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Sushil Yadav said: (Wed, Aug 6, 2014 08:22:10 PM)    
 
Surely women empowerment may be termed as one reason for increasing divorce cases. Compare the condition of women in the 60's to now, the major difference that you would observe is significant rise in the number of working women and as a consequence of this they've become more self dependent and don't have to depend on anyone else for their daily bread. Another consequence of this is women then never used to raise their voice against the exploitation done against them and this was primarily due to there over dependent on their husband or any other male in the family. But now the scenario has been completely changed women having got employed don't beer anything and register complain against the concerned person without a delay.

But inspite of all this women are no where to be blamed, as in 80 percent of the cases it's due to exploitation done against, so in a way they are forced whereas in remaining 20 percent cases, women voluntarily go out for seeking divorce against their spouses.

Conclusively, women empowerment may be a cause for divorce but surely not due to women.

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Lily said: (Sat, Jul 26, 2014 12:58:54 AM)    
 
Hello everyone, stop deciding who is the culprit?we should never blame a person whether it is a he or she for getting separated from each other, rather we should blame the situation. These days women empowerment is essential because a country can't be developed if the citizens of it keep on fighting among themselves that who is better man or woman rather than focusing the improvements they can bring together.

For this the society have to change their mindset, opportunity doesn't with a name on it, you have to grab yours, whether it is a he or she.

So women empowerment has no role with the divorce rate in India because if a couple is happy together nothing can come in between them, at the end of the day they will be together.

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Ramkumar said: (Fri, Jul 25, 2014 05:29:52 PM)    
 
The media and technology has a role in degrading the institution of Family. The mobile phone is used by today's woman to have hidden relationships more effectively and gives a bad impression that they were looking for such opportunity to unleash their potential. The media also highlight provoking stories like rape of daughters by father and rape incidents and divorces, while good relationships and good families are not appreciated at the same scale. Good incidents all over the world are not highlighted as war, rape and murder. Many advertisements are not watchable with family.

The nutrition of the institution of Family is necessity of humanity. The loss will not only affect men but also women, especially children. The well keep of this institution should be the basis of a cultured society, truthfulness, decency, sacrifice to humanity and history of human progress. The well being and upbringing of children should be the sole responsibility of Family than state, where a culture human being will be created.

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Thangam said: (Sun, Jul 20, 2014 09:55:40 PM)    
 
Women empowerment has revolutionized the society. They have also started to built new ventures which eventually has helped the society. This has shown a ray of light in mutual understanding. Now in our society we have a lot of women entrepreneurs for which we can be proud of.

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Ankit said: (Wed, Jul 16, 2014 06:44:45 PM)    
 
What's the right meaning of empowering women? - Competing with men? I don't think so.

"Can't we have educated women in our home? Can't we have educated mothers?".

Its true that there WAS a time when women were disrespected and ill treated. They were deprived of education. They were not treated equal to men. But times have changed drastically and things are different now.

Now, Like the parts of a machine or like the parts of our body, every body has a specific job to do in our society. And somebody rightly said "No work is Small".

So with more and more women neglecting their primary job of being a good homemaker (the essence and base strength of a healthy society) and taking up jobs which a man can do with much less effort than a woman the balance of the society is getting disturbed.

So, In my views, women empowerment has somehow played a vital role in increasing divorce rates in India.

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Rajesh said: (Sat, Jul 12, 2014 07:48:15 AM)    
 
Good morning friends.

I am here to share my point of views.

Woman empowerment is something which gives woman equal chances to participate or to compete in every field with man. It makes women aware of their rights and freedom. Friends we have been living in a male dominating society where men are superior race.

Earlier women were not allowed to take part in any decision making, they were easy prey of violence and were not allowed to speak even a single word even after violence with them. They were deprived of their basic rights. Even today in many forms or for academic purpose management ask fathers name, why can't they ask for mothers name also?

Now with the empowerment of women they have come to know their rights, their freedom. So they don't want to get discriminated by male. This creates problem because men just can't tolerate to see demeaning their position in the society. They want to rule the society and still think as the superior race in the society. But now woman of our society giving man tough competition.

So even woman start argumenting and the situation becomes heated.

This may one of the cause of increased divorce.

In the end I want to conclude that its the fault of the woman empowerment programmes for increased divorce. Its just for the upliftment of a retarded race of the society.

We man and woman of the society should understand the value of relation. Its just our thoughts that are causing increased divorce.

We need to make it amenable for each other.

Thank you.

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R K Arvind said: (Thu, Jul 10, 2014 10:14:13 PM)    
 
Cause for increasing divorce in India is misunderstandings between couples, because before marriage they didn't spent much time with each other or may be dowry demand. Women empowerment can't be a cause. Because women empowerment gives authority to women to come forward to participate in every aspect of life and services not less than a man. It tells about their rights, it make women to raise their voice against any exploitation by society, so how it is a cause.

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Gaurav said: (Sat, Jun 21, 2014 04:51:37 PM)    
 
Hello friends, women empowerment is not the reason for increasing divorce rates in India. Now women are empowered so that they know about the world and don't want to live in relationships which they think has no meaning. It is better to get separated than to live in relationships which causes harm to both people lives.

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Lambodar said: (Tue, Jun 17, 2014 06:13:52 PM)    
 
This is one of cause but we can't put any bad impression on women empowerment. When a female are less educated and do not know about real world men put pressure on them. Men put force and got there work done by women. But now as women are well educated and able to know the real world they do not want to tolerate such pressure and better choose diverse and stay single.

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H. Thangchinlun said: (Tue, May 27, 2014 12:34:54 AM)    
 
Woman is base of family. So, empowering woman means empowering a family. But woman should live under the control of her husband, she should submit herself to her husband. When a woman is empowered, she overlooks her husband and not submit towards him leading to misunderstanding and disputes in the family, leading to fighting and even divorce.

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Saurav said: (Thu, May 15, 2014 03:41:23 PM)    
 
Can a woman beat man in Olympics or sports?

Can a woman beat man in tough Intellectual stuff? There is only one Einstein. Even Science agrees Men have better IQ than women.

Can a woman beat man in Spirituality? Even the great Buddha thought 20 times before allowing women to Monkhood. Why? Because even he knew Women are dumb creatures and giving spirituality to women is like giving banana to a monkey.

It is a fact and science agrees that Men have greater will-power than Women. When a man decides something he invariably does it, A man takes secrets to his grave. Can we say the same thing about Women? Women are fickle minded and change their decisions every minute.

However there are certain things in which Women are better than Men.

Can a Man match Woman in giving Motherhood?

Can a Man match Women in Patience?

So Man and Women have individual strengths. But Women being idiots start matching Men in every damn field.

These so called Women Writers who talk about Women empowerment. Someone should go see their lives. Most of these writers are western women who have been divorced 3-4 times and are living Lonely miserable lives.

Think Women think !.

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Rincee said: (Sun, May 4, 2014 08:57:27 PM)    
 
Once you understand that a relationship is just for namesake. Leave I t. Why should you sacrifice self respect and blindfold society and live as if it's your fate and go on? So divorce is inevitable to live freely. But post divorce. It's quite difficult if you don't have a job. Especially if it's a woman with children. So if you are an employed you can live with your head held high and raise your children well. So women empowerment is good. So both are needed. And one cannot be solely blamed for another.

Above all a good relation is based on love, respecting each other, caring and trust and of course compromise and sacrifice is also needed.

A good couple should be God fearing too and raise their offspring well together.

At Least when you bid goodbye to world you can be happy that you had a wonderful family and your part was clear.

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Nita said: (Mon, Apr 7, 2014 11:12:07 AM)    
 
Hello,

According to me in today women got tremendous opportunities to go high and to reach the sky. This is a golden chances for women to prove herself to her hidden potential.

Today man and women have not only the same rules but also 30 percent place reserve for women so it help women much more to achieve their target.

85 percent women work outside with managing their home after marriage that means they spend more time in official work than her home, and can't give so much time to her family which she must want to give, the result cause dissatisfaction in both husband and wife. Husband also feel bad only at some places equally participate in household responsibilities.

No Women Empowerment - A Cause for Increasing Divorce Rate in India yes she will be wrong at sometime but her husband try to understand and make she known that what was her mistake. Yes if she is wrong at same mistake many times then husband should take any action but remember that No one can clap by only one hand.

But it does not mean that women should not work outside and become only homemaker,

She should work but she have such type of job that she can spend her more time with family too.

Sorry If I hurt anyone, I write here my opinion only which I think. Because in today technical world women do not want to stay only as a housewife she want to do something different, she want to help her family, her husband financially and she do that. Women know their responsibilities very well and they follow them only the need require sometimes is to support her.

Thank you.

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Insignificant Male Me said: (Mon, Apr 7, 2014 06:01:20 AM)    
 
My birthday is tomorrow and so I am trying to get away from topics like this at least for one night and one day and just breathe, look out the windows at the beautiful western sky and creatures. What this person has written at the outset is absolutely the trends for quite some time and there is no need arguing about this. Females of all stripes know exactly what had been happening whether they try to justify right from wrong present from past.

Fact is, they are out for #1 and as much money as they can get in the process HERE in western decayed culture. Think we aren't paying for this so called liberation? Something created us all and that something will take care of the perpetrators AND they are not just Independent women guys!

