises a question against the equality of both genders. Triple talaq is an ill practice followed from several years in India. According to this, a man can leave his life partner by simply saying 'talaq talaq talaq' to her. This is totally biased. How a married man is allowed to do this without having any views of his wife on his decision. The man who promised the girl to give all the happiness of this world to her is the same person who left her without having his wife satisfaction. I think marriage is not be considered as a game but one can understand the responsibility and must respect his wife. Both the genders must have equal rights to live their life and make a decision freely without any restrictions. As a girl sacrifice his family, friends and everything for his husband so its become responsibility of man to respect his wife.
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Satya narayan said:   7 years ago
Yes, triple talaq should be ban in India, actually, it is banned but for more discussion and the as for knowledge concern we should know the meaning of talaq, where a woman is critical for small fault and take a big decision by Muslim man.

Women have no right to live their free, she should have also right to spend their life, so how her life gone to worst, how she lives may be the chance of suicide.

Muslim law said that marriage is a contract, Is this fair, how anyone can play with any life. When you bored get divorced. Nice rule.

I totally agree with the topic that triple talaq should be ban.
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Anshu said:   7 years ago
The system of Triple Talak has introduced 1400 years ago. The system states that,

If after the marriage the husband is not satisfied with the wife then he can give her Talaq (1 of 3) which may be an orl, written, or through any social media site without stating any reasons. However, if the wife is pregnant then Talaq comes to force after the child is born.

If after the Talaq, they reconcile and decide to remarry they can do so. If after the marriage the husband again feels dissatisfied he shall continue the process till the 3 Talaq has taken place.

However, after giving 3 Talaq, they cannot remarry until the wife marries another man and receives 3 Talaq's from him.

Here, the custody of the child remains with the husband.

Even the wife is allowed to give Talaq to his husband and she receives some compensation from his husband.

It is said that triple talaq is better than divorce as it gives a chance to them to re-marry all over again.

But, what I feel is that in India this practice has been wrongly used. People are misusing it for their selfishness needs. First, marry a girl and when you are bored say triple talaq at a go and the marriage is over. Just like a game, they play with the lives of the women. It gives full liberty to the men to leave their wives without giving any reason. They also get a right to keep their children. This system gives no light to equality. It shall be banned and has been banned in countries like Bangladesh and Pakistan.

According to me, Divorce is a better option, there both the parties need to state their reasons, stay for some time together to check whether there is any chances of reconciliation and then end the marriage by giving some compensation to the wife. They can remarry again if they want to.

So, according to me, Triple talaq shall be banned in India.
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Ekta said:   7 years ago
According to me,

Triple Talaq should be banned in India because this gives an advantage to men like if he gets frustrated or irritated from his wife he can leave her by say 3 times talaq. Everyone should have equal rights. According to my opinion, Triple Talaq should be banned in India.

Thank-you.
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Sanyam said:   7 years ago
Hello everybody.

In my opinion, Triple Talaq should be banned in India because it is quite an unfair policy that is being practiced by many. Firstly, it does not grant equal status to both sexes. Moreover, if India wants to become developed, modern and progressive, gradually we would need to come up with such practices. It also keeps a constant sense of fear and submissiveness in the ladies today, which is not right. Also, a bond of husband and wife shall not be so tender that it can be ended without official documentation or signatures and other legal proceedings.
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Raqeeb said:   7 years ago
Hi everyone,

As I already discussed the topic, but I want to add some more words to this topic, like I said triple talaq should not be banned because if it is used properly then I believe it is the most powerful tool for both husband and wife for reconciliation. Due to lack of Muslim knowledge, we have misused the triple talak i.e. triple talaq in one go which means saying talaq talaq talaq in one go is prohibited. QURAN (book of muslin) says "O you who have believed, if there comes to you a disobedient one with information, investigate, lest you harm a people out of ignorance and become, over what you have done, regretful", which means if somebody tells you something, verify or investigate it first then follow the saying of that person but problem is common in India of Listening and watching the news without investigating and verifying from our own side. The topic should not be like "it should be banned" instead it should be 'How to triple talaq should be followed". If you compare it with divorce in court then there are no chances of coming back, the husband and wife signed the paper that is the end of a marriage but in triple talaq, there are chances of reconciliation and the rest the authentic way of practice of triple talaq I already discussed.
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Shivam singh said:   7 years ago
Hello, my dear friends.

Good morning to all.

I am Shivam and I am going to give my mind on this topic (should triple talaq be banned in India or not?).

In a simple word, my opinion on this topic is, yes triple talaq should be banned in India. Because we should be required to give equal opportunity to both man and woman. You think marriage is just like a rope when you want to break it. Marriage is a pure relation between two people, that should be done throughout life. In my opinion triple talaq easily break this pure relation due to for very small battle. I said that type of words not because of I am Hindu because I am an Indian. Plesa I requested to my Indian government stopped this triple talaq rule and give freedom from them to all Muslim women of India. Thank you.
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Rashi said:   7 years ago
Triple tala! Just three times telling it can end a relationship which was bonded by themselves. Because of this freedom given by the government, man found all their ways to excuses from responsibilities and relationships. Jus incase of anger, envy they will easily say those words which will hurt women pride. We belong to Hindu religion never encourage this at any cost. Because we will give our importance more to ethics, morals. We respect them n we follow them sometimes relationships need to be adjusting than entertaining which will further lead to a happy family. Without thinking to say three words can't help them to make it good again. What once done will never be it anymore.
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