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Avs said: (Sat, Apr 5, 2014 03:38:04 PM)    
 
Women empowerment is not only a cause of divorce, but its a cause of suicide amongst men, senior citizen abuse & lack of proper parenting of children.

A women who is educated working and is & married into a liberal family is already empowered or equal.

All these biased laws in name of empowerment only bring out the evil in them & men suffer in turn. They cheat, abuse father in law mother in law, separate father from child, take away money & ornaments from husbands home but not much can be done.

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Neha said: (Sat, Mar 15, 2014 11:29:15 AM)    
 
Before discussing this topic let me ask you. What is women empowerment. It is empowering of the women of our nation. So that they could be financially independent. Women empowerment is a step to giving women equal status as men. It is a step to make women stronger. How could this be a cause for divorce.

If you think women empowerment is a cause for divorce. Then it is because women who were suffering from men's torture and harassment, women who have been living like a slave to her husband. Because she had no other choice. Because she don't know what else to do than silent suffering. Now are financially independent. Now are aware of their rights. Now have the courage to raise her voice against the injustices towards her. If that is causing this increase in divorce rates. Is that bad? In my opinion NO! Everyone should be given equal rights. Should be given a chance to choose how their life should be. Rather than suffering like a slave. Being a victim of physical and sexual abuse. Only because she was married to a cruel man. It is far better to dump him. Escape and live independently.

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Dheeraj Kumar said: (Thu, Feb 20, 2014 02:04:01 PM)    
 
In my point of view women empowerment and increasing cases of divorce are different things. Women empowerment means give them power to make them equal as their male counterpart. It is justice with them to get equal status as man in the society. Why should they bear the odd for that they are not responsible.

However increasing case of divorce is due to mismatch of couple in education, in status, in approach, family values and many more which leads to take this last step.

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Neha said: (Wed, Feb 12, 2014 07:02:25 PM)    
 
The argument that women empowerment is the reason for the increasing divorce rates is not entirely logically convincing because it ignores certain crucial assumptions.

Firstly, it assumes that the divorce rates were less when women were not a part of the professional/corporate world and dependent totally on their husbands in all respects. Lets discuss here first what does divorce mean? Does it necessarily mean the husband and wife separated under legal conditions? Or does it simply refers to a failed marriage? Domestic violence, ego clashes, sexual harassment-are these not the reasons of failed marriages? If yes, then these were prevalent even before the women were "empowered".

If, today, a woman is strong and independent enough to come out and demand for the separation from her husband just because she does not need her life to be miserable, we blame it on the empowerment. It is true that women have become stronger, educated and less vulnerable but the motive was never to break apart their families.

Some might argue that women empowerment leads to ego clashes between the spouses but it is equally reasonable to argue that men can't bring themselves to believe that today their wives are shoulder to shoulder with them and some in fact are even ahead of them. So, it is not the empowerment which has created the ego clashes, it is the inability of some (not all) men to adapt to the changes which have been brought about due to empowerment.

Secondly, the argument never addresses the fact that women empowerment has decreased the rate of domestic violence which ideally should be the reason for divorce. Therefore, the motives of women empowerment were never wrong but the consequences might differ as per how people expect an educated woman to be.

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Shekhar said: (Tue, Feb 11, 2014 06:10:05 PM)    
 
DOWRY DOWRY DOWRY MENTIONED MULTIPLE TIMES IN THE POSTS.

BUT WHO GIVES DOWRY AND WHO TAKES IT ARE ALL FINANCIAL OFFENDERS.

We are talking of Divorce. The girl did not have to give dowry and the boy did not get it personally.

So how can this reason be enough for a divorce?

Divorce is possible only if both the partners failed to reconcile their differences, whether petty or big and so both are at fault for failing to reach a reconciliation.

Even if the in-laws interfere, that is not a sufficient ground for Divorce.

I believe that apart from the misinterpretation and misuse of Empowerment regulations, there cannot be any Divorce unless the couples disagree on their partner preferences.

If any of the couple is misusing the Empowerment regulations, it is better to get Divorced than to live in pain in such an uncompromising situation.

If a parent scolds their child it is felt it is for the good of the children.

However if the in-laws even raise their concerns and share their opinion it is deemed interference and a reason enough to get Divorced - WOW, Such TRANSPARENCY AND FAITH in relations?

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Karthihai said: (Sun, Feb 9, 2014 01:42:19 PM)    
 
Women has been protected by various laws but still she was abused in the hands of man. Though there was various woman empowerment programs it does not reach ever corner of society. Too its a time for woman to understand that we can protect us from abuse and we must not misuse the acts and studies which protect us.

In the past women was not respected by any means even for her emotions. But now women takes part in all every fields and made society to feel her importance.

Every ones effort was needed to decrease divorce rate.

1) Women must stop misusing the advantages given to her.

2) Men must ever appreciate the importance of women and respect her.

3) Only the state can put active measures to decrease divorce by making people to respect our culture and teaching the importance of family and values of relationship.

Any every one can get success in personal and professional life.

Women empowerment has been misunderstood by both men and woman. And greater clarity by state will decrease the divorce rate.

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Roja said: (Tue, Feb 4, 2014 11:00:36 PM)    
 
Women empowerment today the whole world is very much concern about this. From the news we heard this maximum time that women is defeated due to some reason why let this to be happen, a women should stand a and face the world by her name and fame, and most with her work. And if I talk about divorce and and I have relate this with women empowerment.

Then this will misunderstanding by husband only that wife is working out this may be lead to divorce.

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Yogamaya Mishra said: (Mon, Jan 27, 2014 03:55:04 AM)    
 
Women empowerment is very very essential for a woman to live her life with self respect, dignity and independence. It makes her know her inner qualities and short falls. If I am not misunderstood woman empowerment here is not merely economic empowerment but transformation of a small childly girl to a complete independent woman empowering her with knowledge, quality of knowing herself, her wishes likes and dislikes, and of course tools to take right decision at time and more appropriately learn herself.

Dependency is a fact for all whether men or woman, married or unmarried or unmarried.

In a family generally male members does outside work and female members the household chores. So all are interdependent. In the same way in an office all staff whether male or female whether senior or junior.

I other sense dependency leads to socialisation. I think if we really learn to be social then divorces will never occur.

Coming to the main point empowerment of women.

In a family a small girl sees the outside world through the eyes of her father and brother, after marriage she depends on her husband and in her old age on her son.

Let us think of a situation when ultimately her father dies, brothers deny to look after her or either she don't get married or divorced or husband dies.

In that case she can become self sufficient to face the outside world with the tool woman empowerment.

Marriages are made in heaven.

No one knows whether a girl will get married or not but all knows she have to live her life till death.

So why not to live in her own terms and conditions.

Woman who do not have any other source of income are also facing divorce and women who though don't have any other source of income but are sufficiently wealthy with paternal wealth may also face divorce.

In my view marriage is a very sweet experience for a couple if everything is managed well or goes well. Since then divorces are occurring and will occur in future also as they have many other reasons which are of less significant here in our discussion.

A woman who have a better source of income than her husband loves to accept a gift from her husband bought from his own income and a man loves to taste a dish prepared by his wife rather how wealthy he is. This is love in marriage. Even many big woman icons would have cooked food for their husband.

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Mona said: (Fri, Jan 17, 2014 11:06:35 PM)    
 
I don't understand how can divorce be related with women empowerment. We need to understand society has changed. The mentality of both men and women has changed. We don't think the way our mothers or grandmothers used to think. Similarly our children won't be thinking the way we think now. Earlier there were harassment, abuse on women, dowry death.

They are still there. BUT, earlier women could not protest because economically they were dependent-before marriage on father or brother and after marriage on husband. Now there is a change. Women are getting higher education, jobs and earning as well. So its very normal that an educated woman will not tolerate any injustice or violence. Its true that some women do take advantage of law and misuse it.

But that number is nothing compared to the number of women who really suffer in marriage. Because its still the husband who gets drunk and beats his wife not the other way round, or its the wife who gets abused by husband or in laws for dowry not the husband. So divorce has its own reasons, it has nothing to do with women empowerment.

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Nihilist said: (Fri, Jan 3, 2014 02:07:33 PM)    
 
Empowerment of women, though may not be the root cause behind 'Divorce' it has encouraged women to opt for divorce more easily when compared to olden days. During male chauvinistic period, women kept to their homes and never complained of their plights. With the advent of exclusive laws, NGOs and rights activists, this has changed. Women should be given the space which she deserves. Their issues should be addressed.

But resorting to divorce at the first sight of conflict is not advisable. There may be other means to resolve their conflicts, such as approaching a counselor. Even better they themselves can arrive at a solution. Even still not satisfied, they should try to live together ignoring their differences at least for their kids to grow up.

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Akhil Matam said: (Wed, Jan 1, 2014 03:52:24 PM)    
 
Accroding to me,

I can't say there is no relationship between women empowerment and divorce. There is a thread relationship between them.

Women empowerment means to unlock the women from kitchen doors. And giving their own rights EQUAL TO MEN.

Divorce relates to not only women but also men. It takes place between two married couples when other destroys another's believes.

So both are different but related.

Of course. Women empowerment is cause for increasing divorce rate in India. But it is a minor cause and we should not see it as a cause because major causes like foreign culture, don't know value of Indian marriage system, lack of patience, sex are ahead. In Front of all these causes this is not a cause at all. We can say effective tool for women.

If women are empowered, they can fight for their basic human rights which many women are not getting presently. They can raise there voice against dowry, house abusement, harassment etc. ,

So women should be empowered.

They should fight in an apt way for their rights.

AND LAST DIVORCE SHOULD BE LAST OPTION FOR THEM AS WE ARE INDIANS.

JAI HINDH.

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Rohit Girdhar said: (Mon, Dec 23, 2013 02:44:47 PM)    
 
Well, I see here that in most of the discussion we are misreading the term "Women Empowerment". Women empowerment has noting and everything to do with the increased divorce rate. Me as an individual is not against women empowerment and strongly believed that women should be empowered. The idea is what would society give up on while empowering women. Todays trend is such where women in being empowered with draconian laws where she is being educated and taught about their rights. About what they could do with these gender biased laws. Such empowerment will lead to demolishing of Indian society. This is NOT WOMEN EMPOWERMENT.

This is why the divorce rate is increasing. When we talk about women empowerment, we need to make sure that along with their rights they should also be made aware of their duties (responsibilities). When our entire women race would understand and would religiously undertake their responsibilities then it would be real women empowerment. India has most Gender biased laws. These laws empower women to misuse them but no where do they tell these women to undertake their responsibilities. The issue is serious and thus needs a religious thought process to make sure that laws are not being misused by any one rather by any gender.

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Nayan said: (Mon, Dec 23, 2013 11:26:58 AM)    
 
Women Empowerment is a good thing and had been started to bring the gender equality. Problem arises when the concept of empowerment takes completely wrong direction. Women empowerment means to support and let them be an individual with their own identity. But in most of the scenario this support has been misunderstood as weakness, and that is the moment when couple starts drifting apart.

Every individual wants to live their life in their own way, be it man or woman, and there is nothing wrong in that. At the same time there are some duties, either due to Indian Society norms or moral standards or ethics. Also everyone should understand that thought process of every individual is different. What is right in one's opinion not necessarily is right in another's opinion. Let's take an example from both side. A man when bachelor loves to spend times with his friends or go on long rides. Once get married it is expected from him to stop all that spend time at home with wife on weekends. A woman when bachelorette loves to dress up according to his will, shorts, minis or whatever she wants. Once married she is expected to wear saris or decent cloths.

Now a days, most of us living as a nuclear family and in laws are not a part of that, they are just visiting guests. During their visit, change in lifestyle is expected from both husband and wife. Spending time with friends or partying in the worst case by husband is wrong, he has to stop that and that too without any fuss. Fine till then. But if a husband asks his wife to not to wear inappropriate clothes (e.g. Shorts as housewear) then it's a breach of independence. It's a matter of pride for them, how can anyone judge what I should wear and what not. These are very small things in daily course of life. No one is forcing to do anything against the will of wives (now a days no one can dare to do so). But that is just a expectation that you should respect other choices sometimes, not because you have to, but because that is a culture.

It is a matter of mutual understanding. Till the time if both husband and wife know and understand the meaning of "Women Empowerment", there is no harm in that. But the day wives start misusing their empowerment (husbands even want they can't do so) , the good becomes evil.

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Upender said: (Sun, Dec 22, 2013 05:48:39 PM)    
 
I just want to say if empowerment of one is done by disempowering other its not going to work in long run. Men are feeling helpless and depressed by seeing this non human sides of the laws and society towards them.

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Suresh Ram said: (Sun, Dec 22, 2013 04:02:10 PM)    
 
In India Divorce is not alarming as made out.

1. Lack of basic understanding about Marital relationship- it is not Commercial or Contract.

2. Many spouses tend to think Marital relationship is a contract and expect the other spouse to act according to their perceived role.

3. Expectations from the other spouse is skyrocketing.

4. Greediness drive either of the spouse to boss over the other.

5. Lack of compassion and acceptance of other spouse as they are.

6. Mislead by Media, feminists about roles and duties.

7. Right based instead of Duty based relationship model being propagated.

8. Government intervention by way of criminalizing Marital relationship induces divorce.

9. Insecurity of old age among the parents of spouses leads encouragement of Divorce.

10. ME ME syndrome among spouses.

11 Spouses do not believe being a Home maker ad lazying around is a Luxury.

12. Slaving at office for the benefit of MNC bosses is perceived to be preferable than doing Domestic work, cooking, cleaning at your choice:

Is Slaving better than Luxury!

I can list more reasons for Divorce !

13. Dissatisfaction in insatiable sex life.

If spouses grow up and think that they responsible for any breakup, Divorce will come down.

Family is the safest Place for men, women, Children, Elder and Society !

Living single or serial Multi-Partnership have seen 90 % ending up in loneliness and dissatisfaction.

Choice is Yours.

You could lose the Happiness of being a part of FAMILY !

Besides Material Benefits than single or serial Multi Partnership.

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Ritesh said: (Sun, Dec 22, 2013 03:39:48 PM)    
 
Well after reading most of the above it seems we still live in mentality wherein men are still believed to be rulers, dowry mongers and rapists. Well there may be cases but then there are also number of cases wherein women misuse laws to settle personal scores. Women empowerment means equality between men and women it never meant women can dominate and if men don't give into their unjust demands ready to be behind bars. So please don't go on putting every blame on men.

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Suman Das said: (Sun, Dec 22, 2013 02:50:54 PM)    
 
The question is: How is the empowerment done? Empowering Women does not mean dis-empowering men.

We have made laws that support the women and force us to believe, all a woman says is the Gospel Truth.

While for men, they are not even given a chance to stand for themselves. They are not even asked their side of the story. Is this what we call "Women Empowerment"? I STRONGLY OPPOSE SUCH EMPOWERMENT!

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Gursharn said: (Sun, Dec 22, 2013 02:19:29 PM)    
 
Women Empowerment can't be a reason if is goes in right direction.

But unfortunately in India on the name of women empowerment a lot of criminal activities going on and most of them supported by Indian Judiciary. Just for example today in one of the case one lady's lie was proved and what court asked her to do ? virtually nothing and for equal or very small reason husband and his family sent to jail.

Until the real equality is provided and real criminals (does not matter wife or husband) are punished equally there is no way to stop.

Still one question in mind why I should worry about rising divorce rate when I am saying in current scenario there is no scope for marriage.

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Whzzman said: (Fri, Dec 20, 2013 11:58:13 AM)    
 
If women keep on focusing on her career who will look after her children, who will guide them to the future. What will happen if her children grow up will they be as successful as their mother ?

A child needs mother assistance and guide, of course it also needs fathers.

But the point here is 'OF WHAT USE IF THE MOTHER DROPS HER CHILDREN WITH NANNY OR GRANDPARENTS OR DAY CARE AND PUSHES TO OFFICE FOR WORK, WHAT IS THE GUARANTEE THAT THEY WILL GROW UP PROPERLY, MONEY CANNOT MAKE LIFE GOOD WITHOUT THE KNOWLEDGE'.

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Ragya said: (Wed, Nov 13, 2013 03:00:06 PM)    
 
The main reason for divorce nowadays is over expectations from girls from in laws and husband. They are expected to be educated and then sacrifice their careers which they have made with equal efforts as men have and confine themselves to home only.

They are expected to lead their life according to the wishes of their mother in laws who expect them to forget what they were before marriage and become housewifes for their beloved sons who even don't know how to behave with the girls parents. Men and their families behave as if they have some favour on the girl by marrying her and this is true for even girls educated more than their husbands. Men need to understand that women are not born to serve them for life, they are human beings too with feelings and ambitions of their own.

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Ishita said: (Thu, Nov 7, 2013 02:36:07 PM)    
 
Women empowerment has only emboldened women to discontinue a relationship, she can't stand anymore. In earlier times, women when exploited, molested, used and fallen victim to domestic violence due to the misconduct of her husband or matters like dowry, she had no option but to bear all troubles. Empowerment and awareness has brought about an egalitarian situation wherein, the women have found a place for themselves in the society.

The society is multifaceted, but now women have emerged among equal to the men counterpart. Now they are more ambitious. Women's participation can be seen in the political spheres as well.

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Engr.M.Saadullah said: (Sun, Oct 13, 2013 10:59:46 AM)    
 
All is depend upon, in which environment the women groomed.

Grooming is majorly based on.

1- Mother's Nature (e.g. Mother language purely based on Grooming that can never change).

2- Education majorly Schooling.

2. 1 A women if empowered (on job) that's nature/ grooming is that to overcome the husband.

Then such an empowered (on job) women will use her empowerment negatively.

She will use empowerment against the husband to control husband.

2. 2 A women if empowered (on job) that's nature/ grooming is that not to overcome the husband.

Then such an empowered (on job) women will use her empowerment positively that is to empower the family.

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Abhinav said: (Mon, Sep 30, 2013 09:11:35 PM)    
 
According to me "Women Empowerment" is not the cause of divorce but it has certainly affected the divorce rate. Today women are financially independent. There are laws for them, they have rights. Today the society has also broaden up regarding divorce. These make women to take this decision easily which was once a difficult decision for them to take.

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Sanam Khan said: (Fri, Sep 20, 2013 02:45:29 PM)    
 
I think women empowerment just plays a initial role for the breakup only in couples who doesn't have understanding but it doesn't affect those who understand and love each other, even though there are lots of other reasons that leads to divorce, for example; desire to be independent, getting attracted to another person, infidelity, physical incompatibility, less attracted to the person in sexual way, conflict in tastes and desire, continuous nagging, comparing the the man or women constantly, imparting unsolicited advice all the time, addiction to alcohol.

The above reasons are all chief causes for a marriage breakup. Sometimes, one reason alone might be enough for separation, while in several cases, a combination of a few of them lead to divorce. In this list, getting attracted to another person and infidelity might appear similar, but there is one important difference between them. In the former, the man or the woman might become more interested in another person and might think of leading a life of marriage with that person as a better option to the current life. In this case, the decision for separation from the present spouse could be taken before a physical contact with the other person. On the other hand, infidelity is actual extra-marital relationship, which is a sure marriage breaker in several cases.

In certain marriages, when the man and woman become united without a physical relationship before the marriage, the physical incompatibility might become apparent when the marriage is consummated, leading to separation. Similarly, the impotency in man or the inability of the woman to bear a child either immediately after the marriage or after several years could result in a divorce. The reduction in physical desire after a few years had also been a cause for the breakup of the marriage. If the health of the man or the woman deteriorates sharply or if they contract incurable diseases like HIV, the marriage might fail. Even the neglect by a spouse of maintaining the physical fitness and becoming too fat or too weak could break a marriage.

Physical and mental abuse is another major reason for divorces. Sadistic tendencies in either spouse that lead to continuous physical or mental torture usually ends in parting of ways.

Finally, the financial independence achieved by women had brought in a change in their attitude. They feel that their individuality must be respected and should not be interfered with. Their economic dependence on men is much less or non-existent compared to olden days when women stayed at home. Further, the separate careers result in men and women working in different places, thus increasing not only the physical distance but also the mental distance. This invariably leads to separation. All these causes, either singly or in combination, end up in the couple breaking up. However, an understanding approach and a give-and-take policy would avoid divorces, if both men and women take a more tolerant attitude.

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Abhishek Chaudhary said: (Thu, Sep 5, 2013 06:37:07 PM)    
 
Hello,

According to me, there is no relation between women's empowerment and divorce cases as,

WOMAN EMPOWERMENT means providing women equal rights in the society as of men, providing woman to move hand to hand with man, it means that the women of the nation be given equal respect and equal rights when it comes to their financial development, Job Security etc.

Whereas,

DIVORCE take place due to the lack of mutual understanding between husband and wife. The man always has domineering nature and the main problem is with egoism, when a woman start earning equal or sometimes more than a husband and start taking some decisions by her own, it hurts man egoism an he feel jealous of it. And at the same time woman think after doing all the household works and contributing financially, why she should be humiliated on the contrary she must get respect for that. But when man unable to feel her feelings it results into the lacking of fruit fullness in their relations and they decide for DIVORCE, bloody divorce".

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Radhika said: (Wed, Sep 4, 2013 04:05:57 PM)    
 
What if a man listen to his mother and all decisions are made by his mother for a man than which girl will accept a person like that no women want a man to be dependent only on his mother than such man should not love or marry a girl should stay with his mother only man and his family want a girl should work, do house work, take care of his family and children but the man will listen only his mother I think this point should be made clear in women empowerment.

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Ritu Yadav said: (Tue, Sep 3, 2013 04:37:16 PM)    
 
I am 15 years old and I believe deep in my heart that raising voice against women is just too much over I mean do you really think that women are the cause of every tensions well then you are definitely wrong. Understanding between husband and wife matters and that is the only reason behind these divorce. I couples understand each other then it won't lead to breaking up of relationship.

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Praveen Kumar Prajapati said: (Mon, Aug 26, 2013 06:43:31 PM)    
 
Women empowerment is not the sufficient cause of divorce in India. But the women empowerment is help to get rights of womens in social life and tell yours problem to outwards in society.

Divorce is becoming from the misunderstanding of relationship each other.

Mutual trust is the base of all relationship. Relationship do break ups from the unfulfilled from partners. When the create not understanding of couples, then the one solution of getting divorce for living legal freedom.

Sometimes the joint family are creates this conditions. But in the modern age couple copy of the hi-tech media ex. TV serial and movie and create the partners deceive one another.

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Divya said: (Thu, Aug 22, 2013 05:47:38 AM)    
 
Well I believe it is not woman empowerment that increases divorce rate in India. It s Western Influence like Premarital sex or we can say having Boyfriends or Girlfriends and then marry with someone else. If the question is women empowerment then I want to ask why former Indian Prime minister Indira Gandhi had not gone through such kind of situation like divorce or take example of kiran bedi, Pratibha Patil and too many. The only thing is not empowerment but there is no purity in relations. Because now a days very often people don't have control on their senses, worse than Animals.

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Harshika said: (Fri, Aug 16, 2013 11:46:08 AM)    
 
Firstly, women empowerment is the cause of increasing divorce because it is recommended high that women needs to be protected in terms of misbehavior by someone. Secondly, this concept of women will make women much more alert and active than before but women do not misuse this concept for their own means. Thirdly, women feels safer but if not happy after marriage then the role of NGos will definitely help women in this condition.

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Shruthi said: (Wed, Aug 14, 2013 09:05:32 PM)    
 
Women Empowerment is not the reason for divorce. It's the fact that women have finally realised they are no less than their husbands and they deserve equal rights and equal respect. Divorce happens because the husband's cannot accept this fact. They have been raised with the idea that their wife is their subordinate and when a women asks for equal respect, they are lost. Women have started questioning their unequal place in the marriage and have realised they don't have to live like slaves. They have also realised that it takes two to make a marriage work.

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Aashima said: (Wed, Jul 10, 2013 01:17:09 PM)    
 
According to me understanding between a man and a woman matters. If a man understands that a woman can handle both house and her work than there will be no divorce instead a woman will learn to be more caring towards her family. A woman should be encouraged to do her duties in every field.

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Divya said: (Fri, Jun 28, 2013 05:23:58 PM)    
 
According to me woman empowerment does not lead to increase in divorce rates. Nowadays women empowerment is very essential.

Firstly due to inflation in today world both husband and wife are working and it gives financial stability to family. If woman is educated and working she have more exposure to outside world and by this she can teach their children very good. We have many examples in today world where woman is working shoulder to shoulder with man. And if we are talking about divorce cases than in previous times also there are divorce and divorce is basically due to lack of understanding and trust and not because of woman empowerment. And as women naturally have multitasking skills today most of woman are working and they are striking a perfect balance between between personal and professional life.

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Sruthi said: (Sun, Jun 23, 2013 10:39:53 PM)    
 
Women empowerment does not mean giving the whole rights to women it means women too have the capability to raise their voice to say that they dislike, like anything. But now a days most of the persons think that empowerment means leading their own life but it is not true.

Two persons should be like friends then only relation get stronger because friendship is the only relation of equality where one is equal to the other. Nowadays children are becoming insensitive not due to the empowerment of women but only when both the parents especially mother get busy in her official work and get no time to take care of their children.

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Esha said: (Sun, May 19, 2013 03:42:16 PM)    
 
Every divorce case is different. We can't generalize with the name of 'women empowerment'. It is in any case very painful for both men/women. As now men/women know there is a way to get separated easily and start another life, and we are going towards more educated and acceptable society, may be divorce rate are increasing.

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Avinash said: (Fri, Apr 26, 2013 01:59:28 PM)    
 
It depends on person to person. Some people can adjust to working woman, while others cannot. Sometimes men expect women to take care of ill parents and children and other households. Some woman can handle both while some are egoistic and career oriented. If woman fails to perform her duty, it leads to divorce in some cases. But many working women are very nice and caring.

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Rafiq Ansari said: (Tue, Apr 2, 2013 05:33:50 PM)    
 
As my point of view some time it is depend on woman and some time it is depend on man and some time both are equally responsible for increasing divorce rate because they don't understand each other. It is depend on thinking of man and woman how they are think about each other. If they are good thinking about each other then there is no divorce between man and woman. At that time woman are free to do any kind of work and they are well educated and they also manage her family. Both man and woman are human. Both are give same permit to do such type of work. Both are give respect to each other. Then India will grow up.

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Vidit Handa said: (Mon, Apr 1, 2013 12:31:58 PM)    
 
Well. There are so many things that can be said about Women empowerment. Obviously it is a good thing and a good sign for the nation in totality but all my dear friends speaking their minds up there. You should evaluate both the sides of the coin before arriving to any conclusion because we cannot afford to be irrational on this particular subject. Lets evaluate.

Women Empowerment means.

1. Women getting to know about their rights and raising their voice to a firm NO " IF" they are genuinely being mistreated.

2. Women Empowerment means that Women have the equal right to education, jobs, Independence on the pretext of bringing equality to this Nation " INDIA".

3. Women Empowerment means that the women of the nation be given equal respect and equal rights when it comes to their financial development, Job Security etc.

4. Women empowerment means that the women walks hand to hand and at par with the man and need not fear anything from criminal minded men who have the bloody audacity to treat them the way they want.

5. Women empowerment means raising a voice against the injustice at the hands of the inhumane man who genuinely subjects her to mental and physical torture / trauma.

BUT BUT BUT. Is this really where we are actually heading to. Think again fellas.

Women Empowerment does not mean :.

1. Women taking undue advantage of the LAW which have been Framed to protect them. This major out break where the women have started to misuse the LAWS has put this INDIAN nation on a tremendous back foot to which many International Organizations like WHO etc have - for all matter - given their acknowledgment.

2. Women Empowerment does not mean that they can treat the genuinely innocent MAN the way they want. It definitely does not mean hostility towards the other sex.

3. It definitely does not mean trying to chop of the hand which has been supportive of them whereas the latter means walking hand in hand with the male counterpart.

4. It really does not mean threatening and extorting money from an innocent family who have only tried to make the daughter in law feel at home.

5. Just because the damn LAW favors them a woman should not be entitled to take guise under it and harass innocent families or for that matter. MALES.

I can just go on and on and on.

The truth is in fact otherwise. The benefits of Women Empowerment are far less as compared to the latter's misuse. Its not the Women Empowerment which is leading to Divorces. But the misuse of the same. Why do females do it. I fail to understand. The Women Empowerment have for all matter. Made the Woman more self Dependent and INTOLERANT. The moment a marriage gets sour on the pretext of in comparability and various other reasons (Not Covered under the LAW). No attempts are made to improve the situation. BUT BULLETS ARE FIRED from the well known battle ship called " 498A".

AM not a Feminist or an Anti Feminist. Neither do I favor the girl nor the boy. I favor Justice and strict penalties should be imposed towards the defaulter be it the girl or the boy. If a boy it genuinely at fault. Penalize him. If the girl is at fault, Penalize her.

Folks, the rise in no of Matrimonial disputes is certainly disrupting the balance of the nation. Do your bit to reduce it. My dear future would be Daughter in LAWS. Don't tolerate injustice. Raise your voice if genuinely you are being harassed for Dowry and are being mistreated on the account of it. Be more tolerant and be more adjusting because the culture of your matrimonial home shall be different from your maternal home. Boys. Make the new member of the family feel at home. Be Welcoming. LOVE HER. And yes. If you think you don't have to make any adjustments. Think again. Its your responsibility to take care of her. Don't make a mountain out of a mole hill. Sort things amicably both of you. Respect thy Elders. And girls. Your new Home is the place where you intend to spend the rest of your life. Maintain the equilibrium and for god's sake. Please please please. Never take guise under the dreaded LAWS, cause once you do it. You can't return to mend your marriage.

YOU ARE THE FUTURE OF THE COUNTRY. India is already plagued and paralyzed with terrorism, Corruption, Inflation, Hostile neighboring countries, Malnutrition etc. Please do not let 498A be an out break of another epidemic which will only make the commoner and the innocent men in a compelling position to pick up arms. Its already started. Lets be reasonable.

PEACE.

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Sayani said: (Fri, Mar 29, 2013 12:52:25 PM)    
 
I don't agree that divorce rates are increasing due to women empowerment. Women empowerment is basically making a woman aware of her rights. It gives her equal rights equivalent to her male counterpart. It makes woman at par with men. It educates a woman and makes her realize her importance in the society. It raises a women's self confidence and makes her believe in herself that she is no less than men.

Its got nothing to do with the increased number of divorces. A divorce is caused due to lack of understanding, love and trust between the partners. If there is substantial amount of trust between a couple then there will never be any misunderstanding.

Women might have become modern but they still long for a happy marriage and children. Hence they will never let go a marriage futile just like that.

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Prasanjeet said: (Wed, Mar 27, 2013 12:17:58 AM)    
 
In words of Swami Vivekananda "The can be no development of the society unless the condition of women is improved. It is not possible for a bird to fly with one wing". Thus it is imperative to educate women about there social and legal rights. Women empowerment has lead to overall increase in the education and development of women across various section of the society. However, it would be extremely wrong to say that women empowerment has any negative impact of the institution of marriage. Though, overall the percentage of working women has increase substantially, I do not feel it has caused women to be more egoistic or stubborn. Women have the same right as men to be self-reliant and independent.

According to me, the main cause for such the increasing rate of divorces is the weakening value systems of our society. The family units size is getting smaller in number. There are no elders to guide or console the couples in case they hit a rough patch in there relationship. Further, individuals both men and women alike are loosing patience and tolerance. With the increase exposure to western culture the idea of getting divorced is getting too generalized. So there is a need to increase our efforts to maintain understanding between partners as in any other relation such as siblings or parents and children. We in no way can question the positive impact of women empowerment on society and blame it for the increasing rates of divorces.

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Kanadante Mayavadenu said: (Thu, Mar 14, 2013 01:43:19 AM)    
 
I think women empowerment may not be the only cause but surely is one of the reasons. No one in the society want to think that women empowerment means women should be given their rights and respect. Women empowerment always meant that women should get education, job and salary which brings her respect.

If in a family, if the husband leaves his ego when it comes to wife, respects her and consults her for all the problems and decisions he face and the wife does the same thing towards her husband, then in that family women empowerment doesn't have any meaning. Because both are giving respect to each other and that's what basically women empowerment means.

I do feel that the job which the women gets will sow a seed of ego in her heart. The job also makes her feel independent and in some women this independence may lead them to a wrong notion that she can live without her husband. This may lead to divorce.

That couple who understands each other, solve any problems among themselves will lead them to a successful life and it doesn't depend on whether that men or women has a job or not.

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Ashish Gupta said: (Wed, Mar 13, 2013 03:56:44 PM)    
 
This topic should be seen by the positive aspect. It is not just that the women's are now more aware of their rights, this is the sole reason for increment in divorce rates. Earlier women's used to bear a lot of thing morally, socially, Physically, without saying a word. But now the scenario has changed, by many campaigns, social media, social awareness now the women's are more awarded, started raising their voices- which should be. So if it is resulting in increasing of divorce cases it should not the matter of concern. There is a need for a behavioral change towards women from the man's side. There is a need to understand the feelings and emotions of Women, they should not be treated as a machine, rather they are the HOME MAKERS. Women's makes the future of children by inculcating the true values and ethics in them. For children their Parents are their first Mentor.

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Ananya said: (Tue, Mar 12, 2013 08:55:42 PM)    
 
Women empowerment is definitely not the root cause behind the increasing rate of divorces in the country. What women empowerment does is, it just aware women about their rights and what they are worth. It provides them with equal rights which men use to enjoy alone. And speaking of increasing divorce rate, its all about the mutual understanding between a couple. If a person doesn't respect the views of his/her partner then its quite obvious that there will be problems in their relation. Only women are not responsible for it men are equally countable.

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Rahul Bagdane ,Nasik said: (Tue, Mar 12, 2013 01:34:22 AM)    
 
Women empowerment is not responsible for increase in divorce. In old India gals/women's avoiding divorce because no family support and no economical support. Nowadays things are changing in India, most of girls (mostly in city areas) have strong family support. They don't feel alone. They are self-dependent. In most family violence cases so many of our sisters are injured. Why they don't have right to make their point.

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Shruti said: (Fri, Mar 8, 2013 03:48:25 PM)    
 
Well I think divorce rates are increasing after women empowerment came because women have started understanding there rights and now they have understood there values and started saying NO to all the sufferings men given them in the name of marriage.

Before women empowerment women were been considered as the weaker sex have no human value, and been equally treated as pets and married women were the fair example.

Even though women were educated, going to work, take good care of children single handed, cleaning the house, making three to 5 course meals everyday without fail (no sick leaves) and without getting any attention from her spouse. The more women serve there partner the more they were considered as animals, with no respect at all.

Therefore when this women empowerment came into picture women started getting the voice. Who were actually need to be respected for doing such kind of sacrifices for the entire family shall not be treated like that.

All the hypocrites men above why don't they feel happy about the empowerment because there daughter, sisters are also going to get the benefit.

Because here comes the law of nature made by the MCPs women are weak so how can they tolerate by seeing them getting equal.

This law is made to give equal share to the women that men were enjoying alone before.

So grow up guys. Time is changing.

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Rehana said: (Thu, Mar 7, 2013 12:21:40 PM)    
 
I don't understand whats do to with divorce and women empowerment. Divorce is a mutual this agreement with the marriage whether it may be anyone's fault. And women empowerment is totally different. Its making sound in everything a woman does, to be recognized whether as a personal or as a wife or as a mother. Why do divorced rate to be blamed only on women? This is another way of men dominating society to throw another blame on women.

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Karthik said: (Sun, Feb 17, 2013 12:02:22 PM)    
 
Women empowerment is needed. All across the world more women than men are enrolling to Colleges and get more degrees than men.

What is SAD here is that all women expect better than them in marrying partners.

All women want in marrying a partner, who is more education than them, earns more salary than them.

They want to be independent and have luxury at the same time, Which not possible.

And no Love.

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Ganesh Kumar said: (Sat, Jan 26, 2013 11:45:05 PM)    
 
Women must be given education, allowed to work but only as supportive to the family but not to satisfy their egoistic aspirations. I think there is a limit to women empowerment after which it becomes detrimental to the very fabric of society i.e.family unit. A good old traditional family is needed but with enough respect for women, their needs and well being. Our society is undergoing the same societal transformation which the western societies have undergone because of modernization. And those brainy westerners are now scratching their heads for a solution for breakdown of family unit in their nations. Individual is important but much more important is society and the healthy perpetuation of our species. Let us become modern in our own Indian way. Let us be original at least in this and blindly ape the westerners.

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Soumya said: (Mon, Dec 31, 2012 07:53:38 PM)    
 
Hello.

According to me "women empowerment" is not cause of increasing divorces now days but women education is develop our society and our county. Women manage their families as well as their works. Women's are not only responsible for divorces, men's are also equally responsible for increasing divorces in our society. Divorces only happens when two of doesn't understand each other and they doesn't give respect each other.

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Mukky said: (Sat, Dec 29, 2012 07:49:19 PM)    
 
Indian society is male dominant and feudalistic, where women are not only looked down upon, but also widely discriminated against. Women are denied basic social and domestic rights due to gender bias. Many women are illiterate, underprivileged, exploited sexually and otherwise treated in an unfair manner due to an orthodox mindset. There were 927 females to every 1000 males in India as per the 1992 census. The ratio was 972 to 1000 in 1901.

This suggests that gender bias and female infanticide has only been growing in the society. While the preference for a son over a daughter is well known, killing of female fetus in the womb is an extremely horrifying practice that still continues. In India there is a rape every 54 minutes, a molestation every 26 minutes, an act of cruelty every 33 minutes, and a dowry death every hour. Every year 75000 women die due to unsafe abortions.

Empowerment of women in the real sense is the need of the hour. It is the high time that women are allowed into the political mainstream. If the women are given their due status in personal, family and social spheres, it would be a positive step benefiting all sections of society. In order to empower women, they should have reservation of seats in educational institutions, employment and services. The empowerment of women and real social development are inter-related. No country can progress so long as the women of the nation remain illiterate.

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Priya said: (Fri, Nov 30, 2012 05:12:42 PM)    
 
I think divorce rate is increasing because women are increasingly becoming less dependent on men not only for money, but also for emotional needs. Earlier men used to make all household decisions for women. Women only used to manage those decisions/ actions. Since dependence on men is decreasing, women no longer feel the need for men. They have learned to make their own decisions and manage them now.

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Md Hasim said: (Wed, Nov 28, 2012 01:44:37 AM)    
 
I believe that women empowerment has been tremendously instrumental in bringing awareness of rights and opportunities to women. As the sense of high self-esteem has grown stronger, the today's women are not ready to suffer and compromise with the marriage that is based on male's superior role. Due to the increasing presence of the women on civil, political, professional and social platforms, they can no more stick to their traditional role as a homemaker or give more time to it. The result is dissatisfaction of both the spouses. The husbands emphasize on her duties whereas the wives wants to reach out. The wife who is educationally sound and financially well off, does not see the requirement of clinging on to the troubled marriage. The husband cannot see more beyond his male ego or equally participate in household responsibilities. And so, I guess people turn to divorce as easy option to put an end to their continuous worries.

While the goal of women empowerment aims at equality of status and opportunities to women, the patriarchal social set is lagging far behind to understand the objective behind it. Hope to have this gap reduced in near future.

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Sree said: (Mon, Nov 26, 2012 10:24:38 PM)    
 
Indian divorce rate is less. Proud to India places first having less divorce rate. But if you see these days Indian divorce rate has increasing. If you compare the past with now. According to me this is not because of women empowerment. It is because of not adjusting with other, not understanding each other. Women empowerment will help the family growth, even she has a right to do the things as what men is doing.

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Pankaj Chandra Joshi said: (Fri, Nov 16, 2012 02:49:51 PM)    
 
I think women empowerment leads to betterment of society in all aspect such as :

1. Children got good initial primary education from their mom.
2. She can take decision of family interest too.
3. Crime against women decreases.
4. Dowry system reduced.
5. Involvement of women increase in politics.

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Hatefb said: (Mon, Oct 15, 2012 01:48:23 PM)    
 
This is what it comes down to :.

As women empowerment increase, women expectations from a marriage will increase as well. As expectations increase, it will be harder for men to fulfill their needs and please them. Women will be more and more the chooser in a relationship. Also, because women will have the upper hand as they get more empowered, they will also have more control over whether they want to divorce or not. And most likely they will want to divorce more as men will have a harder time fulfilling their expectations.

More divorce leads to more expenses from the men's side as there is still a double standard especially in Asian culture. Even though women want all the empowerment, men are still expected to pay for the house, car, wedding, etc. Women usually come into the marriage with nothing.

As expenses from the men increase over divorces, men will shun this marriage institution and will seek their mate based on a dollar worth value. This leads to prostitution. Men will seek short term relationship that minimizes potential financial damage in the long run.

As prostitution thrives, women from poorer less empowered countries will supply the demand.

The question becomes, which is faster? Empowerment or Prostitution?

In the long run, assuming ALL women become empowered, men must advance technology to make women robots that is a perfect replica of a human female. Then we will no longer need female. We will stop procreating, men will just have sex with robots. Likewise women will have sex with robots.

Procreation stops, we all perish.

So, conclusion, don't empower women.

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Dushyant Tanwar said: (Wed, Sep 26, 2012 01:00:42 PM)    
 
I totally condemn it of women empowermen leading to divorce. Well its not the fact of women empowerment leading to divorce.Its the man egoism that cannot see the women getting equal rights and respect in the society. Men always have a domineering nature and when they see that women stepping out of the door and earning equivalent or more than him then there come the things like jealousy and egoism and eventually shatter their relationship.. And women also feel that after doing all the domestic work and also contributing her earning to the family why she should be humiliated on the contrary she must be respected..and at last due to all egoism, suspiciousness and not proper harmony between the two there lies just one fact and that is DIVORCE....

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Ragamayee said: (Sat, Sep 15, 2012 11:04:21 AM)    
 
Women have always been for the family, whether educated or illiterate, she always strives hard for the betterment of her family, either before or after marriage.

Empowerment would only add more to her contribution.

It is infact the perception that makes all the difference. Though men talk about the liberation of women, women being educated and earning, the male ego never allows them to accept women being superior. They want the woman to work and earn for the family, but when it comes to domestic chores, they term it as woman's job. There is no help from man.

The modern woman has to perform many more roles at home and at work place. She will be happy to give her everything for the family, all that she wants back is only a word of support.

I feel that women empowerment can never be a cause of divorce. It is the communication and mutual respect that strengthens any relation. Man and woman can live in harmony and work for better society.

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Abhishek said: (Sat, Sep 1, 2012 06:16:13 PM)    
 
Hello friends in my perception Women Empowerment - A Cause for.

Increasing Divorce Rate in India is totally wrong and false saying. Women are the most important part of this society and for divorce always women are not respobsible. If a woman is educated than he understand the feelings of her family and her husband she can easily understand all the things compared to one who is illitrate. Whenever we see quarrel in the family of anyone there is the little thing which can't understand by the one who illiterate an educated or understanding woman also give something to her family for learn. And she is not the reason for divorce so empowerment of woman is necessary. Divorce is also there between uneducated woman. The reason for divorce is not the education because some things which ano educated woman can understand only.

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Kanav` said: (Tue, Aug 28, 2012 11:30:59 PM)    
 
Most men have always liked to be the ruling force in the house and the office. Women empowerment gives women something to think about themselves and launch themselves into different fields ranging from politics, sports, entrepreneur.

Men have a problem because they can not stand women at an equal footing. I think women should be encouraged to take up as much responsibility towards the society as some of the arrogant men, and indeed more.

Regarding divorce, would the situation be any different if the roles were reversed, men were subdued and women were in power through the ages? I think not.

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Jawad Khan said: (Mon, Aug 13, 2012 10:40:04 PM)    
 
I would say that there is no patience in this generation to tolerate there own spouse. Each & every couple fight / argue. Don't own siblings fight / argue. Every time do we separate from our siblings no right. Still there is a relation & in sad /happy times we meet greet each other. Because there is no such thing called as divorce among siblings. So it is just that we are angry with each other & don't want to talk to each other for sometime. This time is not defined. It can be days/ month / years. As the time passes by and when we cross each others road we talk to each other. Till now I am speaking about siblings.

Now coming to relation between partners. When there is a fight / argument. The couples don't have patience to tolerate each other. Now lets find the reason why they don't have patience to tolerate, Because both of them are earning and financially independent. Since financial security is very important. And now that they are financially secured / independent. Spouses take a decision, lets get divorced. And they get divorced. Not this is documented in the government and they are legally divorced. In future when they cross each others road, they cannot talk to each other and be one again. Second point. 50 years back. Women were not working they were financially dependent and there were family values hence there were less number of divorces. Now because of these mobile phone. Even if the couple have a small argument in late night. Women communicates with her family members immediately on mobile phone & she has her family to take her back to her within minutes. If these phones were not there. I am sure, there would be at-least little time for the couple to calm down, think and take a decision. Once the women steps out of the house. Man feels that he is not been respected and become more angry and it results in divorce. Instead of the situation coming in control, it goes out of control. Hence divorce rate is increasing.

I would say these are the negative point of a working women and the mobile phones. But again, we require working women for the family to be financially stable and give good education to children.

Then what is the problem? I think problem is our patience / tolerance level. We need to learn to tolerate. Not take decisions immediately. That doesn't mean that you try for 5 to 6 years and give up & get divorced. You should try and try again to maintain / retain / save your marriage at-least for children sake.

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Vishank Singhania said: (Sun, Aug 12, 2012 02:08:33 PM)    
 
Well I would say that women should not empowered as it:

1. Destroys the family.
2. Children do not get better future.
3. Competition in nature.
4. Culture of India get destroyed.

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Subroto said: (Fri, Aug 10, 2012 02:28:08 PM)    
 
Now a days Divorce is nothing but result of unsuccessful relationship of husbands and wives which is occur due to lack of trust. Faith, respect and mutual understanding between them. Sometime when expectation are not fulfilled and one is not ready to sacrifice it turns into unwanted situation like divorce. Women empowerment make women more independent and financial sound. Divorce is not a result of women empowerment, but lack of mutual understanding between the couple. Women play such a important role which men can not compete. Being mother the role she play not even god.

IF WOMEN BECOME MORE HEALTHY AND WEALTHY THE SOCIETY BECOME MORE HEALTHY AND WEALTHY.

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Riya said: (Sun, Jul 29, 2012 04:15:59 PM)    
 
I strongly oppose this kind of matter how one can blame to women, men are equally responsible for this. Men always like to be the masters and if his wife is getting more importance than him then he gets frustrated and jealous. Today in this world of socialization women are active in their respective fields and they are not dependent on anybody else for their livelihood.

A Woman plays many roles in her life, she is a caring mother, wife, daughter etc. Still men expect a lot from them. At the end everything depends on understanding each other, caring for each other, giving time and respecting each others. Women empowerment is necessary and will continue. That's all I want to say.

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Mohan Shyam Kaushik said: (Mon, Jun 11, 2012 11:16:14 AM)    
 
Thanks to everybody now I would like to express my views on this topic. Women empowerment is not bad thing. You know very well Mrs. Sonia Gandhi. She is a woman. She leads the country. And Mrs. Pritibha devi singh patil. She is the current president of our country. How can you say women are behind men. You are adding the divorce matter. Its depend on mentality of both man and woman. There should be a combination. There is come problem of ego. They don't want listen each other. There is misunderstanding between them. They have bad manner. They don't belong to good family. Women empowerment is good thing but should be limitation. This is the democracy country women are also having her right. Now it become a modern India everything is possible in now a days. If we get a married we should know she is coming in our home. She has her right. We can't torture her. If we do this we are fool. We will have to maintain all these after getting marriage.
Thanks.

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Amit said: (Tue, Jun 5, 2012 08:02:15 PM)    
 
Men are born stronger they do all the hard work outside, earn money no one realizes how a man earns the money for his family, protects the family. With empowerment of women work n they expect their husbands to work at home also if not spend money and make sure wife doesn't have the pain to do basic work at home. I appreciate both helping each other at home but not only husband doing all work even at home. If husband's parents come to visit their son and daughter in law problem starts if husband's parents don't go away then sue them with "false Dowry cases" or other "women biased laws" of India. And worse mother in law of husband they create more problems and make their own laws in the name of Empowerment.

Bottom line is Evolution made men stronger to do all outside work protect his family if a man does all such work whose work is to take care of family? Is it Man's fault that he is stronger than women?

I do agree women must be given freedom but women also must understand that a men must be respected also. Clashes will happen more with empowerment of women in the future as govt is trying to change the evolution.

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Priyamvadha said: (Tue, Jun 5, 2012 05:14:06 PM)    
 
To say that women empowerment is a cause for divorce itself is utter nonsense. Even in this juncture women are being blamed for the increased rates in divorce! so Lame!

Couples generally go for divorce when they had enough of each other's complexes and tantrums and to blame it on the female population is simply wrong. I believe that people should be free to live his/her life without being judged by others. Women has low self esteem compared to men. Women empowerment will boost it and they could be more useful to society once they see their hidden potentials.

In our society, marriage is seriously "overrated" and divorce is condemned. And when a girl take such a step as ending a marriage it's like world war III. Such an attitude should be avoided by the coming generations at-least.

Women empowerment is not about getting away from husbands by divorces or getting a job or feminism, it's about standing for oneself; fighting for what you believe in and having the strength to follow your dreams. That's women empowerment for me and I hope some day everyone would see it that way.

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Master Inventor said: (Fri, May 25, 2012 04:30:42 PM)    
 
There is a guide for everything. There are best practices in every field. One should know that and one should read it to live happy life and to work successfully in the organization. Without knowing the right principles, rules, guidelines one can not lead the life in correct way.

To live the life happily one should follow the rules posed by Hindhu Dharma- What is written in Vedas, Itihasa, Puranas.

To achieve great success in career one should follow the rules of Organization- what is written in your business conduct guidelines, policies.

As per our Hindhu Dharma, A man should work hard and earn money, A woman should be a good home maker, Look after kids, Elders, Parents thus should be role model in society. But the whole Scenario is changed just because of some few bad males done bad to some good females. The rules have been ignored and the rules have been violated and kept aside. I agree, Woman were suppressed by Men but not all in the case. Just for the sake of such few Men why the Whole Dharma/Rules have been ignored ? and transformed ? If you have a diseased hand then cut the hand don't die yourself by putting whole body in fire. This is what happened and happening now. Some people started freedom fight stating "woman needs freedom" but the actual statement should be. Not all woman needs freedom. The only affected woman needs freedom. That is the reality.

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Rasika said: (Thu, May 24, 2012 03:36:08 PM)    
 
We can not say women empowerment is a cause behind increasing rates of divorce. Increasing rate of divorce is nothing but the result of lack of mutual understanding between husband and wife, lack of positive support to woman's progress and achievements in her field of career etc. Empowerment of women provides an overall development of a woman in the field of education, self-grooming, choice of career, caring her children and family etc. Empowerment in all these fields is actually making a woman become more capable of doing each and everything that one man could do. Only the problem is that many of the times, men's possessiveness, their dark shaded thoughts with full of jealous are making women to feel that "no, I'm the one who is responsible for everything!".

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Mashutha said: (Wed, May 23, 2012 03:06:21 PM)    
 
Women Empowerment is not the reason for divorce. Its due to lack of love, misunderstanding, not spending enough time with the family, lack of maturity, not recognizing the responsibility and their ignorance in understanding that for family -LOVE is spelled as TIME. Enough time they spend for family, it grows. Where you invest time, it grows. If love cannot, nothing else can change the world.

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Shreya Pradip said: (Thu, May 10, 2012 11:59:11 AM)    
 
In my opinion this is not at all true that due to the empowerment of women the divorce rate in India has increased. Women are needed to be empowered to make themselves psychologically and mentally strong. Earlier when the women were not empowered they were subjected to abusive languages and domestic violence by their husbands and because of the condition of our society a woman was not even able to stand for herself. For example 4 days ago a reality show named Satyamev Jayete an Amir Khan show gave us a look of a MALE DOMINATED society. In such a condition the woman is not even able to present her point of views to her in-laws or her husband and is not even able to save her child who has not even taken a step in this world. But in the same show a well-educated woman who had the same problem is able to solve this problem by leaving her husband and going to her parent's house. It was very important to empower woman because if it was no done then the male would use her for removing all his frustration on her. If the empowerment of women has led to an increase in divorce rate then it has also led to a decrease in domestic violence.

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Ritika said: (Fri, May 4, 2012 01:38:25 PM)    
 
@Rameshraju said: (Fri, Nov 19, 2010 01:24:17 AM) : Your sentence 'women should depend on men for money' doesn't make sense. I read your two comments in this page. And your views are disgusting. Does a girl marries a guy just for money? So, did you born just because of money?

Marriage is a relationship where you can share happiness, sorrows and everything with each other. Where you live together, help together and grow together with incredible love. It's like two best friends living with eachother.

It's not about the gender or it's not about the women empowerment. It's about some sadistic husbands or sadistic wives causing divorce. And because of some people who are not able to bare the development of women, our country is still not becoming a developed country.

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Aarti said: (Fri, May 4, 2012 12:37:49 PM)    
 
I think women empowerment isn't the only factor which has increased the divorce rates. Other factor is the issue of equality.

Nowadays women are at an equal level with men in the professional arena. Hence in a marriage,

A woman demands equal status as that of her husband. Its her right. Marriage is an institution in which neither the husband nor the wife is at a higher position or a lower position. They are at an equal position. But since primitive stage, men have dominated women. This is mainly due to the inequality quotient. Earlier women didn't have much power but now education and empowerment have completely reversed the situation. Women have become more independent and esteemed and what's wrong in that? Also it takes two to tango, so men are also equally responsible for the increasing divorce rates. I agree with Amrita, women empowerment has a role to play in divorce, but in an optimistic way. Women now no longer fall prey to domestic violence.

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Amrita Oxymoron said: (Thu, Mar 1, 2012 09:51:45 PM)    
 
My point focus more on askin why one must consider divorce to be a bad thing? Divorce can also be treated as a method of avoiding domestic violence and further complications, hence leaving both man and wife in peace. Example a couple who suffers from each others' abuses and tantrums everyday is better off without each other by taking divorce. Moreover, no man or wife would ever think of divorce unless he/she reaches the threshold point which kicks in after utmost endurance and patience!.

Women empowerment has a role to play in divorce, but in an optimistic way. It gives women to take the stance of divorce and fills in them the confidence to face life. It frees them from the very thought of enduring domestic violence from a man just because they don't have means of living !

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Harimohansoni said: (Fri, Feb 17, 2012 08:56:58 PM)    
 
Hi, Women Empowerment in India, increasing divorce rate because the society where we live, priority is given for Men's. Women have to go through certain rules made by men and if she crosses the limit like-
1. Going for doing job
2. Solving social problems
3. Participating in Sports.
We can't saw her success, if she is earning more money than men then it is going to be a big matter for our concern and it is going to have home violence and all.

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Jiten said: (Thu, Feb 16, 2012 01:55:40 AM)    
 
At the start of civilization men are rulers women are followers. But things are not as before. Due to awareness and education women have changed their domain. Maore number of them are coming into the limelight. So there is a transitional shift of their status which is not accepted by the Men domain. Every transition is followed by conflicts. India got its independence through conflict, Midle east countries are coming out of the autocracy by some conflict. Men are jealous about women as long as the transitional period exists. The transition comprises of change of mindset of men toward women and increasing number of women coming to the forefront. With rime it will pass away and a day will definitely come when the transition period will comlete and men will see women as their peers not their followers.

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Neha said: (Wed, Feb 15, 2012 02:23:40 PM)    
 
Women Empowerment is the one of opportunities given to women to show talents beyond the limits of just home making. Government made reservation rule in every public sectors some 50-60 years ago after independence and further it was adapted by certain private sector infrastructures. The whole Idea behind this was to make women equivalent and cooperative in every sector from business to politics so that India should be better place to live. Earlier men were dominating and they didn't use to allow women to go out and work. And in those days it was required that much also bcause noone really knows that women can do other things better than just making home.

In the present era, woman knows her power and in every field she is equivalent to man. Sometimes she becomes too dominative to understand her partners problem. On the other hand man also becomes egoist to understand the position of his spouse. With this there are some people in Indian society who are educated but they still don't allow their spouses to work. In this scenario, if woman is passionate about her work and if she wants to work after marriage, it will give rise to quarrelsome situation which ultimately can lead to divorce rates.

So I want to draw attention to the point that it has nothing to do with women empowerment, it is the mentality of the people and how are they going to handle the situation.

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Indu said: (Fri, Feb 10, 2012 05:28:56 PM)    
 
Any women was naive earlier and has learnt the power of Women Empowernment will have a story to tell. If not for her empowernment, she would have perished.

One must be loving, understanding, adjustable, make sacrifices when required, but one must be assertive and not loose the sense of self. If she looses, then people will be ready to stamp on her and this vulnerability and victimhood is not good for her self or her truly loved ones.

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Deepu Dalal said: (Thu, Jan 19, 2012 11:22:13 AM)    
 
I think women empowerment is not wrong thing. Our country is a democracy country each and everyone have equally rights whatever he or she. Today women participates in every field i.e. sports, social work, politics, defence, finance etc. They show there capability, skill to develop the country. Some women take the advantages of there right & misuse the empowerment. Divorce comes by the misunderstanding bewteen men and women. Some people think that women are only for housewife this is the wrong thong.

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Nikita said: (Wed, Jan 11, 2012 09:15:58 PM)    
 
Women empowerment leads to divorces in least cases. Mostly women make a family happy. Without them a family can not run systematically. She is the one who understands everyone's needs and does her best to fulfill them. In most cases men are the ones who are responsible for divorces. They tend to misunderstand every aspect of a awoman's behaviour and take it in a different way.

It rarely happens that a woman turns out to be a whamp and wants to destroy the family.

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Sony said: (Sun, Jan 8, 2012 06:37:25 PM)    
 
Hi friends.

In my view women empowerment is an essential one. We can see that a woman with no education is treated as servant now a days. If woman is educated she works and stands like a wall for her family. No men is now getting married to a uneducated girl without expecting dowry. Ofcourse, educated woman is also asked for dowry but if anything happens wrong in her family after marriage she can lead her life with her own knowledge whereas in case of uneducated she have to again depend on her parents. As long as men are good understanding no cause will work towards divorce.

So, I think its not an individual is problem but its a couple will be the reason for divorce.

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Suganya said: (Wed, Jan 4, 2012 09:28:33 AM)    
 
My thought is Every woman is a backbone of a family. When you educate a woman you educate a hole family. Woman is like a antipersonnel. She act a lot of roles like daughter for her parent, wife for husband, mother for children. So when you empower a woman you empower a family. I am not agreed with empowerment increasing divorce because its happens misunderstanding of each-other. So woman empowerment creates a healthy family as well as a healthy society.

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Praetorian said: (Mon, Dec 26, 2011 09:57:24 PM)    
 
This post is directed at "Nikita". She talks about our "ego" but as you can clearly ascertain from reading her post, she is anything but humble. It's rather ignorant for her to assume that "it's only a woman that can make a family happy and keep it happy. " If nature agreed with her, we would have no part in the family aspect. Furthermore, history proves how incorrect she is. If you look at the strength of the families in ancient pre-imperial Rome both the father and mother worked together as a team, knew their roles and did them well. This dedication to eachother carries over to their children and thusly a tradition is born.

That is why most Italian families to this day have strong family bonds. Marriage & family just cannot work anymore. Women have attained power through their movement however they, collectively, cannot use that power responsibly. The problem is not that they have power but rather how they wield it. They use it vengefully, maliciously, with the intent to berate their husbands & men in general. Im supremely confident in the fact that this will certainly backfire on women & they will not be able to blame us this time for their failure. We must be patient, their ego will be shattered soon enough and when that happens I am sure we can begin the rebirth of the family aspect once again because it takes 2, a man & woman working together as a cohesive unit. Unfortunately, women believe that we only desired them for selfish means & saw them as property but that just isn't completely true.

The feminist movement has brainwashed women into thinking the worst of us, amazingly, w/o enough evidence. In the world of Mike Douglas, "The mother of all evil is "speculation". " We are not considered equal to women anymore and because we refuse to accept it, they continue their malicious conquest destroying families in their wake. It's not until after the catacylsm will they look and say, "What have we done?" Women, I love you but I hate you for what you're doing to men, children and to yourselves. You won't listen, I can't "slap" sense into you although I sure feel like it sometimes. However, I will leave you with these words of wisdom. You have built your foundation on sand not solid rock & I promise you, your "house of cards" will come crashing down & when that happens, we'll be here waiting for you to return with open arms. When that day comes with can wipe the slate clean and begin anew. With great power comes great responsibility & that responsibility is what you refuse to accept. It's time to let go of your hatred.

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Nikita said: (Fri, Nov 11, 2011 11:14:08 PM)    
 
I feel that women empowerment has lead to increased divorce rates but women empowerment is not a wrong thing. Now a days women are aware of her rights and so she wants equality in position and importance in her family but due to ego of husband he is not ready to accept her as equivalent to him, its just an ego problem but at the same point its not only his fault as there are some women which misuse the freedom given to them. They take the advantage of the right to equality given to them. But they should understand that its a women only which can make a family a happy family.

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Victor said: (Thu, Oct 13, 2011 01:14:42 PM)    
 
Gentlemen the main cause of divorse in our society is definately not the women empowerment. Yes in some cases we can take because women empowerment brought financial independence for women in our society as well as ego problems to husband and wife both and that ego is leading to divorce. But the main reasons behind the divorce are as under ;

1. women empowerment changed the equations of our society and brought misunderstanding between couples and lack of interaction because of lack of time multiplied it. and finnaly misnderstanding concluding to divorce.

2. nuclear family fashion is also a root cause as earlier if hus and wife were having some problem there were enough oldies to solve that but no one now a days.

3. western life style and lack of moral and values and sense of responsibilities leading towards.

4. passion for glamours and high profile life style.

5. social evils like dowry.

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Punit said: (Mon, Sep 26, 2011 01:44:09 AM)    
 
Empower women but for good faith (because its like giving power in wrong hands) , now a days faith is no more existed, kindly take a visit to any family court, you will find major cases pending only due to money minded people & tries to settle for an amount, and even being know that major 498a cases are done for legal extortions, by legal harrassments, and only few run on ego basis as a showcase, but at the back its all pending due to money issues, and major cases have been tried to be settled by sale of divorce privately, also few of the cases keep on going due to interferences of women parents, so as becomes easy source of income, kindly note it is more due to a mental disease called Bipolar Disorder or affairs with other guy. What would the guy do at that instance, if he is loyal and she is not ?, and what does the court have to say to it and who is to be punished ? its much needed to be punished equally to the one who do it.

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Advocate Hiral Panwala said: (Wed, Aug 24, 2011 03:52:22 PM)    
 
I believe that women empowerment has been tremondously instrumental in bringing awareness of rights and opportunities to women. As the sense of high self-esteem has grown stronger, the today's women are not ready to suffer and compromise with the marriage that is based on male's superior role. Due to the increasing presence of the women on civil, political, professional and social platforms, they can no more stick to their traditional role as a homemaker or give more time to it. The result is dissatisfaction of both the spouses. The husbands emphasize on her duties whereas the wives wants to reach out. The wife who is educationally sound and financially well off, does not see the requirement of clinging on to the troubled marriage. The husband cannot see more beyond his male ego or equally participate in household responsibilities. And so, I guess people turn to divorce as easy option to put an end to their continuous worries.

While the goal of women empowerment aims at equality of status and opportunities to women, the patriachal social set is lagging far behind to understand the objective behind it. Hope to have this gap reduced in near future.

